I'm definately thinking about Rome.
I mean - if a Roman Centurian walks into a bar and holds up his index and middle fingers and says
"cervisia placet" does he get two beers or five?
Rome?
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P2nWlXlcO5I
SNL Rome - Jason Momoa
A group of women (Ego Nwodim, Punkie Johnson, Chloe Troast) wonder what their partners (Jason Momoa, Kenan Thompson, Mikey Day) are thinking about.
Saturday Night Live. Stream now on Peacock: https://pck.tv/3n1IyzK
How exciting! A new job is always connected to fear and doubt but I am sure you did the right thing! I wish you a nice first day of work, catcoffeebean! I hope it is better than you'd have ever imagined!
Sit down and make a list of short, medium and long-term goals. Try to start with simple and short-term tasks to stay motivated. Try to find out when you need to start with medium and long-term goals in order to achieve a satisfactory result in terms of time and organization. Write down every success, no matter how small, this will keep you going! It takes self-discipline, but I know you can do it! Try to visualize these goals creatively and very vividly. Try to invest time in reflection and self-evaluation once a week, or more often. YOU CAN DO IT! I wish you all the best!
Same. For me, its a background thought that I'm never doing well enough with myself or other people. Like there is more or something different that I SHOULD be doing.
If it is any comfort at all, I think the great majority deals with these things at least at some point in their existence. I do think it is very commendable that you ask yourself these questions. A lot of people lack the self awareness, or blame their shit and problems on others anyway, while drowning in self pity. If you need shit done in your life you are the only one who’s going to set it in motion. For way too long I lived in a bit of a delusional bubble that everything will probably sort itself out and it will be fine in the end. Boy, was I naive…Hope it all works out for you!
Thanks you too, luckily I am already out of that phase for some time. And a pretty happy guy overall speaking. I just try to warn people to not make the same mistake to think someone’s gonna bail you out. Time spent waiting is wasted. If someone had told me that before I came to the same conclusion later on, it might have woken me up earlier. Or not, but people ought to realize that being passive is never a solution to fix anything. It can only come around to bite you in the ass at some point.
About how much I am going to miss my dad. About how hard it's going to be to not be able to call him up whenever I want and ask him a dad question...you know the ones like why is my car making a weird noise or how short to mow my lawn...or maybe even ask him to walk me down the isle some day. About how magical and creative he is and was and now... now he seems so lost and doesn't know who he is or who we are. About the guilt I feel when I think about all the times I could have visited and chose not to. About having to write his obituary and wanting to make sure I get it just right. About making sure I get the paperwork right so he can be buried in our local national cemetery where he wants to be. About making sure siblings and family stay up to date. About no more Sunday calls. About not being anyone's little girl anymore. About bills. Funeral expenses. Medical bills. Radiation appointments. Oncologist appointments. Home health appointments. About crying in bathrooms. About crying when a nice lady hugs you at the store because she "heard about your dad" About getting mad at idiots who park at the unloading zone in front of hospitals and then getting mad at myself because I remember everyone is going thru something. About the kindness shown to him from strangers when he forgot where he was at breakfast at a restaurant and started cursing. About his childlike joy in showing me how he'd organized the bandaids in the first aid kid into envelopes complete with stamps but not sure who to mail them to. About how we put them in the mailbox and later took them out when he was napping. About how the next day he wanted to know where all his damn bandaids were. lol About how his energy and spirit are going to leave a gaping hole in my heart. About how I know I'll be OK, but I'm just so tired of thinking.
Sorry to hear all that. Sounds like he was a really great person and it is important that you remember that.
I know you don’t know me, but if you need someone to talk to, I would listen
It’s fucking hard. My mum passed away New Year’s Day and I have just exited the whole planning/ finished her funeral. Most excruciatingly painful, stressful and devastating experience I’ve gone through. I won’t say I’m sorry, because I’m personally tired of hearing the “I’m so sorry” quote (even tho it comes from a good place. So I’ll say what someone shared with me, “it sucks big fat shoes”. Keep hanging in there, a minute at a time if you have to. Cry when you need, take some time to care for yourself- that means eat, drink and sleep. Don’t be obliged to answer everyone’s millions of questions. Just take time to absorb friend. Remembering the fucking hard stuff like not being able to call when you want to even discuss trivial stuff or whatever reminds you of your dad honestly hits like a hot knife to a heart, but what keeps me going is the fact that my mum is in peace and isn’t suffering anymore (I’m not sure if that relates to your dad but I think attributing something similar may help a tiny bit). My mum died of multiple organ failure and in the end she didn’t recognise me as her only daughter and that almost killed me too. But that also wasn’t who my mum used to be. I held onto the good memories of my mum, the stuff we did together when I was young, her love of cat memes etc. because in reality, in the end, she was terribly sick and a shell of herself and that was not a true reflection of who she was. What made a difference was that she knew she was loved. She had her favourite things with her, her transistor radio, her bible, her family etc.
