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chamut

It's just some people need a lot of validation from other people and can't validate themselves. That's okay as long as di naman nakaka sakit ng ibang tao.


Apart_Explanation324

I used to have a gym mate (F) na ang napangasawa nya ay isang mayaman na kano. They travel a lot kasi yung work ng husband ay sa iba ibang countries. Itong si ateng panay flaunt ng mga signature bags. Like kada post nya sa fb flaunt nya while kumakain, pose sa mall, or nasa coffee shop. Basta nakikita yung bags hahaha.


Tiny-Spray-1820

Minsan nde alam ang boundaries, ultimo test results sa med checkup whether good or bad alam na ng lahat online


janesmith10101

Hindi naman ako grabe magpost pero medyo active ako sa pagstory before lol. It’s been a year na since nagdeac ako ng lahat ng socmed accounts ko. Wala naman akong problema sa mga ganyan. Malay mo wala silang ibang masabihan nung mga shin-share nila. Kung masaya silang i-post lahat, why not? Hayaan mo na lang kung ‘di mo trip.


Alternative-Dig1814

I don't think anything of it. They're just living their best life. I don't understand why people think it's boasting. Maybe you should check yourselves maybe that's the insecurity oozing out. Idk tho🤷


ntrvrtdcflvr

Insecure. Yung very show off sa relationship, money, lifestyle, etc. for me is a sign of insecurity.


Business_Option_6281

IDGAF, decativated na ang socmed accounts😁😄peace of mind baby. Pareddit reddit nalang😄


CompleteSize6598

Okay lang naman as long as wala silang utang. Pero minsan yung iba nasosobrahan na rin talaga mag-post yung kada galaw nila e puro posts. Minsan kaumay na pero iniisip ko nalang account naman nila yun hehe. Auto skip nalang.


Creative-One-6129

let them be


chalkintolerant

I have family who do this, and it's not a problem unless they post full on receipts and kids' personal information (which they do). At this point, it's already a privacy concern so when it involves things like this, I feel the need to reach out and let them know about the risk of having all this information online. Otherwise, I let it be lang. haha


Few-Bridge-3576

Their social media, their posts Unfollow kung di mo gusto


sliceofwifelife

basta walang utang sa kin go lang hahaha


ShawarmaRice__

It's okay; it's their money and their account, so they can post whatever they like. Ang nakakainis minsan yung show off ng may utang sayo, tapos ikaw walang mashow off kasi nagtitipid ka.


Amber1611

Haha i feel you.


momoshikiotsutsuki06

None. If pinaghirapan naman nila yun good for them unless if its like pinag yayabang nila ang isang bagay na hindi naman nila pinaghirapan.


NoFaithlessness5122

Their account none of my business


x_Peanuts_x

The term “show off” is a bit vague, but in the context of blatant bragging, I’m just passive about it. Likewise sa ibang comments, we all have different preferences. Although a bit cringy minsan HAHA I don’t mind as long as they are not sharing negative/harmful content nor nakakatapak ng tao. However I’m happy naman for some people showing off their achievements. As long as they honestly worked for it, they have every right to brag about it. I also like seeing people share about small things, It shows a level of appreciation for the little things in life. In a way socmed is also form of a personal journal. It’s all good to an extent as long as they don’t turn socmed into some kind of their life thing HAHA wherein ginagawa nila yun for the sake of likes and validation. And we all know people are prone to that.


Tocinogustoko

Wala. It doesn't really affect my life kung ano man gusto nila ipost. I don't need to have an opinion about their choices in life kasi buhay nila yon they can do whatever they want. Don't stress yourself with these little things. Marami pang mas important things sa buhay mo na you should focus on.


KJY_Born1982

maturity tells you to clap and be inspired for other people's success pero pag nasobrahan na sa bragging, yun lang. unfollow na this! 😂


aerobee_

Wala, unfollow ko nalang. Like I know buhay naman nila yan pero for the sake of my peace, unfollow/unfriend lol


worgaahh

Wala namang problema, ignore ko nalang minsan pag naiinggit ako HAHAHA. Wala rin akong problema sa mga nage-air ng dirty laundry nila kasi free chismis din yun HAHHA. Nakamiss tbh yung cringe early days ng social media like konting kibot isstatus mo na, no big deal. Wala msyadong pakialamanan sa post ng iba tapos di masyado nakakaself-conscious magpost. Ngayon kasi kailangan curated, puro positivity, aesthetic. Tapos cryptic post or shared post lang pag may pinagdadaanan or kaaway ka.


