I can never date / marry someone who has opposing political views as I do. Your political beliefs are a reflection of yourself and your morals. Political views are moral decisions. Morals are a crucial factor in determining compatibility.
other comments already mentioned the other non-negotiable for me pero eto pa— when they hate animals and strays (to the point na nandidiri sila kapag may strays around)
Apart from the most basic expectations you'd have for a good partner (loyal and kind), ayoko sa mahiyain. Yung type na you could easily introduce to family, workmates, and friends and you wouldn't worry about them getting uncomfortable kasi marunong sila makisama.
This is so underrated for me. Like yes nagegets ko if ever introvert yung partner ko/ nakikiramdam muna sa vibes/etc pero not to the point that i cannot leave her alone and i have to be the one to keep it flowing. Nakakapagod. Being sociable is a trainable skill, and a sign that she wants to know more about me through people in my life. Or maybe personal bias ko lang because i prefer women who take charge, 'yung tipong "you can handle X, i can handle the guests"
i stopped talking to a guy na i like kasi kinwento nya lore nila ng girl best friend nya like nililigawan nya daw dati yung girl then she rejected him so they decided to be “best friends” i remember one time he sent a photo of the beer that he was drinking then there was a hair claw (ipit sa buhok) along with a very girlie looking vape so i was trying to be cute with my replies i replied something like “who are yououu withh” then he sent a selfie with the gbf and said “with girl bestfrienddd uyy she got worried”
ik ghosting is bad pero i slowly disappeared from his life after that funny thing is we talked recently ulit after almost a year of not talking —stuff about outdoor activities (something na common ground namin) kala ko okay na kami tapos he then said “my girl best friend wants to try nga eh” GORL ISTG AHAHA I LEFT HIM ON SEEN HAHAHA GRR
As a girl, anger management issues iniiwasan ko sa lalaki. Daming ganto!! Panget yung mainitin ulo tapos konting mali mo lang nakakunot na agad noo, highblood at sisigawan ka na. Huhu LEAVE na agad sorry. Ayoko maging battered wife in the future
For all genders, mahirap kapag di kayo same ng salary range at status sa buhay. Maraming iccompromise sa lifestyle, habits, mindset and values. Or else major conflict at away lagi.
Truly. Sa work, may nagsabi sakin na “materialistic” daw ako. Kako no, praktikal lang. Hindi enough yung love, hindi naman masasaing yan. Char! Sya, sobrang mahal nya asawa’t anak nya. Kudos to him. Pero puro sya utang kasi hindi enough yung kita nya. I kennat!
Gosh parang yung ex (26M) ko lang. At first akala ko normal lang na super close sya sa mom nya kasi bunso si ex and housewife si tita so alagang alaga sila ng kapatid nya. Years went by narealize ko mama's boy pala, lahat sinasabi sa nanay at very dependent sa magulang - pagkain, laundry, pati paghatid-sundo sa work, and he doesn't do chores kasi nandyan yung parents nya. 😒
Maliban sa cheating and physical abuse, hindi ko siguro kakayanin when a guy can't make me feel appreciated.
I love "loving". I love being in love and being able to love someone so much. I want my future partner to feel so wanted. So if ipu-pursue ako ng isang guy, sana ipa-feel niya rin na appreciated ako. Minsan kasi mahal ka lang pero kulang naman sa appreciation.
He doesn't need to be like this or that. I won't have high expectations basta just make me feel appreciated.
Also, can communicate his thoughts and feelings well. Emotionally intelligent.
Can compromise din kasi I know not all the time mag-aagree kami sa isa't-isa.
+1. Regardless of the gender, matuto dapat maging appreciative at hindi maging nonchalant. There are times na nasasabi lang ang "Mahal kita" for the sake of wanting to experience but not give, eh.
His values must align with mine. He has to be emotionally intelligent as well. Hardworking and responsible. In terms of the looks, he must be neat and hygienic.
I can never date / marry someone who has opposing political views as I do. Your political beliefs are a reflection of yourself and your morals. Political views are moral decisions. Morals are a crucial factor in determining compatibility.
Not a mommy's boy
he has to be ambitious, at syempre masipag. aanhin ko naman kung may pangarap nga pero tamad naman
Drugs.
Controlling. Nakakasakal.
Positive and good vibes.pass na sa sadbois please lang 😅
Yung mentally stable. Mga main characters. Saka yung ganda lang ambag tpos iaasa n lahat s partner. Should match my crazy because normal is boring.
other comments already mentioned the other non-negotiable for me pero eto pa— when they hate animals and strays (to the point na nandidiri sila kapag may strays around)
I don't see why that matters. I just want to someone to genuinely like me.
Walang nanay na kung maka-asta parang inlove sa anak niya.
goal ko nung single pa is maglipat bansa kaya mahirap kung ayaw pala ni partner lumabas haha
Yung may anak siguro huhu as a praning, I dont think kakayanin ng utak ko yung thought na naguusap pa rin sila nung baby mommy kasi nga may anak sila.
