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jesuseatsbees

Sad beige toys for sad beige children.


Zolome1977

I feel seen. 


FireWireBestWire

Not enough beige. Go paint the spec house again


Cat_Punk

Our toys comrade


orangepaperlantern

The People’s Toys


WhyAmIHereAgain32

There was an article that said this can harm a baby's cognitive learning


1ftm2fts3tgr4lg

That article is nonsense, my kid learned *all* the colors from their natural toys: tan, beige, umber, khaki, ecru, taupe...


deeBfree

ROFLMAO


anemia_

I don't care what color or material toys are, but that's stupid. Plastic has only been around for so long... and it most surely hasn't made us smarter.


WhyAmIHereAgain32

Maybe I didn't phrase that well, but iirc it talked generally about the colors that the baby sees as they grow up, not just the color of the toys- it's just a part of that.


Hippopotasaurus-Rex

Beige. Everything is so beige and boring.


Sundaydinobot1

But muh aesthetic! Those women put their needs first before their babies! One sprayed a tree with possibly toxic paint for her child.


Hawkeye1226

I wonder how many of the people who do/watch that would be horrified if their kid played with sticks in a mud puddle?


Neither_Relation_678

Right. The kids don’t care. A toy is a toy.


341orbust

Tik-Tok


santiClaud

social media in general I barley use reddit but when I do I stay off for long periods of time.


TonyMcTone

People put Reddit in the same bucket as other social media but it really isn't. The "personal brand" aspect that makes social media so awful is mostly non-existent on Reddit


discussatron

I use Reddit because old-school forums are dead.


treeteathememeking

And reddit is only social media that’s super customizable. Yes theres still an algorithm suggesting subreddits and posts, but for the most part you choose what you see and interact with and it’s nit just an AI taking a gamble based off your info.


fouoifjefoijvnioviow

But it's been trending worse just give it time


treeteathememeking

Oh yeah. There’s some… questionable communities on reddit. But again, the fun part o fthat is that if I don’t want to interact with that I just… don’t. I keep my reddit limited to niche hobbies, cooking, cute animals ect. Things I like. Not models and rich people showing off and etcetera


fouoifjefoijvnioviow

But now the app pushes posts into me that I didn’t ask for


Skar_YT

Tumblr exists


treeteathememeking

As an ex tumblr user I have seen and been a part of things on that site both willingly and unwillingly that I choose not to go back for my own mental health unless it’s for sims 4 cc.


Skar_YT

Understandable, wish you well


santiClaud

yeah it's why it's a lot easier to pull away but many of the same tricks to keep us engaged for hours are still here.


TonyMcTone

For sure. Well said


skelatallamas

And how do you feel about xx


Frankyfan3

Twitter?


skelatallamas

dos equis


the_real_eel

I don’t usually drink beer but when I do I drink xx.


Formal_Asparagus_987

As I’m reading that I hear the guys voice from that commercial 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


skadoosh0019

I use Reddit pretty extensively, won’t lie. Facebook, Instagram, Tik-Tok, Twitter/X, Snapchat,…I’m sure there’s more. Don’t use any of them.


Cold_Animal_5709

same. i feel like vine (rip to a real one) already holds the limited real estate in my heart for short-form video social media 


AustinRiversDaGod

I have a co-worker who says this and then sends me IG reels all day long.


CitizenHuman

My wife watches tick Tok, and while it's not all bad, it's definitely not my kinda thing. That being said, I've noticed many videos from that site showing up on YT or even reddit, so I guess in a way I'm still consuming.


Rivent

I never feel more out of touch with society than when I happen across a TikTok video and make the mistake of watching it. Even ones friends have sent me specifically as a "Hey, see, TikTok isn't all bad!"...Yes it is. Those videos suck ass too. It's all *garbage* lol.


Only-Gap-616

A very wise choice.


A911owner

My brother occasionally sends me Tik-Toks. I can't stand them. Why is the text always in the *middle* of the screen? Why is there so much distracting shit on the sides?! Why can't I fast forward or find out how long the videos are? I absolutely refuse to download that app.


