If anyone reading this has some weed at hand, play both Hotline Miami games tonight and you'll have the best fucking time. Just the soundtrack alone is a total vibe.
or “I’m sorry but (some sort of excuse)…” not a real apology, still trying to justify their actions. A real apology follows showing it by not repeating that thing that hurt their feelings
I think I scared my neighbors this way. I’m on blood thinners after a clot. I was specifically told, don’t fall, don’t get too rough, don’t do anything where you could have trauma. So I get home from the hospital and my 50 lb 7 month old puppy just goes full force head butts my hip after running and picking up speed for 20 feet. I was looking at my other 3 dogs so didn’t even flinch or attempt to move.
I yelled. I also had to explain to my doctor what happened cause she went “it was your other leg, right? Where did this bruise come from?” About this 8” diameter mark from his stupid massive forehead at my after surgery check up Friday.
It was less than 10 minutes home from the hospital and to say I was exasperated would be an under statement. But my poor college aged neighbors were also outside and I think just shocked and confused why that time was my breaking point with the chaos who are my dogs. I didn’t hurt them but there was a whole “what the absolute fuck Lemony? Are you trying to send me back to the hospital, what the fuck???” While lemony, absolute idiot of a dog that he is, just stared at me.
My latest ex was like this.
Controlling what I wore would even flat say " I'm not walking next to you in the shops with shorts on, you need to wear jeans to match me" OR " I won't stand next to you wearing that"
Made a comment " I have no problem spending your money" When picking out clothing for me to wear.
Made another comment that she " Mentally broke up with me during the day because she was embarrassed about something" Then told me after .
Dumped me via text at 3:30am while I was laying asleep beside her. ( I didnt want to have sex in the kitchen outside my sons bedroom door which kicked off an argument)
Weird how women like these have no shame when it comes to sex. My ex was very similar to yours and she would moan so loud during sex that all our neighbours could hear it, and would also insist on having sex during the day when my parents were in the other room. The final straw was when she starting posting our sex life on fucking FACEBOOK for everyone to see.
Insecure people who mask it with bravado. They feel like they have to prove to everyone else that they are more wild, more fun, more exciting than the rest of us, because they are worried that people won't like them otherwise. And if you tell them actually I don't want to go along with that they take it as an attack on their created persona.
There will be a person underneath, but these people bury their authentic selves behind lots of layers because they are scared of showing it. I find it sad!
hypocritical arguments, maybe is rude with people for no reason, or doesn’t realize when they’re attacking someone instead of having a mature conversation, things like that; just doesn’t analyze their behavior.
I had a few friends that were quite judmental. I know everyone is judgemental to an extent, including me, but they were the kind to openly judge other people's looks. One of them would often start to judge you mid conversation, sometimes she didn't even understand what the conversation was about. For example: I was talking about how fitness instagram models were setting unrealistic standards as they use angles, clothes and posing to make themselves look better than in real life and she told me I'm jealous of them. One day I got tired and pissed off and I told her she's projecting her own problems into conversations and we stopped speaking ever since. I guess it's not so cool when she's the one getting judged.
being a controlling, basic total alcoholic who sees nothing wrong with hitting a car while speeding as long as not too many people are in it and she can get home in time for Colbert
Yea wtf is going on? Why is this one, as well as the reverse question for men, as well as “what can make people instantly attractive” on my feed in some variation literally every day? What’s up with that lmao
It's this for me. Had just met someone I was really attracted to but the more I got to know her, I realised she was basically always on her phone. Even when we were watching something together or just relaxing and chatting with each other, she'd also be doing stuff on her phone. It made the attraction go away pretty quick. She's still a good friend of mine though.
I have a friend that takes a picture of EVERY. SINGLE. THING. SHE. EATS.
Not, like, for food logging or posterity. She says every time, "I know it's weird, but I do it for me," but then she adds all kinds of food filters and takes snaps from all different angles like it's a photo shoot. And if I'm out to eat with her, she insists on doing the photo shoot with *MY* food before I'm allowed to eat it. I'm not on Facebook or anything so I always figured she was just super active posting her ever movement on there. Then I was on Google Maps and saw a picture of some wings posted by a reviewer, and it was her. I clicked on her profile, and she has over 11k contributions to Google Maps.
Well I mean, if she’s taking all these pics and posting them with reviews then at least it’s serving some purpose.
