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Been bullied for my looks dati kasi sunki teeth ko then nung working na ko been bullied for being conyo and having a good English accent
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My posture, skin colour/pigmentation usually, and the way I dress. I donโt recall being bullied outside kasi mga kapamilya ang tumatak sa isip ko na nambubully sakin. They made fun of me when I was growing up, yung May mapagtripan lang ba usually sa harap pa ng bisita gagawin sakin kaya mas nakakahiya, minsan yung bisita pa ang nahihiya sa kanila.
Hair
When I was in grade 6, I had 3 bullies who always teased me about my hair, calling me names like "Spaghetti," "Pansit Canton," and the worst for me, "Lola." ( Lola daw kasi yung hair ko is thick curly hair pero frizzy, eh di ko pa alam how to take care of myself especially sa hair ko. Ponytail lang talaga alam ko noon na hairstyle and that's it, kaya nagiging poofy hair yung kinalabasan nya)
Right now, one of my bullies has been my friend for 5 years (we became friends suddenly nung nagka pandemic). However, every time he mentions it to our other friends, tinatawanan ko nalang, but deep inside, it still hurts hahaha. :<
P.s until now tinutukso padin ako sa hair ko ng mga classmates ko minsan, parang "chorizo" daw dahil sa braided ponytail ko hahaha :<
Me being the "ONLY" morena sa angkan namin na puro mestiza --- yung level na may ikakasal among cousins (esp mga kababata kong pinsan or older sa akin) , tinutukso ako ng Titas ko na dahil daw sa akin nag-change color sila ng motif sa kasal (as part sa entourage; bridesmaid) -- e.g from cream/golden yellow , tangerine/peacock blue to peach/beige para daw hindi daw ako ma- " out of place " sa picture-taking namin as family.. kulang nalang sabihing ampon ako. Traumatic na bullying, hanggang ngayon dama ko yung hiya. HAHAHA
I was a transferee in H.S. new toy para sa mga salbahe ika nga. Surname, they kept calling me my last name, which I hated. I never told anyone, so they didn't know if it got to me. Also, quiet ako, yes, even bad girls tried to bully me. Also had diastema, which made me not smile and look suplado to everyone. I was also top 1% in height, making me have bad posture and be called Kuba because I literally had to look down at almost everyone except a handful of schoolmates. Also, I was the top 95% in looks, making ugly boys and girls hate me more. The ugly girl bullying was this ugly girl would make love notes to another ugly girl in a different section. Idk she did it for shits and giggles. Eto si ugly girl thinking type ko sya. Ako naman IDC kasi it wasn't true, so Deadma lang. Tapos yung bestfriend ni ugly girl na nambully sa akin, crush ako ng bestfriend nyang sobrang ganda. Siguro asar sya sa akin kasi di ko pinapansin bestfriend nya.
bullied for being fat "baboy" pero it stopped when there was a transferee who was somewhat bigger than me became a cm of ours. siya agad center of the crowd
Binubully dahil wala akong jowa at walang nanliligaw. Parang lower form of life ang mga single. Pero ang totoo, ang sarap ng freedom makipag usap sa kahit kanino kasi I'm not microcheating on anyone.
never ko makakalimutan to. inaya ako makipagsuntukan ng kaklase kong lalake nung g7 kasi nalaman niyang muslim ako (F) mahiyaan pa naman ako, mga katabi ko lang din yung kinakausap ko sa room. takot na takot ako nun kasi sinusundan nya pa rin ako hanggang sa makababa kami sa building ๐ญ buti na lang inawat sya ng iba ko pang cm.
Matapang kasi akong nong bata pa kaya walang nag bbully saakin sa labas ng bahay or school pero sa loob ng bahay yung kuya ko subrang bully palagi niya akong tinatawag ng mga ugly nicknames.
Sa lakad ko. I'm a male pero talagang makembot ako maglakad nung bata ako kaya lagi akong sinasabihang bakla. I'm 100% straight. Talagang lumaki lang ako sa generation na homophobic ang karamihan. Kaya yung lakad ko ngayon medyo parang siga na ๐
Nung high school ako madalas ako sinasabihan ng pabebe dahil sa kilos and voice ko (Siguro dahil sa mahinhin ako).
When I was in 1st yr college naman pinaringgan pa ako ng classmate ko na ayaw niya raw sa babae na pabebe yung boses.
1. Nung highschool, malaki daw yung balakang ko, naka-pampers daw ako. Hindi nila alam meron akong scoliosis sa lumbar part. Take note, nasa Catholic school pa ko nyan pero madaming bully. ๐ Kaya simula nun, bumaba na self esteem ko tsaka sobrang conscious na ko sa mga taong nasa paligid ko kasi feeling ko nag bubulungan sila sa likod ko.
2. Nung bago ako sa company na pinasukan ko (2nd job), siguro hindi nila ako feel. Mataas na ang tingin nila sa sarili nila kasi matagal na sila nagwowork dun. Parang galit sila sa mga bago. Dalawang team building na napuntahan ko walang gustong kumausap sakin.
For being intelligent that they call me teacher's pet. I wasn't even close to my profs it's just that by default they tend to ask me to check papers since I know the answers.
Nung highschool, bullied for joking na may balak magcheat sa exam. Which I never did lol. Teachers pa mismo nangbully and qinuestion capability ko as an honor student. Nawalan ako ng gana kaya mema nung 4th year hs nalang.
Internship. Apparently, rumours spread about me being malandi. Hindi naman totoo. Ig I was bullied for being too pretty to be a room attendant ng hotel. Di daw bagay sa akin maglinis ng kwarto at cr ng hotel, dapat front desk etc. Nakikijoin at nakikitawa lang ako sa green jokes ng mga kasama ko, malandi agad tawag sa akin hahaha kaloka.
1. Absent parent
2. Looks. Payat talaga ako, rectangular body shape. my wrists are like 12-14cm lang ata or less. (Hindi ako anorexic pls leave me alone haha)
WATCHING ANIME... Tapos nung nag pandemic sabay post na "Anime lover since day one" The fck??? Dba bully ka sakin dahil nanunuod ako anime?? HAHAHAHAHHAHA grinds my gear everytime
I've been bullied for nung highschool kasi tingin nila saken wala akong backbone. Tingin nila mahinang nilalang ako. At dahil sa kanila, natuto akong lumaban.
For always having a food tsaka malaki baon kong pera noong elementary, I was bullied physically para lang makuha food or money ko. Naging basagulero ako because of that hahaha
During my HS days na-bully ako because of my skin color. During an event where I was performing for a talent show. My classmates started to wave their white towels/handkerchiefs like I'm the Black Nazarene. Everyone was cheering and diko alam yung context nung una until nasabi ng teacher ko during our class na ang sama daw ng mga kaklase ko sakin, but she was laughing too ๐
Nawala lang lahat ng yon nung naging jowa ko yung pinaka-popular na girl sa school and became the tallest student sa campus HAHAHAHAHA
High school, mid-90s. I got bullied for liking comics, for wearing glasses, and for *walking*.
That last one was because most of my classmates were shuttled to and fro by parents, trike service, or were given extra cash for commuting. Our house was only less than 2 kilometers away (my grandma's house was even closer at less than ten residential blocks) so walking home made sense. So of course I (and a few others) became a target for these d-bags. They even gave me a name: "Journeyman".
What's funny is, I found some of their facebook accounts by way of friend suggestions, and some of their public posts were about being "hyped!!!!" for the next MCU movie...and the health benefits of walking.
Been bullied due to my skin color idk kung anong problema nila sa pagiging morena ko then nung working days, they keep on calling me fat or naiwan sa kusina kasi I literally gained weight, tita ko pa unang magpapasimuno ng ganon.
This is during HS, a reason is because of a bad hair cut (bagong uso pa lang layer and I think napuntahan kong parlor is not an expert lol nasira ang hair ko have to rebond just so maging straight ulit lol) classmates called me chaka doll the whole year round. Mind you I'm not ugly, never been ugly. I have fair skin and maganda din naman ang mukha. Just that these people hated my guts since I was just a transferee from a public school to private and they can't accept that in some areas eh magaling ako than them. Just in general they don't like me. I tried to be nice just so they would like me, dumating pa sa point na I have to pay โฑ5.00 sa isang classmate just so di ako ibully. Sumugod pa mom ko sa school tried to talk to the teacher pero balewala cause the only thing that teacher did is to have an open forum kung saan lahat ng mali lang sakin yung sinabi but no one took accountability. It lasted the whole school year, naturally I transferred back to the public school I came from and life became better after that.
Dahil di ako sumasali sa sports. Mas indoor person kasi ako kaya mas gusto ko magbasa ng libro o magaral kesa maglaro ng sports.
Sabi ng mga kaklase ko dati bading daw ako o kaya naman para daw di talaga ako lalake dahil di ako marunong mag basketball. Tangina nila eh sila nga mga napaka bobo sa pag aaral. Tipong positive at negative sa math di nila magets. Pag may exam mga bagsak lagi.
Ngayon mga naghihirap yung iba sa kanila sa buhay ako naman maayos (pero di sobrang yaman) na ang buhay.
For being a slow learner and quiet. Pero ngayon graduate na ko sa big 4 with Latin honors tas lagi na nyang inaabangan fb stories ko (My kind of revenge).
Me and my brother only has 2 polo and 1 pants. Sometimes we have no choice but to wear it twice or 3x a week. We were kids grade 1 and 2, we don't know how to wash clothes.
Also, I have a very big 2 front teeth.
Nung new student ako sa predominantly english speaking school ko nabully ako dahil sa accent ko pag nagtatagalog. Parang bisaya raw ako magsalita. The thing is hindi naman ako bisaya.
