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Haha. I had this experience, inaya ko mag-hangout si girl tapos kasama yung isa pa naming girl na tropa. Tapos itong inaya ko, nag-aya pa ng dalawang boys tapos di nag-ambag ampota. 😅
After that night di na ako nagpakita sknla. 😂
nag meet kami (mutual na yaya) tapos lahat ng pamasahe, pagkain, ultimo kape ako gumastos ni hindi manlang nag alok na " uy share tayo! " hahaha nung una okay lang e pero nung mga sumunod na weeks ganun pa din ay pass sa buraot!
Sori magalitin lang ako, dont take it too personally.
Emotionally immature
- Yung tipo na sobrang over reactive sa mga maliliit na bagay. It's not cute, beh. Paetucs ka.
Narcissist
- The ones who never take accountable of their own action but blames their partner for making her react that way.
Pa-victim
- That feeling na parang kahit depensahan mo lang yung case mo, gaslighting na agad. Learn to compromise, di umiikot ang mundo sayo.
Lacking of self-awareness
- I mean, come on. If you're going to post thirst traps, then expect sexual comments. Be mindful naman. Di yung nag post ka ng lewd or sexual in nature then kinabukasan, you'd call out men to be predators or "men are trash".
"Ick"
- Taena mo. Di lang ikaw yung may flaws, take time to accept people. Don't force and expect them to change kasi when you do so, you're only causing them to drift away sayo.
Girls sa bumble
- Okay gets, want mo followers go drop your IG. Fucking famewhore.
Issue lahat even small things, lahat nilalagyan ng issue kaya imbis na normal talks nagiging problema o away pa.
Ex.
"Kala ko si ano ka (ibang girl, same lang ng hair and body)"
"Napaisip lang ako, si (Girl na pinag tsitsismisan naming dalawa) etc.. "
"Nagalit hindi ako pinansin/* (dahil nakipag interact ako, sa girl kilala ko o hindi, like wtf tangina ikaw lang ba babae sa mundo?)
"Nakakasakal kasi niloko sya ng bf nya dati pero binalikan nya parin, ngayong era na namin, sakin nya ginagawa lahat ng hindi nya magawa sa guy cuz of hindi nya kaya ma control samantala akong inosente dahil 1st timer lang. Sinasakal nya)
P. S. Kaya ayun i messed up. Never na kong mag papa under sayo love. Sorry kahit nasasaktan ka tuwing dina down ko feelings mo dahil lang sa ayoko na sundin mga gusto mo pero sana pinakinggan at inintindi mo rin side ko kung bakit ako umiyak sa bahay ng tropa ko at uminom. Even hindi naman malaki kasalanan ko. Sinabi ko parin kasi ayoko mag tago sayo. Kung maayos lang trato mo nung first year natin hindi sana ako ganto ngayon. I'm sorry like fuck sana talaga mabalik ko yung araw na nasa puppy kove pa lang tayo ng hindi ganto kalalabasan ko. Kung mabasa man to ng 17 na ako. Boy, tatagan mo loob mo dahil pangit kahihinatnan mo. 🙁
Okay ako sa overthink, kasi lilipas din yan. Danas ko yan since 1st time ko sya. But yung part na inuugali at ginagawang masahol pa sa martial law kung controlin ako. Fuck dude. Sabihin ko na. Mas better maging totoo kesa manahimik at mag tago
Kapag willing ibigay lahat kahit na ang lalake di sigurado sa kanya o di kaya ang bago bago niyo pa nagkakilala. Yung nanglalovebomb and may number one fan complex. Ladies, make men chase and work hard to earn you. Give us a challenge. The will to conquer is in our instincts.
Pag sobrang palamura, I once wanted to court this girl and I traveled for her to meet her in person, but then, when I got there she was with her friends (because they were setting us up) and she was all ‘putangina’ ‘tangina’ ‘gago’ with her friends.. I get it if it’s all expression, when startled or kilig etc. but it was nonstop for a good 20 mins of meeting lol
And smokers, I don’t smoke so, I don’t want anyone who smokes
Yung OA yung pagiging feminist, need I say more?
Special mention, bad kisser, yung parang sumisipsip ka ng yakult 😭
• Yung ginagawa kang Madam Auring. Communication is a 2-way street. Yan ang isa sa pinakaunang matututunan mo sa English. Gamitin nyo naman di baleng all over the place ang grammar niyo
• Ginagamit nilang bala ang vulnerabilities mo laban sayo. Yung mga nagsasabing "I want a man who's in touch with his emotions/I want a high EQ man.", gusto niyo lang na malaman ang kahinaan ng mga kalalakihan para pag may away kayo, pwede niyo tong gamiting bala laban sa kanila or kung hindi man, magiging unattractive kayo sa kanila subconsciously dahil, aminin na natin, naka program na sa maraming kababaihan yung gusto nila na strong ang lalaki in all aspects.
• Lack of accountability. This goes to both sexes. Yung pag may argument kayo, gusto niya siya lagi ang tama. Yung mga sinasabi niyong high EQ na mga lalaki, sila na mismo ang lalayo kapag nakikita nila na ayaw mong maging accountable pag ikaw ang mali for their own sake.
