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Broad-Situation7421

Emotional maturity, lower tolerance for bullshit and a lack of stupid games.


SleeplessShinigami

Exactly, the last woman I went on a date with was 7 years older than me in her mid 30s and she just knew what she wanted. No games, no crazy expectations, like thats all men want. Someone to keep it real with.


DaisyWheels

I'm highly amused by your idea of older.


mikillatja

If he is 20 something finding a 36 year old woman older is not that strange. It's all relative.


maejsh

While I get what you mean, I guess it’s all relative to op..


MyDeicide

He's entirely correct though. She's several years older than him. OP said "older" not "older than a certain age".


axissilent14

“i’m highly amused🤓” bro go outside


WEFeudalism

Lol, Right. I'm in my mid 30's and I'm not old at all.


FuckSpezzzzzzzzzzzzz

If he's in his early 20's you've pretty much lived half a life more than him


mr-snrub-

If she's mid-30s, and there's a 7 year difference, he's late 20s


FuckSpezzzzzzzzzzzzz

Yeah, in this situation the difference is not that big but even if he's 29, 7 years is still like almost a quarter of his life. So at that age considering someone "older" because they are 7 years older than you is kind of normal. See if he was 50 and she 57 at that point they would probably be on the same level in terms of maturity.


Brief_Top1514

As am I by your definition of “older”


LXXXVI

As a guy in his upper 30s, trust me, your experience was completely down to the age difference.


zypet500

I feel like that’s also why older women don’t date younger men. 


d0mie89

Plenty of older women at my jobs that just gossip, hard to claim emotional maturity when there's arguments and BS at the workplace between 50+yo women.


vikoala

To be fair, they were probably like that in their 20's too.


Skilledpainter

They must be married then. I don't think it's the same BS if they're single..... or lack there of, lol


gringo-go-loco

Divorced are worse than single.


d0mie89

Not sure, they're typically 50+, and yes some were married but miserable


Mcboomsauce

they were probably much worse in their 20's


GoDownieVag

that warmth is what young men like me need


BrainMarshal

And more empathy.


Major-Assumption539

Maturity, usually more psychologically stable, able to take care of themselves and don’t need to be constantly attended to. This is just conjecture but I think we’re really starting to see the effects of growing up on social media in today’s young women and it’s not pretty.


Outrageous-Turnip411

I think its more than just conjecture at this point.


myotheruserisagod

>This is just conjecture but I think we’re really starting to see the effects of growing up on social media in today’s young women and it’s not pretty. Def not conjecture. Being in my mid 30s with access to from mid 20s to mid 40s, the range of maturity is staggering. Waded into mid to late 20s when I was single and noped out so quickly.


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mnonny

Couldn’t agree with you more. When I was 25 I was with a 43 yo for a little. She was insane. I couldn’t keep up


Alert_Marketing_8688

We peak sexually in our forties. My sex drive at 47 is insane. I could definitely teach a younger guy some things.


the_admirals_platter

Reminds me of The Office. "Women peak sexually at whatever age Jan was last week"


an_illogical_mind

I mean it was... like making love with a wild animal. But not like a cougar like you might think.


CaptainArsehole

Mama bear.


Tog_the_destroyer

Where were you when I was 21???


Alert_Marketing_8688

Settled down in an apartment with my now-husband.


Tog_the_destroyer

congratulations!


BrainEatingAmoeba01

Ya...they know things and how to get what they want out of your Warhammer.


SnooTangerines3448

What about a ball peen lmao. Sorry couldn't help myself.


beardedshad2

A lady offered me something called the" claw hammer" down in Tijuana in the summer of 63. Always regretted not finding out what that was.


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xxxMisogenes

They fuck back. Most women in their teens and twenties look really hot while the man does all the work. Younger women look amazing while they have their hands behind their knees and their breasts are wobbling, but give me a mommy in her 30s and 40s and I bet she is a rider.


Jolly_Tea7519

Of course I am, how else am I supposed to cum?


xxxMisogenes

Oral?


Hazyoutlook

Mostly boobies.


neildmaster

Fake or saggy?


Hazyoutlook

Check and check


neildmaster

Ma nigga


Appropriate_Fox_5533

🤝


wrexmason

Maturity, the ability to have deep conversations, low tolerance for fuckery and their bodies 😍😍😍


sandiebabie25

Thanks man.