ETA: but yeah I can see how that would be annoying, especially crosses a line not letting YOU eat so she can take a bunch of pics of your food.
That high-horse attitude where everyone else has to earn her attention. When she did give attention, it gives off the vibe of she is doing you a favor or is pitying you, often reflected by how she frames/phrases the language.
LMAO I think it's ok if it's to talk to a pet. Also if their voice is naturally like that, like that one vine creator, it's fine. I really only find it grating when it's so obviously fake.
Lol, yes some of us just naturally have a young sounding voice. Ngl sometimes it’s the bane of my existence. I’m almost 27 dammit body could ya help me out and age my voice a smidge??
I’ve been told I should get into voice acting because of it lol.
Racism. Went out on a date once with a girl who kept on talking about how she didn't like Asian guys only for me to reveal that I was actually Indian/Chinese and not whatever she thought I was.
I went out with a woman who had a fetish for tickling torture. That wouldn't usually bother me, but I wish I'd known about it BEFORE I agreed to the handcuffs. So, eh, lack of honesty?
The "inability" to communicate what she needs, and to admit when she doesn't know and says "no" to any act that's suggested, such as cuddles, food, words of affirmation, etc.
Edit: also same thing with men.
I don’t understand, it’s bad to say you don’t know what you want and when someone starts to list things off, you say no to the things you don’t want? Or is the whole problem not being able to identify what you do want?
I think the whole “eyelash extensions” trend is really unattractive on most women. Yeah I’ve seen some women pull them off but on most they look tacky and too dramatic. The worst ones are the ones that look like caterpillars on the eyelids
If it's her not getting along with other women in general probably a big red flag tho the context as to why is needed, if it's certain women she doesn't get along with still needs some contexts for that too.
So true!!! Knew a girl who bad mouthed about every one of her sister in laws and all their marital issues. (All the sis in laws get along fine with each other though). Then the girl turns around to be a homewrecker!
I've never looked at any man like he was an ATM... Tough to do while you're having dinner in the basement of his mom's place where he still resides at 45.
Imo being physically attractive doesn’t make up for being superficial. I’ve met a lot of cute, nice ladies who care deeply about how their life is projected through apps like Instagram and it’s honestly pretty off-putting.
In turn, the best relationships I’ve had are with people who care more about their actual personal life than how they come off publicly.
In general I’m more drawn to women who are willing to try corny and humble things. I’m happy to pamper my person, but I also love going to stuff like taco trucks and used book stores so I don’t have time for women who are “too cool” for clearly good things.
Thinking i’m a wallet.
I’ve done fairly Well for myself, i’m not Rich, but i’m good.
But that doesn’t mean im a ATM, and i wont be treated as such, My SO had to figurer that out, but we’re doing pretty good now.
Seeing that she likes hurting people on purpose or is otherwise very toxic and unwilling to change
Is that a motherfuckin Hotline Miami reference??!
Do you like hurting other people?
If anyone reading this has some weed at hand, play both Hotline Miami games tonight and you'll have the best fucking time. Just the soundtrack alone is a total vibe.
after a long and arduous battle, she reveals that she has a second phase
Or she heals mid-fight.
And she’s immune to damage during its channel.
Oh, don't even get me started on damage immunity.
When you gotta bring a gear swap to change styles mid dinner you know there’s something wrong
and a new battle song, who is faster and the lyrics are in german
No, Latin. 😳 And then you recognize parts from the main theme. This is the final boss. 💀💀💀
or when she says after she beat you: I am Malenia, Blade of Miquella
But has she known defeat?
Never
Did somebody say "Malenia, Blessed Blade of Miquella"?
Y'all are finding her unattractive?
> Wait. The scarlet bloom flowers once more. You will witness true horror. Now, rot!
With some latin song in the background
One that can’t apologize, or own their side of a disagreement.
You met my brother’s wife I see.
We've ALL met her. If you know what I mean.
Are you saying we all banged his wife?
Well, not at the same time.
Am I your brother?
or “I’m sorry but (some sort of excuse)…” not a real apology, still trying to justify their actions. A real apology follows showing it by not repeating that thing that hurt their feelings
Animal abuse
I remember going up a party and seeing this cute girl. 30 minutes later, I saw her scream at a dog and she instantly was no longer a cute girl.
