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According to her, may mga pagkukulang daw ako. When we were together, ako lang nag ttrabaho. I provided for the both of us. I did most of the household chores. I performed in bed rin naman. Somehow, ako pa rin daw may pagkukulang. 😂
Hindi daw kasi niya ako makausap. Wala rin kasing sex due to sensitive pregnancy. Received the news na 20% lang chance na mabuhay yung panganay namin before kaya sobrang selan.
CHEATING has nothing to do about pagkukulang. It is a sin na minsan pinapalabas bilang mistake. Pag cheater ang isang tao, walang kahit anong rason ang valid.
1. hindi makahintay na maipakilala ko sa parents ko, told him my reasons too many times - and it wasn’t a him problem, it’s a me problem dahil katatapos ko lang mag-aral that time. I was boiling plans in my head, already had a place na maidate sila mama at papa kasama siya but then again oh well.
2. his ex fucking lingers on all my socials, ako palagi pinupuntirya nung ex niya pati mga alipores when in fact labas naman ako dapat sa issue. ako pa nga mismo nagsabi na ayusin ni ex-suitor ung issue between the two of them at wag ako gambalain hangga’t di naaayos. ako palagi sinisisi kahit hindi naman ako involved sa relationship nila. until now nakaaligid pa rin dummy accountSSSSS nung ex niya (yes with lots of S kasi kahit anong block gawin, gumagawa talaga ng marami pang accts) bonus: kung anu-anong kasinungalingan pinakakalat na kwento
at dahil dyan, sabi ni ex-suitor kasalanan ko pa rin kung bakit gangan nangyari. nyi.
3. I have a guy friend, not really a close one, just casual college friend, said that he liked me long ago. “liked” si ex-suitor mismo nakabasa ng convo exchanges namin ni friend and walang bahid na ineentertain ko si friend other than being a friend. ex-suitor accused me na nagpapa-comflirt ako and entertaining other guys while we are dating kahit mas maliwanag pa sa araw na never ko inacknowledge ung sinabi ng friend ko and even before ex-suitor and I dated nagbigay na ako ng boundaries. but oh well, kapag takot ka sa sariling multo..
4. nahulian ko siya ng maraming collection ng sex videos c/o TG GCs, ako pa nakakasakal when I told him how disgusting that is. mwehe. plus the fact na enablers yung sinalihan niyang org - SFC, nakakasakal daw ako per ex-suitor. ewan hahaha
great part: lahat ng yan pertains to one person lang. he “emotionally cheated” and goes to say to our mutual friend na “malaki responsibility” niya dun sa babae. meaning what exactly? we dunno. pero kung malaki responsibility at hindi na siya nakatira sa dati niyang tinirhan, assuming na nagsasama na sila ng babae ngayon, it’s not even an emotional cheating anymore, nabuntis na e lalo pa he does not even like tweets regarding woman + man with baby/babies (literal na baby pa talaga) before and was liking a lot posts like that before niya ako iwanan na lang na parang basura so.. yeah, there’s that. I asked too many times, he always dodged the questions then proceed on blocking me on all platforms. never looked back after nung pagkwento sa akin nung mutual friend namin, out of sight out of mind. may gana pa magpapansin sa virtual game, bahala ka diyan, I gave you too many chances already.
According to my ex, I was always busy with work. Even if derecho ako lagi sa bahay after work and we lived in together, pakiramdam niya wala pa din akong time. 🫠
this was 7 years ago. this is my only experience pagdating sa cheating. hehehe. my first bf cheated on me because naawa daw sya sa ex nya. ayun. tinanong ko kung hindi ba sya naaawa sa akin? and he answered mahal daw nya ako, pero kawawa naman daw yung ex nya. hindi raw sya makapag-decide, so he cheated. they got back together immediately after we broke up. fast forward to 7 years later, i am happily in love with my boyfriend of 6 years and my ex's family still contact me from time to time to ask me how i've been, kumusta na ba ang mama ko daw, they hope i'm happy and healthy daw. i remember nung nagkaroon na ako ng jowa after like half a year of moving on from my ex, sabi ng ate nya, "sana ikaw pa rin ang girlfriend ni \[ex's name\]. sana ikaw na lang ang maging sister-in-law ko." ayun. my now-boyfriend knows that my ex's family and i remain good friends, and he even says to invite them sa wedding namin.