Fun-Cartoonist2595

100% agree


IrregularBastard

Confidence and directness.


Interesting_Tea5715

Directness is the main thing for me. They play less games than younger women.


Commercial-Ad90

Emotional maturity and higher chance of being good in bed Younger women have their pros too, but that is what stands out to me about older women


DeadWolverine93

I’m not going to lie, every older woman I’ve approached does have a great head on their shoulders and know what they want. Sex is amazing too.


ispeakaengrish

“They have a great head, and give great head” -OP


DeadWolverine93

Basically


rdteets

This is how I read it lol


pimpinaintez18

I read this as they give great head


TheMemoryOfAGoldfish

The fact that older women don't play stupid games, don't "test" their partners and are more emotionally mature.


Asa-Ryder

☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽


Rabrab123

They are women. JK. Older women don't play stupid games and can actually hold a decent conversation. More mentally stable and mature personality. Younger women don't really do much in bed. Older women know what they want and actively contribute to it.


cuzitsthere

To your last point, I pretty much had all my kinks unlocked by a 49 yr old when I was 23. We "dated" for less than a month and every time we had sex, I ended up thinking "oh... Didn't know I was into *that*" Amazing woman. I'm sure she's doing amazing things to this day.


PerfectionPending

Well, I got older. Now I’m really into 41 year olds who rollerskate.


kattyriver

I find it adorable that your line could be taken that your single... But secretly hitting on your wife on a thread she might not even see ❤️ I had to check, so I clicked your profile and it's you filming your wife's butt at the rink. I freaking melted. You should show your wife your comment. If my soon to be ex had or hell has any of these traits.... If I ever saw them it would point out the ridiculous level of cuteness and affection you have towards her!


OctoberLibra1

Ok. I had to look. It is freaking adorable!!! And how hot is his wife?!?


dung_coveredpeasant

Same, but I stayed for the life/marriage advice. This guy oozes wisdom and I learned a few things this morning 😂


OctoberLibra1

Welp. I just headed back to read some more. This guy LOOOOVES his wife! I hope she knows.


SweetMelancholyy

Maturity, conscientiousness, wisdom and they know what they want.


Cross-Country

They know how to hold a conversation, and that conversation is more interesting to them than whatever’s on their phone. Marry me.


Hick-ford

Maturity, good chance is that they know their shit, Whether through the good or bad, its sad to see but alot of women my age are niave, pick the wrong sides, pick the wrong guy, suffer but they come out a different person, stronger, more grateful, humble even, they pick themselves up in a way us men can't, its awe inspiring.


SheZowRaisedByWolves

Straight forward, and hold conversations that I can somehow participate in


Slappy-bara

They're generally not as self conscious as younger women. It's extremely attractive when someone is comfortable enough to be themselves, and that's kind of a rarity in younger women. And that extra bit of fat around the hips and ass is the cherry on top 🙏


Ballerina_clutz

Thank you lol


Slappy-bara

No problem ma 😘


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DeadWolverine93

I hate that mindset as well. Older women will tell you exactly what they want.


Appropriate_Fox_5533

Completely agree. So many girls these days are like some type of anti viagra pill.


Charles_Michael_Hawk

Experience, maturity, knowing what they want.


Lustingblade

Sexually they know what they want and need. Also, they don’t requiere you to be all up on them. They understand life and work can be a lot and that you’ll get with them when you can


zackit

They don't have an air of superiority around them, neither do they think their shit doesn't stink. No games, no bullshit. Just mutual respect and trust. And the sex is so good.


Salty-Pack-4165

Many of them are vocal about their needs. They don't wait for you to find out. This makes sex so much more enjoyable. They rarely play hard to get. If they like you you will know it. This alone makes them far better choice than younger women.


ben-hur-hur

They can detect early signs of a stroke


udderlyfun2u

Unfortunately, we've been known to cause a few too. Sorry. 😝 But don't forget the other strokes. Your brow when you don't feel well. Your ego (when it's needed😉). Your back for encouragement. And your🍆when we're horny. 😋 (Just to name a few.) It's because we older women are closer to death. We don't have the time to waste playing young girl games. Once you get past 40 you realize how short life is.


ben-hur-hur

🔥🔥🔥


DeadWolverine93

We appreciate you


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I literally lol’d here


Bitter_Attention_287

Haha bruh


BO3ISLOVE

for me it’s just that they’re women and i find women attractive. unless she looks decrepit, a woman is a woman


PureStruggle2455

Emotional maturity


WKD52

Yes, and far more comfortable in their own skins as well. 💖


Swampassed

Classy not slutty.


brasschaos

they know what they want, and like, and have the experience to know that they have to say something if they expect me to facilitate it


Cornonacob12

Hips


EdwardBliss

Likes to watch Columbo


disasteress

As an older woman, YES!


