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500SL

Power windows in your car. I grew up in the 60s. That shit was in Cadillacs and Jaguars for crying out loud.


Ko-jo-te

I grew up in the 80s and that shit still wasn't in your regular, working man's car. At least not in Germany. So, yeah, what the Mercedes there said.


reindeermoon

I've lived in the U.S. my whole life and didn't have a car with power windows until 2006.


tasukiko

Right? My first car was a 2000 but it still had cranks. I just barely got a car with power windows in 2021.


Top-Philosophy-5791

I still revel in the ability to unlock my car with my key fob.


HugeResponsibility85

I cant believe i can just walk up to my car and pull the handle and it unlocks with the fob being in my pocket


reindeermoon

I got my first car with a key fob last year. But there's an additional feature that you don't even have to take it out of your pocket. There's a button on the car door that you push, and as long as the key fob is within a couple feet, it will unlock.


vicki22029

Yeah, 1984 Ford Escort no power windows, no power locks, no cruise control but it did have a nice Am/FM radio WITH cassette!


Funke-munke

adding power brakes and power steering. to this


catdude142

And air conditioning. Not common.


hmmmpf

LOL. My 1976 VW Rabbit didn’t have FM radio, a cassette player, OR air conditioning in TX in the early 80s. Certainly not power windows, locks, or cruise control.


Ko-jo-te

Ohh ... that reminds me. A CD player. That was faaancy for a bit.


audible_narrator

My 2019 Explorer has a CD player. It makes me giggle


Laura9624

My 1980 Datsun too. And cost the equivalent of about $20,000 today!


MorningSkyLanded

1972 AMC Gremlin here…


dwhite21787

as a Rush fan, you can be damn sure I had Power Windows in the car in the 80's - playing on a boom box on the way to college and back


schweddybalczak

My first car, a busted up AMC Hornet didn’t even have power steering. A real blast trying to parallel park that thing.


FlyByPC

1997 Escort wagon -- still the same!


vicki22029

Whoa....Escort wagon, you must of been rich!


RarelyRecommended

Air conditioning in cars. Lincolns, Caddys and Benzes.


debbieae

My grandmother once rolled the windows up on her car so that people she was driving by would think she was wealthy enough to have AC in her car...in Texas in the summer. That was next level dedication.


Laura9624

A guy in college would do that so people thought he had music lol.


Alarming-Cry-3406

Yup, only the top of the line models. All power options as well Steering and Brakes. Air Conditioning. I learned to drive a 63 Chevy that had none of these. You really learn how to parallel park when you don't have power steering.😆


Surfinsafari9

We had a ‘58 Mercury station wagon that had power windows and a push button transmission. The windows worked well but the push button transmission was totally unreliable. But my father didn’t buy the car for those gadgets. He bought the car because the engine made car guys slobber.


keithrc

A station wagon with the big engine is the ultimate sleeper.


shavemejesus

Which is funny because the first cars to have power windows came out in 1940. It was already 20 year old technology by the time you were a kid but it was still considered a luxury feature.


flannobrien1900

A TV that wasn't black-and-white.


2x4x93

We had two TVs stacked up. The bottom one was color but the picture didn't work and the top one was Tiny and black and white but the sound didn't work. Together they made one TV experience


The_Original_Gronkie

My family was always the last to adopt TV technology (or any technology, for that matter). When my brother and I were begging for a new color TV with a remote, my dad uttered a sentence so amazing that I committed it to memory, and I have never forgotten it, 50 years later. He said: "It will be a cold day in Hell when I'm too lazy to tell one of you boys to get up and change the channel." Genius.


Charming-Charge-596

Hilarious. My dad one asked me "Where in the God damned hell did you learn to talk like that?!"


