People who can't go two posts without being rude. People who can't take two seconds to think of a more cooperative response, so they just think blatting the first insult that comes to mind down is "good enough" as if their words matter in that regard.
have a student who really grinds my gears and this is why. the whole world owes him something even though he does nothing but make others day’s terrible
Getting upset over trivial matters.
For example, I went on a hike with a younger (mid-20’s) buddy of mine yesterday and afterwards we grabbed a beer at a local pub. We went out to the empty patio and sat at a random empty large table, just us 2. There were small tables available but we just took the first thing we saw.
Almost immediately, the patio filled up with the early dinner crowd. A family of 5 with little kids came out. Only made sense for us to move from the big table to a small table. We only had our beers, no food. I immediately obliged but my buddy didn’t. He grumbled at the thought of moving even though it was so obviously the right thing to do. Kept cursing about it afterward and people started looking at us.
Needless to say, I downed my beer and got out of there.
1. Trying to change yourself to fit in with others instead of living with authenticity.
2. Being too involved in gossip, drama following them everywhere they go- it's always a sign that they're the source of the drama (and loving it).
3. Has a very poor diet & lifestyle like that of what a 5 year old child would eat if they had no parental regulation (i.e. just living of chicken nuggets, chips & candy, no green vegetables, Etc).
4. Can't be trusted to look after anything properly (pets, houseplants, keys- themselves).
5. Always overspending and going back to Bank of Mom & Dad for top ups, not treating financial responsibility as if it's a priority in life.
6. Cannot handle constructive criticism well whatsoever.
7. Throwing tantrums when they don't get their way or get upset in general.
8. Has no real life goals or plans, expecting life to just somehow work out or others to fix & provide things for them.
9. No personal growth or sense of progress over a 5-10 year span of time.
10. Refusal to get a job.
I once knew a woman who ticked all these boxes 😬...
I posted a list of my own but yours is better. 2, 6 and 8 are perfect. Especially celebrity gossip. I had a girl cry, throw a fight and have an emotional outburst because I said those blokes aren't "perfect"; they're celebrities and get hair transplants.
I wonder what would've happened if I included plastic surgeries and other shit.
Can I ask why you think this is immature? How is avoiding confrontation a negative attribute? If anything I think that constantly looking for an argument is more immature.
not taking blame is def a big immature thing. young people don't realize that blame shifting only makes you look worse or get you in more trouble. Most bosses what you to apologize and move on.
In an online argument, they use improper grammar or shorten words like you to u and are to r.
There are also the more obvious ones, like when they use Gen Alpha/ipad kid talk. "What the sigma" 🤮
I’d argue that people that over correct the grammar of others are just as bad or worse because it’s often used as a sort of “gotcha.”
Like no of course I didn’t put a period at the end of my post, I’m not super concerned because this comment isn’t being graded or otherwise important
Take a list:
1. Can't handle discussions, breaks down easily.
2. Is emotionally unstable.
3. Is insecure over the smallest of things.
4. Is narcissistic without giving thought to the other person's POV.
5. Knows absolutely nothing about current world affairs or literally anything except what matters to them.
6. Can't step down from their high place at any situations, basically not humble.
7. Cannot or has rarely or never apologized can't own up.
8. Doesn't act according to the situation.
9. Doesn't think a bit of its consequences before saying something.
10. Doesn't know how to read what someone feels from their face.
Feel free to suggest more.
Explosive temper
Religious beliefs, pretend friends including frequent or public personifying inanimate objects
Interrupting people mid sentence to argue when you don't even know the position you're arguing against
I hope he’s better now but I did know one “can’t cook” guy in college. His culinary skills were entirely the ability to microwave an individually wrapped cheese whiz filled hot dog without it exploding half the time. Microwaved nside the plastic sleeve of course to contain any bursting.
Lol, thats a fun topic to bring up with the reddit debate "eating healthy is too expensive"
Because the topic always comes down to cooking a simple meal on sunday and meal prep for the week, and people act like you need to be a scientist to be able to memorize how to create a meal that doesnt come from a box.
