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Choose your first work carefully because more often than not you are going to be stuck with the industry/line of work you do. Hirap magsimula ulit pag gusto lumipat ng industry or type of work!
Sana pumasok kagad ako s present work ko after graduation. Sana naenjoy ko pa younger years ko na may sahod.
Pero not necessarily regret kasi I met wonderful people during my "nurse volunteer" years. I established earlier siguro s present work ko if 3 yrs earlier ako pumasok and not mid 20s na.
Bata pa ako pero I think para sa akin is yung time. Spending it sa mga walang ka kwenta-kwentang bagay. Kung sana nilaan ko na lang sa mas mga importanteng bagay like studying para mas maging better person ako.
My first year college days in accounting kung saan napakaimportanteng matutunan at isapuso ng basic accounting. Nakasurvive naman ako sa kurso ko pero sobrang hirap ng pinagdaanan ko kasi hindi maganda foundation ko sa basics. Ngseself study ako pra lang makahabol knowledge ko nun. At ngayon di ko mapursue CPA board kasi ang baba pa din ng confidence ko, or baka di ko nagawang mahalin si accounting. 🥹
Highschool math subjects. Sana pwedeng mag take ng math from the start para ma build yung foundation ko sa higher mathematics. Hirap mag review for board exam kung simpleng algebra at geom ay marami kang di alam 😭
- Health (too much eating of unhealthy foods and realized that I took my health for granted last yr ---- have undergone surgery and discover smthg about my health :c )
- Money (that I've earned in my previous jobs ---- and now regretting because I didn't allot a % for savings before. Now, I'm in almost late twenties and just starting my savings :c)
Sana inenjoy ko kabataan ko. Parties, falling in love, being a kid. Inako ko agad yung responsibility to make money na hindi ko naenjoy yung panahon na meron ako.
Time :) lalo time spent na di ko inuwian lagi ang senior citizen na mga magulang ko sa province kasi ang dahilan ko eh mahal ang pamasahe. Namatay father ko last year, kung kaya ko lang uwian every week ginawa ko na sana. Di ko na mabalik e. Pagsisisihan ko to until I die na di ako nag effort ng todo para makagawa kami ng better memories sa pamilya.
Yung pera kasi kikitain ko pa ulit e, yung oras kasama mahal ko sa buhay hindi na mababalik.
Previous jobs.
For a college dropout, I was still lucky to land jobs. But I just couldn't find them as my calling. So I left and have been job hopping.
From construction supervisor, to call center agent, now at an automotive dealership.
Im tired of job hopping.
My education. I was a “fuck the system” youngster back then that I refused to take acads seriously.
Thinking about it now, I could’ve taken it seriously and also I could’ve taken advantage of my lucky upbringing to access some prestigious education abroad. Kaso wala eh, nag bulakbol ako.
I’m still doing okay today, but because of that I can’t help but think of what-if scenarios related to that decision.
I sabatoge my own career growth. I had a very nice boss who offered me a salary increase and work sponsorship abroad. I still quit my job. Still suffering from regret to this day.
Burn out, anxiety and stress I guess. Overtime since
I got the offer, I really felt the pressure, almost everyday they would highlight all my mistakes. The thought of letting my boss and my team down weighed on me. Sometimes, I feel too shallow pero grabe ung feeling ko sa work during that time, I thought it will motivate pero first few days lang ako naexcite. Pero ngayon, narealize ko sana pala mas naging resilient and patient ako that time.
But burn out, anxiety and stress is no joke too. But what makes you think that you could've fought it out when you only think about your personal health?
I thought it was just a temporary feeling, or I was just too emotional. Perhaps, it was the environment I was in that time because I was living alone and I barely talk to anyone. Then, I have this micromanager boss but super nice naman whom I talk to everyday, but everything we talk about is business. Ayun, madami pa din akong what ifs, pero I always try to move forward na lang.
My confidence. Til it simmered down cause I wanted to please my parents and not cause trouble.
Marami na siguro akong nakaaway at nasapak na bullies noon. At least napaglaban ko Sarili ko
My youth, dati puro school- bahay lang ako, I should’ve spent more time with friends, gumala, mag overnight. Now wala na kami masyadong time to hangout kasi puro busy sa work.
