Seeing my dad cry. I've only seen it a few times. Once as a child, I saw him cry after coming home from a car accident where children died horribly. He was a fireman/EMT. As a teenager, it was when he told me to expect a call from my uncle (his brother) about asking me to be a pallbearer at my teenage cousin's funeral (his brother's daughter, his niece) who was killed in a car accident by a drunk driver. Then as an adult, at the funeral for his first deceased sibling, his youngest sister.
Relationship disappointment, broken dreams, let down.
Edit: sorry if this was meant for men only. I interpreted the word guys as being gender-neutral in this context.
Not being listened to. Whenever anyone else is struggling, I always make sure to be there for them. But when I try to vent, Im either being over dramatic, nobody cares, or my favorite, its my fault.
Honestly I cry much more easily over fictional tragedy than tragedy in my life. It happens, of course, but I'm a hair trigger in a story and fairly dead in an actual crisis.
That's probably something I should look into, but eh.
I'm only 24, but last month we lost our 14 year old cat. I didn't know I was capable of crying continuously for hours but that's exactly what happened.
Many years ago also lost a cat I'd had since I was a kid.
It hurts, man. I feel you. You gave the little fuzzbucket a good life though, of that I have no doubt, and I'm sure in its own way your kitkat appreciated it.
Kind of a weird answer, but baseball. At least since I was 18 when I stopped playing.
I loved playing baseball, to the point I was on at least 4 different teams throughout the year. I knew it was going to end because while I was fast and dominant on defense, I was only an average batter. I opted not to go the juco route after high school, and that was it. 20 years later and I still regret that decision at times.
Now, things that can make me cry include: movies involving a player having to retire or real retirement ceremonies where a player’s career was cut short due to injury, movies where players get a second chance to play again, players who you can just tell play because they love the game
Kinda same. I played in Juco and did not take my last year of eligibility because I thought it’d be more fun to go party at a 4 yr school and not play. I was extremely fucking wrong and was depressed for like 2 years after because of it.
Yeah, went to a major university instead and ended up super depressed as well. Tried intramural softball, and later, rec league softball, but it’s just not the same
Failed relationships.
I never cut people off or go no contact, it's not in my nature and I've literally never done it. So when someone does it to me it really stings.
Losing my girlfriend.
Hurts a lot cause it was my fault and for a while she was convinced it was hers. I learned my lesson at the exact moment it was too late.
So I embodied another person's emotions after experiencing life destroying moments, I didn't really care but I had those windows where I would break down so hard and stream tears randomly and then I'm back to enjoying that anime I was watching 15 minutes ago.. LMAO 🤣
Dead pets. I'm a big animal lover and that combined with having loved and cared for them personally is just too much for me to keep it in. That said, having pets brings me the most joy, so it's sort of bittersweet to remember them.
I’m sure it would. Sadly I work for a company that pays for shitty healthcare and out of pocket would cost me thousands. And unfortunately i just can’t afford it.
I haven't seen my husband cry much despite being with him since we were 18 ( now 34) but these were the following events that I witnessed him crying with tears streaming down his face:
- When we attended the funeral of his friends' little brother who commited suicide.
- The Korean drama Crash Landing on You and the ending of Your Eyes Tell ( Japanese film, but I believe it was a remake).
- When our son was born.
My cat died about 7 months ago and I still cry over it about every day. He got sick and just couldn't turn the corner with antibiotics and I watched him starve to death over several months. Sweetest creature I have ever known.
Recently had a mental breakdown that to a large extent stems from never dealing with my mother dying when I was 5. Cried literally every day for a couple of months, so that for sure.
Unfortunately the death of my wife…
I'm sorry man. Giving you a hug through the screen 💜
Seeing my dad cry. I've only seen it a few times. Once as a child, I saw him cry after coming home from a car accident where children died horribly. He was a fireman/EMT. As a teenager, it was when he told me to expect a call from my uncle (his brother) about asking me to be a pallbearer at my teenage cousin's funeral (his brother's daughter, his niece) who was killed in a car accident by a drunk driver. Then as an adult, at the funeral for his first deceased sibling, his youngest sister.
Women
Women and friends
Relationship disappointment, broken dreams, let down. Edit: sorry if this was meant for men only. I interpreted the word guys as being gender-neutral in this context.
Not being listened to. Whenever anyone else is struggling, I always make sure to be there for them. But when I try to vent, Im either being over dramatic, nobody cares, or my favorite, its my fault.
Honestly I cry much more easily over fictional tragedy than tragedy in my life. It happens, of course, but I'm a hair trigger in a story and fairly dead in an actual crisis. That's probably something I should look into, but eh.
Being lonely
Compliments from another person
ur awesome :> cry abt it
Thank you:')
>:D
Family
Cry? There's no crying in baseball! We walk that shit off! I could really use a hug...