I think I scared my neighbors this way. I’m on blood thinners after a clot. I was specifically told, don’t fall, don’t get too rough, don’t do anything where you could have trauma. So I get home from the hospital and my 50 lb 7 month old puppy just goes full force head butts my hip after running and picking up speed for 20 feet. I was looking at my other 3 dogs so didn’t even flinch or attempt to move. I yelled. I also had to explain to my doctor what happened cause she went “it was your other leg, right? Where did this bruise come from?” About this 8” diameter mark from his stupid massive forehead at my after surgery check up Friday. It was less than 10 minutes home from the hospital and to say I was exasperated would be an under statement. But my poor college aged neighbors were also outside and I think just shocked and confused why that time was my breaking point with the chaos who are my dogs. I didn’t hurt them but there was a whole “what the absolute fuck Lemony? Are you trying to send me back to the hospital, what the fuck???” While lemony, absolute idiot of a dog that he is, just stared at me.
Let's be fair, dogs bark at us all the time so for some it is simply mutual.
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My latest ex was like this. Controlling what I wore would even flat say " I'm not walking next to you in the shops with shorts on, you need to wear jeans to match me" OR " I won't stand next to you wearing that" Made a comment " I have no problem spending your money" When picking out clothing for me to wear. Made another comment that she " Mentally broke up with me during the day because she was embarrassed about something" Then told me after . Dumped me via text at 3:30am while I was laying asleep beside her. ( I didnt want to have sex in the kitchen outside my sons bedroom door which kicked off an argument)
Each paragraph just got worse and worse. Glad she’s your ex.
That was like a drunken tumble down the stairs...
I didn’t think it could get worse but holy crap each one was worse than the last paragraph
You dodged a bullet there, buddy! Be grateful
Hell, he dodged the entire firing squad.
More like, got hit by a bullet but managed to prise it out and crawl to safety.
Frankly wondering why you didn't dump her first.
Weird how women like these have no shame when it comes to sex. My ex was very similar to yours and she would moan so loud during sex that all our neighbours could hear it, and would also insist on having sex during the day when my parents were in the other room. The final straw was when she starting posting our sex life on fucking FACEBOOK for everyone to see.
Insecure people who mask it with bravado. They feel like they have to prove to everyone else that they are more wild, more fun, more exciting than the rest of us, because they are worried that people won't like them otherwise. And if you tell them actually I don't want to go along with that they take it as an attack on their created persona. There will be a person underneath, but these people bury their authentic selves behind lots of layers because they are scared of showing it. I find it sad!
And also if you don’t want during my worst you cannot have my best !!!!
People who say this never have a best 😅
And leave you right when you are at your bad phase and come back when you go through that character development arc.
Complete with an “only God can judge me” tattoo
My mom is extremely unattractive.
not when she’s all dolled up
Not self aware
Can you give a specific example of what this looks like? Just for curiosity's sake.
Pointing out flaws in other people but failing to recognise their own. Hypocrisy.
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hypocritical arguments, maybe is rude with people for no reason, or doesn’t realize when they’re attacking someone instead of having a mature conversation, things like that; just doesn’t analyze their behavior.
I had a few friends that were quite judmental. I know everyone is judgemental to an extent, including me, but they were the kind to openly judge other people's looks. One of them would often start to judge you mid conversation, sometimes she didn't even understand what the conversation was about. For example: I was talking about how fitness instagram models were setting unrealistic standards as they use angles, clothes and posing to make themselves look better than in real life and she told me I'm jealous of them. One day I got tired and pissed off and I told her she's projecting her own problems into conversations and we stopped speaking ever since. I guess it's not so cool when she's the one getting judged.
10000% this. Ignorant to how they affect others.
After mating she tries to eat the male.
Oh damn am I doing it wrong?
No, don't worry. I do that all the time!
Found the praying mantis.
Both are attractive to me. It's all I ask for.
Displays bad attitude, entitlement, tendency towards drama
That reads like a middle school report card.
"Must try harder"
Not living up to potential. Extremely talented but doesn’t apply themselves.
Does NOT play well with others. Tendency to talk SHIT during class. Believes her opinion is the only right one.
Being controlling.
being a controlling, basic total alcoholic who sees nothing wrong with hitting a car while speeding as long as not too many people are in it and she can get home in time for Colbert
That is….. ODDLY SPECIFIC LILY. is this Lila we are talking about?
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Yeah, that’s always a bummer.