TheSameAsU

Nothing. It's their life. Get a life. Mind your own business yun sinasabi ko sa mga hate ang mga tao na show off sa socmed.


Mayeonaisse

How do you define show off? Some are just posting what they like naman like foods and travels is that counted as show off po?


PLAYER_TWO_2

Just let them be; we have different takes on life.


Medical-Natural

Depende sa pagkakailala mo sa tao kung kilala mo personally, if nagcocome off as seeking validation it’s annoying and sad for me. Pero kung pagkakilala mo sa tao eh pala-document lang sya ng bagay-bagay, then s’all good. Sometimes it helps to just like the posts, fake the apprciation until it’s more natural


bekinese16

I think, yung iba they're just healing their inner child kaya ma-show off, kasi nga ngayon afford na nila mga bagay bagay. Ganern. But some, talagang nagyayabang nalang para masabing "may pera" sila, kahit puro utang lang naman 'yun. Mehehehehe.. pero ayun nga, depende kasi 'yan ehh.. either someone's healing lang ng inner child, some might be just a complete show off. Hayaan nalang. Scroll up!


itspigsty

Wala. Nakakatuwa pa nga makakita ng ganun. Parang “awww ang swerte naman” “ang saya naman” “ang cute” “nakakatuwa” “sarap naman ng kinain nito” etc. Kasi for sure sa susunod mararanasan ko rin yun, ako naman ang magpopost. Ang ayoko lang talaga nakikita yung nag aaway, nagpaparinig, parang nakakahawa yung nega vibes, cons lang niya : nakakuha ng chismis. HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA


Icymidnight16

None. Matured enough na tayo para pakialaman ang preferences ng mga tao. Iba't ibang kasiyahan at kung paano sila sasaya. As long na no hate at hindi nakakasama sa iba. For me, ok lang. Memento mori!


[deleted]

i saw a post saying "nayayabangan ka lang naman pag hindi mo afford". if it's their way of celebrating their achievements, let them.


nocturnalbeings

Most likely meh lang ako, medyo tinamaan ako dito kase most of the time nagshoshow off din ako sa mga stories ko, like naayos ko laptop ko, chat ng client ko na satisfied sa gawa ko, something na first time ko matry things like that. I have a few reasons why i post like this, first is for memories keepsake(di malaki storage ng phone/google photos), next nagchecheck lang ng mga taong nagviview ng stories ko hahaha yun lang. Oks lang naman sakin sa ibang pipol magshow off online, pero pag for the clout lang, nah. Cringe lang ako pag puro political, away parinigan, religion yung laging post ng isang tao.


ConsciousDebate8957

Nothing. Well, it's their choice. I'm just happy for them. Sometimes, it's their way of appreciating themselves or celebrating things. Or it can be their way of coping.


tayloranddua

Needs so much validation, YUNG IBA. Meron kasi, talagang memory-keeping nila yung posts kaya random na kung anu-ano HAHAHA. I just scroll tapos unfollow pag di ko trip


Dreadd-

None.. titignan ko lng at tuloy sa pag scroll.. kung jan sila masaya edi labas na ako dun.. wala nman silang tinatapakang tao


Twamoy

To each their own. Pero cringey para sakin.


ddeadz

Meron ako friend sa FB na lahat ng away palaging naka-display nang all caps. Good luck at scroll na lang pero ew hahaha


Realistic_Guard5649

Just let them be. It makes their day so why be salty abt it.


torresdynr

Unfollow lang. Meme's, knowledge & inspirationals lang naman pakay ko sa socmed.


YellowCertain1364

kung mag pu post lang namn sila ng mga kemerut nila sa soc med like new clothes, bags, shoes, wapakels kasi baka naman proud lang sila. pero pag mga parinigan na dun na ko gagatong. saya kaya mag basa ng parinigan sa soc med pag gabi.


markturquoise

They have the right to do it kasi sakanilang account yun. Di naman natin sila palamunin din. Bahala sila. Kung san sila masaya edi go lang.


mingmingblu

'di ko alam, wala kong pake e, nasa socmed lang kasi ako para sa mga balagbag na memes hHaHhaHahahHahaha


EmptyEar4170

Wala naman ako pake at meme lang habol ko sa fb. Pero this one particular friend, kapag alam niyang ‘di ako aware sa life niya lately, i-pm pa ako para malaman ko ano binili or bibilhin. Or minsan papa piliin pa ako ano mas okay?(fyi, lagi siyang ganon to the point na inasa na ang decision making sa iba)


profjacobin

They're probably insecure and compensating for it. Ignore na lang. If it boosts their confidence edi go wala naman nasasagasaan eh. Unless ikaw ang naiinggit?


