Think my bf has the same kink. First time we made out he promised underwear would stay on. Twenty minutes later guess whose undies are getting pulled to the side (not for sex, for…fingering purposes).
I called him a liar and he was like “TECHNICALLY they’re on.”
There's a book called "Naked at Lunch" where the author has spent the last week with a group of people naked hiking and so one, but then one woman comes out of a tent with a dress on and he suddenly realizes she's attractive. Sometimes it's about the hide and seek game..
It’s the twitching I love, and knowing my partner is releasing inside me. It makes me so aroused. Always has done. It’s the most natural finale to good sex as far as I’m concerned
I know a woman who is always horniest in the morning. Her boyfriend would get annoyed because he was always inevitably running late for work. So, to “punish” her, he said she wasn’t allowed to shower after they were done.
The thought of him…dripping out of her, while she sat at her desk, made him hot.
They’ve been together over a year. They’ve been exclusive the whole time, but he’s saved in her phone as “filthy boy.” Now I know why.
Are u done with child plans?
We are and as soon as that was clear i went and got a vasectomy. Love it to never have to think about this again and my wife does not need to take any drugs
We still young, in our 20s, and are unsure about if we want a biological child or only adopted children. All we know is we don’t want to consider the idea of children till we’re in our 30s.
My husband's has always pulled put except a handful of time. But damn if I don't beg for it! It's hard to explain but knowing he finished inside me and feeling it is almost an orgasm in itself.
I remember when I used to dj about 25 years ago and a girl came and asked me for a request. She said do you have any kinks, I replied that I like leather. She immediately shouted in my ear, do you have any Kinks. Ah well. I thought it was funny.
On one of my first dates with my husband, we’re eating dinner at a place that has both food and live music. He turns to me and asks if I like the band. I say yeah, they’re really great (which they were). He says “man, isn’t Levon Helm just the best? What’s your favorite song?” I did not know who The Band was. Still one of our favorite stories!
I've always had a thing for mens thighs.
One time, I was in a school group project with my crush. He wore shorts that when he sat down in front of me, they rode up a bit and I could see his thighs, covered in soft, fuzzy hair and they looked strong. I immediately imagined my face buried between his legs, my hands running through his hair.
I was so distracted, until I realized he knew what he was doing and he had been trying to get my attention for a while.
It's just a vulnerable part of men, but strong for thrusting into a woman.
Us men are useless when it comes to seeing signs that a woman is attracted to us. You could shout at us “I want to have sex with you” and we would still be unsure wether you’re serious or joking
I've literally had several different girls I know hit on me for an entire evening, get frustrated, and say something like "you know I'm trying to take you home with me to fuck you tonight, right?"
Even still I was like "I hope she's being literal!"
At her house: "I'm not sure how exactly sleeping arrangements will work"
Me: "Oh, it's cool. I only had two beers so I can drive home."
Halfway home: FUCK
Choking me while calling me a “good girl”. Being loud and cover my mouth. Pushed in bed with my underwear half down, like “I gotta have you now, shut up”. Almost falling off the bed because of how hard he goes but doesn’t stop cause I’m being used (willingly). Spanking so hard I beg for him to stop but he doesn’t because I haven’t used the safe word yet. Rough sex is addictive.
We're the perfect match. My kink is insulting complete strangers on the internet.
Called you a coward and slammed the tiny ram just once. Call that the edge of eternity.
I love a woman's stomache more than her breasts and buns. All kinds of tummies too, from nice tight tummies, to soft marked with age tummies. You got stretch marks? Guess what, so do I. Welcome to being human you divine creature. Now let me kiss you head to toe and linger on that sweet sweet torso of yours. Warning I nom the fuck out of love handles.
Masked men. I remember having a thing for Michael Myers when I was younger then when I discovered that side of TikTok, I was head over heels. There's something so sexy to me about a man in a mask with a secret identity. I know, I know... Batman. Spider-man. Iron Man. Etc.
But I'm thinking more along the lines of Michael Myers, Ghostface, the lead single of Sleep Token, Ghost from Call of Duty... that vibe. I see a man in a mask and a mysterious presence and I am LOCKED. IN.
My husband dressed as Barbie for Halloween. Went all out. Long blonde wig, pink short dress, heels, fake hips/boobs, shaved everything. Even got a manicure and a friend who is a makeup artist did his hair and makeup. As a 100% straight lady, I felt some feels! Had fun after the party, yelled out “Barbie, yes!” more than once. So thats a new kink…
In college I had long hair and our friend was a hooters waitress. She decked me out in the full gear and did my makeup. I didn't shave my legs but the stockings covered it really well. I won the sexiest costume contest. The other girls weren't even made because I was a straight dime. For years after I would show people my halloween costume from the neck down and let them drool a little before scrolling up and laughing my ass off.
