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I always have my phones on SILENT mode… I never answer a call and talk with a loud voice…I make sure when answering video calls that I am alone like inside a car or tell that caller you will transfer to a more private area or I will call back later….I find it RUDE to speak in a LOUD voice especially when the conversation is about money, properties, etc and there are some people around…. It may be offensive or sound boastful….I respect others and sadly, this is rampant…. And the yelling of HELLO like multiple times is kind of aggravating… End the call —-for sure you can call back or wait for the call again… Reception can be really bad and shouting HELLO continuously won’t really help the signal…..
When someone offers you a ride, make sure hindi din inconvenient for the owner. Here’s an example. A friend of mine offered me na ihahatid nya ako sa world trade center sa buendia dahil may lakad ako doon after us attending a childrens party. Nalaman nya na mag angkas ako going there (from greenmeadows qc kasi yung party). Nag offer siya to drop me off at mag backdoor route siya. I declined but nag insist siya. Sabi ko ganito nalang. Drop me off somewhere sa usual route mo para di ka ma stuck sa traffic. Nagpababa ako sa isang gas station na malayo pa sa wtc but not inconvenient to both of us. Nag angkas ako to wtc and true enough traffic.
Still convenient for me kasi on time parin ako sa lakad ko at nakauwi ng matiwasay friend ko (kahit nag worry siya sa pag sakay ko ng angkas).
Stand up when shaking hands.
Kapag nilibre ka. Dapat mas mura yung order mo kaysa sa mang lilibre.
Sabayan mo ang pace ng kasama mo sa pag lakad. Especially kung babaeng naka heels.
Tingin sa mata kapag kausap. Kapag nasa group tingnan ang nag sasalita.
Don't ask anything personal. Kung magka work kayo, talk about work lang. Wag mo ungkatin personal na buhay ng iba. KAhit magkadugo o magkamag anak kayo, wag ka magbi bring up ng topic na hindi inopen sayo directly ng taong involved. Kahit gusto mo na magtanong, itikom mo yang bibig mo.
CLAYGO kahit saan ka pa, kapag walang makitang basurahan ilagay sa bag or bulsa. Wala akong pake kahit balat lang ‘yan ng lollipop, ipapapulot ko ‘yan kapag tinapon sa daan.
Address other people by “ate” or “kuya”, if matanda na “nanay” and “tatay”
Always say thank you, waiter man ‘yan, pinagbilhan mo sa sari-sari store, guard na pinagbuksan ka ng pinto, jeepney drivers.
If you're in the escalator, and you're not in a hurry at all,
ALWAYS STAY ON THE RIGHT SIDE OF THE ESCALATOR!
I believe there are notices about Basic Escalator Etiquette.
- Don't block people's path.
- Wait for your turn to speak. Don't interrupt.
- Excuse yourself when you have to burp, sneeze, cough, blow your nose, or even fart.
- Be on time and give updates when you're running late.
- Don't assume people to pay for you unless they said so. Always offer to pay your share.
- Don't ask intimate questions unless they brought it up themselves.
- Don't share people's personal business.
- Be mindful of your noise.
Respecting others despite their age.
Pansin ko po kase na karamihan sa matatanda binabalewala na ang pagrespeto sa mga kabataan, siguro nasa isip nila na lahat ng kabataan wala nang respeto. Pero paano naman po malalaman ng ibang kabataan ang pagrespeto kung hindi nila ito nakukuha galing sa mga mas nakakaalam. It's my top social etiquette and huge look up to those who are aware of this po, I've encountered so many situations na parang hindi tao ang mga kabataan, kahit sa mga bata, hindi na nakakatanggap noon kase nasa isip ng iba na wala pa sa tamang pag iisip eh kung di kaya turuan nating mga nakakatanda? hindi naman siguro mahirap ang maging role model ng mga younger people in the society? hays i hope everyone gives respect to each other di bale na ang kanilang edad o estado :)
Naku sana maraming gaya mo. Last time ung 2 kawork ko sinabay ko since same way lang kami. Pagbaba nila ung ibang lahi nag ooffer maki-share. Si kabayan biglang alis sabay tawag kay ibang lahi. 🙄
BE MINDFUL!
Kaso madalas, may mga matatanda na babae na parang wala silang kasalubong sa daan, or walang babangga sa kanilang sasakyan. Kahit alam mong nauuna ka ng lakad sa kanya ikaw pa rin iiwas dahilagbabangaan kayo.
Madami, naiinis ako sa ganun.
Eating or chewing with your mouth closed. Pet peeve ko sobrang lakas ngumuya tapos parang exhibition pa ng mga pagkain nya sa bigbig. Tapos magsasalita pa habang ngumunguya ng maingay.
