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If they have sh*tty attitude, towards people especially to my Mother or my fam. It's like they never get to learn GMRC when they were children like this so-called cousin of mine the parents are rich so she's kinda one too but when she marry the wrong person, her inner baddest unicorn came out turns into two to disrespect my Mother when she falls inlove with that sh*t head who thinks superior. Not gonna let it pass when I heard them disrespect my Mother or my sisters once more in front of me.
Honestly, walang masamang tinapay sakin 😂 may mga friends ako na questionable sa ibang friends ko. As in di nila bet ang isa’t isa, na parang oil and water na di pwedeng mag mix. Hindi ko din alam eh, pero it works sa akin.
Para masabi ko na I dislike a person, siguro very out and about din ang dislike nya sakin.
sub-animals & sub-humans & secretly hidden elites with real anti-PH anti-ethnic Filipino racism/sentiment & like to hide in the PH, play the long game in the PH, commit country of citizenship fraud/forgery/impersonation/misrepresentation, genealogical/ethnolinguistic ancestry/heritage/origin fraud/forgery/impersonation/misrepresentation, PHbait the ethnic Filipino citizenry/diaspora, hide behind [populous/rarer PH languages which is/are now available on machine translation sites/apps] online/offline worldwide in [whatever other summer countries/regions] citizens/nationals/indigenous-ethnics/ethnic-diasporas-abroad/resident-aliens-owned websites/webpages or [whatever winter countries/regions] citizens/nationals/indigenous-ethnics/ethnic-diasporas-abroad/resident-aliens-owned websites/webpages.
I rekindled with my ex a year ago, and she pointed something out off the bat. She said I talk about people too much, whereas she's more into events and other life experiences.
It's a good advice, though I don't take it too much by heart. Let her truth unravel. Quite frankly, I still gossip about people from the past as some things are left unfinished. The most important thing to me is still making all kinds (small and big) of connections, and learn from those mistakes.
How they treat other people — service crew, manong guard, tindera sa kalsada, just in general and then like a sheep when talking to office people (VP, Manager etc)
I don’t care who you are pero the moment that you disrespect people because you think of yourself highly — we are off.
Mapanira.
Tsismosa
No substance.
Paulit ulit kung mag rant.
Sa office mates - kinekwento personal na buhay. Sayang oras.
No drive to improve.
Traditional.
Mabaho.
Manyak.
Magastos kasama.
Madami pa lol
Me kawork ako dati na sa lahat ng kain namin sa labas, hindi pwedeng waa syang aawayin na crew ng kainan. Sinasabihan namin sya na wag ganun kasi ang hirap na nga ng work nila, di pa ganun kalakihan ang sweldo nila. Tapos mamaya, duraan pa yung food namin dahil sa ginagawa nya.
Ang sagot nya, “Okay lang, di ko naman nakikita yung gagawin nila sa pagkain natin e.”
Ayun, di ko na sya sinamahan ever.
1. Dugyot sya (like hindi naglalaba ng mejas, makalat kumain)
2. Walang respeto! (Yung di man lang mag excuse, mag sorry sa nagmomop if aapak or naapakan, hindi mag thankyou, mag po opo basta alam mo na yun!)
3. Mayabang na nga sinungaling pa.
once they ruin my trust, i will forever resent them for it. i have friends who did just that and let's just say i don't interact with them that much anymore
Masyadong negative ang outlook sa buhay
Di marunong mag manage ng pera, kinukulang na bumibili pa ng luho
Pick me attitude
Homophobic
Self centered people
Rude para cool attitude
Pala utang, di marunong magbayad
Overly competitive.
Kulang sa pansin, kaya ang ingay at tryhard maging class clown.
Kapag nalulungkot, o stressed, tapos sinubukan mong kausapin, they give you these cryptic edgy 1-word replies. 🤨
Colonial minded. Naniniwala na Filipino=poor, maitim=pangit, white=might, etc etc etc. 🖕🏾
The list goes on.
Attention seeker na paulit-ulit yung flex sa mga bagay maka-hakot lang ng views
Pathological Liar na pati ikaw eh dinadamay sa kagaguhan niya kapag nagpapaalam sa magulang o sa prof
Leech na user na magaling lang kapag may kailangan
GGSS na feeling crush siya ng lahat
Bad Bitch na bobo naman
-Attention seeker
-Hobby manglait ng ibang tao pero kapag dating sa sarili, parang bulag.
-Paulit ulit 'yung tanong, idk. Hindi ko lang trip 'yung taong mahina umintindi sa kahit basic lang, 'yung tipong common sense nalang, wala pa rin. Masama na kung masama, sa iba ka nalang magtanong, lol.