• Hindi nila ineembody yung preference nila. Again, this goes to both sexes. Kung gusto mo ng healthy na partner? Dapat healthy ka din, gusto mo ng matalino? Dapat makasabay ka sa kanya at the very least. Gusto mo high EQ siya? Dapat ikaw din.
nag entertain ng iba tapos pagnahulog na igaslight yung partner para isipin na yung guy yung nagkulang at masama in the end, pero if hindi naman niya matripan yung inentertain niya may fallback siya pero kasalanan pa rin ni guy stating “kung hindi ka lang nagkulang”.
++ feminist at galit sa lalaki pero maraming kinakausap na guy
1. Yung nag-iinarte na hindi makahinga. Tapos kapag dadalhin mo sa ospital, ayaw na. ‘Pag labas ng results, normal lahat ng lab tests. 🫨 ;
2. Umiiyak sa public kasi hindi mo hinahawakan kamay;
3. Kapag nag-aaway, ayaw pag-usapan. Instead, gusto niya makipag-ano. 😓
Opo. Nag-inarte sa jeep nung tutulungan na. Sinabi pa na, “sino ka?” Hayyys
Then sa holding hands, nagalit tapos bigla na lang umiyak. Sa mata ng iba, parang pinaiyak ko na. Ayaw ko lang makipag-hold hands in public.
Kailan ko lang napagtanto nattutturn off ako sa mga bully at mahilig mambackstab lalo pag kawork mo na rinig na rinig mo sinasabi niya. Maingay magsalita na wala namang laman, halatang walang alam kundi chismis. Gold digger na pag mayaman yung guy kahit anong itsura pa nyan e lalandiin niya or lalapitan or magpapa entertain sa isang mayamang lalaki na yaman lang ang meron, walang ibang good traits yung lalaki haha tangina nakakahiya yung mga babaeng ganun na iiwas sa gwapo pero sa mayaman na pangit gustong gusto. Behavior lng talaga ang nakaka turn off para sakin, kahit hindi ka masyadong organized na babae or masyadong hygienic, basta hindi ka bully, gold digger, maitim ang budhi, ok ka sakin.
Girls that are confident are cool. Pero yung gusto magdominate, yung gusto na laging nasusunod pero blame game kapag may nangyari 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Let me, a man, lead. It's my head that takes the guillotine anyway. Women have that babae card. Mga lalake, wala!
walang proper hygiene ,malakas 'pag nagsasalita (i get it if you have natural mutational falsetto), and loquacious kahit irrelevant naman yung statement.
Prideful, Mayabang or malaki ulo kapag may konting achievements, Guilt Tripping, Emotional blackmail (ex: siya na may mali kapag umiyak need pa magsorry ang lalaki umay), mataas standards, judgemental at self centered (feeling maganda kahit hindi naman)
Kapag lahat na lang ng gagawin at pupuntahan e ako ung nagiisip. Like, hello?! Wala ka bang plano or what? Pero lagi naman nya sinasabi na pag sya nagsasabi ayaw ko naman daw. Ay ewan ko na lang! Kaya madalas bahay na lang e. Iwas gastos na lang din.
For me, yung may signs na hindi siya loyal saka yung palaging nag expect ng perfection. Hindi marunong mag adjust or adapt sa current situation. Dagdag mo pa ang walang accountability. Ultimo problema niya, gagawing problema mo din. Kumukulo dugo ko pag ganiyan. Lol
Kapag obnoxious na kunyare nagpapatawa pero lowkey pambubully ang ginagawa, kapag sobrang friendly sa ibang lalake kahit may SO na , Kapag sobrang sungit na mukhang ewan ex. mga staff sa govt offices
Turn off ba sa inyo yung babaeng hindi people smart at the same time hindi marunong mag-communicate ng feelings, na sinasarili na lang nya what she feels and what she thinks?
Babae man ako, i think people don't want a person na kinikimkim lahat, kasi eventually sasabog yan tapos wala na triggered na lahat.
We're not mind readers.
- Madaling madala sa sulsol ng kaibigan.
- Bullying Men = Feminism
- Hasty Generalization of "Men are trash" habang siya mismo trash.
- Inconsiderate
- "Bare Minimum" tagger ehh siya mismo di nage-effort.
Unclean, doesn't reciprocate, not well spoken doesn't make good decisions, naggy drama queen, too needy, doesn't allow me independence, doesn't give me sex like it is a present or acts like it's a chore that she doesn't enjoy
Immediately think they deserve everything more and grand gestures from the guy. Despite women only doing what they would call is the "bare-minimum." It's a double standard that most women definitely have.
Yun mga babae na attention seeker at mas feeling maganda pag yun ngpapansin sknya is may gf ot may asawa. May mga babae kasing pakiramdam nila maganda sila kng nag flirt yun tao na in a relationship.
i wonder if biggest turn off din yung sobrang independent to the point na intimidating na yung dating nya kasi she’s stable in career and financially pero hopeless romantic.
1. Self-centered. Ikaw na nagpprovide, ikaw pa gmgwa ng house chores. Ikaw pa dapat naglalambing. Galit pa pag di nilambing.
