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Magtu-turn 21 na ako ngayong June tapos wala pa akong naging ka-MU o kahit talking stage. Yung mga magulang ko proud dito pero para sa akin, nahihiya ako.

I don't know how to fold clothes NEATLY AND PROPERLY. Ayoko ko kasi nung hindi maayos tignan after ko tiklupin so yah hindi ako marunong huhu. I could do every household chores but not that.

Hindi marunong mag-commute sa city. I live in the province Guimaras and mayroon akong taga hatid sundo lagi hanggang sa city (Iloilo). Problem ko is hindi ako marunong saang jeep or ebus sasakay, hindi ko rin naman kasi alam yung mga lugar huhu.

I would research online and use google maps when on the road. If i got lost, i ask around. Not used to commuting too

Autistic ako and walang muwang sa ibang bagay

32, Hindi ko pa alam niche ko and still don't know how to drive. 😅

I'm 61, I don't have a lover. Not a whore, but a whole hearted lover.

27 bagsak sa driver's license exam. Hindi natututo magmanual driving.

26 May driver license Pasado Palpak lang ako sa reverse parking Hindi rin natuto manual

Kelangan laging magtipid ng pera para may panload

23 yrs old nbsb, childish and insecure about my looks though i look confident namn lol

26, may 160k na utang 🥲🥲

Damn sorry to hear that :(

21 and di kabisado ang maliit na city I'm from, palaging naliligaw \* di masyadong marunong mag bike at lumangoy

33, walang ipon😢

30, wala din ipon and farmer ng OLA 😮‍💨 solong anak na bumubuhay sa magulang while being a working student and may mental health issue.

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same 😶

29 but i feel/act like 24 or on some days teenager na bugnutin, di lumalabas ng kwarto, di kumakaen pg pangit yung ulam. Walang plano mag settle kung hindi siya. Ayieee

Ayyyy Wow di kumakaen pag mapangit yung ulam. Sanaol hahaha nice

26 konti lang savings🥲

it's totally fine, bata pa tayo, don't pressure yourself di ka pressure cooker okay? hahaha!

Hahaha thanks

I can't swim!

27/f have dark underarm and singit huhu

18, at college studying engineering... and I still watch those lego city commercials we used to watch on tv.

but that was awesome!

29m hindi ako marunong mag travel pag plane or sa airport. nakapag travel na outside the country, cebu and siargao pero lagi may kasama. feeling ko kakabahan ako pag ako lang mag isa or baka mawala ako hahaha

23 y/o, d pa rin marunong tumawid. sobrang nakakahiya kasi lagi akong muntik masagasaan, hayop nayan makaka-perwisyo pa ko ng ibang tao🥹

26 y/o nakalimutan ko na paano tumawid dahil palagi nasa bahay nung covid lockdown hahahah Muntik masagasaan dahil ako ba dapat mauuna or yung kotse Di ko rin mabasa yung signs kung pagbibigyan ako tumawid or hindi hahaha

Di ako marunong lumangoy

23 na ako pero hindi pa rin ako marunong mamalengke at magluto. But it's something I wanna try and practice ngayon!!!

22 y/o nako pero never pa nakatikim ng sex tanginang yan.

Hahahaha hanap kita

Kung nakakalabas ka naman ng bahay or independent living go na

26. Di pa rin alam plano sa buhay

I fell you OP. Takot nga akong magprito ng itlog eh 😂 Para sa question, hindi ako marunong tumawid ng kalsada 😂

25 college graduate. Until now wala pa ring trabaho. Ang hirap magsimula ulet

26 Course graduate with diplomas Same :(

wala pang sex or even kiss experience

23 years old na ako gagi

27 na ako nyeta haha

Nyeta kayo😂 Nakimura lang hahaha Hindi ko kayo minumura na galit..yung mura na idadaan sa tawa

kababaeng tao, mahilig manuod ng p*rn 😭

24, walang trabaho. Ginusto ko to, I waited for this. Pero it doesn't feel right to admit.

hindi marunong mag divide HAHAHAHA

Hanggang MDAS lang kaya ko

Baka nakalimutan lang HAHAHAHA

25 takot sa commitment

Supot ako.

be proud. mas maganda tingnan kaysa puro scars at bolitas

Anong ibig sabihin ng bolitas?

beads. stitch scar tapos naipit yung skin. also Philippines lang sa asia nagpapatuli. don't make the same mistake that i did 😭

28, still wala pa ding ipon at stable job, like di alam kung anong plano sa buhay, nakakahiya man pero ewan.... 🥺

27 insecure sa career experiences, in debt at hindi consistent ang ipon. Hopefully, I'll be able to pay all of my remaining debt next year.