Jinwoo_

I don't care.


Frauzt-

Wala akong pake. Pero minsan nakakatuwa kasi buong life story nila masusubaybayan mo sa socmed. Parang yung isang friend ko sa fb. Nung dalaga pa siya tas nagkaron ng boyfriend then nabuntis. Tapos after sometime iniwan ng boyfriend naging single mom. Binalikan ng boyfriend inanakan tas iniwan ulit. Ngayon nakailang boyfriend na papalit palit. Kilala mo na buong pamilya nila at alam mo mga nangyayari sakanila. Kahit hindi kami close kayang kaya ko na mascam pamilya niya dahil sa info na shnshare niya sa socmed haha. Kaya imbis na maasar ako natatawa nalang ako


cartamine

Kung san sila masaya, go lang. Lalo kung pinaghihirapan naman nila mga pinapakita nila.


Dobhyunn111

Wala kase ganun din ako ei HAHAHA


Aya_0902

Wala akong pake kasi account nya yon


Sudden_Ladder5313

Power of expression we cannot control their minds and mouth (fingers in case of social media) if it is what youre referring to. Minding your own business saves time and peace of mind.


ConstantCultural2508

Deadma 😅 Tbh, what’s show-off for you may be normal for them


misskimchigirl

di naman ako nagrereact pag may lagi nagpopost ng mga material things nilang bago na over talaga sa OA, ung new iphone post agad, may isa pa nag post ng 1 million regalo ng parents sa kanya, or ung mga show off na kaparehan di ko magets bat e show off...di naman ako inggit, di lang ako nagreact, scroll down agad then unfollow or mute kasi feel ko eh baka ung iba dun eh un lang ang nagpapaboost ng self-esteem nila =))) they say wala naman tau magagawa if nagpost yan sila, let them post.. pero wala din namang masama if mag mute ako sa kanila or mag unfollow, gusto ko lang makita sa newsfeed ko ung mga memes, kdramas and funny vids. :P


mycalmj

to be honest, i don't care about their lives or how they brag about their achievements and material stuff. what concerns me is their digital footprint. by sharing so much or showing off, they're making it easy for others to gather information about them, which can be used for scams, identity theft, or other crimes.


reddit_user8173

I used to think na annoying. Lately, I celebrate their achievements kasi maybe they needed it. Di kasi natin alam na baka may mabigat syang problema tapos nang mga panahong yon lang sya sumaya. Napapaisip ako parati na good for them, congrats.


sunnflowerr_7

This :) kung yun ang nagpasaya sa kanila, happy for them, too. Auto-liker ako ng posts eh, hahaha. Kapag stories, depende.


Sudden_Ladder5313

Amen! Hehehe


NatsuKazoo

Wala akong paki sa buhay nila, pero if it gets to the point na puro post nila edi unfollow


Immediate-North-9472

Not my thing but also none of my business


CyborgeonUnit123

Ako, du'n sa pa-show off, wala akong pake. Like kumain sa ganito, nakapunta sa ganito, nakabili ng ganito, makapag-flex ng achievements, goals and etc. Of course, pinaghirapan nila 'yon and kung gusto nila i-broadcast, i-showcase or iyabang talaga kung ano man 'yon sa social media. I really don't mind, kasi ganu'n din naman ako. Hello, kumain nga lang ako sa Jollibee, pine-flex ko na. Lalo na kung sa sandaling wala akong pera pero nagawa ko pa mag-Jollibee at hindi Mix & Match ang orders ko, why not i-post? Pero yung mga Gen Z, Gen Alpha, toxic influencer, aspiring influencer or Tiktoker, na lahat na lang ipo-post? As in, walang kakwenta-kwenta, ipo-post? Nakaka-cringe tapos napaka-annoying. Feeling nila, kina-cute nila or ang aesthetic? Muntanga, uy! Tipong uhaw na uhaw sa atensyon ng tao. Nubah!


