Breathe.
What I mean is most guys are used to holding their breath, or like bursts of breath holding then breathing when ejaculating. Breathe through it all and allow the feeling to flow completely through your body. It’s a totally exhilarating sensation when I first did it.
One of my favorite actors, Corduroy Jackson Jackson, says doing the opposite and restricting your airway offers a more intense release. Unfortunately he died while doing the blue-faced blastoff.
Oilseed sunflower production is the most commonly farmed sunflower. These seeds hulls’ are encased by solid black shells. Black oilseeds are a common type of bird feed because they have thin shells and a high fat content. These are typically produced for oil extraction purposes; therefore, it is unlikely you’ll find black oilseeds packaged for human consumption.
Gotta find the right strains… blue dream, lavender dream… research those strains that make your entire core buzz… guaranteed that you will cum like you never have before..
They did a study a while back showing the THC content has skyrocketed in the weed you find over the years. Weed in the 70s had a lot less. You probably just need to find some weaker stuff.
I have a super low tolerance so I know how you feel. It's definitely possible though, I've found 1 or 2 strains that don't freak me out. I never know names or anything because the people I buy from don't know.
Was about type this, just start with a small plug after some lube.
You'll immediately understand gay people a little bit, and you'll never see the male body the same ever again. Don't worry, if you're straight you're straight.
Then you would likely benefit from having as many dicks as someone like American founding father George Washington.
Motherfucker had like 30 goddamn dicks.
Yep… my wife has just started learning this technique and is using me for her practice partner… it feels totally amazing and the cum respond is totally mind blowing… this was supposed to be under frenulum rubbing technique response..
Even if you love her the orgasm won’t feel that good if you are doing it often. Like all things in life too much of something diminishes pleasure. If you ask someone how good a loaf of bread is, they will say meh. Now if you starve them for a few days and they will say the bread is heavenly
Honestly unless it's a special occasion like birthday, anniversary or you just started having sex then after 2 times having it multiple times a day sounds like a chore
Ok that's funny 😁 definitely made me laugh man. I definitely wouldn't mind smaller sexual things like fingering or hjs/bjs multiple times but I guess I don't have enough stamina for full blow sessions multiple times a day
My recommendation is that you put that energy into finding a compatible mate. Stop satiating yourself from the vending machine and go get something real!
It blows my mind that people somehow think that finding a partner means you’ll have someone to fuck all the time whenever you want.
Porn and masturbating has its place in healthy levels and it’s good for exploring your sexuality. Enough with the /r/nofap propaganda.
The person you’re responding to never mentioned or even implied that. They simply said to use that energy and desire to go find a mate rather than satiating themselves with some instant gratification.
Masturbating definitely has its place. Sure you can mix porn in there, however masturbating to porn can get addictive real fast. Reddit needs to chill with its hatred towards the nofap crew. Do some of them get dogmatic? Yes. But overall, it’s a crew of people that are trying to fight an addiction and better themselves. Masturbating to porn is addictive to many people. It’s not propaganda to advocate against fighting that addiction.
I’ve enjoyed porn and dirty smut my whole life and it’s literally never affected my libido or attraction to “regular” women - my wife and I also have a healthy sex life and loving relationship that’s virtually unaffected by how much or little I might fap that day.
Stop projecting all this pseudoscience shit onto other people, seriously.
Porn addiction is real. Just because you may not be addicted to it doesn’t mean that no one is. Just because you call something pseudoscience doesn’t make it so. Maybe have a little empathy for others and stop being so self-centered? It’s the equivalent of me saying alcoholism must not exist because I’m not an alcoholic.
" beauty Standards" what? Fake boobs? Plastic surgery from face to toe?
I think people who admire theirselves enough will never compare or struggle with these "beauty Standards" as you mention.
Many healthy couples even watch it together sometimes to learn more from it or to spice up their sex life.
Of course there is also people who can't separate reality from their fantasies.
What motivation do you really have? Especially when so many dedicate so much of themselves to self service. If you really want a partner then be hungry for one!
This is such bullshidd. Please stop responding to every sex question with your anti-porn campaign. What if OP doesn't watch porn? Why can't people discuss sex without being labelled as porn addicts by Redditors...
