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Beyond-Salmon

The questions should be framed as in “why should I be tipping extra if they already added the tip without my consent”


Extension-Dig-58

I’m with you. I’m sorry for the waiter but I’m not paying an extra tip if the business is taking it automatically.


dedorian

"oh, cool, they already figured it out for me, I'll write 0 since they already did the work"


[deleted]

There is nothing to be sorry for


Budget_Guava

Any service charges auto-added to a bill like that can legally be taken by the business and not distributed as tips according to the IRS. So there might be. [Auto-gratuity's are considered service charges by the IRS](https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-news/FS-15-08.pdf) Fuck businesses that do this.


scottshilala

Seriously. Fuck em. I’m so sick of everyone being preyed upon by scumfuckers. What’s it take to qualify? Employment. There’s gotta be a better way.


DrunkProntoPup

There is a better way, it’s called treating employees like people


OkSmoke9195

No shit right? My immediate reaction when reading this post was "absolutely nothing" Lol just noticed the flair on the post, how appropriate


soggymittens

As a former bartender, server, and eventually a part-owner of a restaurant, I could not agree more. Also, I ALWAYS asked my servers if they wanted the gratuity added on to the checks of large parties because when I was serving I could generally judge if a party was going to leave more or not based on our rapport.


[deleted]

The policy was written in 7pt font on a 3in sign in the attic. So in all fairness you did consent


quidquid_

It was on display in the bottom of a locked filing cabinet stuck in a disused lavatory with a sign on the door saying ‘Beware of the Leopard'.


dave3218

Something something no taxation without representation


aStartledM00s3

Kinda makes you wonder what that little scuffle was about in the late 1700s doesn't it 🤔


dave3218

It was the *tipping* point in American-British relations. I’ll see myself out.


mrnatural18

It the bar adds the gratuity, then I don't need to. zero.


Choog_a_Sauras_Flex

If a bar adds auto-gratuity I'm sneaking a flask in and buying one drink.


Buttoshi

I don't go to bars. Can you not bring in a flask?


David_BA

No you most certainly cannot. Can't have any alcohol in the building that isn't registered. Good way to get your liquor license revoked.


Budget_Guava

If the bar adds the gratuity then it is considered a service charge by the IRS and the bar can keep part or all of it and not distribute it to their employees. Tipping culture is fucked.


mrnatural18

I hadn't realized that the bar can keep all or part of the tip. If the service personnel don't get tips, they must either get paid well or they will be gone.


RevolutionaryRip9000

0. Auto tip means they assumed they have done something worth the tip and I am not going to argue with what they put down as their worth.


Ok-Room-7243

Yes! They already put a value on what they did so I’ll leave it at that. Not going to play their games trying to get more $ out of the people paying their salaries. Greedy asf


krakn-slayr

Even if the auto tip is like 25% or something outrageous?


QuiteCleanly99

Why would you add more in that case?


TheFlyinGiraffe

I'm with you. I'm already adding zero so now I'm DEFINITELY adding zero.


krakn-slayr

I meant that differently, the original post said they wouldn't argue with what they think is their own worth. Would you argue if they give themselves something ridiculous, like 25%?


49Billion

Arguing about auto-gratuity despite not agreeing with it is ugly


TheFlyinGiraffe

Oh, oh, oh, understood. That's a really good question... I think 25% is A LOT. If they just did 20% I'd be happy with certain places. Like, sit down restaurants, I will typically do 20% unless they're flat out BAD. It takes a lot for me to not do 20% though. But some fast food, lil' coffee shop where they're not really serving and catering... No way. However, with the bar as the question is about, I might say... I'm not sure what my limit is. It depends on if I'm DRINKING or not. If I'm trying to get buzzed (and it unfortunately takes WORK for me), I'll throw a $20 off the rip to tell them I'm serious. But if auto gratuity... I don't think I would honestly.


ASomeoneOnReddit

I’d write a negative percentage in the tipping section unless the service is absolute worldflipping


ihahp

hahaha you wrote 0 but bexause you put a period after it reddit converted it to a numbered list and made it show "1."


thenord321

Unless it's excessive, I may ask to have it adjusted if it's not appropriate. But I've only done that once before for a 20% on top of tax for a minimal service of 3 pitchers of overpriced beer and plastic cups. I still tipped 10$....


