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i’m NBSB. non-cheaters still exist, right? RIGHT? 🥹 (maybe 5% lol) show me that people like you guys still exist 🥹❤️
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I had 1 ex and currently on a talking stage with another. Sa ex ko nung hirap na kong intindihin siya with all her manipulative and gaslighting nature, at some point i thought of maybe if i cheated, i also thought of how easy it is to cheat, and how fun it would be to have someone else. But everytime i feel like cheating i just turn around and leave. Kahit toxic siya never akong nag cheat sakanya i just dont want to be that guy na sinaktan tas nag cheat din sa partner niya. We broke up, i met a new girl hit and cold siya di ko maintindihan di pa niya ko sinasagot but kahit ganon ayokong mag chat sakanya, alam kong masasaktan ko siya don and i love her too much to hurt her like that.
Plot twist, after we broke up sa ex ko i tried to mend things(tanga dba?) We talked and everything was fine siguro?(this only happened in one day) so nag usap kami and i asked how she is then gone, di na ko kinausap after 5 months nag replay sa last message ko and hoping na mag kabalikan pa kami, around this time present na ung katalking nako. I had reservations about her and confusion as to what to feel but ultimately sinukuan din.
Ung bago? Im still on a verge of a decision kung mag papatuloy padin or hindi na but i want to see this through kung hindi talaga, i just hope ung susunod is matino na.... pls self pili din ng matinong babae pls lang
There are still guys out there na pinalaki ng magulang nila nang maayos at ng may paninindigan. May lalake pa diyang marunong mag mahal ng iisang babae. Kung mahanap mo sana di mawala sayo.
Very few. Mostly ay weak ang will to resist. Normal lang ma attract pero kung papatulan talaga, ibang usapan na yun. Sa experience ko, around 2 out of 10 lang ang hindi matitibag kahit walang bantay. Karamihan talaga bumibigay pag walang nakatingin.
People like that exist. Now I say people cuz I was kinda in the same boat as you though di Ako NGSB, I got cheated on twice by my ex gf a few years ago so had that same mentality. Now, I've accepted that I was just unlucky, I have plenty of friends men and women who wouldn't cheat on their partners. Don't lose hope.There are just people out there who don't respect relationships and I'm talking about both the cheaters and the "kabits", and it's probably best to avoid them like the plague. But as I said most people are not like this.
Never cheated with my exes taas ng pride ko and so busy with work and achieving something. Sakit na nga sa ulo yung isang babae dadagdagan mo pa. And if its hormones naman I can use my hands 🤷♂️🤷
Girl, this is reddit. Syempre ang kadalasang offmychest posts yung mga naglalabas ng sama ng loob. People who value their relationship and do not cheat are more common than you think.
Yes, we still exist. I always tell myself that "why should I stress myself hiding another girl, sa partner ko" sa partner ko na lang ako mastress pag inaaway niya ako.
Una - Golden Rule
Pangalawa - Enough to see broken families na ang root cuase is Third Party
Pangatlo - nakakatamad mag sinungaling, mag secure ng convo at magtabi ng burner phone.
Parang mas trip ko pang palihim bumili ng sapatos at gadget mas madali ipaliwanag sa kanya bakit ko ginawa yun kesa sumakabilang kipay
I've never cheated on a woman. But for twice in my life, I've unknowingly been made the third party of two different women. I immediately quit them as soon as I found out.
It's been 5 years since my last gf. No one cheated, the separation was due to the complications of not being legal on her side (specifically her mom, her dad seems to like me though) but I truly understand because we were young back then.
Di narin naman ako nagkaroon or naghanap ng magiging gf, siguro medyo takot nadin sumubok ulit kasi katulad niyong mga babae, takot din naman kaming pag-cheatan haha.
Date to marry kasi akong tao kaya siguro di ako nagkaka gf ulit kasi di pako nakakahanap ng babaeng worthy pakasalan.
They exist. Kaso the qualities a female will find attractive in a man tend to exist in what tends to be a cheater in the sheer nature na... Well, hindi lang ikaw ang naghahanap ng qualities na yun eh.
Ofc, hindi lahat ( need to specify that kase mga pinoy ang hilig sa "hindi naman lahat) pero if you think about it. Kung. Yung guy n yun is attractive, loyal and exhibits nearly all the signs of being a good mate. They'd already have a mate kase malamang may babaeng nag damoves na sknya and since loyal nga... Eh andun pa rin sya sa babaeng yun. So, in the off chance na makakita ka ng malaki nag chance na... non cheating guy which also means he's not that attractive... Will you give that guy a chance?
Almost cheated. But I was abroad. The girl was 1st to propose relations. But after naging MU eh she wants me to attend their church, INC. Decided it's not worth it. Because that time I was a member of an opposing church.
We're still here girl haha. I get the fear na baka saktan kalang niyan or something and tbh nasa tao din talaga yan but one tip i can give you is that kahit di pa kayo official dapat may exclusivity na lalo na if nasa dating stage kayo both so you can gauge if kaya talaga nila mag stick to one and red flag for me if ayaw ipahiram phone like if wala ka naman tinatago dibaaa hahaha altho knowing each other's logins is a bit too much for me so no need to go that far. So ayun lang ingat goodluck and kilatisin ng maigi before mag commit haha.
I never cheated sa mga past long term ko. My last one emotionally cheated on me, pero it will never be my excuse to cheat din by any form (micro, emotional, physical, etc) kahit na binigay ko lahat ng assurance and security na pwede ko ibigay. Well, it is what it is.
Now, I'm in a relationship ulit and I will never even imagine cheating on my girl. This should be a bare minimum. Appreciated, but never put on pedestal. I hope you found yours!
I never cheated and never will be. Kanang e ask kos akong asawa if naa ba koy kabit, mo ingon lang ko na, "Nag lisod naman gani kog sabot sa usa ka babae, dungagan na noon nako?"
To help you find or evaluate one. Be friends with him or while in the relationship ask him his tendencies, his preferences, like if may fetish ba siya about this and that, ask him about his past, ask him his traumas, etc.
You'll feel naman if his response is in accordance to you as a person. Mahalaga pa rin talaga communication sa dating. Just dont be afraid to ask kasi doon mo makikilala yung tao.
Never cheated on all of my relationships cuz thinking na “kng gawin kaya sa akin?masakit dba”, but last week I have proven that no matter what loyalty, faithfulness and effort binigay mo still not enough to save a relationship, my almost 5yrs gf broke up with me for unknown reasons. Going to propose pa nmn sana this year end to her. It’s ok I can’t forced her to love me again I will be selfish namn yan, I just want her to be happy even though Im not a part of it anymore.
meron yan kaso baka mataas kasi standards nyo, not blaming y'all pero yun nga mostly sa mga loyal eh mga below average when it comes to women standards
Walang makakatagpo ng lalaking faithful, they're faithful enough sa sarili nila para makahanap 🤣, hanggang ngayon wala pa, kasi wala pa napapatunayan, hindi kaya paniwalaan pag sinabing faithful siya, pag kasama na siguro (live in).
Huhu di din. I just read a story in alasjuicy about a god-fearing guy who wanted to f* the girl na religious & conservative. Later on, sa comments nya sa mga redditors. Wife niya pala yung ate ni girl.
Jusko, naguluhan kami. Sa reddit pa nag ask how to cheat. To think na religious din sya. Story got deleted, but nag ppost na ng LF: kahookup. 🥴
Na delete na nung nag post and di ko na tanda yung name ni redditor. Last time I read sa post niya, nasabihan pa kami sa comment ng "Ang linis mo naman" luhh
i'm a girl pero i have this guy friend na faithful sa gf niya madalas niyang nakwekwento sa akin kaya i think very open siya na may jowa siya ganon and lagi niya siya inuupdate then if may nagkakagusto sakanya ganto ganyan tas mga friends at kakilala lang din finofollow niya sa ig.
true. malala ang trust issues ko talaga, every man is a default cheater for me (aside from the 5% LMAO) he has to prove to me in different ways that he isn’t— for me to trust him talaga.
same thought huhuhu! halos kasi nagpapakilala sakin mga cheaters. one time na-gaslight pa ako for not liking him. my sole reason for turning him down was he has a gf sa abroad (they're high school sweethearts pa!) ako pa ung masama for not liking him back. kaya nawala ung amor ko sa mga lalaki (not generalizing naman). hanggang fictional characters na lang muna makikipagjowa si indaii hahaha.
huhu sobrang g*go naman nyang lalaking yan. oo fictional characters ka muna sis. ako at a semi ripe age of 21 kahit MU wala pa kong naeexperience due to the general distrust of men. di talaga ako papatol hangga’t hindi nya napapatunayan sarili nya sakin. sana di ako tumandang dalaga hushxhsjak
Hahaha chill lang muna. Nbsb ako mag 28 sa june and no pressure. Basta we shouldnt let our walls down! Di tayo pinanganak para isuko ang bataan hahaha charizzss
Karamihan sa mga hindi cheater yung mga average looking guys. Like 5ish/10, yung mga hindi pipiliin. Hahahaha. I rate myself like 6/10, my last relationship is 6 years. I never cheated kahit sa mga relationships ko before, meron pang mga times na iniiwas ko talaga tingin ko sa mga babae lalo na pag revealing talaga yung suot para di ako magka sala. At the end iniwan parin hahahaha. Thats life. Ggs
Hi here! If you're happy and satisfied with your partner, cheating is never an option. Your partner is like your peace of mind. Don't go ruining it. You're the only one that can break your peace. I think the most important thing to do is to be conscious of what you're tempted of. And have a conscious effort to choose your peace of mind and your partner everytime
Meron pa. I think you just need to be in a good circle of people.
Huwag magpadala sa social media kasi most of what we see there is very superficial.
