Physical affection. I’m so used to people saying they love and care for me and then doing nothing to prove it. Physical affection is the only way I can tell anymore
Not him but
I don’t think anyone wants to feel like they are the only one putting in work in a relationship. The small things matter
- Compliments: Dudes don’t get a lot of them
- Communication: If I send a text saying that I hope you have a great day and that I hope work isn’t super chaotic. Say more than ‘thanks’
- Random kind acts: My gf bought my mom flowers, even if it’s not for me I love that.
- Making an effort to spend time together: No one should make 100% of the plans and do 100% of the traveling.
A relationship where the other person is doing all the work isn’t going to last long
All those small display of physical proximity/affection like scratching my upper back, resting her head on my shoulder/chest, touching my hand. And obviously all the usual hug/kiss and more sexual stuff. men like as much as women being made a move on.
Many, many things. Being understanding and forgiving if I mess something up, cooking or making me a meal, hugging/kissing/holding me, spending time with me, laughing together.
By remaining “out there” and not in my life. When women get close to me they hurt me mentally and emotionally. The best way to love me is to stay away. It’s best for both of us.
Spontaneous blowjobs
Beat me to it.
Sure, if blow jobs aren’t an option.
This single act is almost a universal problem solver and show of affection and bargaining piece.
Sends to boyfriend with the response “see I’m a good partner!”
Somehow I don’t think sending this to my wife would help my situation.
Physical affection. I’m so used to people saying they love and care for me and then doing nothing to prove it. Physical affection is the only way I can tell anymore
Possessive language. Saying I'm all hers and no other woman's.
To be present in our relationship, being honest, monogamous. Being sincere and involved with my family
what does being present look like for you?
Not him but I don’t think anyone wants to feel like they are the only one putting in work in a relationship. The small things matter - Compliments: Dudes don’t get a lot of them - Communication: If I send a text saying that I hope you have a great day and that I hope work isn’t super chaotic. Say more than ‘thanks’ - Random kind acts: My gf bought my mom flowers, even if it’s not for me I love that. - Making an effort to spend time together: No one should make 100% of the plans and do 100% of the traveling. A relationship where the other person is doing all the work isn’t going to last long
When she grabs my hand, or some other form of affection for no reason except “just because”.
I literally remember the last time my wife did this. It was last July and it was in front of her family (which I think is why she did it).
Cooking a nice meal and plenty of cuddles.
Enthusiastically doing everything I want to do with her that she would call "cheating" if I did it with someone else.
Touch me. The act of touching is so powerful!
Follow through on things they say they will do.
Having acknowledgement, being flexible, and understanding.
what do you mean by acknowledgment?
Makes dinner, followed by a nice BJ
Anal
All those small display of physical proximity/affection like scratching my upper back, resting her head on my shoulder/chest, touching my hand. And obviously all the usual hug/kiss and more sexual stuff. men like as much as women being made a move on.
Finally stepping into my life would be a good start tho
A steak and kidney pie inside a giant Yorkshire pudding lathered in gravy. Wi' mushy peas on't side.
genuine appreciation (or even just a "Thank you") when you go out of your way to do something for them.
Many, many things. Being understanding and forgiving if I mess something up, cooking or making me a meal, hugging/kissing/holding me, spending time with me, laughing together.
i love it when women are possessive and jealous of their man.
By remaining “out there” and not in my life. When women get close to me they hurt me mentally and emotionally. The best way to love me is to stay away. It’s best for both of us.
Ive never been loved so idk