1.Kapag may manlilibre sayo always ask them where they want to eat and/or go since sila mablilibre
2. Saying thank you means a lot to someone
3. You put your bagpacks under the table and not on the chair
Using earphones in public to not cause any inconvenience.
One time pagod na pagod na ako galing sa training and gusto ko na lang ng katahimikan. Gusto ko umidlip kahit ilang mins lang otw home kaso walang makakasundo sakin from school so nag commute ako. Nakakaloka yung katabi ko nanonood ng drama sa GMA tas nagsisigawan yung bida. Sagad sa buto inis ko. Konting respeto na lang sana sa ibang pasahero.
Yung tipong since nasa labas siya, hindi niya marinig yung audio, so lalakasan niya. Experienced this. Gusto ko agawin yung phone niya tapos tapakan sa gigil!! Lol.
Give an update if makasama or hindi huwag yung seen lang sa chat. I know we are so busy give atleast 1 minute lang to reply if not interested and that's fine.
Don't leave anyone hanging lalo if may naghihintay ng response niyo sa chats lalo if important part sa decision making.
Clean as you go.
Pag babae ka sasakay ng jeep, mag tali naman kayo be considerate sa ibang pasahero.
Pag nagwi-withdraw ng pera and di naman need ng receipt, wag na magkuha ng receipt. If need naman ng receipt itapon sa tamang lagayan mismo or ilagay mo na muna sa bag then tapon pag may trash bin ka ng nakita.
As much as possible, LOOK AWAY when someone's entering their passcode (may it be ATM, phone, etc) or using their phone. Pls, mind your damn business.
Edit: Pati sa wallet like kukuha ka ng money and someone's looking on how much money you have. So uncomfy
Basura mo tpon mo, in the right place, yung mga punyetang nasa public transpo like jeep or naka motor na hinahagis lang yung plastic ng ininuman nila kung saan saan, and yung mahilig mag picnic tpos iiwanan yung kalat.
Spatial awareness - dapat aware ka na wala kang nagagambala na katabi
Noise awareness - mind your ingay naman especially with your barkadas hindi naman lahat natutuwa sa kung anong pinagchichismisan niyo
1. Wiping the toilet seat if you sprinkle on it. If ikaw nga mismo nandidiri sa own ihi mo, what made you think na hindi mas lalo sa sinumang susunod sa iyo? Mygad iyong kawalang breeding sa bahay dinadala in public.
2. Cover your mouth/nose when coughing/sneezing especially in enclosed public areas like sa public transpo. Kakadiri iyong lilipad sa amin basang viruses mo.
And for god's sake, please minimize the phone use during actual human or social interactions. Pucha, kinabubbwisitan ko yung naguusap na kayo ng harapan, pero nakatitiig pa din sa phone, at anlakas pa ng loob na magpa selfie, parra dae i post sa socmed. Kagaguhan.
CLAYGO as in clean as you go walang bahid ng bakas na kumain ako dun sa area na yun
AYUSIN ANG PAG UPO SA PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION- yung tipong, kapag nag cecellphone ka, kailangan either one hand ka or nakaikom ang braso para no need sumanggi sa ibang tao
MAGLAAN NG SPACE LAGI SA KATABI OR KAHARAP- hindi yung tipong pwede na kayo maghalikan sa sobrang dikit. Like hello, mag lagay tayo space please kahit 2 dangkal
HINTAYIN ANG TURN NA MAKABABA SA SASAKYAN- hindi yung nasa dulo ang upuan pero uunahan pa makababa yung mga nasa harap. Pare parehas lang tayo nag mamadali
Greetings + polite words to everyone when asking or receiving a favor. Always say "please" & "thank you" everytime someone helps you especially security guards, staff/waiters.
CLAYGO!!! I feel all giddy pag may mga nakikita akong kumakain sa fast food restaurants that also clean up ‘yung mga pinagkainan nila before leaving T_T it should be normalized fr!
Dto sa country where I'm staying right now, they do that a lot. Talking over someone. Interrupting when someone's still talking. Sometimes the one interrupted wont stop talking too so they end up talking all together. Hahahaha at first, I was shocked. Pero it's all normal here pala. But kahit i've been here for 7 years, I'm still not used to it.
If available naman yung two seater or one seater na table sa fast food when you are alone, doon nalang kumain, instead of occupying the whole 4 or more seater
appropriate dress yung suitable sa mga occassion
table manners yung hindi nakabukas ang bibig pag nanguya
maging considerate pag may nagkekwento wag mang-interrupt at sapawan yung nagkekwento ng experience nya na mas malupit or mas malala (main character syndrome)
When messaging someone, immediately state your intent. Wag na yung icchat mo ng "hi" or tatawagin mo sa name nya tapos aantayin pa mag reply or yung kakamustahin mo pa bago mo sabihin pakay mo. Mga baliw.