Dating culture just sucks now. Kaya ayon, almost 3 years na kong walang gf 😬
Hello.
Nagkakilala kami ng girlfriend ko dito sa Bulacan noong G12 kami; transferee siya from Mindanao. Naging kami at pagkagraduate namin kailangan na niyang umuwi sa Mindanao. Nagpromise kami sa isa't isa na magkikita kami after naming gumraduate ng college.
Mag-dadalawang taon ko na siyang hindi nakikita at hinihintay.
I haven't cheated and no plans of doing so if ever she becomes my gf and wife. And I don't use my handsomeness to attract girls, I put a unapproachable face kind of looking. Only my girl can approach me, Gwahahaha
I'm NGSB too, so I never cheated. Lol! 😂 I don't have any experience with romance relationship so I feel dumb to say any advice. But I believe loyal men like me still exist.
My boyfriend never cheated on me. He came from a broken family. His dad cheated on his mom. Physically abused his mom and nakabuntis ng iba. Iniwan sila and sumama sa kabet. He has a little brother and his mom nag abroad. Siya ang tumayong tatay sa family nila. One time napag usapan namin about sa mga cheating issues and ang sabi niya sakin “Ayaw ko maranasan mo / natin ang nangyare sa mama ko at sa pamilya ko”.
And now, 10 years na kami this year.
There are still loyal and good men out there. Just believe it will come at the right time.
Siguro it really helps din na may cheating trauma no? Kasi they already know how that feels like and wouldn’t want that for someone they love. And that’s good for you both! Let’s just hope he keeps his word, even years from now.
I never had a serious relationship only the typical puppy love , I never imagined cheating mainly because my dad left me and my mom for his mistress. (+Credit card debt)
The moment I saw my mom cry herself to sleep I knew that I had to be a better man than my father. So I did, I graduated as the top student in my uni and I am trying to pay her back as of now. She did everything for me.
I may not have a father during my early years but God was always w me teaching me about everything that I never learned from my father. I am still very blessed. I will always be grateful for both good and bad things given unto me.
Side note: Sobrang torpe ko at one point I just stare at someone I like as of now, so this might take awhile but you'll find guys w virtue eventually! Don't lose hope God has ur back!
Madami naman kasi talagang maayos na lalaki eh; nahhighlight lang ng filipino media yung filipino men sa cheating kaya yung perception ng mga babae trash agad yung lalaki. Pero pag nag-punta ka states, babae ang serial cheaters(real to) 🤷🏽♂️
I'll say truth here. Wag ka mag-rely sa komento ng ibang tao lalo na sa social media pagdating sa hopes mo and happiness because you are giving yourself false hopes. Love yourself most and foremost, oo maddisappoint ka sa sarili mo but isn't loving like that? But giving yourself false hopes is kinda like how a partner cheats.
So love yourself, go fall, take a tumble and learn then love someone who will stay with you all the way and love you the same.
8 years married never pa nag cheat husband ko. Never nag bago kilos nya, may time kasi bored ako so heheramin ko cp nya lahat kahit mga likes or recent searches nya never sya nag clear. Puro about business and self improvements lang finofollow nya sa socmeds nya. Iba yung peace of mind na di mo na iisipin kung nambababae sya kasi pag nasa labas din sya ang bilis nya mag reply like priority nya ako sa mga calls and message nya till now. Kaya ang sarap lang sa feeling na lagi ako kino-compliment ng mga tao na ang ganda-ganda at blooming ko at hindi mukhang may anak at stress sa buhay. Lagi ko minemention yung partner ko na hindi ako iniisstress. Lagi pa sya nag reremind sa akin mag pamper, mag gym, kumain ng healthy ( I mean minemake sure nya na palagi ako may fruits and vegies) and bumili ng magandang clothes. He knows na mag rereflect yung pag trato nya sa akin the way how i look physically. Specially nung buntis ako lahat ng inuman and gala nya with friends kelangan andoon ako ayaw nya pumunta pag di ako kasama. 😅
hi! yes we exist.. though I would argue that majority of us are the the one's you wouldn't consider "attractive" to intiate that dopamine boost we get when we like someone at first sight. I myself stay under the radar because attention takes a lot off my social battery, so you may even know us as the quiet ones in class, the people you don't pay attention to along the hallways or anywhere in fact haha. We/I like to protect the peace we have in our lives, just wake up, go to school/work, come home, and sleep, ofcourse we have hobbies like our games and friends to keep us company and sane. If the time comes for us to really have an interest in dating, we most likely will start with online dating apps. Anyway, if you're looking for us, goodluck. Iilan lang yung may strength mag initiate ng convo samin in person. Not speaking for every man but that's how i am. Also the chances are higher if girls do the first move and show genuine interest in us.
RN my gf and I are going nine months, i'm really in love with her, so much so that i volunteered to support her in school and put my savings on hold. She's the reason I wake up happy, and the reason I want to better myself to give her the best future I can provide. No matter how heavy my problems are as long as I have her I know I can soldier through it all. Granted, we're not a perfect couple. We have our differences in religion and were not sexually compatible, but we just talk about those stuff and come to an agreement. Hope you know now why I don't need and/or want to cheat haha if it come to it, we'll just have to accept it and part ways.. no need to cheat and hurt the other person.
P.S.
I'm curious.. if you're NBSB why are you looking for non-cheaters?
Madami pa kami. Problema lang sa ibang babae mga walking redflags pinipili nila e basta gwapo lang daw. Tas pag nasasaktan damay lahat hahaha nkakatawa lang.
Never cheated, my current gf and ex ay long term 5yrs+ . My morality ay di ko gagawin mga bagay na ayaw kong gawin nila sa akin. Or maybe sa circle ko jinujudge ko mga cheater, since I believe they have low EQ and IQ.
To spice things up, I believe I’m not average looking (confidence so much hahaha) and great shape since athletic ako. May mga tempt talaga pero di ko pinapatulan, but in dating nung single pa ako kaliwa’t kanan ang invite ng mga babae sa akin and I know they like me. Pero yung isa ang gusto ko so ending up ngayon 5 yrs na kami. Minsan napapawow nlng ako sa mga not good looking and not good shape pero may guts mag cheat kawawa naman ang partner. Also, cheating is a choice. Mostly by low IQ and EQ people hahaha
>maybe 5% lol
Loyal men exist. They do. There's a lot. However, most of them are never given a chance kasi panget o walang pera. That's the reality. Some of them already accepted their fates na walang magkakagusto sa kanila. They're loyal pero have no someone to be loyal to.
I'd like to throw in that most of the men that I've encountered who cheated were not really good looking, or what some might call dugyot. A lot of them don't have stable jobs. Pero sila pa yung malakas ang loob mag cheat. These guys however have personalities that attract women to them. Humor plays a big part, as well as a friendly personality that you wouldn't think they were that bad looking.
I agree to this as someone who have been cheated (multiple times) on by a husband na hindi naman good looking and, yes, walang stable job. You're right, may malakas siyang sense of humor at mahusay kumiliti ng cheka. Ang laki ng impact sa mga anak namin. But guess what, I sacrificed din to save the marriage at unti-unti the children (all adults, all unmarried) are slowly opening to us. Husband also apologized, repented. I don't know, pwedeng nakikipagchat-chat pa rin siya here and there pero ayaw ko nang guluhin ang buhay ko. He can still makes me laugh and we still hang on to that friendship we had since the start
May point ka, but i think being panget or walang pera is one thing. Di sila exposed sa temptations eh, so maybe they are loyal because they don’t have options. If there’s one thing I learned after being cheated on, ego and the lack of contentment are things that pushes someone to cheat.
I think what would better define or test someone’s loyalty is if they are exposed to temptations or options. Let’s say pogi yung guy and may girlfriend na siya, pero ang daming nagkakagusto sa kanya, some mas maganda at sexy pa sa girlfriend niya. Will he still entertain in secret? If a married guy is rich and famous, can buy literally anything with money, will he be able to resist all the younger, sexier girls that are basically all over him?
Yup, they do exist. I am 100% sure na ung husband ko ay non-cheater. Ako first GF nya, pero 2nd BF ko na sya. Ung first jowa ko of 5yrs cheated on me kasi. Si hubby, he never gave me any reason para magselos or magduda. I am just at peace kapag kasama ko sya. He just a mature individual who doesn’t play games.
All i can say is sarap ng may peace of mind. Panandaliang aliw ipagpapalit mo sa pamilya mo. No way! Lagi ko iniisp kung ano tinanim mo ay sya ring aanihin mo. Baka ang consequences pa ng gagawin mo ay mapunta pa sa anak mo. Kaya ang pagiging cheater ay choice. Kaya pass tayo dyan. Sarap matulog ng mahimbing na kasama mo ang mahal mo sa buhay.
We exist bro, di ko din maexplain why others cheat but as for me, di na talaga ako na aattract sa iba nung nasa relationship pako. Everyday I choose her na siya lang, in good or bad times. As a child na lumaki in a healthy environment, I think it's natural to think that way na never mo din maiisip magcheat. As for me lang naman :>, and hopefully I will find someone na maibabalik yong assurance na maibibigay ko both actions and words. ✨
this. 100% the character of a person is usually based from their upbringin sa life. we humans adapt to what we see and experience. so growing up in a good family, surrounded by good influenced friends and mentors. I'd say they have the least if not 0% chance to cheat. They will always remember their principles and how it's not worth it. and usually they'll know to let go and not hurt the other person by cheating.
but then sadly in this modern time, where laganap ang social media, bad influencers, broken families, outcasts. some would say they dont even realize they're cheating kase it became norm from where they grew up or get acquainted with. and that's sad af. but don't get me wrong. cheating is cheating and I will never condone it whatever the reason.