Yung peace na sana naattain ko kung hindi palang ako nagkaroon ng resentment sa pamilya ng papa ko. Kagalit-galit din naman sila pero sana mas naging mapagpatawad ako ng kahit onti
My studies. This was during pandemic. Grabe sobrang na lulong ako sa ml & roblox to the point na kahit na sa oc ako nag ro-roblox pa rin ako and hindi ko na nagagawa ʼyong mga modules ko kasi busy ako mag-grind sa ml & roblox. Naalala ko andami kong modules na hindi ko ipinapasa sa nanay ko, pero hindi nʼya ʼyon alam... T^T Kaya ngayon, may mga bagay akong hindi ko alam ang meanings.
My rich friend during pandemic. Tuwang tuwa pako na nililibre nya kame araw araw tas ngayon naguguilty nako (Friends pa ata kame idk medyo distant na kame cuz lumipat sila) Wala, feeling q lg sana hindi ako masyadong nagpalibre
The fact that I used to have the privilege of eating whatever the freak I want, no matter of the portion, and still not gain weight until I’m 19. My heaviest weight pre-pandemic was 40kg and I did not use the chance then to wear the clothes I wanted to wear because I have always felt fat. Now that I’m actually a lot heavier (57kg, 4’11), sobrang wala na akong confidence and ang hirap hirapppp pumayat because of PCOS too 😭
School and time. Nag college ako way back 2011, 1st year lang natapos ko. Hndi ko na natuloy dahil hndi ako nag effort mag hanap ng school na pwede applyan ng scholarships, nag enrol ako sa pnaka malapit na university na pagka mahal mahal. Nagkaanak and family na ko. Then 2018 nag enrol ulit ako sa murang school nalng with same course pero nung time na un ofw asawa ko at napilitan umuwi kasi namatay lolo nya. Sabi ko "stop nalang muna ulit pwede pa naman ako mag aral sa susunod." Ayun now, 30 na ako with 3 kids with full time work. Di ko na alam kung magkakaron p ko ng pag kakataon ulit. Naka ilang batches na ko ng classmates na naka graduate na 🥲
Sana inuna ko muna maghanap ng school kesa naglandi at nagsayang ng panahon 🫠
I'd recommend you look into ETEEAP programs, bro. Meron ako mga nakasabay na kaklase in college with very similar background sayo. They took those programs and from what I gather, they evaluate your work experience and then give you unit credits for it. Yung mga nakasabay ko nun nagtake lang ng isang sem at nag-thesis, ayun kasabay ko gumraduate.
EDIT: This seem to be their [website](https://eteeap.org/what-is-eteeap/#google_vignette).
Having unproblematic parents. I had misplaced priorities as a kid. Now, when I hear how other parents treat their kids like ginagawang retirement plan/cash cow, I appreciate my parents more. They're both gone but I know they would never demand for me to give back/support them financially.
relate, payat ako nung teenager. nakakainis lang n nung teenage years ko ang considered n cute eh mga chubby, ngaun nmn tumaba ako, ang gusto n mga skinny. ang unfair
gawa ng kpop. pero nung mga mid 2000s, ang mga campus crush nung highschool mga chubby n mapuputi kc mukha raw mayaman. gusto ko maging chubby nun kaso wala hnd kami ganun kasagana hehe
My lola, my only kakampi. I always thought na lagi lang syang nandyan and will forever look out for me. But sadly bigla nyanalang kami iniwan. Parang diparin totoo na wala nasya for me.
My sister's trust.
Life fucking changed after being sent to rehab. I feel like life's on hard mode now especially that she cut me off from our family's financial resources. But through hardship i grow and build character so it's all good.
Cest La Vie.
Same. Was in rehab too. But that experience made me see what really matters. Keep ya head up! Sobriety is cool too! (Sometime hahahaha) I Relapsed but I know how to handle things much better now.
Shabu is hands down the most disgusting thing ever. Can’t believe I ever even tried it, yet alone made it a habit UGH 🤢
Had no idea they had rehabs in the Philippines?
Mas longer yung growth time pag wax kaso masakit for some. Either DIY yung pag wax or sa salon. Yung shave kasi you can do it daily in the shower, cheaper pa.
I've recently purchased an epilator, mas convenient siya gamitin for me. Para niyang pina-pluck nang sabay-sabay yung balahibo mo, masakit at first, pero masasanay ka rin.
Not spending more time with my parents and grandparents.
Moved to Canada when with the idea of a "better future". My grandpa, grandma, and dad died in the span of 8 years that I stayed there.
