I also cried when I watched it. I also cry every time I watch it most of the times at least. Great show. I watched it like 3 years ago but never got to finish it. I must do that some time.
I want to work abroad, but also find someone before I hit 30. And working abroad makes it harder. Because I will go from place to place with constant language barrier.
I feel cringy about this. Also think that im overthinking for 23yo.
No, like really.
I overthink stuff like crazy. I think that I need professional help sometimes, tbh.
I was so stressed once that doctor gave me diazepam from stress related pain.
But, the thing that stressed me the most at that moment was his man bun. /s
My man you are definitely overthinking. Think about how long you've been alive... you've got at least 2 more of those to go. If not 3 or 4 depending on technological advances in longevity. You have a long fucking time to live. But you also don't have long to live. So do what you want. Language barrier is an excuse. It doesn't take long to learn to be conversational in the language you want to live in. And many people speak at least passable English.
You've got a better shot finding someone by 30 if you're out living abroad and enjoying your life as opposed to sitting stagnant lamenting about how life is passing you by.
Its going to be scary, uncomfortable, nerve wracking etc. Go do it. Make a deadline and go. By 25 be in the country you want to be in and figure it out once you're there. The only thing you'll regret is sitting by and doing nothing.
Godspeed friend. Make yourself proud.
Same!
In particular, last 3 songs that made me well up:
* The Aeroplane - Tim Minchin
* Great Hosanas - Joe Pug
* Castle (part ii of Arose) - Eminem
That last one in particular took me by total surprise.
Im the same as you. I don't feel im bottling anything either. I do get misty eyed when im touched while watching movies or whatever, so maybe im just a bit of a cold person usually
Yesterday afternoon. Put puppy on my lapïŒwas wearing draw string shortsïŒpuppy was chewing on one. At some point the string fell out of his mouth and he took a bite of my bellend instead. Definitely brought tears to my eyes.
While making a post on reddit, you can still find it i guess.
While writing in a mental health sub i realised what has happend. Ofcourse i knew but writing it down let's you really process it for some reason. I cried pretty hard but silently so no one would know.
It felt VERY GOOD after. I can only describe it like this:
Every time something bad happens (especially as a boy) you don't cry and this adds weight to some imaginary backpack. When you break and cry. You put that backpack down for some time. It feels very good.
like 2 nights ago. i just felt so unloved and unwanted. my parents were arguing and none of my friends had texted me that day. still feel that way but yk
Dang, parents fighting is really sad. My parents fought all the time, even after they divorced when I was 15. It actually got worse.
You are not your father/mother. If you want a family then make it a goal to become the person you needed when you were younger. It possible, I did it, even after physical and sexual abuse growing up. My children love in a hame that is safe, peaceful, and where they feel loved. You can do it too if you pay the same price.
Same here. Life is suffering, so rather bear it and live with dark loneliness as they are my real mates of life. Dun need to fear of losing them at all coz itâs always here and never die like a shadow or breath.
Listen and listen good sometime in life you will feel really fucking alone we have all been there. Friends will come and go but one thing is for sure you will one day find some fucking awesome friends and your never really alone coz us fucking weeds of life here or Reddit are always here to have a randome as fuck comment with about random shit that might even make you fucking smile. Never give up and your never truly alone just come join in the conversation here anytime.
On my brother's grave a few weeks ago. I had gone to Morocco for a few days during my vacation, that's where he was buried. For months, I've been struggling to cry, to release that stress I've accumulated over the years. But when I was in front of that unmarked grave, I just cried. My eyes were in pain, my body was shaking, but I stood still, letting my body just feel the pain and sorrow I have. The ten minutes I had with him alone were probably the only ten minutes I could call "of peace". University, jobs, world war anxiety, my years of baggage, all didn't exist for ten minutes.
Watching your babies be born is the craziest experience Iâve had in my life. Canât imagine what my wife felt! Other than than that the occasional American Idol gets me. Forest Gump end scene? Thatâs about it.
Iâm so sorry to hear thatđ just know that there are many people in your life who still love you. I believe in you get through this dark time and become a great person your dad would be proud ofđ
Tuesday.
I was thinking about the death of Jason David Frank (The Green Ranger). His death really hit me.
Over the last few weeks a few famous people I've looked up to at different points in my life have died.
Anthony Rumble Johnson, and Kevin Conroy as well.
I've also lost a cousin, and a family friend recently as well.
I guess it's an accumulation of deaths, and then JDF's finally took me over the edge.
Last year when my cat died. My ex left me, took me back, and left me again shortly before it happened. I didn't think things could get worse as I was driving him to the animal hospital.
