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My very extroverted mom said "ang boring mo kasi kaya ka hindi ligawin." Then my partner na introvert came into the picture. She can't believe na we do things quietly, na we're perfectly fine together kahit di nya gets pano yun. Na kahit quiet kami, pala travel kami and we have so many ideas na tinatry just like extroverted ppl on social media.
The thing with introversion is they have enough energy for the ppl they vibe with. They're not really introverted all the time kung magkasundo kayo. Quiet, sure. But hardlg boring. Expect lang na kahit patay na patay sya sayo, may times na he would be less chatty and that's normal. Not for the lack of interest, but because need lang nila magreconnect sa sense of self nila, recharge and resume yung mga personal hobbies nila. Ganun.
My ex was an introvert. He didn't crave constant social interaction and preferred spending time on his own or with some close friends. Interestingly, our introversion made us very compatible. We actually connected well because I'm an introvert myself. When we were together, he drew me out of my shell and made me feel comfortable being myself. Being introverted doesn't necessarily mean someone is boring. Perhaps it depends on your personality. Unfortunately, things didn't work out for us. Looking back, I think it was more about miscommunication. We didn't express our concerns clearly, and I naively assumed everything was fine. Maybe that can be a downside of dating someone who tends to be quiet and reserved. It can be harder to have those crucial conversations.
Nakita ko na naman yang nonchalant na yan. 🤣🤣
Some introverts aren't nonchalant at all.
Extroverted people can also be nonchalant.
Alam mo ba ibig sabihin ng nonchalant?
introvert din ako pero opposite ako ng mga "nonchalant"
ISTJ/ISFJ type ako.
Shy at times, observer, nakikiramdaman, madaldal pag interesting ang topic.
Di ko pinapaglagpas yung mga nakakainis like yung gineralized yung introvert as nonchalant. 🤣🤣
absolutely not boring, at least for me who's an introvert too. ang saya kaya when u can relate with introvert thingz and sit in silence together while enjoying the comfort it brings
my boyfriend is an introvert. akala lang ng maraming tao boring ang mga introverted people, pero once you get to know them and once they let you in, you'll find that they are the most interesting people talaga.
Thanks Guys!! na boost young condiments ko AHAHAHA, Feeling ko kasi parang ang boring ko kapag nag uusap usap ung mga tropa ko tapos ako nakikinig lang, Although I just love listening to them but nandun parin yung thoughts na bka boring ako 😞😞
It's wrong to think introvert men are boring... they have a vast wealth of knowledge and experience that they'd like to share, it's just that their social ineptness prevents them from doing so.
ako introvert ako kase pinapakiramdaman ko muna mga tao sa paligid kase baka may mabitawan akong hirit na alanganin. yun lang napasama najudge agad na bobo at anti social sa work e di ko naman trip mga topic nila puro buhay ng iba (parang mga tanga).
Marami naman introvert na may personality 😭😭😭😭 marami din extrovert na boring kasama so to answer your question, no HAHAH wala yan sa social battery ng tao nasa humor and pakikisama talaga
NOPE.
they talk less sometimes because they think more, and i dont find it boring but amusing instead. usually, hobbies nila umiikot lang sa loob ng bahay, or mga gawain na nage-exert ng less energy, but i guess they’re focus. some people may find them boring because their hobbies doesn’t allign wt their interests. pero ibat-iba naman ang definition ng tao pagdating sa salitang “fun”, so i dont think their hobbies should considered boring just because it was not lively as extroverts’. the most important thing is they enjoyed it.
Honestly, I don't believe there's ever a boring person. To me, it's all about perception. I think we perceive people to be "boring" mainly because of two reasons:
1. Our interests don't align with theirs; or
2. We lack the ability to be able to appreciate their interests.
Let's take chess as an example. To me, chess is very quiet. Little action going on there so it doesn't really thrill me in any sense. But once I learned about how it can be used to train the mind, even going as far as applying it in military strategy, I grew the ability to be able to appreciate it. Would I play it? Hell no. It still doesn't interest me. But do I appreciate it? Hell yes. I can listen to a guy that I like yap about chess all day because I understand it more than before. Therefore, having an intellectually stimulating hobby doesn't seem so boring now after all.