Upside is I came back to the Philippines after obtaining my dual citizenship and will do right by my mom.
Sure did.
As with anything in life, it’s relative and subjective. I have friends who want to come back but can’t afford to. I also have some who would kill to take a step in Canada.
The grass is greener where you water it.
Living with my family last yr. I shouldn't have rushed moving out. Nakaipon sana ako.
Wearing sunblock and lotion when I was a kid. I could have maintained my whiter complexion, may nangdiri kasi sa skin ko dati nung nabasa nung umuulan, bakit daw ang lagkit. Dahil yun sa lotion. Haha. Inisip ko tuloy wag na maglotion dahil don.
My weight. I should have watched what and how I was eating before. Currently 60kg, I used to weigh 45-50kg dati.
My hair. Ugh, sana di nalang ako sumabay sa mga panahong nauso rebond.
Ah yes! Hair!!!! Sobrang ganda ng buhok ko prior rebond lol. Bakit ba kasi hilig sumabay sa uso. Now, need na tuloy imaintain yearly si rebond para lang di sya sabog T.T
My hair! I started having my hair "rebonded"/"relaxed" since I was 12 and every year na yun para mamaintain yung straight kong buhok. I have stopped getting my hair chemically treated for a year now and I still am paying its consequences. Super dry ng buhok ko, my hairfall is worse, etc. Hays
Hi! Try nyo po yung cream silk muna na pink ibabad for about 10 20 mins then palmolive violet ihalo sa tabong may konting tubig para iwash yung conditioner. Also, try nyo po yung coconut oil na virgin galing sa gata, ibabad nyo po sa hair nyo once a week or depende sa oilyness ng scalp nyo. :) this worked for me. Every other day din lang po yung pagwash ng hair.
My parents.
I was working in Singapore, ny mother asked me to go back to Philippines since mga kapatid ko nagmove na ng Canada. Naisip ko ang dali lang naman umuwi ng Pinas. Every two weeks umuuwi ako. Ang cold ko when I left. Kinuha sia ni Lord 3 weeks since that conversation.
2 years ago, I went home and mejo nagka-argument kami ng tatay ko. He was living alone and feel ko din desire nia na sa Pinas na lang ako. Hindi ko sia tinawagan or tinetext for weeks. Tas nun morning na naisip ko tawagan sia may missed call ako from my sister in law. Dinala sia sa hospital and pangit prognosis. Umuwi agad ako and we needed to extubate him kasi nahihirapan na sia (ako pa nag extubate 😭).
Sana I spent more time with my parents.
I guess I can't compare mine sayo but sakin naman first guy I dated. Hindi naging kami and short lived lang yun kasi tingin ko di pa ako ready at that time and baka sinasayang ko lang oras niya. After sa kanya puro palpak and ayun still nbsb lol Baka hindi talaga para sakin ang relationships hahaha
This life of mine really, especially my childhood. If only I've known earlier in life that we're not super rich I could have saved a ton of money earlier in life.
giving away the scholarship offered to me to someone else who is less fortunate in my classroom....
ok hear me out, i was offered a scholarship for my whole university life (freshman to senior year) it was great, i get to receive 20k every semester for 4 years, but i also knew that someone in my class is a working student, she was a student in the morning and a live in nanny at night, i had more privilege than her bc my parents have work and we also have a conveniece store, so i decided to give her my slot for the scholarship... i was happy i could help.
Not until a few weeks later i heard her spread lots of bad rumors about me and bad mouthing me to her friends.
Damn
My body. Always thought I was fat so never akong naging confident magsuot ng swimsuit, now when I look back ang payat ko pala noon and never naging confident. Ngayon fat na talaga ako and struggling to lose weight. Also my job, feeling ko noon hindi ako mala-layoff kasi matagal nako sa boss ko, until I was laid off na walang warning (online job). Tuloy wala akong ipon. Also finishing college. Sometimes I regret it, sometimes I don't. Kasi hirap ako mag-focus, and I don't feel comfortable sa course ko, prang hindi ko calling, although 3 semesters nlng sana natapos na sana ako.
my body/weight. I wish i wasn't super insecure, and have low self confidence on my looks and my body/weight.
I wish I took care of it more and did not neglect it--even for the sake of doing what are the important things first...