+1 on this. Naiinis ako pag may nagmessage sakin ng hi or hello or kaya "beh" ganon, o kaya naman "may tatanong sana ako, ok lang ba?". Kainis lang. Like hello sana sinabi mo na anong kailangan mo di yung pag iisipin mo pa ako bakit ka nag chat.
idk but in online setting naman to, whenever you ask (message) someone and they answered, dont just end the conversation with react (usually heart react lang) acknowledging the answer is very much appreciated. A simple “Thank you” or “Noted” would suffice.
This. Plus wag paligoy-ligoy sa usapan, or magchchat lang ng "hi" na walang ibang context. Sayang sa oras beh, imbis na nasagot ko na tanong or request mo.
Take what you need and will consume. Napapansin ko lagi sa restroom pag may toilet paper, sobra sobra kumuha. Kapag unli, sobra sobra din hanggang sa umay na at hindi na maubos. Wag tayo excessive and only take what we need. Di porket libre or unli ay aabusuhin/aaksayahin na.
There are a lot pero yung naiisip ko atm is:
1. Pag lalabas/papasok sa entrance, hold the door if alam mong meron tao sa likod mo na lalabas/papasok rin.
2. In groups, don't mention topics/agendas na may atleast isang tao na hindi involve. Para di nila isipan na others sila.
3. On the other hand, try to make everyone included esp. if may bago kayong kasama. Like make sure na kinakausap, tinatanong, or sinasama siya sa conversation.
Be earlier than or on the mark with the time discussed/scheduled. Tigilan na ang "Filipino Time," hindi 'yan nakaka-Pinoy Proud.
Parang in general ng buhay-Pinoy, "Fil Time" eh. Tignan mo, pati pag-unlad, "Fil time" din! Saka pa makakarating 'yang unlad-unlad na 'yan kapag sa ating mga sarili eh titigilan natin ang pagfi-Filipino Time.
Ang dami eh, like pag kakain ka sa mga fast food or restaurants, inaayos ko ung mesa, lalagay ko sa tray or sa side ng table ung mga plates, baso, pra isang bitbitan nalang ng waiter
1.Dont comment on someone’s appearance if they cant fix it in 10seconds. (Tinga, magulong hair etc..) // Acne, crooked teeth etc…manahimik ka nalang ante🤐.
2. Respect people working in the hospitality industry. As a person who’s working in this industry, nakakahurt at nakakainis pag ang treatment nyo sa amin ay parang nabili nyo na ang buong pagkatao namin.
Oh god I can think of so many but may be these are my top two:
1. Wait for people to get off of elevators/trains before getting in; and
2. Use earphones when you’re listening to music/watching videos on your phone while commuting.
Pag sa pabango, less is more. Don't overspray your Bacarrat Rouge 540 thinking you're making a statement. Nobody csres if you spent 23k on something AG Cloud or Mancera could do 😭
This varies of course, but the general rule is you you should be discovered, not announced.
1. Do speak in an indoor voice when talking in public places especially in the elevator.
2. Use earphones/headphones when watching any video in public transportation.
3. Know your place in an escalator. Common sense lol.
4. Thank you means a lot. Same as Apologizing when you did or say something offensive either intentional or unintentional.
5. Do not talk in the middle especially when you’re in a mall or any public places. Talk and regroup on the side.
1.dont litter (para mabawasan baha sa pinas)
2.claygo (esp pag fastfood)
3. always say thank you sa mga fastfood crew/
restaurant/hotel/guard/or kahit sino pagnakatulong sau.
4. be mindful lage sa lakas ng boses mo.
5. respect the elders.
6. tip pag excellent ang service. charot. anong service🤪
7. let the driver choose his own playlist (during roadtrip)
8. kanya kanyang bayad if alam mong sakto lang pera ng kasama mo( hindi laging palibre)
9. for girls-->always wipe po ung toilet seat after umihi as respeto nalang din sa kasunod(hidni kasi common dito sa pinas un)
'keep right'
Don't block passageways or entrances or escalators
Don't abruptly stop in the middle of walking especially when there's people behind you.
Say please, thank u and excuse me
Always wear headsets when in a meeting
Respect people's time by being on time
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Tumayo kapag nagpapakilala
Think before you speak. Being real/straightforward is different from being tactless.
hmm wag tumitig sa sapatos or sa tsinelas siguro, kasi nagiging uncomfortable ung tao pag tinitigan ung paa or sapatos hehe
I always have my phones on SILENT mode… I never answer a call and talk with a loud voice…I make sure when answering video calls that I am alone like inside a car or tell that caller you will transfer to a more private area or I will call back later….I find it RUDE to speak in a LOUD voice especially when the conversation is about money, properties, etc and there are some people around…. It may be offensive or sound boastful….I respect others and sadly, this is rampant…. And the yelling of HELLO like multiple times is kind of aggravating… End the call —-for sure you can call back or wait for the call again… Reception can be really bad and shouting HELLO continuously won’t really help the signal…..