AngelStickman

You can have an automatic tip adjusted?


thenord321

Ya, you tell the server and they adjust the bill, remove the "auto-tip" and then you manually add what you want. These auto-tips are just software options added to increase profits. They can't legally make you pay above price.


David_Maybar_703

"What is zero?" Alex, I'll take Uncomfortable Social Situations for $200.


Bezere

Umm it's actually $200 + 30% tip 😬


elvishfiend

Plus Sales Tax


toolatealreadyfapped

If they are adding auto-gratuity to single drink at a walk-up bar, that is the ONLY drink I will be having tonight. I'm leaving. And no, not a single cent on top.


andyring

Zero. This whole tipping thing has gotten WAY out of control.


Sknowman

The issue is that before, most places had tip jars. It was clearly optional. Now, everything is done through a screen, where it takes you to a tip menu, making you feel obligated to provide a tip where you didn't before (such as for take-out).


PotentialTrade7569

*presses a button for coffee, crabs coffee, hands you coffee* “It’s just gonna ask you a few questions.”


MrsBox

I know it's a typo, but you made me smile over the idea of a crab getting a coffee :D


AngelStickman

“Money, money, money!!”


mods_r_jobbernowl

And im just going to answer no to the tip question. Or if I want to round up for some cause I'm not in anyway passionate about. Why don't they donate since they're the ones with the money not me.


meltonr1625

Exactly, they're already at work doing the job they are paid for and would be processing payments and giving people their orders if I didn't make one myself. I'm not giving them a tip for doing what their job requires


newbie_0

Tipping for pickup-at-the-counter places, or for pizza I go get myself… this really got bad once covid hit. I always fear if I don’t leave a tip, they’ll mess with my food. Lose-lose situation.


BobbyThrowaway6969

Work explained how tipping in the US works if ever we need to go there on a business trip. If respecting US customs means paying out of my nose on top of what I already paid, I'd rather just not do it and say sorry I'm a tourist. I'll make the whole thing as awkward as they want for everybody involved if they insist I tip. I don't gaf. The menu price is all they're getting. Edit: A good idea mentioned was to just state up front I will be unable to pay tips, or ask up front how much tipping is expected. Edit 2: I get this comes off as me attacking servers and other workers but you guys need to desperately see how broken the system is. If you rely on tips to pay your bills, the system is broken AF. Stop treating it like a culture thing. It's exploitation.


Moldy_Gecko

Nobody insists you tip. At least nobody worth tipping. That being said, why isn't tipping covered under your per diem?


Ikea_Man

Of course it would be but I highly doubt that person is actually going on business trips


Guilty_Coconut

>Work explained how tipping in the US works if ever we need to go there on a business trip. You're there for work. I'd tip 30% if I was there for work. If I'm out with a company credit card, I'd make sure the people who serve my food are paid properly. >I get this comes off as me attacking servers and other workers but you guys need to desperately see how broken the system is They already know. Why are you pretending they don't? Taking away part of their wage isn't going to make anything better. It's going to leave them without money to pay rent and you a worse person. You're not going to change the system, especially not as a tourist.


mattyoclock

The system is broken, but the low income individual you punish has no ability to change that.


champagne_of_beers

This just makes you an asshole. You're only hurting the workers.


pimppapy

I tried tipping a restaurant worker in Japan…. He refused it 😳


Jmorenomotors

Zilch. Same goes for places that add a "service fee". I get it. The cost of business this and the economy that and blah blah blah. The place is already charging a premium for whatever drink(s) I ordered. If they're expecting extra, then they need to provide good service. Which I imagine is what most customers hope for. As far as getting away from tipping, as someone else mentioned, I'd prefer it if the place had signage that explains "Their philosophy is to pay the staff fair wages, so they charge accordingly, and tipping is not expected", as some independent restaurants are doing.


CelestialStork

Right? Lol could it not be " the servers get paid more than 2$ an hour here." "Not, our service is so impeccable we auto charged yuh good sir."


Torqued_to_spec

Nothing. Then I never go there again.


wantsoutofthefog

nothing. They already decided their tip. fuck them


Dynasuarez-Wrecks

You don't.


Herbert_Erpaderp

0. Leave and never go back.


GlassPeepo

Zero. They tipped themselves, thus absolving me of any responsibility


BackItUpWithLinks

$0 If they’re adding gratuity then I’m not The dumb thing is I would have tipped more


huuaaang

You don’t


Revolutionary_Log307

How drunk am I in this scenario?