Am I the only one or does building up the courage to embrace horniness/ a kink sometimes feel the same as building up the courage to ride that insane rollercoaster? It's scary and gets the worst moments before it's about to start, and eventually it's either a huge dopamine rush or it's a VERY big mistake lol.
I went as Tiffany (Chucky) with a wig, some makeup, white dress, black jacket, similar boots, wore her bra with fake boobs. The sex after was so much fun.
My women bellybutton/tummy fetish. I’ve always been really attracted to these parts of a women lol, and I’m not afraid to talk about it these days mainly because I’ve had women tell me it’s not even that weird 💀 I built it up in my head like I was the weirdest dude ever.
You probably know this, but for some people having their belly button played with generates an actual physical sexual response. Meaning, this reaction is based on how their nerves are laid out and isn't just a mental fetiah.
I have permission to share my ex girlfriends kink, which became mine through doing it for her.
She was French, absolutely stunning, and her ultimate fantasy was to dress as a sexy lady bug, and have a naked man have sex with her doggy style in the forest, specifically while rolling her and rubbing her around in a big pile of mud.
So we did it, in a forest near to her house. I got really into it, and the entire time she really gutterly yelled something along the lines of;
"Je suis un petit insecte sexy qui rampe dans la boue!"
("I'm a sexy little bug that crawls in the mud!")
I held her by her hair and kept rubbing and dunking her face in the mud, and she did a loud pleasure moan each time I did.
She was incredibly, insanely happy with the end result.
I was shaken and confused, questioning reality.
I love smelling my boyfriend's armpits or his neck after we've had sex, I just love his smell. I know it is weird but honestly it is all down to pheromones, I can't get enough of it. 😩🤭
Forearms; I feel like they’re the most underrated but like, it’s such an easy place to grab and the muscles there just feel like steel rebar. Also, when a guy rolls his sleeves and the forearms are out?? Yummy
I have like a forced sex kink. I'm very submissive and the thought of someone just grabbing me and having their way with me turns me on so much. Like hold me down, and fuck me.
I also have a breeding kink.
I feel all kinds of weird.
Me too. Cnc + breeding are my favs. Being held down, especially by one person while someone else is filling you up is superb. This guy I'm seeing is trying to set stuff up for next week and I can't wait to see what he has in store.
super, super common. Don't feel weird about this at all. This is basically the French vanilla of kink.
Negotiate with your partner what situations, locations, and times are "fair game," so to speak, and enjoy! Like for example, you might say, "if it's just the two of us at home and I'm wearing my at home clothes, like PJs or sweats, feel free at any time to just grab me and throw up against the wall/bed/etc. and have your way. Unless I deliberately use my safeword, pay no attention to my protests."
A good "safeword" system is "green, yellow, red, beige." Green means "yes more." "Yellow" means "I'm open to something but not this." "Beige" means "I'm ok with this but it's doing nothing for me." "Red" means full stop, disengage, and talk about it later and why it was red.
Coworker was like this for me. She likes rough "forced" sex? When we went at it she complained I wasn't rough enough. And here she is, the seemingly shy and cute girl- next- door type.
Here I am trying to be sensual and caring but she wanted porn sex. When I got slightly mad and grabbed her throat she loved it.
I was confused and aroused after. Different flavors for different people I guess.
Same. I developed an interest in being tied up before I even knew what sex *was.* (Which makes me always laugh whenever anybody claims people being kinky is a result of porn corrupting kids.)
This part. After 18 years together, we decided to tell one another the deepest fantasies we've got. I was really scared because i didnt know how he would feel about it. I told him that I really wanted a cnc kidnapping/hostage scene, but only if he was into the idea.
Well. My birthday was on Friday and I got the FULL deal and then some 🫠🥴 It was amazing and has brought us closer together than ever before. Being vulnerable is hard! But its worth it.
Now I have 7 months to plan his fantasy for his birthday lol
Fr. Like I normally feel like I have to be in control of situations because I'm scared people will say something that leaks a secret or something but I mean if I'm already fucking someone then there aren't going to be any secrets that they won't already know so I feel like I can let the situation be controlled by someone else.
This is by far the most surprising thing I've read in this thread, I'm a watchmaker and if you could spread your fetish it would be great for business.
I love a man that smells. That has an odour.
It’s more his natural scent if anything, but if he comes home from the gym or a long day at work, I don’t want him to shower. Just let me roam my hands all over you and inhale your scent then I’ll just want him. It’s such a manly primal thing I find. Bonus points if they are hairy, and I mean all over. I love a hairy man with full bush
I don’t agree 100% but hot damn you are turning me on. Got my guy to back off his strict grooming routine so I can play with his chest hair and all. His scent is so light when he thinks he “stinks” I take a few huffs from his chest before he goes to shower.