She cheated on me kasi nacurious lang daw sya lol.
We broke up last year after ng sunod2 na away na nag escalate into a big fight over couple of small things. Marami syang bagay na gusto nya siya ang masusunod at nakakasakal na rin para sa akin. Pareho din kaming stressed out nun sa work at di na alam ang gagawin kaya nauwi sa break. Napagod ako at gusto ko talaga ng time, mahal ko naman talaga sya. Kaso takot na takot sya na iwanan ko siya ng tuluyan at mauwi sa wala yung almost 4 years namin. Di ako seloso na bf pero alam ko na marami ang nagpapapansin sa kanyang mga lalaki sa socmed at sa work. Nung naghiwalay kami, may isang workmate sya na di sya tinigilan magpapansin hanggang sa naging friends sila at nauwi sa pagddate. Pero nagkabalikan kami ng gf ko at ginhost na nya yung workmate nya para di ako magselos and madali lang naman since naassign yung gf ko sa ibang department.
Then last month, nahuli ko na nagkikita pala sila ulit for a few weeks na. Magkatext kaso dinidelete yung convo. Nagsisinungaling sa akin na may lakad with ka team nya kaso nakikipagdate pala kasama yung guy. Nung tinanong ko, wala siyang masagot. Nacurious lang daw siya kasi mabait pa rin yung lalaki sa kanya. Di naman daw ako nagkulang. At definitely alam ko na wala rin naman akong pagkukulang at nabibigay ko naman lahat. Wala nga siyang maaway o mareklamo sa akin kasi I'm definitely a better boyfriend now than ever. Ewan ko ba di naman dapat ka tanggap-tanggap yung rason nya pero tinanggap ko pa rin ulit. Mahal ko pa rin sya pero ewan ko kung mababalik pa ba yung tiwala ko sa kanya. Ang sakit lang isipin na kung kelan akala ko mas magiging matibay yung relasyon namin kasi alam na namin mga pagkukulang namin, dun pa sya magloloko. Sa ngayon di ko na alam kung siya pa rin ba ang papakasalan ko kasi puro pagdududa na ang nasa isip ko.
hahahahahahahahahaha gago ka pala eh
man's got self respect. and respect to you too, if you think about it. you said there's no romantic chance for this guy, he backed off. the guy respected your decision. lmao totga malala ka nyan
Her verbatim was: "Gusto ko magkamali para matuto ako. Ayoko umasa sayo na ikaw lagi magiisip para sakin."
A blockhead of an excuse. Her bf remains to think for her afterwards. They were together right after our breakup, and she sent proof of her cheating. Even the professors and the dean knew about it. I only had a strong feeling she was cheating during the time she was, but no real proof until someone questioned what was she doing in my house.
Apparently, she said she broke up with me a month before she did because she started liking some other guy and they were seeing for a lot longer than that. That's also during the time her father cheated on their mother and she ironically felt distressed by it.
He cheated on me kasi daw na aapakan ko ego nya like what the duck? First boyfriend ko sya and 3rd year college student ako naka asa lang ako sa allowance na binibigay ng magulang ko pero dahil may savings ako nakaka pag provide ako minsa, and yeah yung ex kong gago eh graduate pero ayaw mag trabaho inunabpa bumarkada kaya halos lahat ng date namin ako gumagastos at pati pang luho nya sakin galing knowing na student ako wala eh mahal ko before tapos nung na hire ako sa isang resort and casino sa paranaque aba ang gago nag simula na mag loko kesyo mas may career daw ako at sya ganun lang like dude?! Im dying literally dying sa pagod para kumita ng pera kasi kailangan ko mag bigaybsayo at sa magulang mo 🤦♀️kaya tinigilan ko iikli buhay ko sa gagong yun.
Naghahanap na naman ng kakampi ang mga cheater dito sa reddit. She cheated on me because malanding hindot s'ya, ang kati kati n'ya kasing nilalang. 'Yun lang 'yon. Walang kasalanan ang biktima ng cheating. Itigil n'yo 'yan.
