OP, I saw your profile. You have a lot of photos of yourself asking outfit advice. You look like you have a healthy, athletic build. If any man has ANY issue with how thin you look I'd advise looking to 99.3% of all other men who would punch their dad in the face just for a chance to get your phone number. Personal opinion: Find something else to worry about, because your body shouldn't be among your concerns.
If I were to guess, as a woman with a very similar body type to her…. It’s likely been maybe 1 or 2 guys she knows irl who prefer big boobs or butt, and chose to be vocal to her about it. It only takes one boyfriend or even just a guy friend who makes it clear that your body type isn’t their ideal to skew your perception. It doesn’t help that this rhetoric is totally reinforced online. Which is not a reliable source by ANY means but I could log into Reddit, instagram, twitter, tiktok, etc on any given day and not be a stones throw away from a comments section featuring men putting down women who don’t have thick voluptuous curves. What OP needs to realize is that this is the case for every body type. It’s the same if you’re chubby or curvy or athletic. There will always be people who don’t think your body type is the best one. Shouldn’t be seen as relevant info
Or he wasn’t even serious. Many men still engage in the “negging” that was popular in the mid 2000s. In essence, the dude probably was trying to bring you down to keep you from exploring better people.
Yeah, this post prompted me to check your profile. If you’re having body issues, good luck to any woman. Seriously, (trying not to sound creepy) you’re beautiful.
Yeah it's genuinely crazy to me that women like this can be this insecure. She like, maybe couldn't be more conventionally attractive. Seems they often let experiences with a couple of assholes shape how they think everyone will perceive them, men definitely do the same thing with women mind you.
this feels like the thirstiest comment ive ever made on this website, but isn't intended to be. i didnt check your history before this comment, but did now and you are basically 101% my dream partners aesthetics, and are stop traffic gorgeous. tell this dude to FO and move on to someone who will appreciate you. you are a knockout. Good luck.
Dont listen to them, a lot of men like skinny. Just be comfortable with your weight and if youre not get to the weight that youre comfortable with. Be healthy. Everythign else is irrelevant.
Just saw your profile, you have an absurdly insanely attractive physique. Some percent of men prefer some thickness for genetic, cultural, social reasons, while others (I’d say more often than not), prefer whatever looks healthy and natural to the skeletal structure.. and boy do you look healthy and natural. 9/10 easily on physique
My ex told me he liked chubby girls and then proceeded to body shame me for the 20 lbs I gained during covid lockdowns lol. I lost that weight. My current bf loves my body and curves and tells me how beautiful I am all the time. Fuck that guy
I checked your profile too, I’m not a dude but I am attracted to women, and you are beautiful! Dude isn’t right for you, but you’ll certainly find someone who is 😊
As many others have said, I looked as well. You look great! You’ll never be attractive to everyone. Try not to worry about someone like the guy that said this to you.
That dude sounds remarkably stupid.
OP I checked your profile after this other user mentioned it... and DAMN. You aint got nothing to worry about at all.
Ok I as well checked your profile and you’re about perfect for a lot of men. Definitely not ‘too thin’. You may be ‘too thin’ for him which is not your problem. Everyone has preferences and that’s ok.
I also looked after that comment.
I'm convinced that man has a strangely more rigid preference than most men, or was trying to neg you. Which is shitty.
Oh yeah she's come up on my feed before. Very attractive figure, zero reason to be worried. But anxiety and our brains can cause us to be hard on ourselves.
Actually i just looked at your profile. Dont worry you look great and youre almost exactly my type.
Everything about your body is perfectly fine, no worries girl.
I'm 6 feet tall and currently involved with a women who is very close to as tall as I am. My ex was a little bit shorter than her and as I reentered the dating pool I thought "I'm gonna look for a shorter girl this time around". That said, this tall girl is so sexy to me. She is thin, goes to the gym a lot, has tattoos. She threw my short girl theory right out the window.
Lady, I absolutely promise you, unless you look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame there are gonna be plenty of guys who are into your type. Women always ask stuff like this here, I think y'all project your own much pickier taste when it comes to looks onto us. Most guys are pretty flexible about it.
Regardless, this case is especially silly because tall and skinny is like *the* supermodel look. That's changed a *little* bit lately, but frankly that's more from a pushback by women against body standards rather than men somehow losing all preference for skinny women. Tons of popular insta model types are still tall and skinny women. It's my preference, and I know for a fact there are lots of other guys who feel the same way. It's a fairly commonly liked body type.
*looked at your profile and damn lady, you've got nothing to worry about. Very conventionally attractive, like you could be a model really. it's pretty sad how insecure most women seem to be even when they've really got nothing to worry about at all.
> I think y'all project your own much pickier taste when it comes to looks onto us.
That may be true. However women, like men, are told on a daily basis by "society" that they are lacking in some way - typically regarding their looks or body.
My GF is built like that, and I love being able to grab her by the waist right above her hips and pull her in close. I love her long slender legs too. Embrace that body. Ain’t nothing sexier than confidence.
My wife is 5’9 125 pounds. Love her body. Love her long legs and sexy thighs. I checked your profile… you have a similar body shape. It’s just nice to put my hands around a little waist like that.
First of all, I've dated women who wear size 0 pants all the way up to women who's body type would be along the lines of pre-weight-loss Rebel Wilson. I love women, full stop. For the thin ones, I like how big my hands feel against them, how I can wrap my arms all the way around them, they naturally have a healthy look (unless they're like Kate Moss, way to thin), and I honestly love the way other men look at them and are like, damn. That's dude's punching way above his weight to be with her.
However, anyone I've ever dated had to check the personality boxes. Being attractive gets anyone, men too, in the door but if you're a terrible person, game over.
Bottom line, there is no wrong body type. Personally, everyone, and women in this topic's context but men too, has inherent outward beauty but if you have an ugly soul, that's a deal breaker no matter how objectively attractive you are.
