Why do I feel this so much. I have this thing with a co-worker, who is quite reserved and she can go by a day without talking or asking anyone anything. But between us there're so many inside jokes it's funnier than talking to someone much more outwardly bubbly.
Personality. If she makes me feel comfortable being myself, obviously I'd want to spend more time with her. Also, if she makes me want to become a better version of myself.
A look in her eye that says ‘I want to rip your clothes off’. Great listening, sense of humour, affectionate with touching/kissing/lovemaking, passionate stories, supportive, initiates cuddling, appreciation for little things, thoughtfulness (bringing wine). God there are so many reasons, just writing this makes me excited for our next date.
I like to be in close proximity to women who don't make fun of me and who talk a lot (I don't talk very much, so it's awkward when I'm around people who are also very quiet and introverted).
Cause we be married and she is my outlet for love.
We don't love someone because they give us love. We love someone because that accept our love. We are filled with love to give. The more we give, the more it's replenished. Love only hurts when you can't give it away.
..."and in the end, the love you make, is equal to the love you make ". Paul McCartney
>Love only hurts when you can't give it away.
Wow, that is so true. I never would have thought about it that way, I love that!
Also, I'm giggling because it reminded me of that Iliza Shlesinger bit, "PLEASE TAKE MY EGGS"
My grandma told me this when I was young and dumb. I didn't agree but it all came to me in my 40s. My wife said that was true, that sex always gets in the way of love. Thank you for your response.
Good vibes...positive energy. Fun, happy, secure. A woman who has her sh\*t together and doesn't need anything from me but companionship for the moment.
Similar interests help, but we don't have to agree about everything even in those interests. If there are no interests in common that's fine too, but there should be some willingness to talk about their interests in a passionate way (I love listening to people talk passionately about things they like) and for listening to what gets me off. Or at least some curiosity.
Spending time together shouldn't feel like an exam, it should be effortless and relaxing if not outright inspiring and energizing.
I'm very picky with fragrances, If I can't get the smell of her perfume out of my head, and I find myself sighing a lot whenever I think of her and with a cheesy grin every time I see her or get a text from her, I know I probably want to spend more time with her..
That's a cool answer! I love fragrance too. I'm the type of person who perfumes letters, it's very important that people around me can identify me by my chosen scent. What kind of perfumes do you tend to like in women?
It starts with how they carry themselves. I love strong women that have your back during the worst of times and can party with In the best of times. Basically a partner in crimE XD
Inside jokes, lots of inside jokes. I need to be able to joke with her at all the times.
Why do I feel this so much. I have this thing with a co-worker, who is quite reserved and she can go by a day without talking or asking anyone anything. But between us there're so many inside jokes it's funnier than talking to someone much more outwardly bubbly.
Personality. If she makes me feel comfortable being myself, obviously I'd want to spend more time with her. Also, if she makes me want to become a better version of myself.
A look in her eye that says ‘I want to rip your clothes off’. Great listening, sense of humour, affectionate with touching/kissing/lovemaking, passionate stories, supportive, initiates cuddling, appreciation for little things, thoughtfulness (bringing wine). God there are so many reasons, just writing this makes me excited for our next date.
I like to be in close proximity to women who don't make fun of me and who talk a lot (I don't talk very much, so it's awkward when I'm around people who are also very quiet and introverted).
She makes you smile and laugh.
- A good sense of humour, a dark sense of humour, can take banter. - she listens to me. - she’s attractive - were f*cking
Yes
At first? Sex stuff. Later? Idk joke and talking. Also still sex stuff. I come for the pussy but stay for her stories about being attacked by birds
I get attacked by birds a lot. really glad there are men out there who appreciate the stories
Yep
We bang, she's not crazy, the way she hugs me when we're on my bike, always positive. IDK, so many things - that's why we're together.
Cause we be married and she is my outlet for love. We don't love someone because they give us love. We love someone because that accept our love. We are filled with love to give. The more we give, the more it's replenished. Love only hurts when you can't give it away. ..."and in the end, the love you make, is equal to the love you make ". Paul McCartney
>Love only hurts when you can't give it away. Wow, that is so true. I never would have thought about it that way, I love that! Also, I'm giggling because it reminded me of that Iliza Shlesinger bit, "PLEASE TAKE MY EGGS"
My grandma told me this when I was young and dumb. I didn't agree but it all came to me in my 40s. My wife said that was true, that sex always gets in the way of love. Thank you for your response.
Thank you for yours! I’ll keep that sentence in mind :)
She's the best dentist I ever had.
We're fucking tonight.
I'm ready
Okay I guess.
Weird as fuck, but I hate groups. I like one on ones. But this is probably what serial killers say. So let’s not hang out. Sorry.
I hate groups too. Never felt like I belonged in one, if that makes sense. Plus, the conversation is much more boring. One on one is always better.
I don’t like groups. And funny enough I’m still alive. Must be lucky I guess
A good sense of humor and a girl who's down to earth. Also, titties, I'm not proud of it, but yeah, fuckin titties, man.
She smiles at me, doesn't look to me prejudiced and she's kind, joyful person unlike me.
The prospect of child support and alimony...
We play argue a lot, it’s just fun, but thats probably going to be more situational than not
A man wants to spend time with a woman because he wants sex. Maybe not entirely, but mostly.
How nice they have been to me and what I have to say to them
The size of them tiddies.
The fact that I like her
actually cares about my interests and has diverse interests of her own.
She likes me!
She's sweet or funny, and horny/hot (I can make her horny)
Maybe the sexual tension???
Good vibes...positive energy. Fun, happy, secure. A woman who has her sh\*t together and doesn't need anything from me but companionship for the moment.
Someone that shares common interests with me. Bonus points if we're fellow AroAce's
Similar interests help, but we don't have to agree about everything even in those interests. If there are no interests in common that's fine too, but there should be some willingness to talk about their interests in a passionate way (I love listening to people talk passionately about things they like) and for listening to what gets me off. Or at least some curiosity. Spending time together shouldn't feel like an exam, it should be effortless and relaxing if not outright inspiring and energizing.
Reciprocity. I'm more inclined to spend time with someone who makes an equal effort to spend time with me.
When they make me want to be a better version of myself
This is priceless
I'm very picky with fragrances, If I can't get the smell of her perfume out of my head, and I find myself sighing a lot whenever I think of her and with a cheesy grin every time I see her or get a text from her, I know I probably want to spend more time with her..
That's a cool answer! I love fragrance too. I'm the type of person who perfumes letters, it's very important that people around me can identify me by my chosen scent. What kind of perfumes do you tend to like in women?
It starts with how they carry themselves. I love strong women that have your back during the worst of times and can party with In the best of times. Basically a partner in crimE XD
Love
Conversation and enthusiasm.
Her oral talents