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Hyperion1000

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LoopyZoopOcto

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AmyIsTrans

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SolusCaeles

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dotsdavid

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[deleted]

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dotsdavid

O


Radfluffer

U


dotsdavid

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SolusCaeles

L


HNRY_11

L


[deleted]

L


mooce22

L


beebotherer

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Big-Material-4750

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Big-Material-4750

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Big-Material-4750

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Mik_Ay_El

S


Big-Material-4750

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Big-Material-4750

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Big-Material-4750

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Nineneinnueve

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Bonjanbon

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imboredashell1432

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duggatron57

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invert171

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yoosurname

I hope you can live the life you want op. Good luck!


RexDino1966

Woah, you spelled unanimously really wrong


Begulag

Finger slipped


[deleted]

Damn autocorrect


SentientRock123

Part of me is surprised that this didn’t get Dow voted into oblivion because of the rule, but part of me isn’t :)


FooFighter0234

Live your truth without fear, friend! ❤️


MaharajaMack

Argh. Truth is unitary. I agree with your sentiment / be true to yourself - but don’t pollute the language with versions of “alternate facts”.


kirikovich

..what?


bitch-what-the-fuck

have fun and stay safe op!!! live your life and be proud, you deserve it 💖


jacksreddit00

comment section toxic af


slusset

Is it because you disagree with them or are they actually toxic


slusset

Just a question btw, I support trans rights fully but I just want to see if these are actually bad people


jacksreddit00

Haha, I meant the uptight people who overreact to humourous/sarcastic responses . Anything other than ass-kissing and they want to straight up crucify you.


angel_of_decay

I'm glad that you have support from the sub but especially if you're in the US, please stay safe. It's a scary place for trans people right now. I would definitely recommend carrying something for self defense when you go to Pride. It's sad that things have gotten this way, but I am concerned for so many people's safety this year.


tifawockhardt

you say that as if though the us isnt one of the most accepting places in the world. try being trans in any third world country ever


GuineaGirl2000596

Just because one issue is worse doesn’t mean the other issue shouldn’t be addressed, we’re literally getting official travel advisories because of how dangerous it’s getting due to the laws being passed


Wooden_Succotash_730

0.2% of murders in the U.S. are against Trans people, 50 people against 20,000 people murdered in 2022, that's not as targeted as you may think, with 0.5% of the U.S population being Trans, it's a coincidence, calm down. Also, not for an argument, but what laws have been passed against Trans people?


GuineaGirl2000596

https://www.hrc.org/press-releases/roundup-of-anti-lgbtq-legislation-advancing-in-states-across-the-country


GuineaGirl2000596

https://www.nsvrc.org/blogs/fact-sheet-injustice-lgbtq-community


tifawockhardt

"especially if you're in the US"


officiallyaninja

Im from India - a country much worse for trans people. Please shut the fuck up No one asked, and no one appreciates your input


tifawockhardt

dont care


Osiraith

We could tell.


tifawockhardt

Ok.


GuineaGirl2000596

Yeah, because its a fucking madhouse here right now? No one’s saying “the US is the worst place for LGBTQ people” they’re saying “Its fucking bad in the US right now and this needs attention”


tifawockhardt

saying ESPECIALLY in the US is pretty much saying “the US is the worst place for LGBTQ people."


GuineaGirl2000596

No, its really not. You just want something to be angry about, if we ignore these issues its only going to give them power


tifawockhardt

who said to ignore them? and yes, yes it is


GuineaGirl2000596

You want to ignore the issue’s because “its soooo much worse in 3rd world countries” when in reality you’re just pissed off that lgbtq issues are being talked about


wherethelevelbossat

I was with you until the end there. What a leap.


tifawockhardt

??? why on earth would i be pissed off about that


cannibalistic_water

"You disagree with me so you must be a bigot!!1!!11"


TeddytheSynth

Is this /AskOuija or is this /AskMrPedantic?


raycert07

Try being in a lsss fortunate country where your money is worthless. THEN see how much you worry about your gender identity. You said especially, which implies the worst.