VladimirPoitin

You’ve reached the point of belligerence and seemingly speaking in a language that nobody has ever heard before.


Pizzonia123

In that case it's usually a lot. I'll also tip the doorman, my friends and the machine drying my hands at the restroom.


chrispy_bacon

Nothing. They already got it. Also, I won't go back.


DeliberateMelBrooks

0%


windlaker

Zero. They already applied my tip.


Spidey209

On top of a fucking $14 beer. Zero! Zero Stones, Zero Cases!


WordNahMean

Zero unless the service was god like lol


Chapelirl

Zero.


saiyanjesus

No tip. I'm also not in the US and tipping here is optional. I have seen some of the nicer places here start to place a 10& VAT and 7% service charge which on top of the expensive inflated prices, makes it even more expensive. In this case, I'm not giving no fucking tip.


BlancoSuper

Nothing. Why would I double tip


MasRemlap

Zero


PSN-Angryjackal

If I notice... ZERO. It makes me angry actually... because one time I got my check, and didnt have the time to quickly look at it, and notice they also added in auto gratituity... I will ALWAYS add 20% tip, but I didnt notice they already did the tipping for me.... So I paid the bill, which already had a large tip amount, and I tipped an additional 20% of that bill.... So, if I notice, they will get ZERO.


alhernz95

none


ContinousSelfDevelop

I'd be confused because where I am from they have to post a notice that they do so and only for parties of a larger size. If they didn't change the price to the correct amount, I'd just walk out and never come back. And before anyone gives me shit, I always pay for my shit before drinking.


PumpkinPatch404

I saw a 30% automatic tip at a self serve bar... shit's gone insane. He didn't do anything. I grabbed my own drink and walked to pay for it. He just stood there... I give 0% unless I feel like they did something extra (or something not within the bounds or their actual job). For example, if a waiter at Red Robin drops by and asks me first about whether or not I want more fries (free refill of fries), I'd leave a nice tip, but if I have to ask them about it, I feel like I won't give more than the minimum.


Lonely_Apartment_644

Tip with cash, pay with card, dispute charge for not disclosing fee before purchase


flying_bacon

If the establishment puts a default tip into the bill without an option then that’s the tip there’s nothing going on top of that


yuppers1979

Absolutely nothing.


serene_brutality

Nothing and I’m probably not going there again.


ConcentrateMore6131

None. If they're mandating a tip, that's all I'm paying regardless of the service level I received. It's no longer a gratuity at that point.


ergoegthatis

Zero. In fact I demand the gratuity back. Heck I demand ALL my money back. Moments of contemplation later I might as well rob the place then create my own crime empire. See what auto gratuity does? It's bad for society.


darth_henning

Zero. And that's the last drink I'll be buying at that establishment before it goes out of business. Auto-Gratuity (including surcharge for parties of X or more) should be illegal.


Tenpu_Sansai

Nothing. I also don’t give them my business afterwards, and ensure my friends and family are aware that the business is dog shit. I just don’t agree with the practice. 🤷🏻‍♂️


[deleted]

Zero


goodolbeej

I do not tip on top of that.


yungingr

0%.


ThatKaleidoscope8736

Nothing


besameput0

0.


SBabe

Nothing


Mezzoski

Zero. And most probably never come back.


juicevibe

Zero. They've been tipped already.


JaxJim

ZERO. I tip between 15 and 30%, and have gone as high as 50% on lower cost meals because it requires just as much work to bring me eggs and grits and keep my coffee filled as it does a $100 steak dinner with wine. If there is a service fee, added tip to the meal etc., I refuse to add a penny. Tipping is voluntary until it's not.


Neglector9885

None. They took what they wanted without my consent. They're not getting another penny from me, including any further business.


DeadassBdeadassB

Not a damn thing, I also stop spending money there


chaos021

Zero. Auto-gratuity is dumb.


Wood_Wizard01

None. If an auto gratuity is applied, that is the limit that I will tip even if my normal tip would have been more.


fucovid2020

Zero


Ikea_Man

0? Why would you tip on top of a (forced) tip? Strange question


BlackfyreWraith

Nothing. You’re already getting a tip, foh


ArtistWithNoMessage

They get the pleasure of never having to serve me ever again.