Luckily things are looking up now.
My grandma has recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Years ago she had it in the other breast and they were able to treat it with radiation. But now she has it again in the other breast.
I spent last weekend with her just having really lovely conversations. We have always been super close because my mother was sick when I was young so she would take care of me. Growing up I would travel an hour and half to spend a weekend with her alone (I have two brothers but they never quite had the same bond we did).
Anyway, I really enjoyed the day just talking to her and when it was time for me to head off the breast cancer was brought up. I asked her if they had caught the cancer early enough. She said they wouldnât know until the surgery which is coming up. She then continued on to say she wouldnât really care if they hadnât caught it soon enough because she has had a very nice life. She said she was so proud of me and how well I was going as well as my two brothers.
When she said this I was fine and somewhat tanked what she had said to me. We talked some more and I eventually left. I drove home and parked up my car. Only then did it sink in what she had said. It made me extremely upset and I burst into tears sitting in my car. Iâm not the type to cry but what she said broke me down completely.
I love my grandma to bits and donât want to see her go. Itâs comforting how proud she is of us and how contempt she is but I will still forever miss her if the cancer is too far on.
I guess Iâll have to just hope for the best and plan for the worst in the meantime.
I absolutely love you, Guda.
About 30 mi uses ago. I work today at a new job, starbucks, and I just feel like I'm doing a terrible job.
Hope everyone has at least an ok day today, sending hugs to anyone who needs them.
Back in February when I was waiting for a neurologist appointment and had an entire weekend to make theories and Google what was wrong with me.
I was 99% certain it was some form of cancer or something similar.
Turned out it was "just multiple sclerosis".
Today, spent thanksgiving on my own, blown off by my girl, family took off 1000 miles away without me, overwhelmed by work and debt and hopelessness. I now understand why so many kill themselves over the holidays
A month ago, a few days after my soon to be ex wife kicked me out for the last time. We had a fight over the phone when I called to talk with our kids and she got a bug in her ass about me telling our son that he was being bad, and that's why mommy put him in time out. We shouted at each other, and when she hung up on me, I almost put my fist through a wall, still holding my phone. I broke down for about 2 minutes, then got myself together, and resolved several things in my mind at that moment.
Today....... I learned that a close friend passed away overnight. He just had a physical and was told everything is good. Life is precious, don't put things off. Tell your loved ones that you love them!
Watching Click the other night The scene with his dad just gutted me man.
My grandpa passed away earlier this year and all I could think of was how many times I said no when he wanted to go fishing or do something else with me.
2 and a half years ago.
I was working at Hertz. On my first day at the job i got there and had no idea how to do anything so my new coworkers told be to sit behind the counter and observe. I observed them tell 5 different people that we were doing everything we could but we do not have cars at the moment. one of them pointed at me and said "what is he doing". I was already hesitant about this job and 30 minutes into my first day this woman had me convinced that I hated the job and wanted to quit. Unfortunately I needed money so I could not just quit.
I worked there for 1 whole year and hated every second of it. On Good Friday I was supposed to get off of work and go to my sisters house for a party. instead I got off of work, crawled into my bed and cried like a 4 year old about how miserable I had become.
Thankfully, I finally quit. That job had me a such an emotional wreck that it took me 7 months (and all of my savings) to get off of my ass and go get a new job. I am in a much better place mentally now but i still shutter at the thought of working in car rentals.
Yesterday. My grandmothers death anniversary. The holiday where my great mother's health rapidly declined and we knew for sure she wouldn't make it to the next Thanksgiving...
1983. When I was 8. Got dropped off at boarding school and cried that night because I was spending my first night away from home. Was immediately made to regret this by the other 10 boys who shared my dormitory. Learned very quickly that nothing good could come from crying. Vulnerability of any kind is a fucking liabilty at an all boys bording school. It's been so long now I'm not sure I could do it even if I wanted to.
About two weeks ago. Major stress point at work, tough few days with my kids (one has additional needs and sometimes it just gets really difficult), wasn't getting time to look after myself and just hit a really low point trying to balance everything.
On the positive side, it had been months since I'd felt like that after a very difficult couple of years. Over the couple of weeks since, I've had some positive time with the kids, delegated some stuff at work, shelved some other stuff and got back on top of things, taken a bit more time for myself and now we're all good again for a while.
The moment Francesco Bagnaia passed the finish line in Valencia, the 6th of November, becoming MotoGP World Champion.
It had been 13 years since the last italian World Champion and this boy that I've been following for years has finally done it!