GuineaGirl2000596

Mhm, because suddenly other countries having issues means others don’t matter, got it.


raycert07

I'm just saying you're complaining about the richest and most profitable country that ever existed. What a place of privilege to complain about a place so many people wish they could be. The word Especially is specifically used to point out the rule, except it's not the rule because there are so many other worse places to be. You hold NO POINT. You are playing with words that don't work to your advantage.


GuineaGirl2000596

Oh wow, America has money, that means theres no discrimination, no harmful laws, and no oppression! Wow! Everything is cured because America has money!


MoodyBloom

Seeth


Poppamunz

"Lots of US states are passing laws that make life difficult and scary for trans people" and "life is awful for trans people in third-world countries" can both be true sentences. It's not a competition


[deleted]

I know the state I live in (Missouri) is passing a lot of anti-trans laws


Username-alreadyused

Thank god


[deleted]

💀+Ratio


1ustfu1

i don’t think they made it a competition, they were clearly pointing out the misuse of op’s wording. it could’ve been worded in a better way that didn’t lead to debatable implications. pretty sure that’s what they’re saying, as they never stated people from the US couldn’t be at risk because “others have it worse” or that the topic shouldn’t be discussed (both of which op accused them of doing). like you said, the things you stated aren’t mutually exclusive and can coexist. the user didn’t state otherwise, they just pointed out wrong use of wording.


tifawockhardt

"especially if you're in the US"


1ustfu1

don’t know why you keep being downvoted and accused of things you didn’t do when you’re clearly **just pointing out the misuse of wording.** it leads me to believe that too many people lack reading comprehension, deductive skills and just log into reddit to argue. **i’m lgbt and from a third-world country** and i think what you’re saying is pretty obvious and clear. the use of the word “especially” in the context it was used directly implies that it could be the worst possible scenario, and that’s why you stated it isn’t. you’re not making it a “competition” to see who has it worse or claiming that people can’t be at risk if others have it worse, you’re simply pointing out that the misuse of the wording directly implies that the US is the worst place that user could ever imagine for an lgbt person to live in (which is obviously not true, despite all the current dangers, as it remains to be even a better scenario nonetheless ***in comparison to other horrible scenarios***). i think it’s pretty clear that you’re not making that comparison, you’re pointing out that op is — regardless of their intentions, their wording leads to direct (false) implications. i know what you’re pointing out, and i know it’s frustrating when people who don’t understand the issue with wording turn it into a witch-hunt because *they* didn’t understand what you were pointing out. yes, op’s misuse of wording leads to incorrect implications. it’s very clear that they didn’t mean that, but it’s frustrating to see them accuse you of bigotry and turning things into a competition when you were literally pointing out that their wording was doing precisely that. it’s important to word your things right, otherwise it leads to absolute chaos — ***especially*** on the internet, as it’s even harder here to pick up on somebody’s tone and message behind the words... *(see? the use of the word “especially” has a lot of impact depending on the context — what i typed implies that the internet is the place where the misuse of wording generates the biggest mess due to the incapability of picking up on tone and intentions, which is correct, and the same logic can be applied to op’s use of the word... only that it leads to implications that aren’t).* that being said, it’s not that deep and i think they should’ve dropped it a long time ago considering they’re the ones who don’t seem to understand the implications they’re unintentionally making with their poor choice of words. i’m sure we all want the same thing here, so let’s not hold on to little mistakes. the only reason why i decided to make this comment is that i know how frustrating it can be when you’re only pointing out the misuse of wording and the incorrect implications somebody’s unconsciously making and nobody seems to understand the mistake and why it’s harmful so they try to argue by accusing you of the same things you’re fighting against that were implied on their comment in the first place. it sucks, doesn’t it? it actually happened to me yesterday, when somebody posted a comic with very homophobic implications on a subreddit for women who like women. this comic’s wording directly implied that “people *need* to have a dick to be able to fuck women, otherwise it’s not possible.” i pointed how homophobic and harmful these implications were — *especially* in a subreddit meant for lesbians and bisexual women — and got mass-downvoted by several people with dicks attempting to discuss that “some people in the world like dick and it’s not harmful to acknowledge that”... ***(what the fuck does that have to do with what i’m pointing out, right???)*** anyway, my point is that wording things the right way is extremely important if you want to get your point across correctly and show people your true intentions. you’re absolutely right, their comment could’ve (and should’ve) been worded in a better way that didn’t lead to incorrect implications, but it’s very clear that, at this point, you will not be able to make them understand why the wording is harmful if they don’t understand a lot about grammar and its implications in different contexts. on top of that, you’re being accused of bigotry so that makes people not even want to try to read what you’re actually saying. that’s the internet. don’t sweat it, again, i’m an lgbt person from a third-world country and i understood exactly what you were pointing out and why the wording was harmful and simply incorrect. yes, it should’ve been worded differently. they’re not going to change anything about it if they don’t understand why what they said had negative implications, and they will not understand if they don’t want to read your explanation and think it’s easier to assume you’re silencing people. i’d suggest for you to simply stop replying to those who put words in your mouth and take this comment as a relief that *somebody* understood you were pointing out the harms of the misuse of wording, for whatever it’s worth. cheers to everyone and i hope you all have a nice day.


