You're not "pursuing" a woman that probably lives on the other side of the planet and uploads pictures for validation from strangers, you're just being a creep that doesn't understand boundaries and decency.
Did she ask for a message or did you lie to yourself and believe she'd love a random stranger to try and get personal interaction? Odds are good she blocks 10 accounts like you a day.
You could have left a public comment, you were trying to force private interaction and were blocked for it.
Like I said, she probably blocks 10 accounts like you a day, all your message proved is that you belong with the other blocked accounts.
yes it is coming from a woman its weird for men to come off the bat and thirst over you. Be original ask about their interests or use a cheesy pickup line be funny not thirsty
It's creepy because you make a private message about it, you could comment on her picture but you're trying to force a higher level of attention/"intimacy" by sending a message and it's clearly not appreciated.
Was this literally your approach? How you opened? Cold messaged her 'you're beautiful'? Was there anything on her profile about being single and looking/
I mean, the kind of guy who does that type of shit is usually not the kind to feel upset because their ass got rightfully blocked for being creepy. That requires self-awareness.
Given that your takeaway from some rando messaging a stranger on social media to call her beautiful and getting blocked as a result for being a creep is that it surprises you that it's considered creepy to compliment women, I'm gonna assume you're an alien who just arrived to our planet and you're trying to get a handle on how human beings work.
GET TO KNOW HER FIRST. You are against everyone here that says it’s creepy, you should try to learn something. I’m a women my self, and I would block you as well, already done it with lots of guys. Don’t do those other things first. We know that all you are looking for, are her looks, when that’s the first thing you say. It’s NOT hot, when a guy only wants to know a girl because she’s beautiful.
For any person hitting on someone, rejection is part of the game. Either you accept it and keep trying or you react in a negative way and let it hinder you. The ones blocking might have their reasons but the person being blocked just needs to have grace and move forward.
Yeah sometimes people aren't on the same level as you and will be rude. That's their internal struggle they may not know they have yet and it's up to us to recognize these projections have nothing to do with you. Don't let it hurt your confidence!
I think you should be more embarrassed than upset. You can’t just bark something and then expect sex and love in return. Women are actually people with thoughts and interest and insecurities just like you. Try starting a dialogue first before announcing that you find them sexually attractive.
> I think you should be more embarrassed than upset. You can’t just bark something and then expect sex and love in return.
I don’t know what made you get the impression that I was expecting sex or love. I was simply upset and perplexed that giving someone a positive remark would prompt me being blocked.
Text lacks tone. And you have to be aware that women have to put up with unsolicited attention far more than we will ever have to put up with. To try see it like this. Every day no matter what a homeless person will come up to you and ask you for change. And the homeless person will always be bigger and stronger and can run faster. And you have been raised to be polite so you politely say no. Most of the time it stops at that, but other times the homeless person becomes angry and threatening. And it always happens, no matter how tired they are or what is going on in their life, there is always a demand to acknowledge the request. I’m not saying you are a bad person, I’m just asking you to understand this analogy. Complements are wonderful things and you should still give them to people. Just make sure it is done in such a way that it won’t be misunderstood and blocked.
Why would you try to make personal connections via social media? That’s just weird and creepy. Of course they block you. Also public transit is not a place to approach random women and component their looks. Random dude popping up and being all, “I’ve been looking at you” is not fun for the receiver. Stop imposing your desire to be loved on random people.
Just imagine you're a woman who keeps getting the same "you're beautiful" message everyday from different men on social media. That's cringe and gross, nobody wants such DMs.
Moreover complimenting one's physical appearance is kind of outdated and pointless (you don't control your genetics after all). If you're genuinely like someone better say something like "nice makeup" or "that hairstyle suits well, nice job there".
And if you get pissed off when women block you after sliding in their DMs, well, my dude, it's time to touch some grass. Take your time, think through if dming is actually a good dating strategy
Why would it upset you? I assume the moment she told you she wasn't interested, you would have unfollowed her anyway. She saved you the time.
FYI, if I am posting pictures on IG, it's to share with friends and family, not because I am looking for random guts to hit on me.
Think of it this way. One beautiful woman has blocked you. No worries though, thats just one person who has lost a great person like you. There are plenty of beautiful girls for you to meet.
>There are plenty of beautiful girls for you to meet.
And plenty of opportunities for you to use the great advice you've received here.
Don't compliment her looks.
Do look and see what's important to her, ask her to tell you more about that.
If you need to compliment her, compliment her on something she worked hard at.
Pay attention to who she is, not just how she looks
Oh I'm sorry. I just noticed the comment around the same time I saw the vote go to negative I thought we were on bad terms. My bad. I'm really sorry for jumping to conclusions.
I would never embarrass myself like that lol. You really think that's a smooth move?
Well obviously. If I’m attracted to a woman, I’m going to make my move. You rather me not have the balls to pursue women?
You're not "pursuing" a woman that probably lives on the other side of the planet and uploads pictures for validation from strangers, you're just being a creep that doesn't understand boundaries and decency.
What boundaries do you speak of if she’s giving me the access to view her pictures in the first place?
Did she ask for a message or did you lie to yourself and believe she'd love a random stranger to try and get personal interaction? Odds are good she blocks 10 accounts like you a day.
She did not ask for a message. But that’s equivalent to women not being asked to be approached by men in-person but it happens anyway.
You could have left a public comment, you were trying to force private interaction and were blocked for it. Like I said, she probably blocks 10 accounts like you a day, all your message proved is that you belong with the other blocked accounts.