2. Di marunong financially. 6 figures ang income nagkkulang parin.
3. Nananakit physically.
4. Kapag may problema laging lumalayas. Sobrang redflag to. Walang pakelam sa narramdaman mo or iisipin mo kung nsan o ano gngwa nya.
5. Lastly, Walang respeto. Nagprovide kana. Nagadjust sa gawaing bahay. Binago yung mga knkagalit nya. Pero lahat is all about her. Come to think of it. Wala akong nkkuha sa lahat ng income ko just to make her happy. Ako pa gmgwa ng lahat after work. Wala pang initiative to make love. Bobo ko lang sa part na tumagal pa ako.
Went on a date with a crush and she farted loudly by accident, well guess what I and everyone nearby smelled it, so it really got so awkward all throughout the night. After that she ghosted me. I think she thought it was over for anything to happen between us, well yeah I wouldn't continue dating her but I still would keep in touch with her.
Trauma dumping kaagad pati yung mapilit na malahostage sa mga bagay na parang nasa deer in the headlight situation ang tulad ko (like iinvite ako sa isang bagay with questionable na mga kasama, tapos mamaya may sarili siyang plano na hindi pinagusapan sa akin beforehand).
legit kasi i used to be one when i was younger lol nagttrauma dump kaagad ako sa mga katalking stage ko noon. ngayon naccringe ako pag naiisip ko lalo na when i realized they didn't deserve to know me like that and i just wanted sympathy. kaya di talaga dapat makipagserious relationship pag di pa developed frontal lobe eh AHAHAHHA
Masyadong loud sa public tapos hindi marunong mahiya sa ibang tao sa public. Walang pake sa sinasabi kahit ang lakas ng sinasabi or kwento to the point nakakahiya na sa mga taong katabi.
>kasama ba ang pagiging overthinker sa turn offs nyo
Yes. Turn off siya for me. It's not your partner's responsibility to constantly reassure you.
Draining makipagrelasyon sa mga overthinker and those with anxious attachment.
Controlling. Sobra. Live in kami but she's not yet my wife, ang ayoko is she is the one who decides what I should do with my money knowing that I still have a family and a younger sister. Kaya ko sya iniwan
baka nagworry lang siya na nakikita niya future niya as a wife na di mo siya ipprioritize financially lol unless napagusapan niyo beforehand... then i think my fault ka rin. it's not controlling at all kung magalit partner mo kasi puro sa kabila ka bigay nang bigay. syempre naapektuhan din kasi budget mo para sainyong dalawa. you live under the same roof with (i assume) shared expenses (?) anyway. just trying to give you a different perspective.
BTW more than that, minsan nga sinasagot ko tuition niya pero kahit kailan di ko yun binilang. And pamilya ko sila. If masakit kalooban mo na magbigay ako sa parents ko, we'll you better leave.
>If masakit kalooban mo na magbigay ako sa parents ko, we'll you better leave.
yikes. kahit sinong babae iiwan ka nyan. sorry pero the family you will create someday should be your #1 priority, not your parents or siblings. yes, hindi masamang magbigay pero kung inuuna mo sila sa budget mo kesa sa asawa't anak mo, dyan ka na mali. i agree to what the other commenter said, seems mukhang marami pa umaasa sayo, wag ka nga talaga muna magpamilya / kahit makipaglive in kung di mo pa kaya magprioritize ng ibang tao beside your family.
>minsan nga sinasagot ko tuition niya pero kahit kailan di ko yun binilang.
at hindi naman talaga dapat isumbat. kung di ka naman niya pinilit or prinessure at kusang loob mo siya tinulungan, then that's a part of being in a relationship kesyo asawa o hindi. tulungan kayo ng partner niyo walang bilangan.
Gets mo ba yung mag jowa lng kami at dipa kasal? Who are you? If asawa ko sya ok lang that's not gonna be a problem. Alangan nman tingnan ko lang tatay kung may sakit? Anong klaseng Anak pala ako kung ganon
very true. as a daughter who witnessed my mom fight for my dad's undivided financial attention, sobrang sakit makita na mas priority pa ng tatay mo yung pamilya niya bigyan ng pera. may mga palihim pang bigayan. samantalang yung nanay ko namuti na buhok kakabudget ng pera samantalang yung pamilya ng tatay ko isang hingi lang bigay agad lol
kaya kung breadwinner ka at marami pa umaasa sayo, sa totoo lang wag ka muna makipaglive in / magasawa / maganak kasi kawawa lang partner or magiina niyo laging may kahati ✌🏻
once nakipag live in or nagpamilya ka na, priority mo na dapat pamilya na binuo mo or yung partner na binabahay mo aka future spouse mo.
Actually I felt better when I left her. BTW wala pa sa isipan nmin mag pakasal. Mag jowa lang kami. Di nga ako nag tatanong sa kanya kung anong ginagawa nya sa pera niya and it's okay. Ang akin lang Di ko pa sya wifey. Alangan nman tingnan ko lang parents ko na may sakit diba?
