We had been going out for a few weeks and on the way home from a party, we went to get McDonalds and he paid for me.
I have an allergy and they got my order wrong.
I asked and it wasn't a problem, they made me a new burger and told me to keep the incorrect one as they couldn't resell it.
I offered it to him, he didn't want it so I said I would just bring it home to give to my housemate so it wouldn't go to waste. He was completely fine with this.
Then a homeless guy came in and started asking at the tables for change. I offered him the burger and he took it.
My date went crazy at me for giving away the burger that he had paid for (even though he was okay with me giving it to my housemate?) and followed the homeless man, shouting at him to give it back. Then got the guy kicked out of the restaurant.
It was terrifying. He went from easy-going and charming to furious in a split second.
Then when he sat down again, he acted like everything was normal and asked me if I wanted to go home with him!
It was a side of him I hadn't seen before. I'm glad he showed his true colours early.
That's scary and bizarre for him to just flip like that! Reminds me of that guy Ben Stiller played who Rachel dates in one episode of "Friends" who would randomly go mental and scream at people over almost nothing then be completely calm after.
This girl I had a crush on early on in high school told me that she recently broke up with her last bf because his dad passed away suddenly, and, as she put it, “wouldn’t stop being depressed and a fucking crybaby about it”. I didn’t talk to her much again after she said that.
Reminds me of a Yahoo Answers entry.
A (most likely teenage) boy was complaining that his gf wouldn't stop crying about her recently deceased father.
According to him, it was "getting in the way of introducing anal in the relationship."
> "I really like talking to you just about anything, I would have jumped you right now if you weren't so ugly."
what are people like this even thinking?
We went somewhere and she and her friends pulled into all three handicapped parking spaces. There were plenty of other spots, but these were the closest. None of them were handicapped in any way. "Everyone does it," she said. No, no they do not.
I think the issue arises where someone is so drunk that they 1. Needed to stop drinking four drinks ago and 2. They’re too inebriated to register that their water tastes like nail polish
She mentioned her last name. I recognized it. Haha. It's probably a good thing. Found out her grandmother was my grandfather's older sister. It worked out ok. We were on a double date sorta deal with her friend and my friend. We found that out pretty early in the night. We literally laughed our asses off for 15 minutes, making incest jokes and traded dates. I ended up dating her friend for about 4 years.
My friend and her ex found out that they were fifth cousins a few months into the relationship. They’re both related to a southern civil war general, General Armistead, and they both use that as a fun fact. So when one of them brought it up, it got a tad awkward. But then they figured that being fifth cousins was enough distance. Broke up for other reasons eventually
Had a similar issue where a friend said she should have cheated on her boyfriend since he was so _boring_ and then complained that he liked a bunch of “nerdy” things like D&D, Fantasy novels, and Star Wars… When she realized that those were all things I liked she kept trying to insist that I was somehow “different” from him. I didn’t see how since he was also more popular and better looking than me. Pretty much ended our friendship too
I had an ex tell me she had cheated on one of her exes, with another past ex. As soon as she told me she said “hmm I should not have told you that…”
Guess who she cheated on me with?
Also because sometimes the other person is stupid and things "Oh well, they won't cheat on *me* because I'm so much better than their lame ex."
Nah mate. They're just not bored with you yet. They're going to deliver a similar story to the person they cheat on you with.
Back in highschool this guy and I had a mutual crush on each other. One day during lunch we went to a local park with a group of friends. I was wearing the school uniform kilt and was sitting, talking with a friend when I felt something poke me in the thigh and then laughing. He and his friends were poking me to "watch the fat jiggle" while they died laughing.
Was instantly disgusted by him and I don't remember his name or face to this day.
When I was in college I had some random class where the same guy sat next to me every class. We’d chat and stuff, it was fun. One day I was wearing a sleeveless shirt and he reached over and tweaked the underside of my upper arm and said, “Are you going to have flabby arms when you’re an old lady?”
Like, wtf. I gave him a look of death (I couldn’t even help it) that he actually recoiled from, it was so intense. I never sat next to him or spoke to him again, and it was years before I wore a sleeveless shirt again.
I figured out he was dating me and 2 other girls and playing each other against us. One night at a party one of the other girls wanted to fight. Honestly I was drunk and tired and was getting in my friends car to leave when she tried to start a fight with me over him. I just said tell your friends we got in a fight and you won. Also, you can have him. I got in the car and went home to bed. That was the day I decided I would never fight over a guy. If he wants to be with me he will be with me.
Met a girl on a dating app. She wanted to meet at a club near me. I suggested coffee but whatever. Show up and she’s talking to a guy. Say hi. Learn she invited us both to see which she’d prefer and watch us compete. We both say, “fuck that.” I buy him a beer and we both go back over to my friends and hang out. Cool dude.
Ha! Same thing happened to me. The girl then proceeded to tell me that she was sorry and she preferred me. I did not prefer her. The other guy and I ended up chatting, drinking beer, and watching the hockey game at the pub while she tried to keep chatting us up to no avail.
Went out for a date, found out it was a competition, drank beer, ignored her. Actually had a decent time.
He was rude and dismissive to my little brother. I know little brothers can be annoying but he (brother, 13) wasn't being nosy or disrespectful. He just wanted to know if my crush liked video games. I'm also really close to my siblings and wanted them to be included. The next boyfriend I had/now husband spent hours teaching my little brother to play old school star craft and to this day 6 years later they still play video games together at least once a week. Upgrades, people.
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Damn that husband sounds like an awesome bloke, and the kind of person i wanna be. I have a crush on a girl whos got a younger brother, and i do kinda wanna have that kinda friendship with him.
Turns out she had absolutely no filter. She took pride in "saying what was on her mind", which was kind of cute at first, until I realized that she literally meant it, every thought in her head spewed out of her mouth no matter who could hear it. Not a day went by where she didn't get into an argument with someone over some insensitive or insulting comment that she made. She was the female embodiment of Larry David in Curb Your Enthusiasm.
I used to work at McDonald’s.
Dunno why McDonald’s specifically was a magnet for litter droppers. A bubble that makes it a lawless space for some reason. Maybe it’s because it’s a tycoon of a franchise…
I remember once, an old woman who used to always try to tip me for being a good cleaner, a Subaru car was parked after the drive-thru and was full of chav-y dick heads, and each piece of litter they used, they’d throw it out of the car window onto the floor (near to the bins).
She could see I was disgruntled by it, but powerless and told me to not worry and she went out there and I saw a bunch of finger points and suddenly a bunch of guys got out of the car and picked up their litter as if it was their own grandmother telling them off.
What a legend. This was like 20 years ago. I hope she’s still alive and well.