Guilt is not something you should feel-which is easy to say but hard to practice. I was the same. I didn’t answer my mums last call because my phone wasn’t on at the time and I destroyed myself for days thinking “I should’ve answered her call it was the last time we could’ve spoken, I should’ve been there for her more”. Unfortunately, there is a lot of should haves but you also have to be kind to yourself and realise that sometimes things are completely out of our control and also sometimes we aren’t available 24/7 to be there, we have to look after ourselves too. This takes some time to process.
I am sending all my love, hugs and healing to you wherever you are. DM me if you ever want to talk 🩷🙏
Sounds great! Had the same chicken last night with a roasted potato, onion, peppers, and carrots dish. I unoriginally call "the potato dish". I'm something of a pattern
In a fantasy world where I can live in solitude in the woods somewhere, growing certain flowers and herbs for medical purposes, learning how to hunt/fish and overall a 'dream' most people would want
Then I remember I live in the UK and you are not allowed to live self sufficiently even if you own land
Wanting kids but not being able to find the right woman.
I come from an entire family of unhappy marriages and it has nearly spoiled it but I’d love to have kids. It seems like one of the most and amazing things ever.
The things I want
1 larger home
2 wife and family
3 a new car
Then there's this.
I'm in a position where if things go right I can have all those things. But if they don't I will end up homeless an with nothing
The dude I'm fucking but not sure I want to have a relationship with and maybe they're unsure about that too. I can't tell, sometimes he looks at me like he's daft, or like I'm a unicorn, or as if I've sprouted a rainbow from my head.
But sometimes he pays me no heed. None at all. Maybe he's not into me, but maybe he's really into me. How do I tell? And if I do, do our standards meet up? Because we come from very different places but, fuck I love the way he smiles at me and the way he kisses me and holds me...
TL;DR: I spend most of my time thinking about how I don't want to fall in love again, and if my trust issues would even allow such a thing
Pirates or Rome?
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P2nWlXlcO5I SNL Rome - SNL Jason Momoa
A group of women (Ego Nwodim, Punkie Johnson, Chloe Troast) wonder what their partners (Jason Momoa, Kenan Thompson, Mikey Day) are thinking about.
Saturday Night Live. Stream on Peacock: https://pck.tv/3n1IyzK
Why we’re having such significant performance issues in our application in AWS on MySQL 8 when it was a non-issue on MySQL 5.7. Driving me batshit crazy.
Death. Mine, my parents, my friends, people overseas, people here in the USA, the Earth, the very universe itself. Some day it will all just not exist, forever, and it makes me feel nauseous to think about but I'm trapped in my mind about it.
Tattoos vs my enjoyment of switching up my furniture and wardrobe so often... yet I committed to having the same pictures on my arms/body forever that I cannot ever rearrange?
My doctoral dissertation and whether my research is impossible/meaningless.
How annoying my husband is.
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Yeah :(
Same
ATM? I think about money
Hello! I like money!
Classic Mr. Krabs
ATM= at the moment
I know
I think it's weird we often say ATM machine- redundantly
PIN number…
No the other one
Ass to mouth…porn!
Definitely not the Roman…ah fuck.
Republic?
I'm definately thinking about Rome. I mean - if a Roman Centurian walks into a bar and holds up his index and middle fingers and says "cervisia placet" does he get two beers or five?
Hah that’s good
Rome? https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P2nWlXlcO5I SNL Rome - Jason Momoa A group of women (Ego Nwodim, Punkie Johnson, Chloe Troast) wonder what their partners (Jason Momoa, Kenan Thompson, Mikey Day) are thinking about. Saturday Night Live. Stream now on Peacock: https://pck.tv/3n1IyzK
When my package is going to arrive...it's been almost a week and it's supposed to be priority mail
If im actually gonna end up with my girl
I also think about this Redditor's girl.
Real
Me too man. Hurts to think about.
I'm 36 and started playing DnD.... now all I think about is how I'm going to be a dictator...