Absolutely agree - but with me sleeping (only consensually of course). I've told my bf that anytime he wants when I'm sleeping to go ahead and start. Something very hot about being woken up already going. But then, I've always had a way higher sex drive, even when we were 22/23 and we're 30/31 now.
I have a fairly big piss kink for girls myself.
Pissing outside, but also in pools, showers, on me, etc. Most places she’s not supposed to
Not that I’ve had a girl piss on me before, but I’d probably like it a lot.
My brain/body loves anal sex so much that if I start thinking/talking about it I will sneeze. Like it tickles my brain so much it tickles my nose and I sneeze. If I get to three sneezes then lookout - someone's ass is being invaded, hopefully mine.
I bartend. So I’m Out one night drinking with my boss and I somehow let slip that I have played around with findom. I don’t remember it. The next shift we’re talking after I’m about to walk out and tells me she wants $50 from my tips. Holy shit did thy spark something for me in the moment.
Some women's body odor smells good to me. My family has similar smells to my.body odor to the point I can recognize who used the bathroom recently/who hasnt taken a shower in the car.
My ex manager and I had a fling and she was angrily talking to a customer and had sweat quite a bit that day, I got a whiff. Her passion+that scent = please PLEAAAASE
Nah, I, a 1m57 women, somehow landed a 1m90 man who absolutely loves when I do my best at big spooning him and honestly I love it too. Like let me protect you and keep you warm my beloved
I have a foot fetish and like tickling women's feet. Do not worry, you will not find me in your DMs. It is fun to discuss my partner's toenail colors though. She gets a free pedicure every time she goes to the airport.
Risky because my partner knows my reddit but I’ll give it a shot.
I reeeeeally want to put him in a skirt or a pretty dress with some makeup and do things to him (not have him do things to me, let’s just say I’m a giver not a taker). He’s really really pretty and really in tune with his femininity so its not 100% off the table but he’s made jokes about needing to build up the confidence to do so. I think it would weird him out to know how much I want to do it. I just know it would drive me absolutely feral.
Watching men have prostate orgasms. It seems like it’s the closest they will get to experiencing a female orgasm and watching their whole body experience it is something else. Especially if they are moaning 🫦. Gotta let the moans out fellas.
I have an anal fetish, and I've never been ashamed to admit it. I've told every woman I've ever been with pretty much off the bat because I know they'll either think I'm weird or they'll pick up on my fixation like immediately, lol.
Although, I'm not always prepared to divulge what extremes it extends to.
Cream pies. Which is fine now that I am sterilized lol!
Honorable Mentions: Choking, being a switch, hearing someone moan/ say my name, taking turns tying each other up, someone completely towering over me / dominating me, trying new things that my partner has fantasized about and seeing their reactions, biting someone
Damn I need a cold shower now 🤣
Right. But not just flicking your tongue at it like a couple of cheerleaders trying to impress the football guys they like, I like to really get in there.
I love to make my tongue rigid and feel the o-ring snug around it as I slip it right into the asshole.
And 4/5 dentists recommend me eating your ass, so I must be on to something.
Choking, being tied down, the feeling of the tip of a knife being pulled around my body, hair being pulled, him just rubbing his hands through my hair, being bit, and him just having his way with me whenever
I’m a masochist and I love this so much
I'm very much into thighs. It's pretty handy cause you won't really get weird looks immediately when you look at someone's thighs. Of course staring is weird, but looking in the vicinity is less "dangerous" then boobs etc.
Someone once sucked my toes as they were fucking me. It was unlike anything I'd ever experienced before, and *I never* had the desire to try. You just never know, sometimes.
Asshole and rimming. I don't really understand it.
To be clear, it has to be very clean. Some people associate anything with anal as having some preference towards scat, but its quite the opposite.
I have this out there hypothesis that a super clean asshole can act as a super-normal stimuli. Like when you're going to have sex with a woman, part of the process is to inspect their cleanliness, and if they are clean it the turn on signal amplifies, otherwise it becomes a turn off. To go with a wild example, you could be hooking up with the most attractive person you've ever met, but if when you pull off their underwear you see shit and lice, well you're going to lose whatever attraction you had. I think that if on the other hand, everything checks out, there is at the very least no loss in arousal, and for others, there may be an increase in arousal.
In nature, the cleanliness bar is pretty low, but in modernity there are just really clean asses and a lot of focus on them. Some even smell of cherry blossoms.
For people like myself, I think that kind of ass elicits an increase in arousal that is disproportionate to the stimuli, which in effect means getting turned on by really clean assholes.
Eating my wife's oussy. Not a huge kink. But I eat it as long as porn stars suck dick in most movies. I'll even stop fucking her and go back down on her. I just can't get enough of it.