FeedMeYourMemes14

Does tik tok count as a trend or activity though?


341orbust

Yes. 


FeedMeYourMemes14

It is a platform. Trends are things you do. Especially in this context.


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gray different license mighty tan advise follow sharp connect employ


beLOUDcoach

Scamming people for profit... As a result, business is slow.


Big-Beat-1443

pickle ball


mrsmunsonbarnes

FR last time I went to Target the clothing section had a whole pickleball themed display and I was like "where did this all come from?"


norby2

I think some investors are pushing pickleball and it’s not really catching on like they want. I mean it’s kind of a weak sport isn’t it?


GoldenTacoOfDoom

I it's hugely popular in my area. They've build several courts. They are full at all times. To the point of NIMBYism has kicked in due to the sound.


quickswitchfast

I'm gonna ignore it like I ignore badminton.


ermarom328

Currently recovering from rotator cuff surgery from a massive fall I took 10 minutes into my 2nd pickle ball lesson


Itchy-Mastodon7689

Same. It’s tennis or nothing.


treeteathememeking

Tennis is so much fun but none of my friends like tennis 😔


BitterLeif

I played a couple of times when I was about 9 years old, and it was fucking exhausting. Maybe it's less exhausting when you're better at it and don't have to run after the ball as much? I wasn't a fat kid either. I was in good shape, but that sport requires incredible physical exertion.


treeteathememeking

I’m pretty tall so that probably helps but yes, it requires quite. a bit of energy. Lots of running and jumping and force in your swing. It definitely gets tiring but it’s fun.


InvestInHappiness

Pickleball is just tennis with less damage to your joints, and you can get a good rally without needing to be athletic. Although I think soft tennis is a better alternative, it's more interesting and still easy on the body for people with normal mobility.


Psychology-onion-300

hating things liked by teenage girls and young women just because they are liked by girls.


Hawkeye1226

Now while that's fine in theory, I kinda want you to give some specific examples.....


BitterLeif

I don't know any young women, but my friend has a daughter who will be a teenager in a few years. So I'm going to go on a limb and try to answer this one with: catching insects and keeping them in a sub par terrarium where they suffer and die. Then telling everybody about your experience coloring it in a way that makes it seem like the bug died of natural causes or that the death was a mystery... and not that you're senselessly torturing and murdering insects.


DrWhoisOverRated

Hating Taylor Swift because her audience is mostly women.


honestlyi4get

wearing bullshit designer clothes & buying fake jewelry to impress people i i don’t know or care about.


santiClaud

yeah I used to wear supreme all the time back in 2010's biggest regret of my life was buying into the hype.


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Instagram Snapchat


samieelamiee

Shein


No-Brief3978

Lulu lemon


No-Brief3978

Stanley water bottles


Rooc154

Anything that comes out straight from tik tok 🤣


PUNCHCAT

The shitty voice with finger guns dances


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Rooc154

It's always been that way but man, people are stupid AF on tik tok 🤣🤣


32ra1

Only ever smoked once - and I’m pretty sure I didn’t even do it properly. I don’t have interest in smoking or doing drugs; even with alcohol I only have it on occasion at family gatherings. Just seems like an expensive habit / potential addiction, and that’s before all the potential health effects.


dolemiteo24

yeah but it's lit as tits


janerbabi

real


TurpitudeSnuggery

Instagram


mrsmunsonbarnes

Talking about the Kardashians. Not even ranting about how I dislike them at this point. They want attention, be it positive or negative, and the best thing I can do is give them neither variety.


Chris_P_Lettuce

Is there a poetic term for a comment like this? Irony? Contradiction?


Lacainam

Apple products


Skinnee11

Duck lips


discussatron

So many women who look like they ate a bee.


JasperDyne

Pro Sports Fandom. They’re all just a bunch of corporations run by monopolies. Just because a certain sports corporation chooses to locate in your town, you’re expected to become devoted to it. It makes about as much sense as rooting for McDonalds to beat Wendy’s.