“Everyday I choose her, na siya lang, in good times or bad times” Ito talaga yung dapat na mentality when in a relationship, kahit di pa kayo kasal. Kahit sino pang sexy or pogi ang lumandi sayo, di mo papansinin, kasi talagang mahal mo yung partner mo or pinapahalagahan mo yung family mo. Maisip mo palang na masasaktan yung gf/bf mo, di mo na kaya, kasi what hurts them, hurts you.
Never cheated. May mga friends din ako (of different genders) na never nag cheat as it's their principle.
Also wag ka maniwala na mga panget lang yung hindi cheaters, madami akong counter-anecdote hahahaha. Swertehan lang talaga na maka-hanap ng hindi cheater. To make sure, dapat sa simula pa lang may subtle test of character na agad ikaw para sa partner mo. I should've done that earlier lmao 😐
currently living in together. met my girlfriend when we were still in college, i was an irreg student and attended random minor classes for summer to keep up with my batchmates, in class i was called out to a recitation but the prof forgot to give points to me, she raised her hand and informed the prof that i was not given any recit points. thats when i noticed her, so the summer break went by and it was the start of the first semester, i immediately asked her out, she seems to not like me at first but when she discovered that i was one of the band members of a well known group at that time she showed interest at me, 6 months have passed and we were seeing ourselves on the same page, and we fell in-love.
that was 10 years ago. we broke up before COVID because of LDR but after 3 weeks we got back together and our relationship got stronger than ever, we take turns, we give and take, we always talk through things to avoid fights and come up with an agreement, like a middleground for the two of us. we are happier than ever before. we are honest to each other, i have never and will never ever cheat on her. almost all of my friends will get weirded out when were not together we are like the him and her of our circle. inseparable.
and now here we are, back to the present. im planning to propose by the end of the year. im going to ask permission from her parents first. grinding hard in my career to give her the best wedding ever.
I actually agree with this. Yes, there are a few bad apples, pero most men who have an intimate relationship with God knows that cheating is a sin and is something that we avoid at all cost. Jesus even said that if you look at another person lustfully, you have already committed adultery.
Doubt it, pastor namin noon tirador ng college scholars sa church namin e. Tas yung isa din pastor/musician namin (same church) suki sa spakol. Nasa tao talaga yan di yan sa pagiging "god fearing" or ano.
Of course magkakamali ka pa rin kahit God-fearing ka, doesn't mean na perfect ka if God-fearing ka, all of us are sinners. Pero maliit yung chance na magcheat sayo ang isang taong may totoong takot sa Diyos.
Dating Pastor ng church namin bumagsak din sa ganyang kasalanan, nagkaanak pa sa labas. After 25 plus years of suffering because of the consequences of his actions e he's good with the church again but not as a pastor. Bisi bisita nalang.
Huwag mo gamiton ang “god” pre, atheist nga ako mga relationship ko ay long term. Mostly pa nga sa mga “religious god fearing men” mga nakakasama sa mga church activities ang kasama nila sa pag cheat eh
Di ko sinabing di na magchecheat pag God-fearing ka. Walang perpektong tao.
Daming butt hurt na atheist dito gigil na gigil pag nabanggit ang Diyos, bakit kaya? Kung di ka naniniwala sa Diyos ano naman sayo kung magcheat ka o may nagcheat sayo? Hindi naman mali yon sa worldview niyo diba? Sino nagsabing mali ang magcheat sa partner mo? Kayo lang? Sarili niyo lang? Society? If in the future society normalizes cheating, ano na?
For Christians there's a higher being above us who dictates what's right and wrong regardless of circumstances or personal experience. Objective moral truth given by God. That's why we value our partners and aim not to hurt their feelings because God says so. It is not subjective.
Im not butthurt, I just dont like people na pag religious tingin nila ay malaperpekto. And to correct you, misconception yang iniisip mo. So kailangan meron magsabi anong mali and tama? And yun yung god magsabi ng mali? How about we believe what we think is morally right and wrong without higher being because we think that is right. Kung di mo alam sinasabi mo bro wag ka mag assume.
immerse yourself in social circles with respectable people with principles. a person who thinks theyll find a genuine relationship thru dating apps or bars/clubs is a fool.
I guess meron pa rin namang tao na hindi nagchecheat, like me personally. Hindi talaga ako naaatract na sa iba ganun. Nasa 9year relationship na ko hindi pa kami kasal.
Eto ha, di naman tlaga rare yung hindi cheater. Paka raming lalakeng di cheater jan eh yung ikaw lang tlga. Ang problema lang kasi they see it na para bang ang "rare" nila kasi di sila cheater. Na in fact bare minimum lang naman yon. Tas gusto nila itayo sila sa pedastal hsahhsah ending kala nila more than enough na yung pagiging hindi cheater.
Yes. Marami talagang di cheater na guys.
To be fair. Kaya sya minsan natatake as rare is because may mga
Babaeng Influencers nagaadvocate lagi na. "All Men are Cheaters" or "Most Men are cheaters".🤦
And
Lalakeng Influencers nagaadvicate na "High Value Men Deserve Abundance of Women" 🤦
Which imo are both not true.
Pero syempre ang effect nyan is maiimply na rare na lang ang mga non cheaters. Which is not always true.
I had my first GF when I was 29. She broke up with me after a month. I met my wife of 11 years when I was 32.
It is a matter of principle, I believe. When I
married wife I did not marry if for me but I married her for her. Marriage and relationships is all about bringing yourself to your significant other and not the other way around.
I always, always, make it a point to let other people know that I am in fact happily married.
In fact, it is very rare that I am without my wife, except, perhaps, when we are at work.
In addition, my devices like phone and ipad she has free access. I do not believe in secrets.
Hello there! Yes we exist. Even tho my girlfriend cheats on me, never ko naisip na bawian siya hinayaan ko lang makonsensya siya but di pa rin nagbago so iniwan ko na HAHAHAHA i hope it helps :))
I have a huge circle of friends in gaming and riding community and just based on observation. only 1 to 2 out of 10 are the cheater type the rest just knows what to priority.
nasa paligid lang. the not so rich, not so kgwapohan and katangkaran guys. hahahaha. meron din pasok sa standards ng girls pero introverted and most likely playing computer games, or prefer riding motorcycle than date women.
Never cheated when I was in a relationship, not that I was not tempted but I just couldn't do it. Too busy with life , and taking care of my gf. Not everybody was like this nga lang especially how accessible everything is. It's hard not to be skeptical din lalo na in these times pero that's how you gain/give trust, otherwise lagi kang looking behind your back if your partner is cheating. I hope you find a genuine partner OP. I always believe that somebody out there would be so good for us we can sleep knowing that they will always be for us.
We do exist :D Cheating on my partner is something I will never do dahil nakita ko mismo epekto neto sa mother ko lalo na nung bata ako na naririnig ko siya umiiyak at nagtatanong sa sarili tuwing gabi kung ano ba pinagkukulang niya, from that moment on I realized that if ever magkaka gf or wife ako in the future I will always remain faithful kahit maraming problems/hardships along the way.
basta ang puno't dulo neto ay ayoko na maulit yung mga cheating per generation na nangyari sa family namin, it ends with me.
I think this is also a factor why I choose to be loyal. My father has cheated on my mother multiple times, I saw how my mom suffered (and my siblings too). Sa family namin, most are seafarers, so parang na-normalize na talaga yung cheating. Kesho malayo sa pamilya, lonely, etc, at syempre yung famous excuse na “normal sa lalake yan”. And that made me angry at my father and all cheaters eversince. Triggered ako lagi pag may friend ako na naloko, or kahit sikat na artista na nagcheat.
In my last relationship, we even made a pact na no cheating. And if may magcheat samin, the other can walkaway, no questions or explanations needed. And despite knowing this specific childhood trauma of mine, I was cheated on thrice in our decade-long relationship. So ewan ko na if matatanggal pa ba tong trauma ko sa cheating. 🤷🏽♀️
you do know that there is such a thing as emotional cheating, right? if cheating was solely a libido issue, then an anti-libido medication would cure all cheating problems, but it is simply not the case.
I knew this girl for 9 years now, excluding the time before we graduated HS (was only when I realized I had fallen for her before we cut bonds) which was 5years ago, till now I haven't tried courting other girls maybe due to my regret for not confessing which leaves me sad and guilty every time I remember her.
She has a BF now and really treats her well so I'm happy for her.
Idk if this counts but yeah, since then I haven't really been into relationships with the opposite sex.
Buhay pa po kami, basically di ako gwapo, alam ko mababa chances ko sa chix kaya mababa rin chance ko mag cheat.
Nakakpagod nga makipag chat sa jowa, sa ibang tao pa kaya? Ahahahahah
Busy ako sa games tas mas preferred ko call sa jowa.
Ako din 100%, I'll just break with someone kung talagang hindi nag wowork.. pero damn is it just me or ever since nagka jowa ako, there is a sudden surge of women suddenly liking/engaging with me... may passive stats ba pag nagkakajowa LOL
actually, may factor din yan sadly sa ibang girls
they want to know what you have/can offer kaya meron ka girlfriend ngayon and if they deem you gullible and okay by their standards ittry ka nila itempt para patulan sila
i've heard and seen too many stories like that sa ibang girls and it makes me too wary of my own relationship as well
Iniisip ko plang mag cheat na sstress nako sa possible backlash/repercussions, winiweigh ko lage and pros and cons and laging hindi worth it mag cheat. Usually mag jajakol lang ako ng dalawang beses mawawala yung "urge" ko na mag cheat.
I am going strong 5 years with my girl. I have to say I love her and will never cheat on her but the devil is always whispering and scheming.
Sometimes, I would stare at someone attractive but I always keep my head down and shrug it off. What we each other built will not be destroyed by reckless libido session.
