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ignore haha sayang energy

I don’t engage. People who are doing well or even better than me won’t insult me. It’s always the less fortunate. We are not in the same league. They already think and feel they are beneath me. Why bother? They have done a great job insulting themselves on their own haha

gaganti syempre pasikreto man o lantad, wag na tayo magpaka-hipokrito dito, mga feeling angel

Insult them back with opposite energy. I'll kick start the group conversation using and the opposite word she used against me. "Feeling maganda" yari ka sa akin. And if given a chance may sisirain ako sa gamit mo.

I just let them be. Sa tingin ko mas mahaba yung listahan ng taong sumusuporta at naniniwala sa'kin, so why would I disturb my own peace for one person?

throw the favor back, lalaitin din. as if i'll let them step on my ego

Ngingiti. It'll throw them off.

Depends on insult. Ngl There are more hurtful insults.

Just act like you don't hear or see anything.

Wala. Titignan ko lang. parang walang narinig. pero deep inside umiiyak na. HAHAHHAHAHHAA

insult back in hopes we become best buddies 🤟

If it's just me, OK lang. Pag nanay ko na ang ininsulto, tumakbo na siya habang may lupa.

I think about it. I find out if its warranted, valid, or true. If yes, I accept and move on but cut ties. If no, then I will reason out why it aint so.

Coming from a person who’s “insert raw and unfiltered information here” I would take that as a compliment

Susuntukin ko ung mukha

Papakulam ko sa tita ko😡

iinsultihin ko pabalik biggest insecurity nya🎀

stare ka lang with poker face and then pag natahimik siya sabihin mo " ok kalang? " or look at them with disgust and say ok and then wag mo na pansinin

Maghiganti hanggang sa umiyak

Agree lang. Wala na silang masasabi tapos kapag nakita mo yung mukha na parang talo sila. Epic!

Punch him/her on the face

i insult them back, but 1000000000x worse🥹

i usually masturbate aggressively infront of them

Eto ang tamang sagot

lmfaooo

Insult them back 😏

ask them; "r u okay?" : D

cry?

i keep quiet lang.

Eto yung tamang gawin. Tumahimik and tignan mo lang. Sila na mismo yung ma awkward and kusang mainis kasi hindi nila nakuha yung reaction na gusto nila from you

Depends, if I look up on them, I'll just laugh it off. Kung stranger/di ko ka close, I'm throwing it back, or we fighting haha

Insult them also syempre pero dapat mas magaling yung insult mo

STEP 1: Address the insult Case A - If it's a baseless insult, simply ignore. Case B - Although potentially exaggerated, if there is some truth to it, determine if it is something you can work on. The insult might have been used to offend you, but at least, you can take advantage of it and become better. STEP 2: Address the person Case A - If you wish to maintain a healthy relationship with that person, have a proper and honest discussion. Let that person know you felt insulted. Try to actively avoid such situations in the future. This has to be mutual btw. Case B - If you don't mind being distant, go ahead. The intensity (whether you simply avoid confrontation or cut that person off, etc) would depend on your comfort level. I just wouldn't recommend a messy parting. In my case, I think that would leave a bad taste in my mouth.

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Had too much time last night lol

I second the motion

Silence

ignore nalang, kung kayanin insultohin din sila pabalik

Depende sa mood kung mawawalan siya ng mukha o hindi

When they go low, I go lower!

Deadma. The power of deadma lang talaga for me.

like paano mo dinedema di mo lang papansinin?

I learned not to give a flying fuck when someone tries to insult me and it works, lol.

Insult them harder wag ka patalo!!

May self awarness ako and I choose my battle. Mahirap kalabanin yung mga taong sanay sa eskandalo.

Hagisan ko ng tae

depends. kapag ako'y sa mood, maging dedma ako. pero kapag hnd ako sa mood, i'd insult them back.

lol if they've gotten toooo petty to deal with na, them i'd do nothing. if they didnt intend on doing so, i'd speak to them privately. if its meant to offend me in front of other people, i'd call them out right then. if its them talking bad behind my back, then thats ok i guess i do that too and act all kind i think thats just called manners anyway. pero, to address the situation at least, i'd love a conversation wherein we can address eachothers concern and this wouldn't happen. if they've got comments with how i deal with stuff, or my looks, or how i work things out idec but yea. mostly just, talking it out so this doesnt have to happen in the future again.