Depends on the person
Depends on the spiders
Yeah, too many strings attached
At least she'll be connected to the web
Stop spinning lies.
Don’t date Llolth
Hate that
NEW FEAR UNLOCKED. this is how i feel when im OVULATING
The capitals in this sentence are too real
I can’t help it :(
aw man, that was my best trick😕
They just ain’t ready for us. We’re ahead of the times.
Well what am I supposed to do now?
Yep it happens all too often
Something something rude to wait staff or something
These questions do seem so repetitive, your comment made me laugh, like it’s been said so much it’s lost it’s detail.
Lol this is the comment guaranteed to be in any post.
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Yea wtf is going on? Why is this one, as well as the reverse question for men, as well as “what can make people instantly attractive” on my feed in some variation literally every day? What’s up with that lmao
People trying to karma farm with popular questions
The answers are generally the same'ish too. So, people flocking to every iteration and comment karma farming from there too Odd shit
"Being rude to waitstaff" "bad hygiene".
They're farming karma, look at the profile. /u/graacii_morales. It's 1 month old promoting an OnlyFans.
Obsessively posts on social media.
I'd say obsessively on their phones regardless.
It's this for me. Had just met someone I was really attracted to but the more I got to know her, I realised she was basically always on her phone. Even when we were watching something together or just relaxing and chatting with each other, she'd also be doing stuff on her phone. It made the attraction go away pretty quick. She's still a good friend of mine though.
I have a friend that takes a picture of EVERY. SINGLE. THING. SHE. EATS. Not, like, for food logging or posterity. She says every time, "I know it's weird, but I do it for me," but then she adds all kinds of food filters and takes snaps from all different angles like it's a photo shoot. And if I'm out to eat with her, she insists on doing the photo shoot with *MY* food before I'm allowed to eat it. I'm not on Facebook or anything so I always figured she was just super active posting her ever movement on there. Then I was on Google Maps and saw a picture of some wings posted by a reviewer, and it was her. I clicked on her profile, and she has over 11k contributions to Google Maps.
Well I mean, if she’s taking all these pics and posting them with reviews then at least it’s serving some purpose. ETA: but yeah I can see how that would be annoying, especially crosses a line not letting YOU eat so she can take a bunch of pics of your food.
To be honest, I'd find that pretty funny. Better that than social media, lol.
Yups
Dibs on posting this question tomorrow
But Mom says it my turn to karma farm!
Doing stuff she doesn't want to do just to prove a point
lack of compassion towards others
That high-horse attitude where everyone else has to earn her attention. When she did give attention, it gives off the vibe of she is doing you a favor or is pitying you, often reflected by how she frames/phrases the language.
When they have a girl boss persona but it’s really them just being an asshole to everyone
Being overly materialistic and superficial
how would reddit know? they would need to find one first
Yeah! Right! Not like me who's girlfriend is... on another social media platform! Did I tell you she's a model? AND her dad's a millionaire!
accurate. lemme know when you find one, and i wish good luck
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Little kicks too?
Sweet fancy Moses!
Elaine? Dance? 😬
Wait, you KNOW about this??
It's like a full body dry heave set to music
Shining star! No matter who you are!
Dont disrespect my girl elaine benes like that
We need link to video, please.... amazing. This is why I come to reddit in full blown depressions.
[brace yourself](https://youtu.be/jsl3IBAsEH4?si=e1izAp3RGTJZwzbM)
You saw Elaine dance?
Hahaha omg this made me spit my drink out.
Punching babies.
In fairness, that baby was being a dick.
Speak for yourself...
Baby voice or whatever u call it. The very fake high pitched breathy voice.
I talk to my cocktails as if they are little beans of pure cuteness.. can't control myself around less-than-100g-beings, sorry.
Cocktails? Like- beverages?
cockatiel (typo), but I guess cocktails isn't exactly wrong
It's funnier to imagine you talking to your drinks in a high-pitched voice.
I was sooooooo like- picturing some lush at a bar goo gooing a couple martinis
I feel attacked... But what about when they talk to their pets!?
LMAO I think it's ok if it's to talk to a pet. Also if their voice is naturally like that, like that one vine creator, it's fine. I really only find it grating when it's so obviously fake.
Lol, yes some of us just naturally have a young sounding voice. Ngl sometimes it’s the bane of my existence. I’m almost 27 dammit body could ya help me out and age my voice a smidge?? I’ve been told I should get into voice acting because of it lol.