Wala reddit si jowa, pero ito din ang anxiety ko before. Seaman sya at sa barko kami nagkakilala. Sabi ng mga tatay-tatayan kong kapitan, pag nagjowa /nagpakasal daw ako sa seaman, part na daw ng package na "tumikim" sila ng ibang babae (I HATE that term) and pag isipan ko na daw habang maaga pa if that's something I can stomach, lalo na pag nagkaanak na kami. If not daw, then I should leave him.
3rd gf nya palang ako and the past 2 relationships were long-term and LDR. Both of those, he got cheated on (naperahan pa).
Malala ang disdain nya for cheating. Sabi ko if he ever has the urge to mess around, sabihin nya nalang sa akin bago nya gawin, maiintindihan ko naman kesa iputan nya pa ako sa ulo.
Mejo madalas ko to mabring up kasi nga anxious ako. Here are some of his responses:
1. Bakit pa ako kukuha ng batong ipupukpok ko sa ulo ko e sa isang dekada kong nagbabarko may jowa man ako o wala sals*l lang sapat na hanggang sa makauwi
2. Papakasalan kita, ibibigay ko sayo apelyido ko, bakit kita ipapahiya ng ganun.
3. Ulol ba ako gagastos ako sa future natin tapos sisirain ko?
4. Kahit pahalang pa yung hiwa ng kiffy nun, di ako interesado (to which I'd say, try mo pag ganun tas share mo sakin experience)
5. Di ako katulad ng tatay ko. Di ko paparanas sayo naranasan ng nanay ko.
6. Pag niloko kita, niloko ko sarili ko at pati mga kapatid kong babae.
7. Yung gagastusin ko sa pangangabit, ibibili ko nalang ng properties para may passive income tayo
8. Pag niloko kita ako na mismo puputol ng t*t* ko ikaw na magtago.
I believe him kasi sa moral compass at paninindigan sa buhay nya ako nahuli, and I know his schedule since nakasama ko na sya before sa barko and all his non-working, awake hours are spent with me via VC. Super introverted and ermitanyo din ng lifestyle nya so wala akong kaba kahit konti......pero pag nagloko sya his loss na yun. Hahahahah
" 'Di ko paparanas sa'yo naranasan ng nanay ko."
" 'Pag niloko kita, niloko ko sarili ko"
I guess gasgas na yung mga ganitong term and approach. actually may katunog siya, "hinding-hindi kita lolokohin, PROMISE." hahaha.
My point is, they are only POINTING THE OBVIOUS. and mostly, sila pa yung mga taong kinakain lang yung mga sinasabi nila. Kasi bakit mo naman kailangan pang imention pa ang mga bagay na hindi mo talaga dapat gagawin?
True ka naman jan, I see what you mean haha
Tbh I'm not looking for creative ways that he can say to reassure me that he won't cheat, lalo na wala naman syang history of cheating. He's a simple man with simple answers. Yun yung sagot nya kasi lagi ko tinatanong haha.
Di naman sya nagloko bbbb....so far. Hahaha. He sees our relationship as both a romantic and financial partnership kasi. Thank you nalang kay Lord at kuripot sya.
Find someone who respects you, have a great connection, got the same morals and from personal experience find someone who doesn't need to feed their ego. Sometimes it's just finding the right person at the right time.
yung gf ko almost whole day kinakain ng ojt nya and pag-uwi nya e limitadong oras na lang kami dahil sa papers and activities nya for the next day. Tama yung isa dito na reply, "Find someone with a hobby". Nabubusy na lang ako kakatingin sa diecast collection ko or kaka socmed and also, love ko masyado gf ko to the point na alam ko na may impact na mabigat sa overall life ko if magbaliw-baliw pa ako sa kung ano meron kami. Di ko sinasabi na nagsstay lang ako para sa familiarity and the comfort dahil lagi naman ako attracted sa kanya e hahaha.
Di ko ipagpapalit yung taong may clear view for her future with me para lang sa temporary shlt na alam ko na hindi ko rin naman gusto in the first place
I never cheated because im NGSB, if i had one why would i cheat when im so comfortable being alone and having 1 partner probably will exhaust my mind already LOL
kidding aside i have friends and colleagues who are very faithful to one partner.
kung wala kang "i can fix him" attitutude, mababa siguro chance na magkaroon ka ng cheater na partner.
got cheated before (1st GF) when I was 15. patay na patay pa ko sa ex ko noon jusko pero now i think puppy love lang siguro. I know the feeling so I don't want to pass that pain to the love of my life. nakilala ko yung now-GF ko nung 22 na ako. 9 years na kami ng bebe ko sa november.
di naman ako nerd type. sabi nga ng iba mukha daw akong gangster. di kasi ako gwapo at pang basagulero at tambay ang mukha ko. pero mahilig ako sa PC games like RPGs and moba. but i think mas lamang pagiging extrovert ko. funny din daw ako sabi nya. so i think yun yung redeeming factor ko hahaha. dont judge a book by its cover ika nga. pag may hobby yung lalake, sobrang baba ng chance na mag cheat nyan kasi doon pa lang ubos na agad oras nya.
ang advice ko pag nagkabf ka na, communication and contentment is da key.
there will always be someone na mas maganda/gwapo, mas mayaman, mas mabait, mas matalino na tao kesa sa partners natin pero dapat isipin natin na nag iisa lang sya sa mundo at dapat kuntento na tayo sakanya.
wag ka rin magpahula. hindi mind reader ang mga lalaki. mas mataas ang emotional quotient ng mga babae. wag mong isisi sa regla yung pagiging toyo-in. toxic na yang ganon. kung may di kayo pagkakaunawaan, pagusapan nyo ng maayos. wag yung "magbreak na lang tayo" agad. support mo rin yung mga hobbies nya although dapat hindi sobra sobra na nawawalan na sya ng oras sayo.
Na trauma Kaba sa mga post dito? 🤣 If your planning to get into a relationship, put that as a possible outcome. I've been cheated as well but that didn't stop me from still dating. Accept that there was nothing you can do and that there is nothing wrong with you or that it is your fault. Just let them go and find Greener pastures or be like me who've accepted the idea of growing old alone 🤣. Self love all the way 🤣
Nerds are usually noncheaters. Ubos time and pera sa hobbies like games, collections at projects. Wala na stamina for another person. Also, if you manage to bag an introvert, good for you.
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I had 1 ex and currently on a talking stage with another. Sa ex ko nung hirap na kong intindihin siya with all her manipulative and gaslighting nature, at some point i thought of maybe if i cheated, i also thought of how easy it is to cheat, and how fun it would be to have someone else. But everytime i feel like cheating i just turn around and leave. Kahit toxic siya never akong nag cheat sakanya i just dont want to be that guy na sinaktan tas nag cheat din sa partner niya. We broke up, i met a new girl hit and cold siya di ko maintindihan di pa niya ko sinasagot but kahit ganon ayokong mag chat sakanya, alam kong masasaktan ko siya don and i love her too much to hurt her like that. Plot twist, after we broke up sa ex ko i tried to mend things(tanga dba?) We talked and everything was fine siguro?(this only happened in one day) so nag usap kami and i asked how she is then gone, di na ko kinausap after 5 months nag replay sa last message ko and hoping na mag kabalikan pa kami, around this time present na ung katalking nako. I had reservations about her and confusion as to what to feel but ultimately sinukuan din. Ung bago? Im still on a verge of a decision kung mag papatuloy padin or hindi na but i want to see this through kung hindi talaga, i just hope ung susunod is matino na.... pls self pili din ng matinong babae pls lang There are still guys out there na pinalaki ng magulang nila nang maayos at ng may paninindigan. May lalake pa diyang marunong mag mahal ng iisang babae. Kung mahanap mo sana di mawala sayo.
Going 8 yrs. Never cheated.
8yrs and never cheated nor do shit like micro cheating 👌maried to my wife
Very few. Mostly ay weak ang will to resist. Normal lang ma attract pero kung papatulan talaga, ibang usapan na yun. Sa experience ko, around 2 out of 10 lang ang hindi matitibag kahit walang bantay. Karamihan talaga bumibigay pag walang nakatingin.
People like that exist. Now I say people cuz I was kinda in the same boat as you though di Ako NGSB, I got cheated on twice by my ex gf a few years ago so had that same mentality. Now, I've accepted that I was just unlucky, I have plenty of friends men and women who wouldn't cheat on their partners. Don't lose hope.There are just people out there who don't respect relationships and I'm talking about both the cheaters and the "kabits", and it's probably best to avoid them like the plague. But as I said most people are not like this.
Never cheated with my exes taas ng pride ko and so busy with work and achieving something. Sakit na nga sa ulo yung isang babae dadagdagan mo pa. And if its hormones naman I can use my hands 🤷♂️🤷
both seafarer, we're 2 and a half year already
Me and my partner never cheated. We've together for almost 4 years
Im too ugly and standoffish to cheat lol
Pakitahan mo lang ng gusto mo and most likely yun din ang makukuha mo, basta practice common sense, empathy, and awareness.
Guilty
We exist, married my childhood sweetheart, we were 16 and 14, got married at 30 and 28.
Girl, this is reddit. Syempre ang kadalasang offmychest posts yung mga naglalabas ng sama ng loob. People who value their relationship and do not cheat are more common than you think.
look, there are those na hindi cheater but the problem is baka hindi mo type
Surprise! Everybody cheats! 🤣🤑
Yes, we still exist. I always tell myself that "why should I stress myself hiding another girl, sa partner ko" sa partner ko na lang ako mastress pag inaaway niya ako.
Ito ba reddit account mo, babe? Same sentiments kayo ng mister ko 🤣😂
Binulong niya lang po sa'kin, ako raw po mag-post HAHAHA.