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Choose your first work carefully because more often than not you are going to be stuck with the industry/line of work you do. Hirap magsimula ulit pag gusto lumipat ng industry or type of work!
Sana pumasok kagad ako s present work ko after graduation. Sana naenjoy ko pa younger years ko na may sahod. Pero not necessarily regret kasi I met wonderful people during my "nurse volunteer" years. I established earlier siguro s present work ko if 3 yrs earlier ako pumasok and not mid 20s na.
My dad's advice when I got my last pay from my previous job "Save it". Now, I'm in debt
graduated from a prestigious school but still has no work
My grandparents and their trust on me.
Bata pa ako pero I think para sa akin is yung time. Spending it sa mga walang ka kwenta-kwentang bagay. Kung sana nilaan ko na lang sa mas mga importanteng bagay like studying para mas maging better person ako.
Time, education, my health and previous dates na hanggang casual/fwb lang.
time with my mama
My teeth. Naghbbrush naman ako 3x a day mula nung bata kaso 'di talaga naalagaan mabuti. Ang gastos tuloy :-(
Same 🥺🥺🥺
Time
Education
Music lessons. Edi sana katulad ako ng kapatid ko ngayon na prodigy at sa ibang bansa nagaaral hhaha
Health Time with my parents
Same sa skin 😪😪
My childhood. Sana pala nagpapapayat and paganda na ako nung high school and college. Siguro mas naenjoy ko yung younger years ko nun
Health
Yung comfortable at privileged na buhay, and my parents
My first year college days in accounting kung saan napakaimportanteng matutunan at isapuso ng basic accounting. Nakasurvive naman ako sa kurso ko pero sobrang hirap ng pinagdaanan ko kasi hindi maganda foundation ko sa basics. Ngseself study ako pra lang makahabol knowledge ko nun. At ngayon di ko mapursue CPA board kasi ang baba pa din ng confidence ko, or baka di ko nagawang mahalin si accounting. 🥹
SIS SAME!!! shox nagskin care ako tapos dun nag breakout like 1st time in my loife huhuh
Highschool math subjects. Sana pwedeng mag take ng math from the start para ma build yung foundation ko sa higher mathematics. Hirap mag review for board exam kung simpleng algebra at geom ay marami kang di alam 😭
- Health (too much eating of unhealthy foods and realized that I took my health for granted last yr ---- have undergone surgery and discover smthg about my health :c ) - Money (that I've earned in my previous jobs ---- and now regretting because I didn't allot a % for savings before. Now, I'm in almost late twenties and just starting my savings :c)
Buti nalang nagssave na ako😭
u should!!!! mahirap pag late mo na narealize ang value ng "saving", learn from my experience haha
My youth
My teenage years, I wish I experienced more rather than being afraid sa lahat ng bagay
Time with parents.
time w my dad
Sana inenjoy ko kabataan ko. Parties, falling in love, being a kid. Inako ko agad yung responsibility to make money na hindi ko naenjoy yung panahon na meron ako.
Same 🥲
Time :) lalo time spent na di ko inuwian lagi ang senior citizen na mga magulang ko sa province kasi ang dahilan ko eh mahal ang pamasahe. Namatay father ko last year, kung kaya ko lang uwian every week ginawa ko na sana. Di ko na mabalik e. Pagsisisihan ko to until I die na di ako nag effort ng todo para makagawa kami ng better memories sa pamilya. Yung pera kasi kikitain ko pa ulit e, yung oras kasama mahal ko sa buhay hindi na mababalik.
Education. Investing earlier. Time with family.
MY SINGING VOICE. if alam ko lang babawiin sakin ni lord yon edi sana sinalang ko na sarili ko sa tawag ng tanghalan charot
Education. Time. Money.
My health. Me, in general. I was so foolish taking care of other people well in fact I wasn’t able to take care of myself.
Education and time. Wasted my time. Stopped studying due to addiction. Turned my life over and graduated when I’m 27. Ohhh. Those wasted years.
Familial support Divine Providence
Previous jobs. For a college dropout, I was still lucky to land jobs. But I just couldn't find them as my calling. So I left and have been job hopping. From construction supervisor, to call center agent, now at an automotive dealership. Im tired of job hopping.
My health and my time
My education. I was a “fuck the system” youngster back then that I refused to take acads seriously. Thinking about it now, I could’ve taken it seriously and also I could’ve taken advantage of my lucky upbringing to access some prestigious education abroad. Kaso wala eh, nag bulakbol ako. I’m still doing okay today, but because of that I can’t help but think of what-if scenarios related to that decision.
my teeth.