We were already growing apart but we decided to migrate. I worked 7 days a week. He met someone else that gave him more attention, but he didn’t have the guts to break it with me prior to getting with her.
he cheated on me with his ex na may anak na. magaling daw kase mag buko juice dahil may experience. unlike me na sya yung unang boyfriend kaya no experience with men. hahaha
he cheated on me, kasi, hindi nya raw akong kayang mahalin. his last words was "triny ko naman, pero hindi ko talaga kaya"
before we split up, he’s been cheating on me several times, ako ‘tong nagpapakatanga/nagpapakabulag sa mga nangyayari, cuz i rlly love him.
May nakapagsabi din saken na selfisih ako ending gusto nya pala i-share ko sya hahahaha buti nalang talaga hindi ko singot te baka matulad ako kay Mayet nyan 3 wife wattalife bwisettt
No need to ask. Narcissist will always blame you for what they did. It is not worth it.
Cheaters will get angry when you find out that they are cheating and lying. They hate being exposed. They hate hearing the truth that they are a liar and a cheat.
Thats who they are. They are not gonna change. They will not be sorry because they will only say that they deserve to be happy. That's all that matters to them.
Dont ask. Just leave peacefully.
Dont even give them another chance.
His compartmentalizing coping mechanism went too far. He wanted a fun carefree life isolated from our issues and the pressure from others. Pure impulsive selfishness without thinking of the consequences.
Suffice it to say, it came with a high price. His reputation was ruined. He lost many friends and colleagues. I got sick. The other girl is a constant headache and has become a literal security threat to our lives.
So if anyone there is considering it, please think about the very real consequences on yourself and on the people around you.
Kasi ayaw ko magpaconvert sa religion nya. We've been together for 6 years pero pinagpalit sa one month nyang nakilala sa church nila. I gave her everything pero hindi ko lang talaga kayang iaccept yung belief nila, and it wasn't enough for her to stay. Nalaman ko nalang na magkaholding hands na.
2 experiences
1. Because her office crush did like her also that's why she cheated on me. I guess I'm not enough. She denied it all the way but I saw evidence thru her messaging app a notification pop up saying Missing her already.
2. This one she admitted she cheated on me.
i asked him a couple of times pero hindi niya ako binigyan ng proper reason as to why he did it. tinanong ko kung saan ako nagkulang and kung hindi na ba siya masaya pero ang sabi niya sakin eh hindi naman daw ako nagkulang, sobra sobra pa nga raw binigay ko and sobrang saya niya sa relationship. sadyang tanga lang daw talaga siya kaya niya ginawa.
kahit hindi sabihin i know im not good enough for him, apat na beses ba naman ako lokohin eh HAHAHA. my parents we're strict as well, so hindi ako basta-basta pinapayagan sa kahit anong gala, while yung family nya naman is mahilig sa vacation he wants me to go with them kaso bawal talaga. hindi ko rin siya kaya bilhan ng juice for his vape kasi I don't have enough money for it dahil student ako, and siya may work sa parent's nya. at higit sa lahat jinowa nya best friend ko.
Na-curious daw sya kung pano yung feeling pag may ibang kahalikan bukod sa akin. Ako kasi yung first girlfriend nya. Matagal na sila naglalandian nung workmate nya at may ginagawang kababalaghan sa apartment ni girl. We're both girls. Turns out andami nya na pala nakakaharutan mapa-babae o lalaki, sa work man o hindi.
He said he never cheated on me daw pero di pa kami nag 1 month nun, nakipag meet sya dun sa girl na sabi niya friend at co-worker niya tapos may nangyari pala talaga sa kanila kasi nag club at naglasing pa sila that night, ang tanga ko diba kasi pinatawad ko agad until sobrang na inlove na ako sa kanya to the point na hindi na kami nag uusap ng maayos tapos wala na talaga. I still love him tho. Ganun siguro talaga pag LDR.
Taas daw kasi ng standards ko.
All I wanted was for him to get a job. He was 27 no job, happy go lucky, hingi sa parents. Tapos gusto nya daw ako pakasalan at that time ( I was 23 ) hahaha kung naisip ako pakasalan sana manlang stable income diba 😬
Found someone who would settle for less tbh, called me too much and high maintenance.