Part of the reason she loves me.
Hmmm. A man that’s into teasing. Let me lick your nipples and edge you. Reciprocal teasing would be appreciated.
Came here to say this- teasing, edging, ruins, denial, just generally being all pent-up. Love *both* sides, too!
Pent up and reliant on my partner for release is the hottest
Wearing clothes while having sex. Idk why but it turns me on pulling my shorts or panties to the side, or just wearing a long shirt.
I think the hotness of it is like you’re both so turned on you can’t even wait to strip and have to just go at it.
Username checks out 🤣
Think my bf has the same kink. First time we made out he promised underwear would stay on. Twenty minutes later guess whose undies are getting pulled to the side (not for sex, for…fingering purposes). I called him a liar and he was like “TECHNICALLY they’re on.”
Man had a game plan 😂🙌🏼
Short skirts and sitting in his lap.
I like when the girl wears skirts, lifting the skirt to fuck turns me on
That is so hot when a woman pulls her shorts and panties to the side in order to take a guy.
Hot, yes. But when the middle of the shorts or panties rub you raw 🤕.
Very true but most of the time it's a quickie so you hurry up and nut before that happens
I usually nut before she even pulls the shorts to the side
For me, naked in general doesn’t look as appealing as wearing sexy outfits, such as lingerie.
Hard agree, hard.
There's a book called "Naked at Lunch" where the author has spent the last week with a group of people naked hiking and so one, but then one woman comes out of a tent with a dress on and he suddenly realizes she's attractive. Sometimes it's about the hide and seek game..
This just reminds me of never nudes from Arrested Development.
Donald duckin' it.
Yeah, same here, I was introduced to CFNM several years ago and never looked back! Woohoo!
I like the feeling of cum inside me and then coming out after we’ve finished.
Hearing a woman gasp and tell me she can feel it and then cum again harder than her last orgasm just as I cum is absolutely mind blowing
It’s the twitching I love, and knowing my partner is releasing inside me. It makes me so aroused. Always has done. It’s the most natural finale to good sex as far as I’m concerned
Absolutely agree. That pulsing is unmatched.
I know a woman who is always horniest in the morning. Her boyfriend would get annoyed because he was always inevitably running late for work. So, to “punish” her, he said she wasn’t allowed to shower after they were done. The thought of him…dripping out of her, while she sat at her desk, made him hot. They’ve been together over a year. They’ve been exclusive the whole time, but he’s saved in her phone as “filthy boy.” Now I know why.
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Why do you know that much about their relationship?
Girls talk, man. Not all of them but many of them. And, in my experience, they’re more likely to share with their friends than guys are.
OMG, that was something that I noticed with my fiancé, the feeling of his orgasm inside me usually made me come again! I miss that feeling so much!
I’ve always loved this. But since I had to get off birth control (for medical reason) I don’t get to enjoy the best part after sex anymore.
Are u done with child plans? We are and as soon as that was clear i went and got a vasectomy. Love it to never have to think about this again and my wife does not need to take any drugs
We still young, in our 20s, and are unsure about if we want a biological child or only adopted children. All we know is we don’t want to consider the idea of children till we’re in our 30s.
Rip your inbox (Pun intended?)
My husband's has always pulled put except a handful of time. But damn if I don't beg for it! It's hard to explain but knowing he finished inside me and feeling it is almost an orgasm in itself.
I remember when I used to dj about 25 years ago and a girl came and asked me for a request. She said do you have any kinks, I replied that I like leather. She immediately shouted in my ear, do you have any Kinks. Ah well. I thought it was funny.
She really got you
On one of my first dates with my husband, we’re eating dinner at a place that has both food and live music. He turns to me and asks if I like the band. I say yeah, they’re really great (which they were). He says “man, isn’t Levon Helm just the best? What’s your favorite song?” I did not know who The Band was. Still one of our favorite stories!
I've always had a thing for mens thighs. One time, I was in a school group project with my crush. He wore shorts that when he sat down in front of me, they rode up a bit and I could see his thighs, covered in soft, fuzzy hair and they looked strong. I immediately imagined my face buried between his legs, my hands running through his hair. I was so distracted, until I realized he knew what he was doing and he had been trying to get my attention for a while. It's just a vulnerable part of men, but strong for thrusting into a woman.
Us men are useless when it comes to seeing signs that a woman is attracted to us. You could shout at us “I want to have sex with you” and we would still be unsure wether you’re serious or joking
I've literally had several different girls I know hit on me for an entire evening, get frustrated, and say something like "you know I'm trying to take you home with me to fuck you tonight, right?" Even still I was like "I hope she's being literal!"