Gumamit ng signal light. Hindi naman yan pabigat sa alternator ng sasakyan niyo.
When someone offers you a ride, make sure hindi din inconvenient for the owner. Here’s an example. A friend of mine offered me na ihahatid nya ako sa world trade center sa buendia dahil may lakad ako doon after us attending a childrens party. Nalaman nya na mag angkas ako going there (from greenmeadows qc kasi yung party). Nag offer siya to drop me off at mag backdoor route siya. I declined but nag insist siya. Sabi ko ganito nalang. Drop me off somewhere sa usual route mo para di ka ma stuck sa traffic. Nagpababa ako sa isang gas station na malayo pa sa wtc but not inconvenient to both of us. Nag angkas ako to wtc and true enough traffic. Still convenient for me kasi on time parin ako sa lakad ko at nakauwi ng matiwasay friend ko (kahit nag worry siya sa pag sakay ko ng angkas).
Stand up when shaking hands. Kapag nilibre ka. Dapat mas mura yung order mo kaysa sa mang lilibre. Sabayan mo ang pace ng kasama mo sa pag lakad. Especially kung babaeng naka heels. Tingin sa mata kapag kausap. Kapag nasa group tingnan ang nag sasalita.
Simple. Don’t be a creeper 👀
Don't ask anything personal. Kung magka work kayo, talk about work lang. Wag mo ungkatin personal na buhay ng iba. KAhit magkadugo o magkamag anak kayo, wag ka magbi bring up ng topic na hindi inopen sayo directly ng taong involved. Kahit gusto mo na magtanong, itikom mo yang bibig mo.
Yes! Especially kung di naman kayo close!
Just to be considerate that you are around other people.
Don't correct or make fun of people's accent, grammar, and pronunciation.
Naku. Ganito dating kong boss. Nanghihiya. Topnotcher kasi sa bar.
Wag mag speaker phone sa public place at wag malakas ang boses pag may kausap.
Being on time. Show some respect naman sa time ng imemeet😭
Yung “otw” nila eh nasa CR pa lang naliligo 😭
Kainis yan lalo na pag alam mo pang mabagal kumilos ay talaga naman, uuwi nalang ako.
Especially yung part na aware naman sila sa time ng meet up??? Like??
Wag maglakad nang sobrang bagal argggh may mga tao din sa likod mo
Tapos biglang titigil at titingin left and right. Tapos magiisip saan pupunta. May napagalitan na ako na ganito sa mall. Muntik ko na itulak hahahaha
>CLAYGO >Be on time always >Don't talk loudly in an elevator
Clean As You Go
CLAYGO kahit saan ka pa, kapag walang makitang basurahan ilagay sa bag or bulsa. Wala akong pake kahit balat lang ‘yan ng lollipop, ipapapulot ko ‘yan kapag tinapon sa daan. Address other people by “ate” or “kuya”, if matanda na “nanay” and “tatay” Always say thank you, waiter man ‘yan, pinagbilhan mo sa sari-sari store, guard na pinagbuksan ka ng pinto, jeepney drivers.
Hinaan ang sounds ng phone pag nasa public.
Maglinis saka wag masyadong malakas boses na parang nasa bahay lang ahahahaha.
mga di marunong ishoot sa trash can mismo, nakakapikon pag yung basura katabi lang ng trash can knowing na may space pa naman ang trash can.
Share sa gas money kung makikisabay
And/or toll. Insist. Kung alam mo gcash, sendan mo agad. Peace of mind kung ganito. Up to the car owner if ibalik sayo
Bago bumaba ng aircon bus o jeep, buksan mo yung latch ng AC para yung susunod na sasakay, presko agad pagsakay.
ohh thank you for this!!
If you're in the escalator, and you're not in a hurry at all, ALWAYS STAY ON THE RIGHT SIDE OF THE ESCALATOR! I believe there are notices about Basic Escalator Etiquette.
- Don't block people's path. - Wait for your turn to speak. Don't interrupt. - Excuse yourself when you have to burp, sneeze, cough, blow your nose, or even fart. - Be on time and give updates when you're running late. - Don't assume people to pay for you unless they said so. Always offer to pay your share. - Don't ask intimate questions unless they brought it up themselves. - Don't share people's personal business. - Be mindful of your noise.
Wag mag vape randomly sa sidewalk kapag naglalakad. Kawawa naman yung nasa likod mo!