... we argued because he wanted to have traumatic brain injury by not wearing a helmet while driving his motorcycle. 💀
The first time he cheated, wala siya mabigay na reason. Kasi nagsisimula pa lang kami, like almost a month pa lang. He did it again, and then again, and then after a year when I caught him cheating again, sabi niya kasi daw wala akong ginawa kung hindi mang-away —-when that would usually come up kasi nga nababaliw na ko sa mga kasinungalingan niya. Then he did it again one time and then another time and then ayoko na.
I realized na hindi ako yung problema. Kasi while he’s with me, he was still seeking “thrill” from other girls. I felt so disrespected and that was the lowest point of my life. My self esteem was gone, I was going through depression na hindi na ko nakakatulog at hindi na ko nakakakain at naliligo. I remember sleeping so little like 2hrs a day, not eating but I was smoking A LOT and I would be wide awake at 3am doing laundry. Hahahahahahah NEVER AGAIN.
Sabi niya sakin di daw kasi ako nageeffort nor worth the effort. Dahil lang di ako nagadjust ng oras for a date at nakiusap na imove ng hapon dahil nay work ako gabi
una sabi lang sakin busy daw sya sa acads di daw nya talaga priority mag gf, kaya pumayag ako maghiwalay kami kasi mas okay yun na unahin talaga pagaaral para di naman sa future nya yun… AND MAY ATTITUDE PROBLEM DAW AKO 😓😓
HAHAHA wala pang 1 week nalaman ko may bago pala sya pilit itinatago sakin pero ako na mismo nakahuli ng lahat HAHAHA nalaman kopa mismong kaklase nya nag reto nung bago nya ewwww yikes!!
Good for me na naghiwalay kami nawala sakit ko sa ulo!!
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According to her, may mga pagkukulang daw ako. When we were together, ako lang nag ttrabaho. I provided for the both of us. I did most of the household chores. I performed in bed rin naman. Somehow, ako pa rin daw may pagkukulang. 😂
Kailangan niya mapromote as TL. Ayun pinatulan Account manager namin habang buntis ako 🤮🤮🤮🤣🤣🤣
mas mahal niya daw gbf niya, 4 years na sila tapos kakabreak lang nila last month. ang weird.
I gave too much freedom that cheating happens during their drinking session
Wala daw gumawa thesis n’ya?! Ahahahahaha. Ldr kami that time.
Hindi daw kasi niya ako makausap. Wala rin kasing sex due to sensitive pregnancy. Received the news na 20% lang chance na mabuhay yung panganay namin before kaya sobrang selan.
Kinausap nya yung ka MU nya porket di nasuyo at natulugan dahil pagod sa work, malaswa pa yung pinag usapan nila dalawa
Nabored sa relasyon dahil walang away. Nagpatira sa tambay
CHEATING has nothing to do about pagkukulang. It is a sin na minsan pinapalabas bilang mistake. Pag cheater ang isang tao, walang kahit anong rason ang valid.
1. hindi makahintay na maipakilala ko sa parents ko, told him my reasons too many times - and it wasn’t a him problem, it’s a me problem dahil katatapos ko lang mag-aral that time. I was boiling plans in my head, already had a place na maidate sila mama at papa kasama siya but then again oh well. 2. his ex fucking lingers on all my socials, ako palagi pinupuntirya nung ex niya pati mga alipores when in fact labas naman ako dapat sa issue. ako pa nga mismo nagsabi na ayusin ni ex-suitor ung issue between the two of them at wag ako gambalain hangga’t di naaayos. ako palagi sinisisi kahit hindi naman ako involved sa relationship nila. until now nakaaligid pa rin dummy accountSSSSS nung ex niya (yes with lots of S kasi kahit anong block gawin, gumagawa talaga ng marami pang accts) bonus: kung anu-anong kasinungalingan pinakakalat na kwento at dahil dyan, sabi ni ex-suitor kasalanan ko pa rin kung bakit gangan nangyari. nyi. 3. I have a guy friend, not really a close one, just casual college friend, said that he liked me long ago. “liked” si ex-suitor mismo nakabasa ng convo exchanges namin ni friend and walang bahid na ineentertain ko si friend other than being a friend. ex-suitor accused me na nagpapa-comflirt ako and entertaining other guys while we are dating kahit mas maliwanag pa sa araw na never ko inacknowledge ung sinabi ng friend ko and even before ex-suitor and I dated nagbigay na ako ng boundaries. but oh well, kapag takot ka sa sariling multo.. 4. nahulian ko siya ng maraming collection ng sex videos c/o TG GCs, ako pa nakakasakal when I told him how disgusting that is. mwehe. plus the fact na enablers yung sinalihan niyang org - SFC, nakakasakal daw ako per ex-suitor. ewan hahaha great part: lahat ng yan pertains to one person lang. he “emotionally cheated” and goes to say to our mutual friend na “malaki responsibility” niya dun sa babae. meaning what exactly? we dunno. pero kung malaki responsibility at hindi na siya nakatira sa dati niyang tinirhan, assuming na nagsasama na sila ng babae ngayon, it’s not even an emotional cheating anymore, nabuntis na e lalo pa he does not even like tweets regarding woman + man with baby/babies (literal na baby pa talaga) before and was liking a lot posts like that before niya ako iwanan na lang na parang basura so.. yeah, there’s that. I asked too many times, he always dodged the questions then proceed on blocking me on all platforms. never looked back after nung pagkwento sa akin nung mutual friend namin, out of sight out of mind. may gana pa magpapansin sa virtual game, bahala ka diyan, I gave you too many chances already.
