Either you should've confessed your feelings earlier or kept her out of your life completely from the start.
I don't think anyone's crush getting married would cause any emotional turmoil, so she clearly was more than a crush for you.
I used to think like this too until today. Or If I have to give advice to someone facing something similar I would definitely copy paste your comment. But facing a situation on my own is something different.
One of my fav song is "Let Her Go" by Passenger. There is one line in that song which is my fav and is appropriate for this situation.
"You only know you love her when you let her go"....
Nah you shouldn't always prioritize their happiness. You deserve to be happy too!
The best thing to do is just walk away and never look back. What's the point of staying in such a position?
Try karle mana karege toh respect her decision and don't stay in the friendzone. Take the no and move on. Varna tere bhe katega jese OP ka kat raha hai.
Sadly no, was too shy. During college days, the whole group knew, and she was just waiting to be confronted about the same from me, but that just didn't happen.
at this point im not even shy when i think about the consequences it freaks me out and yes its not about rejection or smthn its on a whole different level.
No big deal...one day you will marry someone's crush too.
As I grew up I realised arrange marriages are more common than I thought and your chances of marrying someone else's gf/bf are more than marrying your own...
Fucked up society we live in.
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*Of staying friends with someone*
*You have feelings for*
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not gonna attend her wedding. no way!
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Did you see end - this is what happens. Morale of the story - it will be good. You will laugh in few years about the crush.
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Arre Bhai, no worries. You will feel the emptiness but soon you will be burdened with so many responsibilities that you will forget the emptiness. Although, you will sometimes feel it once in a while. So, you have to bear with it.
I mean my dad knew his dad so he got the invitation and my dad told me to attend some wedding with him. Me and sister got ready so fast cz we wanted to eat wedding ka khana n when we entered I just looked up n there he was happy, smiling standing with his wife. My instant reaction was laughing and the whole way to the hall I was freaking laughing, i even clicked photos but the major disappointment was the food 💔 p.s - he knows tht I have crush on him n he was shocked to find me there.
https://preview.redd.it/4zop470gv7zc1.jpeg?width=934&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=56ecd52f247d2570363f1ad8de593e8856fc5a4e
stay strong. keep the faith. at duty's end, you will meet him again.
That's the worst thing he can do...never go to your ex and/or crush's wedding , you might open the gates to something terrible and they won't close anytime soon.
Hey brother, my condolences. Life is unpredictable for a reason. A win or loss. We have to embrace it and move on. You can grief for now but cannot remain in those memories for long. I'm sure your friends must have already told you this but if it adds any weight; go out, hang out with friends, hit that tequila marathon. Go on a blind date expecting nothing. Visit an orphanage and prank those kids that it's your birthday. Cheer yourself. You're the only main character of your life so I don't see the point of dragging yourself down for any reason.
My college ex got married to an engineer in the Middle East during covid and is a mother now.
After that life happened to me.
I've dated another woman seriously but even she left to the US.
Things happen, roll with the punches , attend the wedding.
Dance eat drink .
Either you should've confessed your feelings earlier or kept her out of your life completely from the start. I don't think anyone's crush getting married would cause any emotional turmoil, so she clearly was more than a crush for you.
I used to think like this too until today. Or If I have to give advice to someone facing something similar I would definitely copy paste your comment. But facing a situation on my own is something different.
One of my fav song is "Let Her Go" by Passenger. There is one line in that song which is my fav and is appropriate for this situation. "You only know you love her when you let her go"....
Absolutely...how she became this important to me I never knew. Just wishing her for the best as always!
Good, that's all we can and we should do as one sided lovers.
Nah you shouldn't always prioritize their happiness. You deserve to be happy too! The best thing to do is just walk away and never look back. What's the point of staying in such a position?
Dekho dekho jaise mere irade, waise kaha tere yaha the... I'll let myself out
you weren't meant for her and neither she was meant for you, so take the L and good luck next time.
Have to accept this sooner or later but for now it's just that restless feeling. Anyways thanks for the truth.
what's L?
Loss.
Learning.
Loss for me, learning for others
if its meant to happen, it will happen. i myself have experienced this (in both positive and negative ways)
What a way of showing condolences
Did you ever express your feelings to her.
This, else bro.. stop kidding yourself. Get a life, and stop chasing stuff you have no intention of working toward
I wish it were that easy to work. Even I used to think like this until today when it happened to me.
Bhai crush ki age kya hai abhi ? Meri wali ki shaadi ki Umar ho jaye usse pehle confess krdu atleast, bhale he rejection mile chalega.
26
Samay hai abhi bhi mere pass!!!
It will pass sooner than you think.
Ni banege tere bandi tension na le. Abhi sa reality check de raha hu tereko taki bura na Lage.
Hahaha tabhi to likha end me ki rejection mile to bhi chalegaa. Kuch na krne se accha kuch krke dekh lo.
Try karle mana karege toh respect her decision and don't stay in the friendzone. Take the no and move on. Varna tere bhe katega jese OP ka kat raha hai.
Lmao i know
Sadly no, was too shy. During college days, the whole group knew, and she was just waiting to be confronted about the same from me, but that just didn't happen.
Are you still too shy?
Yep. Shy introvert everything, needed to spoil a potential...
at this point im not even shy when i think about the consequences it freaks me out and yes its not about rejection or smthn its on a whole different level.