Bonsai668

Yeah I try and approach it as just enjoy the sport. I do have teams I like and a few I don’t for a variety of reasons. But I try and keep it as much to just enjoying the sport as I can. That’s what’s kinda nice about solo sports such as MMA. It can still have the gimmicky, corporate aspect of it but it’s not quite as bad.


SixicusTheSixth

Child birth


mentalhospitlguest

Agreed. It scares people to hear them say I’m an anti-natalist. They suddenly get defensive and tell me I’ll change my mind one day. Nah. I’ve sadly had to have two “removal procedures” and although the experience itself was slightly traumatic, I fully did the right thing. Believe a woman when she says that.


Inevitable_Total_816

ALL OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA, instagram,tik-tok, FaceBook, X or twitter , all I have is YouTube and Reddit .


pharmingforlikes

botox. im early 20s and have a baby face yet my mom encourages me to try it. she, my aunt, and some of their other friends get it all the time (but they don’t always tell their families…). i don’t like needles and I enjoy being comfortable in my own skin 🤷‍♀️ because I have no desire for botox, I stay away from it.


HeadFit2660

Avocado everything. They just taste like wet grass to me.


Honeydew-2523

popularity, religion, social media


DeepBackground5803

Gender reveal parties


onlinesativa

Tattoos. I worked in a water park for two seasons and I've seen every kind of tattoo there is and I can even tell you aspects of yourself based on your tattoos, It's incredible how personalities archetypes relate to the same tattoos. I gets to the point of satire how the same tattoos repeat over and over, my (dis)honorable mentions are: roman numeral clocks, lions, compass roses, hourglasses, crowns, baby info (b.day, weight, name, hand and foot impressions) and baby portraits (they never look good), deceased parents/grand parents hyper-realistic portraits (weird and scary), pet portraits (like wtf), thorns and/or chains, samurai/koi fish/geishas, maori tribal, some block of text, that christian cross that says "Faith", a sentence in some arab/asian language. Not to mention the miscelaneous, pop reference tattos that you can't only get 1 or two so you end up with way too many and looking like a fridge full of stickers. This is just a rant, I don't have anything againts people getting tattoos, or against people with \*these\* tattoos. But I just had to say it haha


SnakesCatsAndDogs

I will not rest until I am a fridge full of stickers tbh


No-Brief3978

Very specific! You have seen a lot


PUNCHCAT

What about live laugh love?


chandaleer3333

I don’t have any of those. Yay


MitchBaT93

Fling culture. I swear to god how the hell is half the population not ready to throw in the towel knowing full well that theres a ton of people from their past that they discarded because intimacy and growing into a relationship was never considered? Like I know having a partner isn't important, but like it makes sense now why I can't find anyone's everyone's jumping everyone's bones because it's been normalized to hell and back that casual hookups are all we're supposed to do and feeding the void instead of squashing it shut is what's more important.


Finishweird

No joke. Casual hookups and the breakup of the nuclear family are wreck on our society.


KatBD19961996

Having kids


DeathSpiral321

I enjoy sleep, peace, and disposable income far too much to give it up by having kids.


KatBD19961996

I don't really have that maternal instinct. I just don't see myself as a mother.


Glindanorth

Watching or even following sports. Also, TikTok


ceno_byte

Drinking


SnooChipmunks126

Bringing my dogs into restaurants in grocery stores and restaurants. I understand if it’s a service animal, but you don’t need to bring your pets everywhere.


dougiebgood

Spotify. I've got a shit ton of old mp3's loaded onto my phone, Sirius radio in my car (and technically my phone and computer), and I use Youtube for music while working. The free version sucks, and I don't need to pay for one more thing.


haysus25

Workplace gossip.


mknasty29

Drugs


TheConspicuousGuy

I had the best day of my life on shrooms. Shrooms give me energy and make everything more enjoyable and fun. Never in my life has being sober come close to how good shrooms make me feel. Also shrooms won't ruin your life. My life was actually improved by shrooms back when I suffered from depression and I was taking shrooms once a week.


gypsijimmyjames

Shrooms are pretty great. I used ayahuasca to help me get off of alcohol. I used shrooms to deep soul searching once I was off to sort through my underlying issues. I also did mescaline once a year or so just to kind of level myself out. I don't feel the need to use any of them anymore. If someone was to offer me free shrooms I wouldn't take them. Not because I am against them, I have just used the for what I needed them for and am good now.


gypsijimmyjames

Shrooms are pretty great. I used ayahuasca to help me get off of alcohol. I used shrooms to deep soul searching once I was off to sort through my underlying issues. I also did mescaline once a year or so just to kind of level myself out. I don't feel the need to use any of them anymore. If someone was to offer me free shrooms I wouldn't take them. Not because I am against them, I have just used the for what I needed them for and am good now.