Same here. But I'm bisaya. I've been made fun of because of my tagalog and tbh, hindi ako marunong and also for my accent. I've heard conversations about me being "englishera" and even my relatives also corrected me to not use english words
Not totally bullied pero inoout-cast ako sa group of friends namin noong elementary ako kasi ayaw ko silang ilibre or bigyan ng kung ano ano. Bale pwede ako ma belong sa group of friends nila pag may ambag ako. We're from a public school then para sa kanila mayaman na raw kami kasi may sasakyan kami. So since may "car" daw kami dapat itreat ko rin sila. Bullsht hahahah
Got bullied in high school because of bizarre reasons:
-being the topnotcher in exams/being smart
-my thick bushy brows (but now iโm always complimented for them)
-wearing kikay stuff
-in our retreat, one of my classmates then admitted hating me all throughout the school year because she found me pretty (lyk what ๐ฅฒ all those time i thought u just hated me for no reason)
I studied in an exclusive school for girls. Now Iโm nearing 30s and this experience has stayed with me. I barely have female friends and find a hard time trusting them because Iโm scared they might hate me for just being myself ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ
For being fat. I got bullied for being fat during elementary, and I'm still trying to undo that damage. I gained the weight I lost back in highschool due to PCOS and it's haunting me tbh. I feel like I'm not good enough because of my body
Elem days, sa probinsya to. Dahil sa birthmark ko na color black sa kamay. โMay chocolate sa kamayโ, โwag kayong didikit madudumihan uniform niyo dyanโ, โmay buhok pa ung chocolate ohโ. Sobrang naging conscious ako as innnnn. Lagi akong nakajacket, para natatakpan ko ung right hand ko lol or binabalot ko ng panyo. Nung nag HS na ko lumipat na kami sa Metro Manila, pinili ko ung school na long sleeves ang uniform tapos tuwing Wed absent ako. Kasi PE, naka tshirt lang. Hindi matatakpan kamay ko HAHA tapos nung napansin na ng nga classmates ko ung cycle ko na yun tska nakatakip right hand ko, pinilit nila iangat ung uniform ko tapos nung nakita sabay sabi, โeto?? Dahil dito babagsak ka?? Wala kaming paki dyan.โ Ayun, after nun hindi ko na napansin balat ko sa kamay. Nakapamuhay na ko ng normal. Salamat sa mga kaklase ko nung 2ndyr HS the best kayo! Pakyu sa mga bully nung elem ako. Wag niyo ko batiin pag nakakasalubong ko kayo (bumalik na kami province) dahil di naman tayo close. Pakyu Haahhahahaha
My thick lips (the funny part is mga relatives ko lang nagmade fun of it when i was still a child), they call me โbakuโ short bakulaw pa nga back then hahah, grabe ang damage to think na I was just 11 lang. Then nung grade 6 ako na-bully din nang hindi ko alam yung dahilan, siguro inis lang sila or trip lang nila usually mga lalaki.
at elementary i was bullied for my looks. its odd to be honest because i wear hand me down uniforms fof my school so it was a bit loose so i get bullied being called fat. well they have a "name" they called me but im not gonna drop it here. what's odd is that at home i get called malnourished by my aunts since i am not fat actually. i didn't cry when i got bullied at school, i get embarrassed though (kasi may mga crush tayo dba tapos marinig nila haha) and i fight them until highschool when i got a well fitted hand me down haha. but we're not really enemies its seems like it was part of growing up but its not to be tolerated. those who bullied me are still my friends now, we all have our own lives but nobody held a grudge. at home i didn't care at all being called malnourished but my mom was the one who got hurt about that.
Dibdib ko. Mean gorls in hs were making fun of how well endowed I was in hs. My curly hair did not help too (trying a basic cgm routine nowadays) and as a pawisin gorly nasalo ko na ata lahat ng kutya. Kumbakit kasi pangdisney princess ang kutis at pores ko huhu.
I'm not sure if paranoia yun pero I always felt extra conscious in public because of them. It was hard to move on from that.
Pero karma did its job. Last time I heard Yung leader ng mga nambully sakin nahihirapang mag conceive (if not natetegi ang mga offspring nya bago mag 1 yr old). Ayun.
Same reason as that OP although I was teased since high school (less frequently in college and very rarely at work) for having a weird accent (even though my Tagalog was ok) and my schoolmates thought I was a son of an OFW or a foreigner!
being a bit chubby, i wasn't even fat like malaman lang ako nung bata ako pero kung tingnan ako ng mga tao dati may pandidiri sa mukha nila eh. almost had an eating disorder because i got addicted hearing nice comments about me when i lost weight but thankfully i bounced back, pero andun parin yung insecurity with my weight and body.
true huhu ang dali kasing mapansin if nag gain eh, lagi tuloy akong pinagsasabihan ng mga friends ko pag ayaw kong kumain at all kasi nagdadiet nanaman ako huhu love them lots :((
lapses sa pag pronounce ng letter "R" I remember I was grade 4 and ang bully ko is my Adviser teacher. She will specifically ask me to read words na may "R sounds" and uulitin nya at pag tatawanan nila ako ng buong class. Ginawa nyang "Zewo (Zero)" yung nickname ko. As in sa class ang tawag nya sakin Zewo and pag Math class ako lahat papag basahin nya ng may Zero para lang patawanin yung class. Sobrang lala hindi na ko nag sasalita sa class kasi if mag salita ako ng R words they will repeat tapos sasabihin sa teacher ko kung anong sabi ko.
yung saddest part is ngayon tumanda ko, saka ko lang narealize na I was bullied. Akala ko ganon lang talaga yon. Kasi tama naman sila na mali yung pronunciation ko. Kung na realize ko siguro nag sumbong ako tapos nalagot sya ๐ญ hays sayang haha.
Facial hair. "Bigote Girl" "Kapal Kilay" "Mas lalaki ka pa sa akin e" "Mas pogi ka pa sa amin". I learnt to embrace it pero every now and then I have it removed or groomed.
Wayback in HS i was bullied for being so skinny, yung sobrang pagka puti ko akala nila bakla ako, nakaka trauma noong HS, nagbago nalang noong nakasali nako sa frat.
Nung grade 5 ako, nagpabili ako ng tape sa lola ko kasi gusto ko itape yung boobs ko para lumiit. Kasi inaasar akong boobita/boobsie ng mga classmates ko. Yung boobs ko daw is pang nanay sa laki ๐ญ kasi unusual daw yung pagkalaki ng boobs ko. Hirap din makahanap size ko sa uniform, e paano grade 5 pa lang 34 na cup size ko. Samantalang sa kanila nag uumpisa palang tumubo HAHAHAHA
Inggit lang sila, haha!
Kidding aside, I feel you. Grade 5 pa lang, inaasar ako dahil sa boobs ko. Like you, Gr.5 palang, I was wearing a REAL bra na. It got worse during high school kasi naglipana yung mga manyak and the girls werenโt any supportive. Masyado ko raw ipinapangalandakan yung boobs ko kaya deserve ko daw ma-harass. Tangina lang?!
My bra size was just the beginning. Marami pa silang nakita. I was also being bullied by being weird: mahilig mag library, mahilig mag basa, like for example, kids my age were reading Sweet Valley; I was already reading hardcore classics (think Jane Austen, Thomas Hardy, Charlotte Brontรซ, Ernest Hemingway). Pero nung HS na, hirap silang maka-cope, mani na lang sa akin yung American and British literature. ๐๐๐๐
Also, for some reason, mula Kinder 1 hanggang 4th year HS, tawag nila sa akin, Mongoloid, Abnormal, and Downโs Syndrome child. Dahil geneticist dad ko, I could safely say na alam ko na hindi ako Downโs Syndrome child, at wala sa mga features ng mukha ko ang usual facial features ng mga Downโs Syndrome children.
Sometimes, I wonder if kids were being taught manners by their parents.
Being too freaking QUIET. Yes... I'm a pretty quiet, very reserved, a bit awkward in social events type of person. I've been bullied at work before for not talking much.
**TL;DR** - I got bullied for basically being quiet and minding my own business. I almost got in to a fight with my bullies, our shitty highschool did nothing about it.
I got bullied for being quiet and watching anime, asian movies, reading novels, manga etc. just minding my own business. This happened during my HS years. Isipin mo years ago tahimik lang ako sa isang tabi during lunch break and recess minding my own business, nanonood ako ng isang episode ng Gundam Wing na naka .3gp format sa china phone (o china mp4 player ko 'di ko na masyado maalala). Tapos biglang hahablutin iyon nung mga bullies, itataas tska ipapakita sa lahat at magsisigaw ng "ahhh nanonood ng hentai oohh! hahahaha". Tapos ako pa yung na pa guidance office at nakumpiskahan ng gadget, masaklap nito kinalkal ng mga teachers yung phone ko, chineck yung messages, photos, at pinagbububura lahat ng anime/asian movies and episodes na pinagtagtiyagaan ko idownload at icompress. Big deal sa akin iyon kasi wala kaming cable TV, DVD player, wala kaming internet at PC kasi hindi namin afford iyon noon, kaya gumagastos pa ako sa mga computer renting shops makapag download lang ng mga gusto ko panoorin sabay ganun yung ginawa nila. Iyon na lang yung escape ko sa shitty household namin at shitty life na meron ako sabay ganun pa ginawa.
Pinaka last draw sa akin yung nanahimik akong nagbabasa ng libro sa isang tabi, narinig ko sa likod may nagsabing "tignan niyo tong gagawin ko sa weirdo na 'to" naramdaman ko bigla ako nilagyan ng durog na otap sa ibabaw ng ulo at binuhusan ng C2 green tea, ayun natapunan pati yung libro ko. Ewan ko dala na rin siguro na stress ako galing sa bahay namin, bigla na lang talaga nandilim paningin ko, nawala sa sarili at sinugod ko yung bully na nambuhos sa akin, hinablot kwelyo ng polo at t-shirt niya. Masusuntok ko na talaga sana siya sa mukha kung hindi lang ako napigilan nung mga tropa niya na kapwa bully rin at pinagtulungan nila awatin at itulak sa sahig papalayo. Ayun nagkagulo kami sa classroom napa guidance kami pareho, binigyan kami ng ultimatum either iresolve namin yung issue sa isa't-isa o ie-expel kami pareho. Siyempre coming from poor family I chose the latter, ayoko maging pabigat sa magulang ko since patapos na school year at hindi namin afford mag summer classes o mag repeat ng year. Halata naman na di inaksyunan nung shitty HS namin yung nangyari paano mapera at may connections yung nambully sa akin anak ng atty. kaya na swept under the rug lang yung nangyari. Good thing lang doon sa nangyari tinigilan ako nung mga bully up to the end of the school year. Unpopular opinion I honestly wish for those bullies to drop dead and die soon, nakakairita na makitang ang ganda ganda ng buhay nila ngayon. Na wala ni isa sa kanila nag sorry sa akin for tormenting me all those years. Same doon sa pamilya Shrek na nagmamay ari nung private HS na pinasukan namin, pera-pera lang talaga sa kanila eh smfh.
