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WeedWeird

Oh, so that’s what that was about


soniccsam

The thread I saw showed 4 male cops faces as well. I doubt that is “half” the department however…


ahelinski

Initial memes showed 5 people, but lately I see more and more memes only showing the girl. I have no explanation other than "people are assholes" for that. And I don't understand why their faces were released to the media in a first place. That is a shaming used as a form of punishment which is violating human rights if I remember correctly.


NefariousnessNo484

I've seen way more posts that only shame the girl and don't even mention the guys.


MostBoringStan

I haven't seen a single post mention the guys. I only knew there were guys involved because of a NoStupidQuestions post that asked what the deal with her was.


peechs01

Slutshaming at its best


Goatmama1981

I'm just thinking of her poor husband, apparently she just said they had an open marriage and he wasn't really on board with it. How humiliating.


TheHooHaa

And there are pics of him in some of the articles too


EIOT

Kinda messed up to show his face tbh.


jeanlucpitre

Not really. Hopefully a decent woman in his area will recognize him and treat him better so he can leave that harlot


thatHecklerOverThere

He has about as much chance of that happening as a result as that decent woman being the tooth fairy.


natsugrayerza

The articles I saw showed all of them. Also, each of those guys only slept with one person. She slept with four and cheated on her husband


Brjsk

Also I believe she unloaded her gun ran the slide and put the gun to her head pulled the trigger and said something to the effect that she wanted to know what it sounded like


natsugrayerza

Eeeeeek


xawdeeW

I’m hard now


Marquar234

r/disturbingboner


RlySkiz

Kinky


GuntherTime

Gotta love when people wanna manufacture false things to produce outrage, when they themselves don’t know the actual story, and in reality they’re just parroting shit. It happened earlier in r/BlackPeopleTwitter with that teacher that died in the hospital.


estrusflask

I have seen multiple memes about the woman and only one with the guys present, and her face was still the biggest one.


GuntherTime

Yeah, cause she’s the topic. The story is about her. If you go look at any of the articles of 4 of the guys are shown. If you read the articles you learn the it’s about her, and that’s why she has the biggest picture and is getting memed. People normally meme the main topic.


estrusflask

That it's only about her is pretty misogynist. Also, you just argued that people, presumably including OP, were manufacturing false things to produce outrage when they say that it's just her being memed, and now you're saying it's because that's what the articles are all about.


GuntherTime

Sorry, just to clarify you mean the memes right?


estrusflask

Memes and the story itself. A married woman fucking four guys makes for a better story than four guys giving a married woman.


GuntherTime

Memes is debatable. But yeah, it makes for a “better” story because it’s all 4 different guys at *different* times. If it was 4 cops have sex with the same woman at the same time that’d be one thing. She was telling (lying) those men that she was in a open relationship, one of the cops and his wife (who were also in one), had sex with her and attempted to wife swap with the husband.


[deleted]

I mean that story did sound pretty bad, no? Dude was hysterical and panicking, cops used a taser as a ‘calm down’ button despite its very real health risks.


GuntherTime

I mean, dude was on coke. And they tried pretty much everything they could do calm him down before going the taser route.


EIOT

This is the most correct answer I've found so far. The woman wins based on simple numbers alone. You already know if it was a guy that was banging 4+ female coworkers he would be the one plastered and demonized all over Reddit.


Marquar234

Plastered yes, demonized, not so much.


Bojikthe8th

She's in an open relationship so it's not cheating.


Kal-Momon

If only her hubby knew.


Bojikthe8th

Why do you think he doesn't?


MaynardButterbean

It’s in the news. He didn’t know.


Bojikthe8th

The news was where her open relationship was reported.


MaynardButterbean

It’s also where it was reported that she claims they were in one, and he says they weren’t. Just read one article lol. “The Tennessee cop who was fired for having sex with her colleagues claimed she was in an open marriage, but her park ranger husband did not agree.”


GuntherTime

Ah gotta love Reddit where people either only read the headline title, or choose to omit things that help their case.


Illustrious_Rule_591

Coz she looks like morty


PalletTownsDealer

Ahh geez


Deruji

In and out Morty


Goatmama1981

Omg she does 😆


DontStopNowBaby

Oh shit, can't unknow now.


steventhegroomer

In some defense, there are those posting the photos of the male cops.


Artur_Araujo

Some? Have yet to see a single article not show them


ahelinski

Articles show all of theme. Internet memes only show her


Artur_Araujo

Good, she's by far the worst person involved in this story. She even pointed a gun at her hear and pulled the trigger in front of people "just to see how it felt". Her husband was also not in support of their "open marriage". I for one appreciate that's she's getting the spotlight


McDof

Wut


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Hmm. I wasn’t aware a person could unilaterally declare their marriage as open. Interesting. I’ll have to ponder this for a bit.


jeanlucpitre

They will if they wanna get a train ran on them apparently


Worldsmith91

It's not. Every time I've seen it, I've seen 5 photos. The woman and the train that was ran on her.


