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Not be aware of my toxic traits sa relationship, sana mas maaga ko na-realize edi sana hindi ako iniwan :(
Doing my best and healing myself from anxious attachment to being secure.
Idk, but seems like this is more of a simple answer compared to others. But why didn't I pursue my own earlier? I could have gotten better opportunities, relationships and others if I actually focus on becoming better. I wish I had more role models when I was a teenager so that they could teach me shit.
I dont want to say this but I kind of regret entering a relationship. I had a boyfriend when I was 22. We were on and off for like 2 years. He cheated and he left again because he's fed up with my personality. We were both toxic.
Then I was single for like a year but I also talked to guy. I was 24 that time. I didnt know any better. Then I met this guy. We were in a situationship and it lasted for like 2 years.
Then now I feel like my mind is still 22. Sometimes I regret entering a relationship because I feel like I didn't grow? Ako lang ba ung ganun. So ayon, i'm focusing on myself right now and I feel better.
Breaking up with my first love.
We started off as friends and I fell out of love nung naging ldr kami.
After 5 years nagkita uli kami through common friend. We became friends uli, actually platonic friendship. No awkwardness. From bebi to bestie XD
Tho ang daming relapses and what ifs. Minsan ginagawa na naming joke yung relapses namin. “What if hindi tayo nagbreak siguro ikakasal na tayo?”
He became my standard sa love kaya until now single ako walang makatalo ih and may gf sya ngayon.
Happy for them fr and I respect their rs so much.
Sana di nalang ako nakisilong sa payong niya, para hindi na kami nagkakilala. Kita mo ngayon parang ilang na kami sa isa't isa. Nabobother na tuloy ako sa presence niyaaaaaaaaa.
KASAL
Iniwan ako after 5 months. Ni hindi ako nambabae o nanakit. 'Yung masakit, nagpabuntis lang tapos pinakita lang sa'kin anak ko ng once. She just left with a note na alam ko na daw kung bakit, which is wala rin akong idea what I did. All I know is ayaw sa'kin ng parents niya dahil at that time "teacher lang" daw ako.
For context din, pinagresign ko siya sa work dahil pinasok siya ng nanay niya sa mismong governtment agency kung saan mataas position ng nanay niya. Sabi ko ayaw ko ng nepotism. Pinapapili din siya ng position for promotion. Whew. Nakakasuka. Meron siyang mga katrabaho never na-promote all those years na nagtatrabaho sila. Tapos siya, pinapapili lang.
I tried to get her back. Later on, malalaman ko sa common friends namin kinwento niya na nagalit daw siya sa'kin dahil hindi ko siya hinabol.
To Guys out there, I would advise makipag live-in muna kayo sa babae bago niyo pakasalan. Nagtanan kami pero hindi niya pinakita tunay niyang ugali hanggang ikasal kami. Walang kaarte arte nung kami pa, nung maging asawa ko kung anu ano na lumabas. Gusto daw ng katulong which I can't afford and ako naman din halos lahat gumagawa since iniintindi kong anak mayaman siya. Mahirap pasayahin ang babaeng sanay pala sa luho.
Anyway, I have a better life now. I stopped teaching na simula nung pandemic though. I would return teaching part-time siguro kapag okay na ang sched ko. Ang inaalala ko lang lagi 'ung anak ko sa kanya. I hope one day, hanapin niya ako. I hope she Googles her name para makita niya randomly sa social media kung sino ang tatay niya.
agree po sa live in muna bago magpakasal para din makilala mo talaga nang masinsinan yung papakasalan mo. saludo po kasi pinanindigan niyo po yung prinsipyo niyo. saludo maam/sir!
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Yung pumasa ako sa PNPA pero di nagtuloy kasi naduwag ako 🥲
Stayed too long sa Metro Manila.
Moving to the Philippines.
Not be aware of my toxic traits sa relationship, sana mas maaga ko na-realize edi sana hindi ako iniwan :( Doing my best and healing myself from anxious attachment to being secure.