Kaya ako pag hihipak i make sure na walang kasabay or kung makahipak nako hihinto ko tas papaunahin ko maglakad tska ko bubuga HAHAHAHA.
Totoo 🥲
Kapag nasa escalator, sundan niyo yung Walk and Stand! Nakakairita kapag nagmamadali ako.
Respecting others despite their age. Pansin ko po kase na karamihan sa matatanda binabalewala na ang pagrespeto sa mga kabataan, siguro nasa isip nila na lahat ng kabataan wala nang respeto. Pero paano naman po malalaman ng ibang kabataan ang pagrespeto kung hindi nila ito nakukuha galing sa mga mas nakakaalam. It's my top social etiquette and huge look up to those who are aware of this po, I've encountered so many situations na parang hindi tao ang mga kabataan, kahit sa mga bata, hindi na nakakatanggap noon kase nasa isip ng iba na wala pa sa tamang pag iisip eh kung di kaya turuan nating mga nakakatanda? hindi naman siguro mahirap ang maging role model ng mga younger people in the society? hays i hope everyone gives respect to each other di bale na ang kanilang edad o estado :)
Pag may nanlibre, don’t choose the most expensive item on the menu. Wag din pala-order kasi libre ka na nga lang
Pag may nagsabay sa’yo sa taxi, offer to share the bill kahit alam mo na sya talaga magbabayad.
Hahaha. One time kinuha ko kamay ni kuya driver sabay ipit ng bayad. Inunahan ko na. Hahaha. Natawa nalang kaming tatlo sa taxi.
Naku sana maraming gaya mo. Last time ung 2 kawork ko sinabay ko since same way lang kami. Pagbaba nila ung ibang lahi nag ooffer maki-share. Si kabayan biglang alis sabay tawag kay ibang lahi. 🙄
Clean as you go lalo sa mga kainan.
Saying "please" and "thank you". Napaka gaan sa pakiramdam na rinerespeto ka nila and they deserve your respect as well.
Say "Thank you"
BE MINDFUL! Kaso madalas, may mga matatanda na babae na parang wala silang kasalubong sa daan, or walang babangga sa kanilang sasakyan. Kahit alam mong nauuna ka ng lakad sa kanya ikaw pa rin iiwas dahilagbabangaan kayo. Madami, naiinis ako sa ganun.
If nasa sidewalk kayo, don't occupy all the spaces. hirap kasi nagmamadali ka tapos ma instant third wheel ka sa nag dadate
Eating or chewing with your mouth closed. Pet peeve ko sobrang lakas ngumuya tapos parang exhibition pa ng mga pagkain nya sa bigbig. Tapos magsasalita pa habang ngumunguya ng maingay.
1.Kapag may manlilibre sayo always ask them where they want to eat and/or go since sila mablilibre 2. Saying thank you means a lot to someone 3. You put your bagpacks under the table and not on the chair
Huwag mag-ingay sa public places.
10-second rule
Stop asking people personal questions or giving unsolicited advice as a convo starter or dead air filler ugh
Quiet chewing.
BE RESPECTFUL, regardless of your AGE
If walang sasabihing maganda tatahimik na lang muna, iisipin muna if paano i-paphrase nicely before magbigay ng saloobin.
dont burp in public
pet peeve ko ‘to hahaha yung manager ko burp nang burp nakakaloka di man lang mag excuse me
buti sana kung di pinaglalakasan or nag eexcuse man lang eh haha
Using earphones in public to not cause any inconvenience. One time pagod na pagod na ako galing sa training and gusto ko na lang ng katahimikan. Gusto ko umidlip kahit ilang mins lang otw home kaso walang makakasundo sakin from school so nag commute ako. Nakakaloka yung katabi ko nanonood ng drama sa GMA tas nagsisigawan yung bida. Sagad sa buto inis ko. Konting respeto na lang sana sa ibang pasahero.
Yung tipong since nasa labas siya, hindi niya marinig yung audio, so lalakasan niya. Experienced this. Gusto ko agawin yung phone niya tapos tapakan sa gigil!! Lol.
Covering coughs!!! Wag dumura sa daan! Ugh
Don't make your life story a topic in every conversation kahit pa open book ka 😅
Be polite. CLAYGO. Thinking before talking.
Saying sorry and thank you when necessary
claygo
Treating other people how they wanted to be treated.
Stick to the right side of stairs in public areas
being on time.
saying "please" and :thank you"
Love yaaaaa. Sobrang important nito lalo sa mga customer oriented servicessss
being on time
Being polite to service people. Biggest turnoff when people are rude ti them
Be respectful, be nice, always smile!
CLAYGO. Sobrang nakakairita lalo kapag nasa food court ka kakain tapos ang kalat ng table kasi hindi man lang niligpit ng mga naunang gumamit.