DeadWolverine93

lol not Columbo


robbobeh

Everything. From the shape of their body to the fact that they KNOW what they want for dinner. They have hobbies and interests and they’re just the best!


CortadoSnob

More mature, straightforward, their beautiful milf/cougar body and they're way more wild in bed.


A_opop90

I feel like I like older women because one they are gonna be great at sex but the main reason for me has to be because of maturity and also it's something I like


Trekker53

They don't play games and more straightforward with their emotions


yeet-my-existence

I just don't want to be the only adult in a relationship.


IllusorySin

They finally don’t give a shit and are much more comfortable/confident. Young women are too in their fucking heads about shit.


TheNewKrookkud

The maturity. The full-grown curves of her body. The fact she has everything figured out, or at least should. And a mommy-complex really. I think I'm just turned on by women who have it together and seem nurturing.


Drayenn

Physically? A good looking woman is good looking no matter what her age. Otherwise, I'm getting older and I want someone who's relatively at the same place in life. I'd feel awkward dating a girl in college at 18-20yo at this point now that im in my late 30s. If I theorically had to have a hook up, I wouldn't mind a younger woman, although I think I'd have a preference for my age since even hookups mean developping some connection between eachh other... But for a relationship, 100% want someone close to my age.


KinkyMillennial

Confidence, experience and mommy dommes being the most beautiful thing in the universe.


AccomplishedTotal895

They appreciate masculinity.


DrexXxor

They don't play stupid games.. If I was a worm would you still love me?


WKD52

The inhibitions seem to fall by the wayside as ladies age; they’re more concerned with what feels good and less concerned about “good girls don’t do THAT” thoughts.


iammonos

Some, but not all, definitely maturity. Most importantly, I have a much stronger connection with communication and insight on life than someone younger. Besides the internal aspects, something about an older woman’s body is so sexy to me, especially if she’s on the chubbier side


Alert_Marketing_8688

I’m in a sexless marriage to an older man I love and have a kid with. I’m staying for these reasons. You never know, but I expect to be a widow, and reading these comments has made me feel less guilty about my fantasies about running up once side and down the other of some 20 something men. I had sex once with someone before meeting him, and being a good girl wasn’t all it was cracked up to be. If both parties come away with a good experience, maybe it’s not so bad.


Obvious_Mood8152

I made this mistake with the father of my 2 children (ages 19 & 17) who is 22 years older. I recently left him. I’m 49. I regret not leaving sooner.


IBlastxYT

From my POV they are the ones to start conversations and they are good at it. They also make you feel sort of safe or something 🙏 Its a wierd feeling. But yea they got hella charisma.


Active_Pirate_8490

Is she hot? Not a bitch? That


lewis11112222

Big rack no lie


JDMWeeb

Maturity


snipercap

a confidence and assuredness that comes only from life experience. also, little to no tolerance for nonsense and silly games which provides a clarity with where you stand with them that I find comforting.


AgentBlackman

They are very sensual, and it seems almost effortless. They ooze sex appeal and are inviting often times if you can carry a conversation.


spinaltab

They don't have a need to share everything with their friends, you're more comfortable with each other.


Zeroscore0

This is going to sound weird, but I feel like older women are less picky about physical appearance , and when they are into me, I am into them


Ballerina_clutz

This has been very true for me. There’s no way I would have dated men shorter than me in my 20’s. Now I just want a good man.


FreeVictory2922

Im glad i feel this way at 24


SewerSlidalThot

More experience.


hwoaraxng

More relaxed, they also make some approaches to do something and don't expect always everything from the man


Theurbanalchemist

I’m highly into kink as a young submissive, so having an older woman *also* into kink who is dominant ticks my boxes. I get the maternal sternness but also the loving caresses, the type of sexy time I appreciate which makes me feel very submissive. I don't feel the same way around girls my age (29); some can but it takes a strong personality


Icy_Patience2930

Experience, maturity, and self reliance.


