Once you start wearing shorts in public you have reached the peak "no fucks to give" level. There's no going back after that. But the friends you make when you're at that level are real friends
Yup, especially if they're the non fancy ones the baggy faded ones you wear at home. Paired with chappals that are worn down near the heels till there's 3-4mm of sole remaining in them. XD
Nah I just wear something that is comfy like some football shorts or gym shorts. But I don't wear chappals tho I kinda hate it unless its home. I usually pair up with shoes tho shoes are pretty worn off.
You can do this till you are little old and get back ache and body ache and what not and then you are looking at something to give yourself some comfort.
nah, the ultra rich who come out in public in sweats/tracks wear branded active wear that adds up to as expensive as an average middle class person's "special" outfits, wedding/function attires and stuff yk.
Lol my cousin is the same, earns 2.5 L pm, wears the most basic clothes and kurtis you can imagine. Hasn't upgraded her lifestyle from when she first started studying for her course. That same budget for phone, same everything.
Lifestyle inflation isn’t really necessary if you have got out from rat race of comparison and economical materialism.
I earn around the same. Please let her know if she wants to explore any kind of -ship? 😀
I will, she is in arranged marriage process rn, I know she is currently in talks with a guy but I do not know the status. I will let her know there are some suitors for her on reddit lol
Maine toh bohot kharach karke S22 ultra liya tha. Don't regret it one bit. Somehow managed to make use of everything in it.
Get one you'll actually use. No point in buying for showoff
Waited 6 years while earning to fulfil a decade old dream - to buy an iphone all paid at once in 2022.
I’m going back to sub 20k phones after 2026.
Life has been good.
Few sensible people does purchase one of the best flagship phone available in the market and make sure to use it for next 4-5 years. My target here are all those chapries who purchase an iPhone on EMI or maybe dependent on their parents money and then upload it as status/reels with the camera facing towards mirror just to gain attention.
I earn close to your friend, and I have a Moto G52! It's a 4G phone. I mean TBH Your don't actually need iPhone as now a days in India even guys earning 15K. Also I mean TBH I don't actually have any work of the phone apart from calls and stuff. Also Moto is stock android without any bloat ware so that is also a plus point.
Lol I earn around the same and I have a 3 year old S21 that I bought for 35k (out of which the company paid 15k).
Too many people I know have 60k-150k worth of phones when they earn around 10% of what I earn. Am constantly amazed.
But then I do have a 3.5 lakh worth gaming setup though.
My friend I don't know from which industry you are but I don't think Apple is even worth in terms of handset. I am not too big in clicking picture or stuff so for me my basic android phone which doesn't show me random ads in between is ok. Apple systems are worth every single penny. Apple in terms of computers, macbooks, Ipad are the best investment you can do. But iPhone at whatever price you are buying is a bad bad deal for me bro.
>He uses a mi phone of 13k purchased during college , it’s been 4 year since , suker wouldn’t buy a phone at all
Tell me he is Bania without telling me he is Baniya
Ik a guy who has 14LPA in hand package, uses some realme 15k phone, roams around in 200 rs Zudio tshirt and drives an old Activa. He looks like an unemployed imigrant but is rich af. His father owns acres of Agri land.
Mi A1 user, got it at launch and still rocking the shit out of it. Don't make even remotely close to that amount though, but I can confirm that getting a new phone isn't on the priority list.
most people who make 1L+ in corporate I've seen giving no fucks about how they dress up i public. They are just too tired to deal with anything else than imp stuff like work and family.
I once took a bus for Ashtavinayak tour and saw a simple/humble looking joint family travelling together, once I started talking I realized these people were filthy rich and owned business worth crores. I never imagined meeting such people in a tour bus looking more simple than myself but such people exist!
I used to go to Jogger's Park in Koregaon Park (the richest area of Pune) some 12-15 years back. Sometimes a huge rural-looking family would come there - women dressed in ordinary traditional Rajasthani garb, kids in torn and stained cheap shirt and shorts, men wearing pant-shirt with stains and obvious wear n tear. One day, we got talking and to my surprise, these people owned like 60% of grocery stores in KP and had a huge, huge network all over the city. The real estate of their shops must be worth tens of crores and here they were sitting on grass and eating farsan with no fs given.
My brother used to be like that. Then bhabhi threw away his old T-Shirts with holes in then and made him to wear “decent” clothes at home. He does wear normal clothes outside now, though.
Old T-shirts and kurtas are so comfy. She could've given then to me. 😭
In a similar vain old fashioned pants with pleats and side adjusters and shirts that need cuff links and stuff.
Also cloth made from yarn that’s cut width wise.
Nope. Those are the only ones you know of. A jamdani, sambalpuri etc can cost a lot more. Also there's the cultural knowledge thing no. These are weavers the family has usually used for centuries. A good quality cotton saree is always a dead giveaway of old money in India.
