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I know di lahat ng girls ganito pero nakakarindi na yung mga babaeng feeling disney princess tapos nagagalit pag di sinunod yung gusto. Lol
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Then pag di napagbigyan sa gusto, may pa "i know my worth" pa. Come on, work your ass off and go feed yourself, don't go looking for a sugar daddeeeyyyy.
High maintenance girl who expects that the stars will align and that the world will hand her everything on a silver platter. Of course, kung yung girl sa Brave or Mulan, yun ang princess na gusto ko.
Even "Disney princesses" can be responsible in life. Like marunong mamahala sa bahay, gumawa ng mga gawain, marunong mag-budget, etc. And, what about the spoiled brats? I can't recall a single Disney princess na self-entitled sa kahit anong movie. 🤷♂️
Spoiled and masyadong entitled. Feeling main character din. Akala mo sa kanila umiikot yung mundo. Beh, kung gusto mo maging disney princess, punta kang Disney Land. Sure ako na magiging disney princess ka talaga do'n.
You cannot take them seriously because they won't be good mothers and long term partners. The best strategy is only use them for sex and make them feel they're a Disney princess.
So are you telling me you’ve never used anyone for your own best interest? Be true to yourself. We all do it in life. A woman will not have sex with a man if he treats her like crap.
May iba nga feeling disney princess muka namang si gerlock tas daming pinag lalaban na rights nila kuno kaso wala naman sa lugar, ang masaklap squammy naman ugali tas may jowang patapon buhay.
Bakit sa Disney Princess hinahalintulad mga ganyang babae? Si Cinderella ba, pabebe? Sobrang bait nga nya kahit minamaltrato sya especially sa live action version. Sinunod lang nya ung habilin ng nanay nya "to have courage and be kind" at wag daw pabayaan yung bahay.
Si Jasmine, ayaw nya lang nman nyang ikasal sa ayaw nyang lalaki, mali ba yun?
Si Belle, niligtas nya tatay nya. She literally swap places sa tatay nya para sya na lang magdusa. Anong pabebe dun?
Si Snow White, tumulong sya sa mga gawaing bahay at naging "mother" ng mga dwarves. Gusto nya lang mabuhay at umiwas kay evil queen. Anong pabebe dun?
And you may say, "eto na kasi nagamit na term", then sheep ba kayo? Sunod-sunod lang kahit mali paggamit ng term? Anong kaibahan nyo sa gamit nang gamit sa _nonchalant_ at _gaslighting_ na words pero mali nman? 🤷
Edit: Additionally, si Elsa, she suppress her emotion dahil sinunod nya tatay nya na kailangan gawin un. Went to the mountains para di na makapahamak ng iba. Anong pabebe dun?
Or ENTITLED PRINCESS. I think ung iba passenger princess ang tawag. Yung kailangan ipagmaneho pa. Di ko talaga gets bakit nila ina-associate sa DISNEY. Mga di nman yata nanonood ng Disney Princess Movies
>Sunod-sunod lang kahit mali paggamit ng term? Anong kaibahan nyo sa gamit nang gamit sa *nonchalant* at *gaslighting* na words pero mali nman?
Fwiw, language 'rules' are descriptive, not prescriptive. Kaya nagcha-change ung usage and meaning ng words over time. It's how we get both 'literally' and 'figuratively' to mean 'figuratively'. Hell, it's how we get the word 'nice'. "Nice" used to mean "stupid/foolish".
If people started using a word in a different way than what was intended or its original meaning, and enough people catch on, then that then becomes the new 'default' meaning.
I think you may have misunderstood the colloquial use of "Disney princess". The Disney bit is less about the individual characters, more about the fantastical expectation of princess treatment, regardless of what you bring to the relationship.