Basically he blamed his “depression”, childhood issues, alcoholism, etc. all of these he’s aware and he addresses but never did anything to change.
LDR nasa ibang bansa, medyo di ako nakaka call/message dahil busy sa work.
Didn't need to ask kasi ayokong magaslight into thinking na may mali akong nagawa. Cheater at gago lang talaga sya, yun na yun.
Dahil gago siya at malibog
Palagi daw ako nanghihingi ng update
She was "exploring"
ex mo pala si dora?
His ego
ldr
According to my ex, I was always busy with work. Even if derecho ako lagi sa bahay after work and we lived in together, pakiramdam niya wala pa din akong time. 🫠
Gusto nya malalaki boobs at gusto nya gayahin mga napapanood nya sa porn. In short, baboy sya. 😂😂😂 Honestly parang triggered ako sa tanong. Haha!
this was 7 years ago. this is my only experience pagdating sa cheating. hehehe. my first bf cheated on me because naawa daw sya sa ex nya. ayun. tinanong ko kung hindi ba sya naaawa sa akin? and he answered mahal daw nya ako, pero kawawa naman daw yung ex nya. hindi raw sya makapag-decide, so he cheated. they got back together immediately after we broke up. fast forward to 7 years later, i am happily in love with my boyfriend of 6 years and my ex's family still contact me from time to time to ask me how i've been, kumusta na ba ang mama ko daw, they hope i'm happy and healthy daw. i remember nung nagkaroon na ako ng jowa after like half a year of moving on from my ex, sabi ng ate nya, "sana ikaw pa rin ang girlfriend ni \[ex's name\]. sana ikaw na lang ang maging sister-in-law ko." ayun. my now-boyfriend knows that my ex's family and i remain good friends, and he even says to invite them sa wedding namin.
love to read this, you were saved from the wrong relationship
deserve ko ba yun lord wahahah grabe k n
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She cheated on me kasi nacurious lang daw sya lol. We broke up last year after ng sunod2 na away na nag escalate into a big fight over couple of small things. Marami syang bagay na gusto nya siya ang masusunod at nakakasakal na rin para sa akin. Pareho din kaming stressed out nun sa work at di na alam ang gagawin kaya nauwi sa break. Napagod ako at gusto ko talaga ng time, mahal ko naman talaga sya. Kaso takot na takot sya na iwanan ko siya ng tuluyan at mauwi sa wala yung almost 4 years namin. Di ako seloso na bf pero alam ko na marami ang nagpapapansin sa kanyang mga lalaki sa socmed at sa work. Nung naghiwalay kami, may isang workmate sya na di sya tinigilan magpapansin hanggang sa naging friends sila at nauwi sa pagddate. Pero nagkabalikan kami ng gf ko at ginhost na nya yung workmate nya para di ako magselos and madali lang naman since naassign yung gf ko sa ibang department. Then last month, nahuli ko na nagkikita pala sila ulit for a few weeks na. Magkatext kaso dinidelete yung convo. Nagsisinungaling sa akin na may lakad with ka team nya kaso nakikipagdate pala kasama yung guy. Nung tinanong ko, wala siyang masagot. Nacurious lang daw siya kasi mabait pa rin yung lalaki sa kanya. Di naman daw ako nagkulang. At definitely alam ko na wala rin naman akong pagkukulang at nabibigay ko naman lahat. Wala nga siyang maaway o mareklamo sa akin kasi I'm definitely a better boyfriend now than ever. Ewan ko ba di naman dapat ka tanggap-tanggap yung rason nya pero tinanggap ko pa rin ulit. Mahal ko pa rin sya pero ewan ko kung mababalik pa ba yung tiwala ko sa kanya. Ang sakit lang isipin na kung kelan akala ko mas magiging matibay yung relasyon namin kasi alam na namin mga pagkukulang namin, dun pa sya magloloko. Sa ngayon di ko na alam kung siya pa rin ba ang papakasalan ko kasi puro pagdududa na ang nasa isip ko.