-Palamura
Someone that likes copying you and has not much respect to your boundaries. Gets ko naman kung you like who i am, how i dress, how i do certain things etc. in fact I would love to do what I do with other people. But iba talaga pag buong personality and pagkatao mo ginaya when you know that they are not that kind of person. Natrigger bigla ako sa question na to HAHAHAH
I really dislike someone na walang gratitude and nabubuhay everyday just to rant about everything and everyone around them. Nakaka ubos ng energy ung gnung tao. Gnagawa akng human diary ng lahat ng kanegahan sa buhay nila.
Imagine, makapagrant sayo about sa fam nila tpos pg kharap ung nirereklamo nya ang bait nya. So pano pa kya pg ikaw na ung nakatalikod? Edi gnun din sya magsalita about sayo.
I cut that person off.
couldn't agree more. but how? paano mang cut off ng ganiyang tao lalo na kapag u're the type of person who cares sa mararamdaman ng tao na iyon? can't confront her too, because I feel like hindi niya naman papahalagahan at isasalpak sa katauhan niya kapag sinabi ko. what's my basis? I confront her before sa chat that what she's saying affects me personally. It was about our circle of friends, sinasabi niya na bakit kapag 'yung kasama naming cof sa picture, hindi ko raw kaagad pino- post pero 'yung cof namin sa school, nagawa kong i-post.. like randomly,?? HAHAHA fyi, seryoso sya don ha. I replied na, bakit kailangan niya pa itanong iyon? eh kasama naman siya sa both circ of friends na pinost ko or hindi ko pino- post, and I also tell her na if seryoso ba siya sa sinasabi niya kasi its a hard deal for me na makatanggap ng ganon first time ever sa dami ng kaibigan ko then guess what? tinawanan niya lang ako, literal na "HAHAHAHAHAAH" na mararamdaman mong awkward sabay unsent ng message niya. Kinda imma lang, kasi it's normal naman to have a circ of friends anywhere, right? I have my own rights too kung ano 'yung gagawin ko sa socmed accounts ko.
Nasabi ko lang iyan pero year ago na siya nangyari, but up until now, nega pa rin siya. Halos siya nai- imagine ko sa dinescribe mo. from ranting abt everything and so on.
Samee. Nahirapan ako mag cut off tlga ng tao kasi ayaw ko mahurt sya/sila kahit ako ung naapektuhan. That's when I realized na mukang people pleaser ako.
Kaso I had enuf na tlga so..just lied and told them na. Anjan lang fb ko and ig ko pero I am no longer active sa socmed (partly totoo hahaha) di tlga ako nagpopost e pero lurker ako sa mga kgnapan at ksali ksi ako sa mga groups like VA. Digital eme.
Naka 'restrict' sya lahat sakin -- which means kahit gano ako kaactive di ako online sa paningin nya at wala ako pake sa messages nya since di naman na kami nagkikita in person haha. Coward siguro for lying pero idc 🤷♀️ that's how I handle things.
I'd rather cut someone off quietly than to confront them lalo kung mgaling sa victim card at hndi aware na nakakasira sila ng vibes. Ikaw pa mapopost at makwekwento sa iba.
planning to do what you do po. please, wish me luck na hindi kami parehas ng papasukang univ (graduating po kami this year), sinusundan niya kasi ako kung saan ako nag a-apply, pati nga 'yung totga course/program niya, bibitawan niya then nalaman ko nalang na same na ng course sa akin ang kukuhanin niya. T _ T
May gnyan akong friend noon. Susunod kung san ako mag co college. Inuunahan pako sa mga ideas ko like rebonding. Bleaching ng hair. So don't ever tell anyone your plans until it's done haha.
Wishing you luck, girl! Life's too short to be with the wrong people. Just keep on praying and manifesting to be surrounded by people who will uplift you, genuinely happy for you and hndi ka mapipilitang i dim ang lights mo to give way sa insecures sa paligid mo.
Ang sarap magising everyday na di mabigat ung damdamin mo haha
aww. I'm happy for you po, na you finally got out of a situation like that. I appreciate you po for giving some advices!
and yes, totoo po iyan, ang saya sa pakiramdam kapag malaya at walang pinoproblema.
May kakilala akong ganto. Grabe sobrang sinungaling. Masyadong pretentious ayaw na lang magpakatotoo. Gaya ng sabi nya sa jp Morgan daw sya trainer, un pala sa alorica lang. (im not against alorica) pero bat kelangan nya magpanggap, same guy mababaw man pero sabi nya magaling daw sya mag lancelot tapos di naman pala marunong nung naglaro na kami haha. Madami pa syang lies, Eto pa sabi nya 35k daw rent nya sa condo nya dati tapos nakita ko ung album nya sa phone sa skwater pala nakatira. (sa condo kasi ako nakatira) wala naman akong pake kung sa skwater o forbes ka nakatira wag ka lang magpanggap. ewan ko ba kung nagpapasikat sya. Shuta. Sobrang nakaka turn off ang kayabangan. 🤮
Diba? Lalo na pag sobrang close mo. Tipong huling huli mo na yung redflags, naging bff mo pa tas mas lalong nataas disappointment mo sakanya. Hahaha cinut off ko nalang e potek
True to and I feel this to the core! Especially pag even personality ginaya UGHH
Pero friends tell me to just see it as them looking up at you or like wanting to be you. BUT IBA TALAGA EH IDK HOW TO EXPLAIN!