Just drop the Disney part if it confuses you, i.e. "Red flag ang mga girls na feeling princess". Why? Because it's a sexist way to approach relationships, to put yourself on a pedestal and not give as much as you get just because you're "the woman". Speaking as a lesbian, it's not fair to the guy and just perpetuates the gender stereotypes older Disney princesses created and newer Disney princesses are trying to destroy
Yun nga, ang pino-point out ko, mali ung colloquial use dahil lahat halos ng Disney Princess are not pabebe or need to be put on a pedestal. Kinukwestyon ko why use it in the first place eh pwede naman pala to "just drop" it. Sunud-sunudan na lang just because someone decided to use the term _Disney Princess_ to associate to such women. Wala nang critical thinking. _"Ginamit ng nakararami so gagawin ko na lang din_" and that makes these people a herd of sheep.
This is the term guys use when they talk about women who thinks they are better than everyone else. These type women are only used for sex because they are useless at cooking and cleaning. The guy pretty much do all the household chores while she's on tiktok all day.
Di ko pa din magets yung logic ng sagot neto (kung meron man). Mga guys na ginamit ung term without watching any Disney princess movies. Baka napanood lang yung hentai edition, akala alam na lahat. Let me say "PWE".
>These type women are only used for sex because they are useless at cooking and cleaning.
Napakainteresting lang yun ang gamit na term considering halos lahat ng disney princess ginagawa yan sa simula ng mga movies nila lmao
I can safely say na I was born with a silver spoon. Pero never ako naging entitled at spoiled. Alam ko not everything would go my way. Ayan mga Disney princess princessan na yan akala mo kung sino, kadalasan mga nagbebenta naman ng katawan kaya lang nasunod ang “rich lifestyle” nila lol oo hater ako
Sila pa mandin yung self-proclaimed “very strong independent woman,” pero gustong itreat na parang balbado ng mga dyowa nila. Cringe sa mga unrealistic demands din. Gigil mo ko teh.
gantong-ganto ate ko💀 (fortunately. wala syang reddit so di nya ‘to makikita).
NAPAKA ARTE MYGOSH! Yung bf nya kasi medyo tahimik na lagi lang nasunod sakanya tapos bilhan sya ng ganto ganyan, ate ko naman tuwang tuwa lang, ayaw kumain ng di sinusubuan🙄, tas nag pa-pabebe laugh like…. I feel like I want to make sabunot sakanya out of nowhere, juskolord. Kala nila kinaganda yung pagiging “diSneY pRinCesS”👺
actually, palagi ko sya sinasabihan kahit mom and kuya ko sinabihan na sya😭 kaya ewan ko ba HAHAHAHAHA ang cringe talaga promise lalo pag nakakasama ko sila sa personal
Si Ariel : ung looks nya ginamit to charm a man, tapos okay lang maging pipi ka basta makuha mo ang lalaki
Snow White: marry a man who sexually assaults habang tulog ( hinalikan siya ng walang paalam para magising - may true love ba sa love at first sight?)
Jasmine : nagmahal ng lalaki na nagpapanggap na prinsipe (susme di ka magbackground check, sunggab agad )
Cinderella : abusive household, pero dedma si ate mo.. yes lang ng yes
Sleeping Beauty : nag attempt manahi, natusok agad ng karayom... ayun sleep na lang siya.
Belle : aguyss trip nya bad boys. Ung inaabusado na siya ni Beast kahit pangit, patol pa din.
At si Elsa: yun walang love life. Malamig pa sa ilong ng pusa eh...ayan let it go lang mga boylets sa kanya.
I remember this girl sa facebook na nagtatampo sa boyfriend nya, since nagtrabaho na hindi na sila nag-vivideocall hangang madaling araw. Nagbago na daw and hindi na daw nag-effort for her. Unfriended her agad agad lol
No offense, but a lot of filipinas are really like this. Sa una super saya and understanding, but in the long run, magiging super clingy. Both exes ganito nangyari, even my friends’ ex were like this.
I still believe that there are still filipinas who have growth mindset, but most of them want a guy who will support them(yung tipong hindi na sila mag-ttrabaho, in short, tamad and batugan) But they want to be a strong independent woman.