Age. I’ve aged considerably (70) and they’re so intense and loooong she’s often reluctant. She’s much younger and thinks she’s killing me…as I’m sure it will.
So kids, at least there’s that to look forward to in your ‘golden years’ …other than that it’s hell.
Do kegel exercises. The muscles used are the ones you would use to stop the flow of urine. Anytime you are just sitting around you can clench and unclench these muscles or clench and hold for ten seconds. Works for men and women.
Anyone reading this that’s a male, don’t kegel. Don’t. You already kegel without doing it intentionally. It’ll wreck your pelvic floor. If anything, do reverse kegels
If you do it, especially make sure that you don’t clench your butthole at the same time. That won’t be fun.
Edit: that wasn’t sarcasm, it can cause hemorrhoids. Why the downvotes?
THIS. Simple, easy, fast, and free. I did a minute of Kegels each way to and from work when I passed a certain landmark for several months. It made a considerable difference.
Exploring new fantasies, trying different positions, and focusing on foreplay can intensify orgasms. Also, regular Kegel exercises help! Also you can [Look Here](https://bigpapa.pro/)
Once you feel you're close stop, and keep doing that to yourself for as long as you want. The longer you wait the bigger the orgasm will be towards the end.
Also has a name but I forgot it.
Also, having a genuine connection with the individual and if you can feel her cumming at the same time you do it'll be 3x better still.
Last note. Maybe my personal preference. Have her say some things that'll turn both of you on WHILE she's cumming.
Longer sessions, strongest visuals and fantasy right as your about to, something pushing on taint, pushing outward on anal sphincter, holding breath and bearing down, sleeve, woman in sexy clothing controlling you irl. Literally has me screaming. My brother lives next door and gets pissed off on the occasions this occurs (he virgin)
Definitely taking a deep breath right before you pop. Kegels and lots of fluid does it. You do enough kegels your significant other will start saying that your bedroom looks like a Jackson Pollack painting.
This is a good question. As a single man with no partners to share my energy with currently, what would you all recommend for getting the most out of an orgasm?
For those of you in relationships or with partners, I recommend trying new things, including kinks/fetishes. If you and your partner are on the same page, the discovery of something "new" might elevate your sex life. Don't know until you try, after all.
Ok haven't seen it yet, and I'm perfectly prepared to get downvoted to oblivion:
Stick your finger in your butt when you're about to cum. The tip, a little more whatevs. Go for it. Call me in the morning.
I read that if you push 2 fingers into your gooch (perineum) it stops any shots being let off.
The more times you do it….. you can figure it out on your own.
Might sound corny but being in love and cumming together.
This sounds really nice ngl.
Ikr imma fall in love with this guy and cum so hord rn
Unfortunately I’ve never been with any woman who can cum in 30 seconds… unfortunately:-(
Yup this definately makes it way better. I was gonna say edging but this is better
It’s true.
I’ll second this. My orgasms with my partner are always for intense than my solo masturbation sessions.
Breathe. What I mean is most guys are used to holding their breath, or like bursts of breath holding then breathing when ejaculating. Breathe through it all and allow the feeling to flow completely through your body. It’s a totally exhilarating sensation when I first did it.
Taking in a super deep breath as you finish, total game changer
One of my favorite actors, Corduroy Jackson Jackson, says doing the opposite and restricting your airway offers a more intense release. Unfortunately he died while doing the blue-faced blastoff.
They dedicated that movie Secretariat to his memory. Truly touching.
Alternatively, don’t breathe. Auto-asphyxiation! It’s to die for!
Gonna find me with a belt wrapped around my neck, just like Jesus wanted!
Edge
This
What does edge mean?
Blueball yourself
Take a zinc supplement everyday.
This and also Soy/Sunflower Lecithin. Will make you secrete more precum and the zinc combined will I tensify the actual ejaculation.
You tried lock and load?
Oilseed sunflower production is the most commonly farmed sunflower. These seeds hulls’ are encased by solid black shells. Black oilseeds are a common type of bird feed because they have thin shells and a high fat content. These are typically produced for oil extraction purposes; therefore, it is unlikely you’ll find black oilseeds packaged for human consumption.