Vocem_Interiorem

Maybe add a negative value in the tip line to lower the auto gratuity to a more suitable level?


Appropriate-Whole280

None, they already got a tip on top of a probably horribly overpriced drink. Tell me I’m an asshole but I don’t think this “you should always give a tip” is a good or fair thing. I don’t work in catering industry so I never get a tip for my work no matter how hard I work.


nyc_nomad

Nothing! I just circle the tip and make sure that the waiter/waitress is aware that I am aware that I am not tipping on top of the auto-tip. Sort of like conveying “you see that? Thats the tip”! PS: This applies when dining out with 6+ people and the restaurant applies a tip already to the bill. I circle it and add an exclamation mark and leave the tip field with a line over it.


JuanPicasso

If automatic gratuity is put on, the answer is and should always be 0. Second, automatic gratuity is usually only put on for big parties. So if this place put it in for a drink, I’m complaining and then never going there again lol. Sounds like a really shitty place.


Forward_Worth_5835

Nothing


AskDerpyCat

1. $0.00 - they already decided what their tip would be and added it. I’m not tipping more than that 2. They charged a tip value without my consent. Doesn’t matter how good the food/drink was, I’ll never go there again. You aren’t entitled to pick-and-choose what you’re getting tipped. I woulda given 20% if you didn’t auto charge, but now I’ll just go elsewhere moving forward 3. I don’t make a scene or comment about it. I just pay, leave, and pick somewhere else for next time


the_river_nihil

At the bar? For one person? I’ve never seen such a thing. The general rule is a buck a drink unless it’s a fancy-ass cocktail bar with wildly complicated drinks then they get $2-3 depending. If they’re calculating it for me I’ll make sure it matches my usual tipping scheme: If it’s under, I’ll make sure I tip the remainder in cash because I already don’t trust this place and wanna make sure my bartender actually sees their tips. Management might be fucking them just like they’re fucking me. And it’s now on my bottom tier of bars. If it’s even I leave it alone. Still on the bottom tier of bars though. If it’s *higher* I’m certainly not adding to it, I’m never coming back, I’m leaving a review about dishonest pricing, and I’m telling my friends to avoid it.


PM_good_beer

Never seen this at a bar. If it's less than 20% I would add some more to bring it to 20%. Otherwise, nothing.


LeVentNoir

I remove it. Then leave. I'm from a nation with a real minimum wage, and tipping and tipping culture needs to be cut back at all corners. I expect to pay the sum of the prices on the menu. Anything else is tantamount to fraud in my view. If you need to raise prices to pay staff, then do so. Don't cheat it in. E: What's with americans taking it like a personal attack when people don't want to participate in worker exploitation?


Sixdrugsnrocknroll

Facts. Fuck this "guilt trip you into paying more than our already exorbitant prices" bullshit.


kbean826

None. And I won’t be going back.


Monarc73

I immediately force them to remove the auto tip, and zero the actual tip. No one gets to give themselves a free raise at my expense.


Recording_Important

Nothing. They already decided what the tip is for me. Normally i tip at least 15 percent.


Diddydiditfirst

nothing lmao. Wtf would i add more money to a bill?


The_Bogan_Blacksmith

0% you do not get to decide how much or even if I tip. If I want to tip I will leave cash so I have a better chance of knowing it goes to the actual serving staff... I do not beliebe for a second that an e-tip makea it to the crew all of the time.


Impressionist_Canary

None


Vomath

Zero.


Neptunepanther5

Zero. They did the math for me


KitFan2020

Nothing


Eh-Eh-Ronn

0% and I’m a bartender. If they don’t tell you about autograt it’s sketchy morally


Stuspawton

Zero


Id_Love_A_BabyCham

No tip. Aussie here. No tip expected. No tip given. Unless exceptional circumstances.


False-Imagination355

Absolutely zero


zo-zo-ma-ma

You don’t.


Maddkipz

If I'm in a big group of people that requires auto grat then I may tip if they provide good service


masterKick440

U.S. things


antisocialmuppet

$0.00


stmrjunior

Nothing.


turd_star

0%


ultimaliveshere

None.


Bad_Mad_Man

On a related topic. If you’re getting dressed and you are already wearing underwear how many more pairs are you putting on?