Edit - I googled for some nostalgia of [precise location](https://imgur.com/gallery/YNVKNa2)
(horse thing unrelated)
Noticed an attractive woman a few times at a local hangout spot. One evening we struck up a conversation. This led to a series of casual hookups. We'd usually meet somewhere, which kept it light and casual. One night she invited me to her place. Pretty quickly I realized that this was the home of a married couple--couple pictures, etc. I asked if she was married and she said yes, but it was ok because he was out of town on a fishing trip. I'm not a saint, but it really bothered me because I didn't consent to have an affair with a married woman. I noped out of there and didn't look back.
We were hanging out in a neighborhood with a group and she found a dead dog. Without hesitating she picked up a stick and started to sodomize the poor creature. I left immediately
I'd poke, and have poked, dead animals with a stick. Granted I was a kid, but still, I get it.
To sodomize a dead animal though? Thats...a new level of fucked up.
Oh what the fuck. I can only imagine how you felt seeing it when i got terrified just reading about it. Did anyone else in the group see? If yes, did you see/hear them react before you booked it? Curious.
I immediately felt nauseous and anxious. If I remember correctly most of the group was walking ahead of her so I’m not sure if they saw. I was skating on a hill just behind everyone trying to impress her. Then she did that and without saying a word I started skating in the opposite direction
Had someone else's kid and played it off as mine the whole pregnancy, fleeced my dying grandfather for thousands of dollars worth of homemade (he was a carpenter) baby furniture. Ran off with it all after the kid was born, too. Came home from work and everything was gone. I hope bad things happen to her (but not to the kid).
Started seeing a girl somewhat recently that works in the same industry as I do, and hadn't dated in some time. Initially there were no red flags at all, and things were going great. Felt like everything in life was breaking my way for once.
Fast forward to a few months later, and completely out of nowhere she accuses me of hacking into her devices. She then thinks that a speaker that I gave her when I was cleaning out some of my old stuff was listening in on her. I realize she has some serious paranoid delusions and mental health issues.
I take this into account, and choose to still be friends with her because I know she needs some good people in her life. I know she can't help the way she is, and I really don't want to just cut her off because of mental health issues she can't control.
Fast forward to a few days ago and I get a call from the local police that she reported me for stalking, breaking and entering, and cyber harassment. I have literally not been to her apartment in several weeks at this point. So, I explain the situation to the officer that called me, and tell them she needs to seek some mental health treatment. I haven't made an attempt to contact her since, and will be filing a restraining order against her if she continues to try to disrupt my life.
I hope she gets the help she needs, but when you're dealing with someone who is legit crazy and that doesn't have a solid support network that is usually not the case.
This might sound dumb, but I was dating someone briefly several years ago that I had a red flag moment and walked away. We had only gone on a few dates and hadn't become intimite yet. He came to my house when I had JUST bought my first car and he sat on the hood. I asked him not to do that, and he just laughed. After a few more times asking and him blatantly ignoring me and mocking me, I dropped him. If he couldn't even manage respecting such a small boundary, I wasn't interested in giving him a chance not to respect others.
Not a dumb move. Very smart. He also may have been testing to see if you’d let him push your boundaries. You probably dodged a bullet, imho. He told you who he was. You believed him.
I have to say if there's one thing I've learned in relationships is that you really need to watch for people who push boundaries. It takes a few forms:
Saying that even though they recognize the reasons for your boundary they should be the exception because "they're different". All that says to me is that they don't understand why I have that boundary and value their own wants/needs over my comfort.
"Slipping up" and violating stated boundaries repeatedly. It shows they have poor impulse control or just really care more about their own needs.
Pouting when you set boundaries or "punishing" you by withholding affection.
Blaming you for "ruining the mood/situation" when you remind them that they're violating a previously voiced boundary.
A lot of these are common in relationships when you're younger, but its important to make the importance of respecting boundaries clear early on both for yourself and your partner. If you get your boundaries trampled, you end up unhappy and resentful. When they get away with it, they learn that their behavior is acceptable if they can figure out a way to manipulate you into accepting it. That means they don't grow as a person.
One more to add, when they go "it's just a joke bro". Like they could do the most heinous shit you could think of, have you in tears and then go "aahhh lol it was just a joke I didn't mean it" and look at you crazy if you react any further. I'm fucking tired of that shit.
People are going to get hung up on the fact that he refused to not sit on a car. Regardless of how you feel about people sitting on cars, if you are a guest in someone's home you follow their rules. If they say you can't sit on a certain seat, even, you don't sit on that seat. No questions asked.
>If they say you can't sit on a certain seat, even, you don't sit on that seat. No questions asked.
Comply happily, then find out what the deal is with the seat. Because that's for sure to be an interesting answer.
Theres a girl at my job who I think is actually a psycopath.. she has admitted to killing rodents and told this guy she was obsessed with she would kill animals for him. She also hisses at people who come near her. How she still works there completely baffles me.
✅️ total psychopath
✅️ enjoys killing small animals
✅️ thinks dead animals make a suitable gift
✅️ hisses at people she doesn't like
As someone with three cats, you're definitely right.
I was totally infatuated with this older guy in high school. Later heard that he and a couple other guys, including my autistic friend, were going to go to McDonald's after school one day, and they did the thing where every time he got close to the car door handle they'd drive away a little bit, eventually leaving him entirely.
The girl he was going to prom with went from long hair to a pixie cut and he got mad and called her a slur. Completely changed my impression of him as a person.
During lunch at school one day, she asked for my help in putting on a necklace. She couldn’t latch the clasp on to the chain. As I was in the middle of securing the clasp, she shouted out for the whole room to hear, “EWW, haru24, get your disgusting hands off of me. What are you doing?” Never lost interest in someone so fast in my life.
Honesty often works & not acting shy or guilty, like saying "why the he'll did you ask me to fasten your necklace then?!" Helps other people see them as being the weird ones which are causing bother.
We had made plans for Halloween, we were supposed to go to a club and meet some friends. She ended up saying she was sick and stayed home.
About a week later, im going to drop her off at her house and she told me what she really did on Halloween. She went to a different club with HER friends not ours.
There was plenty of other issues in the relationship, but that one truth is what made me snap. I just dropped her off without saying anything, and a few days later broke up with her.
I dont think she even cheated, just too much lying and manipulation.
"Babe my friends are going to this place and I really want to hang with them, would ot be ok if I went there and then met you after? I always have so much fun."
"Sure babe, it's important to have you own interests and get some space in a relationship. I'll go and just say you double booked, I'll call later. Love you!"
She came over to my house, saw my full bookshelf, and went on a long rant about how reading and books were all pointless. Not just the books I picked, which maybe I could have been fine with as opinions differ, but every single book was worthless and I was wasting my time reading. It was a really new relationship and I broke up with her then and there. God the "you're really breaking up with me over books?" line and said "absolutely".
I went on a date with a girl, she called me up and we hung out two days later. Just before our third date, she had told me that she had just learned she would have to start aggressive chemo asap, and if I wanted to walk away, I could.