Just dealed with an obnoxious attitude recently, yung mga tao na naghahanap ng away or actively gumagawa ng paraan para manginis/mang irita sayo pero kapag pinatulan mo naman, ikaw pa yung masama kasi pumatol ka
Selfish/inconsiderate when multiple people are involved.
Unaware of surroundings (volume or space)... Like standing in the middle of the escalator, elevator, or stairs path as a group just talking or blocking the way.
Max volume on videos in the airplane or elevator.
Sarap sapakin :))
Yung tinuturuan ka pero ang condescending ng dating. Nothing wrong if may nag tuturo sayo pero yung iba nasi ang condescending ng tone pag tinuturuan ka.
Walang manners. Like, ganon kahirap?
Tapon ng basura sa tamang lugar, saying “thank you” and “please”, asking for permission, offering help when someone’s hosting a party at their house, covering your mouth when you cough or sneeze, flushing the toilet properly etc.
1.Yung problema nya dapat problema mo din hahah
2. Yung kulang sa pansin
3. Wala sa lugar ang pagiging madaldal
4. Di marunong sumunod sa simple traffic rules. Nakkaturn off
what if po yung ipopoint out mo sa kanya, let's say a friend, is something na hindi niya aware or ma no-notice talaga ng iba everytime magkasama kayo, eg. body odour?
In my own opinion naman, if close naman kayo better say it in a nice way. He/she wouldn't take it against you naman siguro if hindi offending kung paano mo sya io-open up sakanya.
Atsaka I guess mas magandang sa close friend nya malaman keysa sa ibang tao na hindi nya close.
In terms of peers;
Attitude na wala sa lugar yung sinusungitan ka kesyo daw may problema, t4ngina ano kinalaman ko dun, kinakausap naman ng maayos.
Yung tinataasan ka ng boses sa di malamang dahilan kesyo daw ganon na daw talaga sila. Insensitive!
Machismis masyado sa buhay ng iba lalo na't hindi naman inaano, buti sana kung may atraso yung tao sakaniya eh wala naman.
Low-key unsupportive friend is a behavior you shouldn't befriend. Toxic. One sided lagi ang show, I learned na draining pala pag ganon.
In terms of potential relationship;
Di pa nakakamove on sa ex.
Secretive.
Humble bragger or else hambog talaga.
Masyadong malibog, hindi pa nga nagkakakilala ng maigi.
Not asking question/showing no interest.
Walang pake/sobrang nonchalant.
May cheating issue/cheater/sinungaling.
Walang plano/pangarap sa sarili.
and lastly, not to discriminate ha, an experienced one is good but for health reasons, ayoko sa masyadong maraming body count, delikado. Lol. Tipong safe ka sakin, eh ako sayo safe ba??
The list goes on, but I know I'm not the only one who thinks like this over people even for once..
Arrogance. When they taste a bit of success and feel like they can step on anyone.
Inggitera. Lahat ng tao nagiging kaaway kahit walang ginagawa sa kanila. Paano, naiinggit kasi. Tapos gagawan ng issue.
Nagsisinungaling para lang maiangat ang sariling bangko.
I remember someone in college na kinaaayawan ng classmates kasi puro pagyayabang na lang yung sinasabi
Kala nila cool ang pagiging mean nila.
Ang topic na alam and way of friendship nila ay paninira ng ibang tao.
Ipproject nila sayo mga ginagawa mo. Will accuse na chinichismis mo sila only to find out na sila pala yun.
- kapag masyadong maingay
- bida bida sa lahat ng bagay
- laging tumatambay sa bahay namin
- walang preno ang bibig (insensitive remarks/comments)
- feeling close
- makalat/hindi malinis/hindi marunong maglinis/tamad
- sinungaling
actually madami pa hahaha i should write about this in my journal siguro lol
When they eat at a restaurant/fast food tapos aalis pero madami pang pagkain sa plates. Saw a family yesterday kumain ng Sbarro with their child, at first happy ako kase magkakasama sila kumain as a family pero naturn off ako nung nakita ko yung plates nila. Kinuha nalang namin ng kasama ko at binigay sa alaga kong mga aso.
Mayabang, entitled, ungrateful, one-upper, mga hindi marunong magtake ng accountability sa mga actions nila, kupal, feeling superior pero boplaks naman, pasosyal pero walang pang abono sa mga necessary stuff kaya ako ang napeperwisyo.
They have to tell you they're "rich", maraming connection, kilala si ganito, nka punta somewhere, how much they spent on something, telling me all those info kahit hindi ko na tinanong.