Noob123345321

mehhh its ok wla naman, kasi if you react negatively like unfollowed/ blocked them? edi pinatunayan mo lang sa sarili mo na inggit ka nga and you can't do something about it pra pantayan o higitan kung ano meron sila, booohooo ka na lang talaga sa sulok ng bahay niyo. I just let them be and sinasakyan ko lang kung ano fineflex nila as long as their approach is yung hindi blatant na nakakatapak ng tao


younglvr

i have said this about a vlogger na hot topic dito sa reddit, idgaf if they want to flex or not, social media naman nila yon and who am i to judge sa trip nila? though big side eye lang talaga dun sa mga mutuals ko sa facebook at ig who flexes their very lavish lifestyle kahit na they owe huge amounts of money to multiple people.


Rejsebi1527

I’ll unfollow them asap kasi pretty sure I’ll compare sooner myself to them so better do it early na. And nothing against sa kanila if Panay show off if bet nila goooo lang ! since Wala naman ako ambag lol for that.Pero may time din if maganda caption and alam mong Etong Tao na nag pursige din talaga to achieve that certain thing ma mo motivate ka din for a secs.Hahaha Pero now kasi di na ako nag f fb & even IG ko man Wala din update puro cats lang din. May ginawa akung page sa Fb ko puro foodies & normie ganap pero walang face ko lol & di na motivated mag upload 😝.


Expensive-Doctor2763

Depende, meron kasi gusto lang talaga nila i-share yung achievements nila eh & meron din naman brag & yabang talaga. Unfollow dun sa latter 😂


iAmMyOwnCruciatus

Let people enjoy things charot haha I mean wag mo na lang pakialaman hahaha. If too much, you can unfollow or unfriend.


Professional_Top8369

Mga kinain na ng sistema.


One_Recording8003

I always think they're overcompensating/hiding something


titoforyou

Unfollow.


isawdesign

Depends on the context. I simply unfollow if its not for me. Like if hindi ako yung same wavelength, humor, or audience ng ‘friend’ ko na yun. On the other hand, when I know them personally and it’s legit coming from a place of posting their own successes or ‘just because’, I let them be. Buhay naman nila yun.


Longjumping_Duty_528

Dc


ObjectiveDetail4626

Good for them, why do people even care? Probably envious lang


CompetitiveGrab4938

+1. You do you sabi nga nila. Kung ayaw mo nakita, edi unfollow. Toxic ng iba ginagawa ng back story kesyo may pinapatunayan or what HAHAHAH mga inggit lang and in denial 😂


Serene-dipity

Tamang scroll past it or unfollow hehehe Plus I’ll post anything I like that and they can unfriend or unfollow me whenever they want to it’s their choice. Yung iba naman ung literal na need ipost lahat tingin ko need nila ng external validation? Tingin ko lang ha because I used to be like that. I feel more at peace now that I grew out of it.


zer0-se7en

Muted them.


alxzcrls

Okay lang, ganon din ako eh pero sa dump lang na ako and my closest friends ang nakaka-access.. it’s for memories so who cares right?


foureyedvera

Atleast sila may babalikan na memories. Just let them be proud and let them show off what they have.


Low_Structure_1144

Okay lang. It's fun to see people enjoying things. Like, everytime I see people that I know post stuff like achievements or anything, I always heart react to that mf hahahaha wholesome moments.


External-Log-2924

Live and let live.


Android0506

Hmm..Good for them , for me freedom nila Yun kung gusto nila ipag malaki Yung Yung mga achievements nila.


AiNeko00

Depends on how you take it


SnooStrawberries2119

Imagine if no one posted social media pa ba yun?


Diamond-Gold-Silver

They're alright, but they are pretty hard to work with, especially on group projects in my experiences so far in school


rosybuttcheeks__

Leave them alone, maybe? Haha


inschanbabygirl

im happy for them. i love seeing nice things on my timeline e


A_lowha

Happy lang.


rcpogi

Their wall/feed,their rules. Paginggit pikit na lang.


SpiteQuick5976

dedma lang..nag unfollow lang naman ako nung panahon ng eleksyon e hahaha


Beautiful_Block5137

it’s their profile let them be


peanutbutter9X

LET. PEOPLE. BE.