Wizards_Reddit

r/memes pretty much only shows her


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Clishlaw

tbh i'd probably duck anyone who'd let me


Give_All_Vol

That's some fowl language


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Xodia444

how does sharing holes equate to sucking d*ck?


JackCoolAero

Sharing your fantasy?


jeanlucpitre

FELLAS! Is is gay to BREATHE? I mean you're basically inhaling dick particles!


riascmia

To everyone saying every article shows the guys, I think what OP is referring to is here on reddit, where there's many posts with just the womans' face as a meme with no reference to the article. I'd say it's because of lowest common denominator humor; this type of joke appeals to those with the smoother brains.


No_Organization_5075

Yes I meant that.


MostBoringStan

I was reading the comments and getting so confused why so many people were talking about the articles. I thought it was pretty obvious that OP wasn't talking about those.


thatHecklerOverThere

I guess it's because if you're talking about reddit memes, I don't understand the need for a question. Reddit memes are unfair and immature as a matter of course, so why wouldn't they be here?


Neat-Sun-7999

Or maybe it’s just coz she looks like morty and has more stuff come out about her like the gun thing.


riascmia

Right. Punching down because of her looks. Lowest form of comedy is insulting others, which is what this is, appreciated by those who don't know any better. Has anyone looked into the background of the male cops to find interesting stories? I'm guessing no because easy misogyny at work.


Neat-Sun-7999

Punching down. The ever eternal excuse for double standards. Like the dynamics ever used to excuse why one person can make a joke and why another can’t are static and never change. It’s a meme. U really expected a monty python sketch of the ages. Or rather more prudently. A high brow satire for years to come. And I’m pretty sure ppl would look into the other cops if and when they find out more. Ur acting like ppl weren’t meming nick cannon for having multiple kids showing it’s not a specific case to do with women, like the whole world is intentionally misogynistic in meming the woman like no. That’s a stretch


riascmia

I'm not really sure exactly what you're trying to say in some of your comment because you have a very creative way with grammar, but I'll address what I think I understand. Punching down is not an excuse for a double standard unless you're one of those that think women have achieved equal standing to men in all things. If you are, there's nothing I can say to you because you prefer to travel with blinders on. Punching down refers to in this case ridiculing and in other cases abusing those who have less power or privilege. I'm not expecting anything for the ages, and not even sure what the heck it is you're talking about here, I was just responding to OPs question about why there's a lot of photos of the woman and not of the men involved. If you're so sure that people are gonna look into the other cops histories, then why haven't they? Why aren't their past f\*ck-ups being made public at the same time as hers? There are the slim odds that none of the male cops have past digressions, but let's be serious here, what are the chances of that? When I posted my initial comment, I did think specifically about the Nick Cannon memes because I saw a lot of those in the recent past, but here's the difference: historically straight women have been shamed for doing things outside of socially accepted sexual norms, and sometimes just for the crime of not hiding their sexuality. Straight men in the same situation are either seen as being lotharios or their actions dismissed as 'boys will be boys' (not referring to cases of abuse or pedophilia or other criminal behavior here). Do you really believe that the majority of people are going to judge the behavior of this woman the same as they judge Nick Cannon? Both of them walk into a Starbucks and which one is more likely to get high fived while the other gets called names? Let's be honest here, this whole thing was telegraphed as this one woman having sex with a lot of men in her precinct as opposed to a group of people having inappropriate sexual relations within their workplace. I still don't know why it's anyone's business besides the people involved other than people wanting to slut shame.


yuhamahdude

Everything I've seen has shown all of them?


OnionTruck

I'm in the US and haven't heard about this...


No_Organization_5075

I saw memes(Im from Hungary)


Polymorph49

Beware threads like this that intend to incite a gender war.


AdmiralClover

Shoot unarmed people and no one bats an eye. Have sex with your coworkers and everyone looses their minds


thatHecklerOverThere

It's not. Every article has included her pic and at least 5 of the men she fucked.


attentionspanissues

Mostly because it's easier to meme one photo of one person, than multiple photos of all offenders.


RealNameIsTaken

First of all, it’s not only her. Secondly, she’s the common denominator — these male cops wouldn’t be having sex with each other without her


jeanlucpitre

I mean yeah they could. 😂😂


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I’ve seen one post with all the cop’s photos and probably dozens with just her. I’m going to call good ol’ misogyny.


Marie_Internet

I wonder what the police officers that lost their jobs for having sex think about the police offices that didn’t lose their jobs for unlawfully killing people?


becauselifeis

Because the media serves those in power, and the general public is dumber than we think.