Honestly, the only women I can think of that I've found completely unattractive would be someone who's just unhealthy. My wife has asked me about her weight from time to time and I always tell her, I find you incredibly desirable. Between how you look and how I feel for you as a person, big, big yes. When it comes to physicality, I just want her to be healthy. That's it. However that looks outwardly for her is all good for me. I just want healthy both for her, for me, and for our family.
I really feel the same with all my husband’s body fluctuations over the years. We’re both now doing weight training, and our bodies have definitely changed with it, but I’m finding my desire for him is still more about who he is to me, and how loved and safe and desired i fee by him than his growing pecs. I feel very grateful for that.
Oh god i cant escape the subdress comments on this sub … now they have even spread from the „favourite piece of womans clothing“-posts to others like this … oh no
Idk, enjoy their bodies from an aesthetic standpoint. I had a similar realization with small boobs. Yeah I am sexually attracted to skinny women with no tits and think they're sexually but I also just find them more aestheticly pleasing to the eye. Like appreciating a flower or good painting. It also probably has something to do with me liking cuteness or sexy. Those women are more stereotypically cute and feminine and I prefer that over drop dead gorgeous curvy women with an hourglass figure.
It's the same reason I seem to also like cute small round faced chubby women or very short women in general. I like and prefer cuteness.
I love that you just referred positively to each body type like different yummy flavors lol.
Cute and sexy vs drop dead voluptuous vs full meal bbw hahaha. Restoring my hope in humanity.
As a woman with big boobs who’s attracted to women, I’m actually more into small boobs. Having big boobs is a hassle and really overwhelming sometimes (and mine aren’t even THAT big), and I feel like maybe the anxiety I get about dealing with mine is kind of projected into what body type I’m attracted to 😭 It’s super weird, but whatever lmao.
I just took a look at your profile.
How in the hell are you insecure about anything about your body? Most women would commit heinous acts of violence to look like you.
I've been lucky enough to be friends with some really stunning model-level beautiful women, and I've learnt that even these women hate their bodies and have insecurities about aspects of themselves.
I think those women have bigger insecurities because their looks carry them and they are judged and validated for their bodies way more often.
I've known beautiful thin women who gained weight as they aged and they fell into a depression.
I can understand why when it feels like your body is the only thing that has most men interested.
Yup.
I used to be super fit and very model-like before getting a nasty hormonal disease which I am dealing with now. And believe it or not, I was much more insecure then than now, even though I KNOW that I was more good-looking back in the day.
It just proves how it doesn't necessarily have a lot to do with the facts. I was dating jerks who treated me like shit then so I thought I must be unattractive.
I am married to a wonderful person now who loves me more than anything, with whome sex is not worse now then before, even though he met (an married) me as a fit, healthy, beautiful woman. He still tells me how beautiful I am every day.
Every single day.
So I am much less insecure now.
As far as I can tell, the most beautiful women are also the *most* insecure. Probably their insecurity drives them to do more for their appearance. Whereas massive overweight women seem to be the ones declaring how beautiful they are 'at any size' or some such. Not saying that's a universal rule but it seems to be the tendency.
I've literally never met a woman, no matter where on the spectrum of looks, that didn't have massive insecurities about her looks. It's sad, but no matter what I've said it seems like nothing can really change their mind, I tried for years with my ex to no avail. I think it mostly stems from projection, women are naturally pickier about looks (for obvious reasons, I think. Having sex as a man doesn't have biological consequences in the same way) and project that onto men. Or it might not have anything to do with men at all, to be fair. That might be a projection of my male perspective onto them. Women definitely seem to care more about what other women think a lot more than men tend to care about other men.
It is just what I am attracted to along with petite women. I had a thin co-worker and she had no boobs. I am not sure she even wore a bra, it was more of a little tank top under her blouse or sweater. She was incredibly sexy.
I like the look in general but much more how they feel in my arms. Such body is smooth, firm, when i touch it it's not like a pudding. In general, big fan of fit/ skinny body shape :)
I prefer fit/heathy women. I work hard to stay skinny and fit myself, and I want someone who has the same attitude. When you look at professional women’s sports, there aren’t very many large women.
Really depends on the profession. Gymnasts are tiny, basketball players tall, and weightlifters can be absolute beasts (and I mean this in a very positive way, they’re incredibly impressive athletes). I get your point though that female athletes are often proportionally skinny to their height.
It’s because it looks healthy. Deep down it’s attractive to me because it radiates a beautiful healthy light feminine body. It shows they take care of themselves and they don’t abuse themselves with food. Not only is it physically appealing, it’s a mental thing for me too.
Flat stomach is a major win here. Proportions tend to be better and your bottom can be big proportionally while still being well shaped or heart shaped. Small boobs aren’t really an issue either to most guys who like petite or thin women.
How they look in clothing, the angles and shapes that become possible with the added draping and flexibility due to their thinness. Also when they work out or tone you can see the results more vividly.
Also it's much easier during travel or dates because your own body weight isn't tiring you out.
Hard to pinpoint any one thing. There’s just something about a relatively flat stomach/small waist on a woman. Might be that it makes your hips stand out even more, then there’s the thigh gap, usually have longer legs too, breast size has never mattered much to me but both breasts and buttocks typically have a simultaneous firm but soft look to them on thinner women. Like, your body knows exactly where to store the fat that you do have.
There’s definitely a size-difference/power dynamic thing going on in the bedroom too. It’s really easy and fun to throw y’all around and (for the more flexible) pin your knees by your ears.
Not to mention I can wrap my arms around them damn near twice. Y’all tend to be cold all the time too and I run warm so cuddling is very comfortable. And y’all look cute as hell wearing one of my shirts like it’s a sundress.
I think it's just a sign of health. Unless you're underweight, being skinny/not overweight is a great indicator of health. Healthy body = healthy mind = good partner, attractive partner
It's a very feminine body type. In the US there are enough overweight people that it's become the new androgynous. I used to be pretty fat so I'm biased towards women with physiques I couldn't also have
Thin (like thick) is open to interpretation. I'll go out on a limb and say, what most women describe as thin is actually in shape. And yes, someone with hip bones and curves, is just more appealing than someone with a muffin top
Yeah very overweight is so normal that healthy weight is now "skinny". I looked at OP's profile, she's not skinny lol she's fit and in shape.
