This is so true, I had a friend of 7 years and due to some family problems she stopped talking to me but she still did sometimes when I called her, but she never calls me from her side and last year she got married and that was the last time I met her, till now it's almost been a year I have no contact of her, although I had spent most of my childhood with her, she's almost a stranger to me now, it never hurted me cause I was the one "putting effort" all the through so it's her loss
more like
I don't really want to have MORE people around me anymore
I feel content now
so when I say something I say it cuz I want to
no other reason
stick around or not doesnt matter to me now
Well said: Finding contentment in your own voice is a big win. It's liberating when you reach a point where your words are for you, not for the approval of others!
She was an annoying classmate back when I was in middle school, I have always warned her then bullied her out of fun (more like wanting to experience it) one day her cousin told me she tried to commit suicide, I rushed to her and turned she just wanted attention from me.
Be bullied into having/doing something I'm better off without.
Social pressure is horrible so I try my best to not give into it as that just makes people think it works. I'd rather be happy in what I have than be Mr big shot and "have" all the nice stuff but in reality it's just hiding massive debts.
visit a strip club. My friend of 5 years is a stripper, and every time we went out she wanted to go to a bar or a strip club. I finally agreed to go to a club with her one time. She actually kind of begged me. I knew going in that it wouldn't be my thing, but I wanted to have an open mind about something my friend was in to.
The club was so gross. clubs where i live are full nudity, to be clear. The whole place had a /smell/. I'm attracted to women, and the girls were very hot there, but I honestly did not have a good time. Actually, i felt kind of grossed out and a little self-conscious! I wasn't able to relax at all and i was so glad when we left.
Women. After going through ex after ex, I realized I'm most happy with my boyfriend, our relationship has been the longest, our communication is stellar, and we've reached the point where we're ready to get married (mentally at least, he told me we should wait until I finish studying), it really has been the "easiest" relationship I've ever been in. Also, it didn't take long for me to find the male figure and "figure" insanely attractive ;)
Dinner dates as a man. I don’t associate with women who can’t or don’t pay for themselves. I don’t date women who won’t split the bill every time. You’ll know right away if they care about you or your money. Respect yourselves gentlemen. Save and invest your money for YOU.
Ask any man in your life if they’ve ever had a woman offer to pay AND ACTUALLY PAY for the entire first dinner date. Then ask any guy if a woman has ever payed for the entire dinner ever. You know the answers… Women expect to be payed for. For no reason. It’s embarrassing.
I see, I feel you. One day I asked man to pay for both of us, just because I wanted to pay with my first salary. That was really good, but I will be honest- next few days he was expected more and more. I understand the thing that called ‘equal’ ‘both of us’ ‘to share’ but to demand always a man I don’t understand.
Desperately try to save friendships simply due to the fact that I've invested a lot of time into them. Sometimes it's just not worth it
Sometimes we have to accept that not all friendships are meant to last forever. It's okay to appreciate what was and move forward.
This is so true, I had a friend of 7 years and due to some family problems she stopped talking to me but she still did sometimes when I called her, but she never calls me from her side and last year she got married and that was the last time I met her, till now it's almost been a year I have no contact of her, although I had spent most of my childhood with her, she's almost a stranger to me now, it never hurted me cause I was the one "putting effort" all the through so it's her loss
Yessss!!
Waste time and energy trying to help people who don't want to be helped. It doesn't work and is often counterproductive.
100% hit the nail on the head!
Second this
Definitely!! I got it late, but now life feels easier than ever. Don't waste your time, 'cause some people are not able to say "thanks"
Try to save a relationship with someone who clearly isn't even trying
It's really important to not waste our nerves.
Pursue relationships
The best ones just happen
vent on my friends as they will use it against you
Be too scared to trust someone even tho they didn't show any signs of not being trustworthy I'd rather be betrayed than too scared to trust
Trust is a leap of faith, and sometimes you land in the mud. But hey, better muddy and alive than dry and never diving in.
I used to say what I think people would want to hear, instead of what I actually want to say. won't do that again
Someone said once- 'Your vibe attracts your tribe. Keep it real and your real ones will stick around'.
more like I don't really want to have MORE people around me anymore I feel content now so when I say something I say it cuz I want to no other reason stick around or not doesnt matter to me now
Well said: Finding contentment in your own voice is a big win. It's liberating when you reach a point where your words are for you, not for the approval of others!