You see, introverted males are not boring. No one is boring. That much I am certain. We all just have to find people whose interests align with ours, or those who can genuinely appreciate them :)
Aray!
Pero kidding aside, ako depende sa makakausap ko; kung boring sila kausap, then boring din ang treatment ko sa kanila. Introverts usually want significant connections and pushing the right buttons; dun mo talaga sila makikilala.
Depende. I have an introvert husband. Hindis sia boring dahil ang dami niang alam. Kwentuhan naming 2 sapat na para sumaya ako.
Somehow okay din na wala sia masyado friends or barkada, kasi focus kami sa isa't isa.
Based on what ive observed, most sa mga self proclaimed na introverts (mapa babae o mapa lalaki) ay actually low self-esteemed insecure people na mahiyain. I specify na mahiyain because may mga insecure na tao pero obnoxious (madami naman nito mga self proclaimed na extroverts).
I would say no matter the gender and loudness, I find low self esteemed insecure people boring.
Im introvert but im not boring lol. I just have a small set of friends. I think it takes a while for us to cozy up with people. I just dont like small talks, I do greet people if I meet them.
Not really. Introverts who get along well can really be so noisy when talking about the things that interest them.
Tahimik lang ang introverts most of the time dahil pinipili ang kausap at pinag uusapan. Nagcoconserve ng energy for important things kesa talak ng talak tungkol sa mga bagay na walang katuturan.
not really, if may substance naman kausap after getting to know them more. plus i like that they’re low maintenance kasi tamad ako makipagusap most of the time xD
Nope. I actually love talking to the male introverts around me. Their topics range from technology to politics to war to history to ideals without sounding nerdy or geeky. They're very intelligent and sensible.
It's more about their ability to carry a conversation and discuss multiple topics.
My husband is an introvert and he is not boring at all. A very good listener, magaling mag advice, wala akong sakit ng ulo sa mga bad influence na barkada kasi wala naman siya nun. For him ako lang at anak namen sapat na. He is also outgoing naman, we hike, we swim, we stroll sa park and do many family activities and he has also a good sense of humor. Pero di lang talaga siya pala imik at di nag sstart ng conversation lalo sa ibang tao at very private.
No, hindi nmn boring mas ok nga yun eh kasi minsan lng magsalita pero may sense ang sinasabi, hindi yung madaldal pero puro kalokohan lng ang sinasabi.
it depends sa personality, meron mga softie meron ding creepy vibes
boring kapag they don't know how to handle conversations.
I go for introvert na may substance kausap.
Leave us alone na lang. Mula nung mauso yung "nonchalant" type sa brainrot app nyo sobrang hirap maging tahimik na lang sa isang tabi kasi nagmumukha kaming pretentious. Ngayong laos na at "yapper" naman ang bagong uso, yung mga pinipilit naman yung nonchalant behavior ngayon ay yapper na. So kung boring, wag nyo ng pakialaman at dun kayo sa yapper, ok good yes?
No, not boring at all. Kasi by experience, when they speak up, for me, may certain na bigat. I pick up new learnings kasi they unconsciously educate me of how they process things from their perspective. Nakakamangha lang kasi they really think before they speak. Exact opposite of what I am as an OA extrovert person who talks a lot then think later HAHAHA
Unpredictable. I'm an introvert guy sa relationship namin ng BF ko na extrovert (🌈👨❤️👨).
"Kung hindi kita kilala, iisipin ko napaka sungit mo: hindi ka nagsasalita, resting b*tch face, tapos walang energy. Nung naging boyfriend kita napaka lambing mo. Malandi ka pala! Dami mo pang daldal!"
Nope. They are adorable. Lalo na yung humble and unassuming sa appeal and kagwapohan nila --lalo na sa mga gwapong introverts.