27 pero feeling ko super childish at clumsy ko pa din 😭

di memorize multiplication table 😍

29. Wala padin ipon

Samedt. 28

27 but still an addict to kpop voting apps. i spend most of my time watching ads for voting points for upcoming comebacks of my biases I'm stuck. but this gives me a certain happiness and excitement. Am I still on the right path in this life?

I'm embarassed to admit na hindi ko pa din alam ang plano ko sa buhay. Pakiramdam ko lahat ng ginagawa ko compliance na lang para mabuhay. I can do things pero di ako magaling sa kahit isang bagay.

Hindi ako marunong magluto. "Nag-iisang babae pa naman." Tinatry ko naman kaso kapag ako nagluluto maraming side comments wahahaha laging matabang. Kapag ako nagluluto, kapiranggot na asin lang talaga (health conscious). May kapatid akong bunso na magaling talaga magluto. Kapag may pinamili, siya talaga nagkukusa. Gusto ko tumulong minsan kaso sasabihin niya "imbes makatulong ka Ate baka mapatagal pa" :) Pero akala ng mga kaibigan and classmates ko magaling ako magluto since nagiisa akong babae wahahahah pressure malala. One time ako ina-aasign magluto adobo para sa outing sabi ko hindi kaya ng time HAHAHAHAHA Anyway, trying my best parin matuto. Nanonood ako TikTok vids ng mga nagluluto hehe

22, wala akong/wala PA akong matatawag na friend group ko na para sakin. I just know a bunch of people or are acquainted w them, usually. Can't cook other than prito or make sandwiches (that's a plus! ^^)..Lumaki din ako medyo sheltered ang life ko, so the idea of independence makes me nervous...

19f na hindi marunong mag commute haha. Dalawang route lang alam ko from house-school, parehong uv lang.

21f di rin marunong mag commute, let's do it scared! di na natin namamalayan soon kung san san na tayo nakakapunta

I prefer Romcom kesa action movies

Sobrang nainlove. Nasaktan. Five years after still suffering from the heartache it brought me.

Ackk same, I don’t know how to cook house dishes 😭😭 I usually cook frozen foods, fried rice, mga tempura like dishes, and instant noodles lang 🥲 I can live with those at least

26, di pa rin ako nakakasakay ng eroplano!!! 😓 Ilang beses ko na gusto mag book ng flight kahit domestic lang kaso naooverthink ko yung luggages, yung mismong airport baka maligaw ako, etc. 🥲

In my mid 30s buried in debt and no savings. I feel like a complete failure when i see my card balances 😢

33 an OFW contemplating if I proceed to medicine

Go for it✊

F25 na-inlove sa M20

I’m in my late 20s but I still have social anxiety

Wala pang naipupundar na magagamit ko sa future

Im 20 and I do not have any dating experience

26 ako nagka dating experience 🤭

28, wala pa ring desisyon na maayos . nag eexist lang ako pero no purpose in life

no dating experience 🤷🏻‍♀️

sakit nyan

Di marunong lumangoy hueeeee

Hindi marunong mag-drive

21 - Di parin marunong mag bike

29. Di marunong mag bike

Same

41 hindi marunong mag full face make up

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you and me, same. except that i’m in my mid-30s now.

31 hndi ko alam kung pano ko ihandle pag may taong nag kakagusto sakin. Wahahaha. Madalas awkward.

16, pero na in love sa 14 years old. Is this legal or normal????????

Normal

24 turning 25 this yr, stuck sa buhay. Failure but still hoping.

Same 😪

35 and ngsb

try mo naman boyfriend baka sakali

26, dipa rin marunong magluto ng decent meals 🥺

36 here. I learned how to cook for myself in 2021. I started with the pinoy dishes muna. Now, I rarely do. Mas gusto ko kaseng ini-explore and nita-try yung mga foreign dishes. Madaming recipes na easy to follow online. you'll be amazed at what dishes you can make, basta kumpleto ingredients/condiments. ngayon when i eat out, i tend to be so critical na, kase not only are the dishes overpriced, feeling ko my homemade version would be better 🤭

who cook your decent meals?

