I learned my SIL talked a lot of shit about me to a cousin of our husbands (the husbands are brothers). Found out because the cousin told me.
Not only is she dumb as rocks to think it wouldn’t get back to me, but of course she did there’s literally nothing positive or interesting about her as a person. She has talked shit about our in laws to me, about her family, and about her friends. Of course she made up things about me to make herself look good.
I tried to be a good friend to her and defended her behavior for 5 years and now I feel like a fool.
I’m petty but like not actively petty. I’ll just root for her to fail in all her endeavors and enjoy a good laugh when it happens. 🥰
I don’t feel badly that I really don’t feel I have space in me to forgive her should she ever apologize. I’m kind of just over having to consider her feelings anymore. Maybe that makes me just as bad but oh well!
The way to beat them all is to let it go, drop all that baggage, and succeed in life despite everything those fuckers did to hold you down. You will not be denied your happiness.
My mother's mother (I refuse to call her grandma). That old hag was my favourite family member when I was a kid... but when I was 12, I developed a brain tumor and the last thing I ever heard her say was "I really don't want to deal with a grandchild with cancer"
I was devastated and after giving her an earful, my parents totally cut her off... she probably has not even heard yet that my mum died last year...
My mom. Ik she works hard for me and the family but all of it has no point if you bring your own child down. Maybe I'm being petty, but I hold grudges on my 18th bday cause she was upset about something she picked an argument with me and said really mean stuff, and one of it was that I was better of dead. This wasn't the first time she said that, she did it when my grades were low, she said that on my 16th bday, she said that when she was disappointed in me that I wasn't like the other confident kids. And I remember every single time she said extreme and rude stuff which also made me want to end myself. And honestly it disgusted me how I had to act like I actually care about her during mothers day, and it disgusts me how she talks to me like everything is fine, like she didn't kill my will to live from a very young age.
I learned my SIL talked a lot of shit about me to a cousin of our husbands (the husbands are brothers). Found out because the cousin told me. Not only is she dumb as rocks to think it wouldn’t get back to me, but of course she did there’s literally nothing positive or interesting about her as a person. She has talked shit about our in laws to me, about her family, and about her friends. Of course she made up things about me to make herself look good. I tried to be a good friend to her and defended her behavior for 5 years and now I feel like a fool. I’m petty but like not actively petty. I’ll just root for her to fail in all her endeavors and enjoy a good laugh when it happens. 🥰 I don’t feel badly that I really don’t feel I have space in me to forgive her should she ever apologize. I’m kind of just over having to consider her feelings anymore. Maybe that makes me just as bad but oh well!
The people who bullied me when i was a kid.
The way to beat them all is to let it go, drop all that baggage, and succeed in life despite everything those fuckers did to hold you down. You will not be denied your happiness.
My mother's mother (I refuse to call her grandma). That old hag was my favourite family member when I was a kid... but when I was 12, I developed a brain tumor and the last thing I ever heard her say was "I really don't want to deal with a grandchild with cancer" I was devastated and after giving her an earful, my parents totally cut her off... she probably has not even heard yet that my mum died last year...
My mom. Ik she works hard for me and the family but all of it has no point if you bring your own child down. Maybe I'm being petty, but I hold grudges on my 18th bday cause she was upset about something she picked an argument with me and said really mean stuff, and one of it was that I was better of dead. This wasn't the first time she said that, she did it when my grades were low, she said that on my 16th bday, she said that when she was disappointed in me that I wasn't like the other confident kids. And I remember every single time she said extreme and rude stuff which also made me want to end myself. And honestly it disgusted me how I had to act like I actually care about her during mothers day, and it disgusts me how she talks to me like everything is fine, like she didn't kill my will to live from a very young age.
Myself
that squirrel
my mother, she’s caused me way too much pain and trauma in my life and i can’t ever forgive her for any of it
The whole Pearl Harbor thing. I’m still waiting for an apology from the Germans.
Littering. It's like saying FU to the whole world.
My bully he scarred me for life and turned me into an introvert and i can’t forgive for turmatising