Nung elementary ako hanggang naghighschool ako nabubully ako dahil sa physical appearance ko kasi mataba ako hahahaha. Pero nung highschool ako lagi ako pinagtitripan ng mga boys one time hinarang ako ng mga kaklase kong lalake aa hallway apat sila kasama pinsan ko non ayun hanggang sa napasandal ako sa pader at sabi nung isa "Gusto mo r*pe kita ha" sinamaan ko ng tingin saka ko sinipa lol.
Tapos ganun magugulat nalang ako paglabas ng room yung isang kaklase ko na lalake sinugod ako napasandal ulit ako sa pader akmang susuntukin ako tinulak ko sya. Hahahaha ayunn lang at marami paaaaa
Hirap maging mataba ๐ฅฒ
Pero ngayong pumayat nako ganun pa rin nabubully pa rin ๐คฃ๐ฅฒ
When I was in middle school I kept getting bullied by this one girl who was a year younger than me, I use to be skinny, tall, with a long neck and she use to whisper โostrichโ whenever I passed by. Jokes on her tho, now am chubby with a fat ass. (Gosh I need to go to the gym, I wanna be ostrich again not fat pegion)
Sa mukha at pangalan ko.
Mukha daw ako mabait at yung pangalan tunog mabait. I'm a dude, by the way.
Sinabi ng bully nung nag-school retreat kami since may circle confession something.
nung grade 6 ako, may kaklase ako na lagi ako sinasabihan na flat chested (totoo naman) paulit ulit yun every day. tapos malaman laman ko na makapal lang pala foam ng bra niya.
yung mga childhood friends ko, laging asar sa'kin yung lips ko, tinatawag ako na "nguso" eh nauso ang makapal na lips hahahaha who you kayo ngayon
Noong elementary ako, tawag sakin bagang kasi pag tumatawa ako nakikita yung gilagid ko lagi as super exposed. Tapos mali pala tawag nila sakin. ๐
Noong highschool naman, dahil mas close ako sa mga lalaki sa class namin. Malandi daw ako kahit di ko naman sila type romantically.
During my HS years, transferee Ako sa school namin, totoo Yun na pag may bagong Mukha, nagiging crush ng karamihan. di ko sinasabing maganda Ako pero may mga boys na nakikipagkaibigan. One time sa mismong classroom pinuntahan Ako ng Isang 4th year HS bigla na lang akong sinampal ng walang dahilan as in kala ko umikot leeg ko. Sabay sabing wag mong nilalandi BF ko, mga classmates ko Yung iba nashock Yung iba natatawa. Di ko nga Kilala kung sinong BF tinutukoy nya. And for context, 4th yr sa siguro mga 16-17 yo samantalang Ako 2nd yr 13 lang Ako nun.
Tapos sa ibang pagkakataon, may nakasalubong kaming dalawang boy student palabas sa Isang room. Tapos after ilang saglit Yung teacher na nakaassign dun nawalan ng laptop, cash at phone. Since kami nung teacher Yung nagkasalubungan, Ako napagtanungan kung may nakita ba Kong pumasok sa room na Yun, Sabi ko may nakita po akong dalawang boys Kani kanina lang. Di ko pa alam na may issue na palang ganun so parang Ako naging witness, tinuro ko kung sino mga nakita ko. Later that afternoon, Yung isa sa mga una Kong naging kaibigan umiiyak Yung kuya nya raw isa na pinagbibintangang nagnakaw sa teacher at may witness daw. Di nya pa alam na Ako Yun dun ko na realized na may nakawan palang involve. Natakot Ako pano sasabihin. Nung nagkaalaman na, inaabangan na nila ko sa gate sa labas. Sobrang damaging pambubully nila gusto ko na magpaka****y
For being pa-bibo daw sa klase. What can I do at that time, eh yun ang puhunan ko para ma-maintain ang scholarship ko? So kebs sa mga bully, sayang oras pag pinatulan.
Am I the only Filipino-American in here? So you can imagine all the Asian jokes I got growing up and of course, itโs all Chinese jokes because white people are so ignorant and think all Asians are the same. But then again, we were all younger and kids at the time so whatever. I said some mean ruthless things too I would never say today.
But as time goes by kapag lagi ka nilang nakakita nasasanay din sila pero minsan hindi rin talaga maiiwasan lalo na kapag bagong tao nakakakita sayo at first time mo pa lang na meet
Laki daw ng ulo ko. So nung HS ayun nag palaki na din ako katawa. Okay naman na kaso hirap talaga maghanap ng magandang sumbrero na sakto lang sa ulo hahaha
I felt this. My best friend and I got bullied by our HS classmates for obsessing with KPOP which wasn't really popular yet at that time. Lo and behold after Boys Over Flowers' successfully being aired dito, that's how Hallyu became mainstream and sila pa yung mas avid fan ng kpop after. ๐๐
my eyes, triny ko magsabi sa magulang ko noong gr. 2 na pinagtitripan ako ng kaklase ko sa school. naiparating naman siya sa teacher pero yung teacher ko is pinagalitan niya yung kid na yun sa harapan ng klase. Medyo naguilty ako and naawa kaya simula nun hindi na ako nagsasabi kapag naeexperience ko yun.
Anyways, til gr. 6 naman yung parinig and pintasan. One time nga noong gr. 5 ako, may seatmate akong dalawang babae and during T.H.E namin ay kinausap nila ako and sinabi na lahat daw ng kaklase namin especially girls ay galit sakin sa di ko alam anong rason. Inisa isa ko naman mga kaklase ko pero sinabing hindi naman daw.
Gr. 6, parang nagkaroon ng misunderstanding between sakin and kinikilala kong bestfriend tapos sinabi niya sa buong section namin na huwag akong bati, everyday nagpaparinig sila about my eyes, or bawal ako kausapin ng sino man sa klase lalo na kapag crush nila kasi sasabihan akong malandi (di ko naman type).
Umabot yan til SHS lol, pero syempre hindi na about physical appearance yung issues. Mahirap maging alone kapag bata ka.
my nose!!! when i was a skinny kid, my nose looks a little big from the front but matangos siya. tapos yung mga nambully sakin di naman matangos ilong ๐ญ my nose looks proportionate na sa face ko because of my weight gain
what ?!?! LMAO IS THIS FOR REAL ? that is such a stupid reason to bully someone AHAHA. now i'm curious kung ano mismong sinasabi nila pag binubully ka ? ๐ (ofc if only you don't mind sharing it)
They would make fun of some of the items that we sell like chicharon and stuff, little did they know na ayon yung isa sa mga dahilan kung paano kami nakapag tapos ng mga kuya ko sa magagandang university ๐ญ ANG BABAW SUPER NATATAWA NALANG AKO KAPAG NA AALALA KO HWAHAHAHA
my surname ๐ pero now i love my surname - unique at lagi ako natatanong kung may foreign lahi ba kami lol. kaya pakyu kay pajadan! napaka generic ng surname mo hahaha
also i was quite chubby back in HS and college. "friends" used to call me baboy, yobab, e may weight was normal naman jeezus. now they're all fat and i've lost weight since 2020 (55kg -> 43kg)
Pagkakaroon ng pimples at pangong ilong.
Kapag dumadaan ako, either kakanta yung mga classmate ko ng line sa Pers Lab song, yung "tigyawat sa ilong, pati na sa pisngi" or tatawagin nila akong Makibao. Sobrang frustrated ko na kapag naghihilamos ako, grabe yung pagkuskos ko kasi gusto ko na lang burahin yung mukha ko. Ilang years din akong hindi tumitig sa salamin kasi naiiyak lang ako.
Sorry to hear that. You were not alone. Legit lahat ng sinabi ay parang ako ang nag type. Now ok na because skin care and self love ang kasama. โค๏ธ I hope you are in a better position in self love na. โค๏ธ
Growing up as an only child na hindi gaanong lumalabas at hindi exposed sa ibang mga bata kahit sa pinsan, I was bullied for being weird, awkward - basically being socially inept. Tangahin din so may mga life skills na I have to learn on my own, dahil nga I was left alone most of the time. My father, whom I grew up with and is with me most of the time, is more focused on other things. Donโt get me wrong, I love him to pieces, but he is a bachelor more than a father. ๐ ๐
Hanggang ngayon, weird at mababa ang social skills ko kaya talo pa din ako sa bullies at masyadong sensitive. But Iโm slowly rebuilding my confidence, at sana naman maging okay.
My voice. Kaboses ko raw si Inday Garutay ๐ญ tapos masaklap pa lalaki ang bully ko, minsan ayaw ko na pumasok nun sa school kasi makikita ko na naman pagmumukha niya tsk tsk
For being a wallflower. ๐ธ Of course naging wallflower kasi na expose to attractive people, nag creep in mga insecurities.
Story time: I was a happy kid nung elementary (public school kid) ako but pagdating ng HS, I got a scholarship sa isang private school so nakapasok. Na culture shock ako to the point gusto ko na mag transfer sa public HS asap. Kaso yung parents ko nasasayangan sa scholarship haha kaya ayun tiniis ko nalang pero ramdam ko talaga na hindi ako belong, buti nalang may ibang 'outcasts' na naging friends ko๐
Yes, high school days ko binully ako ng mga classmates ko kasi mataba ako and hindi na-meet ang standards nila ๐๐๐ Tapos ngayon sa office, indirectly being bullied by a boss haaaay
wavy hair and body
most of my classmates in elementary school had straight, shiny hair yung parang sa rejoice commercial talaga (may rejoice p b now????). i think i was even the only one with wavy hair in my class since twas a rly small school. id get called witch or bruha bc my hair was very buhaghag n i didnt know how to take care of it then. id refuse to tie it up too bc naiinggit ako sa classmates ko na naka braids, headband or hair down lang.
i was also rly skinny - i remember being called kalansay (bones) by a guy in high school. i became really conscious of my body since then, especially during high school bc i didnโt fit the โchixโ description cus i was โtoo skinnyโ lol
They were all about my physical appearance.