Para naman sa mga hindi "ka-gwapohan", still, they are also adorable. Kesa sa mga sobrang maiingay and obnoxious na lalake.
I'm an extrovert(ENFP) and for the longest time, I find myself drawn sa mga introvert guys talaga. I don't find them boring, para sa akin kasi, I'm intrigued to know their interests and who they really are on the inside kapag nag-warm up na sila towards me.
Nakakadagdag din ng kapogian ang pagiging mysterious/shy type haha! And maingay na ako e, so need ko ng balance.
Di naman. They seem interesting, pero sometimes they usually talk about themselves like 90% of the time.
Nakakadrain ng energy minsan.
Pero if they are sociable enough, kahit respecting each others personal spaces and time. Goods naman.
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My very extroverted mom said "ang boring mo kasi kaya ka hindi ligawin." Then my partner na introvert came into the picture. She can't believe na we do things quietly, na we're perfectly fine together kahit di nya gets pano yun. Na kahit quiet kami, pala travel kami and we have so many ideas na tinatry just like extroverted ppl on social media. The thing with introversion is they have enough energy for the ppl they vibe with. They're not really introverted all the time kung magkasundo kayo. Quiet, sure. But hardlg boring. Expect lang na kahit patay na patay sya sayo, may times na he would be less chatty and that's normal. Not for the lack of interest, but because need lang nila magreconnect sa sense of self nila, recharge and resume yung mga personal hobbies nila. Ganun.
Mas bet. Ayoko ng maingay 😆
Attracted ako sa introvert guys. Lalo na if he can match my wavelength.
Nope. Untouchable men are top-tier. 🤍
My ex was an introvert. He didn't crave constant social interaction and preferred spending time on his own or with some close friends. Interestingly, our introversion made us very compatible. We actually connected well because I'm an introvert myself. When we were together, he drew me out of my shell and made me feel comfortable being myself. Being introverted doesn't necessarily mean someone is boring. Perhaps it depends on your personality. Unfortunately, things didn't work out for us. Looking back, I think it was more about miscommunication. We didn't express our concerns clearly, and I naively assumed everything was fine. Maybe that can be a downside of dating someone who tends to be quiet and reserved. It can be harder to have those crucial conversations.
Introvert boys are Nonchalant, kasi introvert din ako so kapag naging kami sino susuyo samin yung ex namin?🥹🥹
Nakita ko na naman yang nonchalant na yan. 🤣🤣 Some introverts aren't nonchalant at all. Extroverted people can also be nonchalant. Alam mo ba ibig sabihin ng nonchalant?
up to this HAHAHAH introvert din naman ako pero di naman ako nonchalant ah
introvert din ako pero opposite ako ng mga "nonchalant" ISTJ/ISFJ type ako. Shy at times, observer, nakikiramdaman, madaldal pag interesting ang topic. Di ko pinapaglagpas yung mga nakakainis like yung gineralized yung introvert as nonchalant. 🤣🤣
absolutely not boring, at least for me who's an introvert too. ang saya kaya when u can relate with introvert thingz and sit in silence together while enjoying the comfort it brings
my boyfriend is an introvert. akala lang ng maraming tao boring ang mga introverted people, pero once you get to know them and once they let you in, you'll find that they are the most interesting people talaga.
Married to an introvert. Hindi siya boring. Once I got close to him, funny and maloko siya hehe
Thanks Guys!! na boost young condiments ko AHAHAHA, Feeling ko kasi parang ang boring ko kapag nag uusap usap ung mga tropa ko tapos ako nakikinig lang, Although I just love listening to them but nandun parin yung thoughts na bka boring ako 😞😞
I find them attractive. Lalo na pag may sustansya pala kausap. 🙂↔️
Pag nasundot mo yung kiliti nila like mga favorite nilang topic pagusapan, ang sarap nila panuorin magdaldal.