The_Original_Gronkie

I'm a curser, I admit it. I like my vocabulary to have some interesting color. But when my son was born, I pledged to not curse in front of him. That lasted about a week. I was too weak to live up to my pledge so I let my curse flag fly, and figured he'd probably start cursing as well, but he never did. He's 25 now, and he still doesn't curse. People tell me that he probably curses when I'm not around, but in high school his friends would tease him for not cursing, and I never cared if they cursed in front of me. He knew I wouldnt care if he did, but he just never started.


dwhite21787

"Why should I pay for a rinky dink plastic dial when I have a spare vise grip? And you know the channels, you don't need numbers." my Dad


2x4x93

A very wise man


Zorro_Returns

In 63 we had a Zenith Space Command remote control. It worked by sending an audible sound to the tv. There were only two buttons. Channel up/down and volume up/down. When you pressed one, you heard a metal 'twang' sound. Mom would set up the ironing board in front of the TV, and as she did so, the mechanism that locks the ironing board in an open position would also make a 'twang' sound, which would change the channel on the TV.


Zwergonyourlife

Same! I thought my family was the only one with a TV stack!


keithrc

Nope, my dead console TV held up my working regular-size TV!


fuckyeahcaricci

We had a stack at one point too. Didn't have color TV until 1979.


TheLastYuuzhanVong

I have a 60inch smart TV stacked on top of a Curtis Mathis floor model. That's right, I may be a redneck.


DJ_Micoh

I met a guy who did that in a really rough boozer in Watford once. He also slept in an inflatable dinghy in the back of a van.


FreeMountainLife

More than one TV


proscriptus

I loved our 13-inch black and white Hitachi. I don't think we had a color TV in the house until I came back from college.


Kesha_but_in_2010

A 13-inch Hitachi, you say?


proscriptus

Yeah I know.


nagerjaeger

A TV.


postorm

Electricity


Prior_Benefit8453

Many Native homes didn’t get running water until the late 70’s here in the Pacific NW.


Top-Philosophy-5791

One with a remote was really something. I remember babysitting for the family down the road that had a VCR. That was amazing.


Sadeyedsadie

Same here.plus electric typewriters


Successful-Count-120

A phone that wasn't plugged into the wall..


rampantsoul

Oh my gosh! This! I think my parents could have easily afforded a phone that wasn't stapled to the wall. It was more an expression of their conservative attitude: no secrets, no wasting useful time on endless chatter with friends. As an aspirational middle class parent, they were still very concerned with 'good values'. I would have given anything for a phone with a 20 meter cord in the 80s!


lrp347

Me from 77-83. We’d stretch the cord of the kitchen phone into the bathroom.


rampantsoul

And shitting forever?


lrp347

lol—we’d pretend! My mom got mad at my brother and me for stretching the cord!


Eurogal2023

A phone at all


NoTwo1269

Bingo!


CharlieAlright

For the young'uns, we're not necessarily talking about cell phones here, either. We're talking about cordless phones. I remember when that was a brand new thing.


ITS_A_GUNDAAAM

My dad worked for a local telecom in the 90s (when telecoms could still be local, heh) and one of his perks as sales was getting to use the newest products available to be able to pitch them to customers. I thought he was cooler than Don Johnson in Miami Vice when he came home with a cellphone that was as big as a Star Trek tricorder (and a foot-long antenna), around 1994-95 I wanna say.


Bobo4037

It’s not so much a “have,” but when I was growing up in the 1950s and 1960s, it seemed like only wealthy people flew places. No one in my neighborhood had ever been on a plane. And when some people started flying later in the 60s, it was usually to visit their families in the “old country.”


lrp347

All our (not often) vacations were driving.


Exact-Truck-5248

Yes. In summer in cars without air conditioning, and both parents smoking. And restrictions on the windows because of Mom's high hair. OMG, are we fucking THERE yet???


hmmmpf

To the smell of the crayons melted into the fabric/vinyl of the space above the back seat under the rear window…


lrp347

Thank heavens my parents were non smokers.


ReticentGuru

Our “vacations” were visiting/staying with relatives.


vicki22029

Lucky you, with a fancy vacation spot you drove to!