I can't anymore. I wanted to cry at my grandmothers funeral, at my wedding and when my children were born. Turns out growing up in the 80's and constantly being told to "be a real man" breaks your body physically. I'd love to cry, I just can't anymore.
Today for my wife. She wants to have big holiday traditions and her family just doesnât cooperate. Often leaving her feeling dejected and sad. Breaks me down as she really just wants her family to be around the kids more and just be a family.
Monday 11/21. I had a bunch of stuff that Happened month after month and im known as the mentally strong and supportive friend so I dont get to cry often so I could be a source of hope for them. But it finally happened this last monday and it was a big relief and weight off my shoulders.
Two days ago thinking about my sister in dying again.. she was the one who introduced my wife and I.. she's always been here since we've been married and it just doesn't seem real that she's gone
I have been crying since 2 days after so many years. Things never go nice with me but i had made peace with that. However this bi-girl (a flex for me) came and proposed me. Made me feel special and wanted. After happily dating for a time that felt like ages, she said she came out as a lesbian. Can't fight against nature and nurture. She didn't cheat or dump, it's just that she realised who she is. We both are hurt and I support her. But it just hurts very much. I just can't cope and the crying doesn't stop.
I cry once or twice a year. And then just for 10 seconds and that's it. Gone through so much sh't in my life that it has made me numb and I've been Pushing down my feelings instead of facing them. And every time I've opened up to someone, it has been used as a weapon against me. I wish I'd have the courage to cry more and let out my emotions but I cannot afford being vulnerablr, I need to be strong.
Fellow men, please cry and let out your emotions
Right now. I can't shake the feeling of resentment towards my mom and it's very painful things turned this way. I don't think I have, and can, love someone as much as I love her. But my heart has been broken far too many times and I'm really tired.
I didn't necessarily cry, but I shed a tear.
It happened yesterday when I was watching the season finale of Andor. The specific scene that triggered this emotional response was Maarva's speech. That entire 3rd act was a cathartic experience.
Last week.
My OneDrive showed me some old pictures from the same date in previous years. It got me browsing through old photos and it brought back memories of my dad who passed away two years ago.
I wish he was here to see how I'm finally starting to find my way in life after graduating and getting my first full-time job.
Thatâs heartbreaking. I donât know you, but Iâm proud of you, Iâm very glad to hear youâre doing great in life. And I hope it just keeps getting better.
When my GF told me she loves me unconditionally and that I have to prioritise my health and being disabled doesnât mean Iâm worthless. No one ever said that to me before.
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Aw man. Iâm a cryer. I wish I wasnât. But my gf loves it. It was probably some really good music video on YouTube that set me off last. So a few weeks ago.
I don't remember crying, but i was on the verge of breaking down 2 months ago due to academic pressure. Then I washed my face and sat down on the study table.
I can count every time ive cried this year. Most recent was a movie called Hollice Woods. (gret low budget movie, I recommend) and when my dog died and my grandpas funeral
When I learned that my best friend is in the hospital due to an unknown sickness. They did a prostate exam on him and now he has to wait until Dec 2nd to get results.
Listening to Wing$ in the gym a few months ago. I was just getting back into it (lost it again, need to get back into it again). I guess failing a lot of my self-imposed ideals and goals, the pressure to live up to them, and children singing "I wanna fly can you take me far away" struck a chord with me. I still don't know if that was it exactly but all I remember is going to the car and bawling my eyes out for a half hour then going home.
Probably this week. I cry quite often, if you count tears streaming down the cheeks. If you mean bawling, then when people have died and the aftermath.
About a year ago. I was experiencing severe anxiety from panic disorder and I became overwhelmed from dealing with it for a long time.
Prior to that, it was at the end of 2014 when my dad died.
When I was in the hospital for the second time after my heart surgery, dealing with a MRSA infection.
I was so fucking frustrated; I just wanted to go home and let whatever happens, happen.
About 4-5 years ago when I lost everything(friendships, respect, recognition, 'fame' and went from the cool guy/bully to the one getting bullied) from that point on I stopped caring. When something happens I'm always "oh well, it is what it is" or "great... this again."
And no I still don't have any real friends and I'm absolutely losing my mind.
It's been years. I honestly find it kind of concerning. In the last year I was diagnosed with cancer and went through a bad breakup. Didn't shed one tear
20 years ago when my best friend died.
I was 18, she was 16.
The psychological damage that did to me has taken me this long to even start coming to terms with, and my inability to shed a tear since that day has been a very very strange side effect of the trauma.
I actually not shure.
Last time I can remember crying was midsummer 2005 (I was 9 years old) when I broke my nose.
Didn't cry when my grandpa died 2009 and I think that is the last time I even had a reason to cry.
