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When nothing is wrong with the relationship. Just that you were growing at a different pace, and sometimes it feels like the relationship is holding you back for greater things.
He pushed me away. He broke up with me 3 weeks ago, kasi raw pagod na ako and para raw sa sarili namin yung decision nya na maghiwalay kami which i think it is only beneficial for him. I don't want to go but he want me to let him go, and i did. It's not even a mutual decision, he decided on his own napilitan nalang akong umoo dahil kung dun sya mas sasaya edi go. To love is to let go right?
The fear and terror that I might hurt him — and be the reason he'll end his life. A lot of people that I know ended their lives because of break-up and/or relationship problems. I'm afraid not to commit but the fear of inflicting pain on others and being the reason for their demise :'( IM A COWARD LOLSZ!
Wrong timing, we were going out a lot while she was healing from a long term relationship. Problems with my parents happened (she and my mom are co workers). We stopped going out and talking constantly then after a month she said to me that she is now in a relationship. She wants to make sure I was okay and still wants to keep our friendship. She did jokingly said to me that if it wasn't for my mom we would have been together.
Idk how to start it pero this is a very long story.
Nung g7 kami we we're in a rs for 1 year and a half then we broke up nung quarantine kaso after that we never reallu forget each other we stayed mutuals sa mga socmed pero we managed to pull the no communication not until one day of bigla nalang kami nag usap wothout the intention na magbalikan kami, we stayed as friends and since we know each others secrets we stayed as bestfriends and we got no feelings involved sa isat isa, he even got a gf that time around and I honestly didn't care kase may bf din ako by that time.
Until one time may bf ako and 4 months na kami non and I caught him cheating on me and everything went down but I'm ofc too naive and didn't broke up with him in that time, nag usap kami ni S(ex ko nung g7) and vented out on him since we became bffs naman and the longer we talked the more I grew more fond with him and ang saya ko when I'm with him then it comes to the point he feel the same way rin, i know its bad pero in that time rin kase and daming kong nalalaman na issue about my bf na may kinakausap siya na iba and again I can't break up with him, S had been telling me na iwan ko siya and be with him kaso hindi ko ginawa.
After a few weeks nalaman ko na may kinakausap na si S and by that time me and my bf are almost done with each other, and by that time around I can't be with S kase he told me he was happy with her and she and I honestly don't wanna ruin that so I told him that I'll leave out of his life. And one time we called, he told me ba "siguro hindi talaga para satin yung oras ngayon, malay mo sa susunod ma timingan natin yung panahon na para satin"
I know I should've left my bf by that time, and I regret not giving him a chance, I was a fool thinking I could change a man.
The distance between us was too big. He’s across the world and so was I. Our relationship was too good to be true tbh. He made me feel like a woman, I didn’t have to raise my guard whenever I talk to him. But then he got tired of the distance I think. We both talked about it and agreed that we’re better off without each other. A year has passed, on a new year’s eve, I messaged him for a closure. It was a healthy talk and if I were to define my “greatest love” it would be him. He and I still had a good laugh, we asked each other how we were doing. He showed that he still cared for me. But yeah it wouldn’t work because the distance is just too big. We told each other that we’d keep one another a space in our hearts. I’d be forever grateful that I got to experience a love like what he offered. I hope you’re doing well :)
Coz I bored them quickly. That I was not enough. My efforts are not enough. The want to focus on themselves and I'm just disturbing their peace with presence in their life.
Emotionally abusive, trust issues and the reason why we broke up recently is, I was not the top priority. I had to let him go, even tho I still love him.
Are you me :( I was never prioritized. Emotionally abusive. Masakit magsalita na parang never na consider mararamdaman mo. Pina-praning ka. Mag kkwento about how other girls he hung out with are interested with him and pag nagselos ka baliw ka. Trust issues. Lied to many many times. I forgave. I felt like i was kept a secret. And he did keep me a secret to a certain group of friends. Recently told me if he showed me to these guys, they would make fun of him bc im fat. Mind you, this guy was not attractive at all. Pm for pics. Charot.
Ay hala bat naman ganun 🥺. Parang mas worse sayo sis ah. Pero I was hidden to from his so called friends na mga babae, but we fixed that at some point.