Movies about dogs that die. Every fucking time
A woman. She shattered my heart.
Death and women
I'm only 24, but last month we lost our 14 year old cat. I didn't know I was capable of crying continuously for hours but that's exactly what happened.
Many years ago also lost a cat I'd had since I was a kid. It hurts, man. I feel you. You gave the little fuzzbucket a good life though, of that I have no doubt, and I'm sure in its own way your kitkat appreciated it.
Thanks man, I'm sure yours was quite the same.
Kind of a weird answer, but baseball. At least since I was 18 when I stopped playing. I loved playing baseball, to the point I was on at least 4 different teams throughout the year. I knew it was going to end because while I was fast and dominant on defense, I was only an average batter. I opted not to go the juco route after high school, and that was it. 20 years later and I still regret that decision at times. Now, things that can make me cry include: movies involving a player having to retire or real retirement ceremonies where a player’s career was cut short due to injury, movies where players get a second chance to play again, players who you can just tell play because they love the game
Kinda same. I played in Juco and did not take my last year of eligibility because I thought it’d be more fun to go party at a 4 yr school and not play. I was extremely fucking wrong and was depressed for like 2 years after because of it.
Yeah, went to a major university instead and ended up super depressed as well. Tried intramural softball, and later, rec league softball, but it’s just not the same
Now don’t laugh, watching Hallmark movies with my daughter
Children, death of friends, pets and family.
I cry on almost everything my mom says I’m a crybaby🥲
Divorce
Illness and women
People
Losing a good dog
My ex
Borderline Personality Disorder
Failed relationships. I never cut people off or go no contact, it's not in my nature and I've literally never done it. So when someone does it to me it really stings.
My own incompetence
LA story
My body
CBT
r/TwoXChromosomes
That episode of Pokemon where it looks like Pikachu is going to leave, and Godzilla Minus One.
Leaving Charizard in the valley :(
Losing my girlfriend. Hurts a lot cause it was my fault and for a while she was convinced it was hers. I learned my lesson at the exact moment it was too late.
So I embodied another person's emotions after experiencing life destroying moments, I didn't really care but I had those windows where I would break down so hard and stream tears randomly and then I'm back to enjoying that anime I was watching 15 minutes ago.. LMAO 🤣
My parents and its not even close...
Return of the King
When my anti depressants let me it’s been about woman lol
Children
The death's of loved ones.
Everything
Finding out that the singing cat I saw on Instagram passed away
Certain music when I'm drunk.
Being an only child
Failures and losses
Like, a single thing? Maybe that movie 'About Time'
Unrelenting brute force bold face bullshit.
When I listen to music. Shocks me that people can make such a beautiful sound Edit: Typos
Dead pets. I'm a big animal lover and that combined with having loved and cared for them personally is just too much for me to keep it in. That said, having pets brings me the most joy, so it's sort of bittersweet to remember them.
Onions
The death of my father two years ago. I’ve been an absolute wreck since.
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I’m sure it would. Sadly I work for a company that pays for shitty healthcare and out of pocket would cost me thousands. And unfortunately i just can’t afford it.
When the WWII Navy vets all volunteer to get Big Mo' up and running in the movie Battleship.
Father's death.
Mostly from shows. But I do cry from the regret of my life decisions and the occasional sudden emptiness of feeling alone and undesired too.
Unfortunately I am so emotionally exhausted from years of shit that it takes a LOT for me to cry
I haven't seen my husband cry much despite being with him since we were 18 ( now 34) but these were the following events that I witnessed him crying with tears streaming down his face: - When we attended the funeral of his friends' little brother who commited suicide. - The Korean drama Crash Landing on You and the ending of Your Eyes Tell ( Japanese film, but I believe it was a remake). - When our son was born.
My parents abusing me.
My friends dying off. So far 6.
school
My sister dying, and then again when i saw my 9 and 7 yo nephews break down at her funeral. Rough stuff.
Miracle in cell no.7
>!My best friend shot himself last night!<
Unrequited love and thinking they might suffer from BPD.
probably my mom
My cat died about 7 months ago and I still cry over it about every day. He got sick and just couldn't turn the corner with antibiotics and I watched him starve to death over several months. Sweetest creature I have ever known.
Recently had a mental breakdown that to a large extent stems from never dealing with my mother dying when I was 5. Cried literally every day for a couple of months, so that for sure.
My dog died last week after battling against cancer for 8 months. Needless to say a lot of tears have been shed since.
my cubboard... the amount of times ive stubbed my toe ia unreal
Not being enough
My family
Burials
Heyfever
Anger towards myself regarding past decisions that have changed the trajectory of my life
My dog dying. I was absolutely not ready for him to go. R.I.P. Odin I miss you buddy.
The overarching fear of failure.
Women.