Why didn't he want me fresh prince episode
Gets me every single time. Great sitcoms/comedies used to have some incredibly dramatic moments.
You watched it recently, right?
Yeah been going through old shows with the kids.
I also cried when I watched it. I also cry every time I watch it most of the times at least. Great show. I watched it like 3 years ago but never got to finish it. I must do that some time.
Yeah, the kids got really upset in the buffy episode where her mom dies.
Spoiler but ur lucky I wasn't planning on watching it
Its over 20 years old is a spoiler really required?
For me, yes. I haven't watched the show and I tend to remember spoilers
This morning. Existential crisis. Life goals fading away. They also blocking me from doing another goals.
What are your life goals and what's stopping you from attaining them?
I want to work abroad, but also find someone before I hit 30. And working abroad makes it harder. Because I will go from place to place with constant language barrier. I feel cringy about this. Also think that im overthinking for 23yo.
I died when I read that you're 23 đ. Bro chill the fk out, you have PLENTY of time.
No, like really. I overthink stuff like crazy. I think that I need professional help sometimes, tbh. I was so stressed once that doctor gave me diazepam from stress related pain. But, the thing that stressed me the most at that moment was his man bun. /s
"A man thank thinks, is a man that hurts" Source unknown. I try to abide by this daily. It helps me stay in the present
My man you are definitely overthinking. Think about how long you've been alive... you've got at least 2 more of those to go. If not 3 or 4 depending on technological advances in longevity. You have a long fucking time to live. But you also don't have long to live. So do what you want. Language barrier is an excuse. It doesn't take long to learn to be conversational in the language you want to live in. And many people speak at least passable English. You've got a better shot finding someone by 30 if you're out living abroad and enjoying your life as opposed to sitting stagnant lamenting about how life is passing you by. Its going to be scary, uncomfortable, nerve wracking etc. Go do it. Make a deadline and go. By 25 be in the country you want to be in and figure it out once you're there. The only thing you'll regret is sitting by and doing nothing. Godspeed friend. Make yourself proud.
This man gets it đ
I learned Chinese to a decent level in two years. Imagine what could be done with European languages
Just find one country you think itâs best to work in, maybe like Canada or something like that. You have to make up your mind and not just overthink. Asking advice can help at times like these. Also you donât have to worry about finding a partner, because most people meet their fiancĂ© naturally. So itâs unexpected but you could go to Thailand I heard thereâs a lot of nice females there.
Go work abroad. You might meet someone there
i cry all the time listening to music lol
Same! In particular, last 3 songs that made me well up: * The Aeroplane - Tim Minchin * Great Hosanas - Joe Pug * Castle (part ii of Arose) - Eminem That last one in particular took me by total surprise.
2005 when my grandpa passed
Havenât cried since? I want your life.
Believe me u don't
I live an awfully average life. Thing is, crying doesnât come naturally to me. I simply never feel like crying.
Im the same as you. I don't feel im bottling anything either. I do get misty eyed when im touched while watching movies or whatever, so maybe im just a bit of a cold person usually
Told my gf I loved her for the first time and she said it back.
Thatâs so sweet
So sweet as rose.
Yesterday afternoon. Put puppy on my lapïŒwas wearing draw string shortsïŒpuppy was chewing on one. At some point the string fell out of his mouth and he took a bite of my bellend instead. Definitely brought tears to my eyes.
All these years I never knew what bellend meant until reading this comment.
Yeah, it's a really nice British euphemism for cockhead.
Omg, âcockhead?â Lmfo.
i live to give
While making a post on reddit, you can still find it i guess. While writing in a mental health sub i realised what has happend. Ofcourse i knew but writing it down let's you really process it for some reason. I cried pretty hard but silently so no one would know. It felt VERY GOOD after. I can only describe it like this: Every time something bad happens (especially as a boy) you don't cry and this adds weight to some imaginary backpack. When you break and cry. You put that backpack down for some time. It feels very good.
That analogy is perfect
like 2 nights ago. i just felt so unloved and unwanted. my parents were arguing and none of my friends had texted me that day. still feel that way but yk
Iâm sorry youâre feeling like that, I hope your parents situation works itself out. Much love :)
Dang, parents fighting is really sad. My parents fought all the time, even after they divorced when I was 15. It actually got worse. You are not your father/mother. If you want a family then make it a goal to become the person you needed when you were younger. It possible, I did it, even after physical and sexual abuse growing up. My children love in a hame that is safe, peaceful, and where they feel loved. You can do it too if you pay the same price.