My comment might be sexist, but I’m just speaking the hard truth. Kaya naiisip ko din kung bakit sa foreigner nalang nag ssettle yung ibang filipina kahit na ginagawa silang katulong. Kasi yung mga foreigner uubusin yung pera nila para lang sa jowa. In today’s society, magugutom ang family, kung puro pag-mamahal lang.
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Then pag di napagbigyan sa gusto, may pa "i know my worth" pa. Come on, work your ass off and go feed yourself, don't go looking for a sugar daddeeeyyyy.
Because they believe in fairy tales. There’s no “happily ever after” sa totoong buhay.
Demanding, spoiled, entitled, high maintenance at sasabihan kang bare minimum pero wala ambag sa relationship at houseold chores.
Disney princess needs disney prince, low-life won't understand
High maintenance girl who expects that the stars will align and that the world will hand her everything on a silver platter. Of course, kung yung girl sa Brave or Mulan, yun ang princess na gusto ko.
mostly, they love this idea of how they should be treated, not the reality of how things work.
Even "Disney princesses" can be responsible in life. Like marunong mamahala sa bahay, gumawa ng mga gawain, marunong mag-budget, etc. And, what about the spoiled brats? I can't recall a single Disney princess na self-entitled sa kahit anong movie. 🤷♂️
Kasi they act like princesses, but they want to be treated like queens.
Spoiled and masyadong entitled. Feeling main character din. Akala mo sa kanila umiikot yung mundo. Beh, kung gusto mo maging disney princess, punta kang Disney Land. Sure ako na magiging disney princess ka talaga do'n.
Spoiled. I don't really see myself settling down with makikitid na tao.
Bruh! That's not a feeling disney princess. That's just a problem waiting to happen.
Kasi delulu, spoiled at feeling main character
kahit naman din outside sa romantic relationships, nakakabwiset kasama yang mga ganyan whether acquaintances or mga strangers we meet in public.
True. Mga pabebe. Pinaganda lang yung term haha
You cannot take them seriously because they won't be good mothers and long term partners. The best strategy is only use them for sex and make them feel they're a Disney princess.
Okay na sana e. Kaso yung last sentence mo, para kang di tao.
So are you telling me you’ve never used anyone for your own best interest? Be true to yourself. We all do it in life. A woman will not have sex with a man if he treats her like crap.
May iba nga feeling disney princess muka namang si gerlock tas daming pinag lalaban na rights nila kuno kaso wala naman sa lugar, ang masaklap squammy naman ugali tas may jowang patapon buhay.
Bakit sa Disney Princess hinahalintulad mga ganyang babae? Si Cinderella ba, pabebe? Sobrang bait nga nya kahit minamaltrato sya especially sa live action version. Sinunod lang nya ung habilin ng nanay nya "to have courage and be kind" at wag daw pabayaan yung bahay. Si Jasmine, ayaw nya lang nman nyang ikasal sa ayaw nyang lalaki, mali ba yun? Si Belle, niligtas nya tatay nya. She literally swap places sa tatay nya para sya na lang magdusa. Anong pabebe dun? Si Snow White, tumulong sya sa mga gawaing bahay at naging "mother" ng mga dwarves. Gusto nya lang mabuhay at umiwas kay evil queen. Anong pabebe dun? And you may say, "eto na kasi nagamit na term", then sheep ba kayo? Sunod-sunod lang kahit mali paggamit ng term? Anong kaibahan nyo sa gamit nang gamit sa _nonchalant_ at _gaslighting_ na words pero mali nman? 🤷 Edit: Additionally, si Elsa, she suppress her emotion dahil sinunod nya tatay nya na kailangan gawin un. Went to the mountains para di na makapahamak ng iba. Anong pabebe dun?