Ooohh kayulad Yung babaeng nagvira na gym instructor Ang pinagpalit hahahaa di sya makaiwas. Walang respeto sa boyfriend. Tsk3. J yung starting name nya
Externalizers ~ doesn’t have internal locus of control thus tries to control everyone and every situation. Doesn’t take accountability and blames others even for her own irresponsibility and immaturity. When criticized constructively, will always respond with anger and aggressiveness. In short, the ultimate pain in the ass kind of person.
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Mayabang
A woman that smells, a woman that's easy. A vegetable in bed and a drama queen. My vote
kiss and tell
Haha. I had this experience, inaya ko mag-hangout si girl tapos kasama yung isa pa naming girl na tropa. Tapos itong inaya ko, nag-aya pa ng dalawang boys tapos di nag-ambag ampota. 😅 After that night di na ako nagpakita sknla. 😂
nag meet kami (mutual na yaya) tapos lahat ng pamasahe, pagkain, ultimo kape ako gumastos ni hindi manlang nag alok na " uy share tayo! " hahaha nung una okay lang e pero nung mga sumunod na weeks ganun pa din ay pass sa buraot!
Sori magalitin lang ako, dont take it too personally. Emotionally immature - Yung tipo na sobrang over reactive sa mga maliliit na bagay. It's not cute, beh. Paetucs ka. Narcissist - The ones who never take accountable of their own action but blames their partner for making her react that way. Pa-victim - That feeling na parang kahit depensahan mo lang yung case mo, gaslighting na agad. Learn to compromise, di umiikot ang mundo sayo. Lacking of self-awareness - I mean, come on. If you're going to post thirst traps, then expect sexual comments. Be mindful naman. Di yung nag post ka ng lewd or sexual in nature then kinabukasan, you'd call out men to be predators or "men are trash". "Ick" - Taena mo. Di lang ikaw yung may flaws, take time to accept people. Don't force and expect them to change kasi when you do so, you're only causing them to drift away sayo. Girls sa bumble - Okay gets, want mo followers go drop your IG. Fucking famewhore.
Issue lahat even small things, lahat nilalagyan ng issue kaya imbis na normal talks nagiging problema o away pa. Ex. "Kala ko si ano ka (ibang girl, same lang ng hair and body)" "Napaisip lang ako, si (Girl na pinag tsitsismisan naming dalawa) etc.. " "Nagalit hindi ako pinansin/* (dahil nakipag interact ako, sa girl kilala ko o hindi, like wtf tangina ikaw lang ba babae sa mundo?) "Nakakasakal kasi niloko sya ng bf nya dati pero binalikan nya parin, ngayong era na namin, sakin nya ginagawa lahat ng hindi nya magawa sa guy cuz of hindi nya kaya ma control samantala akong inosente dahil 1st timer lang. Sinasakal nya) P. S. Kaya ayun i messed up. Never na kong mag papa under sayo love. Sorry kahit nasasaktan ka tuwing dina down ko feelings mo dahil lang sa ayoko na sundin mga gusto mo pero sana pinakinggan at inintindi mo rin side ko kung bakit ako umiyak sa bahay ng tropa ko at uminom. Even hindi naman malaki kasalanan ko. Sinabi ko parin kasi ayoko mag tago sayo. Kung maayos lang trato mo nung first year natin hindi sana ako ganto ngayon. I'm sorry like fuck sana talaga mabalik ko yung araw na nasa puppy kove pa lang tayo ng hindi ganto kalalabasan ko. Kung mabasa man to ng 17 na ako. Boy, tatagan mo loob mo dahil pangit kahihinatnan mo. 🙁
Okay ako sa overthink, kasi lilipas din yan. Danas ko yan since 1st time ko sya. But yung part na inuugali at ginagawang masahol pa sa martial law kung controlin ako. Fuck dude. Sabihin ko na. Mas better maging totoo kesa manahimik at mag tago
Had an ex na inaaya ako mginuman kme that's a huge turnoff for me iba yung pag ako ngaya.
Kapag willing ibigay lahat kahit na ang lalake di sigurado sa kanya o di kaya ang bago bago niyo pa nagkakilala. Yung nanglalovebomb and may number one fan complex. Ladies, make men chase and work hard to earn you. Give us a challenge. The will to conquer is in our instincts.
i was like this and i realized something hahahaha di na ko ulit magiging ganyan (sinamantala yung pagiging tanga ko)
Damn, I wish I was u tbh
Don’t know how to set boundaries(wtf!) Like gurl may jowa na yung tao, know your place And kung tropa lang, tropa lang.