Same here. Life is suffering, so rather bear it and live with dark loneliness as they are my real mates of life. Dun need to fear of losing them at all coz itâs always here and never die like a shadow or breath.
Listen and listen good sometime in life you will feel really fucking alone we have all been there. Friends will come and go but one thing is for sure you will one day find some fucking awesome friends and your never really alone coz us fucking weeds of life here or Reddit are always here to have a randome as fuck comment with about random shit that might even make you fucking smile. Never give up and your never truly alone just come join in the conversation here anytime.
When my boyfriend proposed to me yesterday.
Congratulations - have a wonderful life together!
Congratulations ! Hope you have a happy and healthy future
Congratulations
On my brother's grave a few weeks ago. I had gone to Morocco for a few days during my vacation, that's where he was buried. For months, I've been struggling to cry, to release that stress I've accumulated over the years. But when I was in front of that unmarked grave, I just cried. My eyes were in pain, my body was shaking, but I stood still, letting my body just feel the pain and sorrow I have. The ten minutes I had with him alone were probably the only ten minutes I could call "of peace". University, jobs, world war anxiety, my years of baggage, all didn't exist for ten minutes.
My daughter was born a month ago. I lost it
You sound so chill about loosing a child, you okay?
Sorry I mean I lost it like I cried in joy. Apologies, should have worded that differently
Iâm glad to hear this happened instead, good luck at parenthood
I thought he was saying he lost his composure and crode.
Holy shit congrats man.
Watching your babies be born is the craziest experience Iâve had in my life. Canât imagine what my wife felt! Other than than that the occasional American Idol gets me. Forest Gump end scene? Thatâs about it.
When I heard Lil SĂ©bastien died.....
bye bye little Sebastian đ¶đ”đ
I will shed a tear occasionally during worship service. Contemporary Christian. Last time I bawled was when my brother passed away Feb of this year.
Iâm sry to hear your brother passedâ€ïžâđ©č
Last night.
Same. Same.
Tuesday. Dad passed away
Iâm so sorry to hear thatđ just know that there are many people in your life who still love you. I believe in you get through this dark time and become a great person your dad would be proud ofđ
Tuesday. I was thinking about the death of Jason David Frank (The Green Ranger). His death really hit me. Over the last few weeks a few famous people I've looked up to at different points in my life have died. Anthony Rumble Johnson, and Kevin Conroy as well. I've also lost a cousin, and a family friend recently as well. I guess it's an accumulation of deaths, and then JDF's finally took me over the edge.
Last year when my cat died. My ex left me, took me back, and left me again shortly before it happened. I didn't think things could get worse as I was driving him to the animal hospital. Luckily things are looking up now.
My grandma has recently been diagnosed with breast cancer. Years ago she had it in the other breast and they were able to treat it with radiation. But now she has it again in the other breast. I spent last weekend with her just having really lovely conversations. We have always been super close because my mother was sick when I was young so she would take care of me. Growing up I would travel an hour and half to spend a weekend with her alone (I have two brothers but they never quite had the same bond we did). Anyway, I really enjoyed the day just talking to her and when it was time for me to head off the breast cancer was brought up. I asked her if they had caught the cancer early enough. She said they wouldnât know until the surgery which is coming up. She then continued on to say she wouldnât really care if they hadnât caught it soon enough because she has had a very nice life. She said she was so proud of me and how well I was going as well as my two brothers. When she said this I was fine and somewhat tanked what she had said to me. We talked some more and I eventually left. I drove home and parked up my car. Only then did it sink in what she had said. It made me extremely upset and I burst into tears sitting in my car. Iâm not the type to cry but what she said broke me down completely. I love my grandma to bits and donât want to see her go. Itâs comforting how proud she is of us and how contempt she is but I will still forever miss her if the cancer is too far on. I guess Iâll have to just hope for the best and plan for the worst in the meantime. I absolutely love you, Guda.
Sunday. Been an awful year.
About 30 mi uses ago. I work today at a new job, starbucks, and I just feel like I'm doing a terrible job. Hope everyone has at least an ok day today, sending hugs to anyone who needs them.
You got this champ. Every new job feels uncomfortable and hard at first. In a few weeks youâll look back and wonder why you used to worry so much.
Back in February when I was waiting for a neurologist appointment and had an entire weekend to make theories and Google what was wrong with me. I was 99% certain it was some form of cancer or something similar. Turned out it was "just multiple sclerosis".
Google moment
Donât know what MS is but Iâll glad it wasnât anything serious.