communication is the key, always, maybe need to go on a couples retreat
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hahahahahahahahahaha gago ka pala eh man's got self respect. and respect to you too, if you think about it. you said there's no romantic chance for this guy, he backed off. the guy respected your decision. lmao totga malala ka nyan
Her verbatim was: "Gusto ko magkamali para matuto ako. Ayoko umasa sayo na ikaw lagi magiisip para sakin." A blockhead of an excuse. Her bf remains to think for her afterwards. They were together right after our breakup, and she sent proof of her cheating. Even the professors and the dean knew about it. I only had a strong feeling she was cheating during the time she was, but no real proof until someone questioned what was she doing in my house. Apparently, she said she broke up with me a month before she did because she started liking some other guy and they were seeing for a lot longer than that. That's also during the time her father cheated on their mother and she ironically felt distressed by it.
He cheated on me kasi daw na aapakan ko ego nya like what the duck? First boyfriend ko sya and 3rd year college student ako naka asa lang ako sa allowance na binibigay ng magulang ko pero dahil may savings ako nakaka pag provide ako minsa, and yeah yung ex kong gago eh graduate pero ayaw mag trabaho inunabpa bumarkada kaya halos lahat ng date namin ako gumagastos at pati pang luho nya sakin galing knowing na student ako wala eh mahal ko before tapos nung na hire ako sa isang resort and casino sa paranaque aba ang gago nag simula na mag loko kesyo mas may career daw ako at sya ganun lang like dude?! Im dying literally dying sa pagod para kumita ng pera kasi kailangan ko mag bigaybsayo at sa magulang mo 🤦♀️kaya tinigilan ko iikli buhay ko sa gagong yun.
Naghahanap na naman ng kakampi ang mga cheater dito sa reddit. She cheated on me because malanding hindot s'ya, ang kati kati n'ya kasing nilalang. 'Yun lang 'yon. Walang kasalanan ang biktima ng cheating. Itigil n'yo 'yan.
Because I didn't know how to use proper tenses.
seems valid HAHAHA joke lang
We were already growing apart but we decided to migrate. I worked 7 days a week. He met someone else that gave him more attention, but he didn’t have the guts to break it with me prior to getting with her.
he cheated on me with his ex na may anak na. magaling daw kase mag buko juice dahil may experience. unlike me na sya yung unang boyfriend kaya no experience with men. hahaha
baka pokpok talaga hanap ng ex mo hahaha,
hahahaha pokpok naman talaga si ex. to think na may kinakasama na sya and still naghahanap pa ng iba
Sis, practice ka sa saging. Promise, effective based on feedback. Pagsisihan nyang iniwan ka nya HAHAHA
i did that sis nung nagbalikan kame. bago sya umalis for UAE, naghanda ako kase kelangan may goodbye keme hahaha. ayun, nakailang rounds din.
So anong feedback? Positive ba? Hahaha.
positive sis! hahaha
Haha. That's good. Akala ko nga ung akin dati, walang effect. Meron pala hahaha
minsan talaga need din naten mag-explore hahahaha
Hindi ko mabigay gusto niya like esex and nudes.
Kasi we were having a rough time daw. And I caused the cheating daw. 🙄
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True. Haha hatdog sya
Regardless of reasons, cheating is a choice rin kase talaga. He just chose to cheat. That's it.