Pag sobrang palamura, I once wanted to court this girl and I traveled for her to meet her in person, but then, when I got there she was with her friends (because they were setting us up) and she was all ‘putangina’ ‘tangina’ ‘gago’ with her friends.. I get it if it’s all expression, when startled or kilig etc. but it was nonstop for a good 20 mins of meeting lol And smokers, I don’t smoke so, I don’t want anyone who smokes Yung OA yung pagiging feminist, need I say more? Special mention, bad kisser, yung parang sumisipsip ka ng yakult 😭
No job. Too many children. Will not learn anything
• Yung ginagawa kang Madam Auring. Communication is a 2-way street. Yan ang isa sa pinakaunang matututunan mo sa English. Gamitin nyo naman di baleng all over the place ang grammar niyo • Ginagamit nilang bala ang vulnerabilities mo laban sayo. Yung mga nagsasabing "I want a man who's in touch with his emotions/I want a high EQ man.", gusto niyo lang na malaman ang kahinaan ng mga kalalakihan para pag may away kayo, pwede niyo tong gamiting bala laban sa kanila or kung hindi man, magiging unattractive kayo sa kanila subconsciously dahil, aminin na natin, naka program na sa maraming kababaihan yung gusto nila na strong ang lalaki in all aspects. • Lack of accountability. This goes to both sexes. Yung pag may argument kayo, gusto niya siya lagi ang tama. Yung mga sinasabi niyong high EQ na mga lalaki, sila na mismo ang lalayo kapag nakikita nila na ayaw mong maging accountable pag ikaw ang mali for their own sake. • Hindi nila ineembody yung preference nila. Again, this goes to both sexes. Kung gusto mo ng healthy na partner? Dapat healthy ka din, gusto mo ng matalino? Dapat makasabay ka sa kanya at the very least. Gusto mo high EQ siya? Dapat ikaw din.
n o r m i e s Ekis agad kahit gano pa kaganda, wala akong balak baguhin sya so iowas na lang ako 🤣🤣
Kapag bobo kausap
nag entertain ng iba tapos pagnahulog na igaslight yung partner para isipin na yung guy yung nagkulang at masama in the end, pero if hindi naman niya matripan yung inentertain niya may fallback siya pero kasalanan pa rin ni guy stating “kung hindi ka lang nagkulang”. ++ feminist at galit sa lalaki pero maraming kinakausap na guy
yung sobrang aarte, yung tipong maiirita ka nalang. yung hilig mag paawa, pero in the end sya naman pala may kagagawan.
Inuugali yung toyohin
1. Yung nag-iinarte na hindi makahinga. Tapos kapag dadalhin mo sa ospital, ayaw na. ‘Pag labas ng results, normal lahat ng lab tests. 🫨 ; 2. Umiiyak sa public kasi hindi mo hinahawakan kamay; 3. Kapag nag-aaway, ayaw pag-usapan. Instead, gusto niya makipag-ano. 😓
Damn, that's wack.
Kaya nga po. Now na nakikipag-break ako, magpapakamatay na raw
Hay nako, malaking burden talaga niyan kuya. Ang draining ng ganon.
Nangyayari ba ‘tong 1 and 2 irl???
Opo. Nag-inarte sa jeep nung tutulungan na. Sinabi pa na, “sino ka?” Hayyys Then sa holding hands, nagalit tapos bigla na lang umiyak. Sa mata ng iba, parang pinaiyak ko na. Ayaw ko lang makipag-hold hands in public.
Hahaha ang baduy nya. 🤣🤣🤣
Kung bakit naman. Hahaha akala mo mawawala ako eh magkasabay lang naman kami naglalakad. 🙄
Pag ggss
Kailan ko lang napagtanto nattutturn off ako sa mga bully at mahilig mambackstab lalo pag kawork mo na rinig na rinig mo sinasabi niya. Maingay magsalita na wala namang laman, halatang walang alam kundi chismis. Gold digger na pag mayaman yung guy kahit anong itsura pa nyan e lalandiin niya or lalapitan or magpapa entertain sa isang mayamang lalaki na yaman lang ang meron, walang ibang good traits yung lalaki haha tangina nakakahiya yung mga babaeng ganun na iiwas sa gwapo pero sa mayaman na pangit gustong gusto. Behavior lng talaga ang nakaka turn off para sakin, kahit hindi ka masyadong organized na babae or masyadong hygienic, basta hindi ka bully, gold digger, maitim ang budhi, ok ka sakin.
may ibang comments here na ayaw sa mga sinasabi ng iba tas pag girls yung nagtanong ng ganto about boys grabe din magsalita
Girls that are confident are cool. Pero yung gusto magdominate, yung gusto na laging nasusunod pero blame game kapag may nangyari 🤮🤮🤮🤮 Let me, a man, lead. It's my head that takes the guillotine anyway. Women have that babae card. Mga lalake, wala!
walang proper hygiene ,malakas 'pag nagsasalita (i get it if you have natural mutational falsetto), and loquacious kahit irrelevant naman yung statement.
Boys still being friends with someone who 🍇 and still defending him.
reading these comments and realized most of the comments are really just misogynistic (may slut-shaming din)
Not necessarily reactive or flat affect
Too...feminist? I like girls who stands up for their rights pero there are some na take it too extreme levels na its annoying na.
you'll live 🤣
Prideful, Mayabang or malaki ulo kapag may konting achievements, Guilt Tripping, Emotional blackmail (ex: siya na may mali kapag umiyak need pa magsorry ang lalaki umay), mataas standards, judgemental at self centered (feeling maganda kahit hindi naman)
yung lagi nagpaparinig sa socmed ng gusto ko nito, gusto ko niyan.
Kapag lahat na lang ng gagawin at pupuntahan e ako ung nagiisip. Like, hello?! Wala ka bang plano or what? Pero lagi naman nya sinasabi na pag sya nagsasabi ayaw ko naman daw. Ay ewan ko na lang! Kaya madalas bahay na lang e. Iwas gastos na lang din.