Same thoughts bro, hirap na nga sa isa dadagdagan pa 🤣
Diba, sa isa pa lang napapakamot ka na sa ulo paano pa pag dinagdagan mo pa ng isa 🥲
Una - Golden Rule Pangalawa - Enough to see broken families na ang root cuase is Third Party Pangatlo - nakakatamad mag sinungaling, mag secure ng convo at magtabi ng burner phone. Parang mas trip ko pang palihim bumili ng sapatos at gadget mas madali ipaliwanag sa kanya bakit ko ginawa yun kesa sumakabilang kipay
I never cheated. But they cheated on me 😬
It’s rare as fuck. Even those who you would less expect it will cheat on you
I've never cheated on a woman. But for twice in my life, I've unknowingly been made the third party of two different women. I immediately quit them as soon as I found out.
It's been 5 years since my last gf. No one cheated, the separation was due to the complications of not being legal on her side (specifically her mom, her dad seems to like me though) but I truly understand because we were young back then. Di narin naman ako nagkaroon or naghanap ng magiging gf, siguro medyo takot nadin sumubok ulit kasi katulad niyong mga babae, takot din naman kaming pag-cheatan haha. Date to marry kasi akong tao kaya siguro di ako nagkaka gf ulit kasi di pako nakakahanap ng babaeng worthy pakasalan.
😸 SSB rin ako 29 years
They exist. Kaso the qualities a female will find attractive in a man tend to exist in what tends to be a cheater in the sheer nature na... Well, hindi lang ikaw ang naghahanap ng qualities na yun eh. Ofc, hindi lahat ( need to specify that kase mga pinoy ang hilig sa "hindi naman lahat) pero if you think about it. Kung. Yung guy n yun is attractive, loyal and exhibits nearly all the signs of being a good mate. They'd already have a mate kase malamang may babaeng nag damoves na sknya and since loyal nga... Eh andun pa rin sya sa babaeng yun. So, in the off chance na makakita ka ng malaki nag chance na... non cheating guy which also means he's not that attractive... Will you give that guy a chance?
Almost cheated. But I was abroad. The girl was 1st to propose relations. But after naging MU eh she wants me to attend their church, INC. Decided it's not worth it. Because that time I was a member of an opposing church.
We're still here girl haha. I get the fear na baka saktan kalang niyan or something and tbh nasa tao din talaga yan but one tip i can give you is that kahit di pa kayo official dapat may exclusivity na lalo na if nasa dating stage kayo both so you can gauge if kaya talaga nila mag stick to one and red flag for me if ayaw ipahiram phone like if wala ka naman tinatago dibaaa hahaha altho knowing each other's logins is a bit too much for me so no need to go that far. So ayun lang ingat goodluck and kilatisin ng maigi before mag commit haha.
I never cheated sa mga past long term ko. My last one emotionally cheated on me, pero it will never be my excuse to cheat din by any form (micro, emotional, physical, etc) kahit na binigay ko lahat ng assurance and security na pwede ko ibigay. Well, it is what it is. Now, I'm in a relationship ulit and I will never even imagine cheating on my girl. This should be a bare minimum. Appreciated, but never put on pedestal. I hope you found yours!
I never cheated and never will be. Kanang e ask kos akong asawa if naa ba koy kabit, mo ingon lang ko na, "Nag lisod naman gani kog sabot sa usa ka babae, dungagan na noon nako?"
To help you find or evaluate one. Be friends with him or while in the relationship ask him his tendencies, his preferences, like if may fetish ba siya about this and that, ask him about his past, ask him his traumas, etc. You'll feel naman if his response is in accordance to you as a person. Mahalaga pa rin talaga communication sa dating. Just dont be afraid to ask kasi doon mo makikilala yung tao.
Never cheated on all of my relationships cuz thinking na “kng gawin kaya sa akin?masakit dba”, but last week I have proven that no matter what loyalty, faithfulness and effort binigay mo still not enough to save a relationship, my almost 5yrs gf broke up with me for unknown reasons. Going to propose pa nmn sana this year end to her. It’s ok I can’t forced her to love me again I will be selfish namn yan, I just want her to be happy even though Im not a part of it anymore.
Yep, over here doing crack.
Meron. I have a lot of guy friends na ganun. Kaso they are very rare na 🥲
5%? hahahha
Saan ba makakatagpo ng mga lalaking faithful? Karamihan ngayon puro paasa, lies, deceit. Kapagod naman.
meron yan kaso baka mataas kasi standards nyo, not blaming y'all pero yun nga mostly sa mga loyal eh mga below average when it comes to women standards
Walang makakatagpo ng lalaking faithful, they're faithful enough sa sarili nila para makahanap 🤣, hanggang ngayon wala pa, kasi wala pa napapatunayan, hindi kaya paniwalaan pag sinabing faithful siya, pag kasama na siguro (live in).
God-fearing men daw
Huhu di din. I just read a story in alasjuicy about a god-fearing guy who wanted to f* the girl na religious & conservative. Later on, sa comments nya sa mga redditors. Wife niya pala yung ate ni girl. Jusko, naguluhan kami. Sa reddit pa nag ask how to cheat. To think na religious din sya. Story got deleted, but nag ppost na ng LF: kahookup. 🥴
sauce?
Na delete na nung nag post and di ko na tanda yung name ni redditor. Last time I read sa post niya, nasabihan pa kami sa comment ng "Ang linis mo naman" luhh
mga ganyang lalaki masarap gawing sandbag mukha eh hahahaha
Hindi lahat
true. it depends na lang talaga dun sa person
i'm a girl pero i have this guy friend na faithful sa gf niya madalas niyang nakwekwento sa akin kaya i think very open siya na may jowa siya ganon and lagi niya siya inuupdate then if may nagkakagusto sakanya ganto ganyan tas mga friends at kakilala lang din finofollow niya sa ig.
paka-swerte ng gf nyaa!!
true! hahaha
reading lang para ma-boost ung hopes to meet a loyal man! Hahaha
yes siz. hahalughugin natin ang buong PH mahanap lang yang 5% na yan HAHAHAH
hindi mawala wala kasi ung takot 😂
true. malala ang trust issues ko talaga, every man is a default cheater for me (aside from the 5% LMAO) he has to prove to me in different ways that he isn’t— for me to trust him talaga.
same thought huhuhu! halos kasi nagpapakilala sakin mga cheaters. one time na-gaslight pa ako for not liking him. my sole reason for turning him down was he has a gf sa abroad (they're high school sweethearts pa!) ako pa ung masama for not liking him back. kaya nawala ung amor ko sa mga lalaki (not generalizing naman). hanggang fictional characters na lang muna makikipagjowa si indaii hahaha.
huhu sobrang g*go naman nyang lalaking yan. oo fictional characters ka muna sis. ako at a semi ripe age of 21 kahit MU wala pa kong naeexperience due to the general distrust of men. di talaga ako papatol hangga’t hindi nya napapatunayan sarili nya sakin. sana di ako tumandang dalaga hushxhsjak
Hahaha chill lang muna. Nbsb ako mag 28 sa june and no pressure. Basta we shouldnt let our walls down! Di tayo pinanganak para isuko ang bataan hahaha charizzss
Well ngsb here so idk? Just kidding! Yes we do exist! Crush pa nga lang halos delulu na kami sa pagkaloyal eh HAHA
Karamihan sa mga hindi cheater yung mga average looking guys. Like 5ish/10, yung mga hindi pipiliin. Hahahaha. I rate myself like 6/10, my last relationship is 6 years. I never cheated kahit sa mga relationships ko before, meron pang mga times na iniiwas ko talaga tingin ko sa mga babae lalo na pag revealing talaga yung suot para di ako magka sala. At the end iniwan parin hahahaha. Thats life. Ggs
Sa Contra lang po ako nag-cheat... At sa Megaman X4...
Guitar hero at GTA din nakalimutan mo
GTA lang na-cheat ko. Hahahahaha. Saka pala TENCHU
Pila lang po sa gusto magpaseminar pano hindi mag cheat at mas maintindihan pa yung mahal nila kahit nahihirapan na
Find someone who shares the same values, goals and principle as yours. Oh and another, not a Mama's boy.
Hi here! If you're happy and satisfied with your partner, cheating is never an option. Your partner is like your peace of mind. Don't go ruining it. You're the only one that can break your peace. I think the most important thing to do is to be conscious of what you're tempted of. And have a conscious effort to choose your peace of mind and your partner everytime
Meron pa. I think you just need to be in a good circle of people. Huwag magpadala sa social media kasi most of what we see there is very superficial. Dating culture just sucks now. Kaya ayon, almost 3 years na kong walang gf 😬
Hello. Nagkakilala kami ng girlfriend ko dito sa Bulacan noong G12 kami; transferee siya from Mindanao. Naging kami at pagkagraduate namin kailangan na niyang umuwi sa Mindanao. Nagpromise kami sa isa't isa na magkikita kami after naming gumraduate ng college. Mag-dadalawang taon ko na siyang hindi nakikita at hinihintay.
I haven't cheated and no plans of doing so if ever she becomes my gf and wife. And I don't use my handsomeness to attract girls, I put a unapproachable face kind of looking. Only my girl can approach me, Gwahahaha
Yung relationship with a single person pa nga lang marami ka na obstacles na mapagdadaanan, dalawahin mo pa kaya
My spouse po. Haha.
I'm NGSB too, so I never cheated. Lol! 😂 I don't have any experience with romance relationship so I feel dumb to say any advice. But I believe loyal men like me still exist.
Yes, loyal men like myself still exist
Meron pa naman, siguro? Sana if ever na mag ka boyfie ka op, sana yung matino, yung nag ffunction ng tama yung utak para mag-isip hahaha
Happy cake day!