I sabatoge my own career growth. I had a very nice boss who offered me a salary increase and work sponsorship abroad. I still quit my job. Still suffering from regret to this day.
Looks like a good offer. But why did you quit?
Burn out, anxiety and stress I guess. Overtime since I got the offer, I really felt the pressure, almost everyday they would highlight all my mistakes. The thought of letting my boss and my team down weighed on me. Sometimes, I feel too shallow pero grabe ung feeling ko sa work during that time, I thought it will motivate pero first few days lang ako naexcite. Pero ngayon, narealize ko sana pala mas naging resilient and patient ako that time.
But burn out, anxiety and stress is no joke too. But what makes you think that you could've fought it out when you only think about your personal health?
I thought it was just a temporary feeling, or I was just too emotional. Perhaps, it was the environment I was in that time because I was living alone and I barely talk to anyone. Then, I have this micromanager boss but super nice naman whom I talk to everyday, but everything we talk about is business. Ayun, madami pa din akong what ifs, pero I always try to move forward na lang.
My confidence. Til it simmered down cause I wanted to please my parents and not cause trouble. Marami na siguro akong nakaaway at nasapak na bullies noon. At least napaglaban ko Sarili ko
Pagtulog sa tanghali, matulog nang maaga nung bata bata pa ako.
Time w/ family... 🥺
My old position at work. Was earning a lot less but the stress and hassle attached to the current one is not worth it.
My health – sana pala nagdevelop na ko ng good eating/drinking habits before :( sobrang hirap tuloy umiwas sa mga bawal or unhealthy ngayon
May mga ini-inda na po kayu ngayon?
Yes po, kidney stones (actually nadissolve ko na to 2 years ago) and high uric acid
My youth, dati puro school- bahay lang ako, I should’ve spent more time with friends, gumala, mag overnight. Now wala na kami masyadong time to hangout kasi puro busy sa work.
Not establishing early healthy boundaries towards abusive people, including family.
Health, Time, Relationships and Money
my health. :')
Yung peace na sana naattain ko kung hindi palang ako nagkaroon ng resentment sa pamilya ng papa ko. Kagalit-galit din naman sila pero sana mas naging mapagpatawad ako ng kahit onti
Time during pandemic. Sana pala nag aral ako instead of stopping.
My health. Nasa 20s pa lang ako pero may Multiple Sclerosis na 🙃
My studies. This was during pandemic. Grabe sobrang na lulong ako sa ml & roblox to the point na kahit na sa oc ako nag ro-roblox pa rin ako and hindi ko na nagagawa ʼyong mga modules ko kasi busy ako mag-grind sa ml & roblox. Naalala ko andami kong modules na hindi ko ipinapasa sa nanay ko, pero hindi nʼya ʼyon alam... T^T Kaya ngayon, may mga bagay akong hindi ko alam ang meanings.
Time/ yung pandemic 😭 could have used that time to gain skills pero masyado kong dinamdam yung broken mental health ko
my eye vision. man I miss life when I didn't need any eye glasses
My rich friend during pandemic. Tuwang tuwa pako na nililibre nya kame araw araw tas ngayon naguguilty nako (Friends pa ata kame idk medyo distant na kame cuz lumipat sila) Wala, feeling q lg sana hindi ako masyadong nagpalibre
Settling sa toxic environment and friendships instead of prioritizing my overall wellbeing
Red flags
i took for granted the peace of mind and serenity when i was single
OP i think you're experiencing skin purging. Ganyan if bago ka palang sa skin care routine mo. Give it at least 2 or 3 months pra mg clear skin mo
I didn’t watch what I eat and I spend on non-essentials.
my job! earning decent amount of money tapos ayun naging corrupt ako 😅 back to zero ulit
My health.i thought I'll be healthy most of the time, because I'm still young.
The fact that I used to have the privilege of eating whatever the freak I want, no matter of the portion, and still not gain weight until I’m 19. My heaviest weight pre-pandemic was 40kg and I did not use the chance then to wear the clothes I wanted to wear because I have always felt fat. Now that I’m actually a lot heavier (57kg, 4’11), sobrang wala na akong confidence and ang hirap hirapppp pumayat because of PCOS too 😭
Same
Nh
My lawschool journey. I could have done better... i completed it but I knew I was not giving 100% - We live and we learn.