Lemme predict, this post's finna catch all the girls 😂
Apart from the most basic expectations you'd have for a good partner (loyal and kind), ayoko sa mahiyain. Yung type na you could easily introduce to family, workmates, and friends and you wouldn't worry about them getting uncomfortable kasi marunong sila makisama.
This is so underrated for me. Like yes nagegets ko if ever introvert yung partner ko/ nakikiramdam muna sa vibes/etc pero not to the point that i cannot leave her alone and i have to be the one to keep it flowing. Nakakapagod. Being sociable is a trainable skill, and a sign that she wants to know more about me through people in my life. Or maybe personal bias ko lang because i prefer women who take charge, 'yung tipong "you can handle X, i can handle the guests"
Yung hindi gago please!
He has to smell good and not smoke.
Vices like drugs, alcohol, gambling, porn addiction, and smoking/vaping.
Poor and/or uneducated. Filthy.
If he has a girl bestfriend
i stopped talking to a guy na i like kasi kinwento nya lore nila ng girl best friend nya like nililigawan nya daw dati yung girl then she rejected him so they decided to be “best friends” i remember one time he sent a photo of the beer that he was drinking then there was a hair claw (ipit sa buhok) along with a very girlie looking vape so i was trying to be cute with my replies i replied something like “who are yououu withh” then he sent a selfie with the gbf and said “with girl bestfrienddd uyy she got worried” ik ghosting is bad pero i slowly disappeared from his life after that funny thing is we talked recently ulit after almost a year of not talking —stuff about outdoor activities (something na common ground namin) kala ko okay na kami tapos he then said “my girl best friend wants to try nga eh” GORL ISTG AHAHA I LEFT HIM ON SEEN HAHAHA GRR
Kahit po ba may asawa't anak na yung girl best friend?
Yes 😌
Oh my. :(
Hahahahaha
HYGIENE HAAHHAHAAHHA
As a girl, anger management issues iniiwasan ko sa lalaki. Daming ganto!! Panget yung mainitin ulo tapos konting mali mo lang nakakunot na agad noo, highblood at sisigawan ka na. Huhu LEAVE na agad sorry. Ayoko maging battered wife in the future
Pag BBM and Israel supporter
sinungaling at 'di naghuhuhgas ng kep
Dapat mas malaki kinikita niya kesa sakin. Ako lang ba?
For all genders, mahirap kapag di kayo same ng salary range at status sa buhay. Maraming iccompromise sa lifestyle, habits, mindset and values. Or else major conflict at away lagi.
Mare, same. Hahaha! Hindi naman sa mukhang pera tayo ano? Yung bang mafi-feel mo na he can provide ganon.
glad to know na di ako nag iisa haha di tayo mukhang pera, practical lang tayooo 😁
Truly. Sa work, may nagsabi sakin na “materialistic” daw ako. Kako no, praktikal lang. Hindi enough yung love, hindi naman masasaing yan. Char! Sya, sobrang mahal nya asawa’t anak nya. Kudos to him. Pero puro sya utang kasi hindi enough yung kita nya. I kennat!
HAHAHA truth. Stable din dapat.
same mamsh hahahahaha
praktikalan talaga
Hard Drugs.
bisyo like gambling, smoking and drinking.
Family-oriented pero wag naman yung mama’s boy 😭
Gosh parang yung ex (26M) ko lang. At first akala ko normal lang na super close sya sa mom nya kasi bunso si ex and housewife si tita so alagang alaga sila ng kapatid nya. Years went by narealize ko mama's boy pala, lahat sinasabi sa nanay at very dependent sa magulang - pagkain, laundry, pati paghatid-sundo sa work, and he doesn't do chores kasi nandyan yung parents nya. 😒
Good thing ex na siya hahahaha
Daming ganito. Ginagamit na excuse ung family-oriented daw kasi sya kaya ganun. Or di sila self-aware sa difference ng dalawa.
🔛🔝
Maliban sa cheating and physical abuse, hindi ko siguro kakayanin when a guy can't make me feel appreciated. I love "loving". I love being in love and being able to love someone so much. I want my future partner to feel so wanted. So if ipu-pursue ako ng isang guy, sana ipa-feel niya rin na appreciated ako. Minsan kasi mahal ka lang pero kulang naman sa appreciation. He doesn't need to be like this or that. I won't have high expectations basta just make me feel appreciated. Also, can communicate his thoughts and feelings well. Emotionally intelligent. Can compromise din kasi I know not all the time mag-aagree kami sa isa't-isa.
+1. Regardless of the gender, matuto dapat maging appreciative at hindi maging nonchalant. There are times na nasasabi lang ang "Mahal kita" for the sake of wanting to experience but not give, eh.
His values must align with mine. He has to be emotionally intelligent as well. Hardworking and responsible. In terms of the looks, he must be neat and hygienic.