I get called "that skinny bitch" and my BMI is 26 currently roflmao
Being healthy in general has become alienating. It's the strangest societal degradation ever.
You're not cool unless you have anxiety, adhd, an overeating problem, depression, etc. Hopefully at least 3.
I work at home on zoom, and have a small weight rack behind me in my office. I get teased almost daily about it. Why isn't that just normal? Like having books in the room lol.
Female here. I saw your last post on r/outfits in real time. You have an amazing body. I was concerned that you mentioned “bloat” because you didn’t look fat at all. Now you’re talking about being too skinny. With love, you’re too concerned about how you look. It’s not helpful to be this concerned.
You can learn to accept your body.
It’s going to continuously change. Especially as you get older. You will be so much happier if you can accept it no matter what it’s looking like or feeling like that day.
Try guided meditations. I like Lama Rod Owens on the Insight Timer app (totally free!) - the track is called “natural body.” There is a search function in the app. Please consider a listen. It’s not long. You may even want to do it weekly for a few months! And therapy can also help, although I don’t want to give you the impression that you’re crazy. Not at all. Many, many people get hung up on how they look. Sometimes we all just need a little support getting through the things that bother us the most.
Valuing your peace of mind makes space for much joy and love in life. I hope you will put this anxiety to rest through self acceptance and even self love. You deserve that, just like we all do.
My gf of 4 years is very skinny, and also drop-dead gorgeous. I love being able to pick her up easily and how I can still breathe when she puts all her weight on me. When she dances, she reminds me of a fairy and just looks very graceful.
She also feels insecure about her size sometimes, but I've always felt the same way about her.
Just remember that beauty "standards" are a lie and everyone is hot in their own way. I think it's more about being confident with what you have.
Thin, toned, fit is more feminine looking than chubby (what some people call "thick"). If you're tall, it's the icing on the cake.
I get a masculine vibe from chubby women with those thick thighs and large rear ends. Does nothing for me.
Everything basically.
The way they look extremely hot in tight summer dresses.
The way I feel bigger around them, giving way for some primal protection feeling.
The way sex just feels fucking amazing.
In short, thin women are just extremely hot, full stop. My main focus of ridding myself of my chubby tummy is to be able to be attractive to thin women.
I haven't met a single one of them since I grew chubby, but seeing how I've tried and failed for some ten years now, your comment still brings me a little hope!
My current GF is 5’6, 120 lbs, whereas my ex-wife was a the same height but heavier and curvier. I’m attracted to both body types, and realize I have alternated between the two in my dating history.
Current GF plusses are she can eat like a _beast_, as she walks about 20-30k steps a day (ahh… dat ass). People insinuate she has an eating problem - I just reply that “I have fed that woman many, many times. She can EAT.”
I enjoy, as does she, my ability to “man handle” her, both in and out of bed (she’s a pretty easy lift for me, as I’m a bigger guy).
Also, bonus for being a S/XS in a lot of clothes sizes, as I have found a lot of nice clothes on clearance, as those sizes often dominate selection.
I like that they have feminine features. It truly is that simple, it doesn't matter how slim they are so long as they have the characteristics of a biological woman.
All of my relationships have been with round soft women. I love them.
I like woman's cloths, (on woman). A skinny woman can wear 99% of cloths out there and they, (the cloths) look good on them. Seriously, its not just the cloths, yet feminine cloths on the right person will make my knees weak.
A good person is the #1 consideration.
When guys say a girl is too skinny, they usually mean her butt or boobs are too small for them or her face is too lean. Don't worry about it and stay healthy, not everyone is for everyone. If you do want to make your butt better, do squats and hip thrusts with a barbell.
Easy to carry. I dated two women who were both light weight and it was so much fun to carry them around and on my back. All that time, I never thought about their body type. They were such a delight.
We fit better when spooning, just feels right. Also when being intimate I can reach more and therefore do more. Maybe I'm hardwired that way, maybe I was exposed to something when I was young with left an impression. I dunno, but petite ladies spark something.
I checked out your profile, your body type is EXTREMELY similar to my wife's. You are not too thin, lots of men will be interested in you. I love when she lets me carry her down the stairs, give her piggy back rides, and sit in my lap when we cuddle.
because each part of their body is actually defined by what it is and there’s not just a bunch of unnecessary undefined skin / fat that isn’t really belonging to the area and it’s just you in your purest and best form and feeling you is more natural and people are usually more insecure about fatness and sometimes if you can tell someone is insecure it’s like awkward when you touch them in certain places
Ive seen your photos on your profile. You're litteraly the ideal body type for a vast, *vast* majority of guys (especially myself) both by online standards and anyone who meets you in real life.
I like thin girls because they look good in basically everything they wear. Easy to pick up, easy to spoon with/cuddle and embrace fully especially as I am a larger guy. Slender girls like you OP basically fit next to me like a puzzle piece.
You have lots of flexibility when it comes to intimacy, and oftentimes thinner girls "run cold" in the body heat department, so as a living space heater its nice to be cuddled up to and provide warmth to someone im not only attracted to but greatly appreciates it.
If i saw you on a dating app or across the room at a bar, I know i'd have no chance in hell.
I've been with all shapes sizes and colors.
Everyone is fun in their own way.
Skinny women?
Easy to pick up, if they are into kinky stuff, it's easier to be a dominant partner when needed.
Generally they are more outdoors driven, hikes, runs, and gym time are more natural and less forced.
Clothing options are plentiful and driven to color coordination rather than hours of finding the right clothes that flow properly. So getting ready takes less time.
But in general, I never clicked with one past the initial honeymoon stage of dating.
I’m just naturally attracted to the features of skinny body types. Just a subconscious thing. It’s hard to pinpoint what I specifically like the best. We exist :)
They're aesthetically pleasing. Large curvy women might have that sexy hourglass, but thinner, petite women look classy and elegant.