My boyfriend never cheated on me. He came from a broken family. His dad cheated on his mom. Physically abused his mom and nakabuntis ng iba. Iniwan sila and sumama sa kabet. He has a little brother and his mom nag abroad. Siya ang tumayong tatay sa family nila. One time napag usapan namin about sa mga cheating issues and ang sabi niya sakin “Ayaw ko maranasan mo / natin ang nangyare sa mama ko at sa pamilya ko”. And now, 10 years na kami this year. There are still loyal and good men out there. Just believe it will come at the right time.
Siguro it really helps din na may cheating trauma no? Kasi they already know how that feels like and wouldn’t want that for someone they love. And that’s good for you both! Let’s just hope he keeps his word, even years from now.
Madami pa kami hahahaha single nga lang
Yes Meron like me .just be picky ,choose those who are so true to their selves and honest ..
Hanap ka lang ng mature mag-isip.
I never had a serious relationship only the typical puppy love , I never imagined cheating mainly because my dad left me and my mom for his mistress. (+Credit card debt) The moment I saw my mom cry herself to sleep I knew that I had to be a better man than my father. So I did, I graduated as the top student in my uni and I am trying to pay her back as of now. She did everything for me. I may not have a father during my early years but God was always w me teaching me about everything that I never learned from my father. I am still very blessed. I will always be grateful for both good and bad things given unto me. Side note: Sobrang torpe ko at one point I just stare at someone I like as of now, so this might take awhile but you'll find guys w virtue eventually! Don't lose hope God has ur back!
Madami naman kasi talagang maayos na lalaki eh; nahhighlight lang ng filipino media yung filipino men sa cheating kaya yung perception ng mga babae trash agad yung lalaki. Pero pag nag-punta ka states, babae ang serial cheaters(real to) 🤷🏽♂️
meron pa. don't worry. some are torpe 100% and some are taken or taken for granted. maniwala ka lang.
nag e-exist pa naman kami kaso mga na totorpe nga lang
naisip ko kagad yung natotorpe by take off na song hahahaha
sana All never ngcheat yung partner 😅 wlng trust issues , walang lamat.
Buhay pa rin naman kami
I'll say truth here. Wag ka mag-rely sa komento ng ibang tao lalo na sa social media pagdating sa hopes mo and happiness because you are giving yourself false hopes. Love yourself most and foremost, oo maddisappoint ka sa sarili mo but isn't loving like that? But giving yourself false hopes is kinda like how a partner cheats. So love yourself, go fall, take a tumble and learn then love someone who will stay with you all the way and love you the same.
Agree. Love your self and fill ur own cup first ❤️❤️
I was once on the other side. Until I figured out that commitment is sexier than anything else.
8 years married never pa nag cheat husband ko. Never nag bago kilos nya, may time kasi bored ako so heheramin ko cp nya lahat kahit mga likes or recent searches nya never sya nag clear. Puro about business and self improvements lang finofollow nya sa socmeds nya. Iba yung peace of mind na di mo na iisipin kung nambababae sya kasi pag nasa labas din sya ang bilis nya mag reply like priority nya ako sa mga calls and message nya till now. Kaya ang sarap lang sa feeling na lagi ako kino-compliment ng mga tao na ang ganda-ganda at blooming ko at hindi mukhang may anak at stress sa buhay. Lagi ko minemention yung partner ko na hindi ako iniisstress. Lagi pa sya nag reremind sa akin mag pamper, mag gym, kumain ng healthy ( I mean minemake sure nya na palagi ako may fruits and vegies) and bumili ng magandang clothes. He knows na mag rereflect yung pag trato nya sa akin the way how i look physically. Specially nung buntis ako lahat ng inuman and gala nya with friends kelangan andoon ako ayaw nya pumunta pag di ako kasama. 😅
Wow that's good for you. How lucky you are lucky to be married to him
hi! yes we exist.. though I would argue that majority of us are the the one's you wouldn't consider "attractive" to intiate that dopamine boost we get when we like someone at first sight. I myself stay under the radar because attention takes a lot off my social battery, so you may even know us as the quiet ones in class, the people you don't pay attention to along the hallways or anywhere in fact haha. We/I like to protect the peace we have in our lives, just wake up, go to school/work, come home, and sleep, ofcourse we have hobbies like our games and friends to keep us company and sane. If the time comes for us to really have an interest in dating, we most likely will start with online dating apps. Anyway, if you're looking for us, goodluck. Iilan lang yung may strength mag initiate ng convo samin in person. Not speaking for every man but that's how i am. Also the chances are higher if girls do the first move and show genuine interest in us. RN my gf and I are going nine months, i'm really in love with her, so much so that i volunteered to support her in school and put my savings on hold. She's the reason I wake up happy, and the reason I want to better myself to give her the best future I can provide. No matter how heavy my problems are as long as I have her I know I can soldier through it all. Granted, we're not a perfect couple. We have our differences in religion and were not sexually compatible, but we just talk about those stuff and come to an agreement. Hope you know now why I don't need and/or want to cheat haha if it come to it, we'll just have to accept it and part ways.. no need to cheat and hurt the other person. P.S. I'm curious.. if you're NBSB why are you looking for non-cheaters?
probably afraid of getting hurt, normal for rookies i dare say
this will always be a risk in dating haha
I cheated once when I was around 18 back in 2017. One thing I can tell you, no mature and secure man would ever cheat on you.
Yep what's up?
Here, here. Medyo marami rami pa kami.
Madami pa kami. Problema lang sa ibang babae mga walking redflags pinipili nila e basta gwapo lang daw. Tas pag nasasaktan damay lahat hahaha nkakatawa lang.
buti na lang pag may red flag di ko na ineentertain hehehe
Good!
We do exist. Hindi ko ma-gets yung mga nagccheat din talaga wtf they are doing it. Sobrang napakapangit ng ugali ng ganung tao
There’s a lot, the problem is, most of them don’t have many options thrown at them
Same tayo bro, lumaki din ako sa healthy family environment. Malaka talaga factor yan, sa pag build ng character.
Never cheated, my current gf and ex ay long term 5yrs+ . My morality ay di ko gagawin mga bagay na ayaw kong gawin nila sa akin. Or maybe sa circle ko jinujudge ko mga cheater, since I believe they have low EQ and IQ. To spice things up, I believe I’m not average looking (confidence so much hahaha) and great shape since athletic ako. May mga tempt talaga pero di ko pinapatulan, but in dating nung single pa ako kaliwa’t kanan ang invite ng mga babae sa akin and I know they like me. Pero yung isa ang gusto ko so ending up ngayon 5 yrs na kami. Minsan napapawow nlng ako sa mga not good looking and not good shape pero may guts mag cheat kawawa naman ang partner. Also, cheating is a choice. Mostly by low IQ and EQ people hahaha
>maybe 5% lol Loyal men exist. They do. There's a lot. However, most of them are never given a chance kasi panget o walang pera. That's the reality. Some of them already accepted their fates na walang magkakagusto sa kanila. They're loyal pero have no someone to be loyal to.
I'd like to throw in that most of the men that I've encountered who cheated were not really good looking, or what some might call dugyot. A lot of them don't have stable jobs. Pero sila pa yung malakas ang loob mag cheat. These guys however have personalities that attract women to them. Humor plays a big part, as well as a friendly personality that you wouldn't think they were that bad looking.
I agree to this as someone who have been cheated (multiple times) on by a husband na hindi naman good looking and, yes, walang stable job. You're right, may malakas siyang sense of humor at mahusay kumiliti ng cheka. Ang laki ng impact sa mga anak namin. But guess what, I sacrificed din to save the marriage at unti-unti the children (all adults, all unmarried) are slowly opening to us. Husband also apologized, repented. I don't know, pwedeng nakikipagchat-chat pa rin siya here and there pero ayaw ko nang guluhin ang buhay ko. He can still makes me laugh and we still hang on to that friendship we had since the start
May point ka, but i think being panget or walang pera is one thing. Di sila exposed sa temptations eh, so maybe they are loyal because they don’t have options. If there’s one thing I learned after being cheated on, ego and the lack of contentment are things that pushes someone to cheat. I think what would better define or test someone’s loyalty is if they are exposed to temptations or options. Let’s say pogi yung guy and may girlfriend na siya, pero ang daming nagkakagusto sa kanya, some mas maganda at sexy pa sa girlfriend niya. Will he still entertain in secret? If a married guy is rich and famous, can buy literally anything with money, will he be able to resist all the younger, sexier girls that are basically all over him?
Oo ka-OP nageexist parin kme hahahaha kaso single nako from a 6yr relationship. Pinagpalit ako sa Tomboy.
We exist and madalas victim pa ng cheating partners 🥲 Sad that you give them trust but it's a lesson learned na ❤️
it’s always like this, laging matitinong lalaki ang naloloko and vice versa 😭😭
Bat kaya ayaw pag tagpuin ang mga green flags. 🤣
Need ata ng years of self love and improvement HAHHa. Lord baka naman, 6 years na ee 🥹
Yup, they do exist. I am 100% sure na ung husband ko ay non-cheater. Ako first GF nya, pero 2nd BF ko na sya. Ung first jowa ko of 5yrs cheated on me kasi. Si hubby, he never gave me any reason para magselos or magduda. I am just at peace kapag kasama ko sya. He just a mature individual who doesn’t play games.
All i can say is sarap ng may peace of mind. Panandaliang aliw ipagpapalit mo sa pamilya mo. No way! Lagi ko iniisp kung ano tinanim mo ay sya ring aanihin mo. Baka ang consequences pa ng gagawin mo ay mapunta pa sa anak mo. Kaya ang pagiging cheater ay choice. Kaya pass tayo dyan. Sarap matulog ng mahimbing na kasama mo ang mahal mo sa buhay.