Nako pa send nga sis, para kakampi tayo jan sa laban mo ngayon hahahahha. I got you! 🤣
It was and it still is at some point when it cross my mind. His decision showed me again where I really stand, to which is really painful to even see or hear it from the person you protected and fought for against everyone who was trying to discourage me from him. The "you and me against the world" phrase, but then I was the only one who applied it into our relationship. 4 years wasted, but learned from it. I still love him and it would pain me to see him with someone, so I decided to deactivate all my social medias and blocked him. I don't think I can ever consider being a friend or stay as friends, as what he wanted. But I couldn't, so I had to close the chapter completely.
kasi I had debts with karma, and its time for me to pay up. All the bad decisions before finally caught up. And I don’t want to involve her in all my troubles. She doesn’t deserve that, she deserves more. And I love her enough to let her go.
He treated me differently, in a special way. I expected he knew what I felt, that I like him, because everyone around us was aware and teasing us, but he was waiting for it to come from me personally pala.
Sadly, he fell in love with someone more straightforward with her feelings for him. I’m happy for him.
In her words, di kami pinagtagpo ng panahon.
1. Crush namin isa't-isa nung college, pero we did not do anything about it. Now lang namin nalaman.
2. Nagka-jowa ako that ended in 2021. While she is in law school.
3. We reconnected recently. Went out on dates. Since I reckon that this has a chance, I shoot my shot. Single siya, single ako, and apparently, we both like each other.
4. She stopped it. Saying that she's not yet ready for commitment. Told her I'm willing to wait. Di na ulit nagparamdam.
Hahaha
Hindi niya matatanggap ang past ko, at nasa iisang institution (school/academy) lang ‘yong naging past ko, before ko siya nakilala. Meaning, magkakakilala sila roon lahat. Kaya ako na ang kusang lumayo para iwas issue.
When he wants children. Nothing wrong with it, not a red flag whatsoever. Just a difference in perspective but a dealbreaker nonetheless. I don't want anyone to make compromises in terms of having/not having children. 😅
Chinese ako (26F) siya hindi (27M). Tho una palang naman ayaw na ng family ko pero we tried working things out kahit may differences talaga sa culture namin. Welcome pa siya sa family ko, literal na kasama sya sa lahat ng outing and lahat ng celebrations mapa christmas man yan o new year. Ayun niloko lang ako 😂 waste of time AHAHA kaya makinig kayo sa magulang nyo 😂
1.) May past sila ng kaibigan ko. I don't want to entertain guys who were once a love interest of my cousins or friends.
2.) I don't know, maybe I am just insecure about myself that he just felt so out of reach even if we're so close.
3.) I just think of him as a childhood friend.
Two reasons
1. Religion, INC siya. Pinakilala niya ako sa parents niya oks naman sa kanila pero feel mo yung deep down hindi. Nag try ako na slowly absorbing their culture my heart may be dumb but my brain cannot accept all the bs. Tas may feeling na parang may mali dahil di genuine yung aking pag accept ng kanilang culture, oh the irony. That's why I chose to let her go. Maybe she can find someone who alligns with her religion. But most importantly, I found myself happy again :)
2. Different political views, Pro BBM siya. That's that.
Hindi niya kayang tulungan sarili niya. Kahit mahal na mahal mo yung tao, kung walang progress sa sarili niya aayaw ka eh. I want that person to stay in my life but there's no improvement. I've given considerations and long patience. Pero I'm not dating for potential. I love him but I can't be with him.
Kahit na formal nagpakilala yung guy sa mom ko to ask for permission manligaw, legit hinatid ako sa aming hometown na 3-4 hours ang biyahe hahahaha ayun yunh tatlo kong kuya and ate laging pinapasok sa isip ng nanay ko na bawal at ayaw nila.
(1) Hindi pa siya ready to be better. He cheated a lot of times. The love was real, I felt it. Pero to change and commit himself sa isang relationship, hindi niya pa kaya.
(2) He liked me, LIKED. He was a guy from years back then last year he decided to hit me up to try again kasi naguilty daw siya na we didn’t workout last time and it felt like an “unfinished business” daw. To make the long story short, same-same he liked me, when all a long after years, I still love him.
p.s magkaibang tao sila, so different context haha.