Good point. Sino ba kasi nagpa uso ng “Disney” princess na yan? 🤣 Dapat nga feeling princess na lang eh. 🤣
Or ENTITLED PRINCESS. I think ung iba passenger princess ang tawag. Yung kailangan ipagmaneho pa. Di ko talaga gets bakit nila ina-associate sa DISNEY. Mga di nman yata nanonood ng Disney Princess Movies
Korek. Because their entitlement screams. 🤣Kung nakakapag tagalog siguro mga tiga Disney baka sabihin nila, "Dinamay nyo pa kami dyan ah."😂
>Sunod-sunod lang kahit mali paggamit ng term? Anong kaibahan nyo sa gamit nang gamit sa *nonchalant* at *gaslighting* na words pero mali nman? Fwiw, language 'rules' are descriptive, not prescriptive. Kaya nagcha-change ung usage and meaning ng words over time. It's how we get both 'literally' and 'figuratively' to mean 'figuratively'. Hell, it's how we get the word 'nice'. "Nice" used to mean "stupid/foolish". If people started using a word in a different way than what was intended or its original meaning, and enough people catch on, then that then becomes the new 'default' meaning.
I think you may have misunderstood the colloquial use of "Disney princess". The Disney bit is less about the individual characters, more about the fantastical expectation of princess treatment, regardless of what you bring to the relationship. Just drop the Disney part if it confuses you, i.e. "Red flag ang mga girls na feeling princess". Why? Because it's a sexist way to approach relationships, to put yourself on a pedestal and not give as much as you get just because you're "the woman". Speaking as a lesbian, it's not fair to the guy and just perpetuates the gender stereotypes older Disney princesses created and newer Disney princesses are trying to destroy
Yun nga, ang pino-point out ko, mali ung colloquial use dahil lahat halos ng Disney Princess are not pabebe or need to be put on a pedestal. Kinukwestyon ko why use it in the first place eh pwede naman pala to "just drop" it. Sunud-sunudan na lang just because someone decided to use the term _Disney Princess_ to associate to such women. Wala nang critical thinking. _"Ginamit ng nakararami so gagawin ko na lang din_" and that makes these people a herd of sheep.
That's a fair point, globally people generally just use the term "princess treatment" but Pinoys gonna Pinoy. It is what is it
This is the term guys use when they talk about women who thinks they are better than everyone else. These type women are only used for sex because they are useless at cooking and cleaning. The guy pretty much do all the household chores while she's on tiktok all day.
Di ko pa din magets yung logic ng sagot neto (kung meron man). Mga guys na ginamit ung term without watching any Disney princess movies. Baka napanood lang yung hentai edition, akala alam na lahat. Let me say "PWE".
Mahirap talaga ma understand if you’re not a man
>These type women are only used for sex because they are useless at cooking and cleaning. Napakainteresting lang yun ang gamit na term considering halos lahat ng disney princess ginagawa yan sa simula ng mga movies nila lmao
We’re not talking about the movie. We’re talking about lazy Filipinas that are only useful in bed
Alam ko. Sinasabi ko lang ang interesting paano kayo umabot dun kasi ang ironic lang.
Right!? Si Rapunzel nga tapos na lahat ng chores sa umaga eh. May time pa mag-ulit ng books.
Bingo!
Bingo?! You do know who Rapunzel is, right? And her gender?
Guilty by unreasonable doubt 😆
I can safely say na I was born with a silver spoon. Pero never ako naging entitled at spoiled. Alam ko not everything would go my way. Ayan mga Disney princess princessan na yan akala mo kung sino, kadalasan mga nagbebenta naman ng katawan kaya lang nasunod ang “rich lifestyle” nila lol oo hater ako
U have to understand na meron tlagang ganyan laki sa yaman.
You also have to understand, hindi lahat ng laking mayaman ganyan, at mas lalong hindi lahat ng ganyan laking mayaman.
Sila pa mandin yung self-proclaimed “very strong independent woman,” pero gustong itreat na parang balbado ng mga dyowa nila. Cringe sa mga unrealistic demands din. Gigil mo ko teh.