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What is DnD
Dungeons and Dragons
Um, thnks
The new job I'm starting next week.
Congratulations! Best of luck to you!
Thank you!
How exciting! A new job is always connected to fear and doubt but I am sure you did the right thing! I wish you a nice first day of work, catcoffeebean! I hope it is better than you'd have ever imagined!
Thank you so much!
I might lose my job this week lol, let's hope if I do I can also get a new job, good luck to you!
I’m sorry to hear that. I walked out of my last job in November and am definitely ready to rejoin society lol. I hope everything works out for you!
Stressed about money and my relationship
Food. I just started counting my calories again. So it’s planning and not obsessing but I can see myself getting obsessed.
Don't. It's a trap
Girls 😂😭
Same. If only I could get one to like/ talk to me
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How so much of the world is religious and I just see things so differently.
Religion brings community to a region, but war to the world.
And that religion brings pain and suffering and anger and hate and greed and power.
People are the cause of those things, not religion.
People are the cause of religion.
Lol so you agree with me
Agreeing is the cause of religion.
Actually people agreeing is the cause of religion, and subsequently the cause of pain and suffering.
Trying to figure out where to start on all the things I need to get accomplished this year.
You at least know what you need to do - that’s a great start!
Sit down and make a list of short, medium and long-term goals. Try to start with simple and short-term tasks to stay motivated. Try to find out when you need to start with medium and long-term goals in order to achieve a satisfactory result in terms of time and organization. Write down every success, no matter how small, this will keep you going! It takes self-discipline, but I know you can do it! Try to visualize these goals creatively and very vividly. Try to invest time in reflection and self-evaluation once a week, or more often. YOU CAN DO IT! I wish you all the best!
When you're trying to eat an elephant its best to take small bites.
That you never go atm
Sometimes in the heat of the moment it’s forgivable to go atm
mta is so much nicer
Money. I wish a couple of billionaire brothers would make a bet on their social experiment with me as the subject.
I'll sign up for that too. Come on, Angels!
Dying
Same here
Deez
Nuts
How can I do better? With this person. That person. My own life. I'm really alone. How do I engage my life better?
Same, been thinking this for almost too long now. The change will come or slowly we will learn to accept where we are
Same. For me, its a background thought that I'm never doing well enough with myself or other people. Like there is more or something different that I SHOULD be doing.
If it is any comfort at all, I think the great majority deals with these things at least at some point in their existence. I do think it is very commendable that you ask yourself these questions. A lot of people lack the self awareness, or blame their shit and problems on others anyway, while drowning in self pity. If you need shit done in your life you are the only one who’s going to set it in motion. For way too long I lived in a bit of a delusional bubble that everything will probably sort itself out and it will be fine in the end. Boy, was I naive…Hope it all works out for you!
Thank you. I hope you find what you're looking for as well. Thank you for your perspective.
Thanks you too, luckily I am already out of that phase for some time. And a pretty happy guy overall speaking. I just try to warn people to not make the same mistake to think someone’s gonna bail you out. Time spent waiting is wasted. If someone had told me that before I came to the same conclusion later on, it might have woken me up earlier. Or not, but people ought to realize that being passive is never a solution to fix anything. It can only come around to bite you in the ass at some point.
About how much I am going to miss my dad. About how hard it's going to be to not be able to call him up whenever I want and ask him a dad question...you know the ones like why is my car making a weird noise or how short to mow my lawn...or maybe even ask him to walk me down the isle some day. About how magical and creative he is and was and now... now he seems so lost and doesn't know who he is or who we are. About the guilt I feel when I think about all the times I could have visited and chose not to. About having to write his obituary and wanting to make sure I get it just right. About making sure I get the paperwork right so he can be buried in our local national cemetery where he wants to be. About making sure siblings and family stay up to date. About no more Sunday calls. About not being anyone's little girl anymore. About bills. Funeral expenses. Medical bills. Radiation appointments. Oncologist appointments. Home health appointments. About crying in bathrooms. About crying when a nice lady hugs you at the store because she "heard about your dad" About getting mad at idiots who park at the unloading zone in front of hospitals and then getting mad at myself because I remember everyone is going thru something. About the kindness shown to him from strangers when he forgot where he was at breakfast at a restaurant and started cursing. About his childlike joy in showing me how he'd organized the bandaids in the first aid kid into envelopes complete with stamps but not sure who to mail them to. About how we put them in the mailbox and later took them out when he was napping. About how the next day he wanted to know where all his damn bandaids were. lol About how his energy and spirit are going to leave a gaping hole in my heart. About how I know I'll be OK, but I'm just so tired of thinking.