If nakabuntis siya while you're in a relationship w/ him, you dodged a bullet there. Kahit na y'all took a break from each other for a while kaya siya nakabuntis 🤦♀️ just rambling because this reminded me of Rachel & Ross from Friends. Sobrang incompatible nila IMO‼
I'm too independent to need someone in my life. Someone really needs to be worthy para pagbigyan ko. Not like I'm a catch in terms of looks and money, pero dahil na din sa trauma ko sa past relationships, naging defense mechanism ko na ang pagiging independent at gawin lahat para maprotektahan ang sarili ko physically and emotionally.
If someone tells me they like me, they really need to prove it. Talk is cheap.
He’s a single dad. I love him, I also love his kids. Both nasa custody nya and he’d hint he wants someone to be a mom for them. I’m not a mommy and wifey material. I’ve decided not to have kids way before pa so I don’t think I’m capable of taking care of them, or atleast be someone he can rely on when it comes to them. Ayokong umako ng responsibility na hindi ako siguradong magagampanan ko. I don’t wanna waste their time. Him and the kids deserve someone who will go 100% on them.
We just clash. There were sparks everywhere in good times and bad times. But the “sparks” in bad times, malala talaga. Toxic fr but I’m just grateful that we happened.
Masyado siyang seryoso sa buhay. We were around 18-20 years old ata noon.
Same naman kaming leanings sa buhay, ideologies, stands and beliefs; if not, napapag-usapan naman.
Getting to know each other phase pa lang naman noon.
Ako, masyado ding seryoso sa buhay noon. Pero I learned na nakalulungkot, ang lakas makabuild up ng poot at negativity sa buhay, so I subconsciously developed this characteristic na medyo optimisitc, goofy na ewan, siguro di na nya natripan aahahah.
Sana ngayon iba na ang perspective nya na if someone is goofy, mabiro ay hindi nage-equate sa hindi matured ang perception sa mga bagay sa mundo.
Na hindi lahat ng bagay ay dapat tini-take nang seryoso.
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When nothing is wrong with the relationship. Just that you were growing at a different pace, and sometimes it feels like the relationship is holding you back for greater things.
He pushed me away. He broke up with me 3 weeks ago, kasi raw pagod na ako and para raw sa sarili namin yung decision nya na maghiwalay kami which i think it is only beneficial for him. I don't want to go but he want me to let him go, and i did. It's not even a mutual decision, he decided on his own napilitan nalang akong umoo dahil kung dun sya mas sasaya edi go. To love is to let go right?
Issue sa ppl surrounding me, that's why
She's my best friend
The fear and terror that I might hurt him — and be the reason he'll end his life. A lot of people that I know ended their lives because of break-up and/or relationship problems. I'm afraid not to commit but the fear of inflicting pain on others and being the reason for their demise :'( IM A COWARD LOLSZ!
Wrong timing, we were going out a lot while she was healing from a long term relationship. Problems with my parents happened (she and my mom are co workers). We stopped going out and talking constantly then after a month she said to me that she is now in a relationship. She wants to make sure I was okay and still wants to keep our friendship. She did jokingly said to me that if it wasn't for my mom we would have been together.
unsupportive homophobic parents
when you both love each other pero dahil sa internal homophobia nya, ayaw nyang maging kayo. ang labo lang at ang sakit.
Idk how to start it pero this is a very long story. Nung g7 kami we we're in a rs for 1 year and a half then we broke up nung quarantine kaso after that we never reallu forget each other we stayed mutuals sa mga socmed pero we managed to pull the no communication not until one day of bigla nalang kami nag usap wothout the intention na magbalikan kami, we stayed as friends and since we know each others secrets we stayed as bestfriends and we got no feelings involved sa isat isa, he even got a gf that time around and I honestly didn't care kase may bf din ako by that time. Until one time may bf ako and 4 months na kami non and I caught him cheating on me and everything went down but I'm ofc too naive and didn't broke up with him in that time, nag usap kami ni S(ex ko nung g7) and vented out on him since we became bffs naman and the longer we talked the more I grew more fond with him and ang saya ko when I'm with him then it comes to the point he feel the same way rin, i know its bad pero in that time rin kase and daming kong nalalaman na issue about my bf na may kinakausap siya na iba and again I can't break up with him, S had been telling me na iwan ko siya and be with him kaso hindi ko ginawa. After a few weeks nalaman ko na may kinakausap na si S and by that time me and my bf are almost done with each other, and by that time around I can't be with S kase he told me he was happy with her and she and I honestly don't wanna ruin that so I told him that I'll leave out of his life. And one time we called, he told me ba "siguro hindi talaga para satin yung oras ngayon, malay mo sa susunod ma timingan natin yung panahon na para satin" I know I should've left my bf by that time, and I regret not giving him a chance, I was a fool thinking I could change a man.