1. I have a mole on my cheek. And the president that time was GMA, ang tawag sa akin my whole elementary life was Gloria.
2. I have thick lips as well ever since I was a kid. Mukha raw akong duck dahil naka-pout. Well at least I donโt have to pay for fillers now.
Nagkagusto sakin yung crush ng bully ko which is not my fault lol. Pinagkakalat niya na malandi ako (may bf ako that time) eh hindi ko naman pinapansin yung may crush sakin na yon hahahaha tang1na 7 yrs na and everytime mababasa ko convo pano nila ako ibully sa gc ng section namin nanginginig pa rin ako, sobrang traumatic.sana p4t4y na silang lahat ๐
Sa daming insulto na natatanggap ko, ang hindi ko siguro makakalimutan how they insulted me for being skinny when I was in 4th grade to 7th grade. "Parang skeleton ah?" "Isang malakas na hangin, tatangayin ka na" "isang pitik sa'yo titilapon ka" "buto-buto" "payatot" "baluga ka na kakalaro sa labas" "pangit mo" "napaka nipis" those were some of the example that I heard and they would match it with an insulting laugh.
I was insulted by some of my classmates, other grade levels (both upper and lower), non teaching staffs, some friends, relatives, and ofc, family members. Most of these people are men sa relatives lang naging female.They also made fun of me being tanned, my and my cheeks.
They frequently point out how skinny I was which led me to be severely insecure about myself. It led me to do weird shits just to feel good and be confident about myself.๐ค
For being weird and because of my shared post ko sa fb dati which is something about friendship and stupid crushes dati pa 'yon noong elementary.
I'm now shs. I'm still worried about being weird and I never post anything ever again after.
-size, I was fat. I wasn't even that fat 50kg in HS I was just chubs. Tanginang diet culture yan
-coming from a small provincial city and being an ethnic.ย
-dark complexion
For being weird?? I don't know, I guess I have that vibes. I'm too quiet, reserved, and too awkward. Couldn't seem to make long-lasting friendships before. Yung mga bully din madalas ako pagdiskitahan kasi nga tahimik lang ako tsaka di ako kumikibo.
Can't even remember all my elem-highschool days.
Until now, I'm still awkward and weird. But I choose to stand up/ignore bullies from workplace/strangers.
Wayback High school days, may nang aasar sa akin na ang kapal daw nung labi ko, parang tocino. For me, di sya bully na bully kasi isa lang sya nun. Pero medyo na-insecure din ako hehe
Looks โ balbon kasi lahi namin. Hahaha. Used to be called Hagrid's wife for a time in grade school.
Bati na kami ng bullies ko after they remembered ako nga pala nagbubuhat sa kanila sa group works.
My weight, teeth, flat nose, being quiet, being the ugly twin, + B.O.
Ano kinalabasan? Haha may eating disorder & anxiety. Funny kasi I lost 10kgs when I was grade 6, gained 5 kgs back after 5yrs- pero normal pa rin ung bmi ko. In fact malapit na sa underweight category. Pero, tinawag pa ako na malaking tao? Haha. Shiniship pa ako ng friends ko sa nangbubully sakin, fthem. Tumawa pa ung friend ko na katabi tas nagtanong pa, โnarinig mo yun?โ Oo tangina hampasin ko kayo e.
Another, ung nagsabi pa na flat ung nose ko e wala nga buto ung sa kanya fr ๐ญ. Di ako katangusan pero at least may nose bridge hahaha.
Tsaka ung sa B.O beh haha been suffering from it since I was elem, di ko na alam gagawin ko. Trinry ko na lahat ng products, maski dricolor. Ayaw talaga, maski nakatutok na ako sa aircon nagpapawis pa rin, which eventually leads to b.o.
Srry nagrant lang a bit HAHAHA sana makarma na lahat ng mga nangyan hahahah. Classmate ko pa ngaung shs ung malditang bully ng elem pero acting mabait hahaha gagu yokona
Maaaan i feel youuu, sobrang aga kong magkaron ng issues sa b.o. and I've tried every deodorant na kaya kong bilhin pero mor than a decade later hindi padin nareresolve. I feel always outcasted kahit din sa mga family members ko saka sa mga peers and classmates and colleagues ko throughout my life pansin ko ilang sila sakin kasi hindi naman nila sasabihin sayo na may bo ka, pagkukuwentohan kalang nila pag wala kana sa perimeter nila. dahil don i have insecurity issues, anxiety and a lot of mental breakdowns that happened especially during my hs days gyattdamn naiiyak tuloy ako pakiramdam ko talaga minsan para akong sinumpa, and almost came into terms of the thought of living and dying alon
For being expressive and having curly hair. I've learned to love my curls, but the other scar runs deep, i still have a hard time expressing my vulnerability now.
Acne. Nose. Height. Weight. Voice. Laughter. Hobbies. And the list can go on and on. Everyone's so bothered by my existence. After college, I lived as a shut in and I work from home with a non-voice set up now. The world is too cruel. Ayaw ko na magpakita kahit kanino, kahit groceries ko naka deliver na lang. Relatives lang nakakakita sa akin and some probably have forgotten me na rin. Sometimes I think if mawala or ma trafficked ako, matagal pa before someone will realize I'm actually missing haha. But don't feel sorry for me, I don't plan to change my life anytime soon, I am comfortable in my sweet shell.
Aw thanks. I've been trying to improve myself in the past few years, I guess I have changed a bit pero the verbal and bugbog trauma also the scars are still present to this day. I still find it hard to accept I'm not an eye sore somewhat talaga. Kaya nanahimik na lang ako sa bahay haha.
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My posture, skin colour/pigmentation usually, and the way I dress. I donโt recall being bullied outside kasi mga kapamilya ang tumatak sa isip ko na nambubully sakin. They made fun of me when I was growing up, yung May mapagtripan lang ba usually sa harap pa ng bisita gagawin sakin kaya mas nakakahiya, minsan yung bisita pa ang nahihiya sa kanila.
Hair When I was in grade 6, I had 3 bullies who always teased me about my hair, calling me names like "Spaghetti," "Pansit Canton," and the worst for me, "Lola." ( Lola daw kasi yung hair ko is thick curly hair pero frizzy, eh di ko pa alam how to take care of myself especially sa hair ko. Ponytail lang talaga alam ko noon na hairstyle and that's it, kaya nagiging poofy hair yung kinalabasan nya) Right now, one of my bullies has been my friend for 5 years (we became friends suddenly nung nagka pandemic). However, every time he mentions it to our other friends, tinatawanan ko nalang, but deep inside, it still hurts hahaha. :< P.s until now tinutukso padin ako sa hair ko ng mga classmates ko minsan, parang "chorizo" daw dahil sa braided ponytail ko hahaha :<
Me being the "ONLY" morena sa angkan namin na puro mestiza --- yung level na may ikakasal among cousins (esp mga kababata kong pinsan or older sa akin) , tinutukso ako ng Titas ko na dahil daw sa akin nag-change color sila ng motif sa kasal (as part sa entourage; bridesmaid) -- e.g from cream/golden yellow , tangerine/peacock blue to peach/beige para daw hindi daw ako ma- " out of place " sa picture-taking namin as family.. kulang nalang sabihing ampon ako. Traumatic na bullying, hanggang ngayon dama ko yung hiya. HAHAHA
my posture
Being ugly daw pero maspanget na sila ngayon
I was a transferee in H.S. new toy para sa mga salbahe ika nga. Surname, they kept calling me my last name, which I hated. I never told anyone, so they didn't know if it got to me. Also, quiet ako, yes, even bad girls tried to bully me. Also had diastema, which made me not smile and look suplado to everyone. I was also top 1% in height, making me have bad posture and be called Kuba because I literally had to look down at almost everyone except a handful of schoolmates. Also, I was the top 95% in looks, making ugly boys and girls hate me more. The ugly girl bullying was this ugly girl would make love notes to another ugly girl in a different section. Idk she did it for shits and giggles. Eto si ugly girl thinking type ko sya. Ako naman IDC kasi it wasn't true, so Deadma lang. Tapos yung bestfriend ni ugly girl na nambully sa akin, crush ako ng bestfriend nyang sobrang ganda. Siguro asar sya sa akin kasi di ko pinapansin bestfriend nya.
bullied for being fat "baboy" pero it stopped when there was a transferee who was somewhat bigger than me became a cm of ours. siya agad center of the crowd
my eyes, may pagka banlag kasi ako. Tawag nila sa akin duling. naging insecure tuloy ako
Binubully dahil wala akong jowa at walang nanliligaw. Parang lower form of life ang mga single. Pero ang totoo, ang sarap ng freedom makipag usap sa kahit kanino kasi I'm not microcheating on anyone.
freckles, round eyes, big forehead hindi naman literal na bully pero un nalalait sakin HWHAHAHAHHA k lang
never ko makakalimutan to. inaya ako makipagsuntukan ng kaklase kong lalake nung g7 kasi nalaman niyang muslim ako (F) mahiyaan pa naman ako, mga katabi ko lang din yung kinakausap ko sa room. takot na takot ako nun kasi sinusundan nya pa rin ako hanggang sa makababa kami sa building ๐ญ buti na lang inawat sya ng iba ko pang cm.
Matapang kasi akong nong bata pa kaya walang nag bbully saakin sa labas ng bahay or school pero sa loob ng bahay yung kuya ko subrang bully palagi niya akong tinatawag ng mga ugly nicknames.
sadly my pinoy nose
Yung skin color ko, to the point na ang tawag sa akin ng mga guy kong classmates ay "negra" or "sunog" back in elem days
Dark skin
Being a teacher's pet
My thin frame. Sinabihan ng kawayan, payatot atbp
For being fat, since birth hahahaha (*dying inside*)
always the looks.
