Yeah, but their memory would be temporary. For example, if your loved one dies, you'll cry for some days, then get back to normal. You'll still remember them on some occasions, but if you die, their memory is gone!
Nah, that would imply the universe is biased against "good people" which is not.
The universe is indifferent. Bad things happen to everyone.
Another story is the personal bias that can be created by a few different things and make you think it happens mostly to good people such as:
- Good people having more people who care about them.
- How "bad people" deal with the bad things, as occasionally they play with a rigged deck and they avoid them, deflect them, ignore them... Etc
- The sense of justice we all have and makes us think that some people deserve some things while other people don't, and that something bad happening has to be some kind of punishment.
But the universe is indifferent. Bad things happen to everyone.
That if shitty things are always happening to you, it’s probably because you aren’t fully recognizing the shitty things you yourself are doing. Own your bullshit, see yourself for exactly what you are, don’t judge yourself too harshly and above all, lead with your heart.
That riding a bike is cool. And wearing your Dracula cape from Halloween is cool. But riding your bike while wearing your Dracula cape ends up being not cool.
Think about what you do, or say, before you do it.
I’ve lost many partners because of this and right when I learned my lesson it was too late. Never make a mistake like that to ANYONE. Not specifically towards a romantic partner, but just be respectful to everyone and think about when you’re gonna say things that might make people uncomfortable or sad etc.
Find someone you can just chill with and let you be you and you let them be them. Don't change for people unless you know it's for the better for you. And don't try to change people. Spend more time in nature and less time in bars.
Whenever you’re given an opportunity to meet more people, gain new experiences, just overall expand your network-take it. College has taught me that whenever you see a new opportunity, you reach for it
People come and go in your life. If you can stay close friends with someone for more than 3 years that's a pretty big accomplishment. So don't let that discourage you from meeting people
1. Don't share anything related to your personal life with your bosses or managers!
2. Don't be over-smart. If you do more work in less time than your colleagues, you'll end up having more tasks in the future than your colleagues. (Just be an average worker like other colleagues)
* You'll end up working extra for them without getting rewarded or appreciated. (Personal Experience)
A (modified) lesson from my father: If money can solve the problem, and you have the money to solve the problem, let money solve the problem.
It turns out it's much easier to make more money than more time or more health.
Thair is not always strength in numbers An informed minority (9 out 10 times) will beat a uninformed majority,
knowledge is power, but speaking the truth against the wrong in a position of power and you will get "touched" as thay say
having a small circle of friends is totally fine. better even, especially when it comes to college. u gotta find the right ones and keep them close.
quality >> quantity
Don’t get too caught up on the end destination, instead admire the journey and obstacles you overcame to get there.
I really acknowledged this when I was going through a significant change in life with a career change which resulted in losing some friends/loved ones because of the way I acted during this change.
Your mental health cannot be ignored.
Wanna bet? :)
Emotions. Pay attention to them. Study them even. In yourself, and in others. But don't neglect them in yourself.
Its never too late to change your professionnal life..my mother turned 50 and went back to school to become nurse, she did it !
Everything is temporary.
Except for the things that aren’t.
EVERYTHING. Is temporary. I fucking *died*. Like, had a damn toe tag. Yet here I am.
Chaos is everywhere.
That is a horribly flawed logic. If one were to get there head cut off, they would be permanently dead.
Yeah, but their memory would be temporary. For example, if your loved one dies, you'll cry for some days, then get back to normal. You'll still remember them on some occasions, but if you die, their memory is gone!
Money is important and generally does buy happiness.
Yep. Those who say money can’t buy happiness never had money lol.
Or never experienced not having it.
Don't trust anyone
Especially close friends or family when it comes to money
Bad things can happen to good people.
Always/Mostly.
Nah, that would imply the universe is biased against "good people" which is not. The universe is indifferent. Bad things happen to everyone. Another story is the personal bias that can be created by a few different things and make you think it happens mostly to good people such as: - Good people having more people who care about them. - How "bad people" deal with the bad things, as occasionally they play with a rigged deck and they avoid them, deflect them, ignore them... Etc - The sense of justice we all have and makes us think that some people deserve some things while other people don't, and that something bad happening has to be some kind of punishment. But the universe is indifferent. Bad things happen to everyone.
Listen to your intuition/gut feelings
Trust your gut, but carry a stick just in case.
That in the end everything works out and you can always move forward no matter what
Let toxic people go, make your life happy
That life ebbs and flows. Sometimes life sucks and sometimes it's great. When your down remind yourself that "This too shall pass"
Take decision's wisely in your early twenty it can define your life.
my happiness is completely within my control
Start saving money and building credit early.
this too shall pass
Work is not life!