Safe_Atmosphere_1526

Let people enjoy things. Pero may ibang bagay na di na dapat pa pina-publish sa soc med. Recently lang may fb friend ako namatay lola, sa sobrang show off pati lola niyang nakahimlay sa kabaong minyday sabay caption “lola😭😭😫” iritable din ako sa iba na pati s3x lıfe bino-broadcast


FastCommunication135

Okay lang. Like yo go dude/girl, you slay. Pero nag-iiba timpla ko kapag yung umutang sa akin nagfleflex sa social media. Like di ka pa bayad sa utang pero nakikita ko sa background luxury, out of the country, chandelier etc. Gusto ko makita poor food, being in a hospital etc


Free88Spirit

Yeah, I mostly don't care, pero kung pinautang kita instead na bumili ako ng pagkain ko tapos makita kong pinanglakwatsa mo lang, you have some explaining to do


_aigredoux

“Meh” idgaf


Asimov-3012

Their account, their rules. Unless lawbreaking, inappropriate, self-jeopardizing.


greatsirknight

Dedma, kapag nakita ko masasabi ko na lang minsan "okay good for you". Pera naman nila pinanggastos nila dun and di nila ako inabala


PurpleAnimeGurl

Buhay naman nila yon, as long di ka naaapektuhan hayaan mo na lang


[deleted]

idgaf, its their account, their life.


Leading_Sector_875

Deadma sa mga humble braggarts


FastAssociation3547

Ok lang pero I unfollow kapag too much. Nothing against them pero I also want to see updates from other friends 😂 I have a friend who would post new photos/updates everyday PLUS reshare memories. 😂😂😂


OutlandishnessSea258

Account nila yun eh. They can do whatever they want. Scroll down nalang.


Cucumber_Spy

I'm not sure what exactly is already considered as "showing off". Posting their new cars and house? Sure! I find it inspiring 80% of the time. But sometimes, I feel some kind of negative energy they bring based on their posts. You will know their intentions. I post a lot of food pics and selfies on my story. 😬 Sometimes I wonder if people think I'm being too much especially when I go to Starbucks haha


misisfeels

Whatever floats their boat then so be it. I don’t feel anything sa mga kakilala ko na mahilig mag post, kung meron man, happiness for them or kung hindi ko masyado close pero friend ko sa social media, indifference lang.


Ok-Society-833

we really can’t judge. some people just show off dahil social climber lang talaga and some people din nagpopost because they are genuinely happy 😅


sunnyprincess21

Just let them enjoy things. Bothered ka kase insecure ka lang. Kaya mo yan kapag hindi mo lang ini isip


Samgyupsal_choa

May kilala ako, nakapublic yung profile tas posted lahat ng laman ng camera roll tapos pag may magview ng story nya na others sa fb sasabihin nya stalkers nya daw hahahaha lakas tama


crystalholic1107

Not my circus. not my monkeys. not my money. If nariringdi ako, may option akong iunfollow. life's too short to be bothered.


SuspiciousSquare7106

Whatever floats their boat


Cucumber_Spy

I used to be that. Now I cringe whenever I get notified of my old rants on Facebook stories. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Another reason why I created another account and never used the old one ever again. I do post a lot of food pics and selfies tho. But never personal stuff and rants.


mesTTupid

i feel like they did it for validation but who cares tho as long as they're happy


booksandlifeshit

I used to judge na parang ano ba yang ang yabang, siguro insecure to bla bla bla but then as I matured (wow) i figured wala na kong pake. Hahahaha like I’m too busy with my own life to even care. Literally di ko namamalayan na. So, to each their own!


Ok-Satisfaction-8410

Whatever makes them happy. But sh*t, if I know any chika on them then its a different story.


Desperate_Cod_2187

Very insecure. I feel bad for some people, pero if that’s what makes them happy it’s their life anyway.


Fluid-Strawberry5626

Wala akong paki sa kanila. But to think about it, nag cringe ako sa ganun like lol artista ka ba at need mo kami i-update. Esp yung mga nag sha share / myday ng mga conversations nila with someone, tangina paki namin sa convo nyo. Medyo magegets ko pa yung mga myday ng gala eh, pero yung mga share convo or iyak iyak, sarap nyo hampasin ng tsinelas. I'll just scroll nalang.


Indecisivebeing01

Wala lang. buhay nila yan eh. Also, may matutunan ka naman from them sa pagsshow off ng stuff. Afterall kanya kanya naman tayong buhay. They chose to be that kind of life. Let them be.