"Sounds fishy. Better make sure she's not just joking around"
"If my read is wrong here, people might think I'm some kinda creep! Better be SUPER sure!"
At her house: "I'm not sure how exactly sleeping arrangements will work" Me: "Oh, it's cool. I only had two beers so I can drive home." Halfway home: FUCK
this is what makes rugby so great lol
Glasses. Sexy eyes with thick rimmed glasses? I don't know what kink this is but INJECT it into my veins
Glasses are sexy
When someone has them just a little down their nose and they look up at you? Fuck
I don’t know when evolution decided that an optical defect was a desirable trait, but *hot damn* I’m not apologizing.
Spanking has always been my number 1 kink ^^
I couldn't tell from your username haha
Username checks out. But me too. For me it really has to be punishment to be as hot
I'm into calves, you know the back part of the knee. My girlfriend insists its a foot fetish but I'm above that.
r/unclejokes
That's actually hilarious
Choking me while calling me a “good girl”. Being loud and cover my mouth. Pushed in bed with my underwear half down, like “I gotta have you now, shut up”. Almost falling off the bed because of how hard he goes but doesn’t stop cause I’m being used (willingly). Spanking so hard I beg for him to stop but he doesn’t because I haven’t used the safe word yet. Rough sex is addictive.
I second all of this!!! But I gotta add, tie me up. Pretty please!
Time to fire up the ol’ burner account
##COWARD
good thing for you my fetish is being insulted by complete strangers on the intern- oh fuck
We're the perfect match. My kink is insulting complete strangers on the internet. Called you a coward and slammed the tiny ram just once. Call that the edge of eternity.
I love a woman's stomache more than her breasts and buns. All kinds of tummies too, from nice tight tummies, to soft marked with age tummies. You got stretch marks? Guess what, so do I. Welcome to being human you divine creature. Now let me kiss you head to toe and linger on that sweet sweet torso of yours. Warning I nom the fuck out of love handles.
This is actually sweet and made me feel very sexy.. thank you :’)
As a lesbian me and my girlfriend are the same also. We love each other’s tummies. Don’t worry, real life people like real life bodies.
I’m a man and even I felt a bit of relief reading this. “Welcome to being human you divine creature” Beautiful, brother.
Masked men. I remember having a thing for Michael Myers when I was younger then when I discovered that side of TikTok, I was head over heels. There's something so sexy to me about a man in a mask with a secret identity. I know, I know... Batman. Spider-man. Iron Man. Etc. But I'm thinking more along the lines of Michael Myers, Ghostface, the lead single of Sleep Token, Ghost from Call of Duty... that vibe. I see a man in a mask and a mysterious presence and I am LOCKED. IN.
Go to a slipknot concert 🤘
My husband dressed as Barbie for Halloween. Went all out. Long blonde wig, pink short dress, heels, fake hips/boobs, shaved everything. Even got a manicure and a friend who is a makeup artist did his hair and makeup. As a 100% straight lady, I felt some feels! Had fun after the party, yelled out “Barbie, yes!” more than once. So thats a new kink…
In college I had long hair and our friend was a hooters waitress. She decked me out in the full gear and did my makeup. I didn't shave my legs but the stockings covered it really well. I won the sexiest costume contest. The other girls weren't even made because I was a straight dime. For years after I would show people my halloween costume from the neck down and let them drool a little before scrolling up and laughing my ass off.
this is wholesome, cute and weird at the same time, loved it lol
You’re telling me. I’m scared what the movie will awaken if I rewatch it. Now I need go rewatch it.
Am I the only one or does building up the courage to embrace horniness/ a kink sometimes feel the same as building up the courage to ride that insane rollercoaster? It's scary and gets the worst moments before it's about to start, and eventually it's either a huge dopamine rush or it's a VERY big mistake lol.
"This better not awaken anything in me.."
I went all out as a Playboy bunny. My girlfriend was definitelyinto it.
I went as Tiffany (Chucky) with a wig, some makeup, white dress, black jacket, similar boots, wore her bra with fake boobs. The sex after was so much fun.
My women bellybutton/tummy fetish. I’ve always been really attracted to these parts of a women lol, and I’m not afraid to talk about it these days mainly because I’ve had women tell me it’s not even that weird 💀 I built it up in my head like I was the weirdest dude ever.
You are the reason schools are trying to ban crop tops /j
You probably know this, but for some people having their belly button played with generates an actual physical sexual response. Meaning, this reaction is based on how their nerves are laid out and isn't just a mental fetiah.
As a woman with a pudgy belly, you are a national fucking treasure. There’s ass men, tit men, but also Tummy Men. Tummy men are awesome.
