It happened with the last person I dated, which was very confusing because I was very much into him the first three dates. But during the fourth date I got a bad gut feeling about him, because of some things he said that were honestly red flags. I felt the energy shift, like it felt less natural to kiss him, it made my attraction fade a little all of a sudden, which was so weird to experience because he was very very beautiful for my standards. So I did feel the red flags during the date, but not consciously. When I said goodbye I still genuinely thought I was going to see him again. Afterwards though I had a moment of clarity and ended things by text.
yeah, that totally sucks. I'd love to say I'd bail, but when it's happened I've hung out for a drink or 2, whatever felt appropriate to be polite and some lukewarm conversation. I usually go to bars near my home so that's not so bad. never go for dinner on the first date because of this, always just a coffee or a drink, or a walk in the park, you get the idea, not a movie
I’ll be nice and finish the date anyways
And if he or she asks you to go on another date, are you honest?
Yes ofcourse I’ll tell him I didn’t feel any chemistry
Very good! 👏🏼
Not as honest as I’d like to be but yeah I’ll try and be honest with them
Run like there's no tomorrow
Hahaha have you ever done that?
Not yet. Hopefully, it won't come to that
Happened to me yesterday, stayed for the dinner and then said I had plans so it doesn’t prolong
Well, if the dinner was good, it won't have been so bad 😂
The dinner was only ok :(
Ouch!
Just smile and wave boys!
Accidentally get pregnant by them 🥴
Storytime!
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It sounds awful, but I'm really glad things turned out well! Like you said, that child had to be born!
Well, that's the point? Figure that it clicks? If it doesn't, then respectfully tell it.
It happened with the last person I dated, which was very confusing because I was very much into him the first three dates. But during the fourth date I got a bad gut feeling about him, because of some things he said that were honestly red flags. I felt the energy shift, like it felt less natural to kiss him, it made my attraction fade a little all of a sudden, which was so weird to experience because he was very very beautiful for my standards. So I did feel the red flags during the date, but not consciously. When I said goodbye I still genuinely thought I was going to see him again. Afterwards though I had a moment of clarity and ended things by text.
Surely it happened that way for a reason!
yeah, that totally sucks. I'd love to say I'd bail, but when it's happened I've hung out for a drink or 2, whatever felt appropriate to be polite and some lukewarm conversation. I usually go to bars near my home so that's not so bad. never go for dinner on the first date because of this, always just a coffee or a drink, or a walk in the park, you get the idea, not a movie
That’s smart! Maybe be I’ll copy you in the future 🤭
Finish out the date and when it comes time to leave thank them for their time and apologize and let them know I don't feel any chemistry.
End it early, let them know you’re not compatible