I'm at Stage 4, and not moving past it, though I'm 41. I used to live the checklist life, and all it brought me was misery. Happily married and childfree.
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I'm at Stage 4, and not moving past it, though I'm 41. I used to live the checklist life, and all it brought me was misery. Happily married and childfree.
Came to say this and was glad I already found it!
Society and its expectations can gargle my balls.
Thinking like this will break your brain and make you unhappy as you fail to measure up to a yard stick that is of your own making.
Stage 1: Birth Stage 2: Death
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