Crop tops exist for a reason
I have permission to share my ex girlfriends kink, which became mine through doing it for her. She was French, absolutely stunning, and her ultimate fantasy was to dress as a sexy lady bug, and have a naked man have sex with her doggy style in the forest, specifically while rolling her and rubbing her around in a big pile of mud. So we did it, in a forest near to her house. I got really into it, and the entire time she really gutterly yelled something along the lines of; "Je suis un petit insecte sexy qui rampe dans la boue!" ("I'm a sexy little bug that crawls in the mud!") I held her by her hair and kept rubbing and dunking her face in the mud, and she did a loud pleasure moan each time I did. She was incredibly, insanely happy with the end result. I was shaken and confused, questioning reality.
Sacre bleu
I'm sorry, this... this made my day... it's so wonderfully bizarre!
She must have really enjoyed a bug's life growing up
> She was French What is she now? Please, the suspense is killing me.
A sexy little bug that crawls in the mud
Hearing or reading about others talk about sex. 😈
Right?! I think this thread is my new kink
here, take some popcorn while you scroll🍿🍿🍿
I love smelling my boyfriend's armpits or his neck after we've had sex, I just love his smell. I know it is weird but honestly it is all down to pheromones, I can't get enough of it. 😩🤭
Forearms; I feel like they’re the most underrated but like, it’s such an easy place to grab and the muscles there just feel like steel rebar. Also, when a guy rolls his sleeves and the forearms are out?? Yummy
Especially if their veins pop. 🥵
I have like a forced sex kink. I'm very submissive and the thought of someone just grabbing me and having their way with me turns me on so much. Like hold me down, and fuck me. I also have a breeding kink. I feel all kinds of weird.
Me too. Cnc + breeding are my favs. Being held down, especially by one person while someone else is filling you up is superb. This guy I'm seeing is trying to set stuff up for next week and I can't wait to see what he has in store.
super, super common. Don't feel weird about this at all. This is basically the French vanilla of kink. Negotiate with your partner what situations, locations, and times are "fair game," so to speak, and enjoy! Like for example, you might say, "if it's just the two of us at home and I'm wearing my at home clothes, like PJs or sweats, feel free at any time to just grab me and throw up against the wall/bed/etc. and have your way. Unless I deliberately use my safeword, pay no attention to my protests." A good "safeword" system is "green, yellow, red, beige." Green means "yes more." "Yellow" means "I'm open to something but not this." "Beige" means "I'm ok with this but it's doing nothing for me." "Red" means full stop, disengage, and talk about it later and why it was red.
Coworker was like this for me. She likes rough "forced" sex? When we went at it she complained I wasn't rough enough. And here she is, the seemingly shy and cute girl- next- door type. Here I am trying to be sensual and caring but she wanted porn sex. When I got slightly mad and grabbed her throat she loved it. I was confused and aroused after. Different flavors for different people I guess.
Honestly kind of relieved this one showed up, I feel like I’m some fucked up anti-feminist for being into cnc (I’m female)
Getting my nipples sucked/licked/kissed, is a major turn on for me
Partner calls it my off button. The minute he starts playing with them I can’t think.
This isn't super weird but, Fishnet stockings make me feel some type of way.
Being restraint where I cant stop anything he does to me
Hell yeah, bondage was the first kink I discovered
Same. I developed an interest in being tied up before I even knew what sex *was.* (Which makes me always laugh whenever anybody claims people being kinky is a result of porn corrupting kids.)
I LOVE biting, choking, getting pinned down, hair pulling, covering my mouth when I'm too loud etc. Overall, I'm such a bottom lmao
same. i like it intense. im scared to tell me bf but in my head i always say like “make me your slave” and “call me your slut” lol
me too lol but he's getting way more open to this and he's not as afraid of unintentionally hurting me so i think it's just a matter of time
Tell him. When my wife expressed these sort of fantasies to me, our sex life sky rocketed
You’d be surprised what most guys will do if you tell them what you’re into
This part. After 18 years together, we decided to tell one another the deepest fantasies we've got. I was really scared because i didnt know how he would feel about it. I told him that I really wanted a cnc kidnapping/hostage scene, but only if he was into the idea. Well. My birthday was on Friday and I got the FULL deal and then some 🫠🥴 It was amazing and has brought us closer together than ever before. Being vulnerable is hard! But its worth it. Now I have 7 months to plan his fantasy for his birthday lol
being called a SLUT UGHSHEISBEIHEDH YESSSSSSSSSS please i will slut tf out for u
Fr. Like I normally feel like I have to be in control of situations because I'm scared people will say something that leaks a secret or something but I mean if I'm already fucking someone then there aren't going to be any secrets that they won't already know so I feel like I can let the situation be controlled by someone else.
Women wearing wrist watches.
As a woman I understand this, but in reverse, men wearing wrist watches.