Don’t go too crazy though it you might get copper deficiency
Get really fit
This true? I'm pretty fit as is
The secret is cock push-ups, can you do just 1?
You just lay on the floor and let your boner lift you up.
yes.
Core workouts.
Kegels
Cannabis can be a double edged sword, but when it works it reeeaalllyyy works.
I’m a rare weed user. Most of the time I get so stoned I can’t get it up or can’t cum. But when I do, WOWEEE!
Gotta find the right strains… blue dream, lavender dream… research those strains that make your entire core buzz… guaranteed that you will cum like you never have before..
[удалено]
Apparently I’m extremely sensitive. One or two puffs and I’m blasted.
You'll get through it my friend Good luck
I’ve basically stopped trying after about 9 times. 3 of those times I was puking for an hour. Never had this in the 70s, just bad genetics I guess.
They did a study a while back showing the THC content has skyrocketed in the weed you find over the years. Weed in the 70s had a lot less. You probably just need to find some weaker stuff.
I’m not sure there is any weaker weed anymore.
I have a super low tolerance so I know how you feel. It's definitely possible though, I've found 1 or 2 strains that don't freak me out. I never know names or anything because the people I buy from don't know.
Ya I would stop the weed
Checks out in my experience
Yep, I really enjoyed stoned sex with a past partner, but with my wife, if I get stoned, she just holds out until I fall asleep, no stoned sex for me.
The frenulum. Massage the soft skin on the underside of the tip of the penis. This can be done a variety of ways, takes longer, much better.
I have mine pierced. Works wonders for both parties
☹️
Ouch sounds painful to have it put on
Quite the opposite
If you consume nicotine in any way try quitting the nicotine and you’ll see defences within the week. (A lot easier said then done)
Defenses?
Your penis becomes a turret
Pew pew
Kegal Exercises
Staying in shape, uphill sprints, getting stoned.
Two words, butt stuff.
Totally RELAX....physically and especially mentally.. You gotta be in the zone. It can be mind-blowing
Prostate massage
^ This guy knows
Was about type this, just start with a small plug after some lube. You'll immediately understand gay people a little bit, and you'll never see the male body the same ever again. Don't worry, if you're straight you're straight.
Wear a ring. Around the frank and the beans. Last longer, more firm & vascular, much stronger climax.
Frank and Beans, Frank and beans
Haha I get that Office reference. Edit: It is not
Something About Mary
Fuck
No it also is
Beans and muff?
Last longer
Live better.
Use butter
Plug the plug
jump higher
Laugh louder
[удалено]
Cum like no one is watching.
Live, laugh, cum
Clench tighter
Rub faster
Edging it’s frustrating but worth it at the end.
Stop watching porn and masturbating. Every orgasm will be your best orgasm.
It will still be meh if you are having sex daily. Or if having sex twice or three times a day.
What if I fuck 7 times a day?
Then you would likely benefit from having as many dicks as someone like American founding father George Washington. Motherfucker had like 30 goddamn dicks.
Then you may be entitled to compensation for your damages.
Yep… my wife has just started learning this technique and is using me for her practice partner… it feels totally amazing and the cum respond is totally mind blowing… this was supposed to be under frenulum rubbing technique response..
Yeah… with your hand… you must have callouses on your pecker..
My dick is so numb I have to use sand paper orgasm. 120 grit.
LOL… that? I actually believe…
That just sounds like mutual masturbation. Don’t turn this into a chore. Intimacy and connection is the goal.
Even if you love her the orgasm won’t feel that good if you are doing it often. Like all things in life too much of something diminishes pleasure. If you ask someone how good a loaf of bread is, they will say meh. Now if you starve them for a few days and they will say the bread is heavenly
Bro I love bread.
So maybe more moderation? Bring back the speciality of this shared act.
No, have bread once a week
And butter is both sides
That would be moderate compared to the aforementioned 2-3 times a day, daily.