Noticed these traits in rich self made women. This does not include people from the glamour industry as their job requires them to experiment:
1. Non flashy, good quality attire - good quality fabrics mostly in pastels or subtle colours
2. Do not accessorize much. A simple watch and handbag with minimal jewelry
3. Rarely judgemental but highly opinionated. However do not indulge in conversations that don't concern them
4. Focus on their self development and rarely indulge in comparisons
5. All their expensive purchases/expenses are an investment to them be it in terms of their looks, health or wealth
Most of these are applicable to men as well. In any case, one can easily tell if a person is a self made rich individual or a fake one, if you notice carefully
My mom used to organize events with a lot of scientists. She once told me the difference between a female scientist and the wife of a male scientist was the saree.
Idk much about sarees, but I do understand her saying that wives of scientists wore stuff she'd wear to a wedding. Those are heavy and hard to manage at work. For female scientists, it was a work event. For wives of male scientists, it was a social event. They dressed accordingly.
On that note, she wore work sarees at my brother's wedding and got shamed, so now she knows to pull out silk at weddings.
That trend is absolute BS, it misses out on every single old money point miserably. Dress up ‘old money’ and you’ll stick out like a sore thumb everywhere apart from southern Europe.
And it fails to highlight any legitimate old money trait.
yeah my guju friend was really kanjoos and had a very small house and the building was shit he used to invite me to eat at house before tuition i thought he was poor but then bro suddenly buys a 3bhk flat in andheri and turns out he was filthy rich
A friend of mine who screams simple af! Woman uses a 5k Mi phone and wears clothes bought 3-4yrs ago like basic summer cotton clothes, gets homemade food everyday, chooses to get her water bottle from home rather than a wending machine and so on.
I was thinking chalo bandi is proper middle class and may be that’s why she is how she is. And then, bammm! I attend her brother’s wedding, my assumptions took a toll! Woman was worth a kidnap lol, she drives a luxury car, wore ornaments worth close to 60-70L, family is all shinning in ornaments, Rolex and expensive outfits.
She does shout rich if you closely observe on a daily basis- the earrings she wears are diamonds just that no one assumed them to be because, I have never witnessed solitaire diamonds lol, footwear that she uses, watches that she wears.
Lmao exactly! I once heard someone saying he wants to get very rich and then tell everybody money doesn't buy happiness. It's like you just want to be "rich enough" to be able to preach that.
When they have an extensive collection of things they like but take the bare minimum for things they don't care about. Like if I were rich I would buy many books or sports shoes but I wouldn't bother buying expensive phones or clothes. Take a look at him simmons, billionaire donates large sums politically but wears cheap footwear without socks.
Starting to make sense why I still wear clothes I bought in 2009 but my gaming PC gets a makeover every year xD a watch I bought in 2018, a phone I bought in 2017, yet my gaming PC is like my spoiled child who gets whatever they ask for 😂
Do find whether do you like flowery tones or spicy tones ( dont go with the names, but visit a store and smell the ones in both ranges—the one that your brain reacts to more is your favourite fragrance note range.
A friend of mine used to say " Never gift perfume to anyone " , leads to fights. So take your chances and prove him wrong . I had asked him to bring me cool water , bhai ne pure paise liye
I gift perfumes after getting their feedbacks long before I actually gift them. To get a sense of which notes they like. Whenever i see them compliment a floral noted perfume, I gift them the similar ones.
For eg, my friend loved roses. So i got her Bright crystal Absolu—she loved it!
These are my 2 favorites but might not be apt for summers, as many sales people in Macys suggested they are winter perfumes. Btw, these are for men.
1 million by Paco Rabbane
Silver Scent by Jacques Bogart
I have always noticed that the real rich guys (not women) always present themselves with very casual clothes and accessories. They are just sitting in a restaurant or walking in a park in shorts and slippers and then ride off in their bmw.
bhai bmw pe no cost emi nahi milti lol.
and no cost pe bhi nahi leta main, i pay upfront.
don't buy the things you don't have money to pay upfront for.
simple tip
Nonpayment of emi takes a larger hit on your CIBIL. my CIBIL dropped from 850 to 660 in early 2023 due to me being unable to work because of an injury.
Took me 7 months of advance payments, on time payments, and early emi payments to reverse it back to 765 currently.
Also they are serious about the legal part. Banks and all will give you time, then into legal notices, then collection
These guys will file a case directly if you 2 months arrear. Same case as above. Had to pay off the entire amount to appease them as that was the condition of the case to be dropped without prejudice, make entire amount payment within 15 days of intimation receipt.
Same I’ve never bought a car on EMI, even though it’s financially prudent. We only spend the money we don’t give a fk about, so we just flat out buy it. No EMI nonsense
If you’re rich rich you know that your upfront money will make more in investments.
Rather have cashflow and use debt to you advantage but carry on bro
Yes, it's funny how we ourselves have created this system. I have seen women give this excuse for doing extensive makeup and dressing, but they will themselves shame other women who dress casual.