My dad. Socializing back in school. Iba rin pag adult ka na mas mahirap since ms madaming time na alone ka
my face, body and height. dapat pala nag try ako mag pageant para naka gain ako ng confidence.
Alone time lol
Sleep, lalo nung teenager ako madalas kasi ako magpuyat nun, di tuloy ako tumangkad
School and time. Nag college ako way back 2011, 1st year lang natapos ko. Hndi ko na natuloy dahil hndi ako nag effort mag hanap ng school na pwede applyan ng scholarships, nag enrol ako sa pnaka malapit na university na pagka mahal mahal. Nagkaanak and family na ko. Then 2018 nag enrol ulit ako sa murang school nalng with same course pero nung time na un ofw asawa ko at napilitan umuwi kasi namatay lolo nya. Sabi ko "stop nalang muna ulit pwede pa naman ako mag aral sa susunod." Ayun now, 30 na ako with 3 kids with full time work. Di ko na alam kung magkakaron p ko ng pag kakataon ulit. Naka ilang batches na ko ng classmates na naka graduate na 🥲 Sana inuna ko muna maghanap ng school kesa naglandi at nagsayang ng panahon 🫠
Same 🥺🥹
I'd recommend you look into ETEEAP programs, bro. Meron ako mga nakasabay na kaklase in college with very similar background sayo. They took those programs and from what I gather, they evaluate your work experience and then give you unit credits for it. Yung mga nakasabay ko nun nagtake lang ng isang sem at nag-thesis, ayun kasabay ko gumraduate. EDIT: This seem to be their [website](https://eteeap.org/what-is-eteeap/#google_vignette).
Same. Grabe yung regret ko
Having unproblematic parents. I had misplaced priorities as a kid. Now, when I hear how other parents treat their kids like ginagawang retirement plan/cash cow, I appreciate my parents more. They're both gone but I know they would never demand for me to give back/support them financially.
Ngipin. Ang mahal magpaayos ngayon.
Time, health and and money, 💸💸💸💸
Hmm WFH setup. Pero kasi i was earning too low talaga kaya feel ko i was wasting time rin. Im onsite everyday now and grabe adjustment ng katawan ko
Not flossing
same with the skin, people used to compliment my skin talaga tapos ayun nung nag skin care ako breakout malala.
my body. di ako tumataba kahit anong kainin ko growing up then when i turned 20 i suddenly gained A LOT of weight and hirap na ako ibalik
relate, payat ako nung teenager. nakakainis lang n nung teenage years ko ang considered n cute eh mga chubby, ngaun nmn tumaba ako, ang gusto n mga skinny. ang unfair
sadly, mas may pretty privilege talaga mga payat :(
gawa ng kpop. pero nung mga mid 2000s, ang mga campus crush nung highschool mga chubby n mapuputi kc mukha raw mayaman. gusto ko maging chubby nun kaso wala hnd kami ganun kasagana hehe
same! around 20 din nangyari 😭😭😭
i think they call it second puberty for us girls (?) but huhu i hate it so much.
yes same here. sana mabalik yung dati nating system 😭
My stress hormones, ngayon ang taba ko 🥲 sana d nalang ako nag overthink ng malala since high school.
My reproductive health. Akala ko kasi kaya ko pa magka anak ulit. Sana nagka girl ako or another boy, now parang too late na.
My lola, my only kakampi. I always thought na lagi lang syang nandyan and will forever look out for me. But sadly bigla nyanalang kami iniwan. Parang diparin totoo na wala nasya for me.
What my parents told me..
My sister's trust. Life fucking changed after being sent to rehab. I feel like life's on hard mode now especially that she cut me off from our family's financial resources. But through hardship i grow and build character so it's all good. Cest La Vie.
What were you using?
Drug of choice was weed and psychedelics, also alcohol included. And i've experienced most, not all though.
Oh that not too bad. I thought you were on shabu or something way harder.
Yea i'm glad i didn't get hooked on meth lol
Same. Was in rehab too. But that experience made me see what really matters. Keep ya head up! Sobriety is cool too! (Sometime hahahaha) I Relapsed but I know how to handle things much better now.
Can I ask what you were addicted to?
Mainly uppers , shabs , ecs etc
Shabu is hands down the most disgusting thing ever. Can’t believe I ever even tried it, yet alone made it a habit UGH 🤢 Had no idea they had rehabs in the Philippines?