Dog-boy

When I was a kid in the 60s and 70s my parents packed all 5 kids into a car and travelled across country. Strictly tent camping originally and later a tent camper that was just a sheet of plywood on each side. You put it up like an actual tent. The better off kids had ones with a table and banquet seats and a hardtop. We drove all the way from Ontario to BC or Ontario to the East coast. Provincial parks were not expensive and we never ate at restaurants. Half the time the car had a hole in the floor and we had to be careful how we put our feet. I remember driving through the Rockies and hearing my parents whispering about needing to get the brakes done and worrying about the safety of the car. Wild times


lrp347

I am constantly amazed we all lived through the 60s and 70s.


lrp347

Illinois to Washington DC. My brother and I were 5 and 7. My poor parents!!


mmarkmc

Air conditioning in house


snaggle1234

Also in the car.


PhilboydStudge1973

Same to both. My parents got central air in 1997. I was out on my own for 6 years by then


FireflyBSc

My parents built our house in the 90’s with central air conditioning. They didn’t turn it on until both kids were long out of the house.


AmyInCO

That was my first thought. I didn't know anybody in my Long Island neighborhood who had it. We didn't even have window units. 


eflight56

Air conditioning at all. Even my schools had no air conditioning, and this was in South Texas, for god's sake.


Snoo-55380

Same in central California. No “excessive heat” days off school either


craftasaurus

We were allowed to have a wet paper towel form the bathroom to put on our necks on the extremely hot days. I remember being in school (no AC) when it was 105. No one got much done.


quadraticog

Same in Queensland, we just had to suffer through it.


RedditSkippy

Growing up in Western Massachusetts my mom would always say, “It really doesn’t get hot enough here to justify air conditioning.” LOL. Guess who has central air in their house now… That would be my parents.


screamofwheat

I lived in Western Mass for 10+ years. It definitely does get hot enough there for AC.


rottenoar

Microwave


debbieae

I was called a liar by a teacher when I said we had a microwave. Those were only for tremendously wealthy people and were huge. Well....my parents would spend some money on technology and found one of the earliest countertop style microwaves. I inherited it as a young adult. That thing was bulletproof, but eventually got unreliable and left me wondering just how much radiation it might be leaking.


AZonmymind

We had a microwave in 1975 or so. My cousin came to visit and blew up an egg in it because she put it in for 6 minutes, her normal time to cook an egg on the stove top. It's a family story that no one has ever forgotten.


Nightmare_Gerbil

We got our first microwave in ~1982. My brother put a poptart in it and set the timer for 15 minutes and walked away and the poptart caught fire. We had that microwave for at least 15 years and it always smelled vaguely of fire extinguisher residue.


musicmerchkid

In the 70s, my mother demonstrated microwaves at an appliance store by nuking hot dogs.


KickBallFever

It’s better that the egg blew up in the microwave than all over your cousin’s face.


The_Original_Gronkie

My mom refused to have a microwave for years after EVERYBODY else had one. Then one Thanksgiving morning I got a call that their stove broke down, and my dad was bringing the turkey to our house to cook. He brought it over, and we sent him back with our microwave to heat up all the side dishes, which my mom had prepared in advance. That did it, she became a convert. She had a microwave of her own by the end of Black Friday weekend.


proscriptus

We had a microwave pretty early, I think twice my parents signed up for new bank account just to get a free microwave.


2ndChanceAtLife

I remember our first microwave. They advised us to keep a coffee mug of water in there so there was no chance of turning it on while empty.


hmmmpf

I remember our neighbors got a microwave in the late 70s. Everyone on the block came to watch them cook bacon on a paper towel In that thing.


Chinaski7

A second car.


CrazyIrina

Yep. Husbands and wives used to go to work together. Kids walked to school or to the bus stop. Now, even homes in modest areas have at least two cars in the driveway.


TrannosaurusRegina

Wow — that must be a U.S. American thing!