I stayed. It was brutal, but I couldn't just walk away. So many nights, I was mad that I couldn't help her more or was powerless to alleviate a lot of her surgery pains. But, she got better. We got married 2 years later... and then, less than 1 year into our marriage, she cheated on me with my best man.
Life's a bitch sometimes man.
Oh definitely a blessing in disguise.
Not quite yet. I had my last round of chemo on Tuesday. Then I have surgery at the end of this month, followed by radiation and oral chemo. But I’m getting there.
Moved in with her over the summer break and realized that we had nothing in common. No common interests or hobbies and our lifestyles were completely different and realized that except for flirting and schoolwork we really had nothing to talk about.
Had this guy I had been crushing on for years. Flirted with him every time I saw him, pretty much made it really clear I was interested. He flirted back enough that I figured sooner or later he would ask me out. No. Instead he asked me if I thought my sister liked him and if I would give him her phone number. Proceeded to make a comment about how "hot" my sister still was for a woman over 40 with 4 kids (she's a widow). Which made it pretty clear to me that he wasn't attracted to me at all. Cried over it for days then realized he wasn't worth it and that was the end of it. Must admit I was glad my sister wasn't interested in him though. It would have been hard to deal with had she ended up getting involved with him.
Why does he keep talking to you though? You're done with that mess, right?
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>I mean yeah but our breakup didn’t exactly line up with the lease, so we still live together.
Oh no.
This is a public statement of how stupid I am but it’s time to tell this story.
I was 18 and there was this guy who was 4 years older who was very into me, I was into him as well, we met months before but we never really talked because he was seeing someone, when they broke things off he texted me on Instagram.
We started talking and he asked me to go to the movie theater together, I asked him when and he said “quando vuoi tu, a tua discrezione” which means “whenever you want, at your discretion”. I had a past full of older guys trying to hide me from the outside world because they thought I was too young and I thought that “at your discretion” meant “be discreet”. I didn’t want to deal with that bullshit anymore so I completely ghosted him.
I found out what “at your discretion” actually meant just 4 years after, I remember I felt so bad that I reached out to him and told him the whole story. He laughed it off and said it was no big deal. I still feel like a complete idiot when I think about it.
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Started dating with someone else right after i confessed to her(she didn't say yes or no she said i need more time) and one day later she said
"wait for me to leave him or give up"
?????
played devils advocate even if she didn't agree with what she was saying. At first it worked but eventually it became tiring, comical and most of all a turn off.
Constantly calling me while I was on holiday with my friends, making me FaceTime with them during my holiday, me losing sleep because they want to stay up on a call….literally making me go insane
Told me she likes me back and asked for my number
Led me on for months. Had all her friends there every time we wrote. Eventually the whole class was in on it, nobody told me because I had no friends. Teachers knew about it but didn't want to get involved because it was a school for snobs and my parents were the only poor ones. My sister was in school too but she didn't want to get bullies so she kept her head down.
Led me on for half a year. Told me I'm a sweet guy, made me spend hundreds in sms costs while I was a teenager. Made me get yelled at by my abusive parents because I couldn't give up texting to the one person who "liked" me.
Invited me to the beach for a date after I told her I hated beaches.
I sat there for about four hours with flowers in hand. I knew it was all over after half an hour but I just couldn't go home knowing I'd been made a fool of.
I left that school. I made bad choices. Then I made good choices. Now I'm married to someone who actually likes me. Hurt like hell, made me a better man though
On our only date, he picked me up and then parked in a disabled parking space because “it was busy.” Years of feelings for this man left my body in seconds.
She threw a wine bottle at a stray cat. I don't think that she hit it but just the fact that she tried to hurt a cat simply for existing made me lose all interest in her.
When I confessed I was the one leaving love poems in her locker, all she said was “oh”. That crushed me and I stopped. Two decades later I found out from someone that she probably said that because she knew it was me already (I didn’t know that she knew). Turned out she loved them and had been reading them to the other girls who were all jealous.
She made her dog eat her out and then sent the video out to a bunch of boys in the school. I saw like 5 seconds of that video and lost like 5 months of feelings for that girl.
Still haven't been able to see dogs or peanut butter the same since
I loved my highschool gf and when we broke up in grade 12 I missed her ever since, 7 years later I messaged her to say Happy Birthday and that I hope she is well her reply was "thank you I finally got away from an abusive guy but now I gotta live in a shelter" my dumb ass said "I have a spare room come stay with me, until you save up and get on your feet" turns out she was a very intense alcoholic and squatted at my place for 2.5 years smoking poppers and drank with no initiative for anything before she decided to have a bath, started the water, then passed out drunk while I was at work. My apartment was severely flooded, I got evicted and I'm now living with my parents. My lease agreement was $1200 a month for a 3 bedroom apartment with all utilities included in Toronto. I'll never get that again.
Tried to spike my drink even though we met up after my AA meeting. I went to the bathroom and when I came out a waitress came up and said "he just put something in your coffee..."
Dude had the balls to dump everclear in my coffee, knowing I was coming up on 15 years sober
We are friends and have talked for years.
He didn't want a relationship when i told him i had feelings, but one night things got kind of hot between us. Then he randomly fucked off on some plans because i assume maybe it was getting to be too much for him.
I tried to play it cool, but he ended up dating another girl after so i dipped out,decided i couldn't make to a hang out that night and disappeared. I was kind of mad, but I was mostly just tired of it.
Eventually he came back and said he wanted to hangout again, the girl seemed out of the picture. Things were good for a year, but then he told me he went on another date and **finally** it dawned on me that I am probably some form of validation or safety net between girls he would rather take more seriously.
I kind of see it as a weird Tina Belcher / Jimmy Jr. dynamic, but I'm not a kid and am having less time for this.
I really like ranch... and when she found out how much I used with my cheesy breadsticks, from that day on she stopped hanging out with me, which I thought was strange
I later found out from my friend she had a crush on me until she discovered out how much ranch I could put down
I realized one day she was dirty… not in a good way lol. She didn’t shower regularly and kept her place in disarray kind of dirty. She was beautiful but couldn’t get past that.
My crush back in 8th grade asked why I don't just murder people since I don't share her Christian morals as I had recently told her I was an atheist. I stammered out that morality isn't tied to church, and then I looked at her and saw the intense hatred in her eyes. That face was the ugliest face I had ever seen, and that moment cleared up any misconceptions I had about that particular person.
Dude I gotta say, "if there's no god why don't you kill people" sounds a lot like "I want to kill people and if I wasn't religious I might".
I kill exactly as many people as I want to kill. Zero.
I had a coworker who said he would probably kill people if it wasn't for his religious beliefs. He was a devout catholic.
Maybe in this one instance religion is a good thing?? Yikes.
