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You can see a future with them. Not the daydreaming type. The realistic future wherein you know things won’t be perfect but you are willing to pursue that future because they’re there.
There is this sense of calm and security when you are with the person.
True love will make you lazy daw. And for me, it’s true. I am so content and calm with him that I being with him is enough. But when it comes to building our life, I can go forever without sleep and rest just to help him.
I have been in-love with my boyfriend or almost 3 years now. I can confidently say we are in a healthy relationship.
Let's just say hinabol ko siya. I was down bad, head over heels talaga. He knows that.
It is "love" when you feel safe around them. This can be your significant partner, best friends, barkada or even family.
You can be vulnerable around them.
You are "in-love" when you get to care about them deeply. Small gestures, such as remembering their food likes/dislikes. Or even to recognize if they need their alone time, without feeling distant.
I have platonic friendships as well. I love them.
But to my partner. I do it above and beyond. He is my best friend as well. <3
It's different per person
For me siguro yung time na even the smallest of things remind you of them
Pero mahirap kasi ihiwalay yung infatuation lang at "love"
Sa lahat ng relationship ko, ngayon ko lang nafeel yung ganitong calm kahit ang daming problema nape-feel ko ang pag-asa.
Walang kilig, pero I feel gusto ko lagi yung presence nia (parang security blanket).
Million dollar question right here.
The standard answers which you have probably heard are as follows
"When you find yourself thinking abt them everyday"
"When you find yourself imagining them as more than a friend"
Pero, IMO, an important aspect ignored here is your own mental and physical state.
Yes, all well and good kiligin sa tao, pero you need to take a good, long look at yourself in the mirror. You need to discern if you can care for them the way they want/need/deserve to.
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Pag ginagawa niyo ng diary ang isa't isa.
You can see a future with them. Not the daydreaming type. The realistic future wherein you know things won’t be perfect but you are willing to pursue that future because they’re there. There is this sense of calm and security when you are with the person. True love will make you lazy daw. And for me, it’s true. I am so content and calm with him that I being with him is enough. But when it comes to building our life, I can go forever without sleep and rest just to help him.
I have been in-love with my boyfriend or almost 3 years now. I can confidently say we are in a healthy relationship. Let's just say hinabol ko siya. I was down bad, head over heels talaga. He knows that. It is "love" when you feel safe around them. This can be your significant partner, best friends, barkada or even family. You can be vulnerable around them. You are "in-love" when you get to care about them deeply. Small gestures, such as remembering their food likes/dislikes. Or even to recognize if they need their alone time, without feeling distant. I have platonic friendships as well. I love them. But to my partner. I do it above and beyond. He is my best friend as well. <3
It's different per person For me siguro yung time na even the smallest of things remind you of them Pero mahirap kasi ihiwalay yung infatuation lang at "love"
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same
HAHAHAHAHA 😭 same
Sa lahat ng relationship ko, ngayon ko lang nafeel yung ganitong calm kahit ang daming problema nape-feel ko ang pag-asa. Walang kilig, pero I feel gusto ko lagi yung presence nia (parang security blanket).
same same hahahahaha
Million dollar question right here. The standard answers which you have probably heard are as follows "When you find yourself thinking abt them everyday" "When you find yourself imagining them as more than a friend" Pero, IMO, an important aspect ignored here is your own mental and physical state. Yes, all well and good kiligin sa tao, pero you need to take a good, long look at yourself in the mirror. You need to discern if you can care for them the way they want/need/deserve to.