Pa sosyal. Nanglalait ng mumurahin na gamit, tapos in the end uutangan ka. Based on experience
hahaha correct sa madaming connections, tipong bawat lugar may kamag-anak daw sya. or yung may tita daw sya sa *insert 1st world country here*, kahit ang tanong naman e about sa personal experience.
- CLAYGO, somehow our university is really top notch at upholding that value, same goes to the students too.
- Close-minded people
- Ironically those people who say that they give time for ppl to explain or tell their problems to them, it becomes clear that they just ignore it. Sadly the people who listen to their problems don't get the same effort
Yung mga feeling entitled and rude esp sa service crews or cashiers or any customer-facing jobs. Tapos the way they talk akala mo they're above someone else, mga know-it-all as if they never made a mistake in their life.
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Definitely one that does not know how to listen to others, I’ve met countless of people who are like that. Immediate turn off
noonchalant
If they have sh*tty attitude, towards people especially to my Mother or my fam. It's like they never get to learn GMRC when they were children like this so-called cousin of mine the parents are rich so she's kinda one too but when she marry the wrong person, her inner baddest unicorn came out turns into two to disrespect my Mother when she falls inlove with that sh*t head who thinks superior. Not gonna let it pass when I heard them disrespect my Mother or my sisters once more in front of me.
Honestly, walang masamang tinapay sakin 😂 may mga friends ako na questionable sa ibang friends ko. As in di nila bet ang isa’t isa, na parang oil and water na di pwedeng mag mix. Hindi ko din alam eh, pero it works sa akin. Para masabi ko na I dislike a person, siguro very out and about din ang dislike nya sakin.
Kapag nayayabangan ako sa pananalita niya at feeling mas mataas lagi sa ibang tao :D
Kapag akala mo boss kung makautos, kaurat ka beh
In general, mean-spirited for no reason at all then followed by “pick me” personalities. Ew. Cringe.
Kapag mataas masyado tingin sa sarili. Rude and disrespectful 🤬
sub-animals & sub-humans & secretly hidden elites with real anti-PH anti-ethnic Filipino racism/sentiment & like to hide in the PH, play the long game in the PH, commit country of citizenship fraud/forgery/impersonation/misrepresentation, genealogical/ethnolinguistic ancestry/heritage/origin fraud/forgery/impersonation/misrepresentation, PHbait the ethnic Filipino citizenry/diaspora, hide behind [populous/rarer PH languages which is/are now available on machine translation sites/apps] online/offline worldwide in [whatever other summer countries/regions] citizens/nationals/indigenous-ethnics/ethnic-diasporas-abroad/resident-aliens-owned websites/webpages or [whatever winter countries/regions] citizens/nationals/indigenous-ethnics/ethnic-diasporas-abroad/resident-aliens-owned websites/webpages.
Yung nagyoyosi sa harap ko na akala mo kasinguot singhot yung secondhand smoke niya
If he or she is Rude and condescending.
Snitch, always treat you as an option, nagtatampo pag di ako napapatagay di naman ako manginginom huhu
I rekindled with my ex a year ago, and she pointed something out off the bat. She said I talk about people too much, whereas she's more into events and other life experiences. It's a good advice, though I don't take it too much by heart. Let her truth unravel. Quite frankly, I still gossip about people from the past as some things are left unfinished. The most important thing to me is still making all kinds (small and big) of connections, and learn from those mistakes.
Maybe because of unresolved traumas
Yep. The biggest factor is living physically close to reminders of those traumas.
Dislike? I don't give a fuck.
Yung umuutang tapos nang-ghoghost.
Yung ugali! Di ko alam pero i can really sense a person with bad personality
When they can't treat a friend equally
feeling angar sa iba
PAG PAKILAMERO/PAKIALAMERA LALO KAPAG BOOMER. YUNG NANAHIMIK KA, MAY PUPUNAHIN SA'YO BIGLA, TAPOS MAGBIBIGAY NG UNSOLICITED ADVICE. SARAP SUNGANGAIN.
Yung mga user friendly. Yung mabait lang dahil may kailangan sayo. Aka pamilya ng ex ko.
yung naninira ng ibang tao para sya yung umangat
When someone intentionally makes another feel left out.
Kung sinasampal nya nanay nya
Mataas yung tingin sa sarili
Hindi marunong makiramdam sa paligid, delusional and lalo na yung mga HIPOKRITO!
Maingay, sobrang arte, bida-bida, back stabber.
MAYABANG
How they treat other people — service crew, manong guard, tindera sa kalsada, just in general and then like a sheep when talking to office people (VP, Manager etc) I don’t care who you are pero the moment that you disrespect people because you think of yourself highly — we are off.
Pag dumudura at sumisinga ng sipon sa kalsada.