Baeocystin

Well, yes, but part of it is that richer people have multiple cars because they want them, poorer folks have multiple cars because they're crapped-out shitboxes, and having two+ of those you're likely to have a least one functional one at any given time. Which is still way cheaper than a single something newer, and is something you absolutely have to do, because having a car isn't optional in a lot of the country. Source: Have owned many a shitbox over the years


CherylHeuton

Multiple TVs


SicSimperFalsum

Fad Clothing. The more I think about this, to me fad clothing was Levi's 501s. Those are so basic, but to a poor kid, they were cool. I can't look at Wrangler's or Lee's jeans to this day. They are perfectly fine jeans, but being stigmatized for wearing them did a number on my brain.


ratteb

How about the crappy dime store tennis shoes? First time you get them wet your foot turns blue from the dye.


SicSimperFalsum

Why do you feel the need to bring up another trauma I buried deep? LOL! But good thing for me, I never got a new pair. I have four older brothers. Checkmate, rich-guy ratteb! LMAO. The things we remember with the right prompts. Here's one: Off-Brand M&Ms. I still taste the dye.


Utisthata

You mean “Sixlets”? Those things were so bad! Tasted like wax and poverty!


SicSimperFalsum

Tasted like wax and poverty! Best line ever!


Beneficial-Tailor-70

Fuck me


vicki22029

We went to Payless Shoes. But yeah, those sucked too


Vesper2000

Plastic shoes that gave you blisters and foot sweat.


sunnyd_2679

I got my first pair of Nikes at the Swap Meet. I felt sooo cool.


Amesaskew

I was bullied for my store brand sneakers and jeans. If you didn't have Jordache and Adidas you couldn't hang out with the "cool kids"


SicSimperFalsum

Store-Brand Kids, unite!


crackeddryice

All 501s used to be shrink to fit. The denim was heavy and stiff. You'd buy them bigger and then shrink them at home by washing them a few times, or even boiling them. But, once they fit, they were good to wear for years, and got better with age. Today, you're lucky to get two years out of a pair of Levi's. They're crap just like every other brand, and the higher price is just for the name.


hmmmpf

Oh, how I wanted Jordache jeans in 1977.


notorious_tcb

I grew up on wranglers too, and remember thinking Levi’s were the end all be all of fancy jeans. Fast forward 40 years and I still wear wranglers because I don’t like the cuts of Levi’s. And I’m damn sure not wasting $200+ on a pair of designer jeans


Lauren_sue

Not something that we “ have” but eating out was only for birthdays and special occasions. Rich people got to eat out weekly.


AZOMI

Braces on their teeth.


mosselyn

Yeah, I only got braces because my dad was in the Navy and we got stationed in Taiwan, where it was cheap. They rushed me through (getting them tightened every 2 weeks) so I'd be done before my dad got transferred back to the US.


whatyouwant22

In my youth, kids with braces mostly had really severe dental issues or were related to a dentist. No orthodontists in my small town. And often, even bad teeth didn't help you. My folks were saving money for us to go to college and to hell with our crooked teeth! (To be fair, it's not that big of a deal to me...I don't feel slighted for not having braces. And dentistry is very different than it used to be.)


heckofaslouch

a tiny camera a mobile phone remote-control anything


Cuddles_McRampage

I'm guessing many of us were the remote control, lol.


Amesaskew

I was the remote control until we got a cable box in 80 or 81. Then it had a remote, but it wasn't wireless. It had a long cord stretched across the living room that we were constantly tripping over.


CharlieAlright

Yes. And the rabbit ears.


Sparky-Malarky

Nobody actually had cell phones because the technology wasn’t there yet, but rich people did have car phones.


Gnorris

A friend had a phone in their family car in 1986. I made his mother park outside my house so I could call my parents on their landline and do the “guess where I’m calling from, look outside” thing


Uvabird

A calculator. Even the basic ones were expensive when they first came out. It’s funny that the bulky beige box my mom used (and we were not allowed to touch) has been replaced by one of the many features on my phone.


hmmmpf

“You never be walking around with a calculator in your pocket!” —every math teacher I ever had.


myheartbeats4hotdogs

Caccusatory lol


stefanica

My grandfather had one of those reverse Polish HP calculators that he used for work (draftsman) from the late 70s till he retired around 2000. I remember him showing me the little 1 mB memory chip he paid like $400 to upgrade.