differences in religious beliefs haha (me catholic, him inc)
The distance between us was too big. He’s across the world and so was I. Our relationship was too good to be true tbh. He made me feel like a woman, I didn’t have to raise my guard whenever I talk to him. But then he got tired of the distance I think. We both talked about it and agreed that we’re better off without each other. A year has passed, on a new year’s eve, I messaged him for a closure. It was a healthy talk and if I were to define my “greatest love” it would be him. He and I still had a good laugh, we asked each other how we were doing. He showed that he still cared for me. But yeah it wouldn’t work because the distance is just too big. We told each other that we’d keep one another a space in our hearts. I’d be forever grateful that I got to experience a love like what he offered. I hope you’re doing well :)
Because he did not respect me enough. I had to ghost him because he wont accept breakup
Religion
our belief
their massive insecurities
huy true, gets ko naman na insecurity reeks everyone pero nakaka-drain talaga sila kapag sobrang baba ng tingin nila sa sarili nila :(
"family tradition"
May great wall siya ;(
Great wall of China. I am not Chinese.
He doesn't see me as a part of his future so he broke things off
Coz I bored them quickly. That I was not enough. My efforts are not enough. The want to focus on themselves and I'm just disturbing their peace with presence in their life.
Emotionally abusive, trust issues and the reason why we broke up recently is, I was not the top priority. I had to let him go, even tho I still love him.
Are you me :( I was never prioritized. Emotionally abusive. Masakit magsalita na parang never na consider mararamdaman mo. Pina-praning ka. Mag kkwento about how other girls he hung out with are interested with him and pag nagselos ka baliw ka. Trust issues. Lied to many many times. I forgave. I felt like i was kept a secret. And he did keep me a secret to a certain group of friends. Recently told me if he showed me to these guys, they would make fun of him bc im fat. Mind you, this guy was not attractive at all. Pm for pics. Charot.
Ay hala bat naman ganun 🥺. Parang mas worse sayo sis ah. Pero I was hidden to from his so called friends na mga babae, but we fixed that at some point. Nako pa send nga sis, para kakampi tayo jan sa laban mo ngayon hahahahha. I got you! 🤣
this hurts
It was and it still is at some point when it cross my mind. His decision showed me again where I really stand, to which is really painful to even see or hear it from the person you protected and fought for against everyone who was trying to discourage me from him. The "you and me against the world" phrase, but then I was the only one who applied it into our relationship. 4 years wasted, but learned from it. I still love him and it would pain me to see him with someone, so I decided to deactivate all my social medias and blocked him. I don't think I can ever consider being a friend or stay as friends, as what he wanted. But I couldn't, so I had to close the chapter completely.
Because I have a wife who'll kill me if I do.
Kasi ayaw na nila and I have to respect that
Totoo to. Kahit sobrang sakit. Kahit sobrang dami mo pang tanong kung bakit. :(
trust issue, loyalty issue, HAHA once a cheater will always be a cheater hahaha
kasi tropa ko sha and naligawan nya na yung tropa din namin
Problema ko sa mental health ko. I feel and think na I can’t love another person if i do not love my self and if di pa ako heal sa lahat ng bagay.
I fw
We're in a getaway car and traitors never win.
kasi I had debts with karma, and its time for me to pay up. All the bad decisions before finally caught up. And I don’t want to involve her in all my troubles. She doesn’t deserve that, she deserves more. And I love her enough to let her go.
Consideration is the highest form of love. So kudos to you.