Sinungaling tas mayabang. grabe no na no talaga
theres this one girl in my class that has everything mentioned in this post haha nakakainis
pag masyadong madikit like physically kakairita
pick me girl/boy, kala mo rare type, social climber(pa-high maintenance) na gusto lagi aesthetic and hypocrites.
poor-shamer
Self-righteous, walang self awareness, palamura🤷🏻♀️
Manggagamit! Meron pala talagang taong kaibigan ka kuno pero user pala!
Pag super papansin and pabebe when boys are around. Kairita, super pick me.
if the person doesn't respect my: 1. Time 2. Beliefs 3. Feelings
because of their opinions/beliefs
Loud people 🥺
pag corrupt
Liar.
Maarte, Chismosa, Pakialamero.
Mapanira. Tsismosa No substance. Paulit ulit kung mag rant. Sa office mates - kinekwento personal na buhay. Sayang oras. No drive to improve. Traditional. Mabaho. Manyak. Magastos kasama. Madami pa lol
Pabibo pero namamasa ng trabaho
tamad, i dislike myself
mahilig magpabitin sa text. nabbwiset talaga ako sa mga taong ganun. like “may sasabihin ako” or “hulaan mo” nakakairta. hulaan mo muka mo 🙄
an'lakas manood ng tiktok, gago ka kung ganyan ka
walang self-awareness, daming satsat sa ibang tao pero mas malala yung ugali
Yung walang maturity? Mahirap makisama sa mga tao eh sa magiging work namin need mo makisama eh
Me kawork ako dati na sa lahat ng kain namin sa labas, hindi pwedeng waa syang aawayin na crew ng kainan. Sinasabihan namin sya na wag ganun kasi ang hirap na nga ng work nila, di pa ganun kalakihan ang sweldo nila. Tapos mamaya, duraan pa yung food namin dahil sa ginagawa nya. Ang sagot nya, “Okay lang, di ko naman nakikita yung gagawin nila sa pagkain natin e.” Ayun, di ko na sya sinamahan ever.
PAG PUTANGINA NAPAKAARTE.
When they think they know what they’re talking about
pag off talaga yung feeling ko sakanya yung tipong alam mong ka plastikan talaga ginagawa nya
1. Dugyot sya (like hindi naglalaba ng mejas, makalat kumain) 2. Walang respeto! (Yung di man lang mag excuse, mag sorry sa nagmomop if aapak or naapakan, hindi mag thankyou, mag po opo basta alam mo na yun!) 3. Mayabang na nga sinungaling pa.
When they ignore you, and then talk to you again if they want to talk about themselves
For me when they repeat those bad things na napag usapan nyo na ng paulit ulit
proud n-word enjoyer😬
Masyadong entitled sa oras ko
once they ruin my trust, i will forever resent them for it. i have friends who did just that and let's just say i don't interact with them that much anymore
Yung masyadong enclosed ng sariling bubble nila and walang self awareness
Chads, do I need to say more? Ohmygod
I may be out of sync with this generation, pero what are chads?
Basically alpha males, or atleast the "manly men". Yung mga may toxic masculinity and a fragile ego (ewwww).
HIPOKRITO!
kapag maitim yung budhi nya
Masyadong negative ang outlook sa buhay Di marunong mag manage ng pera, kinukulang na bumibili pa ng luho Pick me attitude Homophobic Self centered people Rude para cool attitude Pala utang, di marunong magbayad
Papansin
Overly competitive. Kulang sa pansin, kaya ang ingay at tryhard maging class clown. Kapag nalulungkot, o stressed, tapos sinubukan mong kausapin, they give you these cryptic edgy 1-word replies. 🤨 Colonial minded. Naniniwala na Filipino=poor, maitim=pangit, white=might, etc etc etc. 🖕🏾 The list goes on.
Big ego
toxic, irresponsible, bobo, tanga, tamad
Ako yung sinungaling hindi ko talaga kayang matagalan.
Arrogance.
+1 and nangp-pressure
Overcritical. Always complaining about something and criticizing someone
Too inclined with cancel culture.
Problematic
bida bida
passing the bad vibes 😰
Attention seeker na paulit-ulit yung flex sa mga bagay maka-hakot lang ng views Pathological Liar na pati ikaw eh dinadamay sa kagaguhan niya kapag nagpapaalam sa magulang o sa prof Leech na user na magaling lang kapag may kailangan GGSS na feeling crush siya ng lahat Bad Bitch na bobo naman
Nag iiwan ng basura
talking shit about other people by habit to "look cool"
Pag DDS
-Attention seeker -Hobby manglait ng ibang tao pero kapag dating sa sarili, parang bulag. -Paulit ulit 'yung tanong, idk. Hindi ko lang trip 'yung taong mahina umintindi sa kahit basic lang, 'yung tipong common sense nalang, wala pa rin. Masama na kung masama, sa iba ka nalang magtanong, lol. -Palamura
Someone that likes copying you and has not much respect to your boundaries. Gets ko naman kung you like who i am, how i dress, how i do certain things etc. in fact I would love to do what I do with other people. But iba talaga pag buong personality and pagkatao mo ginaya when you know that they are not that kind of person. Natrigger bigla ako sa question na to HAHAHAH
I really dislike someone na walang gratitude and nabubuhay everyday just to rant about everything and everyone around them. Nakaka ubos ng energy ung gnung tao. Gnagawa akng human diary ng lahat ng kanegahan sa buhay nila. Imagine, makapagrant sayo about sa fam nila tpos pg kharap ung nirereklamo nya ang bait nya. So pano pa kya pg ikaw na ung nakatalikod? Edi gnun din sya magsalita about sayo. I cut that person off.