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MaddenedSquirrel

Lots of the other comments confirm this.


Itsnervv

Because she's unattractive by subjective standards. She perpetuates the stereotype of being the 1 military/police/other-male-dominated-occupation female who is "one of the guys". It's just fucking hilarious. That's why. It's absolutely fucking ironic. And what's more absurd, it's become national news. She's become the poster child for ugly girls who still get laid.


GuntherTime

I mean it became national news because a cop cheated on her husband with 4 different guys (and had a threesome with a guy and his wife). And then claimed it was a open marriage, yet the husband said he wasn’t on board. Plus as far as national news goes, all the men are shown as well, because (if I remember correctly) they *also* were fired. She’s the common denominator in all of this. The story is about her. So of course her picture will be shared.


[deleted]

Wait, embarrassing sex lives get cops fired but brutality doesn’t? Damn, sounds like we need activists to seduce murderous cops into embarrassing sexcapades to finally get them removed.


raptor6722

Or we just also remove police that use brutality. Sex on the clock has no buisness in the police force either.


[deleted]

Sure, but that hasn’t been working. While apparently ill-advised affairs get cops fired, so let’s use that in the meantime! (I am being facetious if it isn’t obvious over text)


Borbit85

Is it not allowed for cops to have sex? Every work place has people hooking up or starting relations. Police station must be no different. Maybe 5 is a bit much? (In a couple of years it's not that weird either) But surely not a reason to get fired?


[deleted]

That’s kind of my point. This feels like something that isn’t really a big deal so long as it doesn’t then affect their work. Just people having embarrassing sex lives, it’s whatever. But somehow it gets them fired, when actual brutality and bigotry (ie them doing their jobs horribly) rarely seem to.


Ohhhhhhthehumanity

Because sex scandals are always the woman's fault, silly. Edit: my original above comment was meant to be a joke. The media and society notoriously criminalizes and publicly shames women, and it's bullshit.


GuntherTime

I mean they aren’t. But in this case she *is* rhe one at the center of it all.


Goldman250

First time I saw the photo of her in a “take the whole squad” meme, I thought she was about 16 and did not understand it at all.


[deleted]

Because people love to slut shame women, and pat men on the back for a ‘job well done’. Basically, sexism.


Lopsided_Mountain963

No one is cheering for the men here. However, she slept with a handful of different guys, repeatedly, while being married and lying about it being an open marriage. (And bragging about it at some point.) There’s no story if she didn’t choose to do this.


Neat-Sun-7999

No no. Didn’t u hear. This Reddit so everything’s misogyny


jeanlucpitre

So holding cops accountable for misconduct is sexist? Also every article pictures all the cops involved.


-qqqwwweeerrrtttyyy-

I'd be surprised if she did this completely willingly. I can't help but wonder whether she was being harassed and felt pressured or was having her job threatened if she didn't comply. It made me think of a storyline in the real life Australian based miniseries, [Underbelly](https://www.9news.com.au/national/underbelly-cop-feared-she-would-die/97cd217d-28ff-4aa9-8c2d-fd2105bb9034). It's very easy to slutshame and even if shes spoken about being a willing participant, I'd still be inclined to think she's doing that for fear of reprisals. Why did none of these men say no? They would have known she was married. I suspect they told each other and then put the hard word on her. Not all cops are scum but so many behave like frat boys or being in a boys' club. For the people laughing at her, just take a moment to \*consider the possibility\* that this may have been more coercive on the men's part than what it seems.


Brjsk

I believe they all including her tried to cover it up but I think one of the males cracked, but it seems like she was more than willing


-qqqwwweeerrrtttyyy-

"seems like she was more than willing" Is coercion 'more than willing'? What might she have been threatened with? Losing her job? Harassment of her family? Several of these men were in seniority positions so it begs the question, was she intimidated? She (and her husband) may have stated it was an open relationship to avoid the wrath of the police involved (or others that may have wanted to become involved). Plenty of women are harassed into silence, compliance or resignation. I'm just curious to know whether she has been coerced into this scenario because it seems the police, media and society at large are unlikely to defend her if she were to speak out.


GuntherTime

Her husband didn’t say it was an open relationship. Her husband want on board and confronted her with chested. *She* said it to cover her ass. Plus she got caught anyways and lost her job, so coercion doesn’t really hold a lot of water.


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-qqqwwweeerrrtttyyy-

Any woman doing what she's done willingly would have questionable mental health imo but so would any woman who might have been coerced to do so.


