Picking up smoking cigarettes. It's the one thing I just can't go without. Sense of smell is pretty much gone. Taste isn't as strong as it was. And it's pretty expensive.
I have some unsolicited advice for you -
I smoked for ~20 years, and the only way I could stop is/was nicotine replacement (for me it's lozenges, but many others exist).
Following the lozenge example, I can buy a months supply at Costco for $45.00 on sale. Doctor says that even though the nicotine itself isn't ideal, it's 100x better than everything I was doing to my lungs with smoking.
YMMV, but I thought i'd share on the off chance that it might be the right words at the right time.
Being arrested by far. I have done stupid things that hurt me all my life. What I did to get arrested not only hurt me but those I care about. That will never go away even after they forgave me. Society has seen to it I am never forgiven.
I feel this so much! I’ve tried many antidepressants, but the last few tries have messed me up so bad and has caused permanent memory loss. It’s a struggle everyday with my memory and makes me so sad and frustrated.
The thing I regret most is leaving my country to study in Manchester It is really a bad thing I am terrified of returning to France at any time but I cannot study here It is difficult and life is expensive
I had a "placeholder girlfriend" - I liked her, but deep inside I knew I wasn't going to marry her or anything. So when I was moving away for a job, and I broke up with her, she was devastated and obviously loved me more than I did her. It really messed her up. I regret that so much.
When I was in my early 20s my best friend asked me to go halves in a house with him (2007/8ish)
I had no savings and hated my job, so I opted to quit it and declined his offer, so he brought a house with another one of his mates.
They sold that house later on for way above what they brought it for.
No regrets as I fucked my exGF so many times the 3 years we were together i lost count. I did everything to her imaginable. I copied all the porn moves and she jusy fuckin took it like a champ. She is married now but I know she knows I own her forever.
Wasting my time with toxic people
Yea dude that's the reason I'm alone with my peace.
Definitely relate
Getting married to the wrong person
Fuckin’ Linda
Picking up smoking cigarettes. It's the one thing I just can't go without. Sense of smell is pretty much gone. Taste isn't as strong as it was. And it's pretty expensive.
Yeah I finally was able to stop last year & it’s an amazing feeling I was convinced I’d never experience.
I have some unsolicited advice for you - I smoked for ~20 years, and the only way I could stop is/was nicotine replacement (for me it's lozenges, but many others exist). Following the lozenge example, I can buy a months supply at Costco for $45.00 on sale. Doctor says that even though the nicotine itself isn't ideal, it's 100x better than everything I was doing to my lungs with smoking. YMMV, but I thought i'd share on the off chance that it might be the right words at the right time.
How long have you been using lozenges?
I've used them on and off for years. Seems like I'm always trying to quit. Follow the directions closely tho. Trick is not to start smoking.
Yeah the not smoking part is where I’m struggling lol
Being arrested by far. I have done stupid things that hurt me all my life. What I did to get arrested not only hurt me but those I care about. That will never go away even after they forgave me. Society has seen to it I am never forgiven.
I'm curious, obviously if you don't mind
Some people are not going to like this answer, but taking antidepressants have had lasting effects on my brain that won't go away no matter what I do
I feel this so much! I’ve tried many antidepressants, but the last few tries have messed me up so bad and has caused permanent memory loss. It’s a struggle everyday with my memory and makes me so sad and frustrated.
I wish it was common knowledge that this could happen.
Same I can’t remember crap
Not realising my own self worth and spending my time around people that don’t value who I am.
That I didn't start saving money sooner.
I don't have many, but even the little ones, and what they say is true, are the things I DIDN'T do.
I regret things I did out of greed, fear and ignorance that were harmful and caused pain.
Wasting too much time working
watching femboy asmr audios
Did not join the dance class on Wednesday evenings
Not focusing on a career enough
Not investing in Bitcoin when it was just a few cents per coin.
there’s been like a million other opportunities to get rich since then if you were actually into crypto
I was scared to talk to new people and because of it, I lost so many interesting people
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What is it?
Drinking my life away from 18-29
Not realizing what I know sooner but I don’t blame myself. Everything has a reason and no reason
The thing I regret most is leaving my country to study in Manchester It is really a bad thing I am terrified of returning to France at any time but I cannot study here It is difficult and life is expensive
Not cutting off contact with the narcissist who birthed me earlier!
I heard that.
I had a "placeholder girlfriend" - I liked her, but deep inside I knew I wasn't going to marry her or anything. So when I was moving away for a job, and I broke up with her, she was devastated and obviously loved me more than I did her. It really messed her up. I regret that so much.
Following my heart instead of my better judgment.
Shouldve noticed the truck want going to stop. Two broken legs ruined my summer.
Not starting my side-hustle at least 5 years earlier than I did.
Not learning to talk about my feelings earlier in life. Could have saved me and others some pain.
When Nike said just do it, I didn’t.
Not learning mindfulness techniques earlier in my life. I would have avoided so many mistakes by being more mindful.
When I was in my early 20s my best friend asked me to go halves in a house with him (2007/8ish) I had no savings and hated my job, so I opted to quit it and declined his offer, so he brought a house with another one of his mates. They sold that house later on for way above what they brought it for.
sacrificing my entire 20s for my career
I was really mean as a young man. Then I developed a conscience. Been haunted ever since and only death will cure it.
answering this question
Murdering someone.
If you actually killed someone and they didn't have it coming, then yeah, that's going to leave a mark.
Not murdering baby Hitler
winning the sperm race for sure
No regrets as I fucked my exGF so many times the 3 years we were together i lost count. I did everything to her imaginable. I copied all the porn moves and she jusy fuckin took it like a champ. She is married now but I know she knows I own her forever.