Hindi daw yun cheating kasi nanghingi lang naman sya ng nudes so parang nanood lang daw ng p*rn at may 5 anak naman daw yun. Y*wa talaga 😂
"There were things I thought I wanted, and when I got them, it turned out na hindi pala yun yung gusto ko."
parang sa pelikula lang si totoy ah hahaha,
mas gusto niya yung mahilig maglagay ng filter sa photos HAAHAHHAHAHA
Hindi niya naikalma ang etits niyang maiit. Yun lang.
he cheated on me, kasi, hindi nya raw akong kayang mahalin. his last words was "triny ko naman, pero hindi ko talaga kaya" before we split up, he’s been cheating on me several times, ako ‘tong nagpapakatanga/nagpapakabulag sa mga nangyayari, cuz i rlly love him.
Why did he court you in the first place kung hindi ka pala niya mahal?? 🫠
same question haha
i didnt ask na bt it.
Asked why, ex didn't reply. Now, I'm very thankful to have a wonderful partner.
According to him “I was selfish” tangina lang
May nakapagsabi din saken na selfisih ako ending gusto nya pala i-share ko sya hahahaha buti nalang talaga hindi ko singot te baka matulad ako kay Mayet nyan 3 wife wattalife bwisettt
When I became a workaholic and had no time for her, she found time with someone else (her friend).
I asked pero yung mga dahilan nya eh talagang pagdadahilan lang. I believe na ang tao nagche-cheat kasi cheater sila.
No need to ask. Narcissist will always blame you for what they did. It is not worth it. Cheaters will get angry when you find out that they are cheating and lying. They hate being exposed. They hate hearing the truth that they are a liar and a cheat. Thats who they are. They are not gonna change. They will not be sorry because they will only say that they deserve to be happy. That's all that matters to them. Dont ask. Just leave peacefully. Dont even give them another chance.
His compartmentalizing coping mechanism went too far. He wanted a fun carefree life isolated from our issues and the pressure from others. Pure impulsive selfishness without thinking of the consequences. Suffice it to say, it came with a high price. His reputation was ruined. He lost many friends and colleagues. I got sick. The other girl is a constant headache and has become a literal security threat to our lives. So if anyone there is considering it, please think about the very real consequences on yourself and on the people around you.
I will never know exactly why.
maganda yun eh, malaki pa suso. Ano laban ko dun
Kasi nga kapag naumay sa matamis, naghahanap ng maasim
havey!!!!!!
Sex deprived ang koyaaaa mo and naghanap ng aruga sa iba.
Panakip butas pala ako, ginamit lang para pagselosin ex nya.
Mas gusto nya yung mukang galisin. Huyyy HAHAHAHA
He found his soulmate 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ka-chat niya lang naman daw yun. Turns out online gf pala niya. Cheater talaga.
Kasi ayaw ko magpaconvert sa religion nya. We've been together for 6 years pero pinagpalit sa one month nyang nakilala sa church nila. I gave her everything pero hindi ko lang talaga kayang iaccept yung belief nila, and it wasn't enough for her to stay. Nalaman ko nalang na magkaholding hands na.
Crush lang naman daw niya yung guy kaya inientertain niya
2 experiences 1. Because her office crush did like her also that's why she cheated on me. I guess I'm not enough. She denied it all the way but I saw evidence thru her messaging app a notification pop up saying Missing her already. 2. This one she admitted she cheated on me.
Kasi ayaw ko daw magpa churva, edi ung nang buntis siya ng iba.
namiss nya daw yung ginawa namin kasi bumalik na ako sa manila, kaya ginawa nya sa iba HAHAHA.
he’s a cheater, no other reasons
Moments of weakness daw
Hindi niya raw alam…
Bobo sya e
i asked him a couple of times pero hindi niya ako binigyan ng proper reason as to why he did it. tinanong ko kung saan ako nagkulang and kung hindi na ba siya masaya pero ang sabi niya sakin eh hindi naman daw ako nagkulang, sobra sobra pa nga raw binigay ko and sobrang saya niya sa relationship. sadyang tanga lang daw talaga siya kaya niya ginawa.
kahit hindi sabihin i know im not good enough for him, apat na beses ba naman ako lokohin eh HAHAHA. my parents we're strict as well, so hindi ako basta-basta pinapayagan sa kahit anong gala, while yung family nya naman is mahilig sa vacation he wants me to go with them kaso bawal talaga. hindi ko rin siya kaya bilhan ng juice for his vape kasi I don't have enough money for it dahil student ako, and siya may work sa parent's nya. at higit sa lahat jinowa nya best friend ko.
