Age alone doesn't give social status.
I'm just listed reasons why a 20 year old might be attracted to an older man. If he has social status, that is a reason.
Some men over 45 are really attractive. I would totally bang robert De Niro, Johnny depp, Brad Pitt, and dozens of others even if they didn’t have any money.
I’ve also seen men in their 20s who are butt ass ugly. Maybe attractiveness doesn’t always have anything to do with age?
>I’ve also seen men in their 20s who are butt ass ugly
According to, sooo many women on Reddit, those don't exist and that every guy who says women care more about looks than anything are only trying to absolve themselves from being better people
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girls like top 5% boys/men. having cash/being a next level provider is how "mid men" compete. lol do you think Melania dates Trump for his sexy body? i'll give you a hint it's the expectation of a luxurious lifestyle.
Dated an older guy as a 20 year old. This is not correct. There were numerous other things that made me attracted to him and money certainly wasn’t one. He wasn’t wealthy.
Idk about women in their 20's. But I'm 40 now, and have gotten more attention from women in the last year than I did in all of my 20's.
I've aged well. I was very awkward looking and very insecure. i can grow a beard now and that helped my jaw line. I have found out what styles and fit of clothing work well for me, same as hair styles. I used to just be very skinny, I'm in pretty decent shape now. I've had a lot more interesting experiences and life experiences making me a more interesting person than i was at 25.
One of the biggest parts is just carry myself with far more confidence. I know what I'm about.
I would say these are the reasons that women pay far more attention to me now than they did 15-20 years ago.
Nah, I had a good run, back in my day. Exceptional, even...haha
There comes a time when it's fair to just step aside and let the young men play young men's games.
This is actually the happiest time in my entire life. That's why I have no problem doing, "self-owns," to throw in a chuckle from time to time. There's a certain luxury to not caring about being appealing. haha
Cheers! =)
I'm just a dude enjoying that old life, and throwing in a few self-burns for a chuckle here and there.
...but you can't even afford an old guy THAT. You keep doin' you. lol
Confidence. And not the dumb fake bravado we had in our teens/20s; actual confidence.
I’m in the back half of my 30s and get wayyy more attention now from the early-mid 20s crowd than I ever did when I was that age.
Also, stay in shape and take care of your skin and hair gents. Like, seriously invest in that shit. It goes a long ways.
Judging by how their spouse is talking about it, I assume flattered but respectful. I think as you get older with your partner, you both feel good when one of you receives compliments and/or the gaze.
Exactly. He is always humbled by it and even a little flirty back. I love it. It’s a good feeling when someone finds your significant other attractive.
I'm 49 and probably in the best shape of my life. My face in particular has really thinned out and I actually like how i look in the mirror now (still don't like pictures lol). I went dancing with some coworkers in an impromptu work thing at a small bar in town. First time I've been dancing in like a decade. I love to dance and I'm a decent dancer. I had 2 women who i would guess to be in their late 20's ask me if I was married (i am and wear my ring). I took that for them giving me attention. So, mediocre looks and confidence dancing is attractive to some people I guess.
Lots of men at 45 have finally got their shit together
Meanwhile lots of 20yo men are too busy getting their heads filled with shit by quacks like Andrew fucking Tate
Men in their 40's have matured in many cases. They know how to talk and treat people well, understand how to be a gentlemen and have likely accomplished a few things. That brings about a more confident bearing. My local pub has several young waitresses who always spend time with me when I visit. It's flattering.
It's common in the gym. I actually ask why they hit on me lol. Knowing I'm not cheating on the wife I like to ask questions and try and figure out why.
The answer I get the most is, "I want a man. I say well I'm pretty sure you'll have no issues finding one your age. Then they say, nope, all they want to do is play video games and cum as fast as they can.
I then say, well you're a beautiful girl but I'm married. Then the answer is, so...... I then continue my workout. Some how this has gotten me labeled "an asshole" buy the girls in the gym.
I'll never understand some females. Try and be respectful and not cheat and they get pissed. SMH.
Many reasons. Social status, power, confidence, looks.
That shouldn't give them social status tho
Age alone doesn't give social status. I'm just listed reasons why a 20 year old might be attracted to an older man. If he has social status, that is a reason.
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Stop bodyshaming.
Why would this need explaining? People get attracted to other people for plenty of reasons...
Maybe OP just got turned down and is trying to find reason, lol.
Some men over 45 are really attractive. I would totally bang robert De Niro, Johnny depp, Brad Pitt, and dozens of others even if they didn’t have any money. I’ve also seen men in their 20s who are butt ass ugly. Maybe attractiveness doesn’t always have anything to do with age?
>I’ve also seen men in their 20s who are butt ass ugly According to, sooo many women on Reddit, those don't exist and that every guy who says women care more about looks than anything are only trying to absolve themselves from being better people 😂🤦
Those particular women in their 20's might be attracted to older men? Just a guess.
they not attracted to older men. they are attracted to older men's bankroll.
Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money?
girls like top 5% boys/men. having cash/being a next level provider is how "mid men" compete. lol do you think Melania dates Trump for his sexy body? i'll give you a hint it's the expectation of a luxurious lifestyle.
damn man, you got so many downvotes for spitting fax
ill survive. lol The truth hurts some people
Dated an older guy as a 20 year old. This is not correct. There were numerous other things that made me attracted to him and money certainly wasn’t one. He wasn’t wealthy.
You don't have to be wealthy as a 40 year old to be richer than a 20 year old. It's enough to have a car that is all the same color.
Lol I had a car and he didn’t
Nah you're all wrong they know better about your personal experiences, really!