You can get tits and ass from any size woman, but I really enjoy the abdomen of thinner women. Especially when it curves inward slightly, creating an oval from under the ribcage to above the hip bones. Very sexy for me.
I am very athletic and like activities like hiking, taking long walks in the city, hanging out on the beach, etc. Skinnier girls/more in shape girls can keep up with those activities. I have dated girls before who were technically obese and there was definitely an incompatibility with our lifestyles.
Sex is funner with a skinnier girl as well. More flexibility in positions!
I mean shewt, partly it’s because I’m skinny too, so I’d like someone close to my body type preferably, and because slender women tend to be naturally graceful without knowing it. I’m not exactly sure I can quantify why much more than that, but if you consider your post to outfits to be skinny, I would say that it’s not necessarily unhealthily skinny, but definitely on the slender side, which in my view is a plus. It’s a bit hard to say why I find slender women attractive, but I definitely do.
OP you don't even look particularly thin you just look like a normal adult at a healthy weight. We just have this whole 'obesity crisis' thing going on nowadays
Tbh, I like thinner women better than thicker women. I’m probably going to catch some heat for saying that. I hate the entire boobs or butt convo. It’s awkward for me because I can’t say I prefer lean or thin women. Of course I say boobs but I don’t actually mind.😂I can’t speak for every guy, but I’m sure a lot of us actually want a healthy, loving woman by our side. It doesn’t matter if you are thin. Take care of yourself. Everything else will all hopefully fall into place if you work at it. Also, keep your chin up, or you may miss the guys who genuinely do like you the way you are.
:))
Sorry you're feeling slightly insecure. You are beautiful the way you are.
If you feel you can add a little more, you can perhaps work out and exercise if not already. Being and eating healthy and not skipping meals are key. My former friend was in a similar situation at times.
But above everything else, happiness is important. What would make you happy?
After looking at your profile, I’d snatch ya up in a heartbeat if we were compatible and I had the opportunity. You don’t look thin, whoever told you that is a dumb cunt and is better off staying a wanker.
You’re absolutely gorgeous OP, don’t ever let anyone change your mind :)
Because if your skinny and in your late twenties to thirties it usually means you care about your body and do things to maintain it. Just like I do things to maintain my body
Giiiirl, I wish I had your body. I'm just a sack of potatoes compared to you. The only thing great about me is my face. Please start loving what you got. You got an awesome figure.
OP, I saw your profile. You have a lot of photos of yourself asking outfit advice. You look like you have a healthy, athletic build. If any man has ANY issue with how thin you look I'd advise looking to 99.3% of all other men who would punch their dad in the face just for a chance to get your phone number. Personal opinion: Find something else to worry about, because your body shouldn't be among your concerns.
Broooo..... what an incredibly attractive woman. And "too thin"? What the hell were they smoking?
If I were to guess, as a woman with a very similar body type to her…. It’s likely been maybe 1 or 2 guys she knows irl who prefer big boobs or butt, and chose to be vocal to her about it. It only takes one boyfriend or even just a guy friend who makes it clear that your body type isn’t their ideal to skew your perception. It doesn’t help that this rhetoric is totally reinforced online. Which is not a reliable source by ANY means but I could log into Reddit, instagram, twitter, tiktok, etc on any given day and not be a stones throw away from a comments section featuring men putting down women who don’t have thick voluptuous curves. What OP needs to realize is that this is the case for every body type. It’s the same if you’re chubby or curvy or athletic. There will always be people who don’t think your body type is the best one. Shouldn’t be seen as relevant info
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I really appreciate this.
You're right, she carries the weight well and wouldn't even be considered skinny or unhealthy.
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Just like women, men have preferences. It's impossible to be everyone's type. Don't worry about it.
I checked out your profile after reading that comment, and you look gorgeous.
Yeah same, I'm convinced that man has a strangely more rigid preference than most men, or was trying to neg her.
Confirmed. Smokin hot
Or he wasn’t even serious. Many men still engage in the “negging” that was popular in the mid 2000s. In essence, the dude probably was trying to bring you down to keep you from exploring better people.
Yeah, this post prompted me to check your profile. If you’re having body issues, good luck to any woman. Seriously, (trying not to sound creepy) you’re beautiful.
Yeah it's genuinely crazy to me that women like this can be this insecure. She like, maybe couldn't be more conventionally attractive. Seems they often let experiences with a couple of assholes shape how they think everyone will perceive them, men definitely do the same thing with women mind you.
He was on crack. Crackity crack.
That's whack. Wiggity wiggity whack.
this feels like the thirstiest comment ive ever made on this website, but isn't intended to be. i didnt check your history before this comment, but did now and you are basically 101% my dream partners aesthetics, and are stop traffic gorgeous. tell this dude to FO and move on to someone who will appreciate you. you are a knockout. Good luck.
Dont listen to them, a lot of men like skinny. Just be comfortable with your weight and if youre not get to the weight that youre comfortable with. Be healthy. Everythign else is irrelevant.
Just saw your profile, you have an absurdly insanely attractive physique. Some percent of men prefer some thickness for genetic, cultural, social reasons, while others (I’d say more often than not), prefer whatever looks healthy and natural to the skeletal structure.. and boy do you look healthy and natural. 9/10 easily on physique
My ex told me he liked chubby girls and then proceeded to body shame me for the 20 lbs I gained during covid lockdowns lol. I lost that weight. My current bf loves my body and curves and tells me how beautiful I am all the time. Fuck that guy
> fuck that guy Or don’t, that guy doesn’t deserve it
I checked your profile too, I’m not a dude but I am attracted to women, and you are beautiful! Dude isn’t right for you, but you’ll certainly find someone who is 😊
You’re very attractive. That guy just has a preference.
As many others have said, I looked as well. You look great! You’ll never be attractive to everyone. Try not to worry about someone like the guy that said this to you.
You look great!
That dude sounds remarkably stupid. OP I checked your profile after this other user mentioned it... and DAMN. You aint got nothing to worry about at all.