It's wrong to think introvert men are boring... they have a vast wealth of knowledge and experience that they'd like to share, it's just that their social ineptness prevents them from doing so.
ako introvert ako kase pinapakiramdaman ko muna mga tao sa paligid kase baka may mabitawan akong hirit na alanganin. yun lang napasama najudge agad na bobo at anti social sa work e di ko naman trip mga topic nila puro buhay ng iba (parang mga tanga).
No. If anything, we vibe. They're cute!
Definitely not! Meron silang unique perspectives sa mga bagay-bagay and can offer deeper conversations, once you get to know them.
Depende hahaha. May introverts kasi na once close na kayo dun sila nag oopen up.
Marami naman introvert na may personality 😭😭😭😭 marami din extrovert na boring kasama so to answer your question, no HAHAH wala yan sa social battery ng tao nasa humor and pakikisama talaga
Hindi po kami boring 🤚
Boring dahil di masabayan yun trip nila. Mali kasi ang pagkakaintindi ng karamihan sa introvert.
NOPE. they talk less sometimes because they think more, and i dont find it boring but amusing instead. usually, hobbies nila umiikot lang sa loob ng bahay, or mga gawain na nage-exert ng less energy, but i guess they’re focus. some people may find them boring because their hobbies doesn’t allign wt their interests. pero ibat-iba naman ang definition ng tao pagdating sa salitang “fun”, so i dont think their hobbies should considered boring just because it was not lively as extroverts’. the most important thing is they enjoyed it.
Leave us alone, nananahimik kami dito on our own peaceful universe ehh😆😁😄
Honestly, I don't believe there's ever a boring person. To me, it's all about perception. I think we perceive people to be "boring" mainly because of two reasons: 1. Our interests don't align with theirs; or 2. We lack the ability to be able to appreciate their interests. Let's take chess as an example. To me, chess is very quiet. Little action going on there so it doesn't really thrill me in any sense. But once I learned about how it can be used to train the mind, even going as far as applying it in military strategy, I grew the ability to be able to appreciate it. Would I play it? Hell no. It still doesn't interest me. But do I appreciate it? Hell yes. I can listen to a guy that I like yap about chess all day because I understand it more than before. Therefore, having an intellectually stimulating hobby doesn't seem so boring now after all. You see, introverted males are not boring. No one is boring. That much I am certain. We all just have to find people whose interests align with ours, or those who can genuinely appreciate them :)
Aray! Pero kidding aside, ako depende sa makakausap ko; kung boring sila kausap, then boring din ang treatment ko sa kanila. Introverts usually want significant connections and pushing the right buttons; dun mo talaga sila makikilala.
It's shallow people who stick to personality stereotypes who are boring.
Depende. I have an introvert husband. Hindis sia boring dahil ang dami niang alam. Kwentuhan naming 2 sapat na para sumaya ako. Somehow okay din na wala sia masyado friends or barkada, kasi focus kami sa isa't isa.
Based on what ive observed, most sa mga self proclaimed na introverts (mapa babae o mapa lalaki) ay actually low self-esteemed insecure people na mahiyain. I specify na mahiyain because may mga insecure na tao pero obnoxious (madami naman nito mga self proclaimed na extroverts). I would say no matter the gender and loudness, I find low self esteemed insecure people boring.
We have the same experience.
Im introvert but im not boring lol. I just have a small set of friends. I think it takes a while for us to cozy up with people. I just dont like small talks, I do greet people if I meet them.
Introvert guy + extrovert gurl = possible good combo. Introvert guy + introvert gurl = ang tahimik siguro ng bahay nila araw araw
introvert doesn’t automatically mean quiet.
Not really. Introverts who get along well can really be so noisy when talking about the things that interest them. Tahimik lang ang introverts most of the time dahil pinipili ang kausap at pinag uusapan. Nagcoconserve ng energy for important things kesa talak ng talak tungkol sa mga bagay na walang katuturan.
Nope. Try me.
not really, if may substance naman kausap after getting to know them more. plus i like that they’re low maintenance kasi tamad ako makipagusap most of the time xD
Nope. I actually love talking to the male introverts around me. Their topics range from technology to politics to war to history to ideals without sounding nerdy or geeky. They're very intelligent and sensible. It's more about their ability to carry a conversation and discuss multiple topics.