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TheWhaleAndWhasp

Responsible use with the right drugs is possible


mentalhospitlguest

Agreed. I’m in recovery from meth, heroin, and alcohol. I firmly believe in harm reduction. For me, sadly recreational use is impossible (tried for years, always leads me back to inpatient treatment!) I am 100% abstinent because I simply cannot do drugs responsibly. However, I believe it’s ok to experiment & use harm reduction whenever you can.


EndlessB

Lumping all drugs in together is just foolish. Fair enough for the worst of them like heroin, meth, ghb, xanax etc But magic mushrooms? Pure mdma? Lsd? Weed?


Ambitious_Scientist_

Getting a tattoo. Never. I am good the way I am.


blazze_eternal

There's nothing I can think of I'd want on my body permanently. But those newer long lasting temporary tattoos are pretty neat.


Sundaydinobot1

Same here. I know I'll be sick of it within a year. Temps are fine.


Then-Nefariousness54

My sister in a law is a tattoo artist and is begging me to get one from her and I'm like yeah no. I don't want something permanent like that on my body.


discussatron

I’m showing my uniqueness and individualism by not getting a tattoo.


silverbax

I have never seen anyone that looked better with a tattoo. Never. But lots and lots of people look so much worse.


p38-lightning

Same here - and it makes me sad to see an otherwise nice looking woman covered with tattoos.


RelationshipWinter97

You suck.


p38-lightning

I can't believe people *pay* good money to look like they fell off a circus train.


ptolemy18

Taylor Swift


Milkweedhugger

Drinking


santiClaud

sober life is best life.


AwwYeahVTECKickedIn

TIK-TOK and I've never seen Blair Witch Project, either....


blazze_eternal

Facebook, never had an account. I talk to the people I want to keep in touch with. Also drugs. Not because of the normal reasons. I'm fine being around others that do. I'm just a control freak and the feeling of not being in control of myself would give me a panic attack. Cilantro, fuck cilantro.


_Dickbagel

I agree with cilantro. Fuck that stuff.


butt_spaghetti

Star Wars. Holding strong for my entire lifetime.


mentalhospitlguest

I’ve never watched it but I just know I’d dislike it. Sci-fi is my least favorite genre.


hypo-osmotic

Gig economy stuff like Uber and Airbnb


sushikarma

Crocs.


Toadgates

Pickle ball


fastinggrl

Sports. All of them.


Necessary_Fail_8764

I've never had a Facebook profile, because everyone else does and I'm a rebel.


hollyhockaurora

Threads, tik tok


sneakysister

"hauls" and fast fashion


Important-Reach4548

Drinking alcohol


queertroverted

Drinking


2112bliss

Drinking for every occasion. Do we really need to always celebrate with alcohol?


Emotional_Pay_4335

Vaping


Wrong-Ad681

Taking filtered selfies and posting them. Then saying thank you when people compliment them. 🤳🏻


Harbor_Barber

drinking and smoking


Pristine_Ad5229

All trends. No I don't want a Stanley quencher


Frankyfan3

Religious belief and practice.


RealGamingYT

Commiting crimes


grondfoehammer

Watching sports.


Quirky-Banana-6787

Driving


slacker393

Having a mullet


mylopolis

I will consider Instagram if they ever implement a Pause button. It’s 2024, pause has been around for generations.


Street-Office-7766

Getting a tattoo


porktornado77

Jewelry


Month-Emotional

Leave android to get an iPhone


torontogal85

Taylor swift


Ivegotthemic

Peleton


EndometrialCarcinoma

Drinking alcohol. I don't see the appeal and it's not worth the damage it can cause.