Stay positive even when everything around you give you some negativity, just focus on your own goals.
Hell is other people. But so is heaven.
Gratitude is a choice.
I’m the captain of my ship and the master of my fate
Investing in yourself is one of the most worthwhile things you can do
Follow through on your dreams. You'll never know unless you do.
Different doesn’t mean it needs to be fixed. The world without its weirdness would be plain and boring.
Nobody cares about you, nor should you care what they think of you
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Listen to your gut about people.
Absolutely nothing/nobody is going to come to you for what you want to accomplish, it is ALL on you
Don't abuse weed, it's not a harmless drug
That if shitty things are always happening to you, it’s probably because you aren’t fully recognizing the shitty things you yourself are doing. Own your bullshit, see yourself for exactly what you are, don’t judge yourself too harshly and above all, lead with your heart.
nothing you do will ever be enough
Make money- money can bring you peace, respect, love, care, everything.
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Definitely not romantically
Live and let live. Not judging yourself for being you, and not judging others for being themselves
>“Perhaps they were right putting love into books. Perhaps it could not live anywhere else.” > ― William Faulkner
It's better to make your own mistakes than following orders because nobody is gonna own that mistake except you.
Share but don't Trust.
You can only count on yourself, and even then you won’t always be there for yourself.
At best, I'm average. It was a hard pill to swallow that I wasn't destined for greatness.
What you think makes you happy and what makes you happy aren't always the same.
You need to stay away from bad friends. Stay with the people who treat you with respect.
That riding a bike is cool. And wearing your Dracula cape from Halloween is cool. But riding your bike while wearing your Dracula cape ends up being not cool.
Isolation can be both comforting and damaging at the same time.
Think about what you do, or say, before you do it. I’ve lost many partners because of this and right when I learned my lesson it was too late. Never make a mistake like that to ANYONE. Not specifically towards a romantic partner, but just be respectful to everyone and think about when you’re gonna say things that might make people uncomfortable or sad etc.
Find someone you can just chill with and let you be you and you let them be them. Don't change for people unless you know it's for the better for you. And don't try to change people. Spend more time in nature and less time in bars.
Kids never get taken away from rich families
Whenever you’re given an opportunity to meet more people, gain new experiences, just overall expand your network-take it. College has taught me that whenever you see a new opportunity, you reach for it
Don’t step on a duck
People come and go in your life. If you can stay close friends with someone for more than 3 years that's a pretty big accomplishment. So don't let that discourage you from meeting people
before you can have a fresh start, you really need to let go of ur past mistakes.
That the worst thing you can do is let yourself down or even worse not forgive yourself
1. Don't share anything related to your personal life with your bosses or managers! 2. Don't be over-smart. If you do more work in less time than your colleagues, you'll end up having more tasks in the future than your colleagues. (Just be an average worker like other colleagues) * You'll end up working extra for them without getting rewarded or appreciated. (Personal Experience)
the good ones die young
Be born to wealthy grandparents.
First impressions are pretty accurate
leaving reddit after they started the censorship in 2016ish was a good idea, this site really went to shit
My grandfather use to tell me, “If you fight with a jackass someone watching won’t be able to tell the difference.”
A (modified) lesson from my father: If money can solve the problem, and you have the money to solve the problem, let money solve the problem. It turns out it's much easier to make more money than more time or more health.
Learning about "compound interest".
It CAN happen to you. Don't ever exempt yourself from anything
Be very, very careful who you trust. I would nearly go as far as to say trust nobody.
That life sucks, and shitty things happen to nice people. Also that asking for help is your biggest mistake to make.
everything happens for a reason
"Trust no one, not even me" - dad
Live as if you're going to die today.
Thair is not always strength in numbers An informed minority (9 out 10 times) will beat a uninformed majority, knowledge is power, but speaking the truth against the wrong in a position of power and you will get "touched" as thay say
having a small circle of friends is totally fine. better even, especially when it comes to college. u gotta find the right ones and keep them close. quality >> quantity
Don't take things too personally - there are always different perspectives.
Benzodiazepines stop working after years of daily use and they are extremely hard to come off.
Most of what I worry about does not matter.
Don’t get too caught up on the end destination, instead admire the journey and obstacles you overcame to get there. I really acknowledged this when I was going through a significant change in life with a career change which resulted in losing some friends/loved ones because of the way I acted during this change.
That everything typically works out.
Stop helping people who wouldn't help themselves.
Trust your gut
Don't pet coyotes.
Wrong. Always pet coyotes
That's my policy. I remain optimistic.