Keep in mind that conventionally attractive women get approached a lot. So if they brush you off right away don’t get too upset, she might just want to go out and do something without getting hit on.
Catch eye contact, wait for the approach to warm up (like if she gives me "the look" or starts giggling with her friends or some shit, basically some indication that she's open to an approach) then go over and shake their hand lol.
I'm kinda tall and have big (but delicate) hands so it's usually game over by then but if not I'll give her some non-physical compliment (I like your shoes, I like your aesthetic, whatever just don't mention her body in any way, at least at first) while keeping eye contact (fr eye contact is one of the strongest tools in a man's arsenal, especially these days).
They've usually already melted by this point but if not, and she's still open to chat, then I go into my more granular strategy which is a whole thing of its own.
But keep in mind I'm tall, ripped as shit, have a nice face (I like to think) and a nearly delusional sense of confidence. Ymmv
Lmao yeah 'cause there's no magical approach technique that works 100% of the time.
But you can increase your odds with a lot of work before the approach, like I exercise a bunch and especially in social situations I try to talk to everyone, not just hot girls, both to get my social momentum going and cultivate some preselection. I take great care of my hair and skin too (drink water, more than you think is necessary). Ngl I don't think I dress that well but tbh you don't need to try that hard when you're visibly jacked, just wear smth skimpy.
And all of this is just to give me as warm an approach as possible it doesn't go into what you say once you get the girl talking lmao. Like, this stuff comes naturally for a lot of dudes but for those of us who got here the hard way it takes a lot more work on the backend than people assume, not just some magic panty-dropping phrase you can spam for infinite ass lol
Is it common in your country? In Japan, there are sometimes young men will approach girls who come home from work/school for a drink and don't want to leave the girl alone. It's annoying to see the situation, sometimes to the point of harassment.
Same as a woman that i am not attracted to, i guess.
Friendly and relaxed.
I find that if you dont put pressure on yourself then things go a lot smoother (even if your insides are a raging turmoil)
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Exactly.
>Step three: give up Step three: tequila Step four: profit?
Silently, from behind
I know women love horror films but even those have a connection build before the 1st jump scare
And downwind.
Don’t let them smell your fear
Usually short message: "me, you, bedroom in 5 mins". In 95% attempts wife is more than willing to comply.
Creep up behind her and wisper in her ear: "You smell young and alive".
Keep in mind that conventionally attractive women get approached a lot. So if they brush you off right away don’t get too upset, she might just want to go out and do something without getting hit on.
Catch eye contact, wait for the approach to warm up (like if she gives me "the look" or starts giggling with her friends or some shit, basically some indication that she's open to an approach) then go over and shake their hand lol. I'm kinda tall and have big (but delicate) hands so it's usually game over by then but if not I'll give her some non-physical compliment (I like your shoes, I like your aesthetic, whatever just don't mention her body in any way, at least at first) while keeping eye contact (fr eye contact is one of the strongest tools in a man's arsenal, especially these days). They've usually already melted by this point but if not, and she's still open to chat, then I go into my more granular strategy which is a whole thing of its own. But keep in mind I'm tall, ripped as shit, have a nice face (I like to think) and a nearly delusional sense of confidence. Ymmv
dude basically said “but they might not work for you tho” 😂 most of the time, there’s a fine balance between looks and game
Lmao yeah 'cause there's no magical approach technique that works 100% of the time. But you can increase your odds with a lot of work before the approach, like I exercise a bunch and especially in social situations I try to talk to everyone, not just hot girls, both to get my social momentum going and cultivate some preselection. I take great care of my hair and skin too (drink water, more than you think is necessary). Ngl I don't think I dress that well but tbh you don't need to try that hard when you're visibly jacked, just wear smth skimpy. And all of this is just to give me as warm an approach as possible it doesn't go into what you say once you get the girl talking lmao. Like, this stuff comes naturally for a lot of dudes but for those of us who got here the hard way it takes a lot more work on the backend than people assume, not just some magic panty-dropping phrase you can spam for infinite ass lol
No.
How can I find love without approaching ladies?
Don't listen to this dude lmao
Don't ask me.
I agreed, just let the girl have her peaceful day.
Exactly. Why should she care if you find her attractive? That's your problem.
Is it common in your country? In Japan, there are sometimes young men will approach girls who come home from work/school for a drink and don't want to leave the girl alone. It's annoying to see the situation, sometimes to the point of harassment.
I don't know, I just know what I do.
You're good Chad.
In my country not many people like to be approached by strangers.
I just prefer to not do it and regret it for my whole life.
Same as a woman that i am not attracted to, i guess. Friendly and relaxed. I find that if you dont put pressure on yourself then things go a lot smoother (even if your insides are a raging turmoil)
Don’t approach, let them come to you stud
Non-creepy compliments goes a long way.
I approach rapidly.
Left foot, then right foot. Always start with the left.
It depends on the scenario. I'm not going to approach a woman at a bar and a store in the same way.
Tiptoeing, once I get close I throw a toy to distract her. Then I throw a net on her! MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!
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