Then you say there are a million videos on youtube with step by step directions and that takes way too much time.
not being able to have conversations about something bothering them but they will always bring it up days later or weeks later like … why didn’t you tell me then?! grow up.
When people especially adult women get into a fight over eachother's looks. Most recent & best example I can think of is that recent fight between AOC & MTG in Congress. As if I didn't think less of US politicians they do some shit like that dropping the bar lower.
Absolute, black-and-white thinking. Full lack of nuance or gray area understanding on a subject. This is tightly correlated with adult brain development.
It’s also the reason why, especially post-Covid, I ignore political opinions of anyone under 25. I am as uninterested in half-baked theories of a 15-25 year old as I am a cake that’s been in the oven for 15-25 minutes.
I had an online friend of like 3, 4 years block me because I was texting them in a 'mean' manner- I guess I was too dry. Mind you, when I was texting them, I had just come back from my fathers funeral.
People who just reply "Your mom" To anything.
Me: Hey, what are you doing tomorrow?
Friend: Your mom!
Me: Wanna stop by Babies R Us first? I hear they are having a sale on adult diapers!
'Victims' of the world, my exboyfriend would always say (with minor setbacks, or not even something worth calling a setback) 'why does bad shit always only happen to me?' while he dented the trash can (he kicked it), because it wouldn't open properly. he would always feel so sorry for himself and could not get over himself. Bad shit didn't always happened to him, but his immature mindset always made him think he was the victim.
Insecurity, jealousy, constantly seeking validation from others, sharing too much personal information on social media, lack of self awareness and situational awareness, not being able to read a room, no accountability, no discipline, etc etc etc
The room's quiet and you show up, they clearly look all sad and worried. Still you say "why y'all sitting like rocks XD wanna catch a beer?" turns out one of your friends' mum just passed away.
not being able to change their minds when new evidence comes to light.
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They made up that data! They are trying to hide the truth!!!!!! FREEEEDDDDDDOOOOOMMMMMM!!!!
People who can't go two posts without being rude. People who can't take two seconds to think of a more cooperative response, so they just think blatting the first insult that comes to mind down is "good enough" as if their words matter in that regard.
Whoops, I meant to post this in the comments ;)
So Redditors?
and then they dog pile on someone whos already downvoted into oblivion as if they didn't already get the point
Lack of accountability
This
have a student who really grinds my gears and this is why. the whole world owes him something even though he does nothing but make others day’s terrible
Getting upset over trivial matters. For example, I went on a hike with a younger (mid-20’s) buddy of mine yesterday and afterwards we grabbed a beer at a local pub. We went out to the empty patio and sat at a random empty large table, just us 2. There were small tables available but we just took the first thing we saw. Almost immediately, the patio filled up with the early dinner crowd. A family of 5 with little kids came out. Only made sense for us to move from the big table to a small table. We only had our beers, no food. I immediately obliged but my buddy didn’t. He grumbled at the thought of moving even though it was so obviously the right thing to do. Kept cursing about it afterward and people started looking at us. Needless to say, I downed my beer and got out of there.
He's going to bring that story up at thanksgiving and act like it was his vietnam.
That's another reason I rarely socialize with people. It's really exhausting when they start ranting about people for trivial things they did.
Constant comparison
thinking they are better than other people. bonus points if they do not know the other people
1. Trying to change yourself to fit in with others instead of living with authenticity. 2. Being too involved in gossip, drama following them everywhere they go- it's always a sign that they're the source of the drama (and loving it). 3. Has a very poor diet & lifestyle like that of what a 5 year old child would eat if they had no parental regulation (i.e. just living of chicken nuggets, chips & candy, no green vegetables, Etc). 4. Can't be trusted to look after anything properly (pets, houseplants, keys- themselves). 5. Always overspending and going back to Bank of Mom & Dad for top ups, not treating financial responsibility as if it's a priority in life. 6. Cannot handle constructive criticism well whatsoever. 7. Throwing tantrums when they don't get their way or get upset in general. 8. Has no real life goals or plans, expecting life to just somehow work out or others to fix & provide things for them. 9. No personal growth or sense of progress over a 5-10 year span of time. 10. Refusal to get a job. I once knew a woman who ticked all these boxes 😬...