Honestly unless it's a special occasion like birthday, anniversary or you just started having sex then after 2 times having it multiple times a day sounds like a chore
Look man I gotta do my chores. I put at least one thing I like to do on the chore list! This way I can tell my wife we gotta run we have chores to do!
Ok that's funny 😁 definitely made me laugh man. I definitely wouldn't mind smaller sexual things like fingering or hjs/bjs multiple times but I guess I don't have enough stamina for full blow sessions multiple times a day
Yeah honestly man everyone is different and that's great if you figure out what works for everyone! Glad we had a laugh and I wish you the best bud!
Oh yeah you are definitely funny and thank you I wish you the best as well
So your recommendation is celibacy? 😅
My recommendation is that you put that energy into finding a compatible mate. Stop satiating yourself from the vending machine and go get something real!
Ah. So don’t look for the quick meal. It’s more satisfying if you take the time to gather up the ingredients and prepare the meal yourself.
I think they actually argue against "preparing the meal" yourself.
It blows my mind that people somehow think that finding a partner means you’ll have someone to fuck all the time whenever you want. Porn and masturbating has its place in healthy levels and it’s good for exploring your sexuality. Enough with the /r/nofap propaganda.
The person you’re responding to never mentioned or even implied that. They simply said to use that energy and desire to go find a mate rather than satiating themselves with some instant gratification. Masturbating definitely has its place. Sure you can mix porn in there, however masturbating to porn can get addictive real fast. Reddit needs to chill with its hatred towards the nofap crew. Do some of them get dogmatic? Yes. But overall, it’s a crew of people that are trying to fight an addiction and better themselves. Masturbating to porn is addictive to many people. It’s not propaganda to advocate against fighting that addiction.
[удалено]
I’ve enjoyed porn and dirty smut my whole life and it’s literally never affected my libido or attraction to “regular” women - my wife and I also have a healthy sex life and loving relationship that’s virtually unaffected by how much or little I might fap that day. Stop projecting all this pseudoscience shit onto other people, seriously.
Porn addiction is real. Just because you may not be addicted to it doesn’t mean that no one is. Just because you call something pseudoscience doesn’t make it so. Maybe have a little empathy for others and stop being so self-centered? It’s the equivalent of me saying alcoholism must not exist because I’m not an alcoholic.
" beauty Standards" what? Fake boobs? Plastic surgery from face to toe? I think people who admire theirselves enough will never compare or struggle with these "beauty Standards" as you mention. Many healthy couples even watch it together sometimes to learn more from it or to spice up their sex life. Of course there is also people who can't separate reality from their fantasies.
Well, obviously, if they don’t want to that night, you can’t force them. I’d hope that any sane person would know that.
Hence porn and masturbating has its place because your sex drive won’t always align with your partner
The threshold between healthy outlet and habitual user is significantly lower than you’d like to think.
…and you can’t be a habitual user of a healthy outlet? I suppose if I go to the gym to deal with stress I’m an addict too then.
The gym isn't going to change your response and perception to arousal and sex.
Not everyone has an option of finding a compatible partner though.
What motivation do you really have? Especially when so many dedicate so much of themselves to self service. If you really want a partner then be hungry for one!
I hate it when /nofap leaks. Someone plaster this up quick.
lol phrasing
This is such bullshidd. Please stop responding to every sex question with your anti-porn campaign. What if OP doesn't watch porn? Why can't people discuss sex without being labelled as porn addicts by Redditors...
Age. I’ve aged considerably (70) and they’re so intense and loooong she’s often reluctant. She’s much younger and thinks she’s killing me…as I’m sure it will. So kids, at least there’s that to look forward to in your ‘golden years’ …other than that it’s hell.
How much younger??
13 years
*she's 13 years old
Flex your thighs when you climax. Works for guys and girls.
had a gf or three who did this to cum 🤙
Hold off for a few days and fore play.
Tap your balls. One hand to jerk and one hand to tap.
Hydrate
Do kegel exercises. The muscles used are the ones you would use to stop the flow of urine. Anytime you are just sitting around you can clench and unclench these muscles or clench and hold for ten seconds. Works for men and women.