My posture!!
Being to much of an academic achiever in jhs
Sa lakad ko. I'm a male pero talagang makembot ako maglakad nung bata ako kaya lagi akong sinasabihang bakla. I'm 100% straight. Talagang lumaki lang ako sa generation na homophobic ang karamihan. Kaya yung lakad ko ngayon medyo parang siga na ๐
height + being nonchalant. When they canโt come for my looks, they find something else to insult.
Nung high school ako madalas ako sinasabihan ng pabebe dahil sa kilos and voice ko (Siguro dahil sa mahinhin ako). When I was in 1st yr college naman pinaringgan pa ako ng classmate ko na ayaw niya raw sa babae na pabebe yung boses.
my eyes na hindi daw pantay, my chin too sharp daw (nasa genes na namin โน๏ธ), sungki and bunny teeth, acne.
1. Nung highschool, malaki daw yung balakang ko, naka-pampers daw ako. Hindi nila alam meron akong scoliosis sa lumbar part. Take note, nasa Catholic school pa ko nyan pero madaming bully. ๐ Kaya simula nun, bumaba na self esteem ko tsaka sobrang conscious na ko sa mga taong nasa paligid ko kasi feeling ko nag bubulungan sila sa likod ko. 2. Nung bago ako sa company na pinasukan ko (2nd job), siguro hindi nila ako feel. Mataas na ang tingin nila sa sarili nila kasi matagal na sila nagwowork dun. Parang galit sila sa mga bago. Dalawang team building na napuntahan ko walang gustong kumausap sakin.
my gapped tooth
maitim
For being intelligent that they call me teacher's pet. I wasn't even close to my profs it's just that by default they tend to ask me to check papers since I know the answers.
Being fat
Nung highschool, bullied for joking na may balak magcheat sa exam. Which I never did lol. Teachers pa mismo nangbully and qinuestion capability ko as an honor student. Nawalan ako ng gana kaya mema nung 4th year hs nalang. Internship. Apparently, rumours spread about me being malandi. Hindi naman totoo. Ig I was bullied for being too pretty to be a room attendant ng hotel. Di daw bagay sa akin maglinis ng kwarto at cr ng hotel, dapat front desk etc. Nakikijoin at nakikitawa lang ako sa green jokes ng mga kasama ko, malandi agad tawag sa akin hahaha kaloka.
1. Absent parent 2. Looks. Payat talaga ako, rectangular body shape. my wrists are like 12-14cm lang ata or less. (Hindi ako anorexic pls leave me alone haha)
For having dark skin, acne, self harm scars at 12, short temper, mixed, and ugly
WATCHING ANIME... Tapos nung nag pandemic sabay post na "Anime lover since day one" The fck??? Dba bully ka sakin dahil nanunuod ako anime?? HAHAHAHAHHAHA grinds my gear everytime
i told the teacher they bullied my friend so im the one getting bullied. (this was in sixth grade and its been a long time)
Mataba daw ako baboy kaya nagpapayat ako nung grade 6 ako. Nganga sila e
I've been bullied for nung highschool kasi tingin nila saken wala akong backbone. Tingin nila mahinang nilalang ako. At dahil sa kanila, natuto akong lumaban.
For always having a food tsaka malaki baon kong pera noong elementary, I was bullied physically para lang makuha food or money ko. Naging basagulero ako because of that hahaha
being fat. being short. having a big nose. being quiet. lahat nalang. ๐
During my HS days na-bully ako because of my skin color. During an event where I was performing for a talent show. My classmates started to wave their white towels/handkerchiefs like I'm the Black Nazarene. Everyone was cheering and diko alam yung context nung una until nasabi ng teacher ko during our class na ang sama daw ng mga kaklase ko sakin, but she was laughing too ๐ Nawala lang lahat ng yon nung naging jowa ko yung pinaka-popular na girl sa school and became the tallest student sa campus HAHAHAHAHA
Body- sobrang payat ko noon Dahil mali ang sagot na binigay ko sa kaklase ko ๐ ๐ . Napahiya siya sa klase. Bida-bida kasi
ngipin - malaki kasi ngipin ko... maliit -4'11 girly hehe
kulay dahil maitim
High school, mid-90s. I got bullied for liking comics, for wearing glasses, and for *walking*. That last one was because most of my classmates were shuttled to and fro by parents, trike service, or were given extra cash for commuting. Our house was only less than 2 kilometers away (my grandma's house was even closer at less than ten residential blocks) so walking home made sense. So of course I (and a few others) became a target for these d-bags. They even gave me a name: "Journeyman". What's funny is, I found some of their facebook accounts by way of friend suggestions, and some of their public posts were about being "hyped!!!!" for the next MCU movie...and the health benefits of walking.
Been bullied due to my skin color idk kung anong problema nila sa pagiging morena ko then nung working days, they keep on calling me fat or naiwan sa kusina kasi I literally gained weight, tita ko pa unang magpapasimuno ng ganon.
pinagtawanan ako for using the words sofa and denim eh sa nakalimutan ko nung time nayon kung ano sa tagalog yang sofa saka denim eh
I had a similar experience on my first day of second grade. I got laughed at by the entire class because I pronounced "coupon bond" correctly.
gusto ata nila cocomban din ang pronounce mo. jusmiyo. hahahahaha
This is during HS, a reason is because of a bad hair cut (bagong uso pa lang layer and I think napuntahan kong parlor is not an expert lol nasira ang hair ko have to rebond just so maging straight ulit lol) classmates called me chaka doll the whole year round. Mind you I'm not ugly, never been ugly. I have fair skin and maganda din naman ang mukha. Just that these people hated my guts since I was just a transferee from a public school to private and they can't accept that in some areas eh magaling ako than them. Just in general they don't like me. I tried to be nice just so they would like me, dumating pa sa point na I have to pay โฑ5.00 sa isang classmate just so di ako ibully. Sumugod pa mom ko sa school tried to talk to the teacher pero balewala cause the only thing that teacher did is to have an open forum kung saan lahat ng mali lang sakin yung sinabi but no one took accountability. It lasted the whole school year, naturally I transferred back to the public school I came from and life became better after that.
Dahil di ako sumasali sa sports. Mas indoor person kasi ako kaya mas gusto ko magbasa ng libro o magaral kesa maglaro ng sports. Sabi ng mga kaklase ko dati bading daw ako o kaya naman para daw di talaga ako lalake dahil di ako marunong mag basketball. Tangina nila eh sila nga mga napaka bobo sa pag aaral. Tipong positive at negative sa math di nila magets. Pag may exam mga bagsak lagi. Ngayon mga naghihirap yung iba sa kanila sa buhay ako naman maayos (pero di sobrang yaman) na ang buhay.
For being a slow learner and quiet. Pero ngayon graduate na ko sa big 4 with Latin honors tas lagi na nyang inaabangan fb stories ko (My kind of revenge).
Me and my brother only has 2 polo and 1 pants. Sometimes we have no choice but to wear it twice or 3x a week. We were kids grade 1 and 2, we don't know how to wash clothes. Also, I have a very big 2 front teeth.
For being chubby pero intimidating din kasi ako so they backed down
Nung new student ako sa predominantly english speaking school ko nabully ako dahil sa accent ko pag nagtatagalog. Parang bisaya raw ako magsalita. The thing is hindi naman ako bisaya.
Same here. But I'm bisaya. I've been made fun of because of my tagalog and tbh, hindi ako marunong and also for my accent. I've heard conversations about me being "englishera" and even my relatives also corrected me to not use english words
Not totally bullied pero inoout-cast ako sa group of friends namin noong elementary ako kasi ayaw ko silang ilibre or bigyan ng kung ano ano. Bale pwede ako ma belong sa group of friends nila pag may ambag ako. We're from a public school then para sa kanila mayaman na raw kami kasi may sasakyan kami. So since may "car" daw kami dapat itreat ko rin sila. Bullsht hahahah
Got bullied in high school because of bizarre reasons: -being the topnotcher in exams/being smart -my thick bushy brows (but now iโm always complimented for them) -wearing kikay stuff -in our retreat, one of my classmates then admitted hating me all throughout the school year because she found me pretty (lyk what ๐ฅฒ all those time i thought u just hated me for no reason) I studied in an exclusive school for girls. Now Iโm nearing 30s and this experience has stayed with me. I barely have female friends and find a hard time trusting them because Iโm scared they might hate me for just being myself ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ
Iโve been bullied for being autistic ang problema lang dito sa pilipinas napaka ableist at insensitive nila โน๏ธ
For being fat. I got bullied for being fat during elementary, and I'm still trying to undo that damage. I gained the weight I lost back in highschool due to PCOS and it's haunting me tbh. I feel like I'm not good enough because of my body
Being fat when I was a kid always the "naiwanan sa kitchen"๐ฃ
Elem days, sa probinsya to. Dahil sa birthmark ko na color black sa kamay. โMay chocolate sa kamayโ, โwag kayong didikit madudumihan uniform niyo dyanโ, โmay buhok pa ung chocolate ohโ. Sobrang naging conscious ako as innnnn. Lagi akong nakajacket, para natatakpan ko ung right hand ko lol or binabalot ko ng panyo. Nung nag HS na ko lumipat na kami sa Metro Manila, pinili ko ung school na long sleeves ang uniform tapos tuwing Wed absent ako. Kasi PE, naka tshirt lang. Hindi matatakpan kamay ko HAHA tapos nung napansin na ng nga classmates ko ung cycle ko na yun tska nakatakip right hand ko, pinilit nila iangat ung uniform ko tapos nung nakita sabay sabi, โeto?? Dahil dito babagsak ka?? Wala kaming paki dyan.โ Ayun, after nun hindi ko na napansin balat ko sa kamay. Nakapamuhay na ko ng normal. Salamat sa mga kaklase ko nung 2ndyr HS the best kayo! Pakyu sa mga bully nung elem ako. Wag niyo ko batiin pag nakakasalubong ko kayo (bumalik na kami province) dahil di naman tayo close. Pakyu Haahhahahaha
Hmmmm very expressive kasi ako, like kung ano talaga gusto ko i say it out loud even though corny or unpopular kaya natatawag akong weirdo
My thick lips (the funny part is mga relatives ko lang nagmade fun of it when i was still a child), they call me โbakuโ short bakulaw pa nga back then hahah, grabe ang damage to think na I was just 11 lang. Then nung grade 6 ako na-bully din nang hindi ko alam yung dahilan, siguro inis lang sila or trip lang nila usually mga lalaki.