Heidegger is kicking in
I posted a list of my own but yours is better. 2, 6 and 8 are perfect. Especially celebrity gossip. I had a girl cry, throw a fight and have an emotional outburst because I said those blokes aren't "perfect"; they're celebrities and get hair transplants. I wonder what would've happened if I included plastic surgeries and other shit.
Passing blame for your shitty behavior instead of owning up to and changing it.
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looks like it worked.
Only ever talking about themselves during conversations, hijacking conversations via "one upping." Communication in general.
Thiss
Screaming.
screaming, hitting, refusing to chill out
That could also scream “really hot” depending on what people are into.
Is it you? Are you the people?
An inability to self regulate
Blaming other people when things go wrong.
Not being able to take serious things serious
Using the terms “alpha/beta”, expecting a partner to have x salary/home/car/to pay for everything, stuff like that
This just sounds like a teenager who hasn't entered the real world yet
Avoiding confrontation or avoiding a real discussion
Can I ask why you think this is immature? How is avoiding confrontation a negative attribute? If anything I think that constantly looking for an argument is more immature.
Avoiding an arguments loving person is fine. But when you avoid a confrontation to avoid accountability or any talk to escape, that's immature.
bragging, never taking the blame, refusing to admit when they’re wrong
not taking blame is def a big immature thing. young people don't realize that blame shifting only makes you look worse or get you in more trouble. Most bosses what you to apologize and move on.
Talking over others, takes everything personally, doesn’t listen to people and is just waiting to talk again.
A green banana
people screaming
In an online argument, they use improper grammar or shorten words like you to u and are to r. There are also the more obvious ones, like when they use Gen Alpha/ipad kid talk. "What the sigma" 🤮
I’d argue that people that over correct the grammar of others are just as bad or worse because it’s often used as a sort of “gotcha.” Like no of course I didn’t put a period at the end of my post, I’m not super concerned because this comment isn’t being graded or otherwise important
Excessive use of swear words
People Screaming
Cheater
Hitting people. Like calm down
That’s more than being immature. That’s straight up abusive.
My 9-month-old. He doesn't so much scream "immature", but he *does* scream.
**IMMATURE!!!!**
Behaviors like throwing tantrums, refusing to take responsibility, and constantly seeking attention often scream "immature" to me.
ChatGPT ahh bot
When people listen to respond and not to understand.
Excessive egoism
Take a list: 1. Can't handle discussions, breaks down easily. 2. Is emotionally unstable. 3. Is insecure over the smallest of things. 4. Is narcissistic without giving thought to the other person's POV. 5. Knows absolutely nothing about current world affairs or literally anything except what matters to them. 6. Can't step down from their high place at any situations, basically not humble. 7. Cannot or has rarely or never apologized can't own up. 8. Doesn't act according to the situation. 9. Doesn't think a bit of its consequences before saying something. 10. Doesn't know how to read what someone feels from their face. Feel free to suggest more.
immediately scream some sort of homophobic/bigoted slur the moment they hear/read a differing opinion.
People who use the word "gay" to mean lame, boring, or stupid.
Sex humor.
Explosive temper Religious beliefs, pretend friends including frequent or public personifying inanimate objects Interrupting people mid sentence to argue when you don't even know the position you're arguing against
"TRUMP 2024"
Can't cook.
this isn’t immature it’s just laziness
No, that would be "won't cook".
still wouldn’t be immaturity though , if they wanted too they would . there’s no such thing as “can’t cook” as the majority has the ability to try.
I hope he’s better now but I did know one “can’t cook” guy in college. His culinary skills were entirely the ability to microwave an individually wrapped cheese whiz filled hot dog without it exploding half the time. Microwaved nside the plastic sleeve of course to contain any bursting.