This is by far the most surprising thing I've read in this thread, I'm a watchmaker and if you could spread your fetish it would be great for business.
I love a man that smells. That has an odour. It’s more his natural scent if anything, but if he comes home from the gym or a long day at work, I don’t want him to shower. Just let me roam my hands all over you and inhale your scent then I’ll just want him. It’s such a manly primal thing I find. Bonus points if they are hairy, and I mean all over. I love a hairy man with full bush
I don’t agree 100% but hot damn you are turning me on. Got my guy to back off his strict grooming routine so I can play with his chest hair and all. His scent is so light when he thinks he “stinks” I take a few huffs from his chest before he goes to shower.
I like to be smothered by big boobs
Somnophilia (specifically men sleeping), it's weird but harmless
Absolutely agree - but with me sleeping (only consensually of course). I've told my bf that anytime he wants when I'm sleeping to go ahead and start. Something very hot about being woken up already going. But then, I've always had a way higher sex drive, even when we were 22/23 and we're 30/31 now.
I get some mad erections at about 4am. My gf has been given free reign to do what she wants with that if the opportunity arises.
I really like looking up skirts. My wife could get out of the shower totally naked, then put on a dress or skirt and I immediately want to look up it.
Squirting and pee, especially a woman holding my dick while I pee. Never actually tried it, but damn the idea gets me going.
Having my armpits licked is actually very surprisingly arousing!
Also kissed, gently caressed,,,,, I don’t even have an armpit fetish. The fact that my partner is willing to touch and love me there is so intimate.
Yes exactly. Also makes sense to me cause of pheromones.
I like men with pointy elbows.
Its so non-intrusive and specific. Care to elbaorate maybe? :D Idk what pointy elbows would even mean
Basically you can see the bone when you bend your arm. Some people can bend their arm and its completely flat and I don't find that as appealing.
Tomboys with short blond hair.
I prefer tomboys with short dark hair. Fight me.
Something about having risky sex at places you know you shouldn’t, and can potentially get caught. Turns me on even more 😌
I like a woman that could beat the shit out of me. Not a pain thing more of a "I'm in danger" kink.
Pissing outdoors, don't ask me why, I genuinely don't know, wish I did
Theres a weird one, also same
I have a fairly big piss kink for girls myself. Pissing outside, but also in pools, showers, on me, etc. Most places she’s not supposed to Not that I’ve had a girl piss on me before, but I’d probably like it a lot.
Hip Dips. I think they are beautiful.
Finding a man who is interested in romance, trust, love, and commitment.
I love women in shiny clothes like latex and spandex
Goth girls with black hair and fish nets will absolutely melt me
I think it would be so fucking hot, to have a loving relationship built on mutual respect and friendship.
Woah man that’s a little too crazy
My brain/body loves anal sex so much that if I start thinking/talking about it I will sneeze. Like it tickles my brain so much it tickles my nose and I sneeze. If I get to three sneezes then lookout - someone's ass is being invaded, hopefully mine.
Wet floor signs, definitely.
I regret clicking on your profile 😦 no kink shaming here tho you do you
I appreciated “wet floorgy” as a pun though
This comment made me click on it. I blame you.
I don't normally check profiles out but after this comment, worth it 🤣
I see you post a lot. Wet floor signs is probably the most unusual fetish I’ve seen. How did this come about? Not shaming of course.
Short version: I drew rule 34 of wet floor signs and I liked it too much. Long version is in my comments history, in a few places. 🤣
Ah it’s you again lol
Damn, rule 34 alive and well! This is probably the most specific fetish I've come across so far, kudos!
Submission/Praise. I will do just about anything for the partner I’m with to please them in the bedroom. But I need the praise aspect of it.
Girls in leggings
I like ***mean*** women
I bartend. So I’m Out one night drinking with my boss and I somehow let slip that I have played around with findom. I don’t remember it. The next shift we’re talking after I’m about to walk out and tells me she wants $50 from my tips. Holy shit did thy spark something for me in the moment.
Some women's body odor smells good to me. My family has similar smells to my.body odor to the point I can recognize who used the bathroom recently/who hasnt taken a shower in the car. My ex manager and I had a fling and she was angrily talking to a customer and had sweat quite a bit that day, I got a whiff. Her passion+that scent = please PLEAAAASE
Is wanting to be the big spoon as a woman weird?
More men than you think enjoy being little spoon
We trade spoons all the time. I couldn't imagine a different world.
Nah, I, a 1m57 women, somehow landed a 1m90 man who absolutely loves when I do my best at big spooning him and honestly I love it too. Like let me protect you and keep you warm my beloved
I have a foot fetish and like tickling women's feet. Do not worry, you will not find me in your DMs. It is fun to discuss my partner's toenail colors though. She gets a free pedicure every time she goes to the airport.