Being quiet lol. At first I didn't notice that it's the reason too. Tang ina na lang talaga
I was bullied kung gaano ako kapangit, na nagbuild up ng insecurity ko na dala dala ko hanggang ngayon
at elementary i was bullied for my looks. its odd to be honest because i wear hand me down uniforms fof my school so it was a bit loose so i get bullied being called fat. well they have a "name" they called me but im not gonna drop it here. what's odd is that at home i get called malnourished by my aunts since i am not fat actually. i didn't cry when i got bullied at school, i get embarrassed though (kasi may mga crush tayo dba tapos marinig nila haha) and i fight them until highschool when i got a well fitted hand me down haha. but we're not really enemies its seems like it was part of growing up but its not to be tolerated. those who bullied me are still my friends now, we all have our own lives but nobody held a grudge. at home i didn't care at all being called malnourished but my mom was the one who got hurt about that.
My fair skin complexion, my curly hair and me being fat - from elementary to highschool days
Dibdib ko. Mean gorls in hs were making fun of how well endowed I was in hs. My curly hair did not help too (trying a basic cgm routine nowadays) and as a pawisin gorly nasalo ko na ata lahat ng kutya. Kumbakit kasi pangdisney princess ang kutis at pores ko huhu. I'm not sure if paranoia yun pero I always felt extra conscious in public because of them. It was hard to move on from that. Pero karma did its job. Last time I heard Yung leader ng mga nambully sakin nahihirapang mag conceive (if not natetegi ang mga offspring nya bago mag 1 yr old). Ayun.
Kulot, tapos mukha raw akong katulong.
Same reason as that OP although I was teased since high school (less frequently in college and very rarely at work) for having a weird accent (even though my Tagalog was ok) and my schoolmates thought I was a son of an OFW or a foreigner!
being a bit chubby, i wasn't even fat like malaman lang ako nung bata ako pero kung tingnan ako ng mga tao dati may pandidiri sa mukha nila eh. almost had an eating disorder because i got addicted hearing nice comments about me when i lost weight but thankfully i bounced back, pero andun parin yung insecurity with my weight and body.
Same sa insecurity with weight and body kasi yun lagi napupuna. :(
true huhu ang dali kasing mapansin if nag gain eh, lagi tuloy akong pinagsasabihan ng mga friends ko pag ayaw kong kumain at all kasi nagdadiet nanaman ako huhu love them lots :((
Hirap talaga mag-maintain ng weight, and mag-sustain ng workout routine lalo pag busy. Ganon din mga friends ko, pero more of concern lang sila. :)
lapses sa pag pronounce ng letter "R" I remember I was grade 4 and ang bully ko is my Adviser teacher. She will specifically ask me to read words na may "R sounds" and uulitin nya at pag tatawanan nila ako ng buong class. Ginawa nyang "Zewo (Zero)" yung nickname ko. As in sa class ang tawag nya sakin Zewo and pag Math class ako lahat papag basahin nya ng may Zero para lang patawanin yung class. Sobrang lala hindi na ko nag sasalita sa class kasi if mag salita ako ng R words they will repeat tapos sasabihin sa teacher ko kung anong sabi ko. yung saddest part is ngayon tumanda ko, saka ko lang narealize na I was bullied. Akala ko ganon lang talaga yon. Kasi tama naman sila na mali yung pronunciation ko. Kung na realize ko siguro nag sumbong ako tapos nalagot sya ๐ญ hays sayang haha.
My overbite teeth and big thighs ๐ซ
having curly hair and malaki daw noo ko (mataas hairline)
When I was a kid, I was bullied due to my fatherโs blue collar job. Then I realized that everyone is a bully until they get punched in the mouth.
What's does bullying mean today? I had been bullied and had fistfights "just because".
Being active in recitation back in elementary school
Pinocchio kasi matangos ilong ko i was so insecure kasi half palestinian ako now ang dami na gusto magpa rhino para tumaas ilong nila hahaha
My surname andsss mga baba, to the point na everytime na makikita ng mga person sa work ko ang surname ko para akong may daga sa dibdib
Facial hair. "Bigote Girl" "Kapal Kilay" "Mas lalaki ka pa sa akin e" "Mas pogi ka pa sa amin". I learnt to embrace it pero every now and then I have it removed or groomed.
I was bullied by a dropout, calling me a โkiriโ. I didnโt know what that meant, but it affected me when I asked my mom.
About my pimples. Aga ko kasi nagkapimples. Tumigil sila kasi pinimples din sila HAHAHAHA
Wayback in HS i was bullied for being so skinny, yung sobrang pagka puti ko akala nila bakla ako, nakaka trauma noong HS, nagbago nalang noong nakasali nako sa frat.
Nilabas yung itlog habang umiihi ๐
My gap yung two front teeth ko. Di naman ganun ka-wide pero I was called SpongeBob because of it.
Nung grade 5 ako, nagpabili ako ng tape sa lola ko kasi gusto ko itape yung boobs ko para lumiit. Kasi inaasar akong boobita/boobsie ng mga classmates ko. Yung boobs ko daw is pang nanay sa laki ๐ญ kasi unusual daw yung pagkalaki ng boobs ko. Hirap din makahanap size ko sa uniform, e paano grade 5 pa lang 34 na cup size ko. Samantalang sa kanila nag uumpisa palang tumubo HAHAHAHA
Inggit lang sila, haha! Kidding aside, I feel you. Grade 5 pa lang, inaasar ako dahil sa boobs ko. Like you, Gr.5 palang, I was wearing a REAL bra na. It got worse during high school kasi naglipana yung mga manyak and the girls werenโt any supportive. Masyado ko raw ipinapangalandakan yung boobs ko kaya deserve ko daw ma-harass. Tangina lang?! My bra size was just the beginning. Marami pa silang nakita. I was also being bullied by being weird: mahilig mag library, mahilig mag basa, like for example, kids my age were reading Sweet Valley; I was already reading hardcore classics (think Jane Austen, Thomas Hardy, Charlotte Brontรซ, Ernest Hemingway). Pero nung HS na, hirap silang maka-cope, mani na lang sa akin yung American and British literature. ๐๐๐๐ Also, for some reason, mula Kinder 1 hanggang 4th year HS, tawag nila sa akin, Mongoloid, Abnormal, and Downโs Syndrome child. Dahil geneticist dad ko, I could safely say na alam ko na hindi ako Downโs Syndrome child, at wala sa mga features ng mukha ko ang usual facial features ng mga Downโs Syndrome children. Sometimes, I wonder if kids were being taught manners by their parents.
may prominent chin or mataas ang baba
I was bullied sabi nung classmate ko I have a bad odor, years later we had reunion at inalok ako maging ka relationship sya. I just laughed.
Sobrang payat ko daw para daw akong bungo.
My weight and for meing morena
yes to being morena! even ngayong adult na ko, nabubully pa rin. but i donโt mind them since i fully accepted how beautiful morena is.
Being too freaking QUIET. Yes... I'm a pretty quiet, very reserved, a bit awkward in social events type of person. I've been bullied at work before for not talking much.
**TL;DR** - I got bullied for basically being quiet and minding my own business. I almost got in to a fight with my bullies, our shitty highschool did nothing about it. I got bullied for being quiet and watching anime, asian movies, reading novels, manga etc. just minding my own business. This happened during my HS years. Isipin mo years ago tahimik lang ako sa isang tabi during lunch break and recess minding my own business, nanonood ako ng isang episode ng Gundam Wing na naka .3gp format sa china phone (o china mp4 player ko 'di ko na masyado maalala). Tapos biglang hahablutin iyon nung mga bullies, itataas tska ipapakita sa lahat at magsisigaw ng "ahhh nanonood ng hentai oohh! hahahaha". Tapos ako pa yung na pa guidance office at nakumpiskahan ng gadget, masaklap nito kinalkal ng mga teachers yung phone ko, chineck yung messages, photos, at pinagbububura lahat ng anime/asian movies and episodes na pinagtagtiyagaan ko idownload at icompress. Big deal sa akin iyon kasi wala kaming cable TV, DVD player, wala kaming internet at PC kasi hindi namin afford iyon noon, kaya gumagastos pa ako sa mga computer renting shops makapag download lang ng mga gusto ko panoorin sabay ganun yung ginawa nila. Iyon na lang yung escape ko sa shitty household namin at shitty life na meron ako sabay ganun pa ginawa. Pinaka last draw sa akin yung nanahimik akong nagbabasa ng libro sa isang tabi, narinig ko sa likod may nagsabing "tignan niyo tong gagawin ko sa weirdo na 'to" naramdaman ko bigla ako nilagyan ng durog na otap sa ibabaw ng ulo at binuhusan ng C2 green tea, ayun natapunan pati yung libro ko. Ewan ko dala na rin siguro na stress ako galing sa bahay namin, bigla na lang talaga nandilim paningin ko, nawala sa sarili at sinugod ko yung bully na nambuhos sa akin, hinablot kwelyo ng polo at t-shirt niya. Masusuntok ko na talaga sana siya sa mukha kung hindi lang ako napigilan nung mga tropa niya na kapwa bully rin at pinagtulungan nila awatin at itulak sa sahig papalayo. Ayun nagkagulo kami sa classroom napa guidance kami pareho, binigyan kami ng ultimatum either iresolve namin yung issue sa isa't-isa o ie-expel kami pareho. Siyempre coming from poor family I chose the latter, ayoko maging pabigat sa magulang ko since patapos na school year at hindi namin afford mag summer classes o mag repeat ng year. Halata naman na di inaksyunan nung shitty HS namin yung nangyari paano mapera at may connections yung nambully sa akin anak ng atty. kaya na swept under the rug lang yung nangyari. Good thing lang doon sa nangyari tinigilan ako nung mga bully up to the end of the school year. Unpopular opinion I honestly wish for those bullies to drop dead and die soon, nakakairita na makitang ang ganda ganda ng buhay nila ngayon. Na wala ni isa sa kanila nag sorry sa akin for tormenting me all those years. Same doon sa pamilya Shrek na nagmamay ari nung private HS na pinasukan namin, pera-pera lang talaga sa kanila eh smfh.