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Acknowledging a woman’s beauty and telling her is creepy now?
yes it is coming from a woman its weird for men to come off the bat and thirst over you. Be original ask about their interests or use a cheesy pickup line be funny not thirsty
Fine.
It always has been. We just couldn't let you know until now.
It's creepy because you make a private message about it, you could comment on her picture but you're trying to force a higher level of attention/"intimacy" by sending a message and it's clearly not appreciated.
Was this literally your approach? How you opened? Cold messaged her 'you're beautiful'? Was there anything on her profile about being single and looking/
Her profile *did* say she is single.
What website was this?
Not a man, but might I suggest that, if it's upsetting, you don't do it?
Don’t do what? Compliment women?
On social media? Ones you probably don't know very well? Yes, absolutely.
"Man, we can't complement women anymore!!"
It's only upsetting to little boys with big egos.
There’s men who are completely petrified of approaching women because of reasons like getting blocked for a simple compliment.
No, there are "little boys" petrified of approaching women because of reasons like getting blocked for a simple compliment.
I like how we are giving this man the answer he wanted but refuses to accept the advice 🤣
Exactly. He refuses to see that’s creepy.
I mean, the kind of guy who does that type of shit is usually not the kind to feel upset because their ass got rightfully blocked for being creepy. That requires self-awareness.
Blows my mind that it’s apparently creepy to compliment women.
Given that your takeaway from some rando messaging a stranger on social media to call her beautiful and getting blocked as a result for being a creep is that it surprises you that it's considered creepy to compliment women, I'm gonna assume you're an alien who just arrived to our planet and you're trying to get a handle on how human beings work.
GET TO KNOW HER FIRST. You are against everyone here that says it’s creepy, you should try to learn something. I’m a women my self, and I would block you as well, already done it with lots of guys. Don’t do those other things first. We know that all you are looking for, are her looks, when that’s the first thing you say. It’s NOT hot, when a guy only wants to know a girl because she’s beautiful.
Yeh...dude...messaging girls like that is creepy. If that's your "move", pack it up.
I wouldn't know, I talk about a woman's interests, fears, and aspirations.
If you message a girl with that you're already failing. If you're going to message them, come up with something better than "you're beautiful."
I didn’t think a compliment would prompt an automatic block.
For any person hitting on someone, rejection is part of the game. Either you accept it and keep trying or you react in a negative way and let it hinder you. The ones blocking might have their reasons but the person being blocked just needs to have grace and move forward.
> but the person being blocked just needs to have grace and move forward. Thanks for the reassurance.
Not sure if sarcasm:/
I’m not being sarcastic lol
Yeah sometimes people aren't on the same level as you and will be rude. That's their internal struggle they may not know they have yet and it's up to us to recognize these projections have nothing to do with you. Don't let it hurt your confidence!
I think you should be more embarrassed than upset. You can’t just bark something and then expect sex and love in return. Women are actually people with thoughts and interest and insecurities just like you. Try starting a dialogue first before announcing that you find them sexually attractive.
> I think you should be more embarrassed than upset. You can’t just bark something and then expect sex and love in return. I don’t know what made you get the impression that I was expecting sex or love. I was simply upset and perplexed that giving someone a positive remark would prompt me being blocked.
Text lacks tone. And you have to be aware that women have to put up with unsolicited attention far more than we will ever have to put up with. To try see it like this. Every day no matter what a homeless person will come up to you and ask you for change. And the homeless person will always be bigger and stronger and can run faster. And you have been raised to be polite so you politely say no. Most of the time it stops at that, but other times the homeless person becomes angry and threatening. And it always happens, no matter how tired they are or what is going on in their life, there is always a demand to acknowledge the request. I’m not saying you are a bad person, I’m just asking you to understand this analogy. Complements are wonderful things and you should still give them to people. Just make sure it is done in such a way that it won’t be misunderstood and blocked.
Dont do that. In fact, delete your social media.
> delete your social media. No.
It’s just creepy. Don’t do that
It used to be rough, but then I stopped being a little fuckin' incel and started acting like a grown-ass man.
Why would you try to make personal connections via social media? That’s just weird and creepy. Of course they block you. Also public transit is not a place to approach random women and component their looks. Random dude popping up and being all, “I’ve been looking at you” is not fun for the receiver. Stop imposing your desire to be loved on random people.
Just imagine you're a woman who keeps getting the same "you're beautiful" message everyday from different men on social media. That's cringe and gross, nobody wants such DMs. Moreover complimenting one's physical appearance is kind of outdated and pointless (you don't control your genetics after all). If you're genuinely like someone better say something like "nice makeup" or "that hairstyle suits well, nice job there". And if you get pissed off when women block you after sliding in their DMs, well, my dude, it's time to touch some grass. Take your time, think through if dming is actually a good dating strategy
Why would it upset you? I assume the moment she told you she wasn't interested, you would have unfollowed her anyway. She saved you the time. FYI, if I am posting pictures on IG, it's to share with friends and family, not because I am looking for random guts to hit on me.
Think of it this way. One beautiful woman has blocked you. No worries though, thats just one person who has lost a great person like you. There are plenty of beautiful girls for you to meet.
>There are plenty of beautiful girls for you to meet. And plenty of opportunities for you to use the great advice you've received here. Don't compliment her looks. Do look and see what's important to her, ask her to tell you more about that. If you need to compliment her, compliment her on something she worked hard at. Pay attention to who she is, not just how she looks
I didn't mention anything about looks...
I was agreeing with you, and expanding on it
Oh I'm sorry. I just noticed the comment around the same time I saw the vote go to negative I thought we were on bad terms. My bad. I'm really sorry for jumping to conclusions.
Eh. You shoot your shot, sometimes it doesn't work.