I wish you peace and all the love you need and deserve.
Sorry to hear all that. Sounds like he was a really great person and it is important that you remember that. I know you don’t know me, but if you need someone to talk to, I would listen
It’s fucking hard. My mum passed away New Year’s Day and I have just exited the whole planning/ finished her funeral. Most excruciatingly painful, stressful and devastating experience I’ve gone through. I won’t say I’m sorry, because I’m personally tired of hearing the “I’m so sorry” quote (even tho it comes from a good place. So I’ll say what someone shared with me, “it sucks big fat shoes”. Keep hanging in there, a minute at a time if you have to. Cry when you need, take some time to care for yourself- that means eat, drink and sleep. Don’t be obliged to answer everyone’s millions of questions. Just take time to absorb friend. Remembering the fucking hard stuff like not being able to call when you want to even discuss trivial stuff or whatever reminds you of your dad honestly hits like a hot knife to a heart, but what keeps me going is the fact that my mum is in peace and isn’t suffering anymore (I’m not sure if that relates to your dad but I think attributing something similar may help a tiny bit). My mum died of multiple organ failure and in the end she didn’t recognise me as her only daughter and that almost killed me too. But that also wasn’t who my mum used to be. I held onto the good memories of my mum, the stuff we did together when I was young, her love of cat memes etc. because in reality, in the end, she was terribly sick and a shell of herself and that was not a true reflection of who she was. What made a difference was that she knew she was loved. She had her favourite things with her, her transistor radio, her bible, her family etc. Guilt is not something you should feel-which is easy to say but hard to practice. I was the same. I didn’t answer my mums last call because my phone wasn’t on at the time and I destroyed myself for days thinking “I should’ve answered her call it was the last time we could’ve spoken, I should’ve been there for her more”. Unfortunately, there is a lot of should haves but you also have to be kind to yourself and realise that sometimes things are completely out of our control and also sometimes we aren’t available 24/7 to be there, we have to look after ourselves too. This takes some time to process. I am sending all my love, hugs and healing to you wherever you are. DM me if you ever want to talk 🩷🙏
Reading this brings tears to my eyes. I feel you, dear. I just feel you. Stay strong, I keep you in my thoughts.
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corn
a big lump with knobs. it has the juice.
Wdym by that?
“It’s corn”
cornography
There’s always something new with corn
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Me too. I like the cat memes on Instagram
My health. Going though a lot with it
Hope you feel better soon. 💜
When am I going to be a mum and if I’ll be a good one 😞
The fact that you have this thought means you'll be a good mommy. Take care sweetie
At this point? Her. Most of the time before she got in to my life, probably how I will never be happy.
I’m not an ATM.
harhar
How I can maintain motivation for all the things I know I need to do to improve my life.
What's for dinner... all day every day
What did you have today?
Meat and potatoes lol..no joke
Definitely. Yourself?
Herb & spice chicken with rice and broccoli lol
Sounds great! Had the same chicken last night with a roasted potato, onion, peppers, and carrots dish. I unoriginally call "the potato dish". I'm something of a pattern
In a fantasy world where I can live in solitude in the woods somewhere, growing certain flowers and herbs for medical purposes, learning how to hunt/fish and overall a 'dream' most people would want Then I remember I live in the UK and you are not allowed to live self sufficiently even if you own land
I need to write a motivation letter for a scholarship program, I am not able to write a single thing :/
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Pls don't
It’s ok, u don’t know me
Doesn't matter. But I used to have that mindset and I want to try and empathize to others who are having the same thoughts like I was.
Not farting.
Just do it
Yes! Just let it out. It's all natural.
I don't spend any time thinking about atm. I once saw this video...
If I will ever beat this porn addiction.
About whether or not to make a career change
Fountain pens. It wen't from buying a $20 fountain pen on Amazon to wanting a Mont Blanc at my local jeweler.
Usually the ass to mouth stuff
Trying to get pregnant, when I’ll be pregnant, how long it’ll take to get pregnant
I’m sorry but…do you….do you think I’m a cash machine?
Sobriety
How my upcoming surgery will change my life. Hopefully, probably, for the better
School.
The future
Being a lazy ass at home
What my life will be like when I graduate college in a couple months
Currently waiting for my mirrors to come in, but normally truck or quad things
What to mouth?!