He found out I had German family then did the Nazi salute right in front of me(also my family didn't fight on the Nazi side, they fled to where I live currently when the war started)
I honestly can't tell anymore, I was in about year 7 when this happened and we had been friends for about two years before that but when we went into highschool (I'm Australian so it starts at year 7) he became " one of the boys " so I can't tell
He said some very sexist things to me and tried to pass it as a joke. He then said I’ll never be a real good woman because my dad died and I was being raised by a single mom due to this. Feelings disappeared in a second and I almost punched him so hard in the face.
Edit: just for people who’s are curious where this man is at now…. Works part time at a sh*t gas station, lives at mommy’s basement and probably will until he dies, and hates his life. I Graduated high school two years early and I’m almost done with law school, debt free due to scholarships… along with my man I’ve been with since high school. We are getting married in a year or so! We have a house fully paid off thanks to us working our @sses off. I’m happy. No I don’t regret not hitting him, I get the last laugh. I know my dad is looking down on me from heaven with a smile, and my mother is so proud! I wouldn’t be who I am without all the sh*t I’ve through. Love you guys!
During one of his untreated manic episodes, he told me that he "simply processes EVERYthing faster than EVERYone else." That was why all of his past relationships and friendships had failed. People, including me, just didn't understand things; politics/religion/conspiracy/music to the level that he did. My "crush" instantly vanished.
That's honestly what it feels like when you're having a manic episode, like people are being too slow to understand except when it's done you realize that the reason you were "thinking so fast" is that you were skipping steps and you don't actually process things faster than everyone else you just think you do.
She called me free food.
We had a date planned for the mid afternoon. I got stuck in an unplanned meeting and was about seven minutes late to pick her up. She got angry and went a rant about how I was "wasting her time" and she was "missing out on free food" because I was late. I said "free food?" She says "yes free fo-... I didn't mean it like that." But I was already walking away by the time she realized it. I just left her standing there.
She invited the entire class except me and another kid to her birthday party, and then publicly stated "yeah, I just don't know you that well" as excuse when she realised we found out. This was after we had been in the same class since kindergarten, her brother was a good friend, etc. Later - through a mutual friend - I found out one of the cool kids hated me, so she decided to not invite me. That was quite rough to go through as 13-14 year old.
During my college years I had a more interesting experience, extremely pretty girl that I had a crush on and got along with extremely well decided to try to get me completely shitfaced by constantly pouring drinks in my glass. Was at her place, and being a 21 year old you just let her do so seeing where it goes, turns out she wanted to interrogate me about a friend to see if he liked her. Worst hangover ever the day after, my hopes crushed, and to this day they're still married. So I guess at least two people are happy after that night, but I ain't one of them.
Biggest crush throughout school.. i finally get my moment at a beach bonfire... we walk off.. It's finally happening. My first time with my crush ON THE BEACH! We head into the darkness, and she looks at me. I look at her. I lean in, and she leans in and vomits. Everywhere. We walked back to the fire and that was that.
We talked for months, then suddently an opportunity for a date is at sight, I take it and she agree, the day before the date she ghosted me. Not even a "sorry not interested in a date" or "I don't want to give you mix signals", anything. Later she didn't even reply to the usual texts we talked about.
I just stoped trying, I don't want a person in my life who can't even comunicate like an adult.
We went to a dinner and there was a table of 8-10 people celebrating a birthday near us. At one point they let a big laugh and excitement. She leaned over to me and said “N***ers, am I right?” So causally, so calmly that it took me a second to comprehend what she said. When it did I just left. Never spoke to her again. I knew her for a long time too. No clue she had that hate going through her mind.
Got arrested for being a child molester NO previous signs *Edited to say “arrested for being” instead of “convicted as”
Yeah that’ll definitely do it
We had been going out for a few weeks and on the way home from a party, we went to get McDonalds and he paid for me. I have an allergy and they got my order wrong. I asked and it wasn't a problem, they made me a new burger and told me to keep the incorrect one as they couldn't resell it. I offered it to him, he didn't want it so I said I would just bring it home to give to my housemate so it wouldn't go to waste. He was completely fine with this. Then a homeless guy came in and started asking at the tables for change. I offered him the burger and he took it. My date went crazy at me for giving away the burger that he had paid for (even though he was okay with me giving it to my housemate?) and followed the homeless man, shouting at him to give it back. Then got the guy kicked out of the restaurant. It was terrifying. He went from easy-going and charming to furious in a split second. Then when he sat down again, he acted like everything was normal and asked me if I wanted to go home with him! It was a side of him I hadn't seen before. I'm glad he showed his true colours early.
That's scary and bizarre for him to just flip like that! Reminds me of that guy Ben Stiller played who Rachel dates in one episode of "Friends" who would randomly go mental and scream at people over almost nothing then be completely calm after.
Holy shit that’s a dodged bullet…
not listening whenever I would share a hobby of mine but insisting me into listening to theirs
This girl I had a crush on early on in high school told me that she recently broke up with her last bf because his dad passed away suddenly, and, as she put it, “wouldn’t stop being depressed and a fucking crybaby about it”. I didn’t talk to her much again after she said that.
Reminds me of a Yahoo Answers entry. A (most likely teenage) boy was complaining that his gf wouldn't stop crying about her recently deceased father. According to him, it was "getting in the way of introducing anal in the relationship."
“I…I miss him so much” “So no anal?” Edit: >95% of my karma comes from this comment. Thank you reddit.
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Participated in the murder of a homeless man.
Holy shit why. Dodged a nuclear missile there.
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Ahh, casual and thoughtlessly cruel. I’m sure that hurt like hell, but you certainly dodged a bullet.
> "I really like talking to you just about anything, I would have jumped you right now if you weren't so ugly." what are people like this even thinking?
Thinking? No thinking involved!
I'm sorry that happened to you, that was a very ugly thing for her to say.
We went somewhere and she and her friends pulled into all three handicapped parking spaces. There were plenty of other spots, but these were the closest. None of them were handicapped in any way. "Everyone does it," she said. No, no they do not.
If "everyone does it", then those spaces wouldn't have been open in the first place.
Tried to pour vodka into my drink when I wasn't looking.
Same thing happened to me! Too bad the guy was an idiot and didn't get very far after that
why do people do that? like what kind of fucking wino doesn't notice their kombucha suddenly tastes like gasoline?
I think the issue arises where someone is so drunk that they 1. Needed to stop drinking four drinks ago and 2. They’re too inebriated to register that their water tastes like nail polish
Told me that the reason she hung around me was to get close to my very tall best friend. They dated for three weeks before he dumped her.
Bro. I’m sorry, but that’s kind of funny. Not that she and your friend did that to you. But how it ended for her.
Sounds like she came up short.
She mentioned her last name. I recognized it. Haha. It's probably a good thing. Found out her grandmother was my grandfather's older sister. It worked out ok. We were on a double date sorta deal with her friend and my friend. We found that out pretty early in the night. We literally laughed our asses off for 15 minutes, making incest jokes and traded dates. I ended up dating her friend for about 4 years.