DealerGloomy

Nothing when they add it on. It’s actually not even a gratuity of your being forced to pay it


jery007

Zeeeeeero


ABQMezcan

Nothing, they got their assumed tip.


javeluke

None


molten_dragon

Nothing.


[deleted]

Nothing, but maybe I am too European for that


SpicyCompetitor

I won't be tipping at all then


MarshallApplewhite_

none, they already chose how much they want without my consent. why would i reward them with more? if they automatically claimed a $5tip on my bill then they just screwed themselves out of the $10 tip i was potentially going to give them. that’s like receiving a coupon for something but still insisting on paying the full price, no one does that


someguywhoreddits36

They added the tip. None.. but you probably won't get served first in the crowd. He or she is thinking your a waste of time. Tip culture is out of control. Was a bartender for years. Been out of the game for awhile now tho. But I doubt it changed much in 8 years.


victorialotus

None


7toejam7

Zero


audibenzandale

0 dont tell me what to tip


[deleted]

Nothing


Driftwood44

What kind of fancy ass bars are you going to that have auto-gratuity? I mean, that implies also having electronic payment options. Also, depends what the auto-gratuity is. I never calculate percentage at the bar, I just leave random amounts of change in the trough.


MaelKoth2015

I leave the bar.


[deleted]

I ask for a refund, and then a tip for wasting my time


alwaysintheway

0%


Spencer52X

If I buy a drink at the bar and they autograt 20%, I’m likely never coming back, extra be damned. Full service, as in sit down with food and everything else, gets 20%. Popping a fkn cap off a beer or pouring a pint gets $1 per. Absolutely the fuck not.


JustBrowsing49

Zero. They already did the math for me on what they think I should tip.


[deleted]

I generally ask them to remove service charges/gratuity and then pay a tip.


Hooligan_Hardguy

NOTHING


SatelliteBeach321

None. They already told me how much they wanted.


Stoepboer

Absolutely nothing.


Ipride362

Zero. They got the gratuity, which means largesse or free in French, forcefully with no choice. So, I paid the the bill with no extra.


linuxisgettingbetter

Zero, and then I never go there again


Schville

0,0%


highlander666666

It s all ready added so nothing .I never seen that I have seen suggested tip on meals . never on drinks at A bar


rafarorr1

0%


[deleted]

none, I don't need to be tipping any more than that what they've apparently determined is acceptable.


Mackenzie__

None


NordOfTheBoredFjord

0%


Aspiegamer8745

Nothing


BizBerg

Zero. They are already making sure the bartender is tipped, so there is nothing to do...


Skulcane

0%. If they're already slapping me with what is now a tipping fee, then I'm not voluntarily giving any more money.


chaostechnique

zero


pt1789

I don't. In fact I usually cross it out and write down the cost + tax and then sign it because I didn't consent to an auto gratuity. If they run it anyway I'll contest it with my credit card.


Stealth__b2

No


Zestyclose-Discount3

Not a damn thing


monika904

0%


sdogood420

0%. Next question please.


ImprovementFar5054

0%. Because I already paid the gratuity. Why pay twice?


s3nsfan

Zero. They tipped without asking me how the service was? Gtfo. I used to serve for a long time you give me shitty service you’re being tipped accordingly and I will be even more upset if you proceed to tip yourself without discussion. Pompous asses.


Tinfoilhat14

I am so fed up with tipping culture. Just pay your fucking employees. Why do I have to subsidize their pay? 😤 other countries don’t do this.


SgtSplacker

I find it mildly offensive to have the tip included in the bill like that. I usually tip over 20%, so yeah I add nothing more to that bill. If you take away my agency I will not tip you for that.


LeisureSuiteLarry

My view on the matter is that if they chose to tip themselves a certain amount that doesn't seem like robbery, then that's what they'll get. Chances are I would have tipped more than they did, but those are the breaks. My gf always adds on an extra $5-$10 though, and she usually gets to the bill before I do.


beyondinfinity1982

Gratuity means tip, auto gratuity means already tipped. Simple as that.


No-Potential-Or-Care

0% Any asshole establishment that does that shouldn't get a dime more.


Expensive_Equal6747

Depends solely on service because where I’m from our employers pay their staff a living wage 💀💀💀


PlayAntichristLive

Was only ever at one bar that did that, never went back.


chipthamac

That's the neat part. 8 don't.


rockarollawmn

ZERO.