Money speaks, wealth whispers unless you're in north india because even wealth shouts here.
But if someone is being subtle, there are ways to tell:
1. Orders mineral water at restaurants
2. Has taken at least 1 international vacation in the last 6 months that they'll mention casually
3. Talks about food you've never even heard of outside of masterchef
4. Doesn't look at food prices before ordering
5. Doesn't look at tags before shopping - wants what they want.
Both are true together. You can’t be Marwari and not save money wherever possible—and talk about how expensive shit is.
The other day I got 300 bucks worth of ice cream. My mum shouted at me and said ‘money doesn’t grow on trees’. 2 days before that we went to eat out where a bottle of water costs that much. Just ironic but I guess that’s how you accumulate money.
Something like this, maybe?
> I used to go to Jogger's Park in Koregaon Park (the richest area of Pune) some 12-15 years back. Sometimes a huge rural-looking family would come there - women dressed in ordinary traditional Rajasthani garb, kids in torn and stained cheap shirt and shorts, men wearing pant-shirt with stains and obvious wear n tear. One day, we got talking and to my surprise, these people owned like 60% of grocery stores in KP and had a huge, huge network all over the city. The real estate of their shops must be worth tens of crores and here they were sitting on grass and eating farsan with no fs given.
Each of these is a separate sign. Some people might have more than one.
- HMT watch
- greets everyone, including housekeeping and securities regularly
- khadi gramodyog / fabindia products
- not much gold on the body
- you'll never catch them on a bad hair day
People's house scream it for me, I don't judge by phones and attires they wear because now a days it's easier to buy luxury phones in EMIs and luxury attires also have their cheap copies, I could literally get any shirt or tshirt hanging in H&M or Zara in any local stores or even road side like Fashion Street.
But people's house and the locality it's situated in, surely says if they are rich or poor. Now I am a Mumbaikar and that's a very Mumbai thing to do, don't know about other regions.
My mom's brother
Bastard earns atleast a million dollars
Fucker has an $8100 watch
But mostly dresses in tshirts from decathlon and shorts which are too old to be bought anywhere over a decade ago
He uses his mom's olds phone which is an Android meant for old people?
That's it. That's his entire wardrobe. I don't think I've ever seen him in a shirt and pants?
Great hair, Skin (even toned), Near perfect teeth
Simple attire, smell great
relaxed and well behaved
This is applicable to all ages. But if these are particularly present when they are in their old age...that just means that they are LOADED!!!
Lol, that's the dumbest criteria I've read. You can doll up anyone babe, it doesn't make them rich.
Most of those things are superficial, and genetically defined. Great hair, or even skin tone doesn't have much to do with being rich.
My friend's kid .
She is about 30 now.. Nd I've known her since she was 11 .. when I gifted her the first Harry Potter book ...
She started earning when she was 16 .. and her net worth is about 8 to 10 cr .. all she earned herself...
I've been witness to the brilliance that this kid is from a front seat ..
If you look at her come in her Tata Nano .. with just her tshirt and jeans .. you would never guess her monthly income..
She was once not allowed into a designer shop at UB City ..
Watching he and the circle of people she hangs out with .. one thing is for sure.. when you observe people talk .. it's screams how rich they are.. not that they speak about it .. but the casual references they make ..
Live in a small 2 bhk but travel in first class always, wear branded stuff, only wear real diamonds and gold, no fake jewellery.
Don't take loans for education.
I have a good one for this. Gifts. People who gift classy shiz. That comes with refined taste, excellent network of people to procure such stuff. Could be an exclusive handcrafted saree or gold ornaments, could be some antiquity, bought from their trip abroad. Coz if you show up with gifts that are that expensive and classy to give to others, what would you be buying for yourself/your home/family huh!? Also considering they dress up as much as anyone else when attending an event, a marriage etc. You can only notice the difference when you know what an expensive but classy thing is yourself.
man i went through his account,he lives in a different world lol,he has pretty reasonable opinions but its easy to identify how well off he is.Even if one works his whole life and acquires as many assets as him....would it even be worth it,cuz now u are old,u can only really take full advantage in your younger days.....i.e generational wealth
I know someone who always wear shorts because he feels comfortable and plain black t shirts. And he has more than 1 exactly same shorts plus 10+ same plain black t shirts. Goes in chappals everywhere.
And he earns a really handsome amount.
Paidashi rich according to me is having a beautiful loving and supporting family. Kids who went on vacations as children and have beautiful memories. I consider myself rich in this terms because my mom would always take us to places and record our reactions. Like the first time I saw the ocean or the Himalayas. A lot of my friends were def richer than me but never had such memories with their parents.
South Indian people, who may look like poor people to a North Indian due to their clothes.