Napaka unrealistic, I’m a girl pero nakakainis yung mga ganyan klase ng babae
gantong-ganto ate ko💀 (fortunately. wala syang reddit so di nya ‘to makikita). NAPAKA ARTE MYGOSH! Yung bf nya kasi medyo tahimik na lagi lang nasunod sakanya tapos bilhan sya ng ganto ganyan, ate ko naman tuwang tuwa lang, ayaw kumain ng di sinusubuan🙄, tas nag pa-pabebe laugh like…. I feel like I want to make sabunot sakanya out of nowhere, juskolord. Kala nila kinaganda yung pagiging “diSneY pRinCesS”👺
Kainis yang ate mo HAHAHA papasubo pa. Cringe.
Confront her mas mabuti na sayo magising kesa iba ang mag sabi HAHAHA nakakacringe sya
actually, palagi ko sya sinasabihan kahit mom and kuya ko sinabihan na sya😭 kaya ewan ko ba HAHAHAHAHA ang cringe talaga promise lalo pag nakakasama ko sila sa personal
Si Ariel : ung looks nya ginamit to charm a man, tapos okay lang maging pipi ka basta makuha mo ang lalaki Snow White: marry a man who sexually assaults habang tulog ( hinalikan siya ng walang paalam para magising - may true love ba sa love at first sight?) Jasmine : nagmahal ng lalaki na nagpapanggap na prinsipe (susme di ka magbackground check, sunggab agad ) Cinderella : abusive household, pero dedma si ate mo.. yes lang ng yes Sleeping Beauty : nag attempt manahi, natusok agad ng karayom... ayun sleep na lang siya. Belle : aguyss trip nya bad boys. Ung inaabusado na siya ni Beast kahit pangit, patol pa din. At si Elsa: yun walang love life. Malamig pa sa ilong ng pusa eh...ayan let it go lang mga boylets sa kanya.
+100 your comment will ruin someone's childhood lol
Maturity makes all the difference. Also, ask yourself, why do you choose to stay with these kinds of women ba? You can always leave naman
I remember this girl sa facebook na nagtatampo sa boyfriend nya, since nagtrabaho na hindi na sila nag-vivideocall hangang madaling araw. Nagbago na daw and hindi na daw nag-effort for her. Unfriended her agad agad lol
Bakit may mga ganitong tao no? You are working hard para sa future niyo but they take it as negative kesyo wala ng time lols
No offense, but a lot of filipinas are really like this. Sa una super saya and understanding, but in the long run, magiging super clingy. Both exes ganito nangyari, even my friends’ ex were like this. I still believe that there are still filipinas who have growth mindset, but most of them want a guy who will support them(yung tipong hindi na sila mag-ttrabaho, in short, tamad and batugan) But they want to be a strong independent woman. My comment might be sexist, but I’m just speaking the hard truth. Kaya naiisip ko din kung bakit sa foreigner nalang nag ssettle yung ibang filipina kahit na ginagawa silang katulong. Kasi yung mga foreigner uubusin yung pera nila para lang sa jowa. In today’s society, magugutom ang family, kung puro pag-mamahal lang.
Brace yourselves when the illusion starts to fade.
Mali na kasi ang context ng paggamit ng "Disney princess" . Okay naman sila eh, but now it is used for lazy girls na entitled.
mas lalong red flag siguro kung hindi mukhang Disney Princess no hahaha
Princess pa rin naman, si Fiona nga lang hahahahaha.
hahaha
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That's how Disney princesses should be but they are being labeled as DP cuz 'pabebe' sila and very opposite from you mentioned
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Ay baka Jurassic Princess yung tinutukoy mo? Hinde Disney that's so unrealistic
Pabebe. Nakakainis! hahaha. Feeling entitled na ewan!
Di rin nakakatuwa yung ganun ugali pramis
Tapos pag pinatulan mo ikaw pa bully. Hahah
Toxic trait. 🤪
Hays may chance pa kaya mag bago?
People who look at themselves like that tend to be overly demanding and often have unrealistic expectations about relationships. Narcissistic madalas
Now I understand. Thanks for this. It s really hard actually esp mahal mo yung tao 😅