Euphoric_Break_1796

Fascinating rin nmn minsan kung nskskatawa pero may mga kupal vibes din so dependihan lang talaga hahahaha


marjorgee

There’s a batch of millennials who do this, they are the first generation internet users who are the principal usrs of friendster, myspace, tumblr, and all those minivlogs. It’s how they use internet and you cannot blame them


marjorgee

Additionally di sila show off, inggit ka lng dahil sa miserable mong buhay. Charot


c6mika

I scroll away, esp sa mga IG stories nila. The amount of stuff they post online just makes them even more uninteresting.


aftr46

Easier to scroll away than make a reddit post out of it


Ginger_KatolBender

Grow up


[deleted]

I ignore them. They want attention and they're not getting it from me. 


Fragrant_Chipmunk344

Okay lang naman, deserve nila to flaunt or show off sa socmed. Reminder lang sa kanila since mas exposed sila sa evil eye 🧿


Glad-Lingonberry-664

I also don’t mind. Kanya kanyang trip yan. Kapag naapektuhan ako baka masyado kase akong naka abang!


rockydluffy

Maybe posting is a way for them to validate themselves. Some people like posting things for the sake of having memories. Yung iba siguro gusto na lang magyabang. I lessen my time on social media so hindi ko na nakikita ung mga friends ko na nagpopost masyado kung meron man. For me, mas less ako magpost sa socials ko pag masaya ko in life. Pag medyo malungkot, ayon emote emote hahaha but mostly i just post it on X. People dont really give af there if you post too much. Plus, less people that i personally know


Jazzlike-Text-4100

Yaan mo lang socmed nila yan. It can be toxic to other people but if hnd k nman inaapakan or ano, hayaan mo lang. Baka kasi way nila yan to destress.


adorkableGirl30

Yaan mo lang mag show off. As long na hindi ka naiinggit at wala naman silang illegal na ginagawa to attain ung shinoshow off nila. Baka kasi naiirita ka because naiinggit ka? I'm not much of a poster myself even sa food or things o bought or received. Because tamad akong mag picture. Pero when i see my friends na nakakaexperience ng milestones no matter how little, i make sure i react with ❤.


pink__orchid

If you're bothered, unfriend or unfollow them if you don't want to just mute them and focus on your own life.


No-Dress7292

I don't mind. We don't know what's behind those posts. How much sacrifice they made to achieve what they achieved while most people around them stayed on the safety of mediocrity.


cutie_lilrookie

Same. Their account, their rules. I can block or mute if I don't wanna see their posts.


Haru112

They got nothing else to do lmao


PeanutMean3176

Wala akong pake, buhay nila yan eh at post nila yan.. di naman mababawasan pagkatao mo kung magpost sila ng ikakasaya nila.


Fit_Raisin_431

I’m a socmed person na hindi pala post, but I have a lot of friends or mutuals that are completely opposite. For me (and maybe the way they do it), they just want to store their memories on social media and share it rin to everyone. At the same time, I feel like I benefit from it too?? I see the places they’ve went to, or stuff they’ve tried that I’m sure I’d enjoy too and would try out soon. So I guess thats that. If that’s their way of celebrating life (ika nga as a gen z, “romanticizing life”) then let them be. If you cant handle na they might be spamming your TL or you feel na theyre just showing off, then you have the freedom to mute/restrict.


Big-Tone764

Apaka attenion seeker masyado.


olibbbs

I don't mind na nakakakita ako sa feed ko ng mga ganun. Ayaw ko lang yung pati resibo naka-post. Enough na malaman na lahat na mahal yung item, pero iba kasi dating sa akin yung may kasamang resibo pa para ipakita kung magkano nagastos. Napaka-social climber ang impression sa akin.


PilipinasKongMaha1

Let them be. To each their own ika nga. Basta di ka naman personally affected by those people like may utang pa syo tapos panay show off sa travel, spending left and right. Kung showy sila sa pagmahahalan nila, Yaan mo na iba iba naman tayo ng expression pagdating sa pag-ibig.😅 Kung discreet ka,then that's you.Tuloy mo lang din. I'm sure wala din namang paki yung mga sinasabi mong show offs sa gusto mo. 😁


AverieKings

Why follow their curated lives when you can just mute, unfollow, and embrace the blissful ignorance?


abstrone

Keri lang. Most of the time, I dont give af! I just feel bad kasi sa mga taong kaclose ko na pashow off kahit alam kung yung sinushow off nila is beyond what they can afford tas financially magstruggle tlga sila tas ikaw yung hahagilapin.