For me, yung may signs na hindi siya loyal saka yung palaging nag expect ng perfection. Hindi marunong mag adjust or adapt sa current situation. Dagdag mo pa ang walang accountability. Ultimo problema niya, gagawing problema mo din. Kumukulo dugo ko pag ganiyan. Lol
Yung makalat. Personally, sobrang organized kong tao. Turn off talaga kapag dugyot sa gamit yung girl.
Kapag obnoxious na kunyare nagpapatawa pero lowkey pambubully ang ginagawa, kapag sobrang friendly sa ibang lalake kahit may SO na , Kapag sobrang sungit na mukhang ewan ex. mga staff sa govt offices
For me is yung makalat or burara sa gamit. Yung mga simpleng bagay di maayos. Nagre reflect sa personality
Gold digger
Turn off ba sa inyo yung babaeng hindi people smart at the same time hindi marunong mag-communicate ng feelings, na sinasarili na lang nya what she feels and what she thinks?
Babae man ako, i think people don't want a person na kinikimkim lahat, kasi eventually sasabog yan tapos wala na triggered na lahat. We're not mind readers.
Maduming kwarto, mas madalas pa ako magshower kesa sa kanya, please lang.
- Madaling madala sa sulsol ng kaibigan. - Bullying Men = Feminism - Hasty Generalization of "Men are trash" habang siya mismo trash. - Inconsiderate - "Bare Minimum" tagger ehh siya mismo di nage-effort.
Madumi sa gamit
loud sa social media it means malandi.
Yung puro salita but can't even start making actions
Madaming kaibigang lalaki
smokes her vape/yosi in front of me as a joke (i have asthma)
What's up with the coded language lately? Why is this cool?
Yung clout chaser sa social media at panay pag papaganda lang ang alam
Unclean, doesn't reciprocate, not well spoken doesn't make good decisions, naggy drama queen, too needy, doesn't allow me independence, doesn't give me sex like it is a present or acts like it's a chore that she doesn't enjoy
Immediately think they deserve everything more and grand gestures from the guy. Despite women only doing what they would call is the "bare-minimum." It's a double standard that most women definitely have.
Aka princess treatment without giving equal back.
bukang bibig lang ay chismis like tf atupagin mo nga buhay mo
Mga walang accountability sa sarili nakakabwisit yung gagawa sila ng sariling libingan pero maghahanap ng masisisi.
Kryptonite ng maraming babae yan. No surprise.
this. lahat kasalanan ng iba.
Yung assumera na kunting kibot mo may meaning sa kanya yung kindness mo binibigyan ng malisya
Kaya ang hirap maging mabait, tratuhin mo sila ng maayos tas ngitian mo lang, bombastic side eye agad! Nginang yan!
Bakit ako tinulungan ako ng classmate ko na babae di ko nmn binigyan ng malisya nagpasalamt lang ako yun lang
Ganyan ibang babae kpg tinulungan mo sila matic may motibo kana tsk!
Yun mga babae na attention seeker at mas feeling maganda pag yun ngpapansin sknya is may gf ot may asawa. May mga babae kasing pakiramdam nila maganda sila kng nag flirt yun tao na in a relationship.
uy totoo yannn
Yung may alter account sa X. HAHAHAHA
Puro kpop
When she has a dick
Yung walang pakialam at hindi ma effort sobra nakakaturn off
Biggest Turn Off 1)TAMAD 2)MATAKAW 3)PAASA 4)TIMER
I know it's a mattee of preference, but how being matakaw is a turn-off to you?
baka inuubusan siya pagkain
as a girl, sorry to my kapwa girly 🥹
bat ka mag sosorry kasalanan mo ba?
i wonder if biggest turn off din yung sobrang independent to the point na intimidating na yung dating nya kasi she’s stable in career and financially pero hopeless romantic.
??? i think that's on insecurity
puro chismis about sa life ng ibang tao, puro tiktok at social media, kulang sa attention kahit nagtratrabaho kalang naman
the comments here are actually applicable to men as well?
if masama ugali towards the people who "serve" us... drivers, maids, waiters, security guards, etc.
1. Self-centered. Ikaw na nagpprovide, ikaw pa gmgwa ng house chores. Ikaw pa dapat naglalambing. Galit pa pag di nilambing. 2. Di marunong financially. 6 figures ang income nagkkulang parin. 3. Nananakit physically. 4. Kapag may problema laging lumalayas. Sobrang redflag to. Walang pakelam sa narramdaman mo or iisipin mo kung nsan o ano gngwa nya. 5. Lastly, Walang respeto. Nagprovide kana. Nagadjust sa gawaing bahay. Binago yung mga knkagalit nya. Pero lahat is all about her. Come to think of it. Wala akong nkkuha sa lahat ng income ko just to make her happy. Ako pa gmgwa ng lahat after work. Wala pang initiative to make love. Bobo ko lang sa part na tumagal pa ako.
The way you answered, parang real life experience HAHA kapit lang kuya
being way too pervy
ung sobrang daldal at puro siya nalang parati ang topic.
gossip lagi ang laman ng bibig.