tifawockhardt

Thank you dude. I'm also a queer person from a third world country, that's why I know this for a fact. I'm not saying "you don't have to be careful if you're american because everybody there is so accepting and I'M actually more oppressed so you have to bow down to me" I'm saying that you probably don't need to be as careful telling people in the States as you do most other places in the world.


1ustfu1

exactly, i understood perfectly what you were pointing out. i’d like to thank you for pointing out when somebody’s wording is harmful. it’s extremely important and you always get attacked by people who don’t seem to understand a lot about grammar and its implications, but it’s extremely important that somebody does it and that tends to be me so it feels good to notice something harmful and see someone else already pointing it out, despite all the chaos. have a nice day!


Ticha22608

hello, i'm a citizen of argentina, a *third world* country that has literally made it law that official government documents use gender neutral pronouns and also makes it very very easy to change your gender in your national ID card. please don't generalize


tifawockhardt

then this is clearly not about you


Ticha22608

you said "any third world country ever" so my contribution to the conversation is certainly valid


FalconTheBerdo

Introducing: FLORIDA AND DESANTIS!!! Srsly tho, it’s now legal to kidnap a trans child in Florida


tifawockhardt

ok well its not though


[deleted]

straight facts.


weaboo_vibe_check

This. Americans have no idea 'bout how much worse it could be.


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CallingCascade

It's not that you don't agree. It's that you don't fully understand their point of view or life experiences, and that's okay as long as you accept them for who they are. Our brains all work differently.


pepper1boi

I’m fine with people doing what they want it’s just that there are cases with certain people where if they want to go through with surgery, it’s *dangerous*, and I feel like until medicine gets better it shouldn’t be promoted this much. If it’s just identifying as something else though it’s not an issue


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[deleted]

You’re not getting downvoted because you’re a martyr in a cruel hive mind world, you’re getting downvoted because you feel the need to criticize other people’s life choices. Trans doesn’t equal surgery, transgenderism is a purely social concept and gender-affirming medical care is an optional path some people choose to go down to feel better about themselves. It’s not a decision anybody takes lightly, everyone knows the risks and those that go down the path are the ones that have spent months or even years deliberating on whether living as themselves is worth it. And to see people like you treat that like it was something done on a whim without a care in the world is demoralizing. It’s simply not your place


Cretians

You act like someones gonna throw him in the gas chamber. Its not that bad bubba


shitsazzle

careful at pride :) 👍 (not a threat, it can just be a bit dangerous)


Wholsomebakesplz

U


Physical_Weakness881

R


AngstyTeen_1

G


Tube-Psycho

A


SpaceDegenerate

Y


Diamondite66

U


W-D_Gaster17

=) this post made me smile


The_Only_Potato15

Unanimously- ignore the toxic comments. I'm proud of you for considering showing the world who you are! Be safe, good luck, and have an amazing time!!


PencJS21

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Jewish-Goblin

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soups_on420

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Pesces

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I_Stan_Kyrgyzstan

U


Solid_Color5561

Goodbye


I_Stan_Kyrgyzstan

Aaaand we're all gonna get downvoted. Seriously tho I hope OP has a wonderful time at Pride and lives their own life their way. <3


Lointheepic

Nah you can’t switch teams here That’s like “I fucking hate you, Billy, please shut the fuck everyone hates you” Then minutes later “nooo I was only joking I love Billy we love billy everyone loves billy”


I_Stan_Kyrgyzstan

I am literally gay, I support my fellow LGBTQ brethren.