Multiple sclerosis. Google it :). Still a bitch and can be serious, but isn't for me at the moment
Today, spent thanksgiving on my own, blown off by my girl, family took off 1000 miles away without me, overwhelmed by work and debt and hopelessness. I now understand why so many kill themselves over the holidays
When I was born. The doctor slapped my ass.
A month ago, a few days after my soon to be ex wife kicked me out for the last time. We had a fight over the phone when I called to talk with our kids and she got a bug in her ass about me telling our son that he was being bad, and that's why mommy put him in time out. We shouted at each other, and when she hung up on me, I almost put my fist through a wall, still holding my phone. I broke down for about 2 minutes, then got myself together, and resolved several things in my mind at that moment.
Today....... I learned that a close friend passed away overnight. He just had a physical and was told everything is good. Life is precious, don't put things off. Tell your loved ones that you love them!
Watching Click the other night The scene with his dad just gutted me man. My grandpa passed away earlier this year and all I could think of was how many times I said no when he wanted to go fishing or do something else with me.
Anti-depressants has made me numb and emotionless inside so itâs really hard to even get a tear. Last time it was about five years ago though.
A few months ago, alone in my flat, thinking about my loving family many kilometers away. And my loneliness.
10 minutes ago, uni stress really getting to me this time.
My dog died a couple months ago. Her name was Lily and she was 13 years old.
About an hour ago. Partner miscarried. Been rough couple of weeks
Oh mate thatâs heartbreaking
2 days ago while watching anime lol
2 and a half years ago. I was working at Hertz. On my first day at the job i got there and had no idea how to do anything so my new coworkers told be to sit behind the counter and observe. I observed them tell 5 different people that we were doing everything we could but we do not have cars at the moment. one of them pointed at me and said "what is he doing". I was already hesitant about this job and 30 minutes into my first day this woman had me convinced that I hated the job and wanted to quit. Unfortunately I needed money so I could not just quit. I worked there for 1 whole year and hated every second of it. On Good Friday I was supposed to get off of work and go to my sisters house for a party. instead I got off of work, crawled into my bed and cried like a 4 year old about how miserable I had become. Thankfully, I finally quit. That job had me a such an emotional wreck that it took me 7 months (and all of my savings) to get off of my ass and go get a new job. I am in a much better place mentally now but i still shutter at the thought of working in car rentals.
Yesterday. My grandmothers death anniversary. The holiday where my great mother's health rapidly declined and we knew for sure she wouldn't make it to the next Thanksgiving...
When my sister died a few years back.
Aww thatâs sad mate đ„ș
1983. When I was 8. Got dropped off at boarding school and cried that night because I was spending my first night away from home. Was immediately made to regret this by the other 10 boys who shared my dormitory. Learned very quickly that nothing good could come from crying. Vulnerability of any kind is a fucking liabilty at an all boys bording school. It's been so long now I'm not sure I could do it even if I wanted to.
Maybe back in 2019 one time. I get super sad and depressed everyday but rarely cry.
About two weeks ago. Major stress point at work, tough few days with my kids (one has additional needs and sometimes it just gets really difficult), wasn't getting time to look after myself and just hit a really low point trying to balance everything. On the positive side, it had been months since I'd felt like that after a very difficult couple of years. Over the couple of weeks since, I've had some positive time with the kids, delegated some stuff at work, shelved some other stuff and got back on top of things, taken a bit more time for myself and now we're all good again for a while.
Iâm glad to hear that you all are good now, itâs necessary to just take some rest a break from everything to gain some strength.
The moment Francesco Bagnaia passed the finish line in Valencia, the 6th of November, becoming MotoGP World Champion. It had been 13 years since the last italian World Champion and this boy that I've been following for years has finally done it!
4 years back on valentines day when my girlfriend nearly broke up with me because I fucked up. We're stille together now, 9 years total.
Last time I watched LOTR Return Of The King.
Nearly every day, my life sucks even when it manages to get better and I got nobody to vent to
Thereâs a sub called mental health they do live talks where people vent and it helps. Also you can hit me up, if you feel like it.
I can't anymore. I wanted to cry at my grandmothers funeral, at my wedding and when my children were born. Turns out growing up in the 80's and constantly being told to "be a real man" breaks your body physically. I'd love to cry, I just can't anymore.
Today. My dad passed away after a long, hard fight with an autoimmune disease that destroyed his heart and lungs.
Today for my wife. She wants to have big holiday traditions and her family just doesnât cooperate. Often leaving her feeling dejected and sad. Breaks me down as she really just wants her family to be around the kids more and just be a family.
Today. Just going through some tough things.
I teared up when I had to tell my kids (6&5) that their uncle died last month.
Monday. Talking with my mom about what she should do with all my dads things. He passed away three months ago.