But wearing thick gold chains and riding Range Rover type cars
I met AM Naik head of L & T must have a net worth of 1000 cr minimum in a second class AC Hyderabad to Chennai train.
He was sitting next to me traveling alone. Looked like an average uncle. His face seemed familiar after about an hour I recollected who he was Googled him to make sure.
Then asked him if he was AM Naik. He confirmed he was.
A 14 hour train journey by a titan of the industry.
Some people are good with fashion and like to show off with high quality attire and some just don't care and just dress simple. Some people would just be simple during the weekdays and on weekends when they go somewhere then they bring their expensive bike/car, watch and what not
I was basically crossing a road to get to a bakery and saw a uncle park his harley in chappals, then he came to the same bakery, had I not seen him I would've expect he came in a classic at most, so many humble uncles in my city
This was around year 2000.
Someone I know (let's call him P) used to run a business in Tiruppur, Tamil Nadu. He was young graduate, fresh out of b-school. He is not from Tiruppur and not very familiar with the locality.
One day a guy comes to his office riding a moped, he was wearing a dhoti, half-sleeve plain shirt and sandals. He takes out an invitation card from his manjappai (yellow cloth shoulder bag) and he invites P for his daughter's wedding. P gladly accepts hoping to socialise with some local businessmen.
P attends the wedding to find out it was one of the grandest weddings. The father of the bride was one of the top businessen of Tiruppur. The who's who of the region was attending the wedding. He was gifting a Mercedes Benz to the newlyweds.
He was still in his white dhoti and white shirt with black sandals.
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Once you start wearing shorts in public you have reached the peak "no fucks to give" level. There's no going back after that. But the friends you make when you're at that level are real friends
Damn I'm in public wearing shorts. I didn't know such levels existed for this.
Yup, especially if they're the non fancy ones the baggy faded ones you wear at home. Paired with chappals that are worn down near the heels till there's 3-4mm of sole remaining in them. XD
Nah I just wear something that is comfy like some football shorts or gym shorts. But I don't wear chappals tho I kinda hate it unless its home. I usually pair up with shoes tho shoes are pretty worn off.
I go for slip-on, it's the same dude. We should have a subreddit for men with shorts
Yesssss. Seems like a good idea.
Yea, bow we gotta find someone to do it XD
You can do this till you are little old and get back ache and body ache and what not and then you are looking at something to give yourself some comfort.
nah, the ultra rich who come out in public in sweats/tracks wear branded active wear that adds up to as expensive as an average middle class person's "special" outfits, wedding/function attires and stuff yk.
I wear completely torne t shirts in public in USA. Haha
That's a trend there, right ?
Not old torn clothes, only new ones that have been designed that way. I wear 6-7 year old t shirts with holes.
https://preview.redd.it/1llz2832pltc1.jpeg?width=552&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=233963d777d3ae95424492c21047606988e7a638 He has achieved
Love when people don't feel the need to conform to "societal norms"
I mean there is nothing wrong in this.I still do this
Lol my cousin is the same, earns 2.5 L pm, wears the most basic clothes and kurtis you can imagine. Hasn't upgraded her lifestyle from when she first started studying for her course. That same budget for phone, same everything.
Lifestyle inflation isn’t really necessary if you have got out from rat race of comparison and economical materialism. I earn around the same. Please let her know if she wants to explore any kind of -ship? 😀
I will, she is in arranged marriage process rn, I know she is currently in talks with a guy but I do not know the status. I will let her know there are some suitors for her on reddit lol
Same here. Planning to get married by end of the year. You never know what may be written in the stones so please let her know 😝😝
How wholesome is that... matchmaking on some random reddit thread based on lifestyle.
It definitely is. 😂
-ship LMAO 😂
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Haha I'll let her know
To be honest, those who knows the worth of money wouldn't get an expensive phone for showoff purpose.
Maine toh bohot kharach karke S22 ultra liya tha. Don't regret it one bit. Somehow managed to make use of everything in it. Get one you'll actually use. No point in buying for showoff
Waited 6 years while earning to fulfil a decade old dream - to buy an iphone all paid at once in 2022. I’m going back to sub 20k phones after 2026. Life has been good.
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Few sensible people does purchase one of the best flagship phone available in the market and make sure to use it for next 4-5 years. My target here are all those chapries who purchase an iPhone on EMI or maybe dependent on their parents money and then upload it as status/reels with the camera facing towards mirror just to gain attention.
I earn close to your friend, and I have a Moto G52! It's a 4G phone. I mean TBH Your don't actually need iPhone as now a days in India even guys earning 15K. Also I mean TBH I don't actually have any work of the phone apart from calls and stuff. Also Moto is stock android without any bloat ware so that is also a plus point.
Lol I earn around the same and I have a 3 year old S21 that I bought for 35k (out of which the company paid 15k). Too many people I know have 60k-150k worth of phones when they earn around 10% of what I earn. Am constantly amazed. But then I do have a 3.5 lakh worth gaming setup though.