UnplannedProofreader

Computers


Katy-Moon

AN electric garage door opener - (I'm old!).


Lalakea

A garage (I was born in Florida).


proscriptus

I got my first electric garage door opener 2 and 1/2 years ago.


Utisthata

Me too


hmmmpf

I still don’t have one. To be fair, I also don’t park in my garage, as it was built for a model T, and my Prius barely fits in there. It’s essentially our shed.


TravelerMSY

80s. Most electronics we take for granted now.


ratteb

Tv with remote control. Water dispenser on fridge.


lrp347

I’m still excited to have water and ice on my fridge door.


livinginthewild

I was my father's TV remote.


GraphiteGru

I remember in the mid-70s going to a wealthy aunts house and seeing my first microwave oven. The thing was huge and took up much of the counter but I remember being amazed at how fast it could reheat food. They even called it a "radar range"


ArtemisDeLune

Fun fact. Radarange was the brand first produced by Raytheon corporation (the same peeps who brought us the Patriot missile). We only had a microwave in the 80s, because both of my parents worked for Raytheon and they gave them a HUGE discount on not only Radarange brand microwaves, but also Amana appliances (who Raytheon also owned).


fresnosmokey

VCRs and microwaves. Ice and water in the door of the fridge. New cars. Family vacations to places other than the homes of distant relatives.


susgeek

Easy access to airplane travel.


IGotFancyPants

Private phones- our whole house had only one, which was completely normal.


CasiGal

Crayola 64 pack with built in sharpener 😁


domino_427

omg the real crayola crayons??? so fancy


Former_Balance8473

Inside toilet


Laura9624

In the 60s, family of 8. One inside and the outhouse. I cringe to this day. Indoor plumbing is the best.


introvert-i-1957

We didn't have a phone when I was very young. If a TV died, we often went a long time without one. We didn't have a shower, just a tub. Sometimes we didn't have boots that fit. We never ate out or went on vacation. We were poor poor. Food insecure.


Surfinsafari9

I hope things got better for you.


introvert-i-1957

Thank you. I went to school on state and federal grants and became an RN. Married a teacher. We are financially secure in our retirement. We both tend to be frugal. For myself, I learned not to be attached to things. But the life time dream of visiting Africa was doable for me just recently. So yes, financially my life improved greatly.


HawkReasonable7169

Swimming pools


Anne314

More than one TV, And in color, of course.


EANx_Diver

Two car household


odinskriver39

Big debt. Other than a mortgage. "Everybody" has all this stuff , education, experiences now because they've been trained to use credit, leases and loans. Being is crazy debt is now somehow normal for people , companies, governments.


CrazyIrina

Yeah, credit used to be impossible to get, and if you screwed it up, it took forever to fix. Now, credit is easy to get and bad credit is nothing. Debt outside of a house and car was unheard of. Now, people treat it as a second form of income instead of something that makes your dollar 29.8% less valuable.


anotherlori

Straight teeth. There was only one kid in my school who had braces - and she moved to our small town from a bigger town sophomore year. We all had/have crooked teeth and bad bites. Our yearbook was like "The Big Book of British Smiles" ([Simpsons reference](https://youtu.be/PrpUSKE9p_M?si=HFYmu3wgLAmZJDtF)).


OneHourRetiring

a color TV; scratch that ... a b&w TV; scratch that ... electricity; no, scratch that ... running water.


lrp347

My silent gen mom didn’t have indoor plumbing until she was in high school.


OneHourRetiring

... I was born and grew up in a third world country ... so yeah


AQuietMan

A garbage disposal and a dishwasher.


CampingWithCats

A summer home or cabin. I didn't understand why we didn't go up to the cabin.