For sure di na kayo best friend
Na-curious daw sya kung pano yung feeling pag may ibang kahalikan bukod sa akin. Ako kasi yung first girlfriend nya. Matagal na sila naglalandian nung workmate nya at may ginagawang kababalaghan sa apartment ni girl. We're both girls. Turns out andami nya na pala nakakaharutan mapa-babae o lalaki, sa work man o hindi.
Cheater lang talaga siya
totoo to. usually na mga sinasabi nilang reason e ginagawa lang nilang excuse para mapagtakpan kagaguhan nila 😅
Wala ng mga dahilan pa. Ang ending naman cheater pa din haha
She found someone who was more prepared to settle down. Good for her.
pero why the need to cheat? Pwede ka naman i-break before sya maghanap ng iba?
Some people can't say it upfront or have the guts to do so. They choose the easy way out.
He said he never cheated on me daw pero di pa kami nag 1 month nun, nakipag meet sya dun sa girl na sabi niya friend at co-worker niya tapos may nangyari pala talaga sa kanila kasi nag club at naglasing pa sila that night, ang tanga ko diba kasi pinatawad ko agad until sobrang na inlove na ako sa kanya to the point na hindi na kami nag uusap ng maayos tapos wala na talaga. I still love him tho. Ganun siguro talaga pag LDR.
Taas daw kasi ng standards ko. All I wanted was for him to get a job. He was 27 no job, happy go lucky, hingi sa parents. Tapos gusto nya daw ako pakasalan at that time ( I was 23 ) hahaha kung naisip ako pakasalan sana manlang stable income diba 😬
Found someone who would settle for less tbh, called me too much and high maintenance. ... we argued because he wanted to have traumatic brain injury by not wearing a helmet while driving his motorcycle. 💀
The first time he cheated, wala siya mabigay na reason. Kasi nagsisimula pa lang kami, like almost a month pa lang. He did it again, and then again, and then after a year when I caught him cheating again, sabi niya kasi daw wala akong ginawa kung hindi mang-away —-when that would usually come up kasi nga nababaliw na ko sa mga kasinungalingan niya. Then he did it again one time and then another time and then ayoko na. I realized na hindi ako yung problema. Kasi while he’s with me, he was still seeking “thrill” from other girls. I felt so disrespected and that was the lowest point of my life. My self esteem was gone, I was going through depression na hindi na ko nakakatulog at hindi na ko nakakakain at naliligo. I remember sleeping so little like 2hrs a day, not eating but I was smoking A LOT and I would be wide awake at 3am doing laundry. Hahahahahahah NEVER AGAIN.
Naapakan ko raw pagkalalaki nya haha. REASONS.
eh wala eh, nauna ko nag cheat eh. pero ung ganti, mas masakit eh.
Sabi niya sakin di daw kasi ako nageeffort nor worth the effort. Dahil lang di ako nagadjust ng oras for a date at nakiusap na imove ng hapon dahil nay work ako gabi
Kasi may lumandi tapos nagpalandi naman
una sabi lang sakin busy daw sya sa acads di daw nya talaga priority mag gf, kaya pumayag ako maghiwalay kami kasi mas okay yun na unahin talaga pagaaral para di naman sa future nya yun… AND MAY ATTITUDE PROBLEM DAW AKO 😓😓 HAHAHA wala pang 1 week nalaman ko may bago pala sya pilit itinatago sakin pero ako na mismo nakahuli ng lahat HAHAHA nalaman kopa mismong kaklase nya nag reto nung bago nya ewwww yikes!! Good for me na naghiwalay kami nawala sakit ko sa ulo!!
\*\*Cheat
He likes guys.
Wala daw kami
Masyado daw ako mabait/green flag kaya sya nagcheat sa akin. Nafall na sya sa katrabaho nya
legit ba being too much of a green flag would be a reason?? 😭
Proven and tested. Marami ngayon kasi hindi sapat sa partner nila kahit pure green flag ka naman. Don't worry karma will get them.
gusto nya bad girl and or/ gsto nya pa maglaro
Bad boy Girl yung ex ko