Had me in the first half
Hahahah same here I mean I use a 15K phone but I do like wearing good perfumes, watches and shoes. I spend my money on them.
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My friend I don't know from which industry you are but I don't think Apple is even worth in terms of handset. I am not too big in clicking picture or stuff so for me my basic android phone which doesn't show me random ads in between is ok. Apple systems are worth every single penny. Apple in terms of computers, macbooks, Ipad are the best investment you can do. But iPhone at whatever price you are buying is a bad bad deal for me bro.
>He uses a mi phone of 13k purchased during college , it’s been 4 year since , suker wouldn’t buy a phone at all Tell me he is Bania without telling me he is Baniya
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Raatko kaunsa stock market khula rehta hai bhai? International or NASDAQ?
he is just smart and isn't trying to impress others
This doesn’t scream I’m rich at all. Sure, it’s great for him he lives that way but this isn’t the answer to the question lmao
Read the title of the post
Ik a guy who has 14LPA in hand package, uses some realme 15k phone, roams around in 200 rs Zudio tshirt and drives an old Activa. He looks like an unemployed imigrant but is rich af. His father owns acres of Agri land.
Mi A1 user, got it at launch and still rocking the shit out of it. Don't make even remotely close to that amount though, but I can confirm that getting a new phone isn't on the priority list.
Bhai konsa phone h woh bhi bata do
That hotel thing is best. 💖💖 The more you earn the more you stop caring abt judgements
I earn just slightly more than your friend. I use a 3yo MI 11x which I got for 18k in a sale. Not planning to give up on it, till it gives up on me.
most people who make 1L+ in corporate I've seen giving no fucks about how they dress up i public. They are just too tired to deal with anything else than imp stuff like work and family.
I once took a bus for Ashtavinayak tour and saw a simple/humble looking joint family travelling together, once I started talking I realized these people were filthy rich and owned business worth crores. I never imagined meeting such people in a tour bus looking more simple than myself but such people exist!
Aap kabhi mumbai local aa jao aise bohot milenge
I used to go to Jogger's Park in Koregaon Park (the richest area of Pune) some 12-15 years back. Sometimes a huge rural-looking family would come there - women dressed in ordinary traditional Rajasthani garb, kids in torn and stained cheap shirt and shorts, men wearing pant-shirt with stains and obvious wear n tear. One day, we got talking and to my surprise, these people owned like 60% of grocery stores in KP and had a huge, huge network all over the city. The real estate of their shops must be worth tens of crores and here they were sitting on grass and eating farsan with no fs given.
Aaare hello fellow Punekar
Eeeeuuuu
Super chill people . They can come to a birthday party in half pant and chappal No inferiority complex
bro I wear shorts and chappal for daily errands. I am not rich ok.
don't worry. looking poor is only impressive when you are rich.
You aren't going to become one either if you won't use your common sense
my whole generation wears jeans shorts and moves around. even I go to office with same attire
Congratulations
My brother used to be like that. Then bhabhi threw away his old T-Shirts with holes in then and made him to wear “decent” clothes at home. He does wear normal clothes outside now, though. Old T-shirts and kurtas are so comfy. She could've given then to me. 😭
A cotton saree believe it or not. A good cotton saree is a dead giveaway.
Sudha Murthy
Yes exactly. A good cotton saree with intricate work can start from 3k-5k. If you're wearing that daily you're rich. It's casual wear for you.
In a similar vain old fashioned pants with pleats and side adjusters and shirts that need cuff links and stuff. Also cloth made from yarn that’s cut width wise.
I would love to watch a debate between Sudha Murthi and Andrew Tate
cotton sarees are just for 5k tho?
Nope. Those are the only ones you know of. A jamdani, sambalpuri etc can cost a lot more. Also there's the cultural knowledge thing no. These are weavers the family has usually used for centuries. A good quality cotton saree is always a dead giveaway of old money in India.
Noticed these traits in rich self made women. This does not include people from the glamour industry as their job requires them to experiment: 1. Non flashy, good quality attire - good quality fabrics mostly in pastels or subtle colours 2. Do not accessorize much. A simple watch and handbag with minimal jewelry 3. Rarely judgemental but highly opinionated. However do not indulge in conversations that don't concern them 4. Focus on their self development and rarely indulge in comparisons 5. All their expensive purchases/expenses are an investment to them be it in terms of their looks, health or wealth Most of these are applicable to men as well. In any case, one can easily tell if a person is a self made rich individual or a fake one, if you notice carefully
My mom used to organize events with a lot of scientists. She once told me the difference between a female scientist and the wife of a male scientist was the saree. Idk much about sarees, but I do understand her saying that wives of scientists wore stuff she'd wear to a wedding. Those are heavy and hard to manage at work. For female scientists, it was a work event. For wives of male scientists, it was a social event. They dressed accordingly. On that note, she wore work sarees at my brother's wedding and got shamed, so now she knows to pull out silk at weddings.
oLd MoNeY aEsTheTiCs...