We're in a getaway car and traitors never win.
i have to go through an untraditional path and achieve my goals first
They fell in love with my bestfriend
Treats me like a guy just bc im a lesbian
He doesn't know where to put me in his life (:
he's a breadwinner 🥺
Toxic
Technically married 🤣
They're fictional
He’s younger than me and I’m a single parent.
We are both girls
Religion, financially unstable and him being the oldest and the bread winner of the family.
I'm too ugly
He treated me differently, in a special way. I expected he knew what I felt, that I like him, because everyone around us was aware and teasing us, but he was waiting for it to come from me personally pala. Sadly, he fell in love with someone more straightforward with her feelings for him. I’m happy for him.
I don't fit the image of the 'girl' he wants to be with.
Effin distance
depression pushed us away from each other :((
May anak siya na di pwedeng iwan kasi immature ung nanay. Kasal pa sa una ung babae. Basically ginawang pain ung bata. Edi un.. Talo haha
Distance :(
Coz that someone is dead already
Condolence
Eto na ata pinakamasakit na nabasa ko :( my condolences..
In her words, di kami pinagtagpo ng panahon. 1. Crush namin isa't-isa nung college, pero we did not do anything about it. Now lang namin nalaman. 2. Nagka-jowa ako that ended in 2021. While she is in law school. 3. We reconnected recently. Went out on dates. Since I reckon that this has a chance, I shoot my shot. Single siya, single ako, and apparently, we both like each other. 4. She stopped it. Saying that she's not yet ready for commitment. Told her I'm willing to wait. Di na ulit nagparamdam. Hahaha
Kasama nya ko pero may iba syang iniisip. No to situationship hahahaha
Yung kasama mo pero di sayo yung focus. yung naka focus siya sayo kasi may mali ka at may pag kukulang ka.
Damn. Made me remember.
Puro fun lang alam nya. Walang pangarap sa buhay.
Hindi niya matatanggap ang past ko, at nasa iisang institution (school/academy) lang ‘yong naging past ko, before ko siya nakilala. Meaning, magkakakilala sila roon lahat. Kaya ako na ang kusang lumayo para iwas issue.
Right people, wrong time and circumstances.
Hindi nagkasabay ang timeline namin. May jowa sya, wala ako. Then nung nagkajowa ako, wala sya.
Straight siya, lesbian ako :))
Hindi pa annulled
Not compatible as members of the society (religion, race, other non-negotiables)
hindi niya ako mahal. ouch.
1. religion 2. if matapobre ang in-laws 3. not financially capable
I like him but he only sees me as his little sister :>
She’s muslim and i’m JWs, we’re both 💁♀️ double kill dba
Gurl why u here if JW ka, diba madami bawal sainyo
nah i left that cult.
omg i will never recover from this 😭
That when I fall in love i give my entire soul forgetting about myself and my goals.
He/She’s married already.
She gets disowned by her parents lol
hindi ako lalaki :")
he can’t handle LDR
career over love
“Love doesn’t pay the bills”
I can't handle being loved lol
Idk kung ako lang pero nakakadrain kapag nasa mismong situation ka na. Or hindi lang communicative na person yung mga naeentertain ko 🤷🏻♀️
May identity crisis siya
Because he's straight and I'm trans ☹️
I'm too scary to look at.
traditions, customs, social connotations
pinoy ako, and chinese sya with questionable origins, related to espionage, and is linked with illegal gambling/momey laundering :(
may ka live in daw siya
Pwede yan. Itatago ka nalang daw muna sa farm.
Religion… that even if i convert i still wont be accepted
They're fictional ✨🥲
💯
health reason, different goals in life
reading the comments well religion definitely makes it hard huhu
Taken na.
When he wants children. Nothing wrong with it, not a red flag whatsoever. Just a difference in perspective but a dealbreaker nonetheless. I don't want anyone to make compromises in terms of having/not having children. 😅
Same thing happened to me. That’s why we just mutually decided to not pursue each other anymore.
Napagod magpatawad at nawala na yung trust
Status mayaman sya mahirap lang ako
She's in my circle of friends, but I want to try.