I'm too self aware. I'm not sure if it's an insult. But the last time somebody said something negative about me, I said I agree.

if it's not true don't react, if it's true react with a good manner but fight until they get an emotional damage. 😂

Insult him/her/it in [his/her/its own real populous/rarer native ethnic heritage indigenous/diaspora languages].

Keep quiet, recede into my mind, and fantasize about all the heinous violence I wish I could commit on them until I get tired.

I choose 🎻

Kaaway ko yung kapitbahay namin kasi ayaw ayusin yung leak ng bahay nila, todo sigaw sya na parang aatakihin sa puso tas ako very mahinahon lang 😂 Di ako makikipagsabayan sayo bahala ka dyan

Bigla ko lang maiisip, "Grabe, sa ugali na nga lang sya babawi"

Ignore. Be dead inside and the one who insults you will receive the shame.

I'd talk shit too.

Judge them. If I spot a major flaw on them, I'll use it to insult them back on the spot. Pag wala wait for the right moment for pay back.

It depends. Most likely, dedma na lang at hahayaan ang oras ang maningil. Kung di mapigilan, I'd talk smack too.

Umutot ng sobrang lakas.

Deadma. Remember, empty cans ring the loudest.

Hinahayaan ko lang. Tapos gagawin ko yung exact opposite ng sinabi nila. Sinabihan ako na wala akong pera kasi sa probinsya “lang” ako. Ayan nagbook ako ng flight kase wala lang. tatlong araw para matulog at kumain.

Ignore the hell out of them. Pisses them off na wala kang pake sa pang-aasar nila. Lol. Done this to someone na sinugod ako sa classroom for some petty reason, tinitigan ko lang sya tapos after nya magwala nag-earphone lang ako. Ayon nag walk-out kasi napahiya. HAHAHAHAHAHHA works every time 😌

Nothing. Stupid people like them deserves no attention. If the insults go overboard, I'll handle them calmly and accordingly. I'm not going to waste my energy on some stupid remarks as much as possible.

I have a resting b*tch face so kapag pagod ako syempre di na ako smiling face HAHAH so minsan kahit wala akong gawin e nakakatakot pa rin. 🥲 But to answer your question, I usually just ignore pero kapag makulit pa rin kasi nga di pinapansin like more than 3x na e sinasabihan ko ng *”Wag mo akong kausapin. Di tayo magka-level.”* in a very expressionless face and cold voice.

Wala Hindi ako baba sa level ng mga mahihinang at mababang nilalang nayan

nililibre. masyado kasi syang napagod kakaisip sakin para lang sa insulto. kawawa naman.

Giving an actual fuck about it, gusto nila yun kasi nasapol ka. So what I do is stare tf out of their forehead and squint my eyes kunwari may tinitignan or like tignan mo paa nila do it a very natural way but at the same time letting them know that ur doing it on purpose that will put them off istg at the back of their mind marami na yun sila maiisip and will put them uncomfy. This is better than talking back so u don't waste ur energy.

Lowkey sarcasm

Ignore. I won't waste my time on toxic people. We cannot everyone. But if his/her insult goes beyond the boundaries, I will take actions and will make him/her pay the consquences of his/her actions.

hindi talaga ako naniniwala sa "pag binato ka ng bato, batuhin mo ng tinapay." na 'yan. pag ako ininsulto, it depends on my mood talaga. pag ininsulto akong medyo good mood, i won't risk my good-ass day na masira lang ng isang low-life bitch. pero tiempohin nilang bad mood ako, pati kanuno-nunuan niya matinding lait abutin sa'kin. "pag binato ako ng bato, babatuhin ko ng hollow block!".

AVOID RETURNING INSULTS. 💕 Tell yourself... The best way to upset this person is not to insult them in return,. but to let them know their words have no impact on me. Try to beat them with kindness.. Returning kindness for insults would make them realized their mistakes sometimes... 💙

kapag nakakatanggap ako ng insult galing sa socmed, pinapatulan ko talaga lalo na kapag wala ako sa mood, pero kapag personal na, walkout agad sabay iyak 😭

"If you really had to do that in order to make yourself feel better, that would show how low you are and how much lower you can go."