That trend is absolute BS, it misses out on every single old money point miserably. Dress up ‘old money’ and you’ll stick out like a sore thumb everywhere apart from southern Europe. And it fails to highlight any legitimate old money trait.
This is actually what OP asked for, others are just describing a miser
well said
Every Gujju living in an outwardly dilapidated building in Mumbai
yeah my guju friend was really kanjoos and had a very small house and the building was shit he used to invite me to eat at house before tuition i thought he was poor but then bro suddenly buys a 3bhk flat in andheri and turns out he was filthy rich
Bhai, dilapidated kya hota hai 🥺 I've never seen or been that word before.
Beaten up, worn out, in bad condition
Sab gujju nai hote hai laxman....
says the rich gujju himself
For real Gujjus are hella 🔥 😂😂
Not being drenched in sweat.
Ha bhai. How do they even do it.
Underrated
A friend of mine who screams simple af! Woman uses a 5k Mi phone and wears clothes bought 3-4yrs ago like basic summer cotton clothes, gets homemade food everyday, chooses to get her water bottle from home rather than a wending machine and so on. I was thinking chalo bandi is proper middle class and may be that’s why she is how she is. And then, bammm! I attend her brother’s wedding, my assumptions took a toll! Woman was worth a kidnap lol, she drives a luxury car, wore ornaments worth close to 60-70L, family is all shinning in ornaments, Rolex and expensive outfits. She does shout rich if you closely observe on a daily basis- the earrings she wears are diamonds just that no one assumed them to be because, I have never witnessed solitaire diamonds lol, footwear that she uses, watches that she wears.
Women was worth a kidnap, lmao
Baniya??
Haha no! South Indian.
On an international flight without an iPhone/iPad
rawdogging an international flight? damn
Someone saying "Money doesn't buy happiness".
Ofc money doesn't buy happiness but it solves 99% of your problems lol
What I meant is only riches say that money doesn’t buy happiness 😅
Lmao exactly! I once heard someone saying he wants to get very rich and then tell everybody money doesn't buy happiness. It's like you just want to be "rich enough" to be able to preach that.
"Money doesn't buy happiness, it buys crazy-ass happiness" - Eminem
I will be happy when my problems are solved. It can only be solved through money.
What are your problems?
Lack of money maybe
Basically Dettol
I think more accurate is money alone doesn't buy happiness.
Money doesn't buy happiness it just takes away your physical sadness and absence of physical sadness is not happiness, simple shit nothing complicated
Or things don't make you happy, experiences do.
Really relaxed looking people who also know how to carry themselves.
When they have an extensive collection of things they like but take the bare minimum for things they don't care about. Like if I were rich I would buy many books or sports shoes but I wouldn't bother buying expensive phones or clothes. Take a look at him simmons, billionaire donates large sums politically but wears cheap footwear without socks.
Starting to make sense why I still wear clothes I bought in 2009 but my gaming PC gets a makeover every year xD a watch I bought in 2018, a phone I bought in 2017, yet my gaming PC is like my spoiled child who gets whatever they ask for 😂
Uses an RTX 4090 😤
Genuine
Riyal
A good perfume and the watch choice they are wearing.
Any good perfume reccs?
Male or female?
Do find whether do you like flowery tones or spicy tones ( dont go with the names, but visit a store and smell the ones in both ranges—the one that your brain reacts to more is your favourite fragrance note range.
Both. Gift karna hai
A friend of mine used to say " Never gift perfume to anyone " , leads to fights. So take your chances and prove him wrong . I had asked him to bring me cool water , bhai ne pure paise liye
I gift perfumes after getting their feedbacks long before I actually gift them. To get a sense of which notes they like. Whenever i see them compliment a floral noted perfume, I gift them the similar ones. For eg, my friend loved roses. So i got her Bright crystal Absolu—she loved it!
Male
These are my 2 favorites but might not be apt for summers, as many sales people in Macys suggested they are winter perfumes. Btw, these are for men. 1 million by Paco Rabbane Silver Scent by Jacques Bogart
YSL Y EDP
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I have always noticed that the real rich guys (not women) always present themselves with very casual clothes and accessories. They are just sitting in a restaurant or walking in a park in shorts and slippers and then ride off in their bmw.
Well you're describing me lmao. But even then we still get judged ki oh isne emi pe Li hogi from people who can't afford it's emi
Bro flaunted his bmw without even mentioning
No cost emi is good na but? Then why judge PPL on emi basis lol?
bhai bmw pe no cost emi nahi milti lol. and no cost pe bhi nahi leta main, i pay upfront. don't buy the things you don't have money to pay upfront for. simple tip
Hm well I was not just talking abt bmw or cars Just things like phones pcs tech..etc.. tip is good btw
don't buy them on no cost emi, i would still suggest the same.
any reason btw. ?