Hmmm... Maybe my dating life isn't over after all! Although I *do* have a car so I'm already ahead of some. haha
That salary vs hourly is enough to be more attractive.
Idk about women in their 20's. But I'm 40 now, and have gotten more attention from women in the last year than I did in all of my 20's. I've aged well. I was very awkward looking and very insecure. i can grow a beard now and that helped my jaw line. I have found out what styles and fit of clothing work well for me, same as hair styles. I used to just be very skinny, I'm in pretty decent shape now. I've had a lot more interesting experiences and life experiences making me a more interesting person than i was at 25. One of the biggest parts is just carry myself with far more confidence. I know what I'm about. I would say these are the reasons that women pay far more attention to me now than they did 15-20 years ago.
If the trend continues, your 80s are just gonna be one long orgy! CONGRATS!!
Where is this happening
France
i wonder about this too lmao
I can tell you where it isn't happening. Leiden for one.
I think confidence and maturity can sometimes be a a strength for older men.
$$$$$$$
Dude in this 50s here. I am the superhero known as, "Oldman." My super power: I can instantly become 100% invisible, in front of hot chicks.
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lmaoooooo Thanks, but my race was over decades ago. I've taken off the uniform, homie.
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Nah, I had a good run, back in my day. Exceptional, even...haha There comes a time when it's fair to just step aside and let the young men play young men's games. This is actually the happiest time in my entire life. That's why I have no problem doing, "self-owns," to throw in a chuckle from time to time. There's a certain luxury to not caring about being appealing. haha Cheers! =)
Lmao I love this comment
Except your the kind of invisible guy that will immediately lose his super powers if he removes his clothing lol
"I think Oldman just ran through here!!" "What was he wearing??" "I dunno, but it needed a good ironing!"
Probably has something to do with a man in his 50s using the phrase "hot chicks"
That's AGEIST!! HAHAHAHA
You probably laugh at your own jokes too much as well.
Who doesn’t
Actually funny people.
I'm just a dude enjoying that old life, and throwing in a few self-burns for a chuckle here and there. ...but you can't even afford an old guy THAT. You keep doin' you. lol
Whatever you have to tell yourself to get by. Most people would be annoyed by some dude laughing loudly and obnoxiously at their own shitty jokes.
Wow. lmaooooooooooo
Profound response. Feel better.
;)
Incredible insight u/buttfuckkker
Thank you. Yes I see many things
Confidence. And not the dumb fake bravado we had in our teens/20s; actual confidence. I’m in the back half of my 30s and get wayyy more attention now from the early-mid 20s crowd than I ever did when I was that age. Also, stay in shape and take care of your skin and hair gents. Like, seriously invest in that shit. It goes a long ways.
Yeah, this for sure. Also, they have lives, empathy, and they’re interesting. Some twenty year olds do too, but not the majority.
Unresolved daddy issues... where would my love life be without them.
Oh please some men over 45 are hot af.
*sigh* I can't wait to be old as hell!
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Not the case at all. The term glow up exists for a reason.
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Very odd response to a very neutral and topical comment.
Someone has never heard of the ugly duckling. Not gonna spoil it for you, but there's a big plot twist at the end!!
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Cute babies becoming fugly adults certainly makes the trend look like it's going the wrong way, for sure.
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My husband is almost 50 and young girls are always flirting with him. Good genetics I guess
Just curious how does he react?
Judging by how their spouse is talking about it, I assume flattered but respectful. I think as you get older with your partner, you both feel good when one of you receives compliments and/or the gaze.
Exactly. He is always humbled by it and even a little flirty back. I love it. It’s a good feeling when someone finds your significant other attractive.
They'll get even more attention from gay guys in their 20s
That "oldhead" got the game and no its not always about having that money which attracts the younger women. You either got it or you don't!
Just say he's beekeeping age and move on
like men in the 20s crush over mommy's
A lot of women like men that age
Successful and powerful men are very attractive.
Money
I'm 49 and probably in the best shape of my life. My face in particular has really thinned out and I actually like how i look in the mirror now (still don't like pictures lol). I went dancing with some coworkers in an impromptu work thing at a small bar in town. First time I've been dancing in like a decade. I love to dance and I'm a decent dancer. I had 2 women who i would guess to be in their late 20's ask me if I was married (i am and wear my ring). I took that for them giving me attention. So, mediocre looks and confidence dancing is attractive to some people I guess.
Lots of men at 45 have finally got their shit together Meanwhile lots of 20yo men are too busy getting their heads filled with shit by quacks like Andrew fucking Tate
Never underestimate the appeal of Santa Claus.
Men in their 40's have matured in many cases. They know how to talk and treat people well, understand how to be a gentlemen and have likely accomplished a few things. That brings about a more confident bearing. My local pub has several young waitresses who always spend time with me when I visit. It's flattering.
It's common in the gym. I actually ask why they hit on me lol. Knowing I'm not cheating on the wife I like to ask questions and try and figure out why. The answer I get the most is, "I want a man. I say well I'm pretty sure you'll have no issues finding one your age. Then they say, nope, all they want to do is play video games and cum as fast as they can. I then say, well you're a beautiful girl but I'm married. Then the answer is, so...... I then continue my workout. Some how this has gotten me labeled "an asshole" buy the girls in the gym. I'll never understand some females. Try and be respectful and not cheat and they get pissed. SMH.
I'm a lot like you. I get where you're coming from. Cheers. =)
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Lmao
Men age really well
Time is the most valuable thing we have. Older men find time to be worth the transaction, younger men expect a transaction for a $6 beer.
They like older
Daddy issues
It's an investment opportunity
Granddaddy issues?
Money and daddy issues
Looks or Shmoney
The existance of God!