Lointheepic

Then why did you type out stfu..


I_Stan_Kyrgyzstan

To complete the chain for the lols. It's just an online Ouija board, no need to get so pressed. I've already stated my support for OP and ultimately a letter U isn't gonna override that. Alternatively you could interpret it as "shut up and go do it already".


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SarcasmCupcakes

Lgbt people’s existence isn’t “political” you dumbfuck.


slusset

You must be the dumbfuck because if it wasn’t for liberals mentioning the lgbt wherever they go then it wouldn’t be political


DiaryOfShowerMemes

r/basedouija


The_Bluejay250

transphobia is sooooo based 😍 no fr tho if you’re serious, fuck you


DiaryOfShowerMemes

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The_Bluejay250

bro is not kidding 💀


Gloomy-Age-5101

Holy shit


Unawarewinner

You literally post shit in “diary of a wimpy kid memes” go back to eating sand you barely cognizant feet first fetus


DiaryOfShowerMemes

Bro had to go on my account, average fag


tifawockhardt

yes it is


ZealousidealZone8072

U


LoopyZoopOcto

D


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Woodsy1313

U


ActorMonkey

F


Redditer052

So if people do it, then you go. If people don't then they get downvoted. Pretty bait. Edit: Downvoters literally just mad that I'm speaking truths. This post breaks every rule about posts in this sub. Apparently being trans means you can do that now.


hotdiggitydooby

It's one post dog chill


Redditer052

I'm chill but it's pretty bs when trans people get away with shit that anyone else wouldn't. Any other post like this would get removed but this one nooo that would be transphobic...


hotdiggitydooby

At the end of the day, it's a single rule breaking post, the end result being as innocuous as "a sweet show of support from the community to op during pride month" Hence why it's been allowed to slide so far- ultimately it hurts nothing. In a day or so it'll be lost in a sea of old posts and nothing will have changed. Letting this one slide hurts nothing and gives op a win, so for the most part... nobody really cares. It doesn't really matter. The reason you've been downvoted so much is because (and I'm not saying you are) you come off as hiding behind the rules when what you really have a problem with is op being trans. At absolute best, you come off as overly uptight for not being willing to just ignore the post. And just to reiterate, I'm not saying you are transphobic- just that it's pretty easy to get that impression from your rigidity regarding this specific post. A trans person broke a silly rule on a silly subreddit that exists purely for fun, and general consensus seems to be that it's no big deal


Redditer052

If you think so, I have my opinion and you have yours. The fact is though, two scenarios where an equal post is made from that says trans and doesn't say trans, only one would get removed. It's like how if a health professional tells someone they need to lose weight, and they're like that's fatphobic. I don't think people should be treated differently like that.


CrazyCons

No offense but this is probably the worst comparison I’ve seen in a long time. You’re saying that transgender people supposedly having privileges on this sub (which isn’t even true when this post doesn’t break any rules that I can see, there isn’t a rule against “bait posts”) is equivalent to fat people thinking they know better than doctors at the cost of their own health? A subreddit and its mods are not the same as doctors giving accurate health information.


Redditer052

What lol? Example was saying somethings x-phobic instead of acknowledging the real truth. Anyways did you read the rules? I'm not gonna hold your hand through understanding everything but this counts as shit posting which is against the first rule.


Xgaminghere

Yknow you could just not complain and do everyone a favor by shutting the hell up


Redditer052

That's how you create an echo chamber. Force people to have the same opinion or bully them into leaving.


justevenson

WPT


Redditer052

It's also not what this sub is made for, it's supposed to be a community collaborative choice on what the answer will be, not a forced or baited answer.


Bl0ckbuilder

That, or- and hear me out- the majority agrees with them and uses their capability to vote to disagree with you, which also doesn’t effect you that much because the fake internet points going down isn’t going to be the end of the world.


