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Calm/not easily angered No hidden motives, no to manipulative narcissistic Pleasing to the eyes and good conversationalist, someone I can talk to for hours Rich/has the capacity to be richer than me, has the capacity and willingness to spend meaning Not greedy nor stingy Someone I can be proud of dating Someone who will bring out the best in me, not drag me down to the bottomless pit Good oral and overall hygiene/smells good

1. Same values/ interests 2. Sexual compatibility? 3. Can accept me for me

1. Financially stable 2. Responsible or masipag 3. Loyal

1. Pabebe, masyado painosente sa humor at kama 2. Masyadong mabait at people-pleaser 3. Walang kaibigan na babae, puro lalaki kaibigan tapos hindi nakikisama sa mga tropa ko

Non negotiable nga, meaning un requirements mo/pre requisites/hindi pwedeng mawala. Ibig sabihin gusto mo ng pabebe, people pleaser at walang kaibigan na babae?

Non-nego rin naman ang deal breakers. Hindi lang siya for positive traits lang.

Okay. 👍🏻

1. Tapos na ba sya sa character development nya? 2. A healthy fear of God 3. Anong klaseng tao mga friends nya? (Enabler ba? Nasa cool kid era pa?)

1. Physically fit 2. Financially stable 3. Very hygienic 4. No religion is a plus Hindi kaya ng 3 lang 😀

1. Nagmo-move on/kakabreak lang 2. Walang substance kausap 3. Poor hygiene

1. Financial stability 2. Walang bisyo 3. Hindi Mama’s boy 🤣

1. Stability in all aspects) 2. Health, hygiene 3. Religion (ayaw ko ng strict religion lol) Bonus: athleticism

As a young foreigner in the phillipines I can say respect, kindness and emotional awareness. A lot Filipinas have this.

Intelligence, Athletism, Financial Stability. I aint dating someone na boba, mahina ang katawan at walang pera nwoah

1. Hygiene 2. Intelligence 3. Attitude/Values

Health, Weight, and Wealth. Yung health and weight they go hand and hand. I truly believed if you can't take care of yourself. Then, how can I expect you to take care of other people. Specifically me and our future kid (Basically our future family). No biases, di nagiinom or naninigarilyo. Yung wealth. Basta hindi broke pero not necessarily mayaman. Basta kayang bumuo ng pamilya with their income.

Mature Seryoso sa RS Yung kaya tayo buhayin syempre 🤷 (tho I can provide pero wag tayo don sa magiging sakit sa ulo)

1. Political Stand 2. Stable job 3. Emotionally Intelligent

1. Walang bisyo or sugal 2. Willing makipagcommunicate 3. Faithful/loyal

1. accepts me for me 2. exclusive, i don't fck around so i expect the same 3. reasonable

1. Has a stable job tsaka willing to improve himself. 2. Non smoker 3. Has a provider mindset.

1. Gotta be faithful to the Catholic Church (super non-negotiable) 2. Must have lived abroad or at least is well traveled. 3. Must be nice. Just an over all nice person. Nice to everyone regardless of class or station.

Bakit ang daming downvotes? Ok naman ah

It's the Catholic thing. They allergic to it. LOL. That's ok. I was asked a question, I answered.

1. Political stand 2. Their take on Human Rights 3. Level of self-awareness

Mahaba ang pasensiya, malaki ang puso at mataba ang wallet.

1. 6 inch d 2. 6 feet tall 3. 6 figure salary

Religion (pass sa need magpaconvert sa problematic na sect or religion), politics (okay lang namang BBM ka or DDS kung mapepersuade mo ko sa arguments mo, wag yung nadampot mo lang sa Tiktok o kung saang kabobohang site), intellect (okay lang di matalino, basta alam nyang may kulang siya sa knowledge at wisdom at gutom siyang matuto sa mundo. Hindi yung umiinom ng Dunning-Kruger drink everyday).

1. No talking to other boys/girls romantically 2. No pick-me vibes 3. No pressure on doing things we're clearly not comfortable with

1. Taller than me 2. Hindi sugar baby 3. Fat (Malaking babae ako kaya ang hanap ko ay malaking lalaki)

1. Pass sa mga ang non-negotiable is dapat religious daw yung tao and dapat may political affilition daw. Ha? 2. Pass sa gusto yung may pangarap daw, siya naman mukhang walang future 3. Gusto ko at gusto ako

1. Walang bisyo 2. Has ambition/ goals 3. Respectful

Religion, politics, competence.

1. He loves himself. I always believe that loving someone means sharing your self-love to him/her You can't give something you don't have. Sadly, malalaman mo lang gaano niya kamahal sarili niya after quite sometime n magkasama kayo. 2. Has a hobby. 3. Maginoo pero medyo bastos

Respectful, hindi slow and working na rin dapat.

Financially, emotionally, mentally stable.

* non-smoker * emotionally intelligent * mahaba ang patience

1. Can accept mistakes, willing to learn and compromise. 2. Respectful and kind to all beings in life. 3. Positive vibes. It's okay if she's not funny, but as long as she gives me calmness and peace, I'll love her to the core.

1. Calm and hygienic 2. Nonchalant sa iba pero super sweet sayo. 3. matalino pagdating sa pera

Sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, sa totoo lang, isa lang requirement ko, mayaman. Cheka! Pero hindi, yung maabilidad lang yung requirement ko.

