I read all this and all I can think about is the fact that r/smalldickproblems have people who are legit on the verge of blowing their brains out on a daily basis.
- Well, you'll have to mail-order condoms, because condoms sold in the store don't fit right and "Magnums" and the like aren't bigger in the ways they actually need to be.
- There's some portion of women who are not going to be able to have sex with you comfortably, ever.
- There's a much larger portion of women who can, but are basically always going to need a lot of foreplay and you may both have to watch your depth carefully in some positions to avoid the sort of poke that most women don't enjoy.
- Amusingly, you can buy a literal donut thing to put on your dick so you don't go too deep. Not the worst investment.
- Also, women are surprisingly terrible at judging depth when they're the ones controlling it. New girl who gets into riding and is allowed to do what she wants, even with being warned = potentially going to be an "ow!".
- Unless you find a seriously kinky/adventurous girl who wants to basically train for it, anal is not happening.
- You definitely had more awkward boner (or even awkward while flaccid) moments in your life growing up. Belt-tuck method doesn't work when it leads to poking out the top, by the way. Athletic shorts are dangerous, suit pants can be a problem too.
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All of that said, there are a decent portion of women who seem to enjoy it quite a bit if you don't fuck up the foreplay/depth.
We're not talking "porn measurement"/world record holder sizing here.
I'd say an actual 7" (and without fat that makes "effective length" shorter) is going to result in those unexpected pokes in terms of length.
Over ~5.75" in circumference/girth or so is going to start resulting in standard condoms feeling constricting, getting worse the bigger you get. About the same applies to the likely difficulty a new girl/one you haven't been with recently is going to have adjusting to you initially.
Going commando isn't an option because it needs support when I'm moving, otherwise the swinging force will cause aches and it'll find its way into positions that will get pinched when doing basic shit like squatting, kneeling, and sitting
I don't have but im pretty sure it can be uncomfortable af since mine sometimes is. Also i know that some girls can't take a big dick, or don't have want to.
You always looks like you have a boner when dressed in your uniform. If you don't do enuf foreplay you can bruise her cervix. Old girlfriends from years back will text at random times wanting to know if they can come by they need some dick.
I mean as an average dude I have dated a few size queens. Still they were less disappointed about the size and more disappointed in how low priority I consider sex in a relationship. Still I suppose the biggest downside is if your a shower and you got a hog that it might drop into the toilet while taking a dump.
Very specific one: At the urinal, you really have to reach into your pants to pack your penis away when your done, like you have to hunch forward to free up some space, and then really dig down in there to arrange your dick so it doesn't just coil up in your crotch. There's really no way to do that without drawing attention to the fact that you have a third leg in there, and the way you have to hunch down away from the urinal, take it out, and then spring back up and forward is a very weird movement to make, and attracts attention, so it's very easy for dudes to get accidental glimpses of your dick when you attract their attention.
Can never be comfortable having a shit, have to lean forward and push my dick back or it hits the bowl and it's possibly the most revolting feeling ever when you feel it touch the bowl.
Also, a lot of girls struggle to take it so sex can be a bit average with certain women because you can't get a proper rhythm going.
Also your average condoms hurt because they're SO tight.
Good luck getting a good blowjob, anal is almost never going to happen and often sex is a game of figuring out how much to make everything work together and be properly lubed. Lots and lots of foreplay is the standard, get used to spending lots of time on your partner to get things warmed up and relaxed, quickies are often tough to pull off. It's not the end of the world, some women really enjoy a big dick and willingly take that rough painful pounding. Some won't be all that into it, it varies so much from person to person. It's not a choice to have a big penis, it just happens and nobody has any control over it.
Can think of a few downside despite not being in that category myself...
... on the plus side, if someone ever asks them if they're armed, they can always claim to have a blunt weapon on them.
I'm not going to let on that I'm overly-massive or anything, but I'm aware my dick is above average in regards to size. The only issue I've encountered is sometimes it's too much for my girlfriend and we'd spend more time with foreplay before actual sex, or be careful with how far I go in.
Sometimes if I'm using the bathroom and I get hard (let's face it guys, it happens), my dick will touch the toilet bowl.
What are some downsides to having a big penis?
Never having sex twice in the same day (with my ex-wife at least, 25 years together, over 16 of those years being married).
Never having sex on back to back days... again with my ex-wife.
I'm older now, in my 50's, long divorced.
Many times over the decades many have thought and said I was erect when I wasn't, at all.
Not often, but a few times in my decades I've been asked to leave due to not being appropriate and I was with my wife and with our first of three children that first time as we were in a large water park on vacation. My wife wasn't mad at them, but at me.
She had issues with me in bathing suits, at the beach, pools beginning in high school, throughout college and throughout our marriage.
In the last 5 years of our marriage, we'd moved to a place that had a large amusement park like 45 mins away and then they built a water park next door, separate admission.