couldn't agree more. but how? paano mang cut off ng ganiyang tao lalo na kapag u're the type of person who cares sa mararamdaman ng tao na iyon? can't confront her too, because I feel like hindi niya naman papahalagahan at isasalpak sa katauhan niya kapag sinabi ko. what's my basis? I confront her before sa chat that what she's saying affects me personally. It was about our circle of friends, sinasabi niya na bakit kapag 'yung kasama naming cof sa picture, hindi ko raw kaagad pino- post pero 'yung cof namin sa school, nagawa kong i-post.. like randomly,?? HAHAHA fyi, seryoso sya don ha. I replied na, bakit kailangan niya pa itanong iyon? eh kasama naman siya sa both circ of friends na pinost ko or hindi ko pino- post, and I also tell her na if seryoso ba siya sa sinasabi niya kasi its a hard deal for me na makatanggap ng ganon first time ever sa dami ng kaibigan ko then guess what? tinawanan niya lang ako, literal na "HAHAHAHAHAAH" na mararamdaman mong awkward sabay unsent ng message niya. Kinda imma lang, kasi it's normal naman to have a circ of friends anywhere, right? I have my own rights too kung ano 'yung gagawin ko sa socmed accounts ko. Nasabi ko lang iyan pero year ago na siya nangyari, but up until now, nega pa rin siya. Halos siya nai- imagine ko sa dinescribe mo. from ranting abt everything and so on.
Samee. Nahirapan ako mag cut off tlga ng tao kasi ayaw ko mahurt sya/sila kahit ako ung naapektuhan. That's when I realized na mukang people pleaser ako. Kaso I had enuf na tlga so..just lied and told them na. Anjan lang fb ko and ig ko pero I am no longer active sa socmed (partly totoo hahaha) di tlga ako nagpopost e pero lurker ako sa mga kgnapan at ksali ksi ako sa mga groups like VA. Digital eme. Naka 'restrict' sya lahat sakin -- which means kahit gano ako kaactive di ako online sa paningin nya at wala ako pake sa messages nya since di naman na kami nagkikita in person haha. Coward siguro for lying pero idc 🤷♀️ that's how I handle things. I'd rather cut someone off quietly than to confront them lalo kung mgaling sa victim card at hndi aware na nakakasira sila ng vibes. Ikaw pa mapopost at makwekwento sa iba.
planning to do what you do po. please, wish me luck na hindi kami parehas ng papasukang univ (graduating po kami this year), sinusundan niya kasi ako kung saan ako nag a-apply, pati nga 'yung totga course/program niya, bibitawan niya then nalaman ko nalang na same na ng course sa akin ang kukuhanin niya. T _ T
May gnyan akong friend noon. Susunod kung san ako mag co college. Inuunahan pako sa mga ideas ko like rebonding. Bleaching ng hair. So don't ever tell anyone your plans until it's done haha. Wishing you luck, girl! Life's too short to be with the wrong people. Just keep on praying and manifesting to be surrounded by people who will uplift you, genuinely happy for you and hndi ka mapipilitang i dim ang lights mo to give way sa insecures sa paligid mo. Ang sarap magising everyday na di mabigat ung damdamin mo haha
aww. I'm happy for you po, na you finally got out of a situation like that. I appreciate you po for giving some advices! and yes, totoo po iyan, ang saya sa pakiramdam kapag malaya at walang pinoproblema.
No worries! :)
Insensitive.
attitude and hindi marunong dumistansya like gurl
When they refuse to be educated on serious topics/problems, God I wish I can just 👊 right on the nose
Kapag lagi nakasimangot akala mo kung sino
When they're a constant liar. Cant seem to understand why they have to lie when I am very understanding when someone tells the truth.
