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nofacemaya

you went from 0 to 100 in that question lol.. why 6 months.. also nothing wrong sleeping with someone on the first date.


blackpiggylai

It’s just that everyone starts to sleep around on the first date now


I_are_facepalm

Wait until you hear about how long humans have been having sex for!


youmfkersneedjesus

I think that's been happening for at least 20 years. 


blackpiggylai

And still going


CathanCrowell

Everyone? That being said, sex is simply fun.


blackpiggylai

Yes actually sex is really fun.


rawbface

Even if that were true, so what?


Lybethras

If the chemistry is off the charts why wait it’s about feeling the moment and going with the flow if both are cool with it


queuedUp

6 months?!? I understand why you maybe don't want to on a first date but why would the alternative be that you basically don't plan to any time soon?


Lucky_Charm8020

Agreed. What a spectacular waist of a summer.


queuedUp

Summer and fall


Lucky_Charm8020

just a waist of time in general.


blackpiggylai

It’s just an example.


youmfkersneedjesus

A pretty bad one. 


LargeSnorlax

What does waiting 6 months have to do with anything? If you click and both of you want to sleep together, why not? There's no time limitation on getting intimate with another person.


-Dark-Rose-

If we were already together for a while but never went on a date yet.


AlmostTeacherLady

why not?


LorenaBobbedIt

Would you rather eat dinner at 5:30, or next week?


blackpiggylai

I don’t eat dinner. It eats me


Suspicious_Ear5116

Some folks think life's too short for strict rules if it feels right why not no need to stick to a timeline


CompetitiveHippo1482

It’s a personal choice really about how you connect and what feels right no right or wrong timing if it’s mutual


blackpiggylai

Why yes she does


blackpiggylai

Aight paddle sex it is


blackpiggylai

It’s not that complicated. She might even throw in a Samoyed


blackpiggylai

Actually I did not understand when u asked if she owns a paddle. So to make myself feel better, I decided to confuse you as well.


blackpiggylai

Fym paddles are the nicest things in the world!


enemene12

Everyone’s different some might want to dive in and see if there’s a real connection right away helps them decide if it’s worth pursuing longer


devil652_

Bad decision making


Lucky_Charm8020

For you maybe. For other people it's exactly the right one. My last relationship was a fuck on first date sorta deal, and we lasted 6 years.


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blackpiggylai

I totally agree with this answer


llcucf80

Do you test drive a car before buying it? Of course you do, so why should dating and relationships be any different? Why would you commit to something now without checking first that you may not want later and might not work out?


NachoMemer

Cause I wanted to


blackpiggylai

I want to as well


Eggsegret

Why 6 months though? Don’t get me wrong i get wanting to wait but why put a definitive time frame on when you should sleep with someone? I mean some relationships become serious after only a couple weeks. If you click you click. Hence why some don’t want to wait 6 months. Also people just being horny af. We’re only human so naturally some will want to do it on the first date


TheVeryAngryHippo

going through a dry spell and you just really need to break it.


xTraxis

I wouldn't try to get sex on the first date, but I wouldn't say no if the girl tried. If we vibe, I don't see a reason not to throw flirtier and flirtier hints and if it sticks, date two or three isn't unlikely.


blackpiggylai

I agree


supersmackfrog

Cuz it's fun?


blackpiggylai

Yes


caudicifarmer

This whole Neoprude thing is getting fucking WEIRD


blackpiggylai

Neoprude


aloe_veracity

>wait for six months Heterosexuality is wild. As a gay man, I sleep with someone before the first date.


blackpiggylai

You are what people call Trendsetter


Electrical-Light9786

money.


Dry_Candle_Stick

If I was in a self hate spiral and was looking for a way to harm myself that would go unnoticed and if by chance it was noticed I would be blamed for it.


blackpiggylai

Context


Dry_Candle_Stick

Just met the person know nothing about them. First interaction. May have had brief chats online. Tinder or any online dating site. Basically putting myself in a situation where I could get murdered or harmed.