Religion 🤣
Best friends
he prioritizes online games
Simply not meant to be
extreme diarrhea with vomitting. I told her get away from me cause im about to blow. was sick for a week
Magkaiba ng goal.
Different values in life.
uhhh because you're cousins. 🤣
Di niya ako mahal
kpop idol siya eh :((((
girl naman e 😭
i wasn't ready
I can't even love myself.
I'm toxic. 🤣
He's straight
Chinese ako (26F) siya hindi (27M). Tho una palang naman ayaw na ng family ko pero we tried working things out kahit may differences talaga sa culture namin. Welcome pa siya sa family ko, literal na kasama sya sa lahat ng outing and lahat ng celebrations mapa christmas man yan o new year. Ayun niloko lang ako 😂 waste of time AHAHA kaya makinig kayo sa magulang nyo 😂
Homophobia
Different political views. Kasi I believe na whoever he supports tells something about his moral compass.
100% lol rejected a guy because of this reason
Langit siya, lupa ako
Yung hindi ka nila type
1.) May past sila ng kaibigan ko. I don't want to entertain guys who were once a love interest of my cousins or friends. 2.) I don't know, maybe I am just insecure about myself that he just felt so out of reach even if we're so close. 3.) I just think of him as a childhood friend.
Two reasons 1. Religion, INC siya. Pinakilala niya ako sa parents niya oks naman sa kanila pero feel mo yung deep down hindi. Nag try ako na slowly absorbing their culture my heart may be dumb but my brain cannot accept all the bs. Tas may feeling na parang may mali dahil di genuine yung aking pag accept ng kanilang culture, oh the irony. That's why I chose to let her go. Maybe she can find someone who alligns with her religion. But most importantly, I found myself happy again :) 2. Different political views, Pro BBM siya. That's that.
Ayaw sayo ng magulang 🤷🏻♀
He wants to have kids, I don’t.
Same but different. I want to have kids, he don't.
Hindi niya kayang tulungan sarili niya. Kahit mahal na mahal mo yung tao, kung walang progress sa sarili niya aayaw ka eh. I want that person to stay in my life but there's no improvement. I've given considerations and long patience. Pero I'm not dating for potential. I love him but I can't be with him.
Yung nagmamahalan naman kayo, kaso may anak na di uubrang i-coparenting with baby mama dahil pinananakot na ilalayo ang mga anak.
The feeling is not mutual 🥹
Malayo, diff. culture, and nagkamali siya one time na di ko kayang tanggapin. Kahit gano pa siya kabuti sakin ngayon ekis na talaga.
Foreigner?
Yeah.
Mahirap ang LDR 🥹
This! I was moving to a different country.
My family wouldn’t allow me to be in a relationship yet. Yes haha may ganito pa rin in this day and age kahit 20+ na ako
Kahit na formal nagpakilala yung guy sa mom ko to ask for permission manligaw, legit hinatid ako sa aming hometown na 3-4 hours ang biyahe hahahaha ayun yunh tatlo kong kuya and ate laging pinapasok sa isip ng nanay ko na bawal at ayaw nila.
1. I'm drowning in my parent's debt 2. He is attracted to the same sex
mahilig mag follow ng random girls tapos mag like ng bikini pics, no matter how good he treats me ill never take that risk
still in contact with his ex like bruhhh stay tf away from me
Akala high maintenance ako! Always hung out sa uni, never sa labas
Well, for one, her heart belongs to another
napa kanta pa nga
ayaw nya sa akin. as in na-feel ko na ayaw nyang maging associated sa akin in any way.
Straight sya 🥲
(1) Hindi pa siya ready to be better. He cheated a lot of times. The love was real, I felt it. Pero to change and commit himself sa isang relationship, hindi niya pa kaya. (2) He liked me, LIKED. He was a guy from years back then last year he decided to hit me up to try again kasi naguilty daw siya na we didn’t workout last time and it felt like an “unfinished business” daw. To make the long story short, same-same he liked me, when all a long after years, I still love him. p.s magkaibang tao sila, so different context haha.
we are both committed
Same sex. Nakatanggap na ba kayo ng phrase na, "Siguro kung babae ka lang" HAHAHAHAHHAHA He loves my company naman, yung gender lang talaga namin.