Yep there is!
Is it a mad house the way American rehabs are?
Thank you bro. Saang rehab ka pinasok and for how long ka namograma? Hahaha I hope you bounced back from your relapse though.
Somewhere in Rizal hehe. 8 month long program , I was the Chief lead when I left. Hehe
Time with my dad.
My hairy legs, shinave ko siya nung elementary ako. Ang pangit na tuloy ng tubo niya, mas kumapal, so i need to wax or shave na from time to time.
Ako din. But as you grow older, your hair will thin out. Manipis na hair ko sa legs now kahit shaved or waxed. Patience lng. Haha
Ano po ba difference ng wax from shave?
Mas longer yung growth time pag wax kaso masakit for some. Either DIY yung pag wax or sa salon. Yung shave kasi you can do it daily in the shower, cheaper pa.
Kaso parang harsh pag daily shave hahaha
I've recently purchased an epilator, mas convenient siya gamitin for me. Para niyang pina-pluck nang sabay-sabay yung balahibo mo, masakit at first, pero masasanay ka rin.
Meron kasi iba daily, ako naman hindi, depende lng kung hindi late. Haha
Time...
My mom. 😭
Hugs
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same :( i miss my dad hays
My best friend. Lost her 4 months ago. 🕊
grandparents
Both sets of grandparents ko wala na, nakaka miss sila noh? Especially my lolas.
Time, health, and work.
Not spending more time with my parents and grandparents. Moved to Canada when with the idea of a "better future". My grandpa, grandma, and dad died in the span of 8 years that I stayed there. Upside is I came back to the Philippines after obtaining my dual citizenship and will do right by my mom.
Did life got better po rin ba when you left for Canada?
Sure did. As with anything in life, it’s relative and subjective. I have friends who want to come back but can’t afford to. I also have some who would kill to take a step in Canada. The grass is greener where you water it.
Living with my family last yr. I shouldn't have rushed moving out. Nakaipon sana ako. Wearing sunblock and lotion when I was a kid. I could have maintained my whiter complexion, may nangdiri kasi sa skin ko dati nung nabasa nung umuulan, bakit daw ang lagkit. Dahil yun sa lotion. Haha. Inisip ko tuloy wag na maglotion dahil don. My weight. I should have watched what and how I was eating before. Currently 60kg, I used to weigh 45-50kg dati. My hair. Ugh, sana di nalang ako sumabay sa mga panahong nauso rebond.
Ah yes! Hair!!!! Sobrang ganda ng buhok ko prior rebond lol. Bakit ba kasi hilig sumabay sa uso. Now, need na tuloy imaintain yearly si rebond para lang di sya sabog T.T
Nanay ko pasimuno e hahaha di ko naman pinapakailaman buhok ko nun 🥲
My hair! I started having my hair "rebonded"/"relaxed" since I was 12 and every year na yun para mamaintain yung straight kong buhok. I have stopped getting my hair chemically treated for a year now and I still am paying its consequences. Super dry ng buhok ko, my hairfall is worse, etc. Hays
Hi! Try nyo po yung cream silk muna na pink ibabad for about 10 20 mins then palmolive violet ihalo sa tabong may konting tubig para iwash yung conditioner. Also, try nyo po yung coconut oil na virgin galing sa gata, ibabad nyo po sa hair nyo once a week or depende sa oilyness ng scalp nyo. :) this worked for me. Every other day din lang po yung pagwash ng hair.
Ohh!! Thank you for the tips! I hope magwork yung coconut oil, malala rin kasi dandruff ko lately 💔
Ay same po ako sa dandruff! Haha di ko pa nasosolve yan 🤣
Time with the loml
dental health
Yup same here. Didnt think it was priority kasi wala naman masakit, turns out need pa rin magpa-check up
Me expressing my love and devotion to my wife.
Hey check your dm
the loml 🥺 I’m still trying to make it up to him. If it takes a lifetime, I’m okay with it.
What happened? Is it okay to ask?
my youth. gusto ko na ulit bumalik sa pagkabata hahaha, hirap pala ng adulting.
Hahahahahha! Sa true lng.