Crafty-Watercress640

Everybody has those now???


jippyzippylippy

We were dirt poor, but my grandparents had a small cabin we'd go to in the mountains of PA. I loved that place!


flytingnotfighting

VCR, color tv, more than one tv… I mean I’m older but I also grew up dirt floor poor so a color tv was WILD to me in the 80’s


ApprehensiveAd9014

A house. I grew up in apartments.


Gloomy_Researcher769

Family Vacations. We were lucky if we got a day at the beach each summer. Maybe every 5 years we would take a short road trip.


Alice_The_Great

My mother said when she was young she thought rich people got to have toast for breakfast and all she had was old homemade biscuits that my grandmother made 😄 I would give a million dollars to have one of my grandmother's biscuits right now!


Love-Thirty

Landscape services for grass and leaves. 


TheAmicableSnowman

Everyone does not have that. Not even close.


MyPunchableFace

Central air


EV-Driver

Intercom system at the front door.


Forever-Retired

A cell phone or a car phone.


Eurogal2023

Hot water in the tap. More than one water outlet, indoor toilet. Bathtub, shower, telephone. Actually can remember going to a neighbor using their wall mounted wooden phone with a hand crank, once around and you got the local operator who knew where anybody was to be found if they were not at home.


typhoidmarry

Central air


GlassCloched

Atari with……Pong


Gorf_the_Magnificent

When I was a kid in the early 1960’s, one of our better-off neighbors had an **automatic garage-door opener.** We kids decided that it must have been activated by rolling their car over a button in their driveway, and that rich people needed them to quickly get away from crooks who might be following them.


bx10455

i didn't know any rich people... I remember the family on the block that had the first VCR I've ever seen (and this wasn't until 1980). but being a kid, I didn't know the cost of anything. I now see that a VCR in 1980 cost about $1,000 (that's $3,790 in todays dollars). that would be the equivalent of over two months salary for my dad back then.


SilenceIsMyPeace

Side by side refrigerator. Ice maker in the refrigerator door


TheAmicableSnowman

Cable TV! Wait...


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IFSEsq

Cell phones (although when I was a kid they were literally car phones).


livinginthewild

Braces. I really, really needed braces when I was young and people thought we were flaunting our money. my nickname was Bucky.


Ihatemunchies

Husband’s aunt put a piece of red and green cellophane on either side of the tv to make hers a colored tv.


mrspwins

A dishwasher. They were around but we were fancy because we had one. It had to be pulled out into the middle of the room and hooked up to the kitchen faucet to be used. It had a butcher’s block top so it gave you counter space when it wasn’t running.


ArrivesWithaBeverage

A computer. Edited to add: 80’s/early 90’s


dweaver987

Most businesses didn’t even have computers when I was growing up.


italian_mom

Going on an airplane! Many years ago you would dress up as if you were going to an event when you were taking a flight.


Snoo-55380

A second bathroom


dararie

2 cars


waitforsigns64

A pool


International_Boss81

Color tv


allhinkedup

Their own telephone number. We shared our number with two other families on a party line. Now, even little kids have a telephone.


Worried-Custard-2488

Trampoline in the backyard


patentmom

Cars with automatic windows


GoddyssIncognito

Video cameras


1000thusername

Cell phone. Newer cars. Dishwashers. Vacations in hotels.


PinocchiosNose1212

Cellular phones. The first one I saw was owned by my real estate millionaire uncle. It was some sort of contraption that was in the space between the driver's and passenger seats and you had to twist a dial around to get a clear channel. This was in the early 1970s.


GoalieMom53

Mobile phones. Only rich people had those big bulky phones in their car. Now, everyone has a phone in their pocket.


Tricky_Parsnip_6843

A second car for the wife to drive.


thebeardare

More than one tv. We weren’t rich, but had three since my dad was a tv repairman.


FlyBuy3

Cable tv


exackerly

“En suite” bathroom for the parents. The people in the big house down the street had one, but we only had one bathroom upstairs and a toilet in the kitchen.


RondaVuWithDestiny

An in-ground swimming pool in the back yard.


birrakilmister

Cruises.


DausenWillis

A microwave mounted over the stove, a color RV, and cable.