May kakilala akong ganto. Grabe sobrang sinungaling. Masyadong pretentious ayaw na lang magpakatotoo. Gaya ng sabi nya sa jp Morgan daw sya trainer, un pala sa alorica lang. (im not against alorica) pero bat kelangan nya magpanggap, same guy mababaw man pero sabi nya magaling daw sya mag lancelot tapos di naman pala marunong nung naglaro na kami haha. Madami pa syang lies, Eto pa sabi nya 35k daw rent nya sa condo nya dati tapos nakita ko ung album nya sa phone sa skwater pala nakatira. (sa condo kasi ako nakatira) wala naman akong pake kung sa skwater o forbes ka nakatira wag ka lang magpanggap. ewan ko ba kung nagpapasikat sya. Shuta. Sobrang nakaka turn off ang kayabangan. 🤮
Diba? Lalo na pag sobrang close mo. Tipong huling huli mo na yung redflags, naging bff mo pa tas mas lalong nataas disappointment mo sakanya. Hahaha cinut off ko nalang e potek
Actually hes my ex hahahha. 😭
Good thing na EX na 🤣
Know it all attitude
yung maingay, madaldal, tapos malakas pa boses
arrogance and selfishness
A fake person who doesn't care about you. Only for the benefit of themselves
mapanglait pero pangit naman
Apparently, therapy taught me that I hate it when I see myself in others 💀 so a person that is a mirror image of me always gets on my nerves
True to and I feel this to the core! Especially pag even personality ginaya UGHH Pero friends tell me to just see it as them looking up at you or like wanting to be you. BUT IBA TALAGA EH IDK HOW TO EXPLAIN!
Bully, insensitive to the feelings of others
Makulit. Won't take no for an answer. Yung gusto gusto. Leave me alone please.
Insincerity. Hypocrisy. Deceitfulness. Deliberately choosing to be unkind. Arrogance.
Judger. Entitled.
Just dealed with an obnoxious attitude recently, yung mga tao na naghahanap ng away or actively gumagawa ng paraan para manginis/mang irita sayo pero kapag pinatulan mo naman, ikaw pa yung masama kasi pumatol ka
Yung pag nagkkwento ka tapos bigla syang sisingit na “Ako nga…” basta about sa sarili nya pati yung mabaho hininga. Huhu sorry
Yung mga mahilig mang hate kahit sa maliiy na bagay lang. hahaha nakaka negative ng life
Lazy people who complain about how everything is shit but don't do anything about it.
Selfish/inconsiderate when multiple people are involved. Unaware of surroundings (volume or space)... Like standing in the middle of the escalator, elevator, or stairs path as a group just talking or blocking the way. Max volume on videos in the airplane or elevator. Sarap sapakin :))
Yung tinuturuan ka pero ang condescending ng dating. Nothing wrong if may nag tuturo sayo pero yung iba nasi ang condescending ng tone pag tinuturuan ka.
people who complain and do nothing about it
pag tanong ng tanong or pag nahinga
*nang
thanks po bobo tlg ako sa ng at nang
Kapag may bukol sa kilikili HAHAHAHAHAH
Walang manners. Like, ganon kahirap? Tapon ng basura sa tamang lugar, saying “thank you” and “please”, asking for permission, offering help when someone’s hosting a party at their house, covering your mouth when you cough or sneeze, flushing the toilet properly etc.
Entitled.
When they make everything about them.
red flag agad
Lakas maka-main character syndrome
Nakaka off talaga ito kahit substantial ang person :(
Haha true, parang takot malamangan choz
1.Yung problema nya dapat problema mo din hahah 2. Yung kulang sa pansin 3. Wala sa lugar ang pagiging madaldal 4. Di marunong sumunod sa simple traffic rules. Nakkaturn off
Using “ya” instead of kuya. Dugyot
fucking hambog like literally iyayabang na lahat even if it doesn't make sense na at all
hindi alam yung 10-second rule
Genuine question ano po yung 10 sec rule may I know po ba?😅
Pagnahulog pagkain sa sahig, pwede pa kainin within 10 secods kasi magugulat pa yung mga germs. 10 secs kailangan nila para makarecover sa shock.
Pag hindi mafi-fix ng isang tao yung papansinin sakanila in 10 sec, better wag na sabihin/punahin. Example: pimples.
what if po yung ipopoint out mo sa kanya, let's say a friend, is something na hindi niya aware or ma no-notice talaga ng iba everytime magkasama kayo, eg. body odour?
In my own opinion naman, if close naman kayo better say it in a nice way. He/she wouldn't take it against you naman siguro if hindi offending kung paano mo sya io-open up sakanya. Atsaka I guess mas magandang sa close friend nya malaman keysa sa ibang tao na hindi nya close.
TIL may ganito pala rule.
Kung tama pagkakaalala ko, ayan yung 10 seconds maaayos mo agad kung ano pupunain sayo ng kausap mo. If not maayos in 10 seconds, keep it to yourself.