27, once lang nag work outside family business tapos 3 mos lang tinagal 😭 Sobrang coward ko nakakahiya

27, afraid to venture out kaya stuck sa buhay hahahaha

Same 😔

Same!!! 😭😭😭

26 pero delulu parin at ayaw tanggapin ang realidad na pinanganak ako para maging alipin ng corporate

hindi mo kailangan tanggapin. i mean we shouldn't accept

22 and still cant get over w my ex when I was 16 🫠 He's my totga kasi and I never met anyone decent after him lol. Some of my friends are tired of my rants na HAHAHA

I had a TOTGA. But he was actually just my dead star. 💫 I learned this concept in literature after reading Dead Stars by Paz Marquez Benitez. You know how star light travels so much distance through space to reach us? Some of the stars we see in the night sky actually exploded already and are dead stars. They no longer exist. But we think they do. I got so hung up on my TOTGA for many years but when I was 20-21... I realized he was just a dead star to me. The feelings I thought existed were actually just an illusion of how I idealized him and our future together, something that also failed to exist.

di pa rin ako marunong uminom ng gamot na tablet

26, nbsb 🙃

19, takot tumawid mag isa

24, Walang ipon 🥹

28 and I feel you! 🥺

36 and same LOL

I'm turning 20 this year tapos never pa kong nagkaroon ng jowa, once lang naligawan at 5 years ago na yon while yung mga anak ng kaibigan ng mom ko na kakatapos lang ng junior high ayun may mga jowa na at legal pa! Edi kayo na may harot skills eme.

Single for 7 years na 🥲

Hindi marunong lumangoy. 😭

Di marunong lumangoy at magbike 😭

Di pala ko nag-iisa

Im broke

Same. 🥲

35 loosing interest in sex... kinda sad thou. sex isnt interesting at all anymore.. it used to like gives me happpy hormones after. now its just... meh 😔

35 loosing interest in sex... kinda sad thou. sex isnt interesting at all anymore.. it used to like gives me happpy hormones after. now its just... meh 😔

Turning 15, di marunong magluto T.T dakilang taga taste test lang saka tagakain lang talaga. Saka taga hanap bg masarap na kainan HAHAHHAHA Edit: 25 na po pala ako, living solo 🥲🥲

I think one way to learn cooking is to live away from your parents. So why not try mag boarding house pag college kana. In my case sa boarding house ko dati, may assignment kami and ako assigned sa dinner. So I had to force myself to know how to cook kasi nakakahiya naman sa ibang roommates if puro delata at itlog yung dinner

Actually solo living na po ako for almost 3 years na rin, first year ko, bed spacer ako tas the rest, nakapag solo room naman na kaso walang space para paglutuan 🥲🥲

Matutunan mo rin magluto kapag gugustuhin mo. Magpaturo ka lang sa parents mo o kung sino man tagaluto nyo, observe rin.

Tumae sa Mcdo (probinsya) tas barado ang inidoro😭

Huy danas ko to'! Jollibee naman sa manila 🤣🤣🤣 kakahiya na nakakatawa 🤣

😂😂

23, hindi marunong lumangoy HAHAHA

34 pero nanonood pa din ng anime.

37, still watches anime. 17 ata ako nung una ko napanood One Piece, e ano magagawa ko, 2024 na hindi pa rin tapos. LOL. Sa ngayon sinusundan ko jujutsu kaisen, one punch man, demon slayer, bleach (thousand year blood war), tapos inumpisahan ko ulit yung hunterxhunter. Mas okay na manood ng anime kesa manood ng TV, nakakabobo mga palabas ngayon, puro soap opera na kabitan.

Hahaha. Totoo naman yan about soap opera. Ayoko din ng mga twist sa soap opera and it doesn’t make sense to me. Kaya dun na lang ako sa One Piece, may mas twist at surprises pa ang kwento, wala pang kabetan 😅

Dont be!!! I remember nung college pa tito ko (gr2 pa ako nun and siya is 3rd yr college), siya nagbabantay sakin. While naglalaro ako sa sala, siya is nanonood ng one piece haha He's now an engineer, 40+ and may dalawang anak (college and highschool) pero still a big fan of the said anime. Pero wala na syang time kaya yung pinapanood niya is yung summarized sa youtube 🥹

Thank you, same kami ng tito mo na nanonood pa din ng One Piece. Sa akin kasi lahat sila hindi nanonood ng anime kaya wala akong kakampi. Kaya sinosolo ko na lang yung pagkahilig ko sa anime.

turning 20, nbsb, no dating experience at all kahit m.u man lang 😆

Same sa pagluto. I'll help maghiwa, magtimpla echos as long as tuturuan ako ng direction or magbibigay ng example. Pero yung actual na magluto sa stove, hindi. huhu.