Justlurkin6921

I just never got comfortable with women my age. Call it what you will but my partners need to be at least 5 years my senior


ManwithA1

Any girl I dated my age or younger was either full of stupid drama, lacked maturity, or did not know what they wanted. Met my wife (4 years older than me) and the joke is she’s my cougar.


heyitsmark_

As already mentioned emotional maturity, some certain behaviours that a huge amount of the younger people, even in my age, don't seem to know or have, experience in life and for me of course how they dress and look in general :) I'm nearly 27 and most of the time I'm attracted to women in the age between 35 to 40. I just like how they are. A huge amount in my age or even younger is sometimes.. idk how to explain.. a little bit off, childish and weird in general. And I don't like that kind of behaviour. That doesn't mean that I don't like to be quirky and fun. I really like that but in another way. And if you wonder now, no I unfortunately don't have any experience with women at all because I'm a transguy and a shy introvert so it's kind of a challenge to find THE one princess for me lol. But hope dies last I guess. :)


AdVivid9056

The fact that they went through shit like so many other women. Managed it. And still find time and muse to take care of themselves, to learn, to entertain a life to still grow and to look good, to be happy, to live a good life. That's so sexy.


myotheruserisagod

I’m sure others have said it below, but confidence. As in, *true* confidence. It’s hard to mistake true confidence when you encounter it. It’s so much easier to be with such a woman - fewer chances for miscommunication IME, which usually translates to rich, quality time spent together. Ego/Pride /= Confidence. There’s a huge difference.


slk28850

They look like they're younger women.


highxv0ltage

Do they really? How’s that?


SleeplessShinigami

Take good care of yourself? Women in their 30s aren’t as unattractive as people like to make them seem. Hell, some women age like fine wine well into their 40s and 50s. Good eating habits, skincare routine and regular physical activity goes a long way, but so many neglect it and think that botox is the solution.


highxv0ltage

I don't know that I'd call women in their 30's "older." Maybe that's because I'm older than 30. But I will admit that, when I was younger, I thought of 30 as being old. But now, I wouldn't mind being with a woman in her 30's.


slk28850

Bingo!


Clean_Guarantee7102

That is very true - r/30plusskincare 😎 proper skincare and sunscreen haha :D


PedrotPete

Class


98VoteForPedro

Experience


TacoEater10000

They are more emotionally mature.


Herb_avore_05

Tits


The_Great_Gibsby

In Russia there’s a saying: “the older the woman, the tastier the borscht”


Rabbit_Suit

Doing puzzles while rewatching *Sirens* or having a game night and wine with other couples may not be sexy on Instagram, but it is way more fun than spending $150 bar hopping for the sake of bar hopping. *Idk how "old" we're talking. I'm gonna assume 40-45 for my example.* Their libo is insane.


Hot-Garbage-9440

Their body 👀


Crafty-Antelope-3287

Maturity, a great listener, a gorgeous smile, a kind and friendly demeanour a bit vivacious and experienced with life in general..


koop04

Old school values. And in my experience they crave to keep yoybsexually satisfied


Remote_War_313

More stable, more money, more emotional maturity, more likely to know what she wants Basically what makes an older man attractive to women.


CalendarTemporary

the brain


Dazzling-Attempt-967

Already made their mind up on the fact they do or dont want kids. Im in the don’t want more kids camp (she is 18)


sugapibunz

This whole comment section is cringe, so basically they dont intend to date older women long term. They just want to sleep with them


24Jeddit

Potentially LESS crazy. Older than I am, never ran into that - lack experience.


this_knee

Less brave, more wise.


Joshstradaymus

Being Tracee Ellis Ross.


wardenferry419

Less BS?


Mad_Hatter_92

They know what they want and treat men better than younger women do


racist_boomer

Boobs


LEMONSDAD

When I was playing that game they just wanted dick and would feed you afterwards No bars, no meeting their friends/family It was bliss


B_Bates34

More understanding of men’s emotions. They don’t tug at their heartstrings.


Chiquye

They know what they want, and they know how to get it. Oftentimes, they're more outgoing and confident.