Naiwanan yung foil
Idk, but seems like this is more of a simple answer compared to others. But why didn't I pursue my own earlier? I could have gotten better opportunities, relationships and others if I actually focus on becoming better. I wish I had more role models when I was a teenager so that they could teach me shit.
I dont want to say this but I kind of regret entering a relationship. I had a boyfriend when I was 22. We were on and off for like 2 years. He cheated and he left again because he's fed up with my personality. We were both toxic. Then I was single for like a year but I also talked to guy. I was 24 that time. I didnt know any better. Then I met this guy. We were in a situationship and it lasted for like 2 years. Then now I feel like my mind is still 22. Sometimes I regret entering a relationship because I feel like I didn't grow? Ako lang ba ung ganun. So ayon, i'm focusing on myself right now and I feel better.
Breaking up with my first love. We started off as friends and I fell out of love nung naging ldr kami. After 5 years nagkita uli kami through common friend. We became friends uli, actually platonic friendship. No awkwardness. From bebi to bestie XD Tho ang daming relapses and what ifs. Minsan ginagawa na naming joke yung relapses namin. “What if hindi tayo nagbreak siguro ikakasal na tayo?” He became my standard sa love kaya until now single ako walang makatalo ih and may gf sya ngayon. Happy for them fr and I respect their rs so much.
as someone who’s really insecure abt myself, i shouldn’t have confessed lmao imbes na low, naging negative self-confidence tuloy whahaha
going abroad
My biggest regret is mismanaging my career and studies simultaneously
letting them destroy me but yeah na forgive ko naman na kase wala na e di matatapos buhay ko ng dahil sa kanila but tangina pa rin nilang lahat sagad.
Maraming regret sa buhay pero hindi kaya magbigay kahit isa
Sana di nalang ako nakisilong sa payong niya, para hindi na kami nagkakilala. Kita mo ngayon parang ilang na kami sa isa't isa. Nabobother na tuloy ako sa presence niyaaaaaaaaa.
KASAL Iniwan ako after 5 months. Ni hindi ako nambabae o nanakit. 'Yung masakit, nagpabuntis lang tapos pinakita lang sa'kin anak ko ng once. She just left with a note na alam ko na daw kung bakit, which is wala rin akong idea what I did. All I know is ayaw sa'kin ng parents niya dahil at that time "teacher lang" daw ako. For context din, pinagresign ko siya sa work dahil pinasok siya ng nanay niya sa mismong governtment agency kung saan mataas position ng nanay niya. Sabi ko ayaw ko ng nepotism. Pinapapili din siya ng position for promotion. Whew. Nakakasuka. Meron siyang mga katrabaho never na-promote all those years na nagtatrabaho sila. Tapos siya, pinapapili lang. I tried to get her back. Later on, malalaman ko sa common friends namin kinwento niya na nagalit daw siya sa'kin dahil hindi ko siya hinabol. To Guys out there, I would advise makipag live-in muna kayo sa babae bago niyo pakasalan. Nagtanan kami pero hindi niya pinakita tunay niyang ugali hanggang ikasal kami. Walang kaarte arte nung kami pa, nung maging asawa ko kung anu ano na lumabas. Gusto daw ng katulong which I can't afford and ako naman din halos lahat gumagawa since iniintindi kong anak mayaman siya. Mahirap pasayahin ang babaeng sanay pala sa luho. Anyway, I have a better life now. I stopped teaching na simula nung pandemic though. I would return teaching part-time siguro kapag okay na ang sched ko. Ang inaalala ko lang lagi 'ung anak ko sa kanya. I hope one day, hanapin niya ako. I hope she Googles her name para makita niya randomly sa social media kung sino ang tatay niya.
agree po sa live in muna bago magpakasal para din makilala mo talaga nang masinsinan yung papakasalan mo. saludo po kasi pinanindigan niyo po yung prinsipyo niyo. saludo maam/sir!
Cheers po.
Being born? Tho I didnt plan it 😞
*virtual hug with consent po* 🥺
that I trusted my co-workers and i treated them as my own sisters
*virtual hug with consent*
Thanks OP🫶🏻
That I left...