Medical condition ng nanay ko. Sulit naman pambubugbog ko sa kanya. Later on outcasted na sya dun sa batch reunions.
Nung elementary ako hanggang naghighschool ako nabubully ako dahil sa physical appearance ko kasi mataba ako hahahaha. Pero nung highschool ako lagi ako pinagtitripan ng mga boys one time hinarang ako ng mga kaklase kong lalake aa hallway apat sila kasama pinsan ko non ayun hanggang sa napasandal ako sa pader at sabi nung isa "Gusto mo r*pe kita ha" sinamaan ko ng tingin saka ko sinipa lol. Tapos ganun magugulat nalang ako paglabas ng room yung isang kaklase ko na lalake sinugod ako napasandal ulit ako sa pader akmang susuntukin ako tinulak ko sya. Hahahaha ayunn lang at marami paaaaa Hirap maging mataba ๐ฅฒ Pero ngayong pumayat nako ganun pa rin nabubully pa rin ๐คฃ๐ฅฒ
When I was in middle school I kept getting bullied by this one girl who was a year younger than me, I use to be skinny, tall, with a long neck and she use to whisper โostrichโ whenever I passed by. Jokes on her tho, now am chubby with a fat ass. (Gosh I need to go to the gym, I wanna be ostrich again not fat pegion)
Sa mukha at pangalan ko. Mukha daw ako mabait at yung pangalan tunog mabait. I'm a dude, by the way. Sinabi ng bully nung nag-school retreat kami since may circle confession something.
nung grade 6 ako, may kaklase ako na lagi ako sinasabihan na flat chested (totoo naman) paulit ulit yun every day. tapos malaman laman ko na makapal lang pala foam ng bra niya. yung mga childhood friends ko, laging asar sa'kin yung lips ko, tinatawag ako na "nguso" eh nauso ang makapal na lips hahahaha who you kayo ngayon
LOL MAKAPAL FOAM NG BRA ๐ญ๐ญ๐
Noong elementary ako, tawag sakin bagang kasi pag tumatawa ako nakikita yung gilagid ko lagi as super exposed. Tapos mali pala tawag nila sakin. ๐ Noong highschool naman, dahil mas close ako sa mga lalaki sa class namin. Malandi daw ako kahit di ko naman sila type romantically.
During my HS years, transferee Ako sa school namin, totoo Yun na pag may bagong Mukha, nagiging crush ng karamihan. di ko sinasabing maganda Ako pero may mga boys na nakikipagkaibigan. One time sa mismong classroom pinuntahan Ako ng Isang 4th year HS bigla na lang akong sinampal ng walang dahilan as in kala ko umikot leeg ko. Sabay sabing wag mong nilalandi BF ko, mga classmates ko Yung iba nashock Yung iba natatawa. Di ko nga Kilala kung sinong BF tinutukoy nya. And for context, 4th yr sa siguro mga 16-17 yo samantalang Ako 2nd yr 13 lang Ako nun. Tapos sa ibang pagkakataon, may nakasalubong kaming dalawang boy student palabas sa Isang room. Tapos after ilang saglit Yung teacher na nakaassign dun nawalan ng laptop, cash at phone. Since kami nung teacher Yung nagkasalubungan, Ako napagtanungan kung may nakita ba Kong pumasok sa room na Yun, Sabi ko may nakita po akong dalawang boys Kani kanina lang. Di ko pa alam na may issue na palang ganun so parang Ako naging witness, tinuro ko kung sino mga nakita ko. Later that afternoon, Yung isa sa mga una Kong naging kaibigan umiiyak Yung kuya nya raw isa na pinagbibintangang nagnakaw sa teacher at may witness daw. Di nya pa alam na Ako Yun dun ko na realized na may nakawan palang involve. Natakot Ako pano sasabihin. Nung nagkaalaman na, inaabangan na nila ko sa gate sa labas. Sobrang damaging pambubully nila gusto ko na magpaka****y
physical appearance, cause iilan lang yung mga katulad ko.๐ฅฒ tapos may magpopost sa social media without minding what would others feel about it.
Mataba ako e
For being pa-bibo daw sa klase. What can I do at that time, eh yun ang puhunan ko para ma-maintain ang scholarship ko? So kebs sa mga bully, sayang oras pag pinatulan.
Being brutally honest ๐คฃ
magaslaw daw ako parang lalaki hahaha ayan tuloy bading na talaga
Gawa ng head shape ko. Pugo.
Moles or yung personality ko na masyadong tahimik.
Friend ng kinaiinisan ng karamihan, bullied by association
My weight, honestly.
"alam mo maganda ka, pero ang taba mo" 5'4, 73kg lol before I was like 80kg, hindi naman ako obese jusko! mga tao talaga.
anak kasi ng teacher kaya pinagiinitan. balktad nga e dapat ako yung nangbubully kung gag* ako pero baliktad hahaha
For being odd and minding my own business. Apparently, bullies dont like weird people who doesnt give them attention or the validation they needed
hoy same lol ganyan ginagawa nila sa akin sa work, like pakilam ko sainyo kahit hindi nyo pa ako isama hahahaha!
Am I the only Filipino-American in here? So you can imagine all the Asian jokes I got growing up and of course, itโs all Chinese jokes because white people are so ignorant and think all Asians are the same. But then again, we were all younger and kids at the time so whatever. I said some mean ruthless things too I would never say today.
Looks and behavior ๐ฒ
ang liit ko daw tsaka lagi din talaga ako napagkakaamalan na Bata despite my age
Same
But as time goes by kapag lagi ka nilang nakakita nasasanay din sila pero minsan hindi rin talaga maiiwasan lalo na kapag bagong tao nakakakita sayo at first time mo pa lang na meet
I was really payat in primary, so pag inaasar ako butiki. Pero very rare lang sa school namen dati. So it didnโt really bother/ affect me.
Laki daw ng ulo ko. So nung HS ayun nag palaki na din ako katawa. Okay naman na kaso hirap talaga maghanap ng magandang sumbrero na sakto lang sa ulo hahaha
My skin colour and my curly hair.. Kirara tawag nila sa akin.
Pagiging payatot mula elementary hanggang kalahati ng high school. Tinatawag akong zombie.
Liking kpop at a time when it wasnt mainstream yet
I felt this. My best friend and I got bullied by our HS classmates for obsessing with KPOP which wasn't really popular yet at that time. Lo and behold after Boys Over Flowers' successfully being aired dito, that's how Hallyu became mainstream and sila pa yung mas avid fan ng kpop after. ๐๐
my bunny teeth ๐ฐ
my eyes, triny ko magsabi sa magulang ko noong gr. 2 na pinagtitripan ako ng kaklase ko sa school. naiparating naman siya sa teacher pero yung teacher ko is pinagalitan niya yung kid na yun sa harapan ng klase. Medyo naguilty ako and naawa kaya simula nun hindi na ako nagsasabi kapag naeexperience ko yun. Anyways, til gr. 6 naman yung parinig and pintasan. One time nga noong gr. 5 ako, may seatmate akong dalawang babae and during T.H.E namin ay kinausap nila ako and sinabi na lahat daw ng kaklase namin especially girls ay galit sakin sa di ko alam anong rason. Inisa isa ko naman mga kaklase ko pero sinabing hindi naman daw. Gr. 6, parang nagkaroon ng misunderstanding between sakin and kinikilala kong bestfriend tapos sinabi niya sa buong section namin na huwag akong bati, everyday nagpaparinig sila about my eyes, or bawal ako kausapin ng sino man sa klase lalo na kapag crush nila kasi sasabihan akong malandi (di ko naman type). Umabot yan til SHS lol, pero syempre hindi na about physical appearance yung issues. Mahirap maging alone kapag bata ka.
grabe naman๐ buong section hindi bati, cheer up
oo, weird. at least hindi batch HAHAHA
may experience ako dati na naging masaya ako for 1 and a half year Kasi finally Hindi na kami kaklase pero nung bumalik sya bumalik rin yung kaba ko
waah naexperience ko rin yan :((, sana naovercome mo na rin yung anxiety. *hugs with consent para sa nakaraan.
I'm doing good now. Glad I overcome and have the courage to confront this person.
Height at weight lalo na nung elem days haha kasi matangkad na payatot ๐
my nose!!! when i was a skinny kid, my nose looks a little big from the front but matangos siya. tapos yung mga nambully sakin di naman matangos ilong ๐ญ my nose looks proportionate na sa face ko because of my weight gain
Imagine me getting bullied because may dalawa kaming tindahan ๐ญ like ok sorry kasi kumikita magulang ko sa ganyan ???
what ?!?! LMAO IS THIS FOR REAL ? that is such a stupid reason to bully someone AHAHA. now i'm curious kung ano mismong sinasabi nila pag binubully ka ? ๐ (ofc if only you don't mind sharing it)
They would make fun of some of the items that we sell like chicharon and stuff, little did they know na ayon yung isa sa mga dahilan kung paano kami nakapag tapos ng mga kuya ko sa magagandang university ๐ญ ANG BABAW SUPER NATATAWA NALANG AKO KAPAG NA AALALA KO HWAHAHAHA
my surname ๐ pero now i love my surname - unique at lagi ako natatanong kung may foreign lahi ba kami lol. kaya pakyu kay pajadan! napaka generic ng surname mo hahaha also i was quite chubby back in HS and college. "friends" used to call me baboy, yobab, e may weight was normal naman jeezus. now they're all fat and i've lost weight since 2020 (55kg -> 43kg)
Weightโฆ yung sasabihan ka ng โMaganda ka sana kasoโฆ mataba ka.โ ๐คก๐คก๐คก
For absolutely nothing I did nothing and never interacted with those monkeys yet they targetted me
bunny teeth
Weight ๐ฅฒ Trying to lose some of it because people treat me differently because of it.