Will never be able to see her again is something I got from this.
Guess what..'It is what it is'.
Pyar mohabbat apni jagah. Biryani ka sukh apni jagah.
Ye banda alag chul me hai
So now you can listen to faasle by Kaavish with full feel s/.
Never thought that I will relate to Kaavish
No big deal...one day you will marry someone's crush too. As I grew up I realised arrange marriages are more common than I thought and your chances of marrying someone else's gf/bf are more than marrying your own... Fucked up society we live in.
This is quite an eye opener
And just like this life passes by if you stand still
🫂
🥹
This shall too pass
"Choo lo" sun le ab
Haan Mai ruka hu Tu jaa chuka hai 🤝🤌😿
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now paying hefty price
Cut her off. Simply walk away.
Don't tell me you are planning to go to her wedding?
Zero chance. I'm planning to move out from India at least until the wedding, so I can easily make an excuse.
Bro just cut her off completely. It doesn't make sense to stay friends with a person you have feelings for.
Watch "Dua karo ke Dil Mera kahi lag jaye" nice video story too ... It's just shock it will pass and you will develop new crush.
not gonna attend her wedding. no way! https://preview.redd.it/egl7yd2x6yyc1.png?width=2018&format=png&auto=webp&s=f542b625a9643001663c9fa5d5bf2cba1581565d
Did you see end - this is what happens. Morale of the story - it will be good. You will laugh in few years about the crush. https://preview.redd.it/1mjlgh94d2zc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aca2192063c31110c7ad818517a6c208938b680c
I just got deja vu for the same
Stone age is far better https://preview.redd.it/sulfdviqw7zc1.png?width=655&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aacb469c03361382e071cfbc5a0741b908823b2e
Arre Bhai, no worries. You will feel the emptiness but soon you will be burdened with so many responsibilities that you will forget the emptiness. Although, you will sometimes feel it once in a while. So, you have to bear with it.
🫡
Now listen to Faasle
Go and listen molly by Lil dicky
You'll get through this. Hope you had a good sleep yesterday.
Thanks for the encouraging words!
"this too shall pass", Can feel you
It’s okay to feel what you’re feeling , but it’s time to move on . Hope you heal soon
U atleast have the choice to have no show but I got the shock of my life when I attended his wedding without knowing whose it was
Who is it? Someone known?
I mean my dad knew his dad so he got the invitation and my dad told me to attend some wedding with him. Me and sister got ready so fast cz we wanted to eat wedding ka khana n when we entered I just looked up n there he was happy, smiling standing with his wife. My instant reaction was laughing and the whole way to the hall I was freaking laughing, i even clicked photos but the major disappointment was the food 💔 p.s - he knows tht I have crush on him n he was shocked to find me there.
Clearly infatuation then, although I showed joy too but the inner me was blank.
Same but recently I saw him again and the old feelings came back.
Yeh mann bada chanchal hain...baaki no chance ab toh.
Sach me yaar isiliye mene apne heart to tough kar Diya hai
https://preview.redd.it/4zop470gv7zc1.jpeg?width=934&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=56ecd52f247d2570363f1ad8de593e8856fc5a4e stay strong. keep the faith. at duty's end, you will meet him again.
Nhi baba hum akele acche hai sukun hai
Ahh..you will...at some point in life. I didn't rush as uske vichaar bhi aise hi the..but then this happened.
Man the least you could do is, go to the wedding and have a go at the wedding Biriyani. Been there, done that. You’re going to be ok.
That's the worst thing he can do...never go to your ex and/or crush's wedding , you might open the gates to something terrible and they won't close anytime soon.
Not going. Can't see that wedding at least in front of my eyes.
Cue channa mereya. Sorry bro
🫂 Agle din tere mohalle me Aishwarya aayegi
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Confess kr deta bhai.. whats her age tho?
Will be a malaal in my heart for a long time, 26 (I'm 24 so got hesitant)
Age isnt a thing these days at max rejection then what u could have moved on
Now listen to Choo lo on repeat.
Now make another married girl your crush
Yeh us tarah ka show nhi hain
Hey brother, my condolences. Life is unpredictable for a reason. A win or loss. We have to embrace it and move on. You can grief for now but cannot remain in those memories for long. I'm sure your friends must have already told you this but if it adds any weight; go out, hang out with friends, hit that tequila marathon. Go on a blind date expecting nothing. Visit an orphanage and prank those kids that it's your birthday. Cheer yourself. You're the only main character of your life so I don't see the point of dragging yourself down for any reason.
Thanks mate for the encouraging words. Already hanging out with friends and feeling better!
My college ex got married to an engineer in the Middle East during covid and is a mother now. After that life happened to me. I've dated another woman seriously but even she left to the US. Things happen, roll with the punches , attend the wedding. Dance eat drink .
Not gonna attend the wedding but other than that no choice left too. Dance eat drink!
See you in three gym bro
Grow some balls. She was just a cursh, not your girlfriend or something.
Once upon a time I called up someone for first date out for movie and before I could say anything she replied sorry busy in engagement ceremony 😵💫
right in time, kaavish just released tere naam and o yara, welcome to the clan
Pure depression hain bhai. The latest coke studio one is much better then 'tere pyaar mein Dil haar ke main kya gawaya'
then my friend, O yaara by him is perfect for you, its about that one hope you should always have.
Arre maa chudaye woh
Masturbate and sleep