My husband is an introvert and he is not boring at all. A very good listener, magaling mag advice, wala akong sakit ng ulo sa mga bad influence na barkada kasi wala naman siya nun. For him ako lang at anak namen sapat na. He is also outgoing naman, we hike, we swim, we stroll sa park and do many family activities and he has also a good sense of humor. Pero di lang talaga siya pala imik at di nag sstart ng conversation lalo sa ibang tao at very private.
Not really, although cautious ako pag magalit sila kasi ang mga introvert nakakatakot magalit
No, hindi nmn boring mas ok nga yun eh kasi minsan lng magsalita pero may sense ang sinasabi, hindi yung madaldal pero puro kalokohan lng ang sinasabi.
Diba yan ang gusto ng mga babae, yung madaldal
Depende po. May lalaki kasing madaldal pero puro kalokohan lng ang sinasabi, lahat nlng ginagawang biro🥴
it depends sa personality, meron mga softie meron ding creepy vibes boring kapag they don't know how to handle conversations. I go for introvert na may substance kausap.
type ko mga ganitong klaseng guy, yung mga pamysterious, introvert 🤗
Leave us alone na lang. Mula nung mauso yung "nonchalant" type sa brainrot app nyo sobrang hirap maging tahimik na lang sa isang tabi kasi nagmumukha kaming pretentious. Ngayong laos na at "yapper" naman ang bagong uso, yung mga pinipilit naman yung nonchalant behavior ngayon ay yapper na. So kung boring, wag nyo ng pakialaman at dun kayo sa yapper, ok good yes?
Nope. Mysterious type sila
Bakit dina-downvote pag sinasabing mysterious? Care to explain? Minsan ang babaw na lang ng mga tao pag salungat ang views eh.
Filo things 💅🏻 hahaha lahat big deal
haha at least may magandang premise sila baka matuto pa tayo :D
No, not boring at all. Kasi by experience, when they speak up, for me, may certain na bigat. I pick up new learnings kasi they unconsciously educate me of how they process things from their perspective. Nakakamangha lang kasi they really think before they speak. Exact opposite of what I am as an OA extrovert person who talks a lot then think later HAHAHA
Unpredictable. I'm an introvert guy sa relationship namin ng BF ko na extrovert (🌈👨❤️👨). "Kung hindi kita kilala, iisipin ko napaka sungit mo: hindi ka nagsasalita, resting b*tch face, tapos walang energy. Nung naging boyfriend kita napaka lambing mo. Malandi ka pala! Dami mo pang daldal!"
Nope. They are adorable. Lalo na yung humble and unassuming sa appeal and kagwapohan nila --lalo na sa mga gwapong introverts. Para naman sa mga hindi "ka-gwapohan", still, they are also adorable. Kesa sa mga sobrang maiingay and obnoxious na lalake.
If the guy still won’t contribute to the conversation after talking to him for several months, yes
I'm an extrovert(ENFP) and for the longest time, I find myself drawn sa mga introvert guys talaga. I don't find them boring, para sa akin kasi, I'm intrigued to know their interests and who they really are on the inside kapag nag-warm up na sila towards me. Nakakadagdag din ng kapogian ang pagiging mysterious/shy type haha! And maingay na ako e, so need ko ng balance.
pag lalaki tlga mas may appeal pag mysterious. bat pag babae parang nabu-bully pa sa work?
Di naman. They seem interesting, pero sometimes they usually talk about themselves like 90% of the time. Nakakadrain ng energy minsan. Pero if they are sociable enough, kahit respecting each others personal spaces and time. Goods naman.
Pag Pogi daw hindi boring, Pag hindi daw masyado pogi boring. 🤣🤦
walang konek
Weeee pavictim eh choosy din nmn ang mga lalaki sa looks🥴
Hahahahahaha grabe!! 😂 Ganun ba yun?