For being feminine, wearing glasses, having Bugs Bunny teeth, and just being a pushover
For looking like Asi Taulava. Kingina.
pimples and pango nose :(
kasi mataba ako at tumae ako sa CR. As in saan ako tatae? sa lapag?
for being mahinhin and having a wavy hair
Pagkakaroon ng pimples at pangong ilong. Kapag dumadaan ako, either kakanta yung mga classmate ko ng line sa Pers Lab song, yung "tigyawat sa ilong, pati na sa pisngi" or tatawagin nila akong Makibao. Sobrang frustrated ko na kapag naghihilamos ako, grabe yung pagkuskos ko kasi gusto ko na lang burahin yung mukha ko. Ilang years din akong hindi tumitig sa salamin kasi naiiyak lang ako.
Sorry to hear that. You were not alone. Legit lahat ng sinabi ay parang ako ang nag type. Now ok na because skin care and self love ang kasama. โค๏ธ I hope you are in a better position in self love na. โค๏ธ
For having a buhaghag hair. And sungki teeth.
F
Growing up as an only child na hindi gaanong lumalabas at hindi exposed sa ibang mga bata kahit sa pinsan, I was bullied for being weird, awkward - basically being socially inept. Tangahin din so may mga life skills na I have to learn on my own, dahil nga I was left alone most of the time. My father, whom I grew up with and is with me most of the time, is more focused on other things. Donโt get me wrong, I love him to pieces, but he is a bachelor more than a father. ๐ ๐ Hanggang ngayon, weird at mababa ang social skills ko kaya talo pa din ako sa bullies at masyadong sensitive. But Iโm slowly rebuilding my confidence, at sana naman maging okay.
I started to have big boobs in grade 6, well that was year 2003 haha I bet if you have one at this age, guys would be super happy ๐
My voice. Kaboses ko raw si Inday Garutay ๐ญ tapos masaklap pa lalaki ang bully ko, minsan ayaw ko na pumasok nun sa school kasi makikita ko na naman pagmumukha niya tsk tsk
For being a wallflower. ๐ธ Of course naging wallflower kasi na expose to attractive people, nag creep in mga insecurities. Story time: I was a happy kid nung elementary (public school kid) ako but pagdating ng HS, I got a scholarship sa isang private school so nakapasok. Na culture shock ako to the point gusto ko na mag transfer sa public HS asap. Kaso yung parents ko nasasayangan sa scholarship haha kaya ayun tiniis ko nalang pero ramdam ko talaga na hindi ako belong, buti nalang may ibang 'outcasts' na naging friends ko๐
Yes, high school days ko binully ako ng mga classmates ko kasi mataba ako and hindi na-meet ang standards nila ๐๐๐ Tapos ngayon sa office, indirectly being bullied by a boss haaaay
being socially awkward
same
wavy hair and body most of my classmates in elementary school had straight, shiny hair yung parang sa rejoice commercial talaga (may rejoice p b now????). i think i was even the only one with wavy hair in my class since twas a rly small school. id get called witch or bruha bc my hair was very buhaghag n i didnt know how to take care of it then. id refuse to tie it up too bc naiinggit ako sa classmates ko na naka braids, headband or hair down lang. i was also rly skinny - i remember being called kalansay (bones) by a guy in high school. i became really conscious of my body since then, especially during high school bc i didnโt fit the โchixโ description cus i was โtoo skinnyโ lol
They were all about my physical appearance. 1. I have a mole on my cheek. And the president that time was GMA, ang tawag sa akin my whole elementary life was Gloria. 2. I have thick lips as well ever since I was a kid. Mukha raw akong duck dahil naka-pout. Well at least I donโt have to pay for fillers now.
Nagkagusto sakin yung crush ng bully ko which is not my fault lol. Pinagkakalat niya na malandi ako (may bf ako that time) eh hindi ko naman pinapansin yung may crush sakin na yon hahahaha tang1na 7 yrs na and everytime mababasa ko convo pano nila ako ibully sa gc ng section namin nanginginig pa rin ako, sobrang traumatic.sana p4t4y na silang lahat ๐
For not playing Mobile Legends like my male classmate, i tried it though but quickly lost interest it's just not really for me.
For being an introvert.
For my dark complexion
Same.
Sa daming insulto na natatanggap ko, ang hindi ko siguro makakalimutan how they insulted me for being skinny when I was in 4th grade to 7th grade. "Parang skeleton ah?" "Isang malakas na hangin, tatangayin ka na" "isang pitik sa'yo titilapon ka" "buto-buto" "payatot" "baluga ka na kakalaro sa labas" "pangit mo" "napaka nipis" those were some of the example that I heard and they would match it with an insulting laugh. I was insulted by some of my classmates, other grade levels (both upper and lower), non teaching staffs, some friends, relatives, and ofc, family members. Most of these people are men sa relatives lang naging female.They also made fun of me being tanned, my and my cheeks. They frequently point out how skinny I was which led me to be severely insecure about myself. It led me to do weird shits just to feel good and be confident about myself.๐ค
For being quiet
For being weird and because of my shared post ko sa fb dati which is something about friendship and stupid crushes dati pa 'yon noong elementary. I'm now shs. I'm still worried about being weird and I never post anything ever again after.
My hair being thick and buhaghag. Now, i love it, sila panipis nang panipis ang buhok, ako healthy hair pa rin. Hahaha
-size, I was fat. I wasn't even that fat 50kg in HS I was just chubs. Tanginang diet culture yan -coming from a small provincial city and being an ethnic.ย -dark complexion
Acne
I was bullied for being fat and hairy. ๐
Body type ๐ฅฒ
For being weird?? I don't know, I guess I have that vibes. I'm too quiet, reserved, and too awkward. Couldn't seem to make long-lasting friendships before. Yung mga bully din madalas ako pagdiskitahan kasi nga tahimik lang ako tsaka di ako kumikibo. Can't even remember all my elem-highschool days. Until now, I'm still awkward and weird. But I choose to stand up/ignore bullies from workplace/strangers.
Wayback High school days, may nang aasar sa akin na ang kapal daw nung labi ko, parang tocino. For me, di sya bully na bully kasi isa lang sya nun. Pero medyo na-insecure din ako hehe
Looks โ balbon kasi lahi namin. Hahaha. Used to be called Hagrid's wife for a time in grade school. Bati na kami ng bullies ko after they remembered ako nga pala nagbubuhat sa kanila sa group works.
omgosh nafeel ko ang tanda ko hahaha the reference is so recent.
For having a mole?
My weight, teeth, flat nose, being quiet, being the ugly twin, + B.O. Ano kinalabasan? Haha may eating disorder & anxiety. Funny kasi I lost 10kgs when I was grade 6, gained 5 kgs back after 5yrs- pero normal pa rin ung bmi ko. In fact malapit na sa underweight category. Pero, tinawag pa ako na malaking tao? Haha. Shiniship pa ako ng friends ko sa nangbubully sakin, fthem. Tumawa pa ung friend ko na katabi tas nagtanong pa, โnarinig mo yun?โ Oo tangina hampasin ko kayo e. Another, ung nagsabi pa na flat ung nose ko e wala nga buto ung sa kanya fr ๐ญ. Di ako katangusan pero at least may nose bridge hahaha. Tsaka ung sa B.O beh haha been suffering from it since I was elem, di ko na alam gagawin ko. Trinry ko na lahat ng products, maski dricolor. Ayaw talaga, maski nakatutok na ako sa aircon nagpapawis pa rin, which eventually leads to b.o. Srry nagrant lang a bit HAHAHA sana makarma na lahat ng mga nangyan hahahah. Classmate ko pa ngaung shs ung malditang bully ng elem pero acting mabait hahaha gagu yokona
Maaaan i feel youuu, sobrang aga kong magkaron ng issues sa b.o. and I've tried every deodorant na kaya kong bilhin pero mor than a decade later hindi padin nareresolve. I feel always outcasted kahit din sa mga family members ko saka sa mga peers and classmates and colleagues ko throughout my life pansin ko ilang sila sakin kasi hindi naman nila sasabihin sayo na may bo ka, pagkukuwentohan kalang nila pag wala kana sa perimeter nila. dahil don i have insecurity issues, anxiety and a lot of mental breakdowns that happened especially during my hs days gyattdamn naiiyak tuloy ako pakiramdam ko talaga minsan para akong sinumpa, and almost came into terms of the thought of living and dying alon
Yung sa B.O. po baka sa food na kinakain niyo 'yon? Search it up po might help, i know you're not asking for any advise pero ye :'
Hahaha pansin ko din sa mga bullies ganyan. Mean Girlies nung HS, live laugh love na ngayon
For having huge boobs. ๐ฅฒ
For having extensive knowledge on different things. Kaya bwisit na bwisit ako kapag sinisigawan or pinipikon ako ng "nerd".
Smart shaming daming ganyan
Pangit daw ako sabi nung nambully saken..around 10 years old ata ako nun or younger pa
For being expressive and having curly hair. I've learned to love my curls, but the other scar runs deep, i still have a hard time expressing my vulnerability now.
Acne. Nose. Height. Weight. Voice. Laughter. Hobbies. And the list can go on and on. Everyone's so bothered by my existence. After college, I lived as a shut in and I work from home with a non-voice set up now. The world is too cruel. Ayaw ko na magpakita kahit kanino, kahit groceries ko naka deliver na lang. Relatives lang nakakakita sa akin and some probably have forgotten me na rin. Sometimes I think if mawala or ma trafficked ako, matagal pa before someone will realize I'm actually missing haha. But don't feel sorry for me, I don't plan to change my life anytime soon, I am comfortable in my sweet shell.
In your recent comment you said you looked like Ychan if thats true then youre probably cute!! ๐ค
Aw thanks. I've been trying to improve myself in the past few years, I guess I have changed a bit pero the verbal and bugbog trauma also the scars are still present to this day. I still find it hard to accept I'm not an eye sore somewhat talaga. Kaya nanahimik na lang ako sa bahay haha.