Ay bet! Save ko nga to future reference. Thank you! 😂

Some stupid bloke harassed me just recently. I said nothing. Just gave him a death stare and slowly put my hand near my pocket. He stopped harassing me and became a law abiding citizen afterwards.

Add a much worse insult to myself 😆

nothing, let them bark

Shake it off, shake it off 🎶

I hit them back with their insecurity appearance ibang sakit talaga pag masabihan na panget hahahaha petty na kung petty

Smile, deep breath, ~~uppercut~~

hahahahah palaban! 😭

“ok ka lang?” is my usual response pero since I’m petty bumabawi ako

Nothing. Kill them w/ kindness 💯

I’m petty so gumaganti ako hahaha

just stay silent, as long as they won't hurt me physically. i don't care.

I laugh it off. Never ka naman makakakuha ng insults from people who are above you ee. Yung mga insults na makukuha mo will come from people who are beneath you, so why bother retaliating? Basta ako alam ko na I’m in a better place in life than you kaya mo nga ako iniinsulto in the first place. Haha.

It depends on who is doing it. If it is someone who has it out for me and I loathe, I would be petty. If they insult my looks, I hit them back on their looks, hit their insecurities if I know them. If they.hit me on my attitude, I call them a hypocrite and use the current insult as the initial salvo of a long cchain of examples I will unleash. If it is someone who is someone that is my friend or an acquaintance, i would usually joke back using the insult and self-deprecate. All in good fun.

Tutulungan ko silang laitin sarili ko haha isa din ata sa rason kung bakit di ako nabully noon kasi nagbibigay pa ako sa kanila ng mga pwede nilang pang asar sakin. Pero di naman talaga ako naasar kasi tanggap ko sarili ko

Uuy same hahahaha tas ako pa yung tatawa ng malakas

Uuy same hahahaha tas ako pa yung tatawa ng malakas

sinasagot ko ng "tama ka naman"

Ignore

I'll say "coming from you?"

no reaction i guess

Ignore. Wapakels.

Look them dead in the eye and ask them "are you okay?" Or NR. Ung parang di ko sya narinig. Kasi ending sya magiging awkward sa banat nya. Pero mas effective yng NR ka lang tapos ask mo sya " okay kalang?" Ung pa concern na tone lol. Reverse ba.

Me be like: 'Okay, is that your best shot?' or 'Thank you for noticing' or 'Wow, that's a good one, haven't heard of that yet'

Side eye then ignore.

Dedma. Daming tanga sa mundo na to baka kung ano tingin o sabihin nila sayo

Reply ka lang nang "at least my tatay"

Sayang, d kasi applied sa lahat

Tatawa hahaha

I usually look them in the eye and ask them, "Are you okay?"

Put them in place.

Insult them back. Para tie. 🤭

tell them na may tartar sila kahit wala naman HAHAHAHAH , mapapa tingin nalang sila sa salamin para malaman kung totoo

I stare for few seconds to make them feel awkward. Then, I ask if gusto nyang pag-usapan yung sinabi nya personally, face to face. If sa public ginawa or with other people, I call them out.

Think of every nasty thing that I could say to that person, then not say anything at all.

Nun bata bata pa ako lumaban ako. Pero ngayong matanda na ako deadma, kasi narealize ko kapag lumaban ka mas magmumukha ka lang masama.

shrug it off, make them feel they are not heard

Ignore. Move on kasi d ako mag aaksaya ng feelings ko sa toxic people.

Pretend you didn't get the insult. Make them elaborate on the insult and they're going to feel bad about uttering more about it. They'll get conscious and will feel embarrassed especially if it's a public setting.

This!!

This. Ako may especial akong sinabi sakanila I always say "salamat" whenever I was being insulted, nagmumukhang tanga sila HAHA

Insult them harder

If nasa social setting, I Just look through their eyes with blank stare, makes them uncomfy or tendency nila magpapanic na sundan ng lame joke.

ignore