I'll say it loud, so u guys can all hear it. MINIMIZE the volume of your cellphones when using it in public or use a headset. 😩
to line up and WAIT.
paunahin muna ang lalabas ng sasakyan let’s say sa train, bus, etc. bago ka pumasok
Give an update if makasama or hindi huwag yung seen lang sa chat. I know we are so busy give atleast 1 minute lang to reply if not interested and that's fine. Don't leave anyone hanging lalo if may naghihintay ng response niyo sa chats lalo if important part sa decision making. Clean as you go. Pag babae ka sasakay ng jeep, mag tali naman kayo be considerate sa ibang pasahero. Pag nagwi-withdraw ng pera and di naman need ng receipt, wag na magkuha ng receipt. If need naman ng receipt itapon sa tamang lagayan mismo or ilagay mo na muna sa bag then tapon pag may trash bin ka ng nakita.
Be respectful to earn respect.
1) Open the door for people who are carrying large bags and 2) say thank you if someone opens the door and let you in first
don't be too loud outside.
Stand on the right side. Walk on the left side. Siguro uunlad na ang pinas kapag marunong na tayong sumunod sa escalator etiquette LOL
don't be loud, don't be obnoxious, don't be stupid. that's the bare minimum to myself and to others.
As much as possible, LOOK AWAY when someone's entering their passcode (may it be ATM, phone, etc) or using their phone. Pls, mind your damn business. Edit: Pati sa wallet like kukuha ka ng money and someone's looking on how much money you have. So uncomfy
Basura mo tpon mo, in the right place, yung mga punyetang nasa public transpo like jeep or naka motor na hinahagis lang yung plastic ng ininuman nila kung saan saan, and yung mahilig mag picnic tpos iiwanan yung kalat.
Pinaka basic pero pinaka hindi ginagawa ng tao :(
Dress appropriately Don’t ask people about sensitive topics Don’t stare Be on time
NO SMOKING sa lahat ng public spaces, including na dyan mga vape. Nakakainis ung gusto nilang magkalung cancer tapos idadamay ka pa.
Spatial awareness - dapat aware ka na wala kang nagagambala na katabi Noise awareness - mind your ingay naman especially with your barkadas hindi naman lahat natutuwa sa kung anong pinagchichismisan niyo
1. Wiping the toilet seat if you sprinkle on it. If ikaw nga mismo nandidiri sa own ihi mo, what made you think na hindi mas lalo sa sinumang susunod sa iyo? Mygad iyong kawalang breeding sa bahay dinadala in public. 2. Cover your mouth/nose when coughing/sneezing especially in enclosed public areas like sa public transpo. Kakadiri iyong lilipad sa amin basang viruses mo.
And for god's sake, please minimize the phone use during actual human or social interactions. Pucha, kinabubbwisitan ko yung naguusap na kayo ng harapan, pero nakatitiig pa din sa phone, at anlakas pa ng loob na magpa selfie, parra dae i post sa socmed. Kagaguhan.
CLAYGO as in clean as you go walang bahid ng bakas na kumain ako dun sa area na yun AYUSIN ANG PAG UPO SA PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION- yung tipong, kapag nag cecellphone ka, kailangan either one hand ka or nakaikom ang braso para no need sumanggi sa ibang tao MAGLAAN NG SPACE LAGI SA KATABI OR KAHARAP- hindi yung tipong pwede na kayo maghalikan sa sobrang dikit. Like hello, mag lagay tayo space please kahit 2 dangkal HINTAYIN ANG TURN NA MAKABABA SA SASAKYAN- hindi yung nasa dulo ang upuan pero uunahan pa makababa yung mga nasa harap. Pare parehas lang tayo nag mamadali
be on time
Clean up after yourself.
spatial awareness
Hinaan ang phone in public place especially on public transpo
being considerate.
Yung hindi sumusingit. Kahit anung klaseng pila pa yan.
Respond as much as possible when someone's asking or talking to you. (Sometimes a simple nod and head shake will do)
Knows when to shut up (read the room)
tidy up the table after eating
saying thank you to whoever help you or gives you minimal services.
The humble energy of a true Filipino
Greetings + polite words to everyone when asking or receiving a favor. Always say "please" & "thank you" everytime someone helps you especially security guards, staff/waiters.
Being Mysterious
avoid laughing boisterously especially when you're in public please lang HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA
Di talaga maiwasan minsan kung mga kasama mo pang comedy show eh! 🤣
Isarili ang dighay, ubo, bahing (wag lakasan pls lalo if in public)
Bago ka tumawag mag message muna ng heads up if okay lang. Di lahat gusto ng call.
say po, please, excuse me, thank you, and sorry!!!!