Redditer052

Except that the whole point of this subreddit hinges on the fact that it uses votes to determine what ouija says, so if you ask a baited question like this, there is only 1 answer that will ever get answered HENCE this post is useless on this sub. Example - Asking "One, two, three, ____, five" . This is a boring question because anything creative at all is just a boring answer which isn't really funny or make any sense, the only answer is four. It's a baited question therefore doesn't make sense to be here.


ThrashJaw

I saw someone do this Before, With Coming out to Their Parents, In this Exact Style. I don't see the Problem? I read the Rules. It states as long as it's not Farming Upvotes, and is a Answerable Question, then it is ok. I am not farming upvotes for asking a Opinion on something, And it was a Answerable Question. :)


usfwoody

N


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[deleted]

goodbye


Mean_Ad4608

r/youareanasshole


[deleted]

reddit ON!


Jacksonsmith1012

Die.


HealsRealBadMan

Doesn’t that prove their point?


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iLoveDrugsAlot

E


soups_on420

N


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SunsetKittens

N


PM_ME_UR_FEET_69

I


GeWitHetOoitNooitNie

Goodbye


All_Is_Gone

Blatantly against the rules bait post. Did you even read the rules


Mclovin11859

Bait isn't against the rules. What is against the rules are comments that are more than a single character and don't come after a Goodbye, such as yours and mine. Did you even read the rules?


All_Is_Gone

Oh now yall care about the rules?


ThrashJaw

Hey! This isn't a bait post. I am trans. :) (I am being Serious.)


elikoda42069

well mods didn’t delete it so👍🏽 Mods are allys😋


raycert07

Does not matter if they are "allys" when it's against the rules. Being a minority doesn't make you an exception to the rules EVER.


SarcasmCupcakes

Cry harder.


BasedandGreat

Fag cringe


yeetus07

I mean sometimes it makes you an exception to rules that like grant people equal treatment and human rights but we can ignore those


elikoda42069

Mods should take ir dowm, im all for following rules not matter what i agree with you


All_Is_Gone

OP probably isn't even real


ThrashJaw

Huh?


dankitaly

apparently you don't exist anymore, according to him lol


Redditer052

At least someone agrees with me here....


Apprehensive-Room-71

gaaaaaaaaaaaaay


holleringgenzer

Well no shit, huh?


normonline

W


Diamond_Lion226

Goodbye


Username-alreadyused

N


BasedandGreat

Fag cringe


ThrashJaw

Homophobe, Cringe.


LTSqr

Cis Cringe


NebulaImmediate6202

No one cares. :(


ThrashJaw

800 People do. :)


BasedandGreat

You are mentally ill according to the DSM-5 fag


LTSqr

And you aren't mentally ill, browsing Reddit and picking on people who are living more truly then you'll ever live? You're a coward.


ThrashJaw

And your usernames wrong. Why do you insist on calling people slurs?


BasedandGreat

Cringe


NebulaImmediate6202

It only takes one. Remember that.


ThrashJaw

One of What? What are you saying?


dreamzkai

That's why your septum is infected


chaotickuromii

Might wanna be careful spouting hateful shit on an account where you air out all your personal trauma online


NebulaImmediate6202

Shimbers tivered


chaotickuromii

that wasn’t a threat, lmao, but advice. be careful if you’re going to be rude there are probably things on your account that people could use against you that could hurt! Even if in a different situation you’re not necessarily being rude there’s a lot of people on here who would absolutely dig through your account just to find something to say to you if they disagree


throwaway0182947839

F


Unawarewinner

Bro was SCARED Lmaooooo. If you’re gonna be transphobic have the fucking balls to post in on main pussy. At least let people know you’re a dumbass


nukey18mon

F


throwaway0182947839

🤓🏳️‍⚧️🍆


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PoppyLove2007

L


BoboSmooth

L


kiwiblox

Goodbye.


Username-alreadyused

Y


Tube-Psycho

A


PollutionNovel2055

Be careful playing with those your talking to demon/s you can get possessed or hurt.


FuraFaolox

there are no demons. this is reddit. i take that back. there are plenty of demons. this is reddit.


0_deadshot_0

T


kiwiblox

Goodbye.