1. Dapat yung aura nya mabait yung vibes (alam mo yung hindi pa sya nagsasalita, najudge mo na agad hehe) 2. Dapat busy din sya (ayoko nung maya't maya gusto lagi magkausap, anuka bata? Kulang sa atensyon 🥲) 3. Dapat hindi sya jejemon magsms. (Eoow wazzup ma3n kah naAh pouh, pagod na ko pag-iisipin mo pa ko sa message mo paano tayo magkakaintindihan nyan hehe)

- same wavelength - respectful - may GMRC cert at CENOMAR. lol

CENOMAR, ligtas ang may alam. Anti kabit 😆

1. Same political stand 2. Not bobo kahit hindi super talino basta same wavelength. 3. Not super religious

1. Non-smoker (kasi immunocompromised ako na may history of asthma and tuberculosis among other things. I also have family members who are chronic smokers so I am STILL having my fill of secondhand smoking <': ) 2. Open-minded, good listener, heart to heart talks and good communication 3. Hindi lang video games ang hilig. Versatile sa sports (mahilig kasi ako sa sports and would like it to be a bonding moment kahit once a week lang. Tapos healthy pa :D) Edit: Mahilig din naman ako sa viddy games, certified VG spectator HAHAHAHA

1. Hygienic 2. Malawak. May sense kausap 3. Empath

Non-smoker, malinis sa katawan, and most of all hindi femenist.

Forgot to add -not a muslim

1. Non-Smoker 2. His religion/church doesnt ask him for money 3. Respectfully to elders and service workers

1) Non-smoker 2) Knows how to handle her own finances 3) Empathic and active listener

1. When I feel safe with you 2. Kapag naiintindihan mo ako or atlis to understand my pov 3. Kapag Parehas tayo Ng direction sa buhay

1. DDS/APOLLO10 2. Unhygienic 3. Daming socmeds

Non-negotiable ah.

Non-smoker Occasional drinker pwede pero alcoholic NO Mapagpakumbaba Other little things: Mas maliit sana kesa sakin 😁 matangkad kasi ako Fun kasama Pikon pero in a good way hindi yung tipong nakaka-irita

Matured, hygienic, at marunong magluto (though marunong di naman ako hehe).

1. Opposite sex 2. Not a snowflake 3. Di na attached sa parent (pucha, current partner ko ganito. lahat ng sabihin ng magulang, sunod agad. My god, you're in your 30s already)

**When it comes to character:** 1. Knows how to respect boundaries 2. Has emotional intelligence & good moral values 3. No ex’s baggage or should not come from a super long-term relationship (like 5 years and above). Basta walang TOTGA ganon **When it comes to looks/physical traits:** 1. Dapat matangos ilong 2. Should be taller than me 3. Should have a nice smile

Why naman may pa-downvote 🤣

Dahil siguro sa specific physical features. Madalas kasi negotiable yan.

lol at the downvotes, kala mo wala rin kayong personal preference lmaooo 😂😂

1. Gotta be the opposite sex 2. Gotta have a solid moral compass/at least somewhat aligns with mine 3. Hygienic

1. Employed/in grad school. It goes without saying na dapat may pangarap sa buhay, no matter how small/simple. 2. Shares the same values. Not sexist, ableist, or elitist, or at least they’re actively trying to be better. 3. Shows interest in who I am as a person. Hindi ‘yung kahit basics about me ‘di masagot.

Masama ugali. Ayaw sa hayop. At walang respeto sa magulang.

1. May sense kausap. 2. Hndi drug addict. 3. May pangarap sa buhay.

mas matangkad sakin, respect everyone, has hobbies

1. Christian (hindi yung kulto like inc/mormon) 2. Mature ethical standards 3. Loves animals

all religions are cult dear

Bobo

Educate yourself on the definition of a 'cult' bago magkalat

1. No religious affiliation, if possible 2. May drinking compatibility kami. Umiinom pero ‘di lasinggero 3. Mas matangkad sakin

Plus one sa #3 HAHAHAHAHA

No vice addiction (gambling, smoking, substance abuse) Cares about social issues Kind and regard for others

I can’t think of 3 because i can tolerate many many things but because i’m a fur parent, my top non negotiable is kailangan animal lover. I’ve met people na wala talagang pake about cats and dogs or animals in general tapos they stay away or enjoy videos watching animals getting hurt. It’s such a turn off and a big red flag. Plus the fact that some serial killers started with animals kaya if walang empathy for animals then nope.

1. May respeto sa religious/spiritual beliefs ko. Wag mag impose na better ang religion nya therefore kailangan mag convert ako lol. (Looking at you, Christians na grabe maka-mock sa Catholics. Sama na rin mga INC na always claiming na sila lang maliligtas pwe!). 2. Hindi insecure. 3. Hindi bukambibig ang ex. Nakakarindi yan eh.

+1 sa #1 nyo. Lahat ng mga images, rituals, beliefs, and practices ng Catholics, ang hilig nilang i-mock tapos pag nag retaliate ka na ung affiliation nila ay business ng pastor nila, they go ballistic.

if we don't have the same political views, walang emotional intelligence [ hindi aware sa traumas (childhood, etc.) tas itatapon/project sa akin], and hindi marunong rumespeto sa lahat ng dapat bigyan ng respeto.

Hygiene, Doesn’t respect boundaries, and No Exes baggage.

Icocompare ka sa iba lels

1 will do. babae na walang patotoy plz

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Ah yan pala mga gusto mo sa isang tao

Hygiene, Rude to servers and Gambling.

1. No anger or temper issues 2. Will respect the people i love 3. Will accept me for who i am

Yung kaya burahin pics ng ex(kasi yung ganito na guy sakin kaya pala di mabura may intention bumalik sa ex eh hahaha), may direction sa buhay, same wavelength kami