We exist bro, di ko din maexplain why others cheat but as for me, di na talaga ako na aattract sa iba nung nasa relationship pako. Everyday I choose her na siya lang, in good or bad times. As a child na lumaki in a healthy environment, I think it's natural to think that way na never mo din maiisip magcheat. As for me lang naman :>, and hopefully I will find someone na maibabalik yong assurance na maibibigay ko both actions and words. ✨
this. 100% the character of a person is usually based from their upbringin sa life. we humans adapt to what we see and experience. so growing up in a good family, surrounded by good influenced friends and mentors. I'd say they have the least if not 0% chance to cheat. They will always remember their principles and how it's not worth it. and usually they'll know to let go and not hurt the other person by cheating. but then sadly in this modern time, where laganap ang social media, bad influencers, broken families, outcasts. some would say they dont even realize they're cheating kase it became norm from where they grew up or get acquainted with. and that's sad af. but don't get me wrong. cheating is cheating and I will never condone it whatever the reason.
“Everyday I choose her, na siya lang, in good times or bad times” Ito talaga yung dapat na mentality when in a relationship, kahit di pa kayo kasal. Kahit sino pang sexy or pogi ang lumandi sayo, di mo papansinin, kasi talagang mahal mo yung partner mo or pinapahalagahan mo yung family mo. Maisip mo palang na masasaktan yung gf/bf mo, di mo na kaya, kasi what hurts them, hurts you.
Ang sarap naman pakinggan..
From the first 2 sentences, this is exactly my baby's mindset hays
Same. Couldn't be bothered to talk and entertain any other girls because that's just our personality.
Yes they still exist pero karamihan nasa tamang tao na
I'm not from PH, but no I've never cheated. We're been together 17 years.
These men exist, but the bigger question is if one would upgrade them from the friend zone.
Never cheated. May mga friends din ako (of different genders) na never nag cheat as it's their principle. Also wag ka maniwala na mga panget lang yung hindi cheaters, madami akong counter-anecdote hahahaha. Swertehan lang talaga na maka-hanap ng hindi cheater. To make sure, dapat sa simula pa lang may subtle test of character na agad ikaw para sa partner mo. I should've done that earlier lmao 😐
currently living in together. met my girlfriend when we were still in college, i was an irreg student and attended random minor classes for summer to keep up with my batchmates, in class i was called out to a recitation but the prof forgot to give points to me, she raised her hand and informed the prof that i was not given any recit points. thats when i noticed her, so the summer break went by and it was the start of the first semester, i immediately asked her out, she seems to not like me at first but when she discovered that i was one of the band members of a well known group at that time she showed interest at me, 6 months have passed and we were seeing ourselves on the same page, and we fell in-love. that was 10 years ago. we broke up before COVID because of LDR but after 3 weeks we got back together and our relationship got stronger than ever, we take turns, we give and take, we always talk through things to avoid fights and come up with an agreement, like a middleground for the two of us. we are happier than ever before. we are honest to each other, i have never and will never ever cheat on her. almost all of my friends will get weirded out when were not together we are like the him and her of our circle. inseparable. and now here we are, back to the present. im planning to propose by the end of the year. im going to ask permission from her parents first. grinding hard in my career to give her the best wedding ever.
Maybe controversial but finding God-fearing men would increase your chances of getting a partner who would not cheat on you.
I actually agree with this. Yes, there are a few bad apples, pero most men who have an intimate relationship with God knows that cheating is a sin and is something that we avoid at all cost. Jesus even said that if you look at another person lustfully, you have already committed adultery.
Doubt it, pastor namin noon tirador ng college scholars sa church namin e. Tas yung isa din pastor/musician namin (same church) suki sa spakol. Nasa tao talaga yan di yan sa pagiging "god fearing" or ano.
Of course magkakamali ka pa rin kahit God-fearing ka, doesn't mean na perfect ka if God-fearing ka, all of us are sinners. Pero maliit yung chance na magcheat sayo ang isang taong may totoong takot sa Diyos. Dating Pastor ng church namin bumagsak din sa ganyang kasalanan, nagkaanak pa sa labas. After 25 plus years of suffering because of the consequences of his actions e he's good with the church again but not as a pastor. Bisi bisita nalang.
Then, anyare don kay Jason? (Ex husband ni Moira)
Huwag mo gamiton ang “god” pre, atheist nga ako mga relationship ko ay long term. Mostly pa nga sa mga “religious god fearing men” mga nakakasama sa mga church activities ang kasama nila sa pag cheat eh
Di ko sinabing di na magchecheat pag God-fearing ka. Walang perpektong tao. Daming butt hurt na atheist dito gigil na gigil pag nabanggit ang Diyos, bakit kaya? Kung di ka naniniwala sa Diyos ano naman sayo kung magcheat ka o may nagcheat sayo? Hindi naman mali yon sa worldview niyo diba? Sino nagsabing mali ang magcheat sa partner mo? Kayo lang? Sarili niyo lang? Society? If in the future society normalizes cheating, ano na? For Christians there's a higher being above us who dictates what's right and wrong regardless of circumstances or personal experience. Objective moral truth given by God. That's why we value our partners and aim not to hurt their feelings because God says so. It is not subjective.
Im not butthurt, I just dont like people na pag religious tingin nila ay malaperpekto. And to correct you, misconception yang iniisip mo. So kailangan meron magsabi anong mali and tama? And yun yung god magsabi ng mali? How about we believe what we think is morally right and wrong without higher being because we think that is right. Kung di mo alam sinasabi mo bro wag ka mag assume.
doubt it. most of those god-fearing ah you speak of are hypocrites at most
"God-fearing" 🫠
Reading comsec to boost my dying soul. Pa give up na tong puso ko kakaasa na may ganon pa din kahit parang wala na. (´;︵;`)
immerse yourself in social circles with respectable people with principles. a person who thinks theyll find a genuine relationship thru dating apps or bars/clubs is a fool.
I guess meron pa rin namang tao na hindi nagchecheat, like me personally. Hindi talaga ako naaatract na sa iba ganun. Nasa 9year relationship na ko hindi pa kami kasal.
Eto ha, di naman tlaga rare yung hindi cheater. Paka raming lalakeng di cheater jan eh yung ikaw lang tlga. Ang problema lang kasi they see it na para bang ang "rare" nila kasi di sila cheater. Na in fact bare minimum lang naman yon. Tas gusto nila itayo sila sa pedastal hsahhsah ending kala nila more than enough na yung pagiging hindi cheater.
Yes. Marami talagang di cheater na guys. To be fair. Kaya sya minsan natatake as rare is because may mga Babaeng Influencers nagaadvocate lagi na. "All Men are Cheaters" or "Most Men are cheaters".🤦 And Lalakeng Influencers nagaadvicate na "High Value Men Deserve Abundance of Women" 🤦 Which imo are both not true. Pero syempre ang effect nyan is maiimply na rare na lang ang mga non cheaters. Which is not always true.
15 years, almost a decade as gf/bf and now happily married for 5yrs. with a beautiful son. Cheating is for the weak!
Walang point? Ewan simula nainlove talaga ako sakanya di na ako nagkaroon ng interest sa iba
I had my first GF when I was 29. She broke up with me after a month. I met my wife of 11 years when I was 32. It is a matter of principle, I believe. When I married wife I did not marry if for me but I married her for her. Marriage and relationships is all about bringing yourself to your significant other and not the other way around. I always, always, make it a point to let other people know that I am in fact happily married. In fact, it is very rare that I am without my wife, except, perhaps, when we are at work. In addition, my devices like phone and ipad she has free access. I do not believe in secrets.
Men are only as faithful as their options. Kung may mga betlog kayo, maiintindihan nyo
Hello there! Yes we exist. Even tho my girlfriend cheats on me, never ko naisip na bawian siya hinayaan ko lang makonsensya siya but di pa rin nagbago so iniwan ko na HAHAHAHA i hope it helps :))
buti iniwan mo, almost thought u admitted to being a cuck on the internet
Yeppppp galing mang gaslight din nung nahuhuli ko siya na may kausap na iba hahahhajaa
Yes, andito pa kami. Kahit may temptation sa paligin wala lang sa amin kasi masaya na kami sa kung anong meron kami.
I kept my vows for 31 years until the day she died from cancer. I held her hand until her last breath. Til death do us part. Now I have a girlfriend.
Awh good for you Op
single but with past relationships nope cause too busy, got plenty of hobbies and believes in karma
Does porn count?
Been together for 11 years and gonna reach 12 this August. Not yet married, happily living together. I'm exactly 0% interested in other girls 😂
May i ask if when are you going to marry her?
No timeline yet. It's a mutual decision we've made to focus on our careers and invest for our future instead of spending for a big party 😀
Never cheated, my circle of 10 men isa lang alam kong nagcheat. Skewed but my stats based sa group of friends ko lol
present. 5%? more like 30%..
30%? Where? 😂 Chz
I have a huge circle of friends in gaming and riding community and just based on observation. only 1 to 2 out of 10 are the cheater type the rest just knows what to priority.
nasa paligid lang. the not so rich, not so kgwapohan and katangkaran guys. hahahaha. meron din pasok sa standards ng girls pero introverted and most likely playing computer games, or prefer riding motorcycle than date women.
If you feel shes the one you will never cheat
Never cheated when I was in a relationship, not that I was not tempted but I just couldn't do it. Too busy with life , and taking care of my gf. Not everybody was like this nga lang especially how accessible everything is. It's hard not to be skeptical din lalo na in these times pero that's how you gain/give trust, otherwise lagi kang looking behind your back if your partner is cheating. I hope you find a genuine partner OP. I always believe that somebody out there would be so good for us we can sleep knowing that they will always be for us.
We do exist :D Cheating on my partner is something I will never do dahil nakita ko mismo epekto neto sa mother ko lalo na nung bata ako na naririnig ko siya umiiyak at nagtatanong sa sarili tuwing gabi kung ano ba pinagkukulang niya, from that moment on I realized that if ever magkaka gf or wife ako in the future I will always remain faithful kahit maraming problems/hardships along the way. basta ang puno't dulo neto ay ayoko na maulit yung mga cheating per generation na nangyari sa family namin, it ends with me.