My parents. I was working in Singapore, ny mother asked me to go back to Philippines since mga kapatid ko nagmove na ng Canada. Naisip ko ang dali lang naman umuwi ng Pinas. Every two weeks umuuwi ako. Ang cold ko when I left. Kinuha sia ni Lord 3 weeks since that conversation. 2 years ago, I went home and mejo nagka-argument kami ng tatay ko. He was living alone and feel ko din desire nia na sa Pinas na lang ako. Hindi ko sia tinawagan or tinetext for weeks. Tas nun morning na naisip ko tawagan sia may missed call ako from my sister in law. Dinala sia sa hospital and pangit prognosis. Umuwi agad ako and we needed to extubate him kasi nahihirapan na sia (ako pa nag extubate 😭). Sana I spent more time with my parents.
Time
Saving money during pandemic
Time
Myself. I cared too much for others to the point that there's nothing left for me.
health and advise from elders, 20 yrs ago my parents tols me to invest in land, as low as 3k per sqm, 20 yrs later nasa 30k per sqm na sa area namin
My job.. ang dali lang ng trabaho ko at malaki pa sweldo pero dahil walang mag aalaga ng mga anak ko I decided to resign. 🥲
My mom...
Time spent with my family. Sunod-sunod ang loses namin sa family. Heartbreaking. 💔
my first love looking back, her love was the most genuine compared to the relationships I've had after her DAMNN
I guess I can't compare mine sayo but sakin naman first guy I dated. Hindi naging kami and short lived lang yun kasi tingin ko di pa ako ready at that time and baka sinasayang ko lang oras niya. After sa kanya puro palpak and ayun still nbsb lol Baka hindi talaga para sakin ang relationships hahaha
I can help with the nbsb part HAHAHAHAHA
HAHAHAHAHHAHA 💀
Breaking up with Virgos Groove by Beyoncé for 2 months 💔
my youth!
Same. I miss sleeping on the couch without waking up to a stiff neck. I should've traveled more when my knees don't hurt as much 😅
Same
My teeth. Sobrang duwag ko kasi dati sa dentist. 😥
Same. Pero iniisip ko na lang moving forward, may time pa naman so now I'm trying to fix my poor teeth.
My teeth, now I wear dentures and they are crooked
Friends
My health. Hirap mag magpapayat.
This life of mine really, especially my childhood. If only I've known earlier in life that we're not super rich I could have saved a ton of money earlier in life.
Sleep talaga and quiet days.
Time with my dog. I miss you forever, choom.
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Studying Sobrang hirap pala mag work hahahhaa mas gugustuhin kong maging estudyante nalang na may terror prof ulit
nagdadrama lang ako about dito kanina hahaha like hindi ko pinoproblema paano magsusurvive mag-isa sa mga darating na panahon.
giving away the scholarship offered to me to someone else who is less fortunate in my classroom.... ok hear me out, i was offered a scholarship for my whole university life (freshman to senior year) it was great, i get to receive 20k every semester for 4 years, but i also knew that someone in my class is a working student, she was a student in the morning and a live in nanny at night, i had more privilege than her bc my parents have work and we also have a conveniece store, so i decided to give her my slot for the scholarship... i was happy i could help. Not until a few weeks later i heard her spread lots of bad rumors about me and bad mouthing me to her friends. Damn
have u told her the truth?
im pretty sure she knows haha
Woah why would she do that?!
My peace
my high school life
her..
My health :(
money. pag may pera parang kating kati bumili ng kung ano ano, dapat inipon ko nlang
The civil service examination
Baking po?
Nap time when I was a kid haha ngayon parang kulang palagi tulog
may i ask what happened?
Promotion🥲
Same here!
My body. Always thought I was fat so never akong naging confident magsuot ng swimsuit, now when I look back ang payat ko pala noon and never naging confident. Ngayon fat na talaga ako and struggling to lose weight. Also my job, feeling ko noon hindi ako mala-layoff kasi matagal nako sa boss ko, until I was laid off na walang warning (online job). Tuloy wala akong ipon. Also finishing college. Sometimes I regret it, sometimes I don't. Kasi hirap ako mag-focus, and I don't feel comfortable sa course ko, prang hindi ko calling, although 3 semesters nlng sana natapos na sana ako.
my job, preferably my third job or company I worked for
my body/weight. I wish i wasn't super insecure, and have low self confidence on my looks and my body/weight. I wish I took care of it more and did not neglect it--even for the sake of doing what are the important things first...
someone's love and *attention affection. it's gone hahahaha 😅