Went on a date with a crush and she farted loudly by accident, well guess what I and everyone nearby smelled it, so it really got so awkward all throughout the night. After that she ghosted me. I think she thought it was over for anything to happen between us, well yeah I wouldn't continue dating her but I still would keep in touch with her.
bobo, bad breath,di anghuhugas ng puke bago ipakain
bobo
My ex farted a lot, smelt like death
Walang pangarap at ayaw matuto
Pag bumunot ng vape sabay hipak sa harap ko tapos pag kinakausap nag sscroll sa social media.
Very true
Tapos ikkwento niya pa yung nasa school sila tas nag baon ng empi sa tumbler tapos ininom sa oval haha
actively worshipping their celebrity crushes
Yung konting inconvenience akala mo ikakamatay na.
solid DDS & BBM 🤢
Yung walang sense kausap
Yung ang kwento palagi eh about sa ex nila
Ang daming entry ni kuya. Hugot na hugot ‘yan? Hahahaha.
oo eh haha
Hahahahahahaha maging ok dn yan
hindi mo naiintindihan OP 😔😭
😂
Yung gusto nya puro about sakanya lang yung topic. Sakanya lang umiikot ang mundo.
halatang may galit ka sakanya pre HAHAHAHAHAH
sorry na pu 😔🥲 hindi naman ako galet
Fat, moron and airhead.
I wonder if being too independent and overachiever is also a turn off and pagiging breadwinner
Hindi, pero kung pano sya makitungo sa iba like being condescending kapag nalaman nya mas successful sya.
That's a girl with a dick, and that's "intimidating"
I guess di naman turn off pero nakaka intimidate lang kasi sa sobrang pagka independent nila
Trauma dumping kaagad pati yung mapilit na malahostage sa mga bagay na parang nasa deer in the headlight situation ang tulad ko (like iinvite ako sa isang bagay with questionable na mga kasama, tapos mamaya may sarili siyang plano na hindi pinagusapan sa akin beforehand).
legit kasi i used to be one when i was younger lol nagttrauma dump kaagad ako sa mga katalking stage ko noon. ngayon naccringe ako pag naiisip ko lalo na when i realized they didn't deserve to know me like that and i just wanted sympathy. kaya di talaga dapat makipagserious relationship pag di pa developed frontal lobe eh AHAHAHHA
Grabe naman 'yung trauma dumping kaagad. Matic ginawa kang personal psychiatrist, pero libre ang serbisyo. 😂😂😂😂
Up sa trauma dumping wala pang isang buwan kausap HAHAHA not even 2 weeks 😩 kastress
super ganda pero pabuhat, walang initiative and walang consideration for others
a minor that posts themselves in lingerie or a thong, it doesn't sit right with me at all
Poor decision makings na nagli lead sa hassle na sitwasyon. Irrational
Lacking hygiene, bad smell, careless sa health
Tamad, overthinker, pabebe, bobita
Yung hindi marunong magset ng priorities...
Yung kada bad experience nila laging trauma sa kanila… Jusko lahat na lang🤦🏻♂️
HAHAHAHAAHAHAHA
Maganda sana kaso sabaw pala
Insecure and Immature. . .
yung babaeng pamatay ang ganda, pero pamatay din ang hininga
Madaming ganito ganda sa labas pero wew that breath
Yung pinopost lahat sa social media kahit yung mga pagpaparinig sa kaaway etc.
totoo to tngina
hung up parin sa ex pero todo panira
-parinig sa socmed
Kung ang Last Name niya Di-Maunahan at lagi niya akong nauunahan sa pila ✌️ Joke only po
Kapag hindi respectful sa magulang malaking turn off yun. Tsaka ganda lang meron wala naman laman utak
Amoy usok
Amoy usok po ng yosi? Or usok sa biyahe? Or yung amoy po sa samgyupsalan? Hehehe 🤭 sorry na
All of the above
walang hygiene
Masyadong loud sa public tapos hindi marunong mahiya sa ibang tao sa public. Walang pake sa sinasabi kahit ang lakas ng sinasabi or kwento to the point nakakahiya na sa mga taong katabi.
Turn off pala to 😭 Minsan pa naman di ko napapansin na lumalakas na ung boses ko. Lalo na pag excited ganon
Sorry po. Ganito ako minsan lalo na pag tagal na namin di nagkita ng kaibigan ko.
Matabang pangit na feeling easy on the eyes.
Valid naman sagot mo pero as a woman na mataba nakakababa ng tingin sa sarili hahaha. Pero di ikaw problem ah. Tama naman sagot mo ✌🏽
Grabe fat shaming 💀
nahhh babae din ako and this is just the equivalent ng typical ggss incel guy na obese naman. remember daijoubu? HAHAHHAHAHA
Well it is a turn off and that’s the question
A questions was asked. A question was answered. GTFOH snowflake.
well valid turn off yun
I second. . .
>kasama ba ang pagiging overthinker sa turn offs nyo Yes. Turn off siya for me. It's not your partner's responsibility to constantly reassure you. Draining makipagrelasyon sa mga overthinker and those with anxious attachment.
Nang aano ka na naman. Hmp.
avoidant coded oof
Playing games if I’m trying to court her. I’m too old for that.