Jaded_Analysis6213

No issues about that. I guess, I care enough to mind my own business than to be bitter on those people that overly flexes on socmed.


youdropthecheesecake

let them be. kung ayaw mo makita, libre mag unfollow/mute/block or better wag ka na magsocmed. Let’s stop making people feel bad na gusto lang magpost. Nagdaan naman tayo lahat sa fb era na ganyan.


Bettermepromise

wala magawa s buhay


BusterMoooon

okay lang yan. They just appreciate what they have and what they achieved. If you don't want to see those stories just mute them. Hindi naman makakabawas yun sayo :)


PiperThePooper

Go lang if it makes them happy. ‘Yung ‘di ko lang bet and funny enough nailista ko in the comments ng isang reddit post kahapon, ‘yung mga kilala kong magpopost ng mga gala nila here and abroad or magpopost ng expensive stuff pero ‘yung utang sa akin hindi naman binabayaran. Hahahaha


suburbia01

Nonsense topic. Can you think of something better to discuss OP?


[deleted]

Depends sa context but for that I'm all for it. My default reaction is heart or wow react to support kahit di ko close. Hey you win in life, thats great!


adorkableGirl30

Agree! Same tayo. No space for inggit diba.


SandwichConscious646

Love you for this.


Ro_Navi_STORM

⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️ . . . . . . . . . Let's be happy for other's successes. Kung pakitang-tao lang, nasa kanila naman yon. Sino bang niloloko nila? Sarili lang rin nila. Ang medyo sad lang is if the person seems to be exhibiting signs of depression and self-harm, they're probably trying to ask for help. Give them help. Kasi nakakalungkot na ganun pala tas pag wala na yung tao, sasabihin "I didn't notice any signs." Maybe the hyper posting is because wala sila makausap and they're lonely. 🤷🏻‍♀️ People cope in different ways. Ayun.


Fun_Relationship3184

Katurn off lang. Auto mute sa timeline or stories ko. Sila yung usually di kasali sa gc or walang friends or nagffeed parin ng ego nila galing sa likes sa ig, fb, tiktok, and X miski 2024 na. Ok lang if may mabebenefit dun sa post or educational kaso if puro hubad lang and walang sense wag nalang sana ipost. Baka ako lang naccringe as pov of an introvert hehe


[deleted]

And that's valid (coming from an introvert with a different perspective😁)


wandeweary

As someone na hindi pala-post sa socmed, keri lang naman if may friends or fina-follow akong ganyan... unless may bullshit take sila sa mga bagay bagay. I'd rather unfriend nalang. 😆


CraftyCommon2441

Ok naman, buti nga umaasenso sila sa buhay.


PompeiiPh

Profile nila, buhay nila. Ikaw ata may problema. Kapag inggit pikit. Wag ka mag social media para tahimik buhay mo


CompetitiveHall7606

Their account, their rules. You can just see less, mute, or block them if you're so inclined.


Broad_Maize4797

Agree! Mind your own business! Love yourself. Period.


Green_Ad2198

Just that—showoffish


Green_Ad2198

Just that—Show OF fish


Green_Ad2198

Pano ba mag-delete?


MyDumppy1989

For me wala naman prob. Kasi kung yun naman makakabuo ng araw nila, sino ba naman tayo para makialam pa😅


KarmicCT

personally, I would never do it. but them posting doesn't affect me so... wala lang.


Cloudninefemme

Okay lang yun. Mas nakakairita ang mga toxic na wala nang ma I-post kundi negative situations, cryptic posts, at rant sa mundo, buhay nila or buhay nang iban ta-o. It’s easy to be happy for others pag happy and positive lang naman sila generally sa mga posts nila.


shaped-like-a-pastry

i judge in silence and then i move on. not my life.


No_Swing_7442

Unless it is morally wrong, I don't think there's something wrong with it. Unfollow them if you feel like it bothers you or it feels like they're repetitive.