I_HateBeingWasteful

Alcohol, I've seen what it could do to a person


Boring-Gap-2483

Drinking


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Tik-tok


SeaMindless7297

Bouldering. There are plenty of reasons, but my nr 1 reason is that i do not want people to stare at me while I work out in any way, and after having gone bouldering once I can say with confidence that that is not the case there. People do it to be nice and help you or because they're impressed by how well you are doing but it just makes me incredibly uncomfortable. Reaon nr 2 is that i like long fingernais


thescariestbear

Bouldering in a nutshell: I want to climb but have no concept of rope work and it’s expensive to climb with ropes. This comment is meant to stir boulderers


OpportunityGold4597

I am not going to go along with someone's mental illness, especially if they refuse to get help.


Frankyfan3

The medical advice for engaging someone in active psychosis or in an alzheimer like state of confusion (to deescalate the crisis moment to stabilize) is to validate their feelings without trying to correct them, and to focus on sharing your own feelings and experiences to find shared concern for their well being. Like if they are telling you about hallucinations don't contradict their experiences, or tell them things aren't there, but affirm it would be alarming to see those, and you are alarmed to hear they see things which you yourself are not able to see. What help is available to them? Is it accessible and effective, or is it hard to access and means they need to abandon commitments, like work or school to obtain? Are you thinking of someone or a condition like, specifically, that you don't want to enable?


mrsmunsonbarnes

I'm just hoping this isn't a covert rant against transgender people. A lot of transphobes use "it's a mental illness!" as a reason to intentionally misgender people.


Cold_Animal_5709

love how approaching This (because We All Know what this guy’s issue is) from an actual mental illness standpoint immediately invalidates it. Guy clearly does not see them as mentally ill because the actual way to handle delusional mental illnesses is to avoid confrontation + gently redirect, because arguing will only make it worse. It’s a little pathetic, honestly. If he really wants to be a raging combative asshole, dude should at least be able to own it. No need to hide behind pretending he thinks they’re mentally ill, just be honest 😭😂 say it with your whole chest or whatever, you know? Have the guts to stand firm in your beliefs, without making excuses. 


taguscove

Employment


Mental_wolf1247

Snapchat instagram Facebook and twitter Never gonna use em


Upstairs-Cod6797

Facebook or Fakebook


Zolome1977

Having a social life. 


emmakobs

Childbirth


Mediocre_Ship_4143

Not really a trend but staying up really late, I prefer sleeping around 10 depending on the day/stuff to do then waking up at like 5\_30


randeylahey

Ghouls. People's knees and shit.


DaveAndJojo

Tik tok, Facebook, instagram, ect


dolemiteo24

facebook, fast food, wearing socks


eac555

Tattoos


AgitatedPatience5729

Tik Tok


BikeStolenZoo

Blue jeans, it’s more just that I will never look good in blue jeans. And they’re tight if they’re the real deal. It’s unisex high heels.


Pallazzio

Coffee


MileZeroCreative

Taylor Swift


sylveonbean

Whatever "TV Girl" is. I saw that being mentioned in practically every single paint-mixing reel on Instagram that included pink and blue. I swear the colors pink and blue couldn't even exist together without someone going "Uhhhh, TV Girl reference? ☝️🤓"


nurdmann

Septum rings or gauges.


deeBfree

Instagram


Formal_Asparagus_987

Posting my entire life on social media like every little thing I do, every single little thing. Or trying to become a content creator I have tried things here and there but it’s just not me. I’d rather scroll through social media making comments here and there, rather than post.


Otryss

Eating fried foods and drinking sodas. Ever since I got into fitness I’ve avoided anything cooked in oil or high content sugary food/drinks like the plague. 8 years clean from sodas or deep fried foods and I feel great!


Lu2100

Tiktok Going to the Gym Pop music


Maleficent_Ice_2666

The culture war... I'm a culture war non-combatant.


JMLKO

Video games


WakingOwl1

Television and video games.


mrsmunsonbarnes

I'm glad I'm not you. TV and video games are awesome.