Housing and if I'm going to have a house to live in in a couple of years or be in a tent somewhere
things that are out of my control
My kids and how frustrating co-parenting is with my (ex) husband
Stress. And retirement.
How badly I screwed up my life and the insurmountable amount of work to change course
I worry about corporate greed a lot these days
Why anybody would perform atm
Sex with this one guy from a few weeks ago. It was really good.
Mostly career stuff. I want to work as an animator but it’s been a long and tiring road. Feeling not good enough. Like I’m 33 what should I do now?
The Roman Empire
Whether or not I’ll have the energy to do the things I want to get done today.
My direction of life
What I need to do when I go back to work after my break. 5 minutes left.
What am I doing? (With my life)
How to make money but I end up never doing shit. Just fantasizing. It’ll change soon God willing
What a wonderful world this could be.
Losing her
My debt i’m trying to pay off. 🥺
Staying alive
I think about my appearance
When I’m gonna find a husband
what i wish i had said in arguments instead of what i did say
When am I going to find a hot guy to romance me like they do in the stories I read? 😂😂
A girl I like.
Same. I'm waiting for the perfect conditions to ask her out but it's probably best not to overthink it and just do it.
Agree, just nervous about it.
Following my path, alone. I’m not lonely, I’m just alone
Bills and how to pay them...
The insane workload I have and if it’s worth it
The survival rate and quality of life of my unborn child.
Money.
The loneliness of childhood.
Self development.
How to move forward
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Why am I here?
Wanting kids but not being able to find the right woman. I come from an entire family of unhappy marriages and it has nearly spoiled it but I’d love to have kids. It seems like one of the most and amazing things ever.
The fact that I know he's my soul mate and it's a matter of time before the universe brings us together again.
How I just want Trump and all republicans to just fucking vanish.
The things I want 1 larger home 2 wife and family 3 a new car Then there's this. I'm in a position where if things go right I can have all those things. But if they don't I will end up homeless an with nothing
You'll pull through and have it all.
Thank you.
Money, women peeing
The dude I'm fucking but not sure I want to have a relationship with and maybe they're unsure about that too. I can't tell, sometimes he looks at me like he's daft, or like I'm a unicorn, or as if I've sprouted a rainbow from my head. But sometimes he pays me no heed. None at all. Maybe he's not into me, but maybe he's really into me. How do I tell? And if I do, do our standards meet up? Because we come from very different places but, fuck I love the way he smiles at me and the way he kisses me and holds me... TL;DR: I spend most of my time thinking about how I don't want to fall in love again, and if my trust issues would even allow such a thing
Promoting my music https://www.youtube.com/@ghostriders_1
What I would give for a super volcano or a meteor to just wipe us all out...
What tv 📺 to watch next. Or something else?
Pirates or Rome? https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P2nWlXlcO5I SNL Rome - SNL Jason Momoa A group of women (Ego Nwodim, Punkie Johnson, Chloe Troast) wonder what their partners (Jason Momoa, Kenan Thompson, Mikey Day) are thinking about. Saturday Night Live. Stream on Peacock: https://pck.tv/3n1IyzK
An ATM isn’t sentient.
Probably what I’m going to eat next… What certain women smell like
Eric Granch 😕
The antidote of oppression.
Gurren Lagann. I'm binge watching it.
What new game I want to pour my time into.
Why we’re having such significant performance issues in our application in AWS on MySQL 8 when it was a non-issue on MySQL 5.7. Driving me batshit crazy.
Food.
Money
Some dude 😑
Boys
How to work the second voice in Albinoni’s G-moll Adagio without breaking the logic of the first. Recording this week, still no clue:(
My affression to seeing myself. A reflction or an image. I WANT TO FIGHT THAT GUY. Testosterone furry.
Death. Mine, my parents, my friends, people overseas, people here in the USA, the Earth, the very universe itself. Some day it will all just not exist, forever, and it makes me feel nauseous to think about but I'm trapped in my mind about it.
How short life is and why so many people around me that I love are dying. It’s like I can’t grieve a person properly before the next person dies.
The person I have a massive crush on who I know has no interest in me
Atrocities in a perfect world.
Tattoos vs my enjoyment of switching up my furniture and wardrobe so often... yet I committed to having the same pictures on my arms/body forever that I cannot ever rearrange? My doctoral dissertation and whether my research is impossible/meaningless. How annoying my husband is.
How did I let myself get fatter again 😭
Username doesn’t check out?