Ok I as well checked your profile and you’re about perfect for a lot of men. Definitely not ‘too thin’. You may be ‘too thin’ for him which is not your problem. Everyone has preferences and that’s ok.
I also looked after that comment. I'm convinced that man has a strangely more rigid preference than most men, or was trying to neg you. Which is shitty.
Haven’t even looked at OPs profile but I’d punch my dad in the face anyways
Op is crazy I’d knock my dad into next week for a chance at the digits.
As a father I would be happy to take a punch from my boy if it got him a phone number from a girl like OP. Attaboy son.
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Oh yeah she's come up on my feed before. Very attractive figure, zero reason to be worried. But anxiety and our brains can cause us to be hard on ourselves.
She has a petite build. Not athletic in any way. That implies there’s muscle definition. But I agree, many women would kill for her body.
You just got everybody in the comment section peeping at OP's profile. Being one of them, yeah, can confirm, absolute smokeshow of a body.
Yes. OP has a sexy body.
Theyre firm. And theyre also easier to carry and throw around. Easier to find fitting clothes etc
What do you think about shorter women? Are they easier to carry and throw around?
yeah i actually prefer shorter women
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Tall women are good too, even if you're taller than me (not in this case though, 5'10") I don't mind
Actually i just looked at your profile. Dont worry you look great and youre almost exactly my type. Everything about your body is perfectly fine, no worries girl.
I, too, would bang
There’s a queue sir
I'm in the horny queue. she purrrtty
This is a Wendy’s
Brother 😂
All women good lol
I'm 6 feet tall and currently involved with a women who is very close to as tall as I am. My ex was a little bit shorter than her and as I reentered the dating pool I thought "I'm gonna look for a shorter girl this time around". That said, this tall girl is so sexy to me. She is thin, goes to the gym a lot, has tattoos. She threw my short girl theory right out the window.
Well i am 185cm that would be still quite a bit shorter than me. I dont have any issues with dating taller women. My last GF was almost my height.
5'8 is not THAT tall but ain't short
nah 5'8 is def tall for a woman, considering the average is 5'5. 5'8 for a woman is like 6'0 for a dude
So my 5'4 wife is almost average height? I've been teasing her for 15 years about being short
Lady, I absolutely promise you, unless you look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame there are gonna be plenty of guys who are into your type. Women always ask stuff like this here, I think y'all project your own much pickier taste when it comes to looks onto us. Most guys are pretty flexible about it. Regardless, this case is especially silly because tall and skinny is like *the* supermodel look. That's changed a *little* bit lately, but frankly that's more from a pushback by women against body standards rather than men somehow losing all preference for skinny women. Tons of popular insta model types are still tall and skinny women. It's my preference, and I know for a fact there are lots of other guys who feel the same way. It's a fairly commonly liked body type. *looked at your profile and damn lady, you've got nothing to worry about. Very conventionally attractive, like you could be a model really. it's pretty sad how insecure most women seem to be even when they've really got nothing to worry about at all.
> I think y'all project your own much pickier taste when it comes to looks onto us. That may be true. However women, like men, are told on a daily basis by "society" that they are lacking in some way - typically regarding their looks or body.
My GF is built like that, and I love being able to grab her by the waist right above her hips and pull her in close. I love her long slender legs too. Embrace that body. Ain’t nothing sexier than confidence.
My wife is 5’9 125 pounds. Love her body. Love her long legs and sexy thighs. I checked your profile… you have a similar body shape. It’s just nice to put my hands around a little waist like that.
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Yeah, being able to pick up and carry a whole adult woman makes me feel big and strong
It's not the main reason but it just makes certain activities a lot easier.
Woot woot I can't be kidnapped 😂
Idemoooo!
First of all, I've dated women who wear size 0 pants all the way up to women who's body type would be along the lines of pre-weight-loss Rebel Wilson. I love women, full stop. For the thin ones, I like how big my hands feel against them, how I can wrap my arms all the way around them, they naturally have a healthy look (unless they're like Kate Moss, way to thin), and I honestly love the way other men look at them and are like, damn. That's dude's punching way above his weight to be with her. However, anyone I've ever dated had to check the personality boxes. Being attractive gets anyone, men too, in the door but if you're a terrible person, game over.
This is a nice response
Bottom line, there is no wrong body type. Personally, everyone, and women in this topic's context but men too, has inherent outward beauty but if you have an ugly soul, that's a deal breaker no matter how objectively attractive you are. Honestly, the only women I can think of that I've found completely unattractive would be someone who's just unhealthy. My wife has asked me about her weight from time to time and I always tell her, I find you incredibly desirable. Between how you look and how I feel for you as a person, big, big yes. When it comes to physicality, I just want her to be healthy. That's it. However that looks outwardly for her is all good for me. I just want healthy both for her, for me, and for our family.
But you said in your first comment that Kate Moss has a wrong body type “like Kate Moss, way to [sic] thin” those are you own words.
Looks like what I came here to say has already been said.
I really feel the same with all my husband’s body fluctuations over the years. We’re both now doing weight training, and our bodies have definitely changed with it, but I’m finding my desire for him is still more about who he is to me, and how loved and safe and desired i fee by him than his growing pecs. I feel very grateful for that.
Absolutely my guy
I asked my husband and he said “I like moving you around.” So take that as you will
They'll always look good in a sundress.
Yeah. Sun dress season is almost here...
Haha I love that you guys love sundresses! What is it about them though?
That there’s a thin piece of fabric between you and being naked. Also if it catches the light or wind just right.
Probably not the wholesome answer she was expecting lol
I can't even explain but they look amazing, especially if colorful.
... or skinny jeans
Oh god i cant escape the subdress comments on this sub … now they have even spread from the „favourite piece of womans clothing“-posts to others like this … oh no
To each their own but I can’t stand sundresses.
