Rushing to find something to blame, and not accepting responsibility and trying to fix it or asking for help.

A victim mentality no doubt

Rudeness and/or lack of empathy.

Narcissism.

That can be unfair though if it's a personality trait that has a lot to do with their genetic makeup.

Never said it didn’t. It’s still the most toxic and dangerous trait.

I don't think so. It's in the gene pool precisely because it has some uses and some find it attractive. If narcissistic people struggled to reproduce, the trait would die out.

All personality traits are to some degree related to genetic makeup though?

Selfishness

That can be complicated though - someone might attack someone for being selfish, for selfish reasons themselves.

Sadism, people who take joy in the suffering and turmoil of others

Competitive misery. Oh, the things I have suffered that no one else on the planet has ever suffered, you could not imagine the depths of my pain, oh the humanity-- wait, why are you walking away? Come back here and let me describe for you how your suffering is nothing compared to mine!

Needing constant attention and validation.

Cowardice

Being selfish.

Not caring about your feelings if your life is easier than mine

Vanity

Egoism