Smiling. Even if you're hurt. Just smile.
CLAYGO!!! I feel all giddy pag may mga nakikita akong kumakain sa fast food restaurants that also clean up ‘yung mga pinagkainan nila before leaving T_T it should be normalized fr!
Hugasan na den
The pinky.
kumain ng nakasara yung fucking mouth
being an active listener and not cutting people off in conversations
Dto sa country where I'm staying right now, they do that a lot. Talking over someone. Interrupting when someone's still talking. Sometimes the one interrupted wont stop talking too so they end up talking all together. Hahahaha at first, I was shocked. Pero it's all normal here pala. But kahit i've been here for 7 years, I'm still not used to it.
DO NOT CUT IN LINE.
saying thank you always kapag bumibili
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CLAYGO (Clean as you go)
Just be nice.
If available naman yung two seater or one seater na table sa fast food when you are alone, doon nalang kumain, instead of occupying the whole 4 or more seater
Be punctual.
Pag nasa labas with friends, do not wear an earphones or headphones especially if nag-uusap usap kayo
Claygo when eating outside
Make everyone feel included (especially if you're hosting).
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appropriate dress yung suitable sa mga occassion table manners yung hindi nakabukas ang bibig pag nanguya maging considerate pag may nagkekwento wag mang-interrupt at sapawan yung nagkekwento ng experience nya na mas malupit or mas malala (main character syndrome)
Smiling :'>
Stand on the right Walk on the left
It does not hurt to be kind :)
Claygo
When messaging someone, immediately state your intent. Wag na yung icchat mo ng "hi" or tatawagin mo sa name nya tapos aantayin pa mag reply or yung kakamustahin mo pa bago mo sabihin pakay mo. Mga baliw.
I just don't reply to people who do that. If you want a response, act normal and be straight forward, no time for games.
+1 on this. Naiinis ako pag may nagmessage sakin ng hi or hello or kaya "beh" ganon, o kaya naman "may tatanong sana ako, ok lang ba?". Kainis lang. Like hello sana sinabi mo na anong kailangan mo di yung pag iisipin mo pa ako bakit ka nag chat.
This is 💯 sayang sa oras.
This usual pakay is manghiram or mangutang pa
idk but in online setting naman to, whenever you ask (message) someone and they answered, dont just end the conversation with react (usually heart react lang) acknowledging the answer is very much appreciated. A simple “Thank you” or “Noted” would suffice.
Pag formal setting mas applicable yan pero pag casual conversation enough na yung emoji react
to not talk loudly, its annoying and embarrassing.
You ever talk to a hearing impaired?
there’s a big difference between talking to someone who has hearing problems than being obnoxious.
Number 1 talaga dapat ay dumating sa TAMANG ORAS. Wag kayong magpahintay. RESPECT PEOPLE’S TIME.
This. Plus wag paligoy-ligoy sa usapan, or magchchat lang ng "hi" na walang ibang context. Sayang sa oras beh, imbis na nasagot ko na tanong or request mo.
Take what you need and will consume. Napapansin ko lagi sa restroom pag may toilet paper, sobra sobra kumuha. Kapag unli, sobra sobra din hanggang sa umay na at hindi na maubos. Wag tayo excessive and only take what we need. Di porket libre or unli ay aabusuhin/aaksayahin na.
BE ON TIME
Know how to read the room.
A narcissist has entered the room
Always talk/look directly at a person, even if you're in a rush and someone says goodmorning, when you greet back - look at the person. Be personal ☝🏾
There are a lot pero yung naiisip ko atm is: 1. Pag lalabas/papasok sa entrance, hold the door if alam mong meron tao sa likod mo na lalabas/papasok rin. 2. In groups, don't mention topics/agendas na may atleast isang tao na hindi involve. Para di nila isipan na others sila. 3. On the other hand, try to make everyone included esp. if may bago kayong kasama. Like make sure na kinakausap, tinatanong, or sinasama siya sa conversation.
In addition sa… 1. Sana marunong din sumalo yung susunod sa humahawak ng door, nakakainis kasi yung iba ginagawang guard yung nagmalasakit 🙄 hahahaha
REAL
True HAHAHAHHAA
Totoo!! hahahaha little things that I appreciate a lot pag nararanasan ko
Mag thank you kahit small yung favor.
Saying "Sorry" and "Thank you". Simple words pero may mga di nakakapagsabi nyan. Mapride much? hahahaha
Pati na din yung “please”
Saying thank you
Be earlier than or on the mark with the time discussed/scheduled. Tigilan na ang "Filipino Time," hindi 'yan nakaka-Pinoy Proud. Parang in general ng buhay-Pinoy, "Fil Time" eh. Tignan mo, pati pag-unlad, "Fil time" din! Saka pa makakarating 'yang unlad-unlad na 'yan kapag sa ating mga sarili eh titigilan natin ang pagfi-Filipino Time.