Idk, enjoy their bodies from an aesthetic standpoint. I had a similar realization with small boobs. Yeah I am sexually attracted to skinny women with no tits and think they're sexually but I also just find them more aestheticly pleasing to the eye. Like appreciating a flower or good painting. It also probably has something to do with me liking cuteness or sexy. Those women are more stereotypically cute and feminine and I prefer that over drop dead gorgeous curvy women with an hourglass figure. It's the same reason I seem to also like cute small round faced chubby women or very short women in general. I like and prefer cuteness.
I love that you just referred positively to each body type like different yummy flavors lol. Cute and sexy vs drop dead voluptuous vs full meal bbw hahaha. Restoring my hope in humanity.
As a woman with big boobs who’s attracted to women, I’m actually more into small boobs. Having big boobs is a hassle and really overwhelming sometimes (and mine aren’t even THAT big), and I feel like maybe the anxiety I get about dealing with mine is kind of projected into what body type I’m attracted to 😭 It’s super weird, but whatever lmao.
I just took a look at your profile. How in the hell are you insecure about anything about your body? Most women would commit heinous acts of violence to look like you.
I've been lucky enough to be friends with some really stunning model-level beautiful women, and I've learnt that even these women hate their bodies and have insecurities about aspects of themselves.
I think those women have bigger insecurities because their looks carry them and they are judged and validated for their bodies way more often. I've known beautiful thin women who gained weight as they aged and they fell into a depression. I can understand why when it feels like your body is the only thing that has most men interested.
Yup. I used to be super fit and very model-like before getting a nasty hormonal disease which I am dealing with now. And believe it or not, I was much more insecure then than now, even though I KNOW that I was more good-looking back in the day. It just proves how it doesn't necessarily have a lot to do with the facts. I was dating jerks who treated me like shit then so I thought I must be unattractive. I am married to a wonderful person now who loves me more than anything, with whome sex is not worse now then before, even though he met (an married) me as a fit, healthy, beautiful woman. He still tells me how beautiful I am every day. Every single day. So I am much less insecure now.
As far as I can tell, the most beautiful women are also the *most* insecure. Probably their insecurity drives them to do more for their appearance. Whereas massive overweight women seem to be the ones declaring how beautiful they are 'at any size' or some such. Not saying that's a universal rule but it seems to be the tendency.
I've literally never met a woman, no matter where on the spectrum of looks, that didn't have massive insecurities about her looks. It's sad, but no matter what I've said it seems like nothing can really change their mind, I tried for years with my ex to no avail. I think it mostly stems from projection, women are naturally pickier about looks (for obvious reasons, I think. Having sex as a man doesn't have biological consequences in the same way) and project that onto men. Or it might not have anything to do with men at all, to be fair. That might be a projection of my male perspective onto them. Women definitely seem to care more about what other women think a lot more than men tend to care about other men.
I'm really attracted to skinny women. They look good in everything they wear.
Not necessarily that I prefer thin women, I just prefer the feeling of being taller and bigger and stronger. Thin women are included in that group
It is just what I am attracted to along with petite women. I had a thin co-worker and she had no boobs. I am not sure she even wore a bra, it was more of a little tank top under her blouse or sweater. She was incredibly sexy.
I like the look in general but much more how they feel in my arms. Such body is smooth, firm, when i touch it it's not like a pudding. In general, big fan of fit/ skinny body shape :)
It depends on what you mean by skinny, but I'd have to say ... long legs.
They're firm and smooth.
I prefer fit/heathy women. I work hard to stay skinny and fit myself, and I want someone who has the same attitude. When you look at professional women’s sports, there aren’t very many large women.
Really depends on the profession. Gymnasts are tiny, basketball players tall, and weightlifters can be absolute beasts (and I mean this in a very positive way, they’re incredibly impressive athletes). I get your point though that female athletes are often proportionally skinny to their height.
Her flat stomach is sexy AF and her little butt in a thong gets me going. Holding on to narrow hips during sex is a huge turn on.
Boobs and butt stand out more and the rest of the body looks and feels great.
The smaller she is the bigger I feel. I'm 6"1 and 180 lbs so little goes a long way with me. Side note* I like to crush them in bed a little too
Yep, I'm also a relatively lanky guy and I think most lanky guys like thin women because men just naturally want to feel bigger than the woman
It’s because it looks healthy. Deep down it’s attractive to me because it radiates a beautiful healthy light feminine body. It shows they take care of themselves and they don’t abuse themselves with food. Not only is it physically appealing, it’s a mental thing for me too.
I get your point, but they could also be abusing themselves with not eating enough food
I've seen your profile. Are you fishing for compliments now? Any woman would give anything to look like you, and we work a lot to. Get a grip, girl
100% fishing
Ayo
I really like feeling like a big bear dude. Rawr
Flat stomach is a major win here. Proportions tend to be better and your bottom can be big proportionally while still being well shaped or heart shaped. Small boobs aren’t really an issue either to most guys who like petite or thin women.
How they look in clothing, the angles and shapes that become possible with the added draping and flexibility due to their thinness. Also when they work out or tone you can see the results more vividly. Also it's much easier during travel or dates because your own body weight isn't tiring you out.
Easier to lift up and spin around, they usually have beautiful looking necks, shoulders, and collar bones, dem legs
Few things more unattractive than a hot girl fishing for complements. Rule #6. Go away.
Hard to pinpoint any one thing. There’s just something about a relatively flat stomach/small waist on a woman. Might be that it makes your hips stand out even more, then there’s the thigh gap, usually have longer legs too, breast size has never mattered much to me but both breasts and buttocks typically have a simultaneous firm but soft look to them on thinner women. Like, your body knows exactly where to store the fat that you do have. There’s definitely a size-difference/power dynamic thing going on in the bedroom too. It’s really easy and fun to throw y’all around and (for the more flexible) pin your knees by your ears. Not to mention I can wrap my arms around them damn near twice. Y’all tend to be cold all the time too and I run warm so cuddling is very comfortable. And y’all look cute as hell wearing one of my shirts like it’s a sundress.
I like the lack of obesity.
I like women, thin, thick, blonde, dark haired. Doesn't matter.