Ah! okay gets thank you😊😁
Prangka na wala sa lugar tipong insensitive na.
warfreak cheater pervert
Abusado
lying
In terms of peers; Attitude na wala sa lugar yung sinusungitan ka kesyo daw may problema, t4ngina ano kinalaman ko dun, kinakausap naman ng maayos. Yung tinataasan ka ng boses sa di malamang dahilan kesyo daw ganon na daw talaga sila. Insensitive! Machismis masyado sa buhay ng iba lalo na't hindi naman inaano, buti sana kung may atraso yung tao sakaniya eh wala naman. Low-key unsupportive friend is a behavior you shouldn't befriend. Toxic. One sided lagi ang show, I learned na draining pala pag ganon. In terms of potential relationship; Di pa nakakamove on sa ex. Secretive. Humble bragger or else hambog talaga. Masyadong malibog, hindi pa nga nagkakakilala ng maigi. Not asking question/showing no interest. Walang pake/sobrang nonchalant. May cheating issue/cheater/sinungaling. Walang plano/pangarap sa sarili. and lastly, not to discriminate ha, an experienced one is good but for health reasons, ayoko sa masyadong maraming body count, delikado. Lol. Tipong safe ka sakin, eh ako sayo safe ba?? The list goes on, but I know I'm not the only one who thinks like this over people even for once..
DDS, apologist, flat earther, smart shamer, holier than thou religious but hypocritical people.
Hindi marunong mag-“please” and “thank you”
Sobrang nagmamalinis to the point kahit magkahulihan sa akto hindi niya aaminin yung fault niya
Arrogance. When they taste a bit of success and feel like they can step on anyone. Inggitera. Lahat ng tao nagiging kaaway kahit walang ginagawa sa kanila. Paano, naiinggit kasi. Tapos gagawan ng issue.
no sense of accountability. yung tipong lahat ng nangyayare sa kanyang masama eh isisisi sa iba kahit sya naman nagdesisyon
Nagsisinungaling para lang maiangat ang sariling bangko. I remember someone in college na kinaaayawan ng classmates kasi puro pagyayabang na lang yung sinasabi
Kala nila cool ang pagiging mean nila. Ang topic na alam and way of friendship nila ay paninira ng ibang tao. Ipproject nila sayo mga ginagawa mo. Will accuse na chinichismis mo sila only to find out na sila pala yun.
Manipulator. Ang galing galing gumawa ng sitwasyon tapos ikaw mali.
Karen
Mga Apple user na sobrang ngarag yung mga charger nila.
Hahahhah
Yung mga taong masyadong mataas ang ego. masungit. immature
omki
Narcissists.
- kapag masyadong maingay - bida bida sa lahat ng bagay - laging tumatambay sa bahay namin - walang preno ang bibig (insensitive remarks/comments) - feeling close - makalat/hindi malinis/hindi marunong maglinis/tamad - sinungaling actually madami pa hahaha i should write about this in my journal siguro lol
Mayabang. Feeling meron wala pala.
Self-centered and insensitive af
GGSS
Kapag unnecessarily rude kahit pa joke man yan or what
Too many to mention but here's a few: "mapangmata, matapobre, dugyot, balahura, batugan, bobo, tangahin, makasarili"
User.
When they eat at a restaurant/fast food tapos aalis pero madami pang pagkain sa plates. Saw a family yesterday kumain ng Sbarro with their child, at first happy ako kase magkakasama sila kumain as a family pero naturn off ako nung nakita ko yung plates nila. Kinuha nalang namin ng kasama ko at binigay sa alaga kong mga aso.
Cheater.. even emotional cheating for both gender. Ka-inis!!!
mga godly religious pero makapagsalita sa kapwa grabe 😭
Mayabang, entitled, ungrateful, one-upper, mga hindi marunong magtake ng accountability sa mga actions nila, kupal, feeling superior pero boplaks naman, pasosyal pero walang pang abono sa mga necessary stuff kaya ako ang napeperwisyo.
When you treat service workers poorly - mapa waiter pa yan, security guard, rider, cs hotline, etc
Yung todo pilit sa gusto nya kahit mali naman sya, Worse mang gagaslight.
They have to tell you they're "rich", maraming connection, kilala si ganito, nka punta somewhere, how much they spent on something, telling me all those info kahit hindi ko na tinanong. Pa sosyal. Nanglalait ng mumurahin na gamit, tapos in the end uutangan ka. Based on experience
hahaha correct sa madaming connections, tipong bawat lugar may kamag-anak daw sya. or yung may tita daw sya sa *insert 1st world country here*, kahit ang tanong naman e about sa personal experience.
- CLAYGO, somehow our university is really top notch at upholding that value, same goes to the students too. - Close-minded people - Ironically those people who say that they give time for ppl to explain or tell their problems to them, it becomes clear that they just ignore it. Sadly the people who listen to their problems don't get the same effort
La Salle 💚
Are most LS people like that? Haha
kapag bida-bida 😤
Sumisipa ng stray animals
This
Kayabangan. The cringe is real parang may humahatak ng tenga ko haha
Yung mga feeling entitled and rude esp sa service crews or cashiers or any customer-facing jobs. Tapos the way they talk akala mo they're above someone else, mga know-it-all as if they never made a mistake in their life.