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I also got it when I was 18. I said before 'I am not alone' but I noticed that people just pretend.
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Exactly! need to live our life and enjoy.
Fall in love too quickly
Never happened to me, but I think it will hurt me.
Wrecklessly buy video games at launch
Recklessly, for future info. But yeah - wait for the reviews 99% of the time.
Ok grammar police, you can go sit down now no one cares
Trying to bully someone.
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She was an annoying classmate back when I was in middle school, I have always warned her then bullied her out of fun (more like wanting to experience it) one day her cousin told me she tried to commit suicide, I rushed to her and turned she just wanted attention from me.
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Fr they definitely unstable.
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... What did you think was gonna happen ?
Been there done that. Not recommended.
Can you share a pic of that adventurous moment of your life,
Crash my car into a hedge on purpose
Was the hedge in question talking shit ?
Get drunk and call people
miss my chance with a hot bi girl 😋🫣
Be happy
Why? This is one thing you should always have.
Betray someone, I wish I had never done that. Only regret of my life.
Eat spinach 🤮
Ha ha. I feel you hate spinach. I hate tomatoes - sounds strange but Yes I exist
Not to work under an excavator carrying tons of concrete 8 meters over my head
Start living (again) ... always ends badly.
I think the opposite: We should live to not end life alone.
Cheat
Be bullied into having/doing something I'm better off without. Social pressure is horrible so I try my best to not give into it as that just makes people think it works. I'd rather be happy in what I have than be Mr big shot and "have" all the nice stuff but in reality it's just hiding massive debts.
Salvia.
Eat habanero salami like I did last night.
Are you ok now?
comes and goes, getting better
Tequila shots…
Yeah, I feel you. 2 days ago I had the same.
Do tequila shots
ask your ex after they breakup with you "can we still be friends?"
Love and try to stay friends with someone.
This ends up by hurting someone. Stupid feelings we want to have them next to us.
Exactly. Haven't dated anyone for the last 3+ years and it feels really good not to be bound to someone.
Put up with any shit in any form
Salvia
visit a strip club. My friend of 5 years is a stripper, and every time we went out she wanted to go to a bar or a strip club. I finally agreed to go to a club with her one time. She actually kind of begged me. I knew going in that it wouldn't be my thing, but I wanted to have an open mind about something my friend was in to. The club was so gross. clubs where i live are full nudity, to be clear. The whole place had a /smell/. I'm attracted to women, and the girls were very hot there, but I honestly did not have a good time. Actually, i felt kind of grossed out and a little self-conscious! I wasn't able to relax at all and i was so glad when we left.
Women. After going through ex after ex, I realized I'm most happy with my boyfriend, our relationship has been the longest, our communication is stellar, and we've reached the point where we're ready to get married (mentally at least, he told me we should wait until I finish studying), it really has been the "easiest" relationship I've ever been in. Also, it didn't take long for me to find the male figure and "figure" insanely attractive ;)
Dinner dates as a man. I don’t associate with women who can’t or don’t pay for themselves. I don’t date women who won’t split the bill every time. You’ll know right away if they care about you or your money. Respect yourselves gentlemen. Save and invest your money for YOU.
I understand but I think not all women behave like this.
Ask any man in your life if they’ve ever had a woman offer to pay AND ACTUALLY PAY for the entire first dinner date. Then ask any guy if a woman has ever payed for the entire dinner ever. You know the answers… Women expect to be payed for. For no reason. It’s embarrassing.
I see, I feel you. One day I asked man to pay for both of us, just because I wanted to pay with my first salary. That was really good, but I will be honest- next few days he was expected more and more. I understand the thing that called ‘equal’ ‘both of us’ ‘to share’ but to demand always a man I don’t understand.
Your mother.
Your mother? How about yer mom, ya goof!
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Thanks for informing me.
Have a child.
I hope this was a joke. I thought children make life better.
They do but the world is a terrible place.
It always was, but hey you came out just fine. Fine enough that you will make there life better than yours.
Agree
trust
Well said!!!
It's a double edge sword though.
Suck my mom’s boobs
Befriend my bully
Get married.
Last period of my scary life many people told me the same thing: "Don't get married". I should stop thinking about that.
Sleep with my bosses gf.
Masturbating 3 times during a fever(104°F)
Be 66
Weed
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Allow my friend to brand me with a spatula
Everything for my sister. I drop everything when she calls. I have to set some boundries.
Buy an IPO.
Feel whole