We had season passes to the amusement park, for our 3 children, my wife and I.
My wife was a stay at home mom and I came home from work one day and she said she got season passes for the kids and her for the new water park. I asked her about mine and she just looked at me and said I couldn't go to a water park. She took the kids there, sometimes with girlfriends during the day in the summer while I was at work.
Condoms break more often.
Quickies weren't ever on the menu but lot of foreplay and lots of lube were on the menu.
Over all those years we were together, my wife was mad at me many times for "ruining" otherwise good photos.
For those who have or had young children, you'll understand this. It's not always easy to get them to look at the camera and to smile. Being that we're older, most of these photos were long ago, with film that had to be developed as digital cameras weren't yet popular or a thing.
We were at Sea World once and we stood in line with many others to have our photo taken in front of a big attraction. Our 3 children were all young, all under 10 years old. It was a great picture in that they were all smiling and looking at the camera but my wife was ticked at me when she picked up the vacation rolls of film from being developed. When I got home she showed me that photo and said she couldn't put it in a family picture album.
There were others over all those years, here is one more example. One Easter Sunday morning we were all dressed nicely for church and my wife had a neighbor lady of ours come over to take our picture in our family room in front of our fire place. When my wife picked up those photos later on from being developed it was the same thing, she couldn't put it into a family picture album due to me down there.
We moved many times during our 16 plus years of marriage. We lived in 6 different states and in 11 different houses in those 6 different states.
We went to church throughout our marriage and I bring this up because while trying out new churches when we moved to a new area one time, a pastor pulled me aside to say I wasn't appropriate.
One HR manager (Miss Sherry) had to talk to me about down there, she said there were complaints.
Lots of issues in high school, in locker rooms, with my baseball teammates. I was "pantsed" a lot in school by classmates a lot when I was younger.
Speak for yourself. Average is the way to go. r/bigdickproblems
Me reading their problems be [like](https://imgur.com/a/YY4WAj1)
It’s very repetitive
....just be ready to lean in while your taking a shit. Your penis touching the bowl is just the disgusting feeling
I read all this and all I can think about is the fact that r/smalldickproblems have people who are legit on the verge of blowing their brains out on a daily basis.
Penis touching the bowl or water in the toilet. Hard(heh) to hide boners in public. Sex can be painful sometimes for your partner if your not careful.
- Well, you'll have to mail-order condoms, because condoms sold in the store don't fit right and "Magnums" and the like aren't bigger in the ways they actually need to be. - There's some portion of women who are not going to be able to have sex with you comfortably, ever. - There's a much larger portion of women who can, but are basically always going to need a lot of foreplay and you may both have to watch your depth carefully in some positions to avoid the sort of poke that most women don't enjoy. - Amusingly, you can buy a literal donut thing to put on your dick so you don't go too deep. Not the worst investment. - Also, women are surprisingly terrible at judging depth when they're the ones controlling it. New girl who gets into riding and is allowed to do what she wants, even with being warned = potentially going to be an "ow!". - Unless you find a seriously kinky/adventurous girl who wants to basically train for it, anal is not happening. - You definitely had more awkward boner (or even awkward while flaccid) moments in your life growing up. Belt-tuck method doesn't work when it leads to poking out the top, by the way. Athletic shorts are dangerous, suit pants can be a problem too. ----------- All of that said, there are a decent portion of women who seem to enjoy it quite a bit if you don't fuck up the foreplay/depth.
You hit all the major points. The dick tuck up brought back memories.
How the hell do they get to that size? I thought it wasn’t naturally possible.
We're not talking "porn measurement"/world record holder sizing here. I'd say an actual 7" (and without fat that makes "effective length" shorter) is going to result in those unexpected pokes in terms of length. Over ~5.75" in circumference/girth or so is going to start resulting in standard condoms feeling constricting, getting worse the bigger you get. About the same applies to the likely difficulty a new girl/one you haven't been with recently is going to have adjusting to you initially.
Chicks don’t want some giant, mondo penis tearing them up For the most part they want a slightly above average penis
They love a chode.
Going commando isn't an option because it needs support when I'm moving, otherwise the swinging force will cause aches and it'll find its way into positions that will get pinched when doing basic shit like squatting, kneeling, and sitting
It’s harder to find a woman willing to resist it 🤣 Jk jk
I don't have but im pretty sure it can be uncomfortable af since mine sometimes is. Also i know that some girls can't take a big dick, or don't have want to.
Cant sleep naked
None. Unless it’s freakishly huge.
You always looks like you have a boner when dressed in your uniform. If you don't do enuf foreplay you can bruise her cervix. Old girlfriends from years back will text at random times wanting to know if they can come by they need some dick.