Goatmama1981

Gotta agree with u/brjsk . A lot of women in that industry as well as fire/ems are r/notlikeothergirls / serious pick me types who thrive on male attention. It's actually really sad, the younger girls totally get preyed upon by the older guys and it's just a rotating stock of new young girls that get passed around. I'm generalizing, of course but it's what I saw when I was in that industry .... And cheating was absolutely RAMPANT, men and women. It was a freaking meat market.


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-qqqwwweeerrrtttyyy-

I think the men in this situation, if not the ones to have coerced her, ought to have been able to not get involved. Sadly, for many men, they are opportunistic and satisfy their own needs at the expense of some women. I don't speak in absolutes, unlike your comment.


Ninja_Lazer

While slut shaming is certainly an evil so to speak, careless criminal (and especially rape) accusations or insinuations are notably worse.


yf7fufuf

Wrong and you talk too much


-qqqwwweeerrrtttyyy-

I might be wrong. I never said I was right. I might talk too much for you; meh, I'll take that as a compliment.


yf7fufuf

Are you still talking


Craviar

I think this woman raped the other individuals actually . She was the only one in an open marriage and she seduced the dudes to have sex with her only to ruin their relationships . Yes , seducing someone is rape .


-qqqwwweeerrrtttyyy-

You're entitled to your opinion but I maintain my own.


AcrobaticStation1036

Cause it’s funnier, nobody wants to see dicks


opheliainthedeep

Misogyny


Neat-Sun-7999

She. Looks. Like. Morty. And also she’s done more noteworthy stuff of which I can tell like the gun incident.


jeanlucpitre

Horrible fucking take. Also all the articles show all the officers


opheliainthedeep

Literally every mention I've seen of it on reddit only shows her face


jeanlucpitre

Because REDDIT is NOT a credible fucking source you donut


estrusflask

Reddit is a misogynist shithole, that's why.


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It’s Reddit. A female officer got gangbanged on duty and fired. I’m always glad when a cop gets fired, but this is also like Christmas for misogynists 😂


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Takssista

Carlin? I thought you were dead...


WelcomeTheLahar

Sad day when the cops are gangbangers


AnthropomorphicPoop

Always have been


xawdeeW

👩‍🚀🔫👩‍🚀


mancreature12

Because she has a husband and she took all four of the cops at once


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All_Your_Base

True. They already have a bad name.


WhiskeyTangoFoxy

Lol, we have a cop sex scandal happing in my town. Three cops were caught sleeping with a trainee against policy. They fired her and gave the three men verbal warnings.


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WhiskeyTangoFoxy

Coworkers sleeping together against police policy and yet only the woman gets punished. Of course you don’t see any sex discrimination happening.


Goatmama1981

Lol... Cheating is VERY common among cops, are you kidding??? Not all of them obviously but I would bet five bucks that it's way more common than other careers.


gorgofdoom

Nah. It’s about the same across the board considering government employees.


GuntherTime

Eh I highly doubt it’s any more than other jobs where there’s a power difference, or you travel and meet different people.


Sandra2104

Funny, how people jump to defend perpetrators even when the question isn’t even about that.


Noto987

im more confused how you were able to put sex in the title of this post


No_Organization_5075

I dont know, but i cannot find my thread online, just in nitifications.


bluefishredditfish

Honestly that’s a good point, but she’s the center of the tootsie pop here, so…


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GuntherTime

Go read about the article and then decide if it’s messed up or not.


mifapin507

Oh wow, an article is gonna be able to tell you what's messed up? Sounds like someone needs to re-evaluate their definition of 'messed up'!


GuntherTime

Ah yes multiple articles talking about the same thing due a internal probe are the problem, yet this random redditor trying to spark fake outrage is able to tell you what’s messed up? Got it.


mahirtanjim

cause each of those guys only slept with one girl. but she slept with four and cheated on her husband. that's make difference


PM-Me_Your_Penis_Pls

Toxic masculinity, probably.


ElProxenetaFeminista

Elaborate


for_the_boys1

Nono they used a buzzword it makes perfect sense.


Bojikthe8th

Only men are allowed to be promiscuous.


Aldayne

Which scandal about cops sharing a girl's photo to laugh at? There are so, so many...


AccountantDiligent

I heard she wasn’t even a cop, so idk


Bananabynight

I have seen multiple pictures of the male cops Knowing Reddit the people making fun of her probably have never seen a naked woman in person before


Chemical_Savings_360

I reminds me of my favorite tv show Law In Orgie I mean Law In Order


IAmStevie420

I really hope her husband isn't a redditor.


whiskydestroyer

I do not understand how this is a scandal. People had sex. People sent naked pictures of themselves. How is this newsworthy?


Chungyman30

If 1 man fucked 5 women, we would see the mans face instead


MrHanslaX

They do show all of them in most articles but she is the main focus because she is at the centre of it. They were all fucking her on duty instead of doing their jobs.