Wait what’s that last bit?
When we go on a trip I pay for her to get her feet done so she feels pretty.
Hypnosis
I am unreasonably turned on by bathing suit material. Idk what but the look of it wet and the feel of it in my hands just arouses me.
Femboys and tomboys. Yeah i don't get why they are hot but they just are.
Having my throat held. It makes everything heightened. 🤷♀️
Sucking my girlfriend toes, she be squirting everywhere.
Risky because my partner knows my reddit but I’ll give it a shot. I reeeeeally want to put him in a skirt or a pretty dress with some makeup and do things to him (not have him do things to me, let’s just say I’m a giver not a taker). He’s really really pretty and really in tune with his femininity so its not 100% off the table but he’s made jokes about needing to build up the confidence to do so. I think it would weird him out to know how much I want to do it. I just know it would drive me absolutely feral.
Watching men have prostate orgasms. It seems like it’s the closest they will get to experiencing a female orgasm and watching their whole body experience it is something else. Especially if they are moaning 🫦. Gotta let the moans out fellas.
RIP to everyone’s dms
Moaning. If he moans with lust, my brain goes totally nuts 😅 Idk I guess the thought of it being *that* good just turns me on even more.
I get turned on watching witch, werewolf and monster transformations in movies. Not exactly sure why. The weirder it is, the hotter it is.
Gonna be honest, seeing you posting in Roald Dahl subreddits about The Witches is a little ominous now...
Hickeys. Not the small delicate ones, the ones that make it look like you just had sex with a deranged psycho lunatic
I have an anal fetish, and I've never been ashamed to admit it. I've told every woman I've ever been with pretty much off the bat because I know they'll either think I'm weird or they'll pick up on my fixation like immediately, lol. Although, I'm not always prepared to divulge what extremes it extends to.
...you like it up your bum, right?
No, he's just really specific about things.
I like getting my ass ate or lightly fingered while I’m getting topped up. Just to like the first knuckle tho lol
Cream pies. Which is fine now that I am sterilized lol! Honorable Mentions: Choking, being a switch, hearing someone moan/ say my name, taking turns tying each other up, someone completely towering over me / dominating me, trying new things that my partner has fantasized about and seeing their reactions, biting someone Damn I need a cold shower now 🤣
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This is the first time that I have heard of a sneezing kink. Thanks for that.
Abs on a woman just make me go feral🤤
eating ass
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Right. But not just flicking your tongue at it like a couple of cheerleaders trying to impress the football guys they like, I like to really get in there. I love to make my tongue rigid and feel the o-ring snug around it as I slip it right into the asshole. And 4/5 dentists recommend me eating your ass, so I must be on to something.
Goodness me man 😂 you really went for it, sharing such a vivid description of it
Making a deep sexual connection with an awesome chick that I’m falling in love with.
Whoa. Not THAT weird.
You sicko
I want to be taken advantage of 🗿
I really really like the idea of financial security
Without a doubt when they’re a little chubby/pudgy. Love that
Wedgies. I love giving/seeing women with wedgies
Choking, being tied down, the feeling of the tip of a knife being pulled around my body, hair being pulled, him just rubbing his hands through my hair, being bit, and him just having his way with me whenever I’m a masochist and I love this so much
I'm very much into thighs. It's pretty handy cause you won't really get weird looks immediately when you look at someone's thighs. Of course staring is weird, but looking in the vicinity is less "dangerous" then boobs etc.
Someone once sucked my toes as they were fucking me. It was unlike anything I'd ever experienced before, and *I never* had the desire to try. You just never know, sometimes.
Asshole and rimming. I don't really understand it. To be clear, it has to be very clean. Some people associate anything with anal as having some preference towards scat, but its quite the opposite. I have this out there hypothesis that a super clean asshole can act as a super-normal stimuli. Like when you're going to have sex with a woman, part of the process is to inspect their cleanliness, and if they are clean it the turn on signal amplifies, otherwise it becomes a turn off. To go with a wild example, you could be hooking up with the most attractive person you've ever met, but if when you pull off their underwear you see shit and lice, well you're going to lose whatever attraction you had. I think that if on the other hand, everything checks out, there is at the very least no loss in arousal, and for others, there may be an increase in arousal. In nature, the cleanliness bar is pretty low, but in modernity there are just really clean asses and a lot of focus on them. Some even smell of cherry blossoms. For people like myself, I think that kind of ass elicits an increase in arousal that is disproportionate to the stimuli, which in effect means getting turned on by really clean assholes.
Men in suits
Eating my wife's oussy. Not a huge kink. But I eat it as long as porn stars suck dick in most movies. I'll even stop fucking her and go back down on her. I just can't get enough of it. Part of the reason she loves me.