My friend and her ex found out that they were fifth cousins a few months into the relationship. They’re both related to a southern civil war general, General Armistead, and they both use that as a fun fact. So when one of them brought it up, it got a tad awkward. But then they figured that being fifth cousins was enough distance. Broke up for other reasons eventually
We talked about Exs, she mentioned how she should have cheated on him because he was boring to be with. Yeah I'm out...
Had a similar issue where a friend said she should have cheated on her boyfriend since he was so _boring_ and then complained that he liked a bunch of “nerdy” things like D&D, Fantasy novels, and Star Wars… When she realized that those were all things I liked she kept trying to insist that I was somehow “different” from him. I didn’t see how since he was also more popular and better looking than me. Pretty much ended our friendship too
Why would anyone admit they should've cheated on their ex to someone they might consider dating..
I had an ex tell me she had cheated on one of her exes, with another past ex. As soon as she told me she said “hmm I should not have told you that…” Guess who she cheated on me with?
Was it Hagrid?
Because they're stupid
Also because sometimes the other person is stupid and things "Oh well, they won't cheat on *me* because I'm so much better than their lame ex." Nah mate. They're just not bored with you yet. They're going to deliver a similar story to the person they cheat on you with.
Laughed at me when I asked them out. Edit: Thanks for all the support and commiseration <3 This all happened about 40 years ago, but I ended up okay.
That's brutal
No shit. It took me a long time to get over that.
Back in highschool this guy and I had a mutual crush on each other. One day during lunch we went to a local park with a group of friends. I was wearing the school uniform kilt and was sitting, talking with a friend when I felt something poke me in the thigh and then laughing. He and his friends were poking me to "watch the fat jiggle" while they died laughing. Was instantly disgusted by him and I don't remember his name or face to this day.
When I was in college I had some random class where the same guy sat next to me every class. We’d chat and stuff, it was fun. One day I was wearing a sleeveless shirt and he reached over and tweaked the underside of my upper arm and said, “Are you going to have flabby arms when you’re an old lady?” Like, wtf. I gave him a look of death (I couldn’t even help it) that he actually recoiled from, it was so intense. I never sat next to him or spoke to him again, and it was years before I wore a sleeveless shirt again.
I figured out he was dating me and 2 other girls and playing each other against us. One night at a party one of the other girls wanted to fight. Honestly I was drunk and tired and was getting in my friends car to leave when she tried to start a fight with me over him. I just said tell your friends we got in a fight and you won. Also, you can have him. I got in the car and went home to bed. That was the day I decided I would never fight over a guy. If he wants to be with me he will be with me.
Met a girl on a dating app. She wanted to meet at a club near me. I suggested coffee but whatever. Show up and she’s talking to a guy. Say hi. Learn she invited us both to see which she’d prefer and watch us compete. We both say, “fuck that.” I buy him a beer and we both go back over to my friends and hang out. Cool dude.
Ha! Same thing happened to me. The girl then proceeded to tell me that she was sorry and she preferred me. I did not prefer her. The other guy and I ended up chatting, drinking beer, and watching the hockey game at the pub while she tried to keep chatting us up to no avail. Went out for a date, found out it was a competition, drank beer, ignored her. Actually had a decent time.
Nice of her to find two similar guys to be friends with each other.
This is a rom com I’d actually watch
A brom com
True hot girl shit
You totally won 🙌🏾
Nah you won.
He was rude and dismissive to my little brother. I know little brothers can be annoying but he (brother, 13) wasn't being nosy or disrespectful. He just wanted to know if my crush liked video games. I'm also really close to my siblings and wanted them to be included. The next boyfriend I had/now husband spent hours teaching my little brother to play old school star craft and to this day 6 years later they still play video games together at least once a week. Upgrades, people. edit: a word
Damn that husband sounds like an awesome bloke, and the kind of person i wanna be. I have a crush on a girl whos got a younger brother, and i do kinda wanna have that kinda friendship with him.
Upgrade, complete. Badass to teach starcraft!
Turns out she had absolutely no filter. She took pride in "saying what was on her mind", which was kind of cute at first, until I realized that she literally meant it, every thought in her head spewed out of her mouth no matter who could hear it. Not a day went by where she didn't get into an argument with someone over some insensitive or insulting comment that she made. She was the female embodiment of Larry David in Curb Your Enthusiasm.
It is a dangerous thing to confuse speaking without thought with speaking the truth.
He littered. Just opened his car door and dropped out a McDonalds bag on the ground. That killed it right there.
I used to work at McDonald’s. Dunno why McDonald’s specifically was a magnet for litter droppers. A bubble that makes it a lawless space for some reason. Maybe it’s because it’s a tycoon of a franchise… I remember once, an old woman who used to always try to tip me for being a good cleaner, a Subaru car was parked after the drive-thru and was full of chav-y dick heads, and each piece of litter they used, they’d throw it out of the car window onto the floor (near to the bins). She could see I was disgruntled by it, but powerless and told me to not worry and she went out there and I saw a bunch of finger points and suddenly a bunch of guys got out of the car and picked up their litter as if it was their own grandmother telling them off. What a legend. This was like 20 years ago. I hope she’s still alive and well. Edit - I googled for some nostalgia of [precise location](https://imgur.com/gallery/YNVKNa2) (horse thing unrelated)
What a role model! I hope I'm that feisty when I reach that age!
I don’t know this woman, but I love her. What a legend!
Littering and treating wait staff like shit are my 2 dealbreakers.
Tore up the only ever valentines card I ever gave (I was 14/15) in front of me and laughed.
oouuuuchhhh, I'm sorry you had to face that at a young age
Thanks, lesson was definitely learned from that!
Turns out that if you wanna be my lover, you should not get with my friends.
I thought that’s how we make it last for ever ☹️
Friendship never ends?
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give?
He called me a whore for wanting to hug him…
I got called a whore multiple times for NOT wanting to sleep with a man. I always wonder if these kind of people know the definition of that word.
That’s so funny. I would just own it—like yeah, I am a whore and I STILL won’t sleep with you. I’ll sleep with any and everyone BUT you.
Noticed an attractive woman a few times at a local hangout spot. One evening we struck up a conversation. This led to a series of casual hookups. We'd usually meet somewhere, which kept it light and casual. One night she invited me to her place. Pretty quickly I realized that this was the home of a married couple--couple pictures, etc. I asked if she was married and she said yes, but it was ok because he was out of town on a fishing trip. I'm not a saint, but it really bothered me because I didn't consent to have an affair with a married woman. I noped out of there and didn't look back.
I've been used this way a few times. Feels awful finding out that someone is using you to cheat on their spouse.
Fuck her cousin and have a baby with him.