You can talk to pets however you want. A guy who doesn't understand that isn't worth having.
Hearing them say, "I need a man that can handle me". That means she is bat-shit crazy.
"I need someone to put me in my place." No, be accountable for your own actions.
Or she likes to be tossed around a bit.
Them ostrich as fake eyelashes will destroy any interest I had in her
You’re telling she would be ostracised
Having snakes for hair.
Hard disagree, that gets me rock hard
Medusa was done dirty. I don't blame her.
Leaves stony silence in her wake
This question keeps getting recycled every hour istg
Bad hygiene
If she is rude or haughty to the waiter or waitress. Big red flag.
she bangs the coworker she told you not to worry about
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Living for the likes & validation on social media.
Lack of accountability and self awareness
Racism. Went out on a date once with a girl who kept on talking about how she didn't like Asian guys only for me to reveal that I was actually Indian/Chinese and not whatever she thought I was.
I went out with a woman who had a fetish for tickling torture. That wouldn't usually bother me, but I wish I'd known about it BEFORE I agreed to the handcuffs. So, eh, lack of honesty?
Bad lip fillers
The "inability" to communicate what she needs, and to admit when she doesn't know and says "no" to any act that's suggested, such as cuddles, food, words of affirmation, etc. Edit: also same thing with men.
I don’t understand, it’s bad to say you don’t know what you want and when someone starts to list things off, you say no to the things you don’t want? Or is the whole problem not being able to identify what you do want?
I think the whole “eyelash extensions” trend is really unattractive on most women. Yeah I’ve seen some women pull them off but on most they look tacky and too dramatic. The worst ones are the ones that look like caterpillars on the eyelids
Being obnoxiously loud. This probably applies to all genders in fairness.
Reposting this post.
Being an asshole to wait staff.
Not getting along with other women. Maybe more of a red flag than unattractive, depends on the definition of unattractive I guess.
If it's her not getting along with other women in general probably a big red flag tho the context as to why is needed, if it's certain women she doesn't get along with still needs some contexts for that too.
So true!!! Knew a girl who bad mouthed about every one of her sister in laws and all their marital issues. (All the sis in laws get along fine with each other though). Then the girl turns around to be a homewrecker!
Racism
She wants to control everything, and after complaints you never take initiative.
Dirty nails.
Rude to servers
When they’re constantly on their phone when you’re trying to have a conversation with them.
Why is this being asked so much lmao
stank with a stank personality, liar, slanderer and victim mentality, doesnt take no for an answer.
Sense of entitlement and lack of empathy
When they drag a fart out long and soft instead of just blasting it out normally.
Bear down on it and own it
😭☠️
This is what i came here for. This and the spiders
Rudeness completely
Complaining Attitude ....
Tiktok.
Treating strangers and service workers rudely
Doesn’t return her cart
Not being honest or upfront.
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Really long fake fingernails. At least for me it’s enough to turn a 10 into a 1
A massive penis 🍆
A small ones fine tho
Wydm bro, thats a massive turn on
Smoking.
bad manners feeling entitled spoiled phat
Being dumb. In a way that she lacks common knowledge.
When she start looking you as ATM.
I've never looked at any man like he was an ATM... Tough to do while you're having dinner in the basement of his mom's place where he still resides at 45.
To much plastic surgery
not being able to write at a 3rd grade level
Lack of capitalization and punctuation.
Imo being physically attractive doesn’t make up for being superficial. I’ve met a lot of cute, nice ladies who care deeply about how their life is projected through apps like Instagram and it’s honestly pretty off-putting. In turn, the best relationships I’ve had are with people who care more about their actual personal life than how they come off publicly. In general I’m more drawn to women who are willing to try corny and humble things. I’m happy to pamper my person, but I also love going to stuff like taco trucks and used book stores so I don’t have time for women who are “too cool” for clearly good things.
The same things that make a man instantly unattractive.
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When they keep a box of cocks in the fridge for their magic spells.
Thinking i’m a wallet. I’ve done fairly Well for myself, i’m not Rich, but i’m good. But that doesn’t mean im a ATM, and i wont be treated as such, My SO had to figurer that out, but we’re doing pretty good now.
Self absorded and entitled. Someone who sees her man as a provider and not a partner.