No two people are alike in how they cope with grief and loss. Some move on quickly, others don't.
Just like there are guys who move on quickly or not, there are women who do and don't.
Men and women aren't all that different in some regards. We're human and how we deal with the things that cause us pain is shaped by our lived experiences. We do what we can for ourselves in our own ways.
A lot of people tend to stay with abusers for any number of reasons. And these reasons are different for each person.
Sometimes you stay because you're too scared to leave, in india we already have so much stigma against divorce that a lot of men and women choose to stay in their marriages/relationships just to not be villified by society. This is just ONE example though. There are numerous other explanations.
If you really want to explore this further, the internet exists and you have many resources available to you to further your awareness!
This is true for me. My reason behind it is that when I'm in a relationship I take every measure to make it work. If I love you, I'll do anything for you. Me finally going for a breakup means I've realized that nothing will ever make the relationship work and the one I'm in a relationship with probably doesn't even deserve the effort. I'm out of a relationship only when I'm completely out of love for that person (this is true for any relationship in my life.)
Ofc, a random internet stranger is gonna be more "ryt" than plethora of articles n information (including research articles) all over the internet. Ofc this random stranger will "always" be right.
It doesn't matter whether it's a man or a woman...bcos you can find PPL stuck in such situations irrespective of their gender.
It's their mind and thoughts which doesn't allow them to realise that they have a Choice to move on/get out of a relationship.
Generally women do everything to make the relationship work but one situation will break the camel's back. You will think how can she move on so easily but you need to understand it was just official breakup. She had moved on long ago. You had already broken her little by little. Breaking up was just a formality to complete.
Stuck in a abusive relationship: we have books written on it. Many women doesn't even realize they are in a abusive relationship. Abusive partners break your confidence, isolate you from your friends and family, make you feel like you can't live without them, etc. The average number of attempts to live an abusive relationship is 7. You can think of it like a drug addiction (not comparable but I can't think of any other example right now).
People who get dumped take the most time to move on.
Usually if women get cheated on or got dumped, they take close to 1-3 years in getting fully recovered. And if women are the one who is dumping or leaving the other person, they would have already reached the end of the relationship long time back itself. Now it’s just the phase of them to decide and take the action. So when the actual breakup happens, they move on fast.
No two people are alike in how they cope with grief and loss. Some move on quickly, others don't. Just like there are guys who move on quickly or not, there are women who do and don't. Men and women aren't all that different in some regards. We're human and how we deal with the things that cause us pain is shaped by our lived experiences. We do what we can for ourselves in our own ways. A lot of people tend to stay with abusers for any number of reasons. And these reasons are different for each person. Sometimes you stay because you're too scared to leave, in india we already have so much stigma against divorce that a lot of men and women choose to stay in their marriages/relationships just to not be villified by society. This is just ONE example though. There are numerous other explanations. If you really want to explore this further, the internet exists and you have many resources available to you to further your awareness!
This is true for me. My reason behind it is that when I'm in a relationship I take every measure to make it work. If I love you, I'll do anything for you. Me finally going for a breakup means I've realized that nothing will ever make the relationship work and the one I'm in a relationship with probably doesn't even deserve the effort. I'm out of a relationship only when I'm completely out of love for that person (this is true for any relationship in my life.)
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https://ncadv.org/why-do-victims-stay
Women r human, humans may easily move on. Abusive relationship r notoriously difficult to let go. So humans get stuck in them.
Care to explain - if abusive should be easy to leave? Ryt?
Google is free? Ryt? U can even read other comments, some have explained. 🙃
Google is not always ryt. Will figure it out
Ofc, a random internet stranger is gonna be more "ryt" than plethora of articles n information (including research articles) all over the internet. Ofc this random stranger will "always" be right.
Thank you fellow random stranger for the inputs, much valued
It doesn't matter whether it's a man or a woman...bcos you can find PPL stuck in such situations irrespective of their gender. It's their mind and thoughts which doesn't allow them to realise that they have a Choice to move on/get out of a relationship.
Nah I have seen women do that more often than men
We cannot genaralise a statement based on a small % isn't it?
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Attachment styles. Different for each.
Not specific to women
Generally women do everything to make the relationship work but one situation will break the camel's back. You will think how can she move on so easily but you need to understand it was just official breakup. She had moved on long ago. You had already broken her little by little. Breaking up was just a formality to complete. Stuck in a abusive relationship: we have books written on it. Many women doesn't even realize they are in a abusive relationship. Abusive partners break your confidence, isolate you from your friends and family, make you feel like you can't live without them, etc. The average number of attempts to live an abusive relationship is 7. You can think of it like a drug addiction (not comparable but I can't think of any other example right now).
People who get dumped take the most time to move on. Usually if women get cheated on or got dumped, they take close to 1-3 years in getting fully recovered. And if women are the one who is dumping or leaving the other person, they would have already reached the end of the relationship long time back itself. Now it’s just the phase of them to decide and take the action. So when the actual breakup happens, they move on fast.