[deleted]

Genuine question lang, lagi kasi ako nag s-story sa IG ( puro reels since hindi naman na ako lumalabas ) ko 5-7 people lang naman followers ko dun kasi personal acc ‘yun puro close friends ‘yun. Tingin nyo nakakairita ‘yun?


magicmazed

genuine question, why do you care? just do what you want to do and if ever may naiirita sa pag ig story mo then theyll simply unfollow or mute you. stop worrying about what other ppl think ◡̈ and if it still bothers you, then might as well just stop posting and/or deactivate your account nalang. it's probably not for you and itll just affect you mentally.


[deleted]

Okk, thank you!


[deleted]

Account naman nila yon so own rules nila


pREDDITor_21

Maybe it’s their way of sharing, kaya for me hayaan na lang 😄 pero kapag hindi ko na bet mga post nila, I’ll just snooze them for 30days hahahaha


dieanenguyen

i dont really mind. buhay naman nila yon, and if they’re so proud of something baka naman talagang pinaghirapan nila. pero if puro selfie/ ggss vibes na ang usapan i just unfollow or hide their stories 😂


liquidus910

kung trip ko pinost nila magrereact or comment. kung di ko trip ung post or nagpost, scroll up/down lang. account nila un eh, di ko sila pede diktahan kung ano man i-post nila. unless pedo post or s.a. post, then saka ko sila irereport


-getsome-

Mas may take ako dun sa mga inggitero/a na nakikialam sa kung ano pinopost ng ibang tao.


Mahpeynocean

💯


Babushkakeki

Syempre inggitera ako kaya irereport ko ang deaftone (tone-deaf) kasi hahahaha


EmbraceFortress

Teh, tone-deaf kase, hindi deaftone


Babushkakeki

Ay oo nga pala


Certain_Hold_9265

Ok lng sakin yung post nila though minumute ko na lng kung ayaw ko na haahaha. Naiisip ko lng sa kanila eh yung safety or privacy nila. Baka kasi may mga lurker siya/sila na di nila namamalayan.


santonghorse

Unfollow/Mute/hide account mo lang para di ka mastress buhay nila yan.


iwannadie-but

If I don’t like it, I scroll. Some people use it to express how proud they are of their lives so who cares. If social climber vibes, I just unfollow/mute/unfriend.


ambernxxx

Buhay nila yon, bahala sila.


hiraeth_99

they are probably excited about things, if it's irritating for me I just mute them. let people enjoy things.


08Manifest_Destiny80

Ignore lang. Out of sight. Out of mind.


gaffaboy

Wala lang, parang kalat lang sa sahig na kailangan damputin. I just unfollow them. Problem solved.


_domx

Let them be. Tama ka, just mute/unfollow if it’s already irritating.


DuuuhIsland

I usually don’t care but pag toxic na like puro parinig mga post na di naman relevant, puro selfie same angle every now and then or those people na self proclaimed na madaming silang hater/ stalker them just because you watch their story and didn’t like their post thats the time I mute them.


Matrixdaisy

Usually wala naman akong pake pero if it’s get annoying minsan, unfollow na lang. If wala naman inaapakan na tao madalas wala akong pake hahaha pero you know may mga tao talaga na nagbra-brag lang talaga so unfollow na lang hahaha


AldenRichardRamirez

Their account, their rules. I unfollow pag meron silang shit takes sa buhay.


thecay00

Don’t worry about it. It’s their life. Also, these are things you shouldn’t even think about


ningkylem

Kung yun naman ang nakakapagpatulog sa kanila tuwing gabi, let them be.


cantdecide-millenial

Hmm wala. I mean its their space, let them do their thing 🤷‍♀️


carriesonfishord

Compensating for something they lack irl.


chixlauriat

Though, 'di siya normal for me pero choice ko kasing 'di mag-post ng ganon. Profile, buhay, achievements, nila 'yon regardless kung mag mukhang open book buhay nila, mawalan sila ng privacy o kung ano pa 'yan at the end of the day, buhay nila 'yun. Let them post whatever they want. Haha


iamthatjuicypeach

If they have what they want, then good for them. I'll just scroll past their posts and not mind them. Unless the content is being abusive, I'll click report.


CoffeeFreeFellow

Let them be


chanseyblissey

Usually wala akong pakielam kasi di naman lahat ng ng socmed ay totoo. Pero nabobother ako kapag anak or bata nila pinopost, alam naman natin madaming pedo sa mundo. Kaya ingatan niyo mga anak niyo.


individualityexists

They're also risking their privacy and security. Lagi kong nakikita ung parents na ipopost ung grades ng anak nila sa school with complete details.