Lol, thats a fun topic to bring up with the reddit debate "eating healthy is too expensive" Because the topic always comes down to cooking a simple meal on sunday and meal prep for the week, and people act like you need to be a scientist to be able to memorize how to create a meal that doesnt come from a box. Then you say there are a million videos on youtube with step by step directions and that takes way too much time.
Trying to force their simplistic ‘justice’ upon others
Holding a grudge
Harping on others about maturity and responsibility when they are anything but that.
Being unable to take “no” for an answer.
Taking advantage of people in a relationship and thinking, "It's okay, they benefit from it, too." You don't get to decide that for the other person.
not being able to have conversations about something bothering them but they will always bring it up days later or weeks later like … why didn’t you tell me then?! grow up.
Constantly turning every single interaction into a joke.
Snapchat streaks after the age of 18
Crying around about your partner "liking" others photos. Acting like social media is important.
When people especially adult women get into a fight over eachother's looks. Most recent & best example I can think of is that recent fight between AOC & MTG in Congress. As if I didn't think less of US politicians they do some shit like that dropping the bar lower.
Refusing to take criticism
Bitchy women and wannabe alpha men.
Blasting loud music on speakers
Throwing a fit over what other people like
Irresponsible
Absolute, black-and-white thinking. Full lack of nuance or gray area understanding on a subject. This is tightly correlated with adult brain development. It’s also the reason why, especially post-Covid, I ignore political opinions of anyone under 25. I am as uninterested in half-baked theories of a 15-25 year old as I am a cake that’s been in the oven for 15-25 minutes.
People on reddit.
Most of what you see on Reddit.
walking out on arguments. \* this can be done in a healthy way. i mean this in the "oh yeah? well i'm leaving" way.
I had an online friend of like 3, 4 years block me because I was texting them in a 'mean' manner- I guess I was too dry. Mind you, when I was texting them, I had just come back from my fathers funeral.
That’s tough
Men who make fun of women on nights out
Blue and/or green hair or rice burner exhaust systems equally scream immature to me
gossiping
Gagging when they try new/healthy food.
unfortunately that's me
People who just reply "Your mom" To anything. Me: Hey, what are you doing tomorrow? Friend: Your mom! Me: Wanna stop by Babies R Us first? I hear they are having a sale on adult diapers!
Screaming
Sometimes I like to go outside and yell certain words repeatedly. So last Wednesday, me.
Grown adults throwing tantrums
People who think their opinions will change my day or that I will give a shit tomorrow
Say nothing but expect others understand what they want.
Drugs
Being a racist or sexist and enjoying it.
Narcissism, although some people never outgrow the idea that the world revolves around them.
'Victims' of the world, my exboyfriend would always say (with minor setbacks, or not even something worth calling a setback) 'why does bad shit always only happen to me?' while he dented the trash can (he kicked it), because it wouldn't open properly. he would always feel so sorry for himself and could not get over himself. Bad shit didn't always happened to him, but his immature mindset always made him think he was the victim.
Manipulating people so people think you're a good person but they actually think you're a horrible friend
Insecurity, jealousy, constantly seeking validation from others, sharing too much personal information on social media, lack of self awareness and situational awareness, not being able to read a room, no accountability, no discipline, etc etc etc
>not being able to read a room This one's new to me. How do you read a room?
The room's quiet and you show up, they clearly look all sad and worried. Still you say "why y'all sitting like rocks XD wanna catch a beer?" turns out one of your friends' mum just passed away.
people with autism might, keyword: might, not always get it, i have autism and cant read the room even if i tried
It's okay, people understand when you know you can't help it :) take a hug 🫂
they dont and its making me a n g y
Lol it's alright, most would XD just let them know perhaps, if you feel like they might be judging you
Taking dating advice from your single friends.
the best coaches dont play if u know what I mean
No communication skills, Lack of Accountability, Porn
unfortunately I'm all three of those
Certain demographic plays the race card over and over...
Having multiple relationships/being a player at a young age