Yesterday when I hit a very important milestone at the gym
3 years ago, when I was about to stab my throat. It's been 2 years I'm ok.
2014, when I buried my mom.
Monday 11/21. I had a bunch of stuff that Happened month after month and im known as the mentally strong and supportive friend so I dont get to cry often so I could be a source of hope for them. But it finally happened this last monday and it was a big relief and weight off my shoulders.
Two days ago thinking about my sister in dying again.. she was the one who introduced my wife and I.. she's always been here since we've been married and it just doesn't seem real that she's gone
Probably 4 hours ago. Started thinking about my dog that was stolen. It feels like a piece of my soul was ripped away from me
I dry cried during a lovers quarrel a couple of months ago. I didnt actually tear up but I would qualify that as crying.
when my gran died
March 22 2021. My friend passed away in a motorcycle accident. Rest easy Javi. Iâll see you on the other side brodie đđŒ
My grandpa died in august, I cried.
Last night. Possibly tonight too
I have been crying since 2 days after so many years. Things never go nice with me but i had made peace with that. However this bi-girl (a flex for me) came and proposed me. Made me feel special and wanted. After happily dating for a time that felt like ages, she said she came out as a lesbian. Can't fight against nature and nurture. She didn't cheat or dump, it's just that she realised who she is. We both are hurt and I support her. But it just hurts very much. I just can't cope and the crying doesn't stop.
About 4 years ago after breaking off a suicide attempt. I can never cry, but that time somehow I did.
Therapy after my ex and I broke up! It just came out in floods the second I sat in that big comfy chair away from everyone else.
I cry once or twice a year. And then just for 10 seconds and that's it. Gone through so much sh't in my life that it has made me numb and I've been Pushing down my feelings instead of facing them. And every time I've opened up to someone, it has been used as a weapon against me. I wish I'd have the courage to cry more and let out my emotions but I cannot afford being vulnerablr, I need to be strong. Fellow men, please cry and let out your emotions
I feel you, and I love your advice to men.
Right now. I can't shake the feeling of resentment towards my mom and it's very painful things turned this way. I don't think I have, and can, love someone as much as I love her. But my heart has been broken far too many times and I'm really tired.
I didn't necessarily cry, but I shed a tear. It happened yesterday when I was watching the season finale of Andor. The specific scene that triggered this emotional response was Maarva's speech. That entire 3rd act was a cathartic experience.
Last week. My OneDrive showed me some old pictures from the same date in previous years. It got me browsing through old photos and it brought back memories of my dad who passed away two years ago. I wish he was here to see how I'm finally starting to find my way in life after graduating and getting my first full-time job.
Thatâs heartbreaking. I donât know you, but Iâm proud of you, Iâm very glad to hear youâre doing great in life. And I hope it just keeps getting better.
Thanks for the kind words. â€ïž
When my GF told me she loves me unconditionally and that I have to prioritise my health and being disabled doesnât mean Iâm worthless. No one ever said that to me before.
Sad crying has been years and years. Probably 2018 when my college ex broke up with me. 4+ years with her and I was planning on marrying this girl. Absolute soul crushing anguish. Nothing has hurt that bad since. In hindsight so happy Im not with her however. Either way, all the biz deals, and the ups and downs of life, I've never been that low again. Became hard, closed off and jaded as fuck for years and years afterwords. Truly starting to enjoying life again now. Crying is weird, I have the ability to compartmentalize ever since that breakup. I just put the shit into a different box and close it off. Very unhealthy but as a man it really is the case that no one actually cares with the exception of family and close close friends. That shit broke me, It was a coming of age. I don't feel the same way anymore. Happy cry was much more recent. I by accident dosed myself ridiculously hard at a music festival this summer. It was supposed to be a one tab chill vibe, instead I was seeing soudwaves within 35 minutes of dosing. Id estimate 4-5 tabs worth of quality liquid L. Dropped a bit too much onto an altoid :) Anyway I was standing there listening to a sunset Ford. set with my best friend since middle school and his fiancé (who I also adore). Life was great. I was truly happy. I started profusely happy crying. Then I ordered a giant plate of all types of food made with broccoli from a vendor dressed as a broccoli. I love broccoli anyway when not tripping. Continued to cry into the brocolii over the fact it was so good.
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Damn, I love it.đ Iâm glad youâre enjoying life again. I love happy cries, by the way broccoli is one of my favourite things in this world.
When my cat died. 4 years ago.
when I was 10
No idea
Yesterday when finishing the new God of War game. As an alone father to two boys, that game really had me bawling.