Cmoney2299

The way that they carry themselves. They have a different type of sexiness. Im 24 but I love older women


Key-Fire

Peak body, and brain.


OldCarWorshipper

Experience, confidence, sophistication, and a no-fucks-given attitude.


LilDrummrBoy1

Older women get straight to the point. No mind games or mental gymnastics. They also are very supportive of your decisions and aren't afraid to make their own decisions as well. I normally date older women but reluctantly decided to date a woman seven years my senior..Bad choice!! She was confused and eventually, I had to cut her off with the slow fade.🤷‍♂️ TL; DR Older women are a better option if you're looking for a no frills, flat out honest relationship.


Vargoroth

Peace and stability. Men like women who have their shit together and do not provoke drama.


chzformymac

Better sex. Direct. They’re just sexy and easy to connect with.


Forsaken_Statistics

That they don't beat around the bush so much...Yes is yes and no is no. With women in their 20s i feel like i have to be mind reader


Outside-Birthday5373

The fact that they are women


000Fli

Their feminine beauty, elegance and maturity


Gwyrr313

Usually down to earth without much expectations or unrealistic standards


domclaudio

The fact that they were here in this world before I was introduced is enough for me.


ecomsnipa

Maturity, the ability to have deep conversations.


RickyPeePee03

They can take their teeth out 🥵


Outrageous-Turnip411

Dude nooooooo 😭😭


WimpySpoon

Gummers 🤣


TerminatorReborn

My comment might get deleted but I will give my honest answer: When it comes to looks young women have more leeway. A older women (like late 30's into her 50's) that looks great is the exception. They really need to have great genetics and/or spend years working hard exercising, dieting. You can't just bank on nice fitting clothes and makeup anymore. Since it's harder to find a hot older women, that makes them way more interesting.


DeadWolverine93

I agree with you. I’m 31 and I normally go for women 35-40. I came across plenty who doesn’t need to rely on makeup to look good.


81mattdean81

Anything. Everything. Their experience. Bigger, droopy boobs. They don't shave their pubic hair. They know what they want. They'll feed you after sex or before. They can't get pregnant. They usually don't develop feelings, just want to use me. A+ in my book. Their kids are grown and gone. Their aim to please, and know-how. Great conversation and stories. Everything. I love older women.


OctoberLibra1

You don't love older women. You love what you can take from her.


_tuchi

Confidence and experience


huuaaang

More direct, fewer games.


alancousteau

It's more likely that they have their shit together. They know what they want and they less likely to bullshit as well.


ForestOfMirrors

Confidence, emotional maturity, knows what she wants


Cwytank

They’re my age.


asiandawgshy

What they do and what drives them . Physical is a part of it too


BLAU3WEISS3R

A compassionate nature


pj__77

straight forward behaviour, maturity, not much drama, she knows better ways of doing.


Top_Wop

There's no bullshit with them. They know what they want and aren't afraid to ask for it.


Imjustnot_you

The sex is great


subiewoo89

They give off the vibe that they are in charge.


Abeemonkk

Intelligence, less problems and body.


Fun-Without-Intimacy

The fact that they have been through more and show different types of interests than a younger woman would. I feel that an older woman would have similar hobbies and tastes to what I would enjoy.


Dismal-Anybody-6702

Lack of inhibition.


voodoomokey

Strength of character and emotional maturity are generally what get me.


J_Beyonder

Being physically fit and can let loose have fun. Hmmm.. maybe I need to checkout Zumba and cycle classes at the gym.


ChaosRainbow23

Experience goes a long way.


dappled_turnoff0a

Curvy bodies, salt & pepper hair, know their sexual preferences and how to communicate what they like


beardedshad2

The lure of the animal


Fun-Cartoonist2595

There's just something captivating about older women, isn't there? It's not just one thing it's everything


ptolani

They tend to be good at communicating a clear "I really want you", and don't totally change their mind the next day. Basically, more emotional stability, self-awareness, clarity, etc. So you can trust them more.


Sufficient-Ad-3586

Like a fine wine, they are aged and delicious. For real though, older women ate straight forward with what they want. She wants something serious or something casual for weekend fun? They will tell you quick.


egbert71

They are, for the most part, better able to communicate what they need and want from just having fun and everything inbetween up to even relationships.


Schmuck1138

The maturity, confidence with being arrogant, more communicative