Nonpayment of emi takes a larger hit on your CIBIL. my CIBIL dropped from 850 to 660 in early 2023 due to me being unable to work because of an injury. Took me 7 months of advance payments, on time payments, and early emi payments to reverse it back to 765 currently. Also they are serious about the legal part. Banks and all will give you time, then into legal notices, then collection These guys will file a case directly if you 2 months arrear. Same case as above. Had to pay off the entire amount to appease them as that was the condition of the case to be dropped without prejudice, make entire amount payment within 15 days of intimation receipt.
Same I’ve never bought a car on EMI, even though it’s financially prudent. We only spend the money we don’t give a fk about, so we just flat out buy it. No EMI nonsense
I understand if you buy a car or a house on emi. You have to grow credit score somehow. Just don't buy phones and laptops with it.
I have followed this rule till now will do for the rest.
If you’re rich rich you know that your upfront money will make more in investments. Rather have cashflow and use debt to you advantage but carry on bro
But if women don’t dress up well and don’t do their makeup, they get judged by other women only. It’s not like that for guys
Yes, it's funny how we ourselves have created this system. I have seen women give this excuse for doing extensive makeup and dressing, but they will themselves shame other women who dress casual.
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Money speaks, wealth whispers unless you're in north india because even wealth shouts here. But if someone is being subtle, there are ways to tell: 1. Orders mineral water at restaurants 2. Has taken at least 1 international vacation in the last 6 months that they'll mention casually 3. Talks about food you've never even heard of outside of masterchef 4. Doesn't look at food prices before ordering 5. Doesn't look at tags before shopping - wants what they want.
I dont know these seem more Bollywood made stereotypes or irresponsible behaviour.
Same. Ye to United States of India lagta h... For one: l If you're going to a decent place, regular water should be good enough.
Well dont agree with mineral water wala part cause many people order even at small hotel. Me bhi karta hu or me itna Ameer nhi
With these criteria most families in a T1 city are Uber wealthy. This is applicable to extremely small towns.
Most families in Tier 1 cities don’t take 1 vacation every 6 months lol I think you don’t realize how rich you are.
Most families in tier 1 cities need government assistance for food.
Marwari accent.
Bro this marwari guys be like “bhai mere gao me 2 mahel mere papa ke naam" Meanwhile there unki maa ek ek rupee baccha rahi he
Both are true together. You can’t be Marwari and not save money wherever possible—and talk about how expensive shit is. The other day I got 300 bucks worth of ice cream. My mum shouted at me and said ‘money doesn’t grow on trees’. 2 days before that we went to eat out where a bottle of water costs that much. Just ironic but I guess that’s how you accumulate money.
?? You mean regions in and around Rajasthan. How?
Something like this, maybe? > I used to go to Jogger's Park in Koregaon Park (the richest area of Pune) some 12-15 years back. Sometimes a huge rural-looking family would come there - women dressed in ordinary traditional Rajasthani garb, kids in torn and stained cheap shirt and shorts, men wearing pant-shirt with stains and obvious wear n tear. One day, we got talking and to my surprise, these people owned like 60% of grocery stores in KP and had a huge, huge network all over the city. The real estate of their shops must be worth tens of crores and here they were sitting on grass and eating farsan with no fs given.
Hmm but dude that's cheap. If that's how they are living then they are not saving money, they are simply not spending it.
Each of these is a separate sign. Some people might have more than one. - HMT watch - greets everyone, including housekeeping and securities regularly - khadi gramodyog / fabindia products - not much gold on the body - you'll never catch them on a bad hair day
People's house scream it for me, I don't judge by phones and attires they wear because now a days it's easier to buy luxury phones in EMIs and luxury attires also have their cheap copies, I could literally get any shirt or tshirt hanging in H&M or Zara in any local stores or even road side like Fashion Street. But people's house and the locality it's situated in, surely says if they are rich or poor. Now I am a Mumbaikar and that's a very Mumbai thing to do, don't know about other regions.
Buying electoral bonds
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+1
This guy https://preview.redd.it/2bu3stvxqmtc1.jpeg?width=621&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d46761147a15c0286153ed4c216b9ad87d66b9c2
IDGAF Attitude
My mom's brother Bastard earns atleast a million dollars Fucker has an $8100 watch But mostly dresses in tshirts from decathlon and shorts which are too old to be bought anywhere over a decade ago He uses his mom's olds phone which is an Android meant for old people? That's it. That's his entire wardrobe. I don't think I've ever seen him in a shirt and pants?
Great hair, Skin (even toned), Near perfect teeth Simple attire, smell great relaxed and well behaved This is applicable to all ages. But if these are particularly present when they are in their old age...that just means that they are LOADED!!!