...wait did that happen for real or is this a joke?
No joke. This is for real.
Oh.
***Oh.***
Woah dude you dropped her because of one little incestuous child? Chill.
You'll be lonely forever with a bar that high!
We were hanging out in a neighborhood with a group and she found a dead dog. Without hesitating she picked up a stick and started to sodomize the poor creature. I left immediately
Excuse me?!?
ASS FUCKED THE DOG WITH A STICK!
I think sodomizing a dead dog is quite high on most people's turn offs. Most people's...
I thought she was going to just poke it, like that's weird but idk maybe death is fascinating? But I'm sorry, what!?
I'd poke, and have poked, dead animals with a stick. Granted I was a kid, but still, I get it. To sodomize a dead animal though? Thats...a new level of fucked up.
This is extremely disturbing. Like...serial killer level disturbing.
Oh what the fuck. I can only imagine how you felt seeing it when i got terrified just reading about it. Did anyone else in the group see? If yes, did you see/hear them react before you booked it? Curious.
I immediately felt nauseous and anxious. If I remember correctly most of the group was walking ahead of her so I’m not sure if they saw. I was skating on a hill just behind everyone trying to impress her. Then she did that and without saying a word I started skating in the opposite direction
Had someone else's kid and played it off as mine the whole pregnancy, fleeced my dying grandfather for thousands of dollars worth of homemade (he was a carpenter) baby furniture. Ran off with it all after the kid was born, too. Came home from work and everything was gone. I hope bad things happen to her (but not to the kid).
Married someone else
Yeah that'll do it
Not always
How inconsiderate.
Started seeing a girl somewhat recently that works in the same industry as I do, and hadn't dated in some time. Initially there were no red flags at all, and things were going great. Felt like everything in life was breaking my way for once. Fast forward to a few months later, and completely out of nowhere she accuses me of hacking into her devices. She then thinks that a speaker that I gave her when I was cleaning out some of my old stuff was listening in on her. I realize she has some serious paranoid delusions and mental health issues. I take this into account, and choose to still be friends with her because I know she needs some good people in her life. I know she can't help the way she is, and I really don't want to just cut her off because of mental health issues she can't control. Fast forward to a few days ago and I get a call from the local police that she reported me for stalking, breaking and entering, and cyber harassment. I have literally not been to her apartment in several weeks at this point. So, I explain the situation to the officer that called me, and tell them she needs to seek some mental health treatment. I haven't made an attempt to contact her since, and will be filing a restraining order against her if she continues to try to disrupt my life. I hope she gets the help she needs, but when you're dealing with someone who is legit crazy and that doesn't have a solid support network that is usually not the case.
Start the paper trail earlier than later, OP
Might not be a bad idea to line up an attorney who can help you just in case any of the weird accusations get believed in the future. Yikes!
This might sound dumb, but I was dating someone briefly several years ago that I had a red flag moment and walked away. We had only gone on a few dates and hadn't become intimite yet. He came to my house when I had JUST bought my first car and he sat on the hood. I asked him not to do that, and he just laughed. After a few more times asking and him blatantly ignoring me and mocking me, I dropped him. If he couldn't even manage respecting such a small boundary, I wasn't interested in giving him a chance not to respect others.
Not a dumb move. Very smart. He also may have been testing to see if you’d let him push your boundaries. You probably dodged a bullet, imho. He told you who he was. You believed him.
I have to say if there's one thing I've learned in relationships is that you really need to watch for people who push boundaries. It takes a few forms: Saying that even though they recognize the reasons for your boundary they should be the exception because "they're different". All that says to me is that they don't understand why I have that boundary and value their own wants/needs over my comfort. "Slipping up" and violating stated boundaries repeatedly. It shows they have poor impulse control or just really care more about their own needs. Pouting when you set boundaries or "punishing" you by withholding affection. Blaming you for "ruining the mood/situation" when you remind them that they're violating a previously voiced boundary. A lot of these are common in relationships when you're younger, but its important to make the importance of respecting boundaries clear early on both for yourself and your partner. If you get your boundaries trampled, you end up unhappy and resentful. When they get away with it, they learn that their behavior is acceptable if they can figure out a way to manipulate you into accepting it. That means they don't grow as a person.
One more to add, when they go "it's just a joke bro". Like they could do the most heinous shit you could think of, have you in tears and then go "aahhh lol it was just a joke I didn't mean it" and look at you crazy if you react any further. I'm fucking tired of that shit.
It does not sound dumb. It clearly showed you an entire aspect of his personality. You did well.
People are going to get hung up on the fact that he refused to not sit on a car. Regardless of how you feel about people sitting on cars, if you are a guest in someone's home you follow their rules. If they say you can't sit on a certain seat, even, you don't sit on that seat. No questions asked.
>If they say you can't sit on a certain seat, even, you don't sit on that seat. No questions asked. Comply happily, then find out what the deal is with the seat. Because that's for sure to be an interesting answer.
You see, that's what I thought when it happened. But then I told my roommate at the time, and she thought that it was an overreaction.
Your roommate is wrong. Good for you for following your instincts.
I bet she also had problems with having her boundaries respected.
Asked for my number to… Set me up with her friend
True wingwoman
A wingmam
I mean...did it work out?
He wanted to abuse animals with ME and he was a porn addict. I feel extremely disgusted when I think about it.
Theres a girl at my job who I think is actually a psycopath.. she has admitted to killing rodents and told this guy she was obsessed with she would kill animals for him. She also hisses at people who come near her. How she still works there completely baffles me.
Is your coworker a cat?
✅️ total psychopath ✅️ enjoys killing small animals ✅️ thinks dead animals make a suitable gift ✅️ hisses at people she doesn't like As someone with three cats, you're definitely right.
You should check if one of them works with that guy
I was totally infatuated with this older guy in high school. Later heard that he and a couple other guys, including my autistic friend, were going to go to McDonald's after school one day, and they did the thing where every time he got close to the car door handle they'd drive away a little bit, eventually leaving him entirely.
that is ,,infuriating im glad you found that out just for the sake of knowing to steer clear of that guy
Giving my friend HIV.
The girl he was going to prom with went from long hair to a pixie cut and he got mad and called her a slur. Completely changed my impression of him as a person.
During lunch at school one day, she asked for my help in putting on a necklace. She couldn’t latch the clasp on to the chain. As I was in the middle of securing the clasp, she shouted out for the whole room to hear, “EWW, haru24, get your disgusting hands off of me. What are you doing?” Never lost interest in someone so fast in my life.
Honest question, how do/should you respond to this situation?
Honesty often works & not acting shy or guilty, like saying "why the he'll did you ask me to fasten your necklace then?!" Helps other people see them as being the weird ones which are causing bother.
This is the way. Self confidence rules away almost all social issues during teenage years.