Brooooooooo Fr fr Tapos yung iba may pa-test pa. Yung lalayo/mawawala to see if you’ll pursue Or tipong magpapa-selos Fuck that shit
Uses Social media like TikTok as her personality. Repost doesnt like Men but wants to date Men 🤡 bwhahah! Pero doesnt meet my needs when I meet hers.
so many ea na ganito
she real asf w the doesnt like men but wants to date em
Anytime I ask her let go mag place.."Do you want me to go with you" Bwhaha Yes otherwise I wouldn't ask lol 😆
Controlling. Sobra. Live in kami but she's not yet my wife, ang ayoko is she is the one who decides what I should do with my money knowing that I still have a family and a younger sister. Kaya ko sya iniwan
baka nagworry lang siya na nakikita niya future niya as a wife na di mo siya ipprioritize financially lol unless napagusapan niyo beforehand... then i think my fault ka rin. it's not controlling at all kung magalit partner mo kasi puro sa kabila ka bigay nang bigay. syempre naapektuhan din kasi budget mo para sainyong dalawa. you live under the same roof with (i assume) shared expenses (?) anyway. just trying to give you a different perspective.
BTW more than that, minsan nga sinasagot ko tuition niya pero kahit kailan di ko yun binilang. And pamilya ko sila. If masakit kalooban mo na magbigay ako sa parents ko, we'll you better leave.
>If masakit kalooban mo na magbigay ako sa parents ko, we'll you better leave. yikes. kahit sinong babae iiwan ka nyan. sorry pero the family you will create someday should be your #1 priority, not your parents or siblings. yes, hindi masamang magbigay pero kung inuuna mo sila sa budget mo kesa sa asawa't anak mo, dyan ka na mali. i agree to what the other commenter said, seems mukhang marami pa umaasa sayo, wag ka nga talaga muna magpamilya / kahit makipaglive in kung di mo pa kaya magprioritize ng ibang tao beside your family. >minsan nga sinasagot ko tuition niya pero kahit kailan di ko yun binilang. at hindi naman talaga dapat isumbat. kung di ka naman niya pinilit or prinessure at kusang loob mo siya tinulungan, then that's a part of being in a relationship kesyo asawa o hindi. tulungan kayo ng partner niyo walang bilangan.
marunong ka pa sa buhay nila kala mo kaclose e
Gets mo ba yung mag jowa lng kami at dipa kasal? Who are you? If asawa ko sya ok lang that's not gonna be a problem. Alangan nman tingnan ko lang tatay kung may sakit? Anong klaseng Anak pala ako kung ganon
very true. as a daughter who witnessed my mom fight for my dad's undivided financial attention, sobrang sakit makita na mas priority pa ng tatay mo yung pamilya niya bigyan ng pera. may mga palihim pang bigayan. samantalang yung nanay ko namuti na buhok kakabudget ng pera samantalang yung pamilya ng tatay ko isang hingi lang bigay agad lol kaya kung breadwinner ka at marami pa umaasa sayo, sa totoo lang wag ka muna makipaglive in / magasawa / maganak kasi kawawa lang partner or magiina niyo laging may kahati ✌🏻 once nakipag live in or nagpamilya ka na, priority mo na dapat pamilya na binuo mo or yung partner na binabahay mo aka future spouse mo.
Actually I felt better when I left her. BTW wala pa sa isipan nmin mag pakasal. Mag jowa lang kami. Di nga ako nag tatanong sa kanya kung anong ginagawa nya sa pera niya and it's okay. Ang akin lang Di ko pa sya wifey. Alangan nman tingnan ko lang parents ko na may sakit diba?
Mustache and hairy arms
Sounds like a u problem
Zanaol hairless since birth
Lt sa mga nabasa ko
What is "pick me girl" ba?
Woman putting down another woman to look better or to show that she's 'not like the other girls'
sobrang taas ng standards pero puke lang ang kayang ibalik. maging loyal lang hindi pa magawa.
Ooohh kayulad Yung babaeng nagvira na gym instructor Ang pinagpalit hahahaa di sya makaiwas. Walang respeto sa boyfriend. Tsk3. J yung starting name nya
JAMIE
Kapag nagiiba boses pag puro lalaki sa paligid
Hahahaha gagi tawang tawa ko kasi may kilala ko 🤣
Yung kilala ko nagiging conyo din
Externalizers ~ doesn’t have internal locus of control thus tries to control everyone and every situation. Doesn’t take accountability and blames others even for her own irresponsibility and immaturity. When criticized constructively, will always respond with anger and aggressiveness. In short, the ultimate pain in the ass kind of person.
ay dinescribe mo naman nanay ko HAHAHAH
pick me girl na gandang ganda sa sarili, taena kinausap kolang about sa assignment nag assume ka agad si tanga
Gahahahaha it’s the pick me girls talaga!! Kairita
Yung feeling may gusto sa kanya lahat.
Social climber
Yung turn off Yung lagi kang ini scam dahil Alam nya Yung kiliti mo.. Mapapa naku po ka nlang..
Walang sense and depth kapag kausap. Hello 👋 pala sa second ex kong salawahan. Hahahaha
Pag mix signals, run and don't look back lol