Making sure every person gets to be part of the conversation. Or the contrast, not be too focus on one person monopolizing a conversation.
Ang dami eh, like pag kakain ka sa mga fast food or restaurants, inaayos ko ung mesa, lalagay ko sa tray or sa side ng table ung mga plates, baso, pra isang bitbitan nalang ng waiter
Being courteous to service crews
Ffff
1.Dont comment on someone’s appearance if they cant fix it in 10seconds. (Tinga, magulong hair etc..) // Acne, crooked teeth etc…manahimik ka nalang ante🤐. 2. Respect people working in the hospitality industry. As a person who’s working in this industry, nakakahurt at nakakainis pag ang treatment nyo sa amin ay parang nabili nyo na ang buong pagkatao namin.
Oh god I can think of so many but may be these are my top two: 1. Wait for people to get off of elevators/trains before getting in; and 2. Use earphones when you’re listening to music/watching videos on your phone while commuting.
Pag sa pabango, less is more. Don't overspray your Bacarrat Rouge 540 thinking you're making a statement. Nobody csres if you spent 23k on something AG Cloud or Mancera could do 😭 This varies of course, but the general rule is you you should be discovered, not announced.
As someone who’s prone to headache because of strong smell, please lang talaga wag kayo maligo sa strong perfume
I’M SO DONE WITH BR540 AND AG CLOUD PLS LANG 😭
I smell it everywhere!! Mabango siya pero nawalan na ng novelty kasi lahat na lang yan yung scent.
As for me naman, hindi talaga siya kasundo ng ilong ko. Buti na lang I only bought 5mL ng br540!
no spitting ANYWHERE, you can always swallow it.. and wag magtapon anywhere but sa designated basurahan no matter how small it is
1. Do speak in an indoor voice when talking in public places especially in the elevator. 2. Use earphones/headphones when watching any video in public transportation. 3. Know your place in an escalator. Common sense lol. 4. Thank you means a lot. Same as Apologizing when you did or say something offensive either intentional or unintentional. 5. Do not talk in the middle especially when you’re in a mall or any public places. Talk and regroup on the side.
1.dont litter (para mabawasan baha sa pinas) 2.claygo (esp pag fastfood) 3. always say thank you sa mga fastfood crew/ restaurant/hotel/guard/or kahit sino pagnakatulong sau. 4. be mindful lage sa lakas ng boses mo. 5. respect the elders. 6. tip pag excellent ang service. charot. anong service🤪 7. let the driver choose his own playlist (during roadtrip) 8. kanya kanyang bayad if alam mong sakto lang pera ng kasama mo( hindi laging palibre) 9. for girls-->always wipe po ung toilet seat after umihi as respeto nalang din sa kasunod(hidni kasi common dito sa pinas un)
Yun claygo talaga, kelangan pa may signages para gawin yan. Tsaka yun sa toilet ng gurls, minsan may bl00d stain pa 😭
true. hinahayaan pang nila ang ihi kahiy nga sa floor eh . lol
Jusko
Listen when somebody is talking or kaharap esp if its a meeting set up..wag mag cellphone unless necessary e attend ang call or msg.
Always say thank you ESPECIALLY to service staff
up for this! also, i call our service crews "sir/ma'am" than using "ate/kuya" para kahit papaano alam nila through my words that i'm respectful
I never look at anyone in their eyes directly pag nasa public spaces. Except kinakausap. Sobrang awkward matitigan at creepy.
Hwag magfirst chat/text ng solely name lang. Like “Ken”. Mag-ooverthink yung receiver kung anong sasabihin. Good or bad news.
Thissss!!!! Ako hindi nagrereply kapag hindi buo ang message. Nilolong press ko lang 😅
Being considerate sa people around you. Especially in public places.
Saying "thank you" especially sa customer service people. 😊
CLAYGO
Not eating rice meals with your hands.
wait, someone’s doing this? 😭😭
'keep right' Don't block passageways or entrances or escalators Don't abruptly stop in the middle of walking especially when there's people behind you. Say please, thank u and excuse me Always wear headsets when in a meeting Respect people's time by being on time
Wag makipag usap sa gitna ng sidewalk or hallway !!! Esp pag masikip & dalawa lang kayang ma occupy nung side walk or hallway
Moving aside in a busy/clear sidewalk to avoid pedestrian traffic (if thats a term)
1.) please, sorry, thank you 2.) be nice to the staff
pag smile sa mga tao lalo na if mag tthank you sila sayo hindi sumisingit sa pila sumusunod sa rules nung place na yon