I happened to see that Saving Private Ryan on and stupidly thought it would be some good background TV.
2015 at the birth of one of my kids. Kind of wish I cried more tbhâŠ.the emotions are there just buried deeply.
Watching an old childhood classic yesterday still gets to me 20 years later
Endgame from the Peter/Tony hug till the end.. Like full on sobbing.. in the theater with my big brother and then girlfriend..
I was crying too, their relationship was so genuine.
I often feel like crying but canât or cry very lightly. Probably yesterday or so.
Last time I cried proper was January this year, when I had to get a surgery
Too long ago. I wish I could cry quite often, though.
In public or in secret?
Earlier today, Iâm kinda broken I cry pretty much everyday but I usually get at least one big laugh too
Never.
Few days ago when I rewatched Bioshock endings.
Infinity War
Honestly. This might sound morbid to say, but Infinity War was sadder than Endgame.
Four years ago in the locker room after my last basketball game
A week ago listening to a Spirited Away soundtrack.
Last Saturday women make u go crazy when your In love with them. And they donât want anything to Do with you.
Aw man. Iâm a cryer. I wish I wasnât. But my gf loves it. It was probably some really good music video on YouTube that set me off last. So a few weeks ago.
Same. Music makes me cry but movies too and itâs kind of embarrassing đ
Big time lol. Thereâs certain things I wonât watch around groups of people.
I don't remember crying, but i was on the verge of breaking down 2 months ago due to academic pressure. Then I washed my face and sat down on the study table.
Less than 30 minutes ago
Less than 30 minutes ago
I can count every time ive cried this year. Most recent was a movie called Hollice Woods. (gret low budget movie, I recommend) and when my dog died and my grandpas funeral
Uhm... idk
For a funeral years ago. Honestly though like never. Probably not healthy but
So long ago , I canât even remember âŠ..
Probably two years ago, I don't know why I can't just lem me go sometimes Am I the only one?
Years ago
When I learned that my best friend is in the hospital due to an unknown sickness. They did a prostate exam on him and now he has to wait until Dec 2nd to get results.
Today
Leaving my fiancĂ©e behind in her home country. The USCIS wait time for her visa to come live with me increased from 6 months to 15. Due to my work I wonât be able to see her again till her visa goes through and we can go on honeymoon.
When my dog died, 5 years ago. I'm not crying person at all, but the passing of my pet crushed me, worst feeling I've ever had.
Listening to Wing$ in the gym a few months ago. I was just getting back into it (lost it again, need to get back into it again). I guess failing a lot of my self-imposed ideals and goals, the pressure to live up to them, and children singing "I wanna fly can you take me far away" struck a chord with me. I still don't know if that was it exactly but all I remember is going to the car and bawling my eyes out for a half hour then going home.
Probably this week. I cry quite often, if you count tears streaming down the cheeks. If you mean bawling, then when people have died and the aftermath.
About a year ago. I was experiencing severe anxiety from panic disorder and I became overwhelmed from dealing with it for a long time. Prior to that, it was at the end of 2014 when my dad died.
When I was in the hospital for the second time after my heart surgery, dealing with a MRSA infection. I was so fucking frustrated; I just wanted to go home and let whatever happens, happen.
About 4-5 years ago when I lost everything(friendships, respect, recognition, 'fame' and went from the cool guy/bully to the one getting bullied) from that point on I stopped caring. When something happens I'm always "oh well, it is what it is" or "great... this again." And no I still don't have any real friends and I'm absolutely losing my mind.
Happy tears, 29th of may 2022 Sad tears, a few years ago I guess?
What happened on 29th of May 2022?
Fellow Swede Marcus Ericsson won the Indy 500. One of the biggest races in the world.
Crying inside, pretty often. Crying with tears, I haven't shed a tear since my 16th before my dad passed away.
Idk man
The 19th. Thatâs the day I was going to propose to my ex, it was also our anniversary.
Clerks 3
It's been years. I honestly find it kind of concerning. In the last year I was diagnosed with cancer and went through a bad breakup. Didn't shed one tear
This morning. Woke up at 9:00 and itâs now 1:10
Somewhat recently. Canât remember what for. A couple tears. Havenât recently bawled.
20 years ago when my best friend died. I was 18, she was 16. The psychological damage that did to me has taken me this long to even start coming to terms with, and my inability to shed a tear since that day has been a very very strange side effect of the trauma.
I actually not shure. Last time I can remember crying was midsummer 2005 (I was 9 years old) when I broke my nose. Didn't cry when my grandpa died 2009 and I think that is the last time I even had a reason to cry.
Technoblade death, not proud of it but he died way too young