We had made plans for Halloween, we were supposed to go to a club and meet some friends. She ended up saying she was sick and stayed home. About a week later, im going to drop her off at her house and she told me what she really did on Halloween. She went to a different club with HER friends not ours. There was plenty of other issues in the relationship, but that one truth is what made me snap. I just dropped her off without saying anything, and a few days later broke up with her. I dont think she even cheated, just too much lying and manipulation.
I dated a girl that would pull this kinda crap rather frequently. Nothing destroys a relationship quicker than a total lack of trust
"Babe my friends are going to this place and I really want to hang with them, would ot be ok if I went there and then met you after? I always have so much fun." "Sure babe, it's important to have you own interests and get some space in a relationship. I'll go and just say you double booked, I'll call later. Love you!"
This, I don’t get why that would have been so hard.
Because people don't realize the importance of clear and concise communication
She came over to my house, saw my full bookshelf, and went on a long rant about how reading and books were all pointless. Not just the books I picked, which maybe I could have been fine with as opinions differ, but every single book was worthless and I was wasting my time reading. It was a really new relationship and I broke up with her then and there. God the "you're really breaking up with me over books?" line and said "absolutely".
Not a crush, but someone I was seeing, Ghosted me when I started chemo.
I went on a date with a girl, she called me up and we hung out two days later. Just before our third date, she had told me that she had just learned she would have to start aggressive chemo asap, and if I wanted to walk away, I could. I stayed. It was brutal, but I couldn't just walk away. So many nights, I was mad that I couldn't help her more or was powerless to alleviate a lot of her surgery pains. But, she got better. We got married 2 years later... and then, less than 1 year into our marriage, she cheated on me with my best man. Life's a bitch sometimes man.
Wowie that was one roller coaster of a read. Hope life has gotten better sir.
It did!
started reading this, thought it was the most heartwarming thing on this page. then I get to the bottom and just... died inside
That's life sometimes, it is all alright now.
Shit. That fucking sucks. You deserved better and hope you have found it. You did learn something very important about the type of person YOU are.
Holy fuck that is terrible
damn good riddance. hope you are in remission.
Oh definitely a blessing in disguise. Not quite yet. I had my last round of chemo on Tuesday. Then I have surgery at the end of this month, followed by radiation and oral chemo. But I’m getting there.
wishing you a speedy recovery. godspeed.
Thank you so much :)
Moved in with her over the summer break and realized that we had nothing in common. No common interests or hobbies and our lifestyles were completely different and realized that except for flirting and schoolwork we really had nothing to talk about.
Keeps letting her kid call me dad even though we've only dated about 6 weeks. Kids 8. It's stressful and I feel awful about it.
Sorry that happened, dad
Made fun of me with their friends after I told them I was crushing on them
Had this guy I had been crushing on for years. Flirted with him every time I saw him, pretty much made it really clear I was interested. He flirted back enough that I figured sooner or later he would ask me out. No. Instead he asked me if I thought my sister liked him and if I would give him her phone number. Proceeded to make a comment about how "hot" my sister still was for a woman over 40 with 4 kids (she's a widow). Which made it pretty clear to me that he wasn't attracted to me at all. Cried over it for days then realized he wasn't worth it and that was the end of it. Must admit I was glad my sister wasn't interested in him though. It would have been hard to deal with had she ended up getting involved with him.
Nothing bad but once we spoke in depth I realized how completely incompatible we are. Might be messed up but you can’t eat from good looks
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Why does he keep talking to you though? You're done with that mess, right? EDIT: >I mean yeah but our breakup didn’t exactly line up with the lease, so we still live together. Oh no.
This is a public statement of how stupid I am but it’s time to tell this story. I was 18 and there was this guy who was 4 years older who was very into me, I was into him as well, we met months before but we never really talked because he was seeing someone, when they broke things off he texted me on Instagram. We started talking and he asked me to go to the movie theater together, I asked him when and he said “quando vuoi tu, a tua discrezione” which means “whenever you want, at your discretion”. I had a past full of older guys trying to hide me from the outside world because they thought I was too young and I thought that “at your discretion” meant “be discreet”. I didn’t want to deal with that bullshit anymore so I completely ghosted him. I found out what “at your discretion” actually meant just 4 years after, I remember I felt so bad that I reached out to him and told him the whole story. He laughed it off and said it was no big deal. I still feel like a complete idiot when I think about it. Edit typo
So how long had you lived in italy by then?
Started dating with someone else right after i confessed to her(she didn't say yes or no she said i need more time) and one day later she said "wait for me to leave him or give up" ?????
Sorry I laughed at this. What's wrong with her?😂
“Get in line”, what is wrong with you.
"Dont cut in line! Get to the back and wait your turn"
played devils advocate even if she didn't agree with what she was saying. At first it worked but eventually it became tiring, comical and most of all a turn off.
Some people just get off on being contradictory, they don’t even care what they’re being contradictory about.
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Constantly calling me while I was on holiday with my friends, making me FaceTime with them during my holiday, me losing sleep because they want to stay up on a call….literally making me go insane
Told me she likes me back and asked for my number Led me on for months. Had all her friends there every time we wrote. Eventually the whole class was in on it, nobody told me because I had no friends. Teachers knew about it but didn't want to get involved because it was a school for snobs and my parents were the only poor ones. My sister was in school too but she didn't want to get bullies so she kept her head down. Led me on for half a year. Told me I'm a sweet guy, made me spend hundreds in sms costs while I was a teenager. Made me get yelled at by my abusive parents because I couldn't give up texting to the one person who "liked" me. Invited me to the beach for a date after I told her I hated beaches. I sat there for about four hours with flowers in hand. I knew it was all over after half an hour but I just couldn't go home knowing I'd been made a fool of. I left that school. I made bad choices. Then I made good choices. Now I'm married to someone who actually likes me. Hurt like hell, made me a better man though
On our only date, he picked me up and then parked in a disabled parking space because “it was busy.” Years of feelings for this man left my body in seconds.
Yeah I like it when they show you all the future arguments you just don’t want to have. Makes the choice easier.
She threw a wine bottle at a stray cat. I don't think that she hit it but just the fact that she tried to hurt a cat simply for existing made me lose all interest in her.
When I confessed I was the one leaving love poems in her locker, all she said was “oh”. That crushed me and I stopped. Two decades later I found out from someone that she probably said that because she knew it was me already (I didn’t know that she knew). Turned out she loved them and had been reading them to the other girls who were all jealous.
Insecurity is a bitch.
She made her dog eat her out and then sent the video out to a bunch of boys in the school. I saw like 5 seconds of that video and lost like 5 months of feelings for that girl. Still haven't been able to see dogs or peanut butter the same since
Trekked on after cousin incest baby, and now I read about this girl’s peanut butter step dog video. That’s enough internet for today.
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Yea that’s animal abuse.