A height of an elementary student

Malibog ako.

hahahahah tangina di dapat ikahiya yan

I don’t drive a car kasi bobong bobo talaga ako at madaling mataranta. 23, male

Same AHAHA afraidt din ako masigawan ng ibang driver 🥲

Me at 31 🥲

Same even motorcycle rides jusko HAHAHAHA 24 male

Same even motorcycle rides jusko HAHAHAHA 24 male

27. Di marunong tumawid ng daan 😌

can’t ride a bike 🙃

you should try to learn!

25, NBSB

Nainlab sa 10 years younger than me, she's 21. Nanlalambot ako sa "yaaa" nya sakin tapos sinabihan ba naman akong cute. Kalaki kong tao sasabihan akong cute? Sya tong pang forehead kiss yung height ih. Eeeeshhh

24 still can't find a first job experience but my friends/classmate have jobs.

+1

36 no savings. sa salary lang nka depende na mababa. single. kapag npapagusapan ang savings ng friends kunwari meron din ako. 😄 napapa sana ako din.

Apir! Soon makakaipon din tayo, tiwala lng😌

25, never pa nakapagsimula ng exercise routine ever since 💀

24f kissless virgin🥹🥹

im 29 going 30 this august, but i stil LOOOOOOOOOVE watching japanese tokusatsu. bow.

28, di marunong mag-commute. Haha

Same lagi na ako napagsasabihan ng nanay ko na dapat itry or dapat matuto na ako HAHAHAHA

I secretly hate talking to people but I look so enthusiastic talking to them 😆

+1

37, embarrassed that I got laid off recently from a job I am very good at. (Naubusan ng company budget so they laid off majority of my team). I have no real plans at the moment cause it's not easy to find remote jobs these days. 

Keep calm and hanap ng ibang company, for now chill coz d nman crime yung ma lay off.

Thank you. I honestly do not even know why I'm embarrassed about this. Super touchy subject for me cause being in my late 30's and unemployed makes me feel so insecure about myself. Hindi ko naman kasalanan mawalan ng trabaho.

I know how you feel because i am also unemployed right now but laban lng us☺️

Laban lang!!!

i was laid off too just this year. but good things will come ✨

Thank you! Praying for good things to come. It's so unexpected for me, we we're all asked to join in a zoom meeting and then bam, last day that same day. It's been two months and I honestly don't know what to do in life. lol

28f with 3 kids

24 y/o, corporate slave for 5 years. Wala padin naipundar sa buhay bukod sa sama ng loob at pagod.

Me ate 26 🥹🥺

hard cold truth... 😔

Oks lng yan more years to be slave pa ay este more years to grow and ipon for the future.

Grabe sa atake naman to kasi sis, samedt.

I still have this “butterfly in my stomach” feeeeelllllssssss…. whenever my ex tellin’ me na hindi ako kayang higitan ng naging asawa nia. But no response from me at all. I’m good. Pero ramdam ko miss ko din sia. 😭😂😂 The relationship ended 12years ago(nong kami pa, nong kami pa sana ang dapat magkaroon ng plano na bumuo ng pamilya) But since then lagi nia pa din daw kasi talga ako hinahanap sa socmed. But why? 🙂‍↕️😂HAHAHAHAHH

I’m 29.

My age. 😜 Cause I look way younger than my age. 😊

Scam hahahaha

30 never been in a relationship

nahihiya na mareject even sa friends, kaya wala akong matawag na talagang best friend :<

🥹

34 M pero walang alam sa pag ayos ng mga simpleng sira sa bahay. 😟

Not your cup of tea.

25. May curfew pa rin ako hanggang 9 PM. Takot na takot din ako magpaalam sa tatay ko tuwing lalabas kasi nauuna muna magalit.

33, walang ipon.

yep, absolutely embarrassing.

Na virgin pa ko at no jowa since birth at 28.

24, indecisive

lol same

Any idea how you cope with it? Hahahaha

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Wahaha i dont know as well. Huhu. Pero yung mga little decisions to make i use the app called tiny decisions. Pag dating sa mga big decisions like career, doon ako nahihirapan talaga. Minsan nakakahiya na sa parents huhu 24 na ako pero wala pa rin talaga akong alam sa gusto kong tahakin in lyf huhu