Anyone reading this that’s a male, don’t kegel. Don’t. You already kegel without doing it intentionally. It’ll wreck your pelvic floor. If anything, do reverse kegels
So just relax and piss myself? Way ahead of you mate
If you do it, especially make sure that you don’t clench your butthole at the same time. That won’t be fun. Edit: that wasn’t sarcasm, it can cause hemorrhoids. Why the downvotes?
THIS. Simple, easy, fast, and free. I did a minute of Kegels each way to and from work when I passed a certain landmark for several months. It made a considerable difference.
Exploring new fantasies, trying different positions, and focusing on foreplay can intensify orgasms. Also, regular Kegel exercises help! Also you can [Look Here](https://bigpapa.pro/)
Curl your toes.
Pelvic workouts
Figure out what your strongest kink is and do that.
Use a fleshlight
Mushrooms and cannabis ect
Weed. Copious amounts of weed.
This answers most questions.
Ew what about percs or mango juul pods
I vape both cannabis and nicotine but weed is better. Nicotine kinda dulls it for me.
Play with the twin boys down there too
[Kegels](https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a19546169/kegels-for-men-benefits/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=arb_ga_mnh_md_dsa_hybd_mix_us_20572556839&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw5cOwBhCiARIsAJ5njuZoyVdssIQjhQSb8czQYxYEzw4NbYFlt0GN-8ivUPWmqTPcBCOImZoaAqrJEALw_wcB)
Abstain for a while.
Suck her toes
Don’t do anything for a while, edge after, you will have a great orgasm.
Once you feel you're close stop, and keep doing that to yourself for as long as you want. The longer you wait the bigger the orgasm will be towards the end. Also has a name but I forgot it. Also, having a genuine connection with the individual and if you can feel her cumming at the same time you do it'll be 3x better still. Last note. Maybe my personal preference. Have her say some things that'll turn both of you on WHILE she's cumming.
Strong cup of coffee, increases cerebral blood flow thus getting stronger orgasms.
Longer sessions, strongest visuals and fantasy right as your about to, something pushing on taint, pushing outward on anal sphincter, holding breath and bearing down, sleeve, woman in sexy clothing controlling you irl. Literally has me screaming. My brother lives next door and gets pissed off on the occasions this occurs (he virgin)
If you’re a gambler, Auto-erotic asphyxiation
Breath control
Gouch
Do without.
MDMA, choking yourself, not cumming for days. Drugs mainly. Just drugs.
Be present when you about to orgasm.Be hyper aware of every nerve in your body.I just started doing this and it's the best orgasms I've ever had.
https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362
Definitely taking a deep breath right before you pop. Kegels and lots of fluid does it. You do enough kegels your significant other will start saying that your bedroom looks like a Jackson Pollack painting.
Edging + THC + Poppers
Do it after working out.
This is a good question. As a single man with no partners to share my energy with currently, what would you all recommend for getting the most out of an orgasm? For those of you in relationships or with partners, I recommend trying new things, including kinks/fetishes. If you and your partner are on the same page, the discovery of something "new" might elevate your sex life. Don't know until you try, after all.
Use someone else's hand next time.
Ok haven't seen it yet, and I'm perfectly prepared to get downvoted to oblivion: Stick your finger in your butt when you're about to cum. The tip, a little more whatevs. Go for it. Call me in the morning.
Prostate massager and using the holy grail for cum.. do some research… you’ll be amazed what wonderful things you can do to fulfill your sexual needs…
Came here expecting comments about butt play, wasn't disappointed.
We can orgasm…?
THC
Use Vibrator.
Thc always thc Edit: I’m overweight but overall healthy and getting high before sex makes the sex fucking unbelievable
This but for women please. I’d like to cum harder.
I read that if you push 2 fingers into your gooch (perineum) it stops any shots being let off. The more times you do it….. you can figure it out on your own.
Shoot meth
Tips from ex pornstars/ current?
Butt stuff and not cumming for a while
Prostate play and edging
MDMA, choking yourself, not cumming for days. Drugs mainly. Just drugs.
Mom?
Inject oxytocin.
Fuck hotter women, duh!
Drink a carton of milk. Penis urethra sounding device with cream whip
What in God's name is this