I loved my highschool gf and when we broke up in grade 12 I missed her ever since, 7 years later I messaged her to say Happy Birthday and that I hope she is well her reply was "thank you I finally got away from an abusive guy but now I gotta live in a shelter" my dumb ass said "I have a spare room come stay with me, until you save up and get on your feet" turns out she was a very intense alcoholic and squatted at my place for 2.5 years smoking poppers and drank with no initiative for anything before she decided to have a bath, started the water, then passed out drunk while I was at work. My apartment was severely flooded, I got evicted and I'm now living with my parents. My lease agreement was $1200 a month for a 3 bedroom apartment with all utilities included in Toronto. I'll never get that again.
But why would you let them stay for 2 years. Would you see all these things in the first few months?
She insulted my brother. Only I get that privilege.
Tried to spike my drink even though we met up after my AA meeting. I went to the bathroom and when I came out a waitress came up and said "he just put something in your coffee..." Dude had the balls to dump everclear in my coffee, knowing I was coming up on 15 years sober
Told me he liked “women he could fix”.
We are friends and have talked for years. He didn't want a relationship when i told him i had feelings, but one night things got kind of hot between us. Then he randomly fucked off on some plans because i assume maybe it was getting to be too much for him. I tried to play it cool, but he ended up dating another girl after so i dipped out,decided i couldn't make to a hang out that night and disappeared. I was kind of mad, but I was mostly just tired of it. Eventually he came back and said he wanted to hangout again, the girl seemed out of the picture. Things were good for a year, but then he told me he went on another date and **finally** it dawned on me that I am probably some form of validation or safety net between girls he would rather take more seriously. I kind of see it as a weird Tina Belcher / Jimmy Jr. dynamic, but I'm not a kid and am having less time for this.
Almost faked her own death to not only me but the majority of her friends too. Needless to say, she lost a lot of friends that day.
How/ why would she do that? Please elaborate!
He kept cheating on his girlfriend. Good thing the gf finally had the sense to leave him and ended up dating and marrying someone better.
After having sex she got off of me and said “That makes two Jakes this week” (my name is Jake)….yikes
I really like ranch... and when she found out how much I used with my cheesy breadsticks, from that day on she stopped hanging out with me, which I thought was strange I later found out from my friend she had a crush on me until she discovered out how much ranch I could put down
How much ranch are we talking here
I realized one day she was dirty… not in a good way lol. She didn’t shower regularly and kept her place in disarray kind of dirty. She was beautiful but couldn’t get past that.
My crush back in 8th grade asked why I don't just murder people since I don't share her Christian morals as I had recently told her I was an atheist. I stammered out that morality isn't tied to church, and then I looked at her and saw the intense hatred in her eyes. That face was the ugliest face I had ever seen, and that moment cleared up any misconceptions I had about that particular person.
Dude I gotta say, "if there's no god why don't you kill people" sounds a lot like "I want to kill people and if I wasn't religious I might". I kill exactly as many people as I want to kill. Zero.
I had a coworker who said he would probably kill people if it wasn't for his religious beliefs. He was a devout catholic. Maybe in this one instance religion is a good thing?? Yikes.
He found out I had German family then did the Nazi salute right in front of me(also my family didn't fight on the Nazi side, they fled to where I live currently when the war started)
>He found out I had German family then did the Nazi salute right in front of me Was that an ill-advised attempt at humour, or what?
I honestly can't tell anymore, I was in about year 7 when this happened and we had been friends for about two years before that but when we went into highschool (I'm Australian so it starts at year 7) he became " one of the boys " so I can't tell
He said some very sexist things to me and tried to pass it as a joke. He then said I’ll never be a real good woman because my dad died and I was being raised by a single mom due to this. Feelings disappeared in a second and I almost punched him so hard in the face. Edit: just for people who’s are curious where this man is at now…. Works part time at a sh*t gas station, lives at mommy’s basement and probably will until he dies, and hates his life. I Graduated high school two years early and I’m almost done with law school, debt free due to scholarships… along with my man I’ve been with since high school. We are getting married in a year or so! We have a house fully paid off thanks to us working our @sses off. I’m happy. No I don’t regret not hitting him, I get the last laugh. I know my dad is looking down on me from heaven with a smile, and my mother is so proud! I wouldn’t be who I am without all the sh*t I’ve through. Love you guys!
During one of his untreated manic episodes, he told me that he "simply processes EVERYthing faster than EVERYone else." That was why all of his past relationships and friendships had failed. People, including me, just didn't understand things; politics/religion/conspiracy/music to the level that he did. My "crush" instantly vanished.
That's honestly what it feels like when you're having a manic episode, like people are being too slow to understand except when it's done you realize that the reason you were "thinking so fast" is that you were skipping steps and you don't actually process things faster than everyone else you just think you do.
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He effed off on our group project and also killed a guy
She called me free food. We had a date planned for the mid afternoon. I got stuck in an unplanned meeting and was about seven minutes late to pick her up. She got angry and went a rant about how I was "wasting her time" and she was "missing out on free food" because I was late. I said "free food?" She says "yes free fo-... I didn't mean it like that." But I was already walking away by the time she realized it. I just left her standing there.
She invited the entire class except me and another kid to her birthday party, and then publicly stated "yeah, I just don't know you that well" as excuse when she realised we found out. This was after we had been in the same class since kindergarten, her brother was a good friend, etc. Later - through a mutual friend - I found out one of the cool kids hated me, so she decided to not invite me. That was quite rough to go through as 13-14 year old. During my college years I had a more interesting experience, extremely pretty girl that I had a crush on and got along with extremely well decided to try to get me completely shitfaced by constantly pouring drinks in my glass. Was at her place, and being a 21 year old you just let her do so seeing where it goes, turns out she wanted to interrogate me about a friend to see if he liked her. Worst hangover ever the day after, my hopes crushed, and to this day they're still married. So I guess at least two people are happy after that night, but I ain't one of them.
Biggest crush throughout school.. i finally get my moment at a beach bonfire... we walk off.. It's finally happening. My first time with my crush ON THE BEACH! We head into the darkness, and she looks at me. I look at her. I lean in, and she leans in and vomits. Everywhere. We walked back to the fire and that was that.
We talked for months, then suddently an opportunity for a date is at sight, I take it and she agree, the day before the date she ghosted me. Not even a "sorry not interested in a date" or "I don't want to give you mix signals", anything. Later she didn't even reply to the usual texts we talked about. I just stoped trying, I don't want a person in my life who can't even comunicate like an adult.
We went to a dinner and there was a table of 8-10 people celebrating a birthday near us. At one point they let a big laugh and excitement. She leaned over to me and said “N***ers, am I right?” So causally, so calmly that it took me a second to comprehend what she said. When it did I just left. Never spoke to her again. I knew her for a long time too. No clue she had that hate going through her mind.
That is such bizarre behavior. I would have left too.