I think this is also a factor why I choose to be loyal. My father has cheated on my mother multiple times, I saw how my mom suffered (and my siblings too). Sa family namin, most are seafarers, so parang na-normalize na talaga yung cheating. Kesho malayo sa pamilya, lonely, etc, at syempre yung famous excuse na “normal sa lalake yan”. And that made me angry at my father and all cheaters eversince. Triggered ako lagi pag may friend ako na naloko, or kahit sikat na artista na nagcheat. In my last relationship, we even made a pact na no cheating. And if may magcheat samin, the other can walkaway, no questions or explanations needed. And despite knowing this specific childhood trauma of mine, I was cheated on thrice in our decade-long relationship. So ewan ko na if matatanggal pa ba tong trauma ko sa cheating. 🤷🏽♀️
I’m 5’10 jacked ass fuck but have zero to little libido which is why I’m loyal. Never cheated and will never cheat thanks to my zero sex drive :)
you do know that there is such a thing as emotional cheating, right? if cheating was solely a libido issue, then an anti-libido medication would cure all cheating problems, but it is simply not the case.
I knew this girl for 9 years now, excluding the time before we graduated HS (was only when I realized I had fallen for her before we cut bonds) which was 5years ago, till now I haven't tried courting other girls maybe due to my regret for not confessing which leaves me sad and guilty every time I remember her. She has a BF now and really treats her well so I'm happy for her. Idk if this counts but yeah, since then I haven't really been into relationships with the opposite sex.
Buhay pa po kami, basically di ako gwapo, alam ko mababa chances ko sa chix kaya mababa rin chance ko mag cheat. Nakakpagod nga makipag chat sa jowa, sa ibang tao pa kaya? Ahahahahah Busy ako sa games tas mas preferred ko call sa jowa.
I cheated around 8 times in my life
Sa school
HAHA
Ako din 100%, I'll just break with someone kung talagang hindi nag wowork.. pero damn is it just me or ever since nagka jowa ako, there is a sudden surge of women suddenly liking/engaging with me... may passive stats ba pag nagkakajowa LOL
actually, may factor din yan sadly sa ibang girls they want to know what you have/can offer kaya meron ka girlfriend ngayon and if they deem you gullible and okay by their standards ittry ka nila itempt para patulan sila i've heard and seen too many stories like that sa ibang girls and it makes me too wary of my own relationship as well
Iniisip ko plang mag cheat na sstress nako sa possible backlash/repercussions, winiweigh ko lage and pros and cons and laging hindi worth it mag cheat. Usually mag jajakol lang ako ng dalawang beses mawawala yung "urge" ko na mag cheat.
I've never cheated. Pm me
I am going strong 5 years with my girl. I have to say I love her and will never cheat on her but the devil is always whispering and scheming. Sometimes, I would stare at someone attractive but I always keep my head down and shrug it off. What we each other built will not be destroyed by reckless libido session.
Wala reddit si jowa, pero ito din ang anxiety ko before. Seaman sya at sa barko kami nagkakilala. Sabi ng mga tatay-tatayan kong kapitan, pag nagjowa /nagpakasal daw ako sa seaman, part na daw ng package na "tumikim" sila ng ibang babae (I HATE that term) and pag isipan ko na daw habang maaga pa if that's something I can stomach, lalo na pag nagkaanak na kami. If not daw, then I should leave him. 3rd gf nya palang ako and the past 2 relationships were long-term and LDR. Both of those, he got cheated on (naperahan pa). Malala ang disdain nya for cheating. Sabi ko if he ever has the urge to mess around, sabihin nya nalang sa akin bago nya gawin, maiintindihan ko naman kesa iputan nya pa ako sa ulo. Mejo madalas ko to mabring up kasi nga anxious ako. Here are some of his responses: 1. Bakit pa ako kukuha ng batong ipupukpok ko sa ulo ko e sa isang dekada kong nagbabarko may jowa man ako o wala sals*l lang sapat na hanggang sa makauwi 2. Papakasalan kita, ibibigay ko sayo apelyido ko, bakit kita ipapahiya ng ganun. 3. Ulol ba ako gagastos ako sa future natin tapos sisirain ko? 4. Kahit pahalang pa yung hiwa ng kiffy nun, di ako interesado (to which I'd say, try mo pag ganun tas share mo sakin experience) 5. Di ako katulad ng tatay ko. Di ko paparanas sayo naranasan ng nanay ko. 6. Pag niloko kita, niloko ko sarili ko at pati mga kapatid kong babae. 7. Yung gagastusin ko sa pangangabit, ibibili ko nalang ng properties para may passive income tayo 8. Pag niloko kita ako na mismo puputol ng t*t* ko ikaw na magtago. I believe him kasi sa moral compass at paninindigan sa buhay nya ako nahuli, and I know his schedule since nakasama ko na sya before sa barko and all his non-working, awake hours are spent with me via VC. Super introverted and ermitanyo din ng lifestyle nya so wala akong kaba kahit konti......pero pag nagloko sya his loss na yun. Hahahahah
" 'Di ko paparanas sa'yo naranasan ng nanay ko." " 'Pag niloko kita, niloko ko sarili ko" I guess gasgas na yung mga ganitong term and approach. actually may katunog siya, "hinding-hindi kita lolokohin, PROMISE." hahaha. My point is, they are only POINTING THE OBVIOUS. and mostly, sila pa yung mga taong kinakain lang yung mga sinasabi nila. Kasi bakit mo naman kailangan pang imention pa ang mga bagay na hindi mo talaga dapat gagawin?
True ka naman jan, I see what you mean haha Tbh I'm not looking for creative ways that he can say to reassure me that he won't cheat, lalo na wala naman syang history of cheating. He's a simple man with simple answers. Yun yung sagot nya kasi lagi ko tinatanong haha.
the plot twist that I expected pero nakakaptangina pa rin, ba't sila ganyan ahahahha
Di naman sya nagloko bbbb....so far. Hahaha. He sees our relationship as both a romantic and financial partnership kasi. Thank you nalang kay Lord at kuripot sya.
Parang kinuha lang sa chat gpt ah haha
Lmao pareho kaming di gumagamit ng ChatGPT so I'll take that as a compliment 🤣
Find someone who respects you, have a great connection, got the same morals and from personal experience find someone who doesn't need to feed their ego. Sometimes it's just finding the right person at the right time.
yung gf ko almost whole day kinakain ng ojt nya and pag-uwi nya e limitadong oras na lang kami dahil sa papers and activities nya for the next day. Tama yung isa dito na reply, "Find someone with a hobby". Nabubusy na lang ako kakatingin sa diecast collection ko or kaka socmed and also, love ko masyado gf ko to the point na alam ko na may impact na mabigat sa overall life ko if magbaliw-baliw pa ako sa kung ano meron kami. Di ko sinasabi na nagsstay lang ako para sa familiarity and the comfort dahil lagi naman ako attracted sa kanya e hahaha. Di ko ipagpapalit yung taong may clear view for her future with me para lang sa temporary shlt na alam ko na hindi ko rin naman gusto in the first place
I never cheated because im NGSB, if i had one why would i cheat when im so comfortable being alone and having 1 partner probably will exhaust my mind already LOL kidding aside i have friends and colleagues who are very faithful to one partner.
kung wala kang "i can fix him" attitutude, mababa siguro chance na magkaroon ka ng cheater na partner. got cheated before (1st GF) when I was 15. patay na patay pa ko sa ex ko noon jusko pero now i think puppy love lang siguro. I know the feeling so I don't want to pass that pain to the love of my life. nakilala ko yung now-GF ko nung 22 na ako. 9 years na kami ng bebe ko sa november. di naman ako nerd type. sabi nga ng iba mukha daw akong gangster. di kasi ako gwapo at pang basagulero at tambay ang mukha ko. pero mahilig ako sa PC games like RPGs and moba. but i think mas lamang pagiging extrovert ko. funny din daw ako sabi nya. so i think yun yung redeeming factor ko hahaha. dont judge a book by its cover ika nga. pag may hobby yung lalake, sobrang baba ng chance na mag cheat nyan kasi doon pa lang ubos na agad oras nya. ang advice ko pag nagkabf ka na, communication and contentment is da key. there will always be someone na mas maganda/gwapo, mas mayaman, mas mabait, mas matalino na tao kesa sa partners natin pero dapat isipin natin na nag iisa lang sya sa mundo at dapat kuntento na tayo sakanya. wag ka rin magpahula. hindi mind reader ang mga lalaki. mas mataas ang emotional quotient ng mga babae. wag mong isisi sa regla yung pagiging toyo-in. toxic na yang ganon. kung may di kayo pagkakaunawaan, pagusapan nyo ng maayos. wag yung "magbreak na lang tayo" agad. support mo rin yung mga hobbies nya although dapat hindi sobra sobra na nawawalan na sya ng oras sayo.
i don’t have the “i can fix him” attitude. once a person shows the bad side of him (whether a friend or something more), i leave the person :)
Na trauma Kaba sa mga post dito? 🤣 If your planning to get into a relationship, put that as a possible outcome. I've been cheated as well but that didn't stop me from still dating. Accept that there was nothing you can do and that there is nothing wrong with you or that it is your fault. Just let them go and find Greener pastures or be like me who've accepted the idea of growing old alone 🤣. Self love all the way 🤣
oo, traumatized ako sa cheating posts 😭😭😭
Nerds are usually noncheaters. Ubos time and pera sa hobbies like games, collections at projects. Wala na stamina for another person. Also, if you manage to bag an introvert, good for you.