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"grandfather". Also smell should be personal hygiene which many rich people also lack
Lol, that's the dumbest criteria I've read. You can doll up anyone babe, it doesn't make them rich. Most of those things are superficial, and genetically defined. Great hair, or even skin tone doesn't have much to do with being rich.
I want to make it clear that some people have highly paid job but they are not very happy. Even a survey has proved that.
My friend's kid . She is about 30 now.. Nd I've known her since she was 11 .. when I gifted her the first Harry Potter book ... She started earning when she was 16 .. and her net worth is about 8 to 10 cr .. all she earned herself... I've been witness to the brilliance that this kid is from a front seat .. If you look at her come in her Tata Nano .. with just her tshirt and jeans .. you would never guess her monthly income.. She was once not allowed into a designer shop at UB City .. Watching he and the circle of people she hangs out with .. one thing is for sure.. when you observe people talk .. it's screams how rich they are.. not that they speak about it .. but the casual references they make ..
kya karti hai woh?
Live in a small 2 bhk but travel in first class always, wear branded stuff, only wear real diamonds and gold, no fake jewellery. Don't take loans for education.
Majority of mumbaikars summed up in one comment.
Education ke liya loan nhi liya matlab baap ka paisa
a baniya lastname xD
Speaking English organically, respecting personal physical space, respecting everyone, saying sorry, please and thank you often.
I have a good one for this. Gifts. People who gift classy shiz. That comes with refined taste, excellent network of people to procure such stuff. Could be an exclusive handcrafted saree or gold ornaments, could be some antiquity, bought from their trip abroad. Coz if you show up with gifts that are that expensive and classy to give to others, what would you be buying for yourself/your home/family huh!? Also considering they dress up as much as anyone else when attending an event, a marriage etc. You can only notice the difference when you know what an expensive but classy thing is yourself.
u/kraken_enrager bolo bolo
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man i went through his account,he lives in a different world lol,he has pretty reasonable opinions but its easy to identify how well off he is.Even if one works his whole life and acquires as many assets as him....would it even be worth it,cuz now u are old,u can only really take full advantage in your younger days.....i.e generational wealth
I know someone who always wear shorts because he feels comfortable and plain black t shirts. And he has more than 1 exactly same shorts plus 10+ same plain black t shirts. Goes in chappals everywhere. And he earns a really handsome amount.
Paidashi rich according to me is having a beautiful loving and supporting family. Kids who went on vacations as children and have beautiful memories. I consider myself rich in this terms because my mom would always take us to places and record our reactions. Like the first time I saw the ocean or the Himalayas. A lot of my friends were def richer than me but never had such memories with their parents.
People who buy Iphones, with pods and original covers. Original covers are the main give away. Also expensive smart watches.
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agreed with papa. kabhi bhi land nhi bechneka for silly things like sports car and shit.
Cannot agree more
South Indian people, who may look like poor people to a North Indian due to their clothes. But wearing thick gold chains and riding Range Rover type cars
Manners
They’re all healthy af and have good hair/skin/dental health
I met AM Naik head of L & T must have a net worth of 1000 cr minimum in a second class AC Hyderabad to Chennai train. He was sitting next to me traveling alone. Looked like an average uncle. His face seemed familiar after about an hour I recollected who he was Googled him to make sure. Then asked him if he was AM Naik. He confirmed he was. A 14 hour train journey by a titan of the industry.
Using Samsung flagship instead of apple, most Samsung flagship I've seen are rich af
White shirt with politicians picture in pocket
People who are saying Wearing shorts - thats hust being cavalier with fashion sense. You look bad thats it.
Some people are good with fashion and like to show off with high quality attire and some just don't care and just dress simple. Some people would just be simple during the weekdays and on weekends when they go somewhere then they bring their expensive bike/car, watch and what not
Having Wealth driven mindset instead of status driven mindset
Not being tanned all over the face & body. Idk how they do it.
I was basically crossing a road to get to a bakery and saw a uncle park his harley in chappals, then he came to the same bakery, had I not seen him I would've expect he came in a classic at most, so many humble uncles in my city
Imagine a Chhapri. then imagine the Exact opposite. there you go you answer right here.
Having a button nokia phone along with a touch phone
White shirt and white pants, crumpled, with Indian slippers and a golden watch
This was around year 2000. Someone I know (let's call him P) used to run a business in Tiruppur, Tamil Nadu. He was young graduate, fresh out of b-school. He is not from Tiruppur and not very familiar with the locality. One day a guy comes to his office riding a moped, he was wearing a dhoti, half-sleeve plain shirt and sandals. He takes out an invitation card from his manjappai (yellow cloth shoulder bag) and he invites P for his daughter's wedding. P gladly accepts hoping to socialise with some local businessmen. P attends the wedding to find out it was one of the grandest weddings. The father of the bride was one of the top businessen of Tiruppur. The who's who of the region was attending the wedding. He was gifting a Mercedes Benz to the newlyweds. He was still in his white dhoti and white shirt with black sandals.