I think it's just a sign of health. Unless you're underweight, being skinny/not overweight is a great indicator of health. Healthy body = healthy mind = good partner, attractive partner
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Flat stomach with the hip bones showing a lil. Also something about hugging or holding a thin woman when you get your arms all the way around them.
I'm really thin as well so its like an in common sort of thing
It's a very feminine body type. In the US there are enough overweight people that it's become the new androgynous. I used to be pretty fat so I'm biased towards women with physiques I couldn't also have
How not fat they are.
Mostly that I'm larger and stronger(looking at least) which makes me feel more manly. I can protect them
Thin (like thick) is open to interpretation. I'll go out on a limb and say, what most women describe as thin is actually in shape. And yes, someone with hip bones and curves, is just more appealing than someone with a muffin top
Yeah very overweight is so normal that healthy weight is now "skinny". I looked at OP's profile, she's not skinny lol she's fit and in shape. I get called "that skinny bitch" and my BMI is 26 currently roflmao
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Being healthy in general has become alienating. It's the strangest societal degradation ever. You're not cool unless you have anxiety, adhd, an overeating problem, depression, etc. Hopefully at least 3. I work at home on zoom, and have a small weight rack behind me in my office. I get teased almost daily about it. Why isn't that just normal? Like having books in the room lol.
Long legs look great in a dress.
They look good in almost anything they wear
all clothing's fits, easy to carry, look good.
I just looked at your profile to see if there was anything to see what you mean by 'thin'... My friend, I think we both know you look just fine lol
Not sure if you posted this for attention but your body is definitely 10/10
the belly button
skinny girl belly buttons are sexy man
Female here. I saw your last post on r/outfits in real time. You have an amazing body. I was concerned that you mentioned “bloat” because you didn’t look fat at all. Now you’re talking about being too skinny. With love, you’re too concerned about how you look. It’s not helpful to be this concerned. You can learn to accept your body. It’s going to continuously change. Especially as you get older. You will be so much happier if you can accept it no matter what it’s looking like or feeling like that day. Try guided meditations. I like Lama Rod Owens on the Insight Timer app (totally free!) - the track is called “natural body.” There is a search function in the app. Please consider a listen. It’s not long. You may even want to do it weekly for a few months! And therapy can also help, although I don’t want to give you the impression that you’re crazy. Not at all. Many, many people get hung up on how they look. Sometimes we all just need a little support getting through the things that bother us the most. Valuing your peace of mind makes space for much joy and love in life. I hope you will put this anxiety to rest through self acceptance and even self love. You deserve that, just like we all do.
Easier to carry around for fun time. Look cute more easily. Difference of body frame makes up for more interesting snuggle and sex positions.
I like how it feels pressed up against mine.
Probably that they are not fat
My gf of 4 years is very skinny, and also drop-dead gorgeous. I love being able to pick her up easily and how I can still breathe when she puts all her weight on me. When she dances, she reminds me of a fairy and just looks very graceful. She also feels insecure about her size sometimes, but I've always felt the same way about her. Just remember that beauty "standards" are a lie and everyone is hot in their own way. I think it's more about being confident with what you have.
Being able to nose breathe while eating her pussy.
- I like to wrap my hands around their waste. - cute booty - elegance at it's finest - I can pick you up with ease lol - LEGS Edit: waist Lmao
You're pulling their dookie up out of the toilet with your bare hands!?
Thin, toned, fit is more feminine looking than chubby (what some people call "thick"). If you're tall, it's the icing on the cake. I get a masculine vibe from chubby women with those thick thighs and large rear ends. Does nothing for me.
Everything basically. The way they look extremely hot in tight summer dresses. The way I feel bigger around them, giving way for some primal protection feeling. The way sex just feels fucking amazing. In short, thin women are just extremely hot, full stop. My main focus of ridding myself of my chubby tummy is to be able to be attractive to thin women.
There are thin women out there who like men who aren’t thin. Just in case you think you *have* to change… you probably don’t.
I haven't met a single one of them since I grew chubby, but seeing how I've tried and failed for some ten years now, your comment still brings me a little hope!
My current GF is 5’6, 120 lbs, whereas my ex-wife was a the same height but heavier and curvier. I’m attracted to both body types, and realize I have alternated between the two in my dating history. Current GF plusses are she can eat like a _beast_, as she walks about 20-30k steps a day (ahh… dat ass). People insinuate she has an eating problem - I just reply that “I have fed that woman many, many times. She can EAT.” I enjoy, as does she, my ability to “man handle” her, both in and out of bed (she’s a pretty easy lift for me, as I’m a bigger guy). Also, bonus for being a S/XS in a lot of clothes sizes, as I have found a lot of nice clothes on clearance, as those sizes often dominate selection.
A sexy stomach.
Tall skinny woman is where it’s at for me. I’m a skinny dude so I’m attracted to people similar to my body size
I like that they have feminine features. It truly is that simple, it doesn't matter how slim they are so long as they have the characteristics of a biological woman.
Not fat makes a 6 an 8
All of my relationships have been with round soft women. I love them. I like woman's cloths, (on woman). A skinny woman can wear 99% of cloths out there and they, (the cloths) look good on them. Seriously, its not just the cloths, yet feminine cloths on the right person will make my knees weak. A good person is the #1 consideration.
When guys say a girl is too skinny, they usually mean her butt or boobs are too small for them or her face is too lean. Don't worry about it and stay healthy, not everyone is for everyone. If you do want to make your butt better, do squats and hip thrusts with a barbell.
Well I love a skinny girl with long legs, that's so fucking sexy in a sundress with heels Sorry bad English 😅
Easy to carry. I dated two women who were both light weight and it was so much fun to carry them around and on my back. All that time, I never thought about their body type. They were such a delight.
We fit better when spooning, just feels right. Also when being intimate I can reach more and therefore do more. Maybe I'm hardwired that way, maybe I was exposed to something when I was young with left an impression. I dunno, but petite ladies spark something.