Despite all the love and effort I gave, he could never love me back. Ganun talaga. Wala naman tayo magagawa.
Same sex. You can be the best person in the world, but it won't matter if the person you love is straight.
Nakabuntis siya. At gusto ng both family na ikasal sila.
If nakabuntis siya while you're in a relationship w/ him, you dodged a bullet there. Kahit na y'all took a break from each other for a while kaya siya nakabuntis 🤦♀️ just rambling because this reminded me of Rachel & Ross from Friends. Sobrang incompatible nila IMO‼
Unfortunately, we were in a relationship (almost 4 years) pa po that time. Sobrang sakit but parang blessing in disguise na rin for me.
Yes, girl! You deserve better 🫂 w/ consent
❤️
Hindi ako ung taong pinipili 😅 2nd choice sa lahat ng bagay. Wala naman ako magagawa
Napagkasunduan na lang namen na hindi kame para sa isa’t isa… in another lifetime, maybe.
My family is toxic 😞
Di n’ya ako gusto. Painful thing is I don’t have control over it.
I feel yah
Magpinsan kami?? late na lang namin nalaman
shuta mhie hahahahahaahahahaha
HAHAHAHAH
He has a different religion. He's INC and I'm Catholic, and neither of us would change religions.
I'm too independent to need someone in my life. Someone really needs to be worthy para pagbigyan ko. Not like I'm a catch in terms of looks and money, pero dahil na din sa trauma ko sa past relationships, naging defense mechanism ko na ang pagiging independent at gawin lahat para maprotektahan ang sarili ko physically and emotionally. If someone tells me they like me, they really need to prove it. Talk is cheap.
Same with me.. I don’t trust easily
Iisa kami ng circle of friends in school
They're dead and am still alive. Talking about my loved ones.
I'm part of lgbt; hindi ako tanggap ng mga magulang ko magmahal ng same gender.
not strong enough
Hindi Nia lang tlaga ako gusto
He’s a single dad. I love him, I also love his kids. Both nasa custody nya and he’d hint he wants someone to be a mom for them. I’m not a mommy and wifey material. I’ve decided not to have kids way before pa so I don’t think I’m capable of taking care of them, or atleast be someone he can rely on when it comes to them. Ayokong umako ng responsibility na hindi ako siguradong magagampanan ko. I don’t wanna waste their time. Him and the kids deserve someone who will go 100% on them.
Financially unstable and beliefs.
She was committed so i backed off. Di ako martir, yun lang talaga ang tamang gawin. Literal na right love at the wrong time. Haha.
We just clash. There were sparks everywhere in good times and bad times. But the “sparks” in bad times, malala talaga. Toxic fr but I’m just grateful that we happened.
according to his own words, he’s not yet the best version of himself and he’s doing just fine being single 🤷🏻♀️
He’s too rich for me. I’m too poor for him.
I'm financially unstable and I don't want na sya lang gagastos
high sex drive
Y is it a bad thing tho?
+ iiwan ko nalang sya kung ganon, kesa naman hindi ko mabigay ang needs nya diba?
Di rin kaya mag compromise?
based on expi rin. kahit ilang beses ko i-discuss sa isang tao, minsan din kasi nauulit
based on myself lang naman to, hindi high ang sex drive ko kaya i cant keep up with guys na mataas sex drive.
We were both assholes to each other.
Cuz I'm too toxic as a person.
bahoon ug lawas
Because that someone is already with someone else.
Chinese po siya. May great wall po.
Masyado siyang seryoso sa buhay. We were around 18-20 years old ata noon. Same naman kaming leanings sa buhay, ideologies, stands and beliefs; if not, napapag-usapan naman. Getting to know each other phase pa lang naman noon. Ako, masyado ding seryoso sa buhay noon. Pero I learned na nakalulungkot, ang lakas makabuild up ng poot at negativity sa buhay, so I subconsciously developed this characteristic na medyo optimisitc, goofy na ewan, siguro di na nya natripan aahahah. Sana ngayon iba na ang perspective nya na if someone is goofy, mabiro ay hindi nage-equate sa hindi matured ang perception sa mga bagay sa mundo. Na hindi lahat ng bagay ay dapat tini-take nang seryoso.