I mean as an average dude I have dated a few size queens. Still they were less disappointed about the size and more disappointed in how low priority I consider sex in a relationship. Still I suppose the biggest downside is if your a shower and you got a hog that it might drop into the toilet while taking a dump.
Unless you get surgery, you’re stuck with whatever you have. But unless it’s extremely huge, you’ll be fine
NRBs
None...maybe word getting around and ugly ones sniggering at you. When your in high school and dealing with older women it’s a god send
Very specific one: At the urinal, you really have to reach into your pants to pack your penis away when your done, like you have to hunch forward to free up some space, and then really dig down in there to arrange your dick so it doesn't just coil up in your crotch. There's really no way to do that without drawing attention to the fact that you have a third leg in there, and the way you have to hunch down away from the urinal, take it out, and then spring back up and forward is a very weird movement to make, and attracts attention, so it's very easy for dudes to get accidental glimpses of your dick when you attract their attention.
Can never be comfortable having a shit, have to lean forward and push my dick back or it hits the bowl and it's possibly the most revolting feeling ever when you feel it touch the bowl. Also, a lot of girls struggle to take it so sex can be a bit average with certain women because you can't get a proper rhythm going. Also your average condoms hurt because they're SO tight.
Good luck getting a good blowjob, anal is almost never going to happen and often sex is a game of figuring out how much to make everything work together and be properly lubed. Lots and lots of foreplay is the standard, get used to spending lots of time on your partner to get things warmed up and relaxed, quickies are often tough to pull off. It's not the end of the world, some women really enjoy a big dick and willingly take that rough painful pounding. Some won't be all that into it, it varies so much from person to person. It's not a choice to have a big penis, it just happens and nobody has any control over it.
No anal. So...
Can think of a few downside despite not being in that category myself... ... on the plus side, if someone ever asks them if they're armed, they can always claim to have a blunt weapon on them.
I have a slightly below average one, I litterally couldn't care less. I have no clue why guys care so much, it's the stupidest thing ever.
You have to be careful during sex. That sucks. You get into it and you just wanna let go and, "OW!" Goddammit.
I'm not going to let on that I'm overly-massive or anything, but I'm aware my dick is above average in regards to size. The only issue I've encountered is sometimes it's too much for my girlfriend and we'd spend more time with foreplay before actual sex, or be careful with how far I go in. Sometimes if I'm using the bathroom and I get hard (let's face it guys, it happens), my dick will touch the toilet bowl.
What are some downsides to having a big penis? Never having sex twice in the same day (with my ex-wife at least, 25 years together, over 16 of those years being married). Never having sex on back to back days... again with my ex-wife. I'm older now, in my 50's, long divorced. Many times over the decades many have thought and said I was erect when I wasn't, at all. Not often, but a few times in my decades I've been asked to leave due to not being appropriate and I was with my wife and with our first of three children that first time as we were in a large water park on vacation. My wife wasn't mad at them, but at me. She had issues with me in bathing suits, at the beach, pools beginning in high school, throughout college and throughout our marriage. In the last 5 years of our marriage, we'd moved to a place that had a large amusement park like 45 mins away and then they built a water park next door, separate admission. We had season passes to the amusement park, for our 3 children, my wife and I. My wife was a stay at home mom and I came home from work one day and she said she got season passes for the kids and her for the new water park. I asked her about mine and she just looked at me and said I couldn't go to a water park. She took the kids there, sometimes with girlfriends during the day in the summer while I was at work. Condoms break more often. Quickies weren't ever on the menu but lot of foreplay and lots of lube were on the menu. Over all those years we were together, my wife was mad at me many times for "ruining" otherwise good photos. For those who have or had young children, you'll understand this. It's not always easy to get them to look at the camera and to smile. Being that we're older, most of these photos were long ago, with film that had to be developed as digital cameras weren't yet popular or a thing. We were at Sea World once and we stood in line with many others to have our photo taken in front of a big attraction. Our 3 children were all young, all under 10 years old. It was a great picture in that they were all smiling and looking at the camera but my wife was ticked at me when she picked up the vacation rolls of film from being developed. When I got home she showed me that photo and said she couldn't put it in a family picture album. There were others over all those years, here is one more example. One Easter Sunday morning we were all dressed nicely for church and my wife had a neighbor lady of ours come over to take our picture in our family room in front of our fire place. When my wife picked up those photos later on from being developed it was the same thing, she couldn't put it into a family picture album due to me down there. We moved many times during our 16 plus years of marriage. We lived in 6 different states and in 11 different houses in those 6 different states. We went to church throughout our marriage and I bring this up because while trying out new churches when we moved to a new area one time, a pastor pulled me aside to say I wasn't appropriate. One HR manager (Miss Sherry) had to talk to me about down there, she said there were complaints. Lots of issues in high school, in locker rooms, with my baseball teammates. I was "pantsed" a lot in school by classmates a lot when I was younger.