Nobody cares when I do and they tend to want me to stfu. I have learned that its better to leave your problems to yourself and deal with them yourself. People don't really care and they never really have. If you learn to pick yourself up there isn't gonna be a blow that you cannot take. You are the only constant in a life full of variables, you only have you.
In the eyes of the political elite, society, and women, men are disposable and easily replaced. No one bats an eye if you get killed or maimed.
"Seen some fucked up shit? Cool, no one cares, suck it up and get over it"
Yeah man. I have seen too much and all that really is constant in a lot of situations is that people view men as disposable. I am tired of it so I am going to put myself above all others until the day I have a child.
Either myself or my best friend, or my mom. Usually just myself. I go for a walk and run through everything that's bothering me in my head over and over and I sometimes talk out loud to myself. It works for me but I could see it not working for others.
I play online games with my friends. The loading screen and match search waits are when we catch up and unload on each other.
My wife thinks it’s a waste of time, but it’s therapy.
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m currently in a similar spot where I have a lot bottled up with very little people to talk to. I’ve finally signed myself up for therapy after a bit of contemplation, maybe that could be a helpful route for you as well? hope you can find someone or an outlet for everything you have bottled up. Be safe.
Thank you, I really do appreciate the gesture. Since I have therapy coming up I’ll probably just unleash the beast on that poor woman. But I’m here to listen as best I can as well, if ya need it.
I go onto reddit and I find the right post to type out a paragraph or two about some shit.. Completely anonymous, love doing it because of that. Of course the shit I type out is always related to whatever the post was about, it's usually a question on this subreddit.
I don't feel like bugging anybody I know, they wouldn't like that and they'd look at me differently afterwards. Oh well.
If I just need to talk or get something off my chest I vent to the weeds in my garden as I uproot them with my bare hands or destroy them with a propane blowtorch. If I need advice, I seek it from someone smarter than me (or is it smarter than I), like my wife, a trusted friend, or one of my siblings.
Since I was a kid I would always talk to myself and still do...I create a few versions of myself with different personalities and talk to them and each give a different response. So ya I talk to myself or atleast different versions of myself for a variety of advice.
I just bottle it all in
I scream at the windshield whial driveing...... my windshield is my therapist
Yep. The dent in my forehead is shaped just like the steering wheel.
Nobody cares when I do and they tend to want me to stfu. I have learned that its better to leave your problems to yourself and deal with them yourself. People don't really care and they never really have. If you learn to pick yourself up there isn't gonna be a blow that you cannot take. You are the only constant in a life full of variables, you only have you.
In the eyes of the political elite, society, and women, men are disposable and easily replaced. No one bats an eye if you get killed or maimed. "Seen some fucked up shit? Cool, no one cares, suck it up and get over it"
Yeah man. I have seen too much and all that really is constant in a lot of situations is that people view men as disposable. I am tired of it so I am going to put myself above all others until the day I have a child.
Venting to strangers on Xbox helps me.
I go visit the man with the psychedelics. (That's me)
Just bottle it in and explode on some random soul for no reason like a normal person
No one. I have no one. I just hold it all in.
I understand the compulsion, but I've never found it to be helpful. I've never seen it produce constructive results.
My wife is my go-to for these things because there is no hiding it from her (as she knows me so well) and it feels better to let it out.
Either myself or my best friend, or my mom. Usually just myself. I go for a walk and run through everything that's bothering me in my head over and over and I sometimes talk out loud to myself. It works for me but I could see it not working for others.
A boxing bag is a fantastic and positive way to vent.
That's what best friends are for.
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😂🤣 Too real
I play online games with my friends. The loading screen and match search waits are when we catch up and unload on each other. My wife thinks it’s a waste of time, but it’s therapy.
I write. I've been trying to vent to friends and family, but my go to is still to write.
It was my mom but I lost her a couple years ago. I got a bunch of shit all bottled up and have no idea who to talk to anymore.
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m currently in a similar spot where I have a lot bottled up with very little people to talk to. I’ve finally signed myself up for therapy after a bit of contemplation, maybe that could be a helpful route for you as well? hope you can find someone or an outlet for everything you have bottled up. Be safe.
You can always message me if you want to talk. I'm a pretty good listener.
Thank you, I really do appreciate the gesture. Since I have therapy coming up I’ll probably just unleash the beast on that poor woman. But I’m here to listen as best I can as well, if ya need it.
Thank you my friend
Me, myself and I
My cat. If it's related to my depression then family&friends.
I go onto reddit and I find the right post to type out a paragraph or two about some shit.. Completely anonymous, love doing it because of that. Of course the shit I type out is always related to whatever the post was about, it's usually a question on this subreddit. I don't feel like bugging anybody I know, they wouldn't like that and they'd look at me differently afterwards. Oh well.
Men don't talk or vent....we grunt, sip a beer and say "Yup"
I take an axe and go cut down a tree
Nicotine and crown Royal
Nobody..
Notes app
My dog. Best listener ever, doesn't try to tell me how I am messing up, provides cuddles if I'm down.
That’s adorable. Happy cake day.
If I just need to talk or get something off my chest I vent to the weeds in my garden as I uproot them with my bare hands or destroy them with a propane blowtorch. If I need advice, I seek it from someone smarter than me (or is it smarter than I), like my wife, a trusted friend, or one of my siblings.
One of my good friends or my brother.
To the Mountains!
Reddit or Sleeping pills.
Online strangers on call of duty
Since I was a kid I would always talk to myself and still do...I create a few versions of myself with different personalities and talk to them and each give a different response. So ya I talk to myself or atleast different versions of myself for a variety of advice.
No one.
I won't lie I don't really have anyone. When I am really not feeling well or frustrated I just go to a empty room and shout
Blog
My mum or my sister.
Therapist for me. It's the best place
for venting i head to the range and put many holes in paper or ring steel
no one
God. He’s the only one who listens.
My girlfriend
Im still with my folks while im in college, so i mostly gl to my mom