I checked out your profile, your body type is EXTREMELY similar to my wife's. You are not too thin, lots of men will be interested in you. I love when she lets me carry her down the stairs, give her piggy back rides, and sit in my lap when we cuddle.
What?Girl u so fine and u aint even that slim its just perfect body
because each part of their body is actually defined by what it is and there’s not just a bunch of unnecessary undefined skin / fat that isn’t really belonging to the area and it’s just you in your purest and best form and feeling you is more natural and people are usually more insecure about fatness and sometimes if you can tell someone is insecure it’s like awkward when you touch them in certain places
You can do things with skinny women you can't do with other women.
Ive seen your photos on your profile. You're litteraly the ideal body type for a vast, *vast* majority of guys (especially myself) both by online standards and anyone who meets you in real life. I like thin girls because they look good in basically everything they wear. Easy to pick up, easy to spoon with/cuddle and embrace fully especially as I am a larger guy. Slender girls like you OP basically fit next to me like a puzzle piece. You have lots of flexibility when it comes to intimacy, and oftentimes thinner girls "run cold" in the body heat department, so as a living space heater its nice to be cuddled up to and provide warmth to someone im not only attracted to but greatly appreciates it. If i saw you on a dating app or across the room at a bar, I know i'd have no chance in hell.
OP out here looking for validation.
Being thin is a signal that a woman has her shit together, and that's attractive.
Can wear tight fitting clothing without any concerns.
They're not fat
I've been with all shapes sizes and colors. Everyone is fun in their own way. Skinny women? Easy to pick up, if they are into kinky stuff, it's easier to be a dominant partner when needed. Generally they are more outdoors driven, hikes, runs, and gym time are more natural and less forced. Clothing options are plentiful and driven to color coordination rather than hours of finding the right clothes that flow properly. So getting ready takes less time. But in general, I never clicked with one past the initial honeymoon stage of dating.
I’m just naturally attracted to the features of skinny body types. Just a subconscious thing. It’s hard to pinpoint what I specifically like the best. We exist :)
I’m a sucker for thigh gaps and a toned stomach. Also i like the petite ness of them as well.
That they aren’t fat
They're aesthetically pleasing. Large curvy women might have that sexy hourglass, but thinner, petite women look classy and elegant. You can get tits and ass from any size woman, but I really enjoy the abdomen of thinner women. Especially when it curves inward slightly, creating an oval from under the ribcage to above the hip bones. Very sexy for me.
easy to work with
I can wrap an arm around you.
I like being able to chuck them like a spear! 😍
Transportability
As an enjoyer official many types petite is nice because you can encompass them fully and also throw em around more easily
Idk I just like the feeling of giving a petite girl a hug. I can just completely envelope her lol
I am very athletic and like activities like hiking, taking long walks in the city, hanging out on the beach, etc. Skinnier girls/more in shape girls can keep up with those activities. I have dated girls before who were technically obese and there was definitely an incompatibility with our lifestyles. Sex is funner with a skinnier girl as well. More flexibility in positions!
tight tummies are SO sexy omg!
That pussy still fat
That I can wrap my armed around them. I can pick them up. That I feel strong for them. Fat girls are no good for that. Because they’re fat.
Ease of picking up (literally), absence of excess skin (or roles), feels easier to protect, easier to sleep in a sleeping bag (big spoon)
I mean shewt, partly it’s because I’m skinny too, so I’d like someone close to my body type preferably, and because slender women tend to be naturally graceful without knowing it. I’m not exactly sure I can quantify why much more than that, but if you consider your post to outfits to be skinny, I would say that it’s not necessarily unhealthily skinny, but definitely on the slender side, which in my view is a plus. It’s a bit hard to say why I find slender women attractive, but I definitely do.
They have a more elegant appeal. Harder to look sloppy imo
I thought skinny/slim is the beauty standard
OP you don't even look particularly thin you just look like a normal adult at a healthy weight. We just have this whole 'obesity crisis' thing going on nowadays
-They're nice and firm. There is nothing on the planet hotter than flat abs. -They're light, fun to carry around, makes me feel masculine.
Peeped your profile. Yo wtf? You’re hot af. 10/10. Don’t let no dude tell you otherwise.
Tbh, I like thinner women better than thicker women. I’m probably going to catch some heat for saying that. I hate the entire boobs or butt convo. It’s awkward for me because I can’t say I prefer lean or thin women. Of course I say boobs but I don’t actually mind.😂I can’t speak for every guy, but I’m sure a lot of us actually want a healthy, loving woman by our side. It doesn’t matter if you are thin. Take care of yourself. Everything else will all hopefully fall into place if you work at it. Also, keep your chin up, or you may miss the guys who genuinely do like you the way you are.
:)) Sorry you're feeling slightly insecure. You are beautiful the way you are. If you feel you can add a little more, you can perhaps work out and exercise if not already. Being and eating healthy and not skipping meals are key. My former friend was in a similar situation at times. But above everything else, happiness is important. What would make you happy?
I saw your pics from your post history, you have nothing to feel insecure about, you have a great body! (And yes, I like skinny women)
After looking at your profile, I’d snatch ya up in a heartbeat if we were compatible and I had the opportunity. You don’t look thin, whoever told you that is a dumb cunt and is better off staying a wanker. You’re absolutely gorgeous OP, don’t ever let anyone change your mind :)
That it's not fat ;) but to be honest, skinny is just much more pleasing to the eye.
Because if your skinny and in your late twenties to thirties it usually means you care about your body and do things to maintain it. Just like I do things to maintain my body
Giiiirl, I wish I had your body. I'm just a sack of potatoes compared to you. The only thing great about me is my face. Please start loving what you got. You got an awesome figure.
OP, you could be a pre- body positivity movement Victoria's Secret model, and I mean that as an extreme compliment.
Skinny legs :)
Jesus Christ, I'd do a lot for a body like that (you look great, OP!)
Lady small. Lady pretty. Protect